DIVORCE COURT Full Episode: Reyna vs. Gonzales
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- čas přidán 11. 10. 2016
- Colliding tempers and a series of ripped marriage certificates leaves this couple feeling hopeless. Is the massive storm just beginning or is paradise on the horizon?
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Sometimes I wonder why these couples come for judge Lynn's advice. They never listen to it anyway.
Shinel I was just going to post the same thing. My guess is they just want attention, to get a free trip and be on tv.
Many of them come because they want to get someone, that someone being Judge Toler to be the third partry looking in on the situation and giving her view point. Some come because they just want to be on Television and some of the couples are show offs. Then there are those who actually want her advice and they do follow her advice.
They also get paid to be on this show. I've seen a few couples that came on for the money.
They get 800$ apparently when I looked it up 🤷🏾♀️
They want attention and Judge Lynn to be the referee?
How are you for traditional marriage when your kids are out of wedlock and y'all are shacking?
Marlo Hardiman he talks alot of shit. Proberbly a Trump supporter
Lol! So true
@@yannicmckoy6128 One doesn't imply the other. Its ironic y'all claim to stand and fight for individual rights, freedom of expression, and inclusion of diverse thought. Yet attack those who have a thought or opinion that differs from yours.
DenisK someone’s upset
Preach
He's a weak man. since he keeps making reference to 1950s, why is he quick to forget that women didn't get pregnant before marriage but here he is already with child with a woman he is yet to marry.. oh please.. stop being self righteous. If you really wanna be a 1950 type of guy, stick to all the 1950 rules
Esther Uzoamaka 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Esther Uzoamaka He also doesn’t realize that there was extreme sexism in the 1950s.
@@solennkini4682 oh he does know. That's why he's trying so hard to live like the 1950s. He did the research.
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He sounds like the type to turn to physical abuse once married. She's there to wash, clean, cook and take care of their children and if something isn't the way he thinks is right he starts calling her shit.
If I was her I'd get the hell out of there.
Rye Micaels down the line he will leave her for another dumb ass and will leave her with nothing. she will regret not having built her own career. he has all the power
With no education, no structure & no money of her own a clown of this caliber will rule her life and replace her when he sees fit leaving her in a world of misery which is not the life you are born to live. Hopefully not but something tells me that she'll regret stupidly ignoring the Judges advice one day or moreso her warning smh
Yeah I don't get the abuse factor but he should of never got married.
@@tonybestTV He's incredibly controlling, condescending, insecure, he isolates her from the rest od the world and everything.. he def seems like the kind of person who's an abuser, whether emotionally or physically, if not even both! He's got all the key, very telling traits of an abuser, seriously. He's making her 100% dependent on her, making it as extremely difficult as possible for her to leave if she'd want to. He's ensuring that he's all she's got, and ensuring that she'll feel like her only value is in the home under his command.
I seriously couldn't think of anything else throughout this entire episode than the worry of him either being an abuser, or becoming one. It's frightening.
And fast, quick and speeeeeeeeedy too. Agreed with you.
This man is so small...he's so absurd and ridiculous. If he was my only option...he wouldn't be an option. I WOULD BE SINGLE FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE!
so old fashioned and "1950s" but this SOB hasn't married her... yeah " so traditional"
Moni Que W you're probably in a worse relationship than this guy
garbi27 hmm happily married...you tried it though!
@@moniquew3603 I'm
Can
There used to be less divorces; however, abuse still existed and women didn't have a voice because women didn't work. There's nothing wrong with being a housewife, but you still have to have respect from your husband and it's still joint income. Just because one person is the bread winner doesn't give them the right to make the rules. I know that in my grandparents relationship, my grandfather worked and brought home the money, but my grandma took care of everything. She paid the bills, took care of the house, took care of the kids, cooked, etc. They each had their responsibilities and my grandma runs that relationship. My grandpa would be lost without her, he knows it and he respects my grandma for everything she does.
Andie
Go Andie's Grandma. U rock.
Preach it!!!
Exactly what I had in mind 😊
On IG & twitter D.C. CONFIRMED that after airing the episode , she filed for divorce
Donald Neil
Couldn't have seen that one coming. 😒
Girl should've listened to Judge Toler.
