Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade Split Bills 50/50, Elon Musk, No Working From Home
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- čas přidán 29. 08. 2024
- Chile, Gabrielle Union done ruffled the girls feathers when she revealed that she and NBA husband, Dwyane Wade split the bills 50/50. Most people reacted before they really unpacked the lives of the two celebrities. Let's unpack this!
Elon Musk says no one should work from home. He feels that it is not fair to the people who have jobs that won't allow them to work from home. He says it's a morality issue. I call bullsh!t. Let's discuss...
#GabrielleUnion #ElonMusk #funkydineva
Give Funky his MF flowers please! HE DON’T MISS!!!! 🙌🏾 Q, your ability to sensibly reason and observe is TOP TIER! I’m here for it!
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Yasss the best. From beginning to the end. Theme song, commentary, like being with a great friend. So much laughter 💐 🌹 🌸 🏵
I’m married and I pay ALL OF OUR BILLS! And I pour money in my kids pocket all the time! My husband is in ICU fighting for his life because he had a stroke. If I could have him back whole and healthy again- I would happily pay all of our bills. At the end of the day, you can have all the money in the world- it means absolutely nothing- if you don’t have your health.😢😢😢😢
100% Facts. 🙏🏾 up for your husband. I wish him healing and I wish peace & strength for you and your children.
💯 praying for you and your family and full recovery for your husband 🙏🏾
❤❤❤ My husband suffers from heart disease. A sick spouse isn’t easy.
PREACH!!!!!!!!! I CAN EXIT THE COMMENTS NOW!!!!!!
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 For your husband ❤
My husband and I both make 6 figures. We both put an amount in a shared account where all of our bills come out of. We keep a separate checking account for ourselves with all of the money that is left over.
Did your husband cheat on you and make a baby and you took him back and then paid bills?
I like this arrangement🙏🏾
@@meriah10 Are you referring to D Wade? Cuz they weren’t married when he made that child. They said they were on a break from the relationship all together.
@@nik-at-nitethey were engaged even if their were taking a break he decided to put her sexual health in danger
An amount? Is it 50%? A percentage of each salary? Just out of curiosity...
85% of my work related stress was the commute and getting to work on time. All the good jobs were at least an hour from my home or more. I hated it!!!! I hate commuting to work with a passion. If my current job changed their mind, I would look elsewhere because I just CAN'T and I'm not going back to the office!!!! No office politics. No catty behavior. No Karen's to deal with. I'm finally free and I intend on keeping it that way!
I get it…I don’t want to return either….retirement may be in my future…I’ll find a job that is remote and work 3 days instead of 5. 💅🏽
These are facts… I had anxiety going in the office. Commuting, talking to people I don’t really care about, office politics. Now I just do my job and shut down. Never been happier.
Its so freeing
My son and DIL usta travel an hour to 1 1/2 hours a day pre COVID, they now both work from home.
where do you work and how can I sign up?,,asap
The government and big business decided to end work from home because of the loss of money to businesses. People were spending less money on road tolls, gas, local restaurants at lunch time, and running over to the mall to buy unnecessary clothes. And that’s just a few examples. Everyone I know was saving a lot of money working from home. We are cogs in the wheel and they felt their funds slipping.🤷🏽♀️
Yes that’s the same thing I said. It never was the people in factories complaining that they have to work why should everyone else. Elon is full of it.
I’ll do you one better. These buildings are still being rented and leased as well as the equipment. They can’t offload it and that’s the real issue.
@@Mskrissimaria 🎯🎯🎯🎯
100%
That’s how I was with my ex husband. He wanted me to quit my job and everything. Glad I didn’t cuz he started acting a fool and I told him to gone on and his ass refused to pay child support and didn’t send shit for months and had I been a “kept” woman I would have had to deal with his cheating and disrespect. No ma’am Pam. He slipped up one time and said “I don’t have to leave shit I pay for everything” I said “you must be smoking cuz last I check I PAY HALF OF EVERYTHING “ and put his ass on out😂😂😂
Good for you sis! 👏🏽👏🏽My grandfather used to say Men like that believe They "Pay the Cost To Be The Boss" and they'll remind you every chance they get, cheat and act a damn Fool. He made sure his 5 daughters had great jobs so they would Never have to depend on a man. My mom and my 4 aunts are happily retired and although they all were once married they always made their own money! They outlived their husband's and continue to live well today..
@@mrshappilymarried1 "pay the cost to be the boss" A WORD 👏🏾
If people saw what I saw during my banking days, they’d have deeper conversations about money. Let’s just say I saw some things and saw some ppl get left high and dry. I’m not even going to get in the stuff ppl told me when I was a financial counselor.
