10 Lessons in Life People Learn TOO LATE
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- čas přidán 20. 08. 2021
- Have you ever wished that you had all the answers in life and could use that knowledge to navigate you through life’s ups and downs? What are the life lessons we learn too late? Becoming aware of them now can help you move through this part of your life a little bit more easily.
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Writer: Joshua Munoz
Script Editor: Vanessa Tao
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Bry Gavino
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Damn they got straight to it
And I like that😁
As an INTJ, I was quite surprised.
I like dat!
I was thinking the same thing like I excepted a hey guys 😂
Same 😂😂😂 I was like, A little hello would be nice
Serendipity ✌🏻🦋🌈
0:01 1. Time doesn't last forever
1:54 2. You need to take the risk
2:27 3. Don't act like someone you're not
2:54 4. Take care of your body
3:21 5. Don't be too tough on yourself
3:53 6. Building strong relationships
4:17 7. Life throws curveballs
4:48 8. Material goods don't bring your life joy
5:24 9. Don't give up too quickly
5:58 10. Be grateful
Thank you ❤️
thanks! this helped me a lot!😊💙
@@_xwxw_ you're welcome :D
I haven't done 4 and 5 (with some of 6 in there as well). Good old Number 7 is great at further punishing other mistakes as well I have noticed.
11. You will be forgotten & replaced
7-14 year olds watching this:
*i see this video as an absolute win*
im 26 😞
My 16 year old self: hey~
@@juno2916 it's never too late to start :)
@@minecraftstation6422 true
I’m 16 rn and I’m thankful for this vid and for all the people in my life that helped me live my best life and I know that life is just gonna keep getting better
Everyone agrees that when psych2go goes to therapy the therapist tells her about his problems
This confused me.
Even therapist need another therapist
People may be having a tough life but....I respect them for being strong and never giving up so, We may not know each other but....We love you strangers
Wow ur username....
@Death where did you get your profile picture ??🖤💀
111 likes when i first saw your comment ^ I love you too ❤️
@@taesrose9028 in the internet
@@harmoniousandtranquilhannah We love you too :)
I'm only 30 and I already agree with all of this. Pay attention, youngsters.
High five!
T^T
I am 29 but consider myself on the same page at these so called youngsters still tbh
I'm 29, too and I regret a few things I have/haven't done. Doing things that just voided my time on earth, I could have done a lot or learned a lot of other things that could have made it easier for me in the future. I think I am tipping the scales now, though it is a little difficult finding the motivation to manifest these changes if you realize how much time has already passed, especially when you compare yourself to others. Don't. Life is not a race, really.
Guys, 29 is literally nothing. I feel very grateful and very lucky that I was able to realize these kind of things but it was hard as hell and I know it could've been easier had I someone to give me advice. So just take this seriously if you are in that process, learn all you can, look up to people slightly ahead, be strong and just live. You're babies still, but anyways it's never ever too late.
The fact that I learned all of these life lessons as a young child I'm not sure whether its a sad thing or good thing. The one in my mind the most was time doesn't last forever.
It’s a good thing, the reason why is because now that you know about everything you gotta be careful about and be grateful for, you have the chance to make the most out of your life starting from your child years all the way to the end which is great
And I used to always start feeling anxious and afraid whenever someone would talk about time not lasting forever, but then I learned that having a life that never ends would eventually get boring so now that our time is limited, it motivates us to do stuff now and be greater now instead of just wasting it, and be sure to not think about the past or future, it’s ok to think about them a little but they should never be the main thing in your mind, the main thing in your mind should always be the present, the friends and family you have now, the goals you have now, the activities you have now, etc. so start making the most out of your life now so that you can have your best life ever, don’t live a life of regret, live a life of happiness and accomplishment
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@@AxxLAfriku I'm on max render distance and still can't find who asked
@@paivaz1251 -This is meant to be a positive space. Don't make yourself involved just to bring people down just because you don't see the appeal.-
It was brought to my attention this "AxxL" user is actually spamming on random comments
@@SlyceCaik but axxL was bringing people down
your videos literally make me cry because i have never trusted anyone in my life to show them my real self. They always see my mask and not me, so they dont know what I want or need or what i am going through rn. But when i watch your videos i am like this is what i exactly needed. And as a person who never... who you know.. never tells people whats going on my mind, i find it very soothing and comforting.
It's okay, shhhhhh, here have a cookie 🍪 *pats back*
I have no idea if his helps but heres a nice headpay
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0:35
Translation:
Hello friends! Thank you for all your support. We love you all. Messi is the best!
Edit: as a spanish native speaker myself, I find it so sweet you want to learn the language! Good luck /g ^^
WOW! Thanks!! You got it! :D
Thx for the translation !