How did she file for divorce if they were never married in the first place..
axiytuns uh, yeah she did marry him. it said so at the end of the episode!
if you read it said at the end of the show that she married him.
Lmao comprehension skills are really hard for some folks. At the end of the episode, before airing it, a update was recvd that they were married. After the show aired, it was confirmed that she filed for divorce. 😂😂😂 I guess some people just need more words than others
30 years old and he cant do laundry or make food for himself smh
My grandparent are together for 45 years and my grandfather still don't know how to do laundry
Isn't it sickening that people seek out relationship advice that they will never take? What was the purpose of this case?
That was my mom and dad and she was gonna listen but she was in a tough position she didn’t want to spend the rest of her life screaming and yelling for me to run and get help from him but she had to because we had nothing else. So don’t even say this shit
My thoughts exactly. Why even voice these complaints. She annoys me more than the jerk of a man. She doesn’t HAVE to marry this man nor stay with him. Them even being there is beyond reason.
I must be in the Twilight Zone or something, if a guy talked to me like that, I'd be gone. But she wants to play like a 50's housewife and doesn't have a clue. I give this marriage 5-7 years and 2-3 more children, before she gets some commonsense. And this fool keeps referencing the 1950's and when he first started talking that's what popped into my mind immediately, he's been watching too many old tv shows and got his brain fried.
Deviancy Behavir good thing they are divorcing right now.
I'm just gonna start getting ready and go home to sleep for me in bed but it feels so cold and cold
this girl is making me angry like what the hell is wrong with you?
She’s complaining about his behavior, but then she marries him after leaving the show. Smh 🤦♂️. Deep down I think she doesn’t want to work, but I wouldn’t put up with a man mistreating me.
A M I feel the same way. She’s comfortable staying at home. There are men who can afford for her to stay at home and they’ll treat her right.
Exactly
I find him annoying.. his rules about not selling to women is so dumb that makes no sense. he is vindictive and misogynistic.. they could never last in a marriage with those negative attitudes.
Yohanna Ibrahim
Yeah his rule about selling to women makes no sense.
Why would he turn away a potential client? Why wouldn't he take her money? Salesmen in the 50s sold to women all the time.
This dude is a little touched, I think.
MartianBlues I think he is lying about it to look less crazy, hypocritical and selfish, but it didn't work
every woman should try to be independent never depend on a man never.......
That's my theme song honey.
Facts! Can't nobody mess with what you have! When I met my husband I had a house full of stuff as did he. Didn't need a thing from him. I married him because I WANTED to and not cause he's my meal ticket. I try to warn some of the younger ones about this.
@The Blo0P You know her?
I don't understand how this dude think shacking up and having kid outta wedlock is traditional??? like u can't have it both ways....if we are just boyfriend and girlfriend, kid or not u don't get to dictate nothing over here...u don't tell me I can't work or what I can dream or aspire to.....GTFOH with that noise
That's better said.
Shaheeda Abdullah
EXACTLY!
Well said!
AllNatural Indigo sex is marriage? Thats ur comeback? So every one u screw ur married to?? REALLY??
The moment he said he prefers traditional relationships from the 1950s, it was pretty obvious how the rest of this would play out. He's a small man who wants to work all day and come back home to a subservient wife whose whole life revolves around him. He's clearly scared that she'll cheat if she has a life outside the marriage, so he wants to control her. It's guys like this who end up being abusers
Divorce rate in 1950 was 26% bc women couldn't go anywhere. They would get beat everyday and grin and bear it until they die - naturally or not. That's why, when divorce was finally legalized, most couples were over the age of 50. What a piece of crap.
I was with you on the first part, but I don't necessarily think it was because women were getting beaten. I think it's the fact that they didn't work, so they don't even have the means to go about that process, where nowadays a lot of women work so it's easier for them to afford a divorce.
