Bethany Slams Kim Zolciak, Kroy Full Custody, Jackie Christie vs Brooke Bailey, Jonathan Majors

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  • čas přidán 28. 08. 2024
  • Chile, the block was very hot today. News and tea was flying left and right. First off, we've got the Queen Karen, Bethany Frankel, all up in Kim Zolciak's business. Bethany drug Kim Z all up and down Al Gore's internet. Then news Broke that Kim's soon to be ex husband, Kroy Biermann wants full custody of the litter of kids that he and kim made together. Then, opinions fly over Brooke Bailey claiming that co-star, Jackie Christie was not there for her after her daughter's death. Last, Jonathan Majors just can't catch a break. He's in more trouble surrounding domestic violence. Let's discuss...
    #kimzolciak #jonathanmajors #funkydineva

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  • @elody30
    @elody30 Před rokem +559

    As someone who lost both my parents,I felt that a lot of people decided not to reach out because of whatever excuse they made up in their mind about how I was possibly feeling.
    Everyone grieves differently and the best way to go about it is to let people know that you acknowledge their loss and that you are present for whatever they need.

    • @Brandi_.
      @Brandi_. Před rokem +67

      Well said! I lost my dad last year. I appreciated everyone’s thoughts during that time. But I will never again in life ask someone “how are you doing”. It’s the stupidest ass question I’ve ever been asked when I don’t have my daddy anymore.

    • @melglenn6556
      @melglenn6556 Před rokem +25

      Sorry for both of y’all’s loss. ❤

    • @elody30
      @elody30 Před rokem +6

      @@melglenn6556 thank you ☺️

    • @HR-re6mr
      @HR-re6mr Před rokem +44

      Ppl just don’t know what to do. It’s a touchy tone. I’ve lost both parents. Ppl don’t say anything and the bereaved feel like nobody cares but ppl feel like I don’t want to bring up anything that triggers the person. Then if you do bring it up too much then the bereaved is like stop reminding me of my loss. So I feel TH like A LOT of GRACE has to be extended in these cases. And as the bereaved you have to be willing to help those who care navigate where you are at a given point in time.

    • @puzzlite
      @puzzlite Před rokem +25

      I lost my mom at 15. I hated all the fuss. I hated people feeling sorry for me. I cant even remember who reached out and who didnt but when you're grown, I know its important to at least reach out so ask "please accept my condolences," or if you are closer to that person, ask if there is anything they need or you can do for them at that time. It's just the grown thing to do imo. I dont expect it from someone in their 20s in college but someone in their mid 30s and up shouldn't be at a loss as to what to say. Aint nothing creative to be said. The script is already written

  • @jameelahbf4
    @jameelahbf4 Před rokem +133

    Funky is so prolific. He is the only CZcamsr that brings everything together beautifully with a lot of comedic relief.

  • @waynethepoet88
    @waynethepoet88 Před rokem +767

    So happy you’re more active on your channel 😊Always good to see you, Funky.

    • @funkydineva
      @funkydineva  Před rokem +492

      I was in a weird place, I’m back now!!

    • @schaminkaweaver8217
      @schaminkaweaver8217 Před rokem +61

      ​@Funky Dineva I'm glad you're back ❤

    • @queenjj201
      @queenjj201 Před rokem +20

      ​@Funky Dineva, will you be reviewing RHOA?

    • @funkydineva
      @funkydineva  Před rokem +69

      @@queenjj201 probably not

    • @quitaquita79
      @quitaquita79 Před rokem +23

      Yes gawd Nessa I second, third, fourth and infinity and beyond that motion. The Funky Bunch miss you

  • @MsValerie123
    @MsValerie123 Před rokem +617

    I don't care what Kim and Kory do with their marriage; as long as Kim doesn't come back to #RHOA 😢😖😩😫😤🤢🤮🤧😷😮‍💨🤒🤕🤯🥺😳😲

    • @klp1009
      @klp1009 Před rokem +52

      Exactly!!!! If she does every black person who watches better boycott the show!

    • @wendybradley2096
      @wendybradley2096 Před rokem +50

      Oh she coming😂 this is what all of this is all about lol

    • @nicoleh.6352
      @nicoleh.6352 Před rokem +50

      I agree a thousand percent... my white shoes are on standby ready for the March!!!.. the way she carried on when she left, snubbed her nose at all of them

    • @ameliajohnson4454
      @ameliajohnson4454 Před rokem +8

      @@klp1009 I agree 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

    • @irissanders7487
      @irissanders7487 Před rokem +38

      I bet Andy Cohen is going to try and lookout for Kim.

  • @deeduddie3335
    @deeduddie3335 Před rokem +226

    If I don’t go to the Funeral I always reach out after when the dust settles, when they need it the most, when everyone stops calling.

    • @neeneeray3540
      @neeneeray3540 Před rokem +18

      That’s what true friends do ❤❤❤

    • @missbae_
      @missbae_ Před rokem +12

      When everyone else stops faking

    • @pimpindymepiece
      @pimpindymepiece Před rokem +1

      YES

    • @b2bgood870
      @b2bgood870 Před rokem

      @@missbae_ lol

    • @paige4128
      @paige4128 Před rokem

      Exxxxactly!!! Once the funeral is over is when the real grief hits and that’s when folks need you the most. Great point, sis.