I know that's right,sis!
PERIOD 💅🏾
I was a stay at home mom for 4 yrs and I had to take my ass back to work 3 months ago. This man took car of me n three kids for 4 yrs but we couldn’t do it no more. We not 5050 cuz he makes more than me. But to be able to contribute and also have my lil spending $ and save a couple dollaz feels good af!
I hear that 💯
I heard a finance expert say instead of paying 50/50, partners should contribute the same percentage % of their income. Because whether a person makes 20k annually and their partner makes 100k... there both still giving up the same percentage of there income.
@@ashleybrown6199 now that’s smart!!!
@Ashley Brown Suze Otman talked about the 70/30 percentage ratio for couples, especially if one person makes a lot more than the other.
This! I receive my VA Benefits but I am currently looking for a Job since my Youngest will be starting School this Year. You’re right being able to contribute a little bit makes ME feel Happy!
Quiet as it kept, people don't want to work in the office not only due to micromanagement, but the mess that many of the "coworkers " keep up in the office. The average person just want to do their job to the best of their ability and go home, but in the office there's covert operations taking place. You never know who's reporting back to the boss about you even when you mind your business. Don't be an introvert that really causes unnecessary problems for you. I could elaborate more, but then it would turn into writing a term paper lol.
Girl heavy on the don’t be an introvert! Ppl can’t stand to see a person mind their business & to themselves or selectively socializing.
Whew! ALL of this and I too agree about being an introvert and unbothered 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
I agree! Those same people also find ways to harass when people wfh, too. They send chats and emails asking things they already know or can easily look up to see if people are at their desks and they sit in shared files watching people work (or not work, they hope).
Thank you get I've gotten in trouble for being an introvert. One of my old managers was like "I can't figure you out". I don't want you to I want to do my work and mind my business that's it. At this point I'm not even that concerned about being a manager or team lead because that involved ass kissing that I don't want to do.
SPEAK ON BEING AN INTROVERT! I've gotten let go from jobs that I was doing well in simply because I like to keep personal and professional separate, am polite to everyone, so my job and go home.
Seriously! Let go for doing the job that I was hired to do and not getting involved in office mess and politics.
I was and am to this day, still confused. Like..... why are people so miserable?!
Thank you! People always use their grandparents as an example back when owning a home and raising a family was affordable on $45k a year.
Not back in the day. It depends on your financial situation. There are still marriages where the woman keeps her money and the homes coast 500,000.00
@Teresa Autrey I get what you're saying, but that's not the norm, definitely the exception.
It's the norm in all cultures except blacks
@@teresaautreyexperience I think you missed her point. I believe she was saying in today’s time because of the cost of living, most families need 2 earners and payers of bills…if they want to live comfortably.
@@nikitawashington9328 EXACTLY - 👏🔥✅ 💯, we are the ONES doing it wrong which why OUR community IS SO 🫣😞☹️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾
100% agree with the WFH comments! I get way more done at home than in the office with ppl coming to my desk all day talking my head off!
I read Gabrielle's first book and in it she talks about how she was the only person paying her bills in her first marriage and after they divorced I think she had to pay alimony and fight for all the things she paid for. Knowing that, it makes 100% sense that she wants to be 50/50 in this marriage regardless of their incomes. Mama is trying to make sure if they dont make it, theres no question who paid what and who gets what.
True, but if I were him, I would just already have my own stuff lined up elsewhere without her knowledge anyway if we're both going to come with the same energy through experience. That way there's no argument, she just takes what's there, and I dip out immediately. I hate when stuff gets dragged out, and people that make that much money don't need to fall for the lifestyle creep either. They just choose to. I'm getting me one of those tiny houses out the way somewhere and let her and the kids live in all the mansions they want.
You sincerely give me something to look forward to 😊. Thank you!
THAT PART!!
Also, her family sat Dwayne Wade down and questioned his motives for wanting to marry their daughter!!
Right, and he can't say she didn't contribute.
@Anna R the he owns everything & she owns nothing…
I have a high value husband and I am a stay at home mom. My husband is one of the few who still sees being a mom, supportive wife and CEO of the household as contributing to the household. He’s has NEVER made me feel less than and never thrown money in my face. I thank God for my OGA. We’ve been married almost 16 years. ❤
That was genuinely beautiful and that is a genuine partnership.
WFH was the best thing that happen to me. As a parent, I have my kid here and I don’t have to pay an extra fee for someone to watch my child. We already can’t afford to pay for the cost of living. Leave ppl who wfh alone. It’s very beneficial for ppl who have to juggle a lot outside the office.