Marcus married women didn't work because they needed the permission (read: signed document with witness and notary stamp) of their husband. women didnt work bc housework before affordable household electronics cost hours and hours (upwards of 70 hours a week). women didnt work because they couldn't go to school and - well, single and poor women did work. bad pay with long hours that cost you your reputation.
i dont care if "you were with me until" because i do my homework. 'domestic violence' didn't legally exist because you couldn't legally abuse what belongs to you by law. abuse was so common, it was a punchline in *coffee* commercials.
women didn't leave, because a) they had nowhere else to go and b) your reputation went to hell as a divorced woman.
dexterdamonkey Yes!! People always want to argue against what makes them uncomfortable, rather than accept the facts. So many people's lives went down the drain because "divorce was not an option." There were so many references to domestic abuse in commercials, television shows, radio programs, movies and music, literally saturating the culture, but people still want to deny it and paint this image that never existed. If people were _that_ content, nothing would have changed, period.
The reason it happens more now is because it's an option because the means are there to do it. How many stay at home moms have the means for divorce?
The reasons for divorce are another conversation.
There are women now who get beaten and/or cheated on nowadays, but don't leave because they have nothing to fall back on.
Women could go to school in the 50s. I have an aunt that went to school in the 50s and became a teacher. Maybe that was something that happened in certain places though, but not everywhere
Wow I was about to feel sorry for her but I saw at the end that regardless of the fact that this dude calls her stupid and treats her like "the help" she still married him so I'm so happy for her. You can't bitch if you had the chance to get out and you didn't take it. Good for her.
johnny bravo they are now divorcing. she filed it after the show aired.
That still doesn't make her the biggest idiot on the planet. Being there to witness the events in person should have been enough to send her running like hell, since meeting him didn't work. I hope she enjoyed the misery.
Line Boje Hansen How do you know that?
I don't think they were married in the first place, I don't remember them saying they were
at the end of this episode it said in text that they got married soon after the show ...people should read before they speak.
Divorces in the fifties yes there were but not as many. Having children prior to marriage was not as common either. He has a Joan Clever view of the housewife without considering he is not behaving like a loving husband that fosters her desire to care for him.
James Craig. I agree. There was a lower divorce rate, partly so because some unhappy wife's were solely dependant on their husbands and had less opportunities to live their own lives. It was traditional to be married and not an old bitter lonely spinster. Times have changed!
True
Judge Lynn is so excellent at trying to get the other person to listen and explaining the partner's POV. I admire her tremendously!
She said she wants to 'go to school and get a career'. She should have done this BEFORE shacking up and having children. The problem with today's society is they are doing things BACKWARDS!!
That's rly NOT the main issue here..
He surely needs to go live back in the 1950s with another woman. He really shocked me on what type of job he thinks she should have. Sad!
I disagree with the Judge about the fact that he knows he's a jerk. I think he thinks he's cool... I think he is oblivious to it... he's an oblivious jerk
He knows he's a bit of a jerk. I don't believe for one second that he doesn't. He knows it in the way he talks to his wife.
the reason why there were less divorces in the 50's is because there was a social stigma associated with it jfc
Well, Judge Lynn already knew she wasn't leaving ...smh. The ending was not a surprise. She's smiling like she hurt the judge, not realizing how much she is hurting herself. One thing I wish I would have done when I first got married was to continue my education and be independent
Adam is controlling... and he found the perfect prey in her.He is destroying her spirit, one comment at a time. Its sutle but its deliberate. She needs to be very very careful, I can see this going down the domestic violence route in years to come, ifhe becomes more and more disappointed with life, lost job, financial worries etc. He will look to take it out on her. He didnt even blink when the just spoke to her about who and what he is. He has a warped view on the roles in a family, this is about traditional gender role, this is about the need to have total control. He sounds like he grew up with a controlling father figurein his life, he's repeating what he learnt and the cycle will continue with his children. Very sad to watch.
he's just a regular man, most men want this.
I believe I’ve commented something like this before on another episode: “he disrespects me, he cheats on me, he ignores me, being around him is sooo bad, but I’m confused on if I should marry him or not...” I’m trying to understand these people’s logic.
Haven't even finished the episode, however, had to comment on the mistake. Men and women sell themselves cheap when they don't get up and get an education and a career.
She put herself in that position. She should control her fertility and secure her future.
Too many desperate women on this show...can't believe in 2016 this is happening.
This relationship is not healthy. These are two broken individuals. He has serious, serious insecurities to the point that he is not fit for a relationship, but she has no self-worth. And as long as she stays around, he won't change.
