DIVORCE COURT Full Episode: Willis vs Willis
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- čas přidán 27. 09. 2016
- Will dress code violations and religious differences destroy the love this couple once had for each other?
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he is 100% using his religion as a crutch to justify his insecurities. if you're afraid for your partner to separate from you in the grocery store, you need help. urgently.
YES. And am I crazy, or did she say his children celebrate Christmas? I'm guessing they get to celebrate with their mom while her child has to go without. :/
"I told you about the time with the fish but you downplayed that."
Girl I laughed. This man is a full blown fool.
The judge didn't downplay it, it wasn't a big deal to begin with.
I hope she gets away from him and doesn't let this man and his insecurity be a role model to her son.
Disgree. She's gorgeous but, to each his own. Peace.
Agree 100%.. I need to know what is in that grocery. Maybe it is full of sexy looking guys. who knows LOL
is this english? please try again.
Her melanin is poppin'. She is very pretty.
He is very controlling. That is a bad way to llive.
Yes she is pretty. I was thinking the same thing. She is very pretty.
You're right, her melanin is glorious. She is so beautiful.
Her melanin is why he is so afraid. In relationships like this and the man has no clear reason to feel the way he does, I attribute it to baggage. He already had these issues when she met him. His bag is heavy.
Veda,
I agree. Dr. Amos Wilson talks about this kind of man loving fearfully in Black Male Female Relationships.
I lost it at "looking at fish with another dude"
noangel1087 lmao 😂😂😂
Looking for fish with another guy... He crazy as ever
Worthy i lost it reading this comment😂
IKR?! hahahahahaha!
Took me out too 🤣🤣
Why didnt he marry a woman with the same belief?
Myshan Amakisi great point! They probably weren’t pretty enough or wouldn’t have him.
It would sure make his marriage a whole lot better..dont throw the marriage away just swap the wife.kmsl
Most of these men find women and try to convert them over. I know one right now where he converted a friend of mine. She is one of 3 "wives" smh.
Myshan Amakisi Yes true. "Unevenly yoked"
@@kikiwest2001 that part.
Judge Toler's handling of this case is one of the reasons I love her so! She didn't attack or demean anyone; she was actually severely patient. I appreciate that.
The problem he had w the judge was that he felt if he explained his perspective enough she would come to his defense instead of telling him to change his perspective.
You hit it on the head
He may have had a better chance if at least one of his explanations didn't seem so superficial to an outside observer. As soon as he used "lust in your heart explanation" to explain his upset about the "looking for fish with some other dude" incident, I lost all hope for this couple.
True💭💭💭💭
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So on point James
My husband and I divide our list into two and raid the supermarket in the least amount of time possible . I can't imagine walking side by side wasting time over insecurity.
Imelda O Yessssss! How the hell do I shop standing next to ur insecure ass!
Here, it was always go round together, rather than separate - one with the trolley and the other loading it, and then it was switched to home delivery, but I can't imagine panicking cos I lost sight of the trolley for a minute!
my husband lets me pick things out and will sometimes put things in the cart, he knows im all about them sales and save more than he could on his own. and if a guy comes too close to me hes right there making sure the guy knows not to get any closer not disparaging me because some dude was next to me looking at things i was!
Yess we do this all the time we put the list of stuff that are on one side of the store together and the list with all the stuff on the other side together we each take a list and a shopping cart and split up gets done in half the time...but if it’s a small grocery run I’ll go by myself cuz my skills to get out that store in less than 30 mins is legendary
OMG right?! We usually did our shopping separately anyway but IF we go to the department store or grocery store together I'd send him off to do his own thing. I can' get things done quicker on my own. He can go look at books or magazines or something and meet me at the cash register. lol! She owns some of the misery too b/c she's allowing him to keep her on a tight tight leash.
He is so mad that he can't control his wife. That is not how it works.
Elaine Anderson hell he was mad that he could not control the judge either lol
Preach
Control my ass
I was mad cause the judge just took the woman side like y'all women.and still will be on the woman side even though I was right the while time she was ducking her ex our whole marriage
Pathetic little man
Mr. Willis, get a divorce, pay your alimony, go to Walgreens, get some Jergens lotion, and fall in love with your left or right hand. Leave the ladies alone! Shalom.
That was so wrong it backed into right! :-)
LETMEC4FREE
You guys are so terrible!
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Lmao
LETMEC4FREE 😂😂😂😂😂... You killed me! Oh my goodness!
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It's very obvious why he's not listening to Judge Toler, he doesn't respect the opinion of a woman. I'm not even sure why he agreed to come on the show. I guess he assumed that she would spend the time correcting his wife, but he's the problem here.
