Murder or Self Defense? Motel Murder - Robert Moorman | Mystery & Makeup - Bailey Sarian
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Hi friends, happy Monday!
Today’s story is about Robert Moorman. Stories like this are always tough. I mean, Robert had a really hard life, but… he still killed someone. But the mother? Idk… something funky was going on there. What do you guys think?
Also, let me know in the comments who you want me to talk about next time. Hope you have a great rest of your week and I'll be seeing you very soon
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We need merch that says "I'm laughing because I'm uncomfortable" 😅
I agree!!! Because I also laugh when I'm uncomfortable! 🤣
Me after getting robbed at gun point Saturday. Cops looked at me crazy... sorry Mr. Cops... it's a trauma response
Yes!! Same!!😂
Yassss!!!
I'd buy that ish uppp!!
I'm a full time loner, and listening to Bailey's "girl, lemme tell you" is actually so comforting ☺
Same and I agree 🤗
Legit same
Girl same.
felt that
Me too. Wish we had longer/introvert group. Just saying
Calling the mother and son duo a “happy couple” was everything I needed to hear 😂.
I was looking for this comment lol
It just got, 'hmmhm', when she says, "Roberta became quite attached to him.after her husband passed'....
Hotel: you leave your room, you're in a hallway. Motel: You leave your room, you're outside.
Except many hotels that would qualify as motels under that description are called hotels in their name... So it's still not always clear. And seems to depend on where you're located. South Memphis, 3rd St, near where I'm from has a ton of motels that would fall under this but 40 minutes North into AR you might find nicer establishments that also meet that qualification & they're called hotels. 🤷
What about one that has some outter rooms and inner rooms?
Motels are typically only one story while hotels have multiple floors.
@@krissigontis3989 There's one in particular that I have been to that had rooms out facing the parking lot, two stories. There were also inner rooms, two stores, and a tower that was 5 stories tall, all inner rooms. This one confuses me as far as what it would be called.
Thank you, now I need to remember which is which. 😂
"You can still be sad for someone who does bad things" PREACH!!!!!! You can feel bad for someone without condoning their actions 100%
I think it's easy for people to dissociate from criminals and forget that they too are human.
I agree!! Feeling bad is an emotion, if no one ever felt bad then the world would be a worse place
Totally agree
@@freyabrooks8060 it’s called empathy .
I always feel bad for little Donald Henry Gaskins. The adult Donald was an absolute monster, but the child Donald, didn't deserve what he went through throughout his whole childhood.
everytime you apologize for laughing I feel completely represented because that's my natural response whenever I get deeply nervous and/or uncomfortable
I said sorry to a man who was removing debris after a storm n when I walked passed him he said,
“Never that, life is to short.” It just surprises me that he called me out
why is this so true ? ppl get so confused when I do that I say I'm laughing because idk how to respond when I'm uncomfortable
It’s gotten me in trouble so many times
Same.
I did this as a kid getting a talking to....mom did not accept this well lol
Ok true story. I used to work in a daycare, and one of the girls ( 4ish) was in foster care and the parents were trying to adopt her. This poor girl was so abused by her BiO parents. She would get terrified if she ever misbehaved, it was so sad. Anyways she was finally adopted, and the next day they came in and said we are to now to call her Bailey (not actually name, but obviously for privacy reasons) Anyways this little angel actually adapted to her new name easier than we did. Her new parents are amazing people, and they said for safety reasons they changed her name because BIO parents were very bad people. The adoptive parents couldn't have children so they adopted a few more kids. They actually ended up miraculously having a biological child of their own. This was over 20 years ago and I recently saw them, and this little angel has grown into such a beautiful sweet young lady. Anyways just wanted to share with you that yes, names can be changed. Lol. Btw her mom said she doesn't remember her first name.. she didn't remember me either.
That's a beautiful story🤍
@@lmaooololl yes amen
Thats a beautiful story So glad the girl is happy, healthy & surrounded with loving family ❤
The difference between a hotel and a motel, is just that a motel room is accessible from outside; and at a hotel the room doors are on the inside of the building.
thanks
😯 Wow, thanks...I never knew that. 🤔
Is that why hotels are typically multiple stories while motels are usually only one?