Say that! Especially when you see stuff damn near everyday of these daycare workers abusing children. Smh
I love working work from home
I love working from home.
Yes! I’ve been wfh for 3 years now and I’m applying for jobs and the hybrids aren’t attractive to me lol 😂
@@crystalmackle5829What job do you work from home. Please and thank you.
After the pandemic, there is absolutely no reason for us to come into any office daily!
Say it again for the people in the Byke! 😂
Moral of the story “stay out them rich people business” 😂 unless they trying to pull me in to be a third and pay ALL my bills I personally don’t give a damn.
We could if Gabrielle stopped talking 😂
You are right as rain Funky! Rich folks 50/50 is totally different from the working class 50/50. Also, I'm a mom of a 20 yr old son. My only child, and I raised him to surround himself with like minded people. People who have something to lose. Be it friends and/or girlfriends. He's in college, and had his future career goals planned since high school. He takes care of his business, and he should be able to want a young woman who does the same. It's hard out here. We need resourceful men and women.
You teaching your son to go 50/50 with his wife? No wonder this men ain't men no more.
Quiet as its kept the ones that are mad will never understand the pressure of carrying damn near they whole family on their back.
Right? These are the same bitches who want men to do so much for them, but never appreciate how big an ask that really is... but they think it's easy for men because they're men. 🙄
Most black women are bread winners and single mothers running their households so they deffinitely understand that pressure.
Dwayne is worth 250 million.. that's why ppl are shocked by her saying that..I careless it works for them
That's why everyone should have their own, even it's not on the same level, we should all as adults be able to contribute and or support ourselves.
Definitely! My mom felt like she didn't have a voice when it came to my dad, because he was the "man of the house." She went back to school, graduated with a career, and very much found her voice.
I thought that was a given…
@@LilithTheAquarian369 it should be, but for the ones who want to be kept and be stay at home wives/moms, they don’t realize that it comes with a cost. The question is what cost do they want to pay? Many of them don’t realize the price they’ve until they’re hemmed up with a ninja and had several kids and dependent on his money...
I love how Gabrielle Union just be having casual conversations and yet seem to always blow up the internet.
EVERYTIME! Idk WHY people so invested in peoples lives smh. Let them LIVE ITS OBVIOUSLY WORKING
@@tequilla-mc5ss thank you. She seems to be in a healthy and happy relationship
Funky, you be telling WAAAY too many truths, AND I'M HERE FOR IT!!!!
I hit the accept button so fast!!!
So did I 😂😂
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Accept button?
Me too! And, I turned on notifications!!! I need more Funky in my life! 😍
And you hit it slam on the head with these YTS and working from home. Their lives are so tied in JOB TITLE that they can’t stand being home and no one know they have a ‘position’.
Some people have roles that don't require them to do a whole lot. They go to work, walking around and looking busy. Working from home may mean they're actual output is more obvious. Plus there are those who are viewed favorably because of all the shmoozing and politiking they do at work. They can't kiss ass the same way from home.
Thank you Funky. These women screaming against 50/50, don’t realize how a spouse can try to put your ass out because they’re the only ones contributing. Also, I’ve seen the average working/middle class man who pays all the bills, cheat on your ass and you’re not allowed to ask about his comings/goings. Women, please learn how to be self sufficient and work as a partnership in your marriage.
I mean you can still experience all that going 50/50 or you can not experience any of that with the man paying all the bills. I personally feel to each their own on how you handle finances but this logic is so tired. Abuse is based on character not the fact they are a provider. Too many of y’all make this statement as if it’s an either or situation. Either go 50/50 or get cheated on and abused like what??
@@kayleethebabe Well, I’m sorry I rather be self sufficient and not rely on a man, but God. Also, I’ve been married before and have mixed reviews. However, I’m glad I had my own money when it was time to bounce. I’ve seen women endure BS because they couldn’t survive on their own. Lastly, depending on the the reason for separation/divorce, you’re going through war and neither parties are the same individuals who fell in love. Be blessed…
@@kayleethebabe you’re so right about that. You said a key word character , because in this case with Gabriell only she knows why she stay in a relationship where she were cheated on and her husband had a baby while on break. money or not man and woman need to learn to share and respect each other. Because me with all my money I don’t think I could stay with a man that cheated on me while we on a break plus had a baby with another woman . Something is wrong here and again I’m not judging her .
I wish I could high five you cause u just set the house straight!
@@brangeeellis3083 Thank you sister. Right back at you.