Well, he is a sexist. He does not "believe" in a woman's worth. Not even in HIS woman's worth. This lady is just the amount of sweet and soft he needs her to be to put up with that kind of treatment. Sad.
it is best that a man rule his castle
Girrrrl!!! You are too good for this. There is someone who will cherish you all time...
The man looks like lex luthor from super man
Okay, there's "traditional marriage" and then there's "control." Run!
It's something very narcissistic & abusive about this dude that speaks volumes of unhealthiness
I have always felt that while I grew up with my mom working & my dad working that as a human being we are all meant to work just as a necessity of being sane & not caged inside our homes 24 hours a day taking care of our off springs. It like a dog tearing up a couch because he hasn't been taken outside to exercise all of his God given energy.
I don't blame him I blame her. He's very clear about who he is. She needs to woman up and realize she has choices. That's lazy to me. She stays out of fear and convenience. Being single means being financially independent and I don't think she wants to go after that life, smh
Maybe he wasn't clear at the beginning. People don't even believe her, so he's not vocal about who he is from the start. Some people don't show their true colors UNTIL you are emotionally attached and have their kids. This is why it's always wiser not to have children before marriage and not to get married too soon.
Mercedes Fields and she knows it
Or at all...
All of these cases would be avoided if people stopped getting into relationships or having sex in the first place. #abstinence
Mercedes Fields you don't have children do you? They are a weapon to a man like that
Katarina M - Did I read that correctly? Popping out some kids is a weapon to use against men? Haha, oh wow. I'm at a loss for words here. I really hope that's not what you meant.
That Katherine still married Adam after all of this, she deserves everything she gets.
Sorry DUDE we are not in 1950s
stfu feminist bitch,and get back to the kitchen.
anotoly tony ...10/10
They are poster children for almost every -ism and -phobia .
Well.. I can't wait to see what she looks like in Divorce Court again because this marriage wont last
I love this judge she gives motherly advice
She is very pretty
Why is she complaining that he's working too much? My boyfriend works 2 jobs, 6 days a week, and holidays. Less time with him but hey he's working. I totally support him.
He doesn't want a 1950s marriage, he wants a submissive and his logic makes no sense. Weird that the judge didn't pick him a part more, she was pretty tame.
Another episode that says the couple had assumptions about the other without making sure they’re on the same page.
I’m sorry to say this but at the end of the day, what ever happens to her, it’ll be totally her fault. Not because she’s a woman, but because when she said “I Do” on her wedding day, she was virtually saying “I agree to live this way”
Great advice.
I'm was gutted to read the end about them getting married.
She needs to leave him and run! Her life shouldn't be put in limbo because of a selfish, insecure little man.
It's 2018 the times are changing!
Oh she so sweet !! I think she deserves better ! She deserves happiness !!
This is one of the only times I think the judge was not nearly harsh enough. if it's not already domestic violence, it very easily and very quickly escalate.
Nope Nope and Nope. I keep telling women stop giving men complete financial control over you. smh hell no
I love these one and it's a nice couple
I feel sorry for her because she is still putting up with him. He didn't change his stone cold views based on one court case. Of course Judge Toyler's advice was on point, but it's up to these couples to take this advice and change for the better. The lady in this relationship teared up 4 marriage licenses for a reason. I hope she can be the person she wants to be.
knice1895
She filed for divorce. She DOES mind.
Soooooo what was she on the show for
Honestly, why even come on if you know you will marry him regardless! Such a waste of a slot
how do you know? :)
They announced it on the Divorce Court social media pages. It's true she did file for divorce
HazeleyedGemini she came on the show just to waste judge Lynn's time unfortunately.
This great, wise judge, is opening her eyes, and she's more stubborn and stupid to keep them close and walk blind. I already feel sorry for her... or maybe I shouldn't 😏
HazeleyedGemini they get paid!
This 1950's preaching nut case.....she was crazy as hell for dealing with this fool.
Even more crazy for letting him impregnate her twice.
I don't feel like even though she married him and divorced him on this show as a waste because I learn a lot from these different scenarios
She is stuck with this man because she has bred with him already. She lost and given up her bargaining power.
5 mins into this im like, girl run.
Abuse is definitely going on in that relationship
My gosh...its like 1950 never happened; how is this lady even still with him
"She don't wanna be saved.."