I thought because motels u can pay hourly lol
Not every motel is like that i live at the inn and to get outside not only do i gotta go upstairs but i gotta bc im in the basement section smh its crazy i tell ya its crazy 🙅♂️🤦♂️💣
Your "you can feel bad for someone who does bad things" gives similar vibes to "disagreement does not equal hate" and I'm 100% here for it. Just because you feel some type of way for someone (that's a heart thing, not a romance thing obvi) doesn't automatically mean you agree with or condone their actions; just like disagreeing with someone doesn't mean you hate them - and I love that someone said it.
I do sometimes. But, it's rare and the result is always the same.........they deserve to be punished, sometimes harsher.
Amen. Amen. Amen.❤
People are always multifaceted. You can be someone’s dream and another person’s nightmare.
I dont know man he molested an 8 year old
Careful… this argument is used by racists and anti-lgbtq types to excuse the oppression and abuse they do to these groups of people. “I just disagree you should exist/have rights/be treated equal don’t be so offended” I think we’ve all heard the various forms of that one.
"Not to get graphic, but... she broke her neck. And she died"
Oh Bailey, i love you
😂
Me: (bracing myself for the “graphic” part that Bailey warned us about).
Bailey: “not t oh get graphic…but she broke her neck. And she died.”
Me: (thinking) “and…that’s it!?”
Bailey: later describing what Robert did to Roberta’s body
Me: “now that’s graphic.”
channel: about brutal murder
Bailey: sorry to be graphic!
@@kristinbagani2811well it could have been a brutal neck-break…
Can you do the Amber Hagerman case?
The case that created the Amber alert.
AGREEEE
@@k4ycee202 Yessss, I've wanted Bailey to cover this for so long
The mom was totally weird. But even if she wasn’t abusing him… 3 psychiatrists said he had major issues… why was he not sent to a hospital?
well, he wasn't delusional and the whole disposing thing and getting their friends to do stuff with words shows signs of awareness and manipulative behavior. There's nothing to really cure or manage from what I can tell
This man was totally weird. Like if you were around him ever. Youd never say this. Youd be like definitely death penalty.
Prisons don’t get paid for prisoners they send elsewhere. Also the very few hospitals that accept mentally ill prisoners are always full to capacity. They only get openings when someone dies then the spot is filled immediate.
From throw away kids to throw away adults. Its the American way 🇺🇸
@@jessielee7353 you knew him personally or what?
but also manipulative behaviour can be learnt from childhood abuse, maybe this mother was highly narcissistic and there was no support network around from a sane adult who could help him. Maybe this mother was so manipulative that even the pediatrician would let go of the red flags! :(@@lawrencelopez9839
Bailey and MMM are the best surprise when I forget it’s Monday! My day just got so much better!
Yaas. I familliarize with the feel
Same!! 🖤
“We’re not judging… kind of.”
“Robert ruined that for everyone.”😂😂😂
I totally think the adoptive mom was totally guilty. He “accidentally” shot at her when he was younger and she didn’t say why or what happened. I’m sure it was because she was molesting him and he was sick of it and then she manipulated him into saying it was an accident. The fact that he kidnapped a young child also is a red flag that something was going on with him. Happens too often where the abused become the abuser. I think he should’ve gotten life in prison because he is obviously unsafe but death is a bit much.
Statistically, abused children (like Robert) become violent later in life. It really just takes one thing (big or small) to make the person snap.
Not all abused children grow up to be abusers! Stigmatizing them is horrible and wrong. Shame on you and your misguided comment. Statistically my a-!
Exactly this. She's suspish for sure. I do agree that he isn't safe in public, and he did a crime and admitted it. Putting him to death won't undo anything, and he clearly needed help that he never got.
@@Amberelam97 they didn't say all, they said it happens too often, and I agree as a victim of child-on-child sa. I didn't become violent and I haven't continued the cycle, but kids don't have those thoughts out of nowhere. The kid that messed with me had probably been sa'd by an adult. And to this day, I still feel shame and guilt over what happened even though I hadn't even hit puberty and was far from being able to give consent.