Funky, I have to disagree but you are right in the fact that every relationship is unique and if it works for her it works for me. I would not be doing the 50/50 thing.
I agree with you on the 50/50 scam. From the interview it’s obviously not working for Gabrielle otherwise why raise it for others to know?!
Facts
@@byst8729 because she was talking about loads of things and it came up?? Yes it works for them lol
I 1000% AGREE with EVERYTHING you said!!! It's sad that so many people have this distorted reality of how healthy partnerships work. Social media and reality TV has created a fairytale reality.
PREACH!!!!
Thank you for saying this.
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WHEN he right he RIGHT.
Yess I agree!
So true!! I have the same job I had before the pandemic but we are now permanently working from home and my mental state has improved 90%. This is for exactly the reason you stated in the post!!!!
Say it!!!! Both my man and I are doing WELL financially and we go 50/50 and WE live good. If me or him fall off, either can hold US up.
Facts
As a woman, having your own money is still undefeated - Kim Foster ❤
Same here!🙌🏾
This, it’s a risk for all the financials to be on one person. What if something happens to that person.
@@imiandcole Why do Black women enjoy being co-breadwinner with men. I don't find this with other cultures where men are raised to provide and lead the household?
The work from home issue is this: they dont want to pay rent on a empty building. That is all it is. There is a lot of commercial real estate sitting empty. So all those real estate developers are pushing for people to go back into the office.
Agreed. In addition, the fact that people are not going into the office -- especially in downtown areas--impacts the businesses that rely on workers coming into the office. It is an economic domino effect.
I agree with both of y’all. That’s exactly what it is. It’s about money. They can’t say out loud that ppl need to come into the office to get our moneys worth and so we don’t have to fire maintenance workers and security. Productivity actually decreases when people are in the office so that’s not a valid point either.
Then cut your costs and do hoteling. You can reduce your costs for building overhead. Transportation expenses. Put those dollars into more beneficial programs.
Say it! And didn't it come out a little while back that Twitter was behind on their rent? Allegedly Elon didn't actually want to buy Twitter, so now he's trying to get his money's worth.
@@deitralee1927 This! It impacts the economy. Less people needing gas, needing new cars, car maintenance, less needing to spend money for lunch near the office, less money spent on work clothes and shopping,etc…the economics of going to a physical job for 8 hours is just one reason “they” (the govt) doesn’t want people wfh
One thing about Q, he is definitely educated about a lot of real life issues
Yup, one thing for certain and two things for sure!
He’s realistic and practical…
I grew up in a household where both my parents worked and contributed to bills equally. We are immigrants to this country; the only way we were able to survive is because both my parents financially contributed to the household. They now own three homes. In the same way that I won't foot all the bills of the household, I don't expect my partner to do that either. That is a lot of pressure and stress on anyone.
That’s why your parents were able to build wealth. Good for you and your family!
Exactly!!
You are sensible
Immigrants til this day know the plus side of working together.. I will always admire their willingness to work together ❤️
Amm, men who want a woman going fifty fifty while she's holding down a job, the home and kids do not want what's best for you. A good man recognises you're doing more than just a job outside the home and acts accordingly. Women need to stop tying themselves to men who take advantage of them. That same man will ditch you when he makes it for a preference who then pays no bills. Men aren't loyal
I’m getting spoiled with this daily commentary Q!!!!❤❤❤
I'm so grateful that you have this platform! My husband and I watch you all the time! I also tell all of my friends that you are one of the most emotionally intelligent people that I've ever come across. The people in the comment sections calling her a roommate are so weird.
They are so weird indeed. She is smart for taking care of her business. All these lane ass men have a problem with 50/50. They need to stop.
I just don’t understand why many of the people that are so critical aren’t married or ever have been. Many people think because they’ve been in relationships they know about marriage. The fact that they think that they are one in the same tells that they don’t know the difference. Being married is something that you have had to be apart of to speak about it.
I’m loving these videos. Keep them coming.
Yesss😂
Funky, you are so right. I was with a man that paid it all. It was his idea, but whenever we had a fight, he would throw that in my face. Next time, I will do 50/50
I had a ninguh pull that bs and he was living in an apartment 😂. I would stay a couple nights out of the week and go home. He stayed out 1 night while I was there. He told me when you pay a bill up in here then you can dictate when I come and go 😳 well that smart azz statement didn't work out well for him. 😂
Black women are soooo damn loss....Thank God for my Latin King cause you Mammies....I just can't relate to yall begging to be a nigga's roommate 🤣
Man. You hit the nail in the coffin about working from home. I’m dealing with that now. I transitioned into a hybrid schedule and I’m not a fan. I get way more done at home instead of being in the office over hearing unnecessary conversations and having people disrupt me all day to have small talk. And it was definitely a old white man that wanted us to come back to work, but it was the middle aged 0:45 white women that was advocating for us to come back too. 🙄
That's because most of them hate their home lives or are in competition with their spouse.