  • @Dr.JudeAEMasonMD
    @Dr.JudeAEMasonMD Před rokem +325

    Based solely on what she has portrayed of her life, Kroy appears to be the more grounded parent. 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @jacmac3294
      @jacmac3294 Před rokem +23

      I believe Kroy has his parents’ support in this messy divorce and I don’t think Kim has money to fight this fight

    • @reneeyoung3186
      @reneeyoung3186 Před rokem +34

      ​@@jacmac3294 his parents truly did not want him to marry her.

    • @madenew5097
      @madenew5097 Před rokem +6

      I'll wait to the divorce play out We don't know the cause of the breakdown and I refuse to speculate

    • @BuffyNoir140
      @BuffyNoir140 Před rokem +14

      @@madenew5097 . Same here. This could be a publicity stunt, an attempt for a TV spin-off.

    • @Amodernelder
      @Amodernelder Před rokem +9

      @@reneeyoung3186 Yes they saw what she was from jump. I hope he reconciled with them because they were estranged. I hope he qualifies for an NFL pension.

  • @HERE4THECOMMENT
    @HERE4THECOMMENT Před rokem +463

    Now Funky, don’t be teasing us giving us Hot Topics! You know we the people is going to want MORE 😂😂

    • @NC-tt4gc
      @NC-tt4gc Před rokem +25

      I also watch him on TGIF. I like their dynamic.

    • @Melanin360Studio
      @Melanin360Studio Před rokem +7

      EXACTLY!!

    • @TheSaintb23
      @TheSaintb23 Před rokem +11

      Okay bc we DESPERATELY miss Ms Wendy! Only Dineva can give us the realness!

    • @mosparksss
      @mosparksss Před rokem +2

      🗣️🗣️😩

    • @DoubleAA82
      @DoubleAA82 Před rokem +1

      chilllee right lol

  • @bt2598
    @bt2598 Před rokem +43

    My dad passed away. I got a lot of flowers and gift baskets which were well intentioned but flower die (just like my dad did) and the food baskets always took up a lot of space and didn’t have much I could actually eat in a timely manner. I think the folks that helped the most were folks who came over to cover meals so I didn’t have to worry about cooking or going out to eat. I had one friend I could really lean on but I had several other friends tell me they knew I would be okay eventually so they didn’t bother to check in (which kind of hurt because it felt like people were rushing me to get over my grief on their timeline). Ultimately, a therapist or grief counselor is really the only person that helped. It was nice to have that safe space - because family would always want me to pray the grief away or tell me I am so strong. It’s tough, no one knows how to be there for people in the right way.

    • @rochwilliams4626
      @rochwilliams4626 Před rokem +2

      Exactly. My mom died in December of last year. And let me tell you I still don't know what to do
      But I'm grateful for the calls, thoughts and prayers. That is how some can contribute. Also, my mom was well loved somehow other persons took it harder than me. Still do. But hey...she was a Goddess.

  • @ColorisASMR
    @ColorisASMR Před rokem +471

    I just love his commentary. I automatically tune in once I get an alert. ❤️

    • @reneemenzies4669
      @reneemenzies4669 Před rokem +10

      😂 so do I

    • @Synquette
      @Synquette Před rokem +11

      Facts! That’s why I had to watch Tea-GIF because I needed more Funky!

    • @simone2734
      @simone2734 Před rokem +5

      Me too 😂😂😂😂

    • @zzizahacallar
      @zzizahacallar Před rokem +4

      Funky has me rolling

    • @kerarants3550
      @kerarants3550 Před rokem +4

      Sometimes they play with me because I ain’t get this alert. I watched another video and it popped up.

  • @glowingmyway
    @glowingmyway Před rokem +428

    Funky, you just don’t know how much of positive impact you have made on me and my mental health these past 13 years. Keep doing you. 💜

  • @latoyajohnson5488
    @latoyajohnson5488 Před rokem +63

    When I lost my father I needed every call, prayer, visit I could possibly receive. Everyone needs are not the same. I will never forget the ones who didn’t reach out when the smoke cleared. Just being there was enough for me.

    • @rochwilliams4626
      @rochwilliams4626 Před rokem +2

      Exactly. ❤

    • @Shalayah2010
      @Shalayah2010 Před rokem +3

      And I’m sorry that happened to you, but I just read a comment about someone else saying their mother died and they wanted the opposite. Everyone grieves differently so it’s hard to navigate that when we all have different needs and wants during the grieving process.

    • @hamptonsfnst2014
      @hamptonsfnst2014 Před rokem +1

      Exactly! The statement, "I didn't know what to say" is an excuse. Focused on the wrong thing. People need to learn to separate how they feel from how YOU think I may feel. What wrong could you possibly say to make one suffering a loss feel worse. Simply put be there for your friends and loved during rain or shine

  • @fantasy2290
    @fantasy2290 Před rokem +28

    One thing about Funky is his commentary is always well put together. The way he articulates his thoughts is A1 journalism in my opinion.

  • @SheniceSays214
    @SheniceSays214 Před rokem +226

    I hated being asked, “how am I doing ?” when my mother died. Especially by people my mother and I didn’t deal with on the regular.

    • @stacyr4768
      @stacyr4768 Před rokem +43

      So what should the person ask instead?