@@zupergurkan your comment really struck me because I went through something similar as a child in which another older child assaulted me repeatedly. It also still affects me to this day, and I worry over the shame and guilt, especially for never saying anything. Now I feel like I can never tell anyone because it happened when I was 6-7. I'm now in my 20s, and I'm afraid of how it would be received by relatives because the kid was a family member, who is very much still a part of my life. It's crazy because I often wonder what had been done to him as a kid that even gave him the idea to do the things he did to me
Poor Bailey always apologizing for laughing when she's uncomfortable when probably 90%of us not only understand but also do it ourselves. I do
As a kid that was adopted it’s actually very common for parents to change the kids name because a lot of the time the parents were a danger to them so it helps to keep their identity a secret and to not be able to be contacted by the parents again. Also a lot of the kids choose to have their name changed because legally they have to receive a new birth certificate so it is offered to every parent/child to do the name change and to receive all new identification paperwork :)
Was looking for this. Also, some kids want to change their name because they associate their given name with their past.
Interesting! Thanks for the information.
See my comment above. My mother's adoption was totally illegal, at the age of 8, her name was changed without explanation...as I mentioned above, sadly it's messed my mother up.
She's also had to fight for years to prove her identity as things were kept secret and birth records were made difficult for her to access....took her over 10 years to get her birth certificate.
My name was changed as soon as my parents adopted me. It was in our case for safety; my entire biological family lived about 10 minutes away from us, and they were CRAZY
the case you mentioned about the girl who got trafficked happened in iowa, and the girl got abducted by some older guy (the guy she killed). he had several of his friends & paying customers r*pe her & she eventually killed him. she was facing life in prison and got 9 years probation instead. she’s missing now though!! you should definitely do a story on it!
Whoa!
Whoahhhhh, definitely need a video on that one
Only if her picture isn't shown...let her run
She’s back in custody
Def need a video on this one
‘Robert ruined furlough for everyone.’ 😂😂😂😂
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I worked at AZ State Prison in Florence and this story is legendary. It’s evolved quite a bit over the years. Also, the motel is still there. Florence is a little teeny town in the middle of nowhere with several prisons.
I think the most logical and fair thing would be for Robert to be in a psychiatric hospital for the rest of his life to get the help he needs and to work through the lifelong traumas I believe he had
I was going to comment this too. My mom's cousin killed his mom and had a lifetime of childhood trauma and abuse from her and was placed in a psychiatric hospital. Literally the exact same situation but vastly different state laws and limitations etc. in MN vs. AZ
All prisons should do this, they’re supposed to be about rehabilitation. All they do is give criminals a time out making them worse.
I saw something on either Netflix or prime about a guy with schizophrenia who killed his mother (who he was very close to) during an “episode”. He is (or was, when this was filmed JUST released to a halfway home. His family was there for him and understood that he wasn’t competent when he killed his mother and they were very understanding. He had lived in a psychiatric hospital for years.
This is in Canada though, where the laws are very different.
He is on medication for schizophrenia and he has extreme guilt for what he did.
Anyways that’s what I wanted to say, lol 😢
It’s a sad thing when mentally ill people are put behind bars, imo.
@@honourwest4393 Prisons are not about rehabilitation in the United States. They are an industrial complex not meant to help. Of course they would make things worse.
@@MsHannahlai I’m aware same case in the uk 😢
I’m so glad Bailey is posting M&MM again!!!
Me too!!!
Me too for a minute I thought she quit doing them and only did her dark history but I honestly prefer the m&mm videos don't really watch the dark history ones
I like them both but definitely prefer M&MM
@@jessicaramirez6346 same for me
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Um, just as an addendum to Bailey's epilog - if you see someone walking around with a box of _human_ bones that still have the _flesh hanging off of them,_ please don't just mind your business. Be like the pizza guy. Don't confront the person, but call the cops ASAP. You know... just in case someone needs to be put back together.
I feel like if you see someone walking around with bones that could even vaguely be human you should inform someone. It’s not normal to carry around bones and any legitimate reason to have them people aren’t carrying them around.
My sister had her name changed when she was adopted at two and I promise you, she had no clue when she got older. She does now, but when she was a kid she didn’t know the difference. Her name before it was changed was “Legend” soooo yeah.