Not only should they have had the discussion on what religion they believed in for their own relationship, but even more so for their kids that they were blending together in their family. It makes no sense to sit here, bring two families together and not know how you are going to raise them together. If they didn't have kids, compromise would be easier, but with kids already born into the relationship, which some have already been raised a certain way, it's confusing and damaging to put them in a situation like this.
You are absolutely right. He has a problem with women....and more so with those in authority positions. When Judge Toler told him how his wife was feeling....he said NOTHING. Why? Because that's exactly what he thinks of women. Narcissism at its finest!!!
And yes, this should have been discussed before even entering into a relationship.
Precisely. His issues has nothing to do with religion they're personal he needs someone to get in that troubled mind of his. He doesn't see women as his equal.
It ain't got shut to do with religion
@@Kakorot. You have to know the beliefs of Israelites to understand how much it has to do with how he thinks. He wasn't always like that. Something happened in his life to make him like that and when he ran into some Israelites he felt at home because they legitimized his fears. Does he need help? Yes. Will he seek it? Not unless he's willing to do the hard work. First he has to leave the Israelites and then find someone to help him find out why he is so scared. Then and only then would he begin to fix him.
He needs to be with someone who shares the same religion. He's so defensive.
My God, this man can not listen at all nor can he take any kind of criticism.
Why not make sure both are in agreement with the religion before marriage?
+Royal One - I don't understand things like this either. Do people not talk about serious topics when dating, especially before they decide to get married? I know religion can be tricky as one person can be more into it than the other but that's when they should work together and pray on the issues. I know a local woman who married a guy who became a preacher and she wasn't prepared for all that came with it. She doesn't even attend church with him. Similar to this story. So in that retrospect, it can be a tricky situation especially if they get involved in the religion later on. I think this guy is a bit of a pushover and insecure.
My thoughts exactly
Royal One exactly what I was thinking, she wasn't ready to accept those drastic changes and they should have never jumped into marriage.
Royal One especially when you have a child
Did you read the part about him owning a Trucking and Ice Cream business and her being a homemaker? I think that may explain the rush to marriage.
The restraint and poise shown by the judge despite the disparity in the courtroom is commendable.
The wife looked soo hurt..he looked soo angry.. this was really sad..
hope he doesnt chope her up
They both really felt like their sides were unheard...smh
No she wasn't hurt...she had y'all all fooled.
they need an update
@Lb Willis she didn't fool anyone ...she was sick of you!! You didn't hide anything either you don't respect women and you are just nasty.
Judge was on point like always.
yep
That was the closest to someone sticking their fingers in their ears and yelling "LALALALA I CAN'T HEAR YOU" that I've seen in a long time. He claimed he wanted to save his marriage... no - he wanted to save his kingdom, because what he had was not a marriage. On the other podium, she walked down the aisle **way** too soon (only 90 days from "hello" to "I do"?) and she clearly didn't understand his religion and beliefs because if she had, she never would have dated him. She needs to roll if she doesn't want to continue as she is now... he's not changing.
MdniteEagl You said "walked down the aisle" & before I finished reading the sentence, I thought you were talking about the grocery store aisle. Lol
He should have married a woman with his same religion he thinks he is a KING she needs to leave him with his religion. He already knew she was not a Israelite he was looking at her with lust in his eyes thinking she would fall in line with his demands 90 days is not long enough to know a person a d as for his religion if they were having sexual relations before they were married that is considered a sin not the children can't celebrate Christmas Think about it and men are going to look at her she looks good DUDE GET OVER IT SHE IS YOUR WIFE. 😐
The "searching for fish with another guy" part was...hilaaaaaaarious 🤣
they have no kids together she should run now before a child bonds them... forevaa
they have 2 kids together
I thought they have kids from previous relationships.
Yes, they do
Oh yea they do... well i guess they are bonded forever
I do not understand the need for insults here, can't people be a little civilized, on a forum!
He is so caught up in his jealousy that he can't see she's going to leave him.
Gotta really know a man before you decide to jump the broom....!
And woman.
Detriotman what's up w men trying to make things that aren't solely about Men about them. 😂
I knew my husband 10 years before marriage(separated 5 year now )and i still didn't know the man. That is why i just LOVE ME SOME ME!!!!
She just needs to leave him.