I understand what you're going through
The Latino mike pence lmao 🤣😂🤣
I feel so sorry for her
At 18:39 her eyes said something but I can't saw exactly what she felt but I can feel it & I've been there too.
Question: Why would you be wearing one lowcut and one highcut sock even if the laundry hadn't been done? At what point did you wear one of the two you have on, separately, to create this mis-match scenario???
How woud someone treat a beautiful woman like that.
Smh he's controlling and probably going to end up abusive. I feel so bad for her.
This guy is from another planet.
Oh My Gosh! a woman has no problem for giving a man for something he said or done or giving accept an apology but you can't expect a woman to forgive something if you keep putting her in a position to have to relive that everything that you've asked her to forgive. And then wonder why she repeats the record of your mistakes because you keep doing what she doesn't like.
His eyes tell it all
yeah, he doesn't want to be in the presence of women that he is not attached to, this is obviously before the me too movement.
and many women in the audience seemed very uncomfortable when he said that.
but that is a rule that many men nowadays are applying.
it can be astoundingly dangerous.
it is definitely risky at my work and the kind of job that I do. because I have seen men get accused.
can't believe what I'm hearing. so people still think like this in 2016, 2017? wawuu!! I guess she has chosen her path
Judge Lynn called it. She didn't leave. She stayed and married the guy. I think she got scared at the thought of taking control of her own life and possibly being alone.
Or she has no savings bc she hasnt been allowed to work and she has no ability to take care of her children without a job which she cant get without leaving
Oooooooooooooooh, Judge got that left-eye twitch going on talkin to the jerk.
He's traditional but they have children and are living together before marriage? WTF?
I love judge lynn so dam much
If you have google assistant and you are watching this on your phone try playing 13:50 outloud and tell me if it triggers your google assistant to pop up.
Men like him are the reason I will go to college to get a good job. I will get a good job to get enough money to provide for MYSELF before anyone else, man, woman, child, or pet. I will not take someone's crap simply because I am an independent woman. Simple as that.
He wants her to SPEAK UP
When she does, he says SHUT UP
Doesn't make sense if a woman wants her own career and life and the man wants his own career and life THEN stay single LOL 🤣🤣
Dude this is 2019 not in the 1950 ok n we cant go back there cause THOSE yrs they already gone n cant come back.kmt
It’s amazing to me that she just walked away from her future.
She is so Pretty!🌹
So looking at the results this lady is a DB!
For a young dude he's stuck in the 50s with his mindset
This is 3 years later. I hope she didn't stay with him. I hope that she's okay. He's a misogynist and if he likes the 50'sso much, he can take his sorry ass to a time machine, get in, and get to steppin.
Listen Captain Caveman my mother worked when she was 16 years old she still working to this day in any good relationship you have to allow your partner to think for themselves I feel terrible for this poor woman she's beautiful smart and articulate this little boy because that's what he is doesn't want her to have any friends because he's terrified that maybe should get some sense and leave him if I was with someone like this guy I'll keep a Suitcase by the door
"Be a better man!"
It's respectful what his beliefs are and if she feels like she can live with what she has then fine... but damn the children are gonna be the ones who suffer the most in life later on.
Time and Society is moving on without them and their kids will feel so out of place.... Best of luck to the kids
he is right about the roles reverse, meaning one point my aunt said a women can think just like a man can but when it come to the physical weight they can pull harder. Judge right she need to stand that a process but she will get there
so sad to hear they ended up getting married.... he's not gonna change. I hope she's happy with him but I doubt that
She has some low self esteem to allow a man to treat her like that and she still marries him. I don't get it!
why come to DC if you go ahead and do that which you were told not to do?
In the past, the divorce rate was low because the women were dependant financially and the idea of a divorce was seen as shameful and disgrace particularly for the woman
Not only that....the men would beat them and threaten to kill them if they got divorced.
@@genasisenterprises9956 Some men still do that sadly. :(
I'm sorry we have choices in life. She needs to get a job first, save and send herself to school then leave his ass!
Marilyn she won't
Nope. Not me. He would dump when he realize he can't tell me what to do. smh.
He's not being genuine. There's no way he's this antiquated in his thinking. He really just has double standards for her and he's hiding it.
Katherine’s my cousin and I can assure you that she listened to the judges advice lmao
Did she leave him?
That ending 🙄