My name was changed when I was adopted at 10mths old as well
im sorry but the name legend has me cackling
So when someone says, "Legend has it" they can say well go get it back.Lol😂
@@BrazilSinclairhonestly yeah it’s an awful name but i would consider keeping it for me solely for the jokes.
The fact that Roberta begged for him, named him after her and coddled him seems likely that there was some element of abuse going on
I dont know that sounds more like something he or his attorney came up with for an excuse.
@@zorabrown3402 Well it wasn't just his attorney. Friends and family even said how weirdly close their relationship was so you never know the mother could have taken advantage him behind closed doors. I mean it was her idea in the 1st place to adopt him and the father wanted no part in it.
Could explain her husband not wanting to adopt him
@@C-SD N.ot really. Husband couldn't know she would abuse him before he was adopted
It was an unhealthy relationship at the very least
weird fact I learned recently: Motel the doors are on the outside, everyone has a private entrance. Hotel has inside doors, everyone enters through the same main entrance(s). Even though you didn't ask: an inn offers breakfast.
also arent motels cheaper /less fancy
@@fahda7400 I think they are generally less fancy because they are sorta dying out: most new builds are Hotels.
@@fahda7400 yes, motels have fewer amenities. It was really just a place to stop and spend a night during a road trip. Motor + Hotel = Motel. They are dying out these days.
Thank you for this, I've been low-key wondering my whole life what the difference was!
@@babygrimaceee well you kids learned something today lolzzz
I agree that you can feel bad for bad people, and I definitely do in other cases, but this wasn't one of them for me. Like I 100% believe he was abused but after what he did to that child I can't feel bad for him.
same
That and the fact that he took the flesh off the bones and dismembered her in general.
Absolutely like she said “we’re not children “ and showing empathy for another human is human
@@joihunt140 We are not children, exactly, and as adults we should stop the cycle of abuse, not continue it and scar more people.
Was looking for this comment!!!
This is just too sad like being doomed from the beginning. At least he gave his family and his victim the closure they need, that's the only happy ending here.
He created an alibi for himself with the pizza guy and tried to get various people to dispose of the body for him. So while he did have challenges, and I am leaning towards the abuse theory, he was also very calculated.
Don't think the death penalty was the right call though, life in prison would have been way more appropriate.
Loved today's look! Your skin is always so flawless x
Yes this !!!!
Exactly what I thought. Like, I kinda “get” the possible reasons, but the aftermath tells a different story… It’s a difficult case to discuss anyway.
If they found the notes in the jail he was planning it. He had to go. Sorry for his life but death penalty was warranted. I suspect that IQ test!!! It was the push authorities needed. They lowered the curve.
I thought of the same thing of how he tried to cover his tracks but then I thought of what a child would do If they realized they were going to be in trouble, and they would probably try to cover it up but not well. Which if you ask me he was not smart about lol
I actually think that giving the bags to the lady, telling the pizza guy to dispose of cow guts and then ringing the prison guard saying he's bringing back bones for the dogs, that's not calculating its nuts. that is not someone thinking clearly because he's giving himself away over and over. that's low iq and almost probably off in la la land afterwards ,convinced himself they were cow guts and dog bones. definitely an affected brain from alcohol poisoning during pregnancy, so he never stood a chance. and I actually believe him that his mother took advantage of him. it was all a bit to weird.
my professor shared your video on richard ramirez as part of our criminal profiling assignment, and i’ve been binge watching MMM ever since 💕 much love from me and my professor! 😂
What a legend 😂
THATS awesome!!! Yay Bailey!!
Very cool he did that!!!!!
That's a cool professor !
@@theonlypinky how do you know the professor is a guy? they never mentioned it. women can't be professors or what?🙄🤦🏻♀
The way Bailey tells a story is just the best 😂👌🏼
If anyone is curious, Robert was granted a “compassionate furlough” to visit with Roberta. Usually furlough is only reserved for prisoners who are appearing in court, receiving medical treatment, or to attend a family members funeral which makes it weirder that he was able to get it 🤔
Indeed, compassionate furlough is sadly very hard to get in many cases. Like, can't go see a terminally ill relative until they're dead, etc.