EXACTLY
She is not allowed to ask somebody a question. OMG
why allow a man to make you alter the things you have done for your child smh. your child comes first
like judge said he uses is religon to cover up his insecurities he do sound bit needey insecure and hes very selfish
Try and act like you don’t do the same with religion. Hypocrite
Omg yes he sound super needy she's your wife not your lap dog to bend and move to your every whim
When you are too religious you don't behave rationally
You have to think about religious beliefs before marriage
Absolutely. I've known a couple for many years that come from different faiths and their marriage is strong and has survived some tragedies over the years. It can be done, but only if both parties have their eyes wide open from the start.
Smh he is getting on my nerves just hearing the video! So I know he was driving his wife "batty"! 😞😵
True. I had an ex exactly like this. Pure and utter ignorance! I couldn't wait to leave him.
Same here!🏃♂️
The religion is not the problem, it's him! He's just so stuck on his issues and what he wants/needs, he wasn't even listening to what anyone was saying.
MsSooRandom You're right, that's his personality. I bet even when it comes to the nuances of his religion, he argues with others in his congregation when they try to educate him bc he already has it fixed in his head what his religion means.
Yes
She looks like an older version of Serena Williams... Judge is always on her A game...
Clint C Brantley She DOES!
Totally not I know this video is about 3 years old and I'm just coming across it November 2019 she don't look nothing like Serena Williams you don't even look like the older version Serena is far better looking I'm a little bit lighter and Better Built but I can see where this lady kind of resembles to mean Serena Williams father side of the family she definitely has those features more look like the daddy that's my view‼️😪🤐😕🤢🤑🤔✔️
@@revlaird6979 girl stfu
he's a perfectionist who got involved in a belief system as rigid as himself. he takes constructive criticism so personally as if it was a direct attack on him as a person. the judge was just saying he's being closed minded and if he worked on that he had a lot going for himself. Pretty sad to see and his wife looks drained and disappointed. She seems sweet.
He's a narcissist...there, I fixed it for you.
Smh he didn’t want the Judge to understand where he was coming from, he wanted her to agree and that was his real problem. He didn’t want to be told he was controlling and insecure-he wanted his wife to be told she was wrong and to be put in line…and I honestly hope she got tf out of that.
This is what happens when people rush to the altar out of fear of loosing someone and confusing that for love. They had no business getting married without really knowing each other.
Exactly. I'm not sure why people think of marriage so casually when it causes all these issues when it doesn't work out.
Run girl run! This man is a control freak and he aint gonna change. Run!
Run really fast I couldn't & wouldn't ever deal more so marry a man like Him
I shouldn't be laughing but this is so funny... Lol!
Especially the look on his face at the end. He didn't believe a word Judge Lynn said, not about respecting his religion, wanting his marriage to work, him being a good guy. In fact, it was all a big conspiracy to him. Lol!
juantubey hahahaha funniest comment!
His big dome was getting in the way of understanding.
Mr. Willis is a controlling freak. He is also insecure
Mistake # 1: Dont rush! Get to know them sap suckers before running to the alter.
*altar
My opinion is the judge is wasting her time because Walter won't change nothing
Ed
Judge Toler was so on point with this couple! She couldn't even recommend the wife to "keep the other foot in" lol
And that is almost always her plan. Unification
This what ego and insecurity does to a relationship.... it destroys everyone's happiness.
Take note folks.
“Woman, what’s wrong with you? Don’t you be looking at 🐠 with another dude, shame on you lady”😂😂😅🤣
M P 💯
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Religion or lack of religion is a basic thing. She clearly didn't understand everything that his religion entailed. Honestly, I don't even think he understands his religion. It's just convenient for him because it supports his personal insecurities. Everything with him is about appearance to others. He met and fell in love with a beautiful strong minded woman, but he is too insecure to be ok with her strength. He can't even step outside himself to listen to other people.
That part 🥰
Well said
You CANNOT argue with these Hebrew Israelites. She might as well move on. You're talking about somebody who'll tell you not to celebrate man-made holidays while practicing a man-made religion? I swear religion is the oppression of women across the board.
Yes Terrance all religions are manmade and meant to control the masses.
Terrence Barnes 😂😂😂don't celebrate man made but let's live my life off a man made religion the irony
Religion is dangerous. Been there done that, thank God I'm free from it.
Yep. When I stepped out the church I found God. I found God was within. asé!
Same here. Spent 4 years imprisoned and obligated to rules that were causing more harm than good. Funny thing is, I always felt within that God was calling me out of the church to begin an face to face journey with him. I've never been better. Glad you've been awakened as well.