Them heffas are lonely! That’s why they wanna go back to the office 😆
It's lazy people who want to go back 2 the office because from home they'd actually have 2 work and anything that goes wrong they have to take responsibility. I actually agree with Q
Our office had already been working from home 2 days a week for about 5 years before Covid hit, so it was a pretty easy transition to wfh 5 days/week. Wfh is great, and our productivity increased.
Some people moved out of state during the pandemic, and once we started going back to office, those people who moved didn’t want to come in 2 days a week, our new wfh standard. So they had to find new jobs. That’s what happens if you don’t want to come in; you find a job that’s 100% remote.
Chile I don't know the last time we done heard from you this much. I'm here for it though! 🙌🏾👏🏾❤️ *Que the intro music! 💃🏾 💃🏾💃🏾*
I'm enjoying it 😁😁❤
The reality of the situation is we don’t want to work at a job that can be shut down at any minute. These days finding a work from home jobs mean making sure the company has the ability to adapt to a pandemic. I think smart companies are figuring this out and evolving accordingly.
Also I would imagine it's much safer to stay at home.
This is what Married ppl do regardless of the breakdown. And however they choose, that is their business to decide. This is also what happens when Celebs talk too much. It opens the door for low level thinking of how to carry a household.
The power dynamic is exactly what it is. She’s not with it. 50/50 works for them. However as a married couple, it’s strange that she admittedly WORRIES about money….
She has a poverty mindset
If I was supporting several households I would always be worried if I have enough money too.
I didn’t know you stopped worrying about money when you got married
Rich people go broke, and she definitely should worry 😖🥱💅🏾
@@angeleyes3386 when you have 9 figures of collective net worth, I thought you did.
“Do y’all honestly think mamas raise they sons these days to be taken advantage of by some stankin’ selfish bitch?”
I barely held my drink in my mouth without choking!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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And judging from a lot of the comments, a lot of future single ladies let that shit go over their head.
And I agree with you about WFH! As someone who was forced to come back to the office or lose my job I can tell you its not about productivity its about micro management period!
Gabrielle Union said she worries if her movie bombs because she takes care of other households. Being married to a MULTI- millionaire you shouldn’t have to worry. She has money but she doesn’t have Dwyane’s money. They’re not on the same level.
That is what stood out to me the most. The fact that she feels worry, anxiety and concern about staying afloat and making sure her movies/shows do well at all times. All while standing next to a multi-millionaire husband. She is NOT single and shouldn’t have to worry about finances in that way if she’s married to someone like him.
Right. That isn't fair. He watching on and can't help her. Does she have businesses besides the movies?? Cause mame
@@candylove49 She WORRIES about the relatives that SHE assumes responsibility for that HE isn't responsible for. What does she do for HIS family that HE supports?
These comments are ridiculous. He has her back, but that doesn’t mean she isn’t her own person. For her to depend on him as an independent person means she’s not an adult with agency. A slave. I commend her.
Word ! I wouldn't split Jack with Dwayne or anyone with his wallet smh ! You can do Bad all by yourself 😢
Honestly, Gabrielle is smart because, as you said Funky, when a man is paying all the bills, he has control. Women have to be careful about power dynamics in relationships. I firmly believe in doing what works for you and your household. However, women need to be aware that many men equate being 100% financially responsible with complete control over you and the home. Gabrielle doesn't have to pay bills she CHOOSES to as a way to keep a portion of control and keep her marriage a partnership. I'm not mad at her.
But it doesn’t have to be 50/50 should based on the fact one earns more than the other. In her situation 70/30 or 80/20 would make sense to me. It would give her the feeling of control/contributing with enough money left over to take care of the other responsibilities.
I respect a man who understands that women in general have more expenses than men (hair, nails, feminine care, clothes, socialising with girlfriends, buying gifts etc).
I heard a finance expert say instead of paying 50/50, partners should contribute the same percentage % of their income. Because whether a person makes 20k annually and their partner makes 100k... there both still giving up the same percentage of there income.
@@ashleybrown6199 That makes sense
@@ashleybrown6199 you copying and pasting boo. We get it
@@andreamitchell485 ? I didn't know I had a follower on here hey babes. Yeah I do have a different stance from others commenting. Contribute based off income.