Yo lo entendi como "Messi esta mejor", creo que no soy bueno ni para mi idioma jajajaja
I also traduce it but as a french native speaker, who learnt spanish in high school... I miss the *We love you*
@@Psych2go ^^
I love the fact this is actually animated. Why isnt anyone else talking about this, it's so smooth!
Meow!
@@Psych2go yeah, but really who ever animated this is a genius. I'm really impressed by the quality and the amaz9ng facial expressions
Can I just say I love the art style this episode?
Would you like to see more of this?
@@Psych2go It would be nice...
@@Psych2go I'd like too, was cute and simple
It was adorable
@@cherryheartssz yuh
Really wish this sort of information was available when I was younger, I'd have had a head start rather than starting pursuing my dream career at 29 🙄
It is never too late :D
Well at least you can pursue you dream career. My social phobia didn't allow it. Now I'm starting games programming at 29 but it's only my third "dream job" and I'm suffering chronic headaches from drug use and don't even know if I'll be able to be good at it or if I'll be able to look at a screen that long without being in too much pain. 🙄
@@pommemelon7026 force yourself to think you can do it and you will
@@jrush5080 Thank you for the support
My mom say be yourself try not to be other people follow your own dog pound people upstairs miss you where you want to go upstairs help other people pooping in Shores roommates are excuse to be in your room as my mom always told me don't try to follow got a person be yourself what do you want to do if you really want to go in your room make a reason one we left alone that's your reason right that's cuz she always told me
"you need to take the risk"
"don't act like someone you're not"
Oh well, guess that's that.. 😔
Me as someone who hate taking risks: oh well...
@@dputra I also take risks that's why I get into many problems and my parents scolds me a lot .
My advice is : always have a plan 2 so either way you don't regret .
I always have plan 2 but sometimes they fail but you have take the risk 🙂😚
@@gachaqueen4717 should I give my crush a love letter?
@@user-ri3yw9cd9b Your crush is your first crush or love right ? I mean I don't know if crush and love is the same but I say go for it . I don't know your age etc but I hope your old to know how reality works .. I'm 14 so I know ... The possibility of get rejected is a 50\50 chance and their also a possibility of getting rejected so don't be over confident that he\ she will accept . but if you're too afraid and don't tell him \she your most likely to regret all of your life because they probably had feelings for you but was shy or feels you didn't have feelings for them etc ... So if he\she rejects that will be no problem you should cry because holding in your feelings or emotions can affect you and if it doesn't work you can probably be friends if that alright with you . however if the person has feelings for you congratulations 😘🙂 and I hope all goes well and your first becomes your bf\ gf, panther in future and the most important person in your life as well as your family .
You Ok?
Wow the intro was straight to the a rare treat even tho their vids were short and didn’t require them
Did you prefer it to go right away or do you prefer the intro?
@@Psych2go idk if your asking anyone but I prefer anything
@@Psych2go which ever one you guys find more comfortable and easier
_"Hello friends! Thank you for all of your support, we love you all, Messi is the best!"_ is what she said at the beginning of this video, my native language is Spanish so I know XD. Great video again, by the way, Thank you for sharing 💙 : ) ...
Wow! Thanks :D
@@Psych2go Thank you all there actually, this video is more serious than it looks, all those points (especially Numbers 1-4 and 7-10, but All in general) are of utmost importance and should be taught at school.
It's actually concerning how many people ignore them, so Thank you all for sharing them, I feel this will be one of the most important videos of your channel...
why is the art so cute
too cute
this is a work of a mastermind
Glad you love this artwork!
I feel like I'm watching a TV show lol
Oohh, I really like this animator ! They seem like they had so much fun :D
So cute
That animation. That lesson. A song in the back. While sitting outside marks the start of a perfect day.
One thing I really am thankful for is finding psych2go. It's like the universe telling me it wants me to grow. I love you psifam 💃.
+This video is now in my downloads.
Aww. This is really sweet! Glad we found a soul like yours!
Damn existentialism kicking in again
But in all seriousness I love these vids, thank you guys and gals for putting these out!
You know it gets serious if Psych2go uses caps lock in the title
haha
DOOM music plays
@@greatwavefan397 the only thing they fear is you
I really love the vibe that psych2go offers😍
Glad you like this!
@@Psych2go 😊
2:35 i found it to be freeing to let go of comparing myself to others. I have felt much better about and confident in myself since then. Thanks for another great video!
"Life must be understood backward. But it must be lived forward" - Donald Duck
where did he said that? When?
I don't think he ever said that quote.