    • @asurles35
      @asurles35 Před rokem +5

      Exactly

    • @melglenn6556
      @melglenn6556 Před rokem +16

      I never thought about this. I’ll stop asking folks this. I genuinely ask and want to know but perhaps there’s a better way to check on someone.

    • @beautifulqueen2579
      @beautifulqueen2579 Před rokem +19

      So you have to deal with a person on a regular? In order for someone to simply ask how you are doing.

    • @jocelynlincoln2330
      @jocelynlincoln2330 Před rokem +44

      @@stacyr4768 My suggestion: "I'm calling to check in and let you know I'm thinking of you. Whatever I can do, you know I'm here." And then let them talk. If they change the subject, they don't want to talk about it. If they talk and share, you listen.

  • @TheeCoachg
    @TheeCoachg Před rokem +68

    Bethenny has ALWAYS had a hard-on for the Atlanta girls. Nene,Kim, she even shaded the show to Kenya and only plays nice with Kandi because of her coin. It eats her up that Atlanta were THOSE girls who carried Bravo on their backs from seasons 1-6

    • @misstyra2013
      @misstyra2013 Před rokem +9

      I agree

    • @AshleySpeaks09
      @AshleySpeaks09 Před rokem +3

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @socialworkersanonymous
      @socialworkersanonymous Před rokem +1

      And I oop 💅🏽

    • @javardstanley1521
      @javardstanley1521 Před rokem +4

      RHOA was the number 1 show on Bravo from seasons 1-13. Not 1-6. It was Bravo highest ratings show from 2008 - 2021 then RHOBH took it place last year and now it Pump Rules as the highest ratings show on Bravo.

  • @kayskaht2052
    @kayskaht2052 Před rokem +59

    Funky is the ONLY YTber who i literally watch every video from! I live for your commentary! ❤

  • @jennifermaynard3901
    @jennifermaynard3901 Před rokem +97

    Yes Funky is back, this is how content delivery should be like 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @prestonpfeiffer
    @prestonpfeiffer Před rokem +82

    The last 2-3 videos have had a real old school Dineva feel to them. I like the nuanced,critically thought topics but I have missed you just roasting the girls into the ground 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @chippope8984
    @chippope8984 Před rokem +284

    Bethany got it right and said it right in the case of Kim and Kroy. Let it be a freaking lesson to all of us!!!! Thank you, Bethany. She showed us that you do not have to be a herd puppet.

    • @caligurl8770
      @caligurl8770 Před rokem +5

      I mean no one can police other grown people Bethenny’s opinion is hers and whatever enemies or bad blood she creates is on her (and I don’t think she gives 2 sh!ts about a Kim Zolciak-2 completely different white women) it’s not like anybody outside of Bethanny and Kim have a dog in that fight so who cares its Bethenny’s opinion let her have it plus she ain’t wrong pay ur fuxkin bills Kim, alcoholic sh!t talker!

    • @beautifulqueen2579
      @beautifulqueen2579 Před rokem

      Bethany is in Kim and Kroy business. Because her rat face ass, don’t have any business of her own.

    • @blesseddiva091
      @blesseddiva091 Před rokem +17

      I went and listened. I agree

    • @cynique46
      @cynique46 Před rokem +18

      I agree with Bethany she said nothing wrong

    • @tanyaeaston7884
      @tanyaeaston7884 Před rokem +14

      She was right on everything and she is a 'Karen' with every right to talk about her fellow Karens!.

  • @LaZainabou
    @LaZainabou Před rokem +106

    Bethany's divorce took SEVEN years....

  • @FantasticFreaux
    @FantasticFreaux Před rokem +114

    My mom’s best friend just lost her husband and my mom was lost on what to do to help her friend. I had to explain to my mom that sometimes you don’t need to do anything but show up and be supportive. Ask them how can you help or let them know that if they do need you then you’re not too far away.

    • @justdorcas3875
      @justdorcas3875 Před rokem +5

      She could have sent a heartfelt card or flowers. Just to let them know you are praying for them or thinking about them. Jackie didn't do anything and calls herself their friend.

    • @jonsenejohnson3420
      @jonsenejohnson3420 Před rokem +1

      @@justdorcas3875 But they were not friends. They were co-workers and they got into it often. I no longer go to funerals. If it's my kids or grandchildren, I will. Anyone else, the answer is "NO!". I didn't go to my grandmother's funeral. People over time realized that it was not a person's insult. When I worked as a nurse, I saw people dying all the time. Death is part of life and sad, but mentally I just decided I was done with funerals.

    • @vqvaughns5887
      @vqvaughns5887 Před rokem +1

      @@jonsenejohnson3420 Did you watch the show? They both said they spoke on the phone every day up until her daughter passing. They were friends Jackie was trying to help Brooke save her marriage.

  • @prestonpfeiffer
    @prestonpfeiffer Před rokem +253

    Bethenny is like Eboni. They can articulate a point masterfully and with the most sense but then they end up talking so much and get soooo self righteous that its like “GIRRRRRRL,OK WE GET IT! YOU’RE PASSIONATE!” Right messenger and message but stop beating us over the head with it.

    • @Specialkxxx
      @Specialkxxx Před rokem +13

      Bethany can’t have a thought without sharing it on social media

    • @vradleymoore8398
      @vradleymoore8398 Před rokem +12

      But isn't that most people. Especially if they are public figures

    • @gigilamoore2656
      @gigilamoore2656 Před rokem +22

      Bethenny just always seems so miserable to me.