Weird he could just randomly get one for randomly visiting Roberta.
Happy Monday everyone! Sending healing energy to anyone who reads this ✨️🧡!
colds going around stae hydrated 💚
Sending love and light to you❤️
Thank you, Lola.💐 Appreciate your message more than I can say. Send all the healing energy you can spare. 💫
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As soon as Bailey puts her lip on I literally cannot focus on anything else. Stunning.
Same!!!🔥
I think she looks 100 times better with plain lips.
“His dad vanished he was a magician I guess” 🤣🤣
BUT if he did abuse that little girl imagine he never got caught and what he would’ve done in the future. He could’ve continued going after children. Probably because he was abused as a child as well.
I love how at the start, Bailey is like “everyone just describes Robert as weird. Like that’s it, and they don’t really explain why”. Then later on, Bailey is like “and he just does all these weird things!” It made me laugh 😂
Lolol
Flagstaff is my hometown lol
Ikr? The emphasis on the word WEIRD. She made me laugh too!! 😂
@@meganthings I just
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4k views in the first 6 minutes of posting. Were obsessed 🤣 thank you for making mondays survivable
Jfc this man is giving away his mother's remains like my grandmother does leftovers at Christmas.
This is also the first time I can recall any mention of flushing remains down the toilet... I'm sure it's been done but it just sounds very time-consuming, tbh
I have 2 nieces who were adopted from the foster system & both have new names. I also know a couple that adopted 3 brothers who were older and the boys asked if they could pick new names. So I think it’s pretty common🫶🏽
Girl I’m an eyelash technician and my clients and I love to hear your videos every Monday ❤ sometimes I listen to the same video 7 times because EVERY CLIENT LOVES YOU ❤ and I do too 😘
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As a social worker and child welfare, I really appreciate you pointing out the numerous ways trauma impacted his early childhood and the choices/outcomes he had later on. It’s amazing how so many things that are outside of someone’s control can still have long term effects on them.
her makeup always matches with the stories energy♥
I noticed that too! 🖤
31:13 Bailey cracks me up, “that’s between you and Jesus” 💀
The only thing that helps me through Monday is Bailey new videosss
Facts
SAME 😭
same 😭
Yup Ik that feeling buddy
Double facts
Bailey always coming to the rescue when my seasonal depression is setting in 🙏🏼
YES. SAME 🤣🤣
really hope the season flys by. Seasonal depression is so draining and physically heavy and I can not imagine the weight you must be preparing yourself to carry. If you don't already, invest in a seasonal light for your room! it really helps on the gloomiest of days. Wishing you all the best :) !!!
Same same. Mine sdp has been in overdrive first time having a breakdown at work month ago,😠😔
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Y’all hang in there. Love to everyone struggling with depression ♥️😘
I, too have laughed in a VERY inappropriate situation. Long ago, my church choir was singing at a VERY high profile funeral for a town big-wig’s wife. I got very nervous being on display for the entire duration of the funeral, and I got the giggles. I know it sounds really bad. But it hapoened. The girl next to me kept elbowing me and telling me to stop, because I was giving HER the giggles, and some people started to stare at us. Long story short, it was a very uncomfortable situation. Very. I just love you, Bailey. Please do BTK. Please?
i'm always glad to see/read other people who laugh when you're absolutely not supposed to. i also laugh when i get injured which i don't see other people do often
Can we take a moment to appreciate the fact that Bailey has over 6 million subscribers but it's 6.66 😈 seriously though, I'm legitimately so proud of Bailey. She keeps inspiring me to be true to myself and let my weird flag fly and if she can get through really dark times then i can too ♥️ I swear she doesn't know just how much she keeps me going and I wish I could have the chance to say that to her one day.
I was thinking the same thing. Great minds 😂
Very wholesome comment
@vampirebunny great comment and I hope whatever dark times you're experiencing get better soon. Ps you're rocking that hair! 🔥❤️👌
“Sometimes in life you just get cow guts” I laughed so hard 😂
When life gives you cow guts...
@@kramermariav ...you make steak and kidney pie!