And he is the storm
No you' re not . You are stronger that know
I'm a person who takes risks but I've things that i regret doing for life. Money isn't everything. I'm a person who easily gives up easily so this video kinda motivated me to not give up easily,thanks. But I think I learned these things early cause I'm just 14
Awesome sauce, now that you learned this earlier than most people, you get to make the most out of your life for a longer period of time and the main thing you need so that you won’t ever give up is a reason to not give up, as long as you have a reason for not giving up, you’ll always be able to keep going
@@fellowpassenger_54-67 thanks I'll take your advice and find a reason to not give up. Again thank u very much
Same here !! (m 15 ) !!!
@@Hope-ou3mv oh just a year older than me
He is 14 years old & regrets doing things. So funny.😄😄😄 There are people who are 60 & 70 & 80 years old & they dnt regret doing things the wrong way.👽 Alien thinking. I like to think alot. I am a thinker. I think philosifically.
I'm 21 and thankfully I came across many of this points throughout life, and I agree with every single one. Listen and learn.
I'm a person who never gives up, I don't like it, I try my best to achieve my goals, but sometimes you need to know when to quit. I had a romantic relationship, and I tried my best to make it work out, I never gived up, but in the end it was a failure, I spend all my youth triying for something imposible and now i regreat it. You just don't have to give up quickly, but you also need to know when to give up to something that is not going to work in the end, because it is something that escape your control. You need to accept what you are going to sacrifice if the goal that you seek may fail
Couldn't have worded it better.
The thumbnail is pure chaos, and I love the way it looks
As a youth age 16 this is the only *youtube channel* that tremendously helped my mental health & I am truly grateful for the content that Psych2Go make, keep up the honest good work. 👍
For some reason being grateful feels invalidating. I see it as “well look, you have this, this, and this. So, you don’t have any real problems. Shut up!”
Interesting - can you elaborate more on this?
It seems "appreciation" would be a more sensitive substitute. It implies acknowledgement while gratitude implies focus.
@@Psych2go I see it as “you’re privileged in whatever way so you don’t have ‘real problems”
It's more of focusing on the positive more than the negative. It doesn't invalidate or ignore the problems there, but focusing on the positive helps to lift your mind out of a rut while you try and figure out what to do about the problems at hand without it totally pulling you down or overwhelming you to break.
I speak spanish, so i understood You perfectly, You pronounced it very well👌
When you spoke in Spanish I just felt extremely happy to the point of crying. This made my night. This channel helped me a lot when I was younger (teenager) and still does. I learned a lot, and never said it but I really like your voice. It's extremely calming.
I will be rewatching this as time goes on. It'll keep me in check. Thank you!
Oh this is going to be good!!! 🙂 Psych2Go, I love you guys!!! What beautiful wisdom to share with people!! Ok I better go watch!!! Happy weekend to the team!! 💕
Thx Psych2Go, just wanted to say that I love your videos and appreciate your hard work 💙
i love that you got right on with the video without a 10 minutes intro with what the title said
Why am I skeptical about gratitude?
Imagine you need to go somewhere important and your car breaks down. Gratitude is saying, "Well, at least I got some A/C!" while a crucial piece of your car is broken.
Now here's what most people seem to get wrong: They focus on the A/C, but never focus on fixing their car. Eventually they never reach where they want to because they're too focused on "the bright side". They might say, "Yeah, my parents don't let me express myself and constantly make me feel stupid, but at least there's pets at home and I eat good food."
And just by lying to yourself, you slowly die smiling until you can no longer smile.
So should you stop appreciating whatever good is still around you? Obviously not, but don't let it distract you from what you really want or need.
That's a valid argument, worthy of a discussion. I think we should discuss about gratitude and when it could be a bad thing.
@@Psych2go would love to hear about that
@@minecraftstation6422 Me, too!
I isolate myself... I feel like every time I leave my room I'm just "in the way" or that "anything I do will just upset someone"😣
Sadly this resulted in me not eating as much.
Now my body rejects food for long periods of time, then out of nowhere I feel like no matter how much I eat it's just not enough.😰
It hurts, and my parents think I do it for attention 😞
I don't know what to do.
I relate to this comment so well.
I, too, find piece behind my own closed door and never speak so as to avoid conflict.
I'll have my moments eating, but I sometimes feel bad about it because of what other people have thought: Apparently eating plenty is a teen boy stereotype and I can't eat as much as I need to because of my acne and I still live with my parents.
Other times, I'm just full of emptiness.
I've been there before. I would highly recommend taking a walk outside or going on a treadmill to get some fresh air. Has done wonders to complement my active workout life at home. And about not being enough. The truth is someone will always say you're not enough. However it's best to determine your worth by how you put yourself out there. Go where you are celebrated for your presence.