    • @BJsDaughter
      @BJsDaughter Před rokem +2

      ❤ your comment. But why I feel like I’m being attacked 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Amodernelder
      @Amodernelder Před rokem +12

      @@gigilamoore2656 I’ve been watching her since she came on the scene. She was miserable when she was on the come up and she is miserable now. She proves the point money does not buy happiness.

  • @abriaangel
    @abriaangel Před rokem +47

    Kroy is apparently asking for full custody and all financial documentation.

    • @d.c.5033
      @d.c.5033 Před rokem

      Thanks. This is all I came for🙌🏾

  • @misterme9829
    @misterme9829 Před rokem +228

    Yes this is what we need from you! More hot topics on the regular lol

  • @brownchanel93
    @brownchanel93 Před rokem +51

    You’re right. Jackie didnt console her cause they are not close. She thought a call and text would suffice. If it would have been Malaysia it would have been different

    • @justdorcas3875
      @justdorcas3875 Před rokem

      That is not true. Jackie is fake as hell and tells Brooke and all the ladies she adore them and they are her friends. Jackie fake ass pretends to be their friends and pretends to care about them but she didn't even show concern for her grandson when he was burned, so she definitely does not care about these ladies. She could have sent Brooke a card or flowers and didn't have to say anything to her, but she does not give a damn about these ladies.

  • @marsharosefort6366
    @marsharosefort6366 Před rokem +140

    As much as I don't like Bethany, she has always been open about these housewives throwing money for no reason. She knew Erica Jayne was broke, before Erica Jayne knew she was broke. I was here for her reading them to filth. Bethany has never followed the trends. If she did she'd have all the wrinkles fixed

  • @yamomma6479
    @yamomma6479 Před rokem +9

    A good friend's child died unexpectedly and I was at a loss of words. Not only did it trigger me thinking about my own child who was close in age, it was overwhelming...I was anxious about every encounter. I found it easier to send a text from time to time just letting her know I am here and thinking of her, and I think she understood I didn't want to bog her down with meaningless chatter when all I wanted to communicate was my support. Sometimes its the little gestures that show I am no expert in what you going through, but as a friend I am front and center. In the meantime, we all could use a little grace when it comes to these life experiences and lead with humility and understanding.

  • @mllange30
    @mllange30 Před rokem +23

    Honest and relatable. I could listen to you for hours.

  • @TheMsjade1984
    @TheMsjade1984 Před rokem +23

    I think it’s the fact Jackie presents herself so highly and proper. She could have did the typical and just sent flowers 💐 and a card and left it at that. I’m sure she has crossed paths with her daughter. Also it may be that Jackie has a jacked up relationship with her own daughters and really did not know how to support Brooke through that. 😢

  • @Synquette
    @Synquette Před rokem +24

    Every time I see Bethany I think about how Omarosa called her mediocre 😂

  • @ThatsJustMyBabyDaddy
    @ThatsJustMyBabyDaddy Před rokem +8

    Thanks for speaking the truth about Jonathan Majors.

  • @shondadiggins21
    @shondadiggins21 Před rokem +65

    Not the same one who has her own PUBLIC messy divorce. Lol 🤣🤣

    • @OfficialMsAsia
      @OfficialMsAsia Před rokem +12

      She speaking from experience. I guess😂😂

    • @TeeTee-2016
      @TeeTee-2016 Před rokem +20

      All the Housewives are having a field day about this. Kenya Moore is driving around Atlanta right now blowing her horn and I’m all for it. Kim is getting back everything that she threw at Kenya and Kandi. Now where’s Big Poppa when she needs him.

    • @cuzimjennthatswhy
      @cuzimjennthatswhy Před rokem +3

      It only took her 10 years to get divorced! I think they were happy for 2, spent the next 10 in court 😅

    • @gigilamoore2656
      @gigilamoore2656 Před rokem

      The very same. I am not even sure her daughter sees Jason anymore.

  • @KNickole
    @KNickole Před rokem +12

    100% agree on Jonathan Majors. Unfortunately, if a white girl was swapped out for somebody’s black daughter, most likely her family and friends would tell her to handle it privately or lie to protect him since “we gotta stick together” and “protect the bag”🙄

  • @Papicub
    @Papicub Před rokem +75

    Q it’s time to start a weekly 2 hour podcast!!!!

  • @crownjewel832
    @crownjewel832 Před rokem +14

    Grief is tricky.....but support is needed, priceless and always appreciated (even if not in the moment). I'd rather reach out, send food, gifts, money, etc to a grieving friend than to fall back and reduce contact out of fear that it may overwhelm them. That can actually be more hurtful. Grief is FOREVER so whenever you reach out is meaningful. Simply sending love or a thinking of you text can mean the world to a griever days, weeks, months even years after their loved one has passed away. The worst thing friends can do is disappear out of their own discomfort and presumption of what may or may not annoy the friend as they grieve. Let them tell you they need space or ignore YOU as opposed to ignoring them at their most vulnerable time.