Wow!!!!! The worse is trying to speak to someone who can hear to respond rather than listen to understand. He came across severely jealous, insecure and petulant and dull...like a bad vibe (and I say that respectfully). All im sensing is insecurity which forces him to control as a means by which he feels safe but in reality, this guy is operating totally from a place of fear. I wish them both peace but he has much work to do and she may have to leave him for that.
This guy have a very big problem
Awesome episode! At the end I was expecting a little epilogue from her (the wife), but then I thought "...he probably won't let her speak to the camera." Judge Toler is so good at explaining the issues to the point where everyone can see it except the person she's trying to help.
This is the best episode of the new season.
he was looking for confirmation but instead got a reality check - NEXT
"When they ask me to cook, I get up and cook, I don't sit around and wait."
LOL! I love it!!!
There is a saying this reminds me of: There is no one as deaf as someone who doesn't want to listen.....
the fact that he didn't know what question the judge asked says it all
insecurity is a bad thing
Judge Toler wanted to tell her to run so bad but I'm sire that guy would have ctfu. Smh he's so insecure 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Where the heck are all of these black Israelites coming from? And why are they always using their beliefs to control spouses? He's insecure and controlling. They need to call it quits and be at peace. His beliefs have created a rift between them. Religion should have been their first topic of discussion before they ran off and got married in 90 days.
Oldest bible in the world...Ethiopia. Salute... What Isreal is doing to the African Jewish immigrants that enter that country is horrific.
These Non-African Jew's are popping up like weeds. If you ever get a chance look at some videos where they talk about black women on the street.
AJ Writer amen!!!!
they are awakening to who they are not just popping up and we have beliefs not religion
AJ Writer who in the hell marries someone after 3 months is rather go to 10 time share meetings instead
I couldn’t deal with this man 5 minutes. Some of these guys makes me appreciate my hubby more and more. Whew Chile, I don’t know how Judge deal with some of these folks.
You better keep your good man sister.
Lynn is one of the brightest people I’ve ever heard speak
He has some control issues for sure and is completely inflexible in his point of view to the point where he can't see where his wife is coming from. I know several people of his particular faith and none of them act this way...he is using his beliefs as a justification for dysfunctional controlling behavior and I absolutely get why she can't take it anymore and doesn't want that for her kids.
Krista Harris he warped his religion to fit is insecurities which can be dangerous..smh but she didn’t wait long enough to see it she was too thirsty for a ring
An update on this case would be AWESOME
Poor guy... he is expressing signs of insecurity ... he’s extremely defensive 🤦🏽♀️
This was so unfortunate. He is so stuck but seems to be a good guy. His wife is beautiful and seems to just want to be heard and a little bit of trust and freedom. Without truly hearing one another and compromise a marriage will be destroyed. Bless them both.
He didnt want a wife, he wants a trained animal. I dont know his religion, but I bet it doesnt speak of women that way 🤷🏾♀️
U toxic
Judge Lyn: I'm trying to help you keep your wife...
Him: What about her keeping me?
Me:😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 dude you're no catch...and quite frankly not worth the headache nor trouble.
MissBee MakingYouThink 💯
Judge is so beautiful inside and out.
She handled this situation so well
He's straight up wants to be in total control. Sounds good I guess to some that he even buys and picks out the families clothes. It's all about him, typical narcissist they are especially found hiding behind religion. I hope she left him and living a life loving herself.
I believe that he is sincere about his spiritual beliefs. Mr. Willis follows a religion with a patriarchy tone so he should have married a woman that shares the same faith and lifestyle. He simply sees himself taking care of family not controlling and suffocating his wife.
Regardless of religion you don't control NO ONE! that's called emotional abuse and codependency. He needs help.
Well said
Even in a patriarchal type religion he’s still going overboard
He wanted Judge to talk some sense into her but nope he's the one with insecurities
I heard Hebrew israelite. That told me everything.
David Jefferson yep! I was like here we go with BS.
David Jefferson 😂😂 definitely
Ok!
Don't forget these black Muslims. It's the same and what's ironic and makes sense is that they're brothers lmao
@@romishafranks disagree
His religion got him way too overboard. Way too controlling, let her have fun, friends, geez. This man wanna keep her in the house all day, can't stare at men, can't have friends, always being accused of cheating, get over it. Leave that woman alone!! She just want some space and he just want her on a puppet string, and she need to put her foot down and speak up for herself.
Get this dude out of here. His pride will leave him alone. He earned it.
He's just driving her away. I mean what woman is going to try to attract a man by looking at fish with him? Judge hit it on the head when she said he is using his religion to try to satisfy his insecurities.