CZcams Tabitha Brown and watch "You Deserve to be Here" and "Don't Settle". They're shorts so they're like a min long
@@priscillajimenez27 DUDE!!! I'm Not gonna end my life, chill. I've been like this for 10 years, it's just how I am.🤣
@@fishstyx6056 still I hope you watch them ❤
Thanks Psych2go on the efforts for making this video really loved it ❤️❤️
The last one... "Be grateful"... That got me right in me chest, I KNEW I wasn't grateful enough to live so depressive
this is exactly what i regret not learning back then.
I wish I found this channel sooner but I feel it’s far to late now I spend my days helping as many people I can before my the damage I caused myself by ignoring my issues takes me out
I’m so sorry I dropped this loaded comment on you I’m at a really low point mentality
It's never too late. Take care of yourself first, don't ignore your issues, but don't drown in them. Seek balance and find people who can help you like you find those in need of help. 👥🙏💞
Thank you I am in a much better place since I talked to a close friend
00:34 Hi friends!, thanks for all of your support, we love you all and Messi is the best.
Is messi the best? what are your thoughts on his new team?
@@Psych2go I sincerely don't know, I'm the only person in my family that doesn't watch football (soccer for some) xD
@@Psych2go well you didn't ask but as a football fan
his new team has a lot of money because its owner is rich and they already hve good players they recently bought Sergio Ramos too
Perfect timing! Thank you!
Great work, I especially appreciate the improved animation. Keep it up ☺️
Thank you for this video❤️❤️
Hispanic person here,allow me to traduce: "Hello friends,thank you for all of the support,we love you all,Messi is the best!" :D
Gracias amigo. I don't much Espanol like that.
Thank you the last couple days were horrible and my mental health declines rapidly and though I don’t entirely know what’s wrong with me this helps me quite a bit to get over these episodes I‘be been experiencing.
Straight to the point! Great content btw!
"Hello friends. Thank you for all the support. We love you all. Messi is the best." That's what you said. I'm not fluent in Spanish, but I speak Portuguese and the languages are similar.
And, thank you for the video, that's help me a lot💗
"Don't act like someone you're not" -- The reason I came out as nonbinary, I was tired of acting like a woman when I'm just... NOT.
This is one of their best videos ever. I appreciate this video so, so much.
The last scene of the 10th lesson was truly heartwarming, and I totally didn't expected it... thank you! ❤️
Glad to see that it was helpful!
What i waited for😍
Number 5 is something I'm dealing with by eventually working on my Shadow self... in Jungian psychology. You're supposed to pick someone you hate, figure out why you hate that thing about them, and then role-play the thing that you picked. It's a way for you to understand your subconscious and better cope with negativity... But it's dangerous if you're not prepared for it, and I feel like I'm ready to start, but not quite yet.
Fascinating! I've never considered roleplaying hated figures before.
I'd roleplay someone who's close-minded, insensitive, and dogmatic.
Someone who believes aggression and discipline cures everything, that people are evil, make mistakes on purpose, that everyone hates them and there's no one to trust.
Someone who constantly lives from obligation, routine, and unquestionable obedience and never asks himself what he really wants. And even if he has, he throws it aside as a sin.
Someone who has no idea how stupid he is because spends too much time in simplicity and persuasion; thus unaware of how he mixes his logic up.
Someone who respects the firmest, most iron-willed voice, not the gentlest, most understanding one.
Someone who holds up their status quo as they would the legal code.
Someone who only earns respect by demanding it.
Someone who believes emotions are a choice and a lie.
Someone who sees observant people like they waste time.
Someone who believes rebellion is a demonic obstacle rather than a hidden source of discovery and creativity.
Someone who's so busy pointing out people's pride, that they're blind to their own.
Someone who's better off leading a regime than leading a family or a business.
Someone who I've vowed to never become since I was younger.
@@greatwavefan397 You don't need to role-play that person. It's the antithesis of you and how you want to live your life. You've already got that figured out. You'll do well and go far as long as you stay true to yourself.
@@greatwavefan397 The best thing to do after recognizing those horrible things about yourself is to pick one. First, ask yourself why you would feel that way... Seek justification. And then roleplay those aspects. Once you are finished roleplaying that specific one, remember it (journaling helps alot). Remember when you roleplayed it and recognize you are better than it.
Then, move onto the next bad trait about yourself, and do this entire process again.
I really find your voice relaxing. It's like talking with someone who cares about me. Thanks
Happy to hear that!
the way she said "number 1" and spoke spanish was so soothing, wholesome and cute for some reason
Tradution: Hi friends, thank you for the support, we love you all and Messi is the best
"Hello friends, thank you for all your support, we love you all, Messi is the best" - what you said in Spanish lol.