    • @swilliams673
      @swilliams673 Před rokem +2

      Completely agree. Didn’t agree with his opinion on grief at all

    • @IsntSheLovely007
      @IsntSheLovely007 Před rokem

      Exactly he is full of it because he is that unsupportive friend

  • @Three_Diamonds
    @Three_Diamonds Před rokem +45

    You pushing & pumping out these videos! 👏🏽💃🏽

    • @keshiawilliams9429
      @keshiawilliams9429 Před rokem +2

      Not the pound & sausage lips I'm hollering lmaooooooo 😂😂😂

  • @Hooten123
    @Hooten123 Před rokem +16

    When my mom died in 2016 people were texting asking questions, that became very overwhelming but the day of her burial service I appreciated the people that I called my friend came to support me. I was disappointed that I didn’t see the one that I called my best friend, so I get what Brooke is saying.

    • @IsntSheLovely007
      @IsntSheLovely007 Před rokem +2

      Exactly! so Funky being a friend who doesn't show up in a time of need, like a death, shows how true of a friend he is

  • @kishajones841
    @kishajones841 Před rokem +27

    I’ve thought and felt the same way as Jackie during someone’s passing, but I don’t allow those thoughts and feelings to keep me from doing something. I don’t want someone to feel even more alone, while losing their loved one at the same time.

  • @benmarshall3383
    @benmarshall3383 Před rokem +11

    Dineva....you hit the nail on the head with the timeline of reaching out to someone dealing in grief.

  • @leevihemmings707
    @leevihemmings707 Před rokem +47

    You cheer me up so much - thank you!

  • @bt2598
    @bt2598 Před rokem +46

    Let me tell you, Bethany turned a bag into a billion. She really struggled and now the success she is seeing is tremendous compared to her peers. She really worked to promote her little skinny girl brand + other things and used her platform to promote her multiple businesses. I can give credit where credit is due.

    • @sherrigrant573
      @sherrigrant573 Před rokem

      Yeah we all know that she's still a loud busy body

    • @XxMercuriiXx
      @XxMercuriiXx Před rokem

      I’m not familiar with that show, how did she get the bag? Investments or just from being on the show?

  • @busykenya
    @busykenya Před rokem +27

    The way I clicked on this so fast! Hey Funky! You spoiling us!❤

  • @shemene647
    @shemene647 Před rokem +6

    Quinton you hit the nail on the head about the grieving process and how to handle/deal with it.

  • @ElishaLoweRN
    @ElishaLoweRN Před rokem +15

    Bethenny was being Bethenny. I've always admired her strategy around using the RHONY platform to launch her business. And then how she got a spinoff show around her wedding. She's messy as hell but she's right. One season she told told one of the women, while you're dripped in Louis' logo, I'm dripped in SkinnyGirl (paraphrasing) and building a brand. Those women were there for income, Bethany was there to create wealth, and she did.

  • @100Stratusfiedx
    @100Stratusfiedx Před rokem +46

    For those who don’t know Bethenny has been talking about lots of housewives news on her podcast EVEN though she said she’s tired of being associated with Bravo. She wanted attention

    • @armyofone13
      @armyofone13 Před rokem +10

      I agree. To semi quote Ramona, we love the underdog-come up story and Bravo bolstered that narrative and helped Bethenny’s platform. I loved her for years and even more so when she started her charity.
      But her HBO show gave me pause bc they edited her differently, for obvious reasons and I believe more realistically. It helped me realize she is way more than the one liners and high level funny stuff and in your face truth telling that Bravo made her image out to be.
      She is also emotionally abusive, unpredictable, and overly demanding. I get that she is a business woman but she is NOT someone I would want as a boss.
      The next thing I didn’t like was her making this big deal about Harry and Meghan-calling them hypocrites for taking over their media and telling them they need to go away while she was also announcing a housewives podcast after she too made similar sentiments about the franchise. Ppl were calling her out for her hypocrisy.
      Lastly, suing smaller platforms for covering her -again while she feels free to make her opinions known was the final straw.
      She’s a total hypocrite!!!!!

  • @BBBATX
    @BBBATX Před rokem +27

    This was everything we needed!!

  • @saphprimera
    @saphprimera Před rokem +3

    I lost my mother 10 years ago today….i can’t even say who showed up at her funeral because I was heavily heartbroken…everything was a blur. Brooke needs to focus on healing and getting in a better space. Love you Q…you’re so intelligent and eloquent 🙌🏾🖤✨

  • @karmencobbs4768
    @karmencobbs4768 Před rokem +47

    I feel blessed every time I get a notification you are in the line with a new video ❤😂

  • @deseramaxwell2780
    @deseramaxwell2780 Před rokem +11

    THANK YOU! THANK YOU AND THANK YOU FUNKY!!! YOUR SPEAKING NOTHING BUT TRUTH!

  • @michellebaker2061
    @michellebaker2061 Před rokem +39

    I feel the same way you felt when your friend's family member died. I don't want to remind the person when they are feeling bad.

    • @justdorcas3875
      @justdorcas3875 Před rokem +3

      They are going to be hurting for years and you could just send a card or flowers and not say anything.

    • @famousnobody7574
      @famousnobody7574 Před rokem +1

      That's a selfish coward way of thinking about YOURSELF in their time of need.