“Sometime in life you just get cow guts”😩😂 i almost spit out my coffee ugh love it
We need merch that says that!!!!
Where there's no lemonade, you get cow gets!
I laughed so hard at this :D
Same and yeah it should be made into merch lol
I think renaming kids is more common than we’re aware of. I’ve known families who’ve adopted older kids and let them pick their new names.
Who else loves when Bailey has conversations with herself and answers her own questions? No lie, I’m like… same.
The first thing I thought when you said that he molested a 8 year old was that the same was done to him. And the way that Roberta was "attached" to him, it was clear what had happened. And yes it´s possibly to feel bad for someone like Robert.
I get what you mean but also like, mfs know right from wrong ! 😢
I think he probably only kidnapped the kid to get away from mum. He knew she wouldn’t be able to hurt him if he was locked up. Probably tried to hurt the little girl but either couldn’t or stopped
@@serenacasale7171 yeah that's true. often the problem isn't that people don't know right from wrong, it's more likely that they have some problem with impulse control
In a way this reminds me of the Gypsy Blanchard case, she had her mom killed because her mom abused her.
Also Bailey you rock! Hope you feel better soon
You think Robert's mom abused him ? Especially to that consent?
Robert is still 100% guilty of abusing that 8 year old girl
@@tacobell1299 Most likely, but also likely that he learnt to do that based on how his adopted mother treated him.
You’ve been EXTRA funny lately like really spunky and I adore it and you
Bailey: Robert didn’t have many friends
Me aloud to myself in the car: because he was WEIRD 🤣
bailey is the only reason to stop my forensic files marathon
Louderrrrrr !!!!! It’s Bailey then Thomas Peter
I stopped painting half way through to watch 😂
Same...
Forensic files is my night time show. Yup I fall asleep to it every single night lol.
Bailey and Eleanor frl
My aunt and uncle adopted their son when he was 10 years old and they changed his name. It’s been over a decade and I still think it’s weird.
As an adoptive parent this horrifies me. Never do this, people!
At 10 years old that can definitely cause an identity crisis of the child when they get older.
that's so disrespectful that they did that
You mean his last name or first?
My parents adopted my biological cousin at age 5. Her original name stayed, lol. But there was a family connection most adoptees don't have.
I’m 50/50… anything can happen behind closed doors, especially when someone has responsibility over a vulnerable person.
Tbh Roberta comes across as a supportive mother with a struggling child.
Lawyers will try anything to win cases so could easily convince a vulnerable person to go along with the defence he was abused.
His history makes him more shady than her imo.
My dad had a furlough from prison for two days so he could go to his mother's viewing and funeral. As far as I'm aware (I'm sure it varies from state to state, but in Maryland at least), it's INCREDIBLY difficult to be granted furlough, you have to be a model prisoner, and if you don't come back on time, they immediately put a warrant out for your arrest and you're denied any chance of future parole in addition to having an exponential amount of time tacked onto your sentence. My dad was REALLY worried about the fact that the funeral was running later than anticipated, and I think (this was nearly 20 years ago, and I was only 12, so I'm not exactly sure), he may have actually had to call the prison and check in with them at certain times with his location. They probably put an ankle bracelet on you these days, if furlough is even still a thing 🤷
"This is your new name, sweetie" 😂😂😂😂 Bailey is a whole comedian.
When someone says "He was convicted to death", I think of someone being sentenced over and over and over again until the stress kills them lol
I’d be dead after the first one
😂😂😂😂gold
Because he was convicted and SENTENCED to death. I can see how that would be what you would think of! Reminds me of the artist who drew a character called an Alot, and she would think of it any time someone typed "alot" instead of "a lot."
I laughed unnecessarily hard at this comment🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I feel like this shouldn't be as amusing as it is 😅🤣
“There is not such thing as bad people, we’re all just people who sometimes do bad things” 👀
The 'yup here we go.' got me🙈
i miss when i found bailey like 2 years ago and she had like 60 MMMM videos and i just got to binge them for weeks. now i have to wait :/
I feel your pain
I just go back and rewatch them lol
@@mandieschmidt860 same!
Same lol I just rewatch them
I know I have seen all her videos. I miss the binging
Yeah, a traumatized child with probable FAS most likely would be described as "weird" by a lot of people. It's actually really sad.