I have a Messi shirt lol and my friend is Spanish so I might ask him what it translates to make sure your are correct
@@krikota1 I'm Mexican XD trust me I know what she said, but nothing wrong with double checking if you really wanna be sure.
Thank you for all of this. I’ll take these to note
Thank you so much for posting an engaging video on this highly relevant topic!
I completely agree with each and every ‘lesson’ stated, and their importance.
Kudos to the animator, especially for the animation under ‘lesson’ 9!
Keep up the great work team ‘Psych2Go’!
Regards.
Hi Friends
Thank you for all your support, we love you all.
Translation from Spanish. You should study it, it comes natural and nice in your voice ❤️😘
Love from Mexico
Everyone here is a time traveler apparently
Join the crew!
@@Psych2go
I have no money 😭✌️
I’ve learnt all of these the hard way- and I’m glad I’m still young. I’m really glad I learnt these early-
This channel is truly amazing keep up the good work
Zero commentos??
ikr???
9 hours!! WOW
How do you get those links when they are still unlisted?
@@minecraftstation6422 get yourself their channel membership
@@LeninDataniya but the account doesn't show that they are a member? Hmmm
Anyway I'm Okay with waiting a few more hours cuz I still don't have my own money to use on memberships but will surely do in the future
Edit: well I do but I'm currently saving so not much spare money
@@minecraftstation6422 they sent the video's link in a community post, it was unlisted during that time
A hidden video lol
Some of this was new to me, and thanks for bringing light to these topics.
Thank you so much Psych2go..Each lesson made me to realize what is life and how I should live..
First like?
It said this was 4 minutes ago but this is 9 hours ago?
How is this 9 hours ago when this is 15 seconds ago
😀 cause he or she has membership subscription
Hello time traveler Tae!!!... 🤗😅😂😉😍🥰
How?? it said 35 sec and ur comment was posted 9 hrs ago?! is that even possible?!
One of if not the best video i get from this channel.... thank you :)
It's been a year since i first saw your videos...I want to thank you from bottom of my heart because this helped me fight depression and made me a better version of myself. Thankyou so much....Love and lots of well wishes from India
This video actually motivated me.
Life is hard, but we must not give up until the end
I’m only 16 and have already learned all these things just takes an open mind
What a wonderful, inspirational and flamboyant animation accompanies this video! Always warms my heart to its very core!
Never thought a youtube channel would actually affect my life in the biggest ways. love yall
Thankyou so much for this!
Animation is sooo nice!!love it 💗
And the message too......
Xd! The message is beautiful too!
Definitely a great list, and I agree. All stuff I try to work on and remind myself of daily
Damn, that last one though. Made me think about good times that I'll never be able to get back. People I've lost connection with and have no way of finding back and things that'll never be the same again.
As a spanish native speaker, i love the way your voice sound when u speak spanish, was so cuuutee, i love it, and i love this channel, always good information!
Excellent, as always. 👏👏
The fact that the channel supports Messi and Barcelona makes it even more likeable 🙏🏼
Nice video and tips, keep it up!
THANK. YOU. I've been doing some of these things for most of my life I know to stop these things now
I'm having a rough situation right now. Thanks for the video.👍
I love this account it is soo helpful and encouraging. Thank you for making amazing videos 💕💕I have been struggling with binge eating and I would love to see a video about it. ❤️
You are so welcome! Which points do you resonate with the most?
I love how the video starts immediately to prove the first point more
#1 reminds me of a saying. “Memento mori.” It pretty much translates to, “Remember that you will die.”
As a 20 years old girl, I want to say thank you Psych2go.... Thank You so much!
The animations on this episode are noticably better, good job! I'll try some of these for sure, even though I know it won't work. But, you know, a try is a try nonetheless.
Thanks! Which points do you resonate with the most?
@@Psych2go Acting like someone you are not, taking care of your body and being grateful. I hope this response was usefull.
whoever animated this deserves an award
I love the way you make your videos
So Useful video!!
Yay a new video!
Thank you for this video. I'm totally agree!
I have anxiety and major depressive disorder 😭🙌🏽this video will help me
The 5th one hit me like a wrecking ball, even my girlfriend used to slap me when I say something negative about myself, and thanks to her I constantly build up my self esteem in no time.. I'm really greatful for her coming in to my life..
Respect is earned, but you are never an inferior.
Great video! Thanks
I'm from chile so I naturally know Spanish, what you said was "hello friends! thanks for all your support, we love you all; Messi is the best!"