  • @shawtypooh80
    @shawtypooh80 Před rokem +100

    The Kim and Kroy divorce is about to get nasty like Kim's duck lips. As a person who lost both a daddy and a fiance back-to-back, there are two things that I've learned. First, never tell anyone that is grieving "Let me know if there's anything that I can do"; that is the worst. And second, never force anyone to talk. If that person wants to talk to you about anything and it doesn't have to make sense, they will talk when they are ready. As long as you lend a listening ear, that means more than the world; you don't have to say nothing. So, on the Jackie and Brooke thing: I understand both sides but Jackie is more wrong. As far as Johnathan Majors, I agree with you, Funky.

    • @ZebraLens
      @ZebraLens Před rokem +9

      May I ask why I shouldn't say "If there is anything I can do......"? I ask because whenever I have said that, I genuinely mean it, whether its a listening ear, or if that person needs me to help make some calls to help put some things in order, or any other situation that may arise. I say this because I ask as a way to check up on the person but I also understand that you in particular would not want someone to do that. So in your case, for myself and others, what is the alternative when it comes to checking on someone? Is it best to not say anything at all? Thank you in advance for your insight. I truly want an understanding. 😊

    • @Klgray7373
      @Klgray7373 Před rokem +4

      It’s irked me for years when people say “if there is anything you need let me know”. The better approach is have a plan. Ask what day can I send DoorDash for dinner. What’s your grocery list? Can I pick up your kids today? Here is a casserole. Keep the dish. Let me walk your dog. Etc etc etc. come with a plan to help. The talking part is both ways. Call the person randomly & say can I help you today. Let me know if that means talking or errands. Some of us shit down about talking but what someone to ASK us.

    • @Nell_3
      @Nell_3 Před rokem

      Not 🦆🦆💋💋🤣🤣

    • @shawtypooh80
      @shawtypooh80 Před rokem

      @@ZebraLens hello! I can only speak from my experience so others may have a different opinion. Grief brain is real. When a loved one dies, you are all over the place, mentally and emotionally. You have a million and two things to handle and it's all at the same time. When you tell someone “Let me know if there's anything that I can do”; it's giving them something else to do or remember. You are in la-la land, very spacy, and forgetful. It feels like another job that has been added on top of the two million things that need to be done. If you want to do something for them and you know that they will need some assistance, just do it. And trust me, you won't be in the way. I hope that adds some clarity!

  • @reginadavis7499
    @reginadavis7499 Před rokem +14

    Yassss this like 3 days in a row you rung our line

  • @aubreylawrence6771
    @aubreylawrence6771 Před rokem +12

    Dineva…man, that grief section was SOOOOOO real. Lost my mom 2 years ago and people be asking me stuff like “how are you” and YES, YOU ARE EXACTLY RIGHT. F-ING HORRIBLE.
    Your candidness and honesty is just so refreshing. There are times I wish we could be friends- more people need to be this real and relatable. We get so caught up in social graces we forget the real human emotions we all go through. And emotions be messy and unpolished.
    We miss your hot topics!! Thank you for the videos 🙏🏽

    • @paige4128
      @paige4128 Před rokem

      True! I stopped asking my friend how she’s doing because I already know. I just talk about things that I think she’ll be interested in, or send her a funny video that will perk her up.

  • @joycettabutler5692
    @joycettabutler5692 Před rokem +35

    Funky Dineva, girl I'm on the line. U r giving us better than when u r on Tea G I F. Thank you, I love tuning in and listening.

  • @martini_7827
    @martini_7827 Před rokem +6

    No , Jackie was wrong. Even if she didn't call, based on your scenario, Jackie could of sent a gift basket, flowers or text a message and /or mailed her a damn card. But to go completely silent, that's not cool. Jackie has money she could of even book a spa day for her after the funeral so she could relax. It's not that difficult. Jackie was making excuses.

  • @tracyr1468
    @tracyr1468 Před rokem +26

    I feel you ..I can be a Jackie Christy too...for the very reasons you pointed out...I felt the exact same way when my Mom passed.

  • @staylor824
    @staylor824 Před rokem +4

    As a parent who lost a child, I discovered that most people either don't know what to say or say the wrong shit. So to keep from sounding insensitive, they stay away or wait until you reach out to them. When my cousin's son died, I texted her letting her know that I was there for her for whatever she needed but I wasn't calling her because she was already overwhelmed.

  • @ybshadyii4375
    @ybshadyii4375 Před rokem +120

    THE KICKER IS KROY, FILED FOR DIVORCE 1ST NOT KIM!!! 😮

  • @Ms1classylady
    @Ms1classylady Před rokem +12

    I’m surprised they stayed married this long cause clearly Kim, ran every bit of that household

  • @yoliopulence
    @yoliopulence Před rokem +47

    See this the commentary we need Tuhday and I'm all ears!🔥

  • @beautifullycreated3224
    @beautifullycreated3224 Před rokem +8

    I feel the same way when people pass away. When i loss my brother i hated people asking me how i was doing!!! It irritated the hell out of me

  • @sheis6978
    @sheis6978 Před rokem +8

    Thank you on your insightful sentiments about “hollow” texts and empty communications when dealing with loss
    You have expressed what so many have not been able to

  • @sshence9108
    @sshence9108 Před rokem +11

    When is Jackie Christie going to retire from Basketball wives?

  • @MConze
    @MConze Před rokem +6

    I’m sorry Bethany spoke truth and she’s not Kim’s friend…this is a Mayo war and I’m minding my black business. The way Kim has been carrying on with Kroy playing high post, I’m not bout to put no cape and mask on fa Kim.