You alway spitting the truth. As a factory worker who is learning to day trade forex and indices. Working from home is the goal, Elon was lame for that. Much love n many blessing to ya ❤❤
Let me say this, I was once (many moons ago) a stay-at-home wife to a man who paid EVERY bill in our household. He carried all the financial responsibility, but as SOON as he got upset - it was HIS house & it didn’t matter that I took care of the home & he never lifted a finger, save to take out the garbage. That power dynamic is a trip baby, no lies told.
I’m so happy Funky! Your videos are Everything to me!!😂👍🏾💁🏾♀️💜💜💜See you tonight on Tea:GIF!!
My only question about these people’s business is why are y’all taking care of all these other households? Why are they feeling obligated to do that?
That’s what the hell I was thinking
Especially to the point where its stressing Gabrielle out to this extent.
Aint nothin wrong with them folks splitting the bills chile smh lol. People just want something to talk about.
I disagree with the Gabrielle union segment. He came into it with 5 children and she had none. Ain’t no way. And had another baby on top of that 🙅🏿♀️ it ain’t about money it’s about securing the household. Also she said if she doesn’t work she can’t pay. That ain’t wealth that sound like struggle.
He did not have 5 children when they got married he had 2 from ex wife then the break baby. Where you get 5 from???
Exactly. Q is loud and wrong with this one. This ain't it.
I hadn't even thought of that. Paying half of all bills when your partner has that many kids and uses up more space/utilities/food wouldn't make sense for me. But I also wouldn't be with someone who has 5 kids (and a wife at the time too right?), so there's that. lol
@@keyshacook9546 he's raising his nephew too and didn't he have 3 with his ex and then the other child? So don't know these people but it might sound like struggle. People assume rich people are solid but are they
😮😮😮 I forgot he had an outside baby
Q!!!!❤️❤️❤️ You have made my entire month with the videos! Keep'em coming hunni!🔥🔥
I don’t do 50/50 and my husband would never ask me for 50/50!! We good over here. Every relationship is different
I agree…thank God for my husband. Every relationship is different. I contribute in other ways that makes us 50-50.
I just wanted to say…….I love you, Funky. You have become my friend. And I’ve watched you grow so much over the years. I’m proud of you bro. I celebrate your growth, maturity, and success. Much more to come for you.
Grown folks wallets are THEIR business...Q 🔥 commentary as always...
You been throwing these videos out!! I’m here for it!!
Funky, you are SOOOOOOO right. It takes the wife and the husband to make a comfortable living with the way price of living is today.
Gabrielle Union said she cheated on her first husband because she was paying all the bills and she felt that gave her the right to cheat.
Wow ahahahhahahahaaah
Her 1st husband was cheating and using Gabby's money on other women. That marriage was out of fear of being 30 and single.
Not saying that it's right for Gabby U to cheat, but her husband cheated first.
He was cheating on her first and spending her money.
First mistake was her paying all the bills!
Imagine going 50/50 with the multimillionaire that had a break baby on you. Chile please pay ME for my pain!!
Hi, when did he have the break baby?
@@samanthahodge6306
The child was born months before they got married
@@samanthahodge6306 he has a 9 year old son named Xavier with Aja Metoyer
@@mechiawilson164 Thank you.
@@jacquelinef7174 really, dam
I’m never working in an office again. I’m good wfh all day everyday. I save a whole lot of money, I don’t miss the gossip, dirty looks and sharing toilets. I get more work done at home.
Quinton, that degree in economics came in handy today 🤣🤣🤣 I love it!
We hear her but u not finsta have a side baby while im struggling with fertility, then I gotta eat cho 🍑🍑 and we finna split 50/50 and I still have financial anxiety ….
Umm this definitely still qualifies for basic bish problems
Either way they both need to TAKE US OUT THE GROUP CHAT! We dont need them to give us their details ! This is a celebrity cpl that would greatly benefit from staying out of the public and social media with their business
Yes I'm sick of them and Chrissy Teigen and John Legend
@@pgdarling301add to the top of the lists the Smiths
You are voluntarily in the group chat lol. You don’t have to click on content with them in it.
And they dont have to give the details of their flawed weird family
She feels like she needs to go 50/50 because of power dynamic, age difference, and trauma. Money equals control that's why she felt open to cheat when she was a breadwinner. He had a break baby...I'm sure that baby mama is provided for. This was a cry for help and Gabby is tired. 50/50 may be okay but not equitable. It should match the income distribution. I went to finance down to FSU as well and the math ain't mathing.