Very sad. I taught one and he was super sweet.
when she said she couldn't find a reason people didn't like him, I immediately thought well obviously they didn't like him cause he was disabled. very sad
Thank you for saying something about that girl that was trafficked. Her story was international and eith your fame, bringing these things to a light is so important! Thank you bailey for sharing but more for speaking out when you feel like it!!!
Random side note but I think it would be so fun if you did a tattoo reveal and showed/explained some of your tats!
Bailey: “because weird is the only word anyone knows apparently.”
Also Bailey: *describes the guy as weird for the rest of the video* 😂 I guess there just aren’t any words for this guy. 😂😂
came here to say the same thing 😅
She can only said that because that's what the people say
Bailey always shows up in the right time, thank you bailey ❤️
True!!! ❤
Anytime is the right time for Bailey time! 😁 (but yeah you're right) lol
How many glow up eras are you gonna have girl?!? Your skin is FLAWLESS.
I feel like we need a story on Erin Caffey, that's a case I'd love to see Bailey's expressions about
Can you do a story on the Muffin Man? I heard its a dark story where he lured kids in an ally way with muffins and the song came to be for spreading awareness
hey you have to email suggestions to bailey, her email for that is in the description :)
Heard this with lord farquad on shrek 1. It was the part were he was interrogating gingy.. "Do you know the muffin man?"
He lives on Drury lane 😂
The only thing I could think of was shrek ! DO YOU KNOW THE MUFFIN MAN? THE MUFFIN MAN!
I can assure you that every Drewry (Drury/Drewery/etc.) knows where the muffin man lives 😂 I can’t remember if my maiden name (Drewry) shows in my comment and I already began typing and I’m too lazy to look and retype haha
She tells the story like it’s the first time she ever heard it I love her so much 😂❤
Furlough is actually incredibly difficult to get for like funerals or something very major. A woman's minor son was in critical condition on life support and she couldn't get furlough to go be with him or possibly say goodbye...there was even a very, very small chance she'd even get furloughed to go to the funeral if he did die.
IDK what he got furloughed for but it really is a rare, very rare permission
Your voice is so comforting and the way you story tell completely takes me there. I like the video versions but I usually listen to the podcast while getting ready. It’s so cool to see the video version I’m loving it!
I suffer from chronic fatigue syndrome and Fibromyalgia and listening to Bailey makes me happy.
Get on the carnivore diet. It’ll help
Same, among other things. I do what I can, but I am always in pain. So, Bailey's videos and others like them (Mr. Ballen, anyone?) give me a great distraction when I can't get up/out because of my illnesses. I love the true crime channels, as well as the paranormal ones the most. Sometimes I like to watch fun stuff, too. Laughter definitely helps distract me. When I can't sleep, I put on one of the scary story channels and it really helps. Oh, Lani's comment about the carnivore diet may be true for some. I have a lot of digestive issues and meat is difficult for me to digest. Plus, I really have a hard time eating anything that had a face, so I'm vegetarian/part time vegan. (I have no issues with other people eating meat. I'm not a militant vegan or anything lol). I still have to be careful because some foods just trigger me. My "gut" doctor mentioned the FODMAP diet and I try to be mindful of things on that list, although there are some things that I just can't give up.
@@mermaid_at_heart213 Goodluck with your chronic fatigue and being vegan. Nailing it .. 🤦♀️
@@laninicholson3945 don't be mean, just to be mean. Your rude comment did nothing to help. You offered no helpful advice. She clearly has doctors that are taking care of her. AND already said she has digestive issues. JUST BE NICER.
@@shaec3405 omm bruh
@Bailey "The Lord is testing me and I did not study" - Bailey Sarian, 2020
When you were describing having covid - I was like her own phrase is perfect.