  • @shaneikamccray8718
    @shaneikamccray8718 Před rokem +11

    Speaking from the part of this video with the passing situation. You are right it gets very hallow. When my dad passed a few months ago some people I really look forward to some people being there for me but was shocked that some didnt even send a card. But others stepped up in a great way. I do feel like ppl just dont know how or what to say and to be honest you truly dont wanna hear what they have to say because its nothing anyone can say if we being honest. Its just a hard place to be in on both sides. But ppl who werent reaching out to me on a reg I wasnt looking for them to reach out at his passing either.

  • @necole30
    @necole30 Před rokem +8

    Hey Funky and the Funky bunch crew ❤

  • @ladytiff3610
    @ladytiff3610 Před rokem +38

    I felt Brooke's heartache... She just wanted that presence of a Friend... like she said You could have just came and sat with me in silence that was powerful

    • @teedaniels4660
      @teedaniels4660 Před rokem

      Right.

    • @IamDHP50
      @IamDHP50 Před rokem +5

      And they were 'friends' They've both said they spoke daily. I've BEEN sick of Jackie. & Kim. & Jonathan's arse. ❌️ ALL 3 OF EM! 😂

    • @emilyd5377
      @emilyd5377 Před rokem

      She called her everyday

    • @ladytiff3610
      @ladytiff3610 Před rokem +2

      @@IamDHP50 right... I watched that clip and did not watch any of the season... but Jackie is wrong because if that were her she would have tried to nail any of them to wall... It no excuse to me... Come knock on my door and even in my pain your presence of you being my friend that I talked to daily... would have been enough... be there if I need to yell scream or tear my damn house up... Tell me I'm gonna get through this pain heck pray for me something

    • @lisawilson4332
      @lisawilson4332 Před rokem

      You can tell a person how to grieve for another person. We are all different.

  • @lisatotten4190
    @lisatotten4190 Před rokem +36

    Didn’t Bethany go through a divorce that took years to settle!?

    • @famousnobody7574
      @famousnobody7574 Před rokem +5

      Yessss! And as she said stated, SHEEE didn't get any privacy.

  • @thisthatmoreservices7646

    Always the voice of reason. I enjoy your commentary and point of view about daily mainstream topics.

  • @CeCeMe1
    @CeCeMe1 Před rokem +6

    I love how you broke down you're working relationship with Tasha K. and other CZcamsrs. Keep it healthy!

  • @lanetajohnson9108
    @lanetajohnson9108 Před rokem +1

    I had to stop vacuuming my floor to listen. Thank you Funky

  • @snipforlife
    @snipforlife Před rokem +5

    😂😂😂😂😂😂NOT DA WIG ATE OUT IN DA BIKE!!! I'm SOOOO dead..
    I love it here😅

  • @FinDom1
    @FinDom1 Před rokem +18

    I think the issue was how combative Jackie got when it was brought up.

    • @lukylady73
      @lukylady73 Před rokem +6

      She had to be on defense as they’ve all been coming for her as they really want her off the show….she is the original OG…. Jen came from another one where she was the OG but not for LA

    • @jaclynwilliams7876
      @jaclynwilliams7876 Před rokem +6

      @@lukylady73 Exactly. I think they’re about to start trying to ice her out.

    • @SistaKeys83
      @SistaKeys83 Před rokem

      THAT PART! It was the complete lack of empathy in the moment Brooke confronted her

  • @lisaswrld
    @lisaswrld Před rokem +4

    Omgsh..You verbalized every point so clearly and rationally. Especially the Tasha k situation.

  • @Rae_rae81
    @Rae_rae81 Před rokem +10

    I love your videos. They really help me decompress after a long ass day. Thank you so much for doing what you do!

  • @Hestia134
    @Hestia134 Před rokem +11

    Everybody run them likes up 🆙 for funky 🙌🏽

  • @forever__unbothered3758

    Sir that last segment.. YES SIR!!!!!!! This needs to be said and heard on a larger platform.

  • @AmoMe2009
    @AmoMe2009 Před rokem +42

    Funky, when I tell you…your last video (about Kim Zolciak) was so damn accurate and hilarious…I almost peed my pants while driving listening to your rant through my car’s bluetooth. That video was EVERYTHING! Looking forward to listening to this phone call to Nessa!

    • @HappyWorkinMom
      @HappyWorkinMom Před rokem +6

      I loved every second of it!!!!

    • @AmoMe2009
      @AmoMe2009 Před rokem +3

      @@HappyWorkinMom yes! Facts! Every damn second!

  • @jeanninegorden8142
    @jeanninegorden8142 Před rokem +5

    So apparently Kroy filed papers, not her.

  • @iam_pariss
    @iam_pariss Před rokem +1

    I LOVE THAT YOU SO HONEST WITH US LISTENERS! WE LOVE YOU FOR THAT!