My husband and I walk side by side at the grocery store, but not because of insecurities. Before Covid, I loved grocery shopping, so we would walk around, joke giggle and people would often stop us and say that we’re having too much fun grocery shopping. But it’s all in good fun. If we’re smiling and they’re smiling, what more can I ask for.
I think this couple needs a little more light and fun! But he’s too stuck in his ways to see that. God Bless them both.
Right now I'm so happy I'm not in a relationship... This guy has some serious issues.
Wow she looks like the 39 year old 1 and he looks 33! She reminds me so much of Serena Williams
I was in a situation just like this and I think God I made it out I know I got my license to be a motivational speaker to help woman like her and those that are indeed like myself I love your show judge Lynn Toler u inspired me help me to get the word out there Judge Lynn told I need your help To bring awareness patty Boss
Can the judge make a makeup tutorial or something lol . Her makeup is always on point and she's so gorgeous !
; He is way too jealous!... (A person should be able to go out, & be friendly with others...) and that walking in the grocery store thing is just Petty., He sounds a lil mental to me. / I think you need trust & respect to have a good relationship.
This was hard to watch. As soon as the judge said religion I knew where this was going. This chick needs to run fast. I can see the misery she had to endure.
how , ironic that in the beginning hes like "she's stuck in her own ways and doesnt want to take any guidance from him". I think hes controlling because he doesnt want her to wander away, which these days many do in a relationship.Thats not to minimize his actions either. Shes a very beautiful woman and she loves him but hes the stuck one. Hes running her right out of his arms by wanting to do any and everything to keep her at home. Every now and again its helpful and sometimes cute to help out but this dude wants to make sure she has ZERO reason to be outside, and when she do go out shes strapped to his ass. Those types of people are what I call "primal spouses", they want to know everything you've done. The who ,what,where ,when, how, how long and how much determines if you were faithful. This guy is probably a nice guy but his intent to keep his wife bound up under his insecurities is gonna make him single again.
Bottom line, I think it's "do what I say, when I say, how I say".
Sherylyn Roberts Royal One yes it is. And nobody wants to be stuck in a relationship like that.
Dude is off his rocker
Nah I'll be skipping this episode. These "Israelites" kill me.
The are absolutely the worst you could try to communicate with. Their entire life revolves around trying to control others and tell other black people how to live their lives when they don't even do the same.
iheartnola 504 girl exactly. They are the weirdest people I know and their practice doesn’t seem to do anything but hurt women and only men seem to benefit. I can’t even stomach this episode.
Dude was totally disrespectful and embarrassing.
Idk why anyone would make a a decision to jump into a marriage when they have a child . I never understood that..
Love the way the Judge says “Ah can help ya’!” 🤣🤣🤣🤦🏾♀️
He's not listening to the judge that is trying to help him save his marriage but he's over there throwing a temper tantrum like a child. He's not willing to do the work to get his marriage on the right path. It's time for both her feet to be out the door
he's not going to change. I been through this before the best is for her to leave. she's going to get tired just like I have. wish her blessings
This man should have married a fellow Hebrew since they both share same values
Facts he wouldn't be up here.
That’s it! Everyone wants to down him but he’s not the one wasting money on Eurocentric commercial holidays. She’s seeing things from a general out in this world standing. She’s not militant in the beliefs he holds and it was bound to fail.
I really want an update with these 2
Love watching Judge Toler, I watch this show and I’m not even married
She favors Venus Williams
Lawd... frigging listen! Geez
If you are devoted to a specific religion and live by religious guidelines why wouldn’t you go through some kind of process to make sure your potential spouse is of the same religion and follows the same practices? How devout can you be if that’s not a top priority? Once you failed to do your due diligence you don’t get to force the person into your religion and practices.
This is why its so important to make sure you know who you're getting involved with. They are not on the same page and never were and there are children involved
It's the same way they are when discussing beliefs, they don't wanna hear a thing you have to say, shout over you and under no circumstance like to feel their backs are against the wall. May seem like a biased statement right? I dare you to test it yourself.
She needs to move forward unless she plans on compromising on her everything. He is a controller and it definitely shows.
JUDGE TOLER EARNED HER MILLIONS IN THIS SESSION. SOOO ELEGANT, SO BRILLIANT
His distrust in her became a fixation. Lack of trust will always present itself as fear and control.
"We came in together so stay with me." Look at fish with me not next to another guy."
They are on different pages.
They didn't have any discussions.
She's such a pretty chocolate mama lol
1st person I've seen to call her out on her being biased
If he knows everything... why is his wife so unhappy shes out the door. She a beautiful woman, treat her like a queen or leave her alone.