Gabrielle and Dwayne can do what they want; it's their business. But successful Black men aren't dating successful Black women but that is a discussion for a different day. As a person that work from home in corporate and worked in healthcare for 15 years prior, I will NOT return to the office. Working from home has changed my life; less anxiety, especially as a Black woman. Many companies are bringing people back in the office due to real estate. There is a splash of wanting people back due to potlucks, and having the power to micromanage. Elon Musty is the reason why I refuse to return to the office. Keep the videos coming!!
Working from home saves me 2hours back and forth to go sit in a desk and do what I’m doing at home! I actually get more done
Don't agree with you Funky! But so GLAD TO SEE YOU ON MY SCREEN & Back to giving us some content. I missed your commentary & I APPRECIATE YOU & YOUR OPINION
I remember my soon to be ex husband tried that 50/50 mess with me and he was clearing well over 10K a month and I was working part-time!
I'm glad he's your ex...50/50 is a scam.
Now that was just a real dick move on his part. The title ex will deserved too
"YOU BETTA BUY YOUR FREEDOM ✊🏿✊🏿
YOU BETTA BUY YOUR FREEDOM ✊🏿" 😆😂😆 hes not lying
Whatever works for each person's home, works for them. I made 6 figures. My husband makes 7 figures. We both made the decision for me to not work in corp america anymore. He had enough to take care of us and we both agreed that we both shouldnt be stressed the hell out. I am his peace and i make sure our house is peaceful and taken care of. He makes the money, but I keep the household ruining!
This is exactly how my household works. My husband makes great money too and I run the house. He doesn't have to worry about anything when he gets home. Thats the 50/50 dynamic for us. lol And we've been happily married for almost 24 years. We're good!
I follow my parents and grandparents example: one pot; ain’t no 50/50. We built ours TOGETHER, and we spend it together. 💯💯
PERIODT!!! Just celebrated my 32nd anniversary and we have a few “pots” but both our names on EVERYONE of them!!!
*My parents went all in* My dad made 3x what my mom made but mom worked even picked up a part time job at points in our lives. When Dad was building their money and investing for retirement or pay for college, cars, weddings for 4 girls, he had to save and cut the budget to build. So mom was resourceful, honored the budget and picked up some extra work on her accord so we the kids didn’t feel it. My Dad built a NICE retirement for them, amassed enough to spills over into their future generations. They were partners, my mom was a helpmeet. And Dad honors my mom for working with him to allow him to amass what he was able to build. She got the first and best of everything. They had joint accounts and my dad set up a separate account just for my mom made sure that she knew she has autonomy even though she submitted to his leadership. *They were partners* They knew their role, both sacrificed in their own ways, and worked together to accomplish the goal. Mom was a helpmeet, not a dependent or a boss. Dad was a leader not a dependent or a tyrant. Doesn’t work for everyone but I think they got it right for them.
Always on time with these notifications 🤩 Great video, Funky Dineva‼️
Speak, Funky! 🗣️ You hit the nail on the head. My health improved drastically when I started working from home. My productivity increased, no morning stress to get to work, and do much more. I could go on and on!
I aint going 50/50 with a man that's worth 3xs more than I am! PERIODT
Thank you for saying this! I am so sick of these random workshops about “embracing your feminine energy” and not splitting bills or being a roommate. Half of us do not know that life and will not be living a DWade and Gab U lifestyle. COL is expensive.
You don't that life because you choose to be with Tyrone.
Some of Black women can pull a Brad who provides 100% for us. So there's THAT 😉
Listen, Q better get these closing costs! We are down to the title company. Let's go, content✊🏾
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When Covid-19 broke out the best thing my job could have done for me was to find a way for us to work from home I saved on travel time, the frustrations of traffic jams every morning and the time it takes to get dressed make my coffee and pack my lunch it was a blessing I worked from home the entire pandemic the only reason I stopped is because I retired after 33 years I had enough it was a very stressful job but I grateful to be able to continue to work through the pandemic. I think any job that can be done from home the employees should have that option or limit in office days to maybe 2 days a week, definitely not 5 days.
I totally agree on your Elon Musk points!! Our job never set a policy after the pandemic. There are ppl who are remotely 100%, some hybrid and some in the office. It doesn't bother me that ppl don't come up here, i like giving flexibility. Its definitely a control issue.