  • @TheSaintb23
    @TheSaintb23 Před rokem +20

    I hate how Jackie is being done bc she really in the beginning was apologetic. One thing we as people have to do is STOP trying to tell someone about their personal traumas. That really probably TRAUMATIZED Jackie so she fell back bc seriously what do you do?! I have grace for her bc I understand. I've lost both of my parents and my nephew was murdered. Yeah I was numb! 😢

    • @latoyajohnson8695
      @latoyajohnson8695 Před rokem +6

      I’m so very sorry for your loss love ❤️

    • @justdorcas3875
      @justdorcas3875 Před rokem +1

      How did Brooke losing her daughter traumatize Jackie crazy ass? Brooke problem with Jackie is that she's always telling them she adores them, cares for them, and they're her friends. When Brooke daughter passed Jackie didn't send flowers, text, call, or send a card. What Brooke should known is that Jackie does not care about any of those ladies, she is not a friend. She didn't even show concern for her grandchild when he was burned, so she definitely doesn't care about any of the ladies with her fake narcissistic ass.

    • @Klgray7373
      @Klgray7373 Před rokem +3

      Condolence cards & flowers are easy to send. Jackie could’ve did the minimum there. She always talks about a sisterhood

    • @Tzmocha
      @Tzmocha Před rokem +9

      ​@@Klgray7373but you got ppl in the comments saying they don't like flowers because they die and condolences feel hollow... there's no satisfying anyone. Ppl just got to do what feels natural and be ok with it

  • @Jae_Denee
    @Jae_Denee Před rokem +6

    Funky always gives a “Think outside the box” type of commentary. Please get a podcast!!!!!!

  • @sherocksweaves
    @sherocksweaves Před rokem +7

    I hope this becomes a thing ‘cause we love when Dineva calls us with the tea!

  • @nijacarter2492
    @nijacarter2492 Před rokem +4

    I’m so glad your doing more videos Funky this what the ppl and youtube needed ❤❤❤

  • @Feeee143
    @Feeee143 Před rokem +6

    I love that you’re calling us more now ❤❤❤

  • @TheOfficialEbonyprincess

    I just love Q and ALL his assertions! I agree with you 💯 % regarding your standards and personal convictions. Respect begets respect.

  • @MzDivaShy
    @MzDivaShy Před rokem +8

    I was waiting for your 2 cent 😂

  • @plt4life629
    @plt4life629 Před rokem +1

    Your growth has been phenomenal to watch! There’s no explanation needed sir YOU ARE AWESOME!! Keep rising and being a upper level human being!!
    Peace to you always!! ❤

  • @kellyperz6731
    @kellyperz6731 Před rokem +20

    Also, Bethenny does have a podcast where she educates the public about Housewives. Kim has a history of being materialistic and using people so I liked what Bethenny had to say. Pay your bills!

  • @prettykitty98ify
    @prettykitty98ify Před rokem

    listen I ain’t never ever heard an entertainment commentator add Maslow in their conversation! You’re brilliant! i’m so happy you’re reaping your blessings! you deserve it

  • @KeenLagerfeld
    @KeenLagerfeld Před rokem +4

    "Kroy look like he fight womens" 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @IamAlchemy78
    @IamAlchemy78 Před rokem +1

    And THIS is why I love you and your commentary!

  • @68skins28
    @68skins28 Před rokem +4

    Funky, bullseye on the ‘being there’ after a loss. Immediately after the loss of my husband and firstborn child, it was overwhelming. Most words were hollow. After my husband my nail tech said, “Don’t cry, you get new boyfriend.” Chiiiiile, say “Prayers for peace, healing and strength,” or “Thinking of you” if you don’t know what to say. And truth be told, most people are acknowledging to make themselves feel better. I’ve asked folks not to call/text on birthdays and death anniversaries because it could send me to the sunken place if I’m having a good day. One person said SHE wouldn’t feel good unless she acknowledged it to me. She still calls/texts on these dates even though I asked her not to do it.

  • @nightangel3578
    @nightangel3578 Před rokem +1

    Honeeeeeyyy... That part about Jonathan Majors was a whole word. I fully agree with you.

  • @vanabarnwell5081
    @vanabarnwell5081 Před rokem +11

    Bethany should have kept this as gossip amongst friends or comment off of social media. This is why I follow and subscribe to you. You are Real as real can get.

  • @DESIGNSBYVEE
    @DESIGNSBYVEE Před rokem +4

    @Funkey you are so right when I lost my husband I didn't want to talk to no one because I feel horrible and I didn't want anyone to comfort me. I just wanted to go through it and have my feelings so you are right about your feeling
    I feel the same way also about having a moment to yourself and then someone call and ignite the feeling that you weren't even thinking about at the moment. So thank you

  • @brittanym.1278
    @brittanym.1278 Před rokem +2

    Great video! I totally relate to not knowing what to do when people experience medical emergencies and death. I always feel so awkward and generally freeze. Thanks for always being so authentic!

  • @Zu-Noma
    @Zu-Noma Před rokem +9

    The EQ always shows itself,consistently👌🏾I agree re: liking genuine peace in my life & not seeking to start things with people I’m in close proximity with. I value lack of chaos.

    • @denisehenry3427
      @denisehenry3427 Před rokem

      😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂. It's a job hazard Q . ♥

  • @prayerworks6598
    @prayerworks6598 Před rokem +1

    I ♥️ Your Commentary ......!!! 🗣️🗣️

  • @Verti2LuTaylor
    @Verti2LuTaylor Před rokem +13

    Just told my daughter about you! Today is a great day!! All EARS😂😂❤u

  • @KingKajun
    @KingKajun Před rokem +1

    @FunkyDineva you are not wrong for prioritizing peace over clicks and views. Once you get to 35, you realize some stuff just isn’t worth the hassle. Keep doing what you’re doing.