Agreed. Micro-managing at its finest and it’s all about trust, or the lack thereof. After the pandemic, our City Council (I’m from The Netherlands) decided to change their policy into 50/50. For me it means working 3.5 days from home and 1 day at the office as I work part time. Because of this new policy, the City has already ended the lease of several buildings to lower the costs. Win-win! 😊🙌🏾
You better preach Funky!! I have been married for 27 years and me and Husband have had our ups and downs when it came to our finances . At times he made more money than me and at times I made more money than him. We DO split the bills when it make sense. It’s been times he had to pay 100% when I was off on bed rest with my first pregnancy. He went and got two jobs.
So yes it can be 50/50 60/40 70/30 when your partnership is right.
It was HER idea to split the bills 50/50. She said that a few years ago, and she asked for a prenup.
When the workplace/department is toxic… working from home is a bonus and such a blessing.. once the worker know their role and productivity is sufficient.. why not allow them to work from home! Boss who think like that mad because they don’t have a warm body in the building to yell at blame or vent.. executives and the “big” dogs carry y’all tail into the office every now and then and delegate business!!! They mad because ppl have some peace of freedom mine and don’t have to engage with others that don’t know how to conduct themselves in the workplace
I had no problem with it, whatever they decide to do with their martial finances it’s there business!!
With Dwayne being worth roughly 175 million and Gabbie being worth 40 million, the 50-50 split doesn’t seem fair to me considering both are still taking care of other households including a household that was created on me on the ‘side’ allegedly. They got it though! Go head nie rich people! 👌🏾
I heard a finance expert say instead of paying 50/50, partners should contribute the same percentage % of their income. Because whether a person makes 20k annually and their partner makes 100k... there both still giving up the same percentage of there income.
@@ashleybrown6199 I’m simply here for what’s fair in my household but respect to what works for others 🙏🏾
@@ashleybrown6199 that’s what me & husband do
Tell’em Q 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 spot on with both topics as usual!
This both educated me and cracked me up. Only Funky 😭
I haven’t worked outside of my home since 2015, and I’m not going back. They can email me if they need something like they’ve been doing.
Lol. I am working towards this.
Completely agree with Dewayne and Gabrielle perspective! You are absolutely right.
Well I thank God my husband is old school (100%), even though I could pay everything myself if I need to. I'm retired Military with a great income for most. Their level is a totally different situation, and Gawd speed for them.❤ I met my husband when I had my own Business ( with a 6 fiqure income) over 25 + years ago, then I choose to go to Military before it was too late.
Hey Funky!!! You know you're preaching chile. Thank you!
And that’s why I chose to be a teacher! Summers and breaks off…YOU pick your career lol and I know what I could and couldn’t handle 💯💯💯💯💯
Today, Sir…..You served the people a dose of mind your MF business! You tell no lies, and you preached the whole truth and nothing but the truth today and I am definitely here for it. You made some excellent points and as another of you were said, you definitely deserve your flowers because you be serving up the truth all the time! Love ya Nessa girl🤭
Dwayne Wade brought three additional people to the household, he should cover 75 percent.
My husband and I treat each other with equal respect and he carries all the financial weight. Nevertheless, he is from the generation baby boom and I'm from generation X. There were a few times I felt like working and I always kept my earnings. BUT Funky you're 1000 % right! Unfortunately TODAY, you don't find men like that anymore. We are both retired and recently moved to Europe. However, I do feel a strong desire to create my hobbies and start a small business to keep myself engaged.
Before I retired I was working from home and I was definitely more productive because I didn’t have my coworkers stopping to talk to me, my boss stopping to talk to me and that 2 1/2 daily travel time turned into work time
Wow Funky you went all the way in with facts on both topics. I can listen to you talk all day. Great job 👏🏾
You are dropping facts and gems throughout this video. And so funny.
Hello Que, preach! Your commentary is always appreciated! 👏🏽 👏🏽 🎉
She said 50/50 of the bills not of her check. You have girls (and I do mean girls) out here paying 100% of their welfare checks while he laying up unemployed in her Section 8 housing eating off her foodstamps. Calling him the man of the house. Give me a dam break.
I'd like to add another reason that upper management want people in the office. They have already spent top dollar leasing office space. It pisses them off when people work from home. In their minds, they are wasting money. I am experiencing this BS right now.
At some point people have to stop trying to live by someone else’s standards and focus on what works for them. Do what makes sense in your household. Some relationships don’t suffer from uneven power dynamics due to who puts in what, yet others do. I’m so over the whole male/female divide. If 50/50 works, it works for them. Some of the same people having fun at her expense are sick of their partner who expects them to do full time house work when they get home from their 9-5 due to gender roles and they are unhappy.
I been working from Home BEFORE Covid. Since 2010 ( at first didn't like it BUT if grew on me Now I love it )❤❤