I fall in love with that Danessa Myricks palette, more and more, every single time I see someone using it. That green is STUNNING on you 💚
My fav line: “We’re not judging… kind of..” haha
Just wanted to say that I've been a fan for awhile, but recently got laid-off and hit with covid, among other life struggles. Watching your videos really helped me through this time. I really appreciate the strength you show by being vulnerable. Not only do you get up every morning and survive, you work hard to put together stories that will engage and captivate us enough to help us through our days. (With many sacrifices I'm sure.) On top of that, I really appreciate how you speak to the camera like you are just gossiping with a friend over coffee. For those of us struggling with connections, you've done such a fantastic job creating a connection that welcomes us in with humour, humility, and facts. So much love and respect. Miigwech.
- Rolling Cloud, Treaty 2 Territory, Turtle Island
⬆️ this 100%!!! Thank you Bailey ❤
This is so heartfelt. I hope she sees your comment. I agree with you, I like how she speaks as if she is just talking to a friend over coffee.Sometimes her videos are just what a person needs to get over a bad day. I also hope things get better for you. Much blessings
Very well written comment! You have expressed perfectly how we feel watching her videos. I feel this way about the MMMM videos but unfortunately not DH. DH just doesn't have the personal and friendly story telling vibe. They seem staged while these videos seem personal.
Love this comment! She speaks with an open heart and humility and we need more interactions like that with each other. I hope she covers a MMIW story next, sadly there are so many 💔 - Standing Rock Sioux Tribe, Hunkpapa Lakota
@@BeautyIsMyLife Hi, I was wondering what dh means, cheers!
I often feel sad/bad for the people in these stories that commit these crimes. I know they’ve done some heinous things but, they also suffered unmentionable damage at the hands of people who were supposed to love and protect them. I’m an empath, it hurts me. 🤣 I also laugh because I’m uncomfortable.
In my opinion, he should not have had the death penalty. He shouldn't be let go either. Don't they have institutions for the criminally insane? Or maybe a psychiatric place.
@@denisekale5541 Indeed they do. There is Whiting Forensic Institute in CT. It looks impenetrable but I won’t drive around there. I have no reason to.
I was literally just coming here to comment this.. every time his picture came up I got sad 😭🤧
I feel you 10000%
Same. My heart aches for the innocent child that they were. You said it absolutely perfectly.
"Its not a puppy, you cant just change its name"
Well- As sad as it is, they actually can. I had a friend who is a Hawaiian native, but her adoptive parents are here in america. They refused to let her keep her native name because it was "too hard to say" and so they changed her name to Hope. Its rough. I felt so bad for her.
Your personality is seriously one of the best yet girl.
Keep being you
It seems like some haters have been like, “Bailey, why are you laughing?? It’s not funny!” So now Bailey feels like she has to explain why she’s laughing. 😢
I love it when you laugh! No shame! Hope you’re feeling better from Covid. ❤❤
Wait I thought she always explained. In the past it was joked she should make merch that says "I'm laughing because"
@@LifeOfCandice yeah ever since I have been a subscriber since about 80,000 subs she has always explained why and usually says it’s funny but it’s not lol I love her laugh and you kinda got too
Yeah, some haters have said things like that.
no she's always explained her laughter, even in the very first few MMM's
The only way I remember the difference between a hotel and a motel is the way Danny Bhoy said it: a motel is like a hotel in the same way a MacDonald's is like a restaurant 😂😂😂
I could be wrong, but I think the actual difference is that at a motel you access the doors to each room from the outside, while a hotel you go into and then access the doors along interior hallways.
@@jessienaylor2805 That's interesting! I figured it was a status thing. In most American shows and movies I've seen it seems like a motel is the downtrodden place you go to just before you end up on the street whereas a hotel is a month's salary for a weekend lol
Yes motel (motor) is cars park outside the room. Hotel has halls to the room. Yes im weird it's how I remember it
And then she's all "Blue Mist motel, martinis and pool time I bet, sounds fancy"🤣
Motel means motor hotel. It doesn’t necessarily mean lower quality, but it usually has fewer amenities.
Bailey finds humor in everything and it tickles me.. I laugh because she laughs
I love how Bailey makes all of these stories fun to listen to. Always makes me laugh even in the uncomfortable times!
When I was adopted around 8yo, my sisters and I got to change our middle names. We got to pick our own, and I chose Emirie bc I liked the name Emily but also didn't want to change it too much from my original middle name of Marie bc I felt bad about it. When I got back in contact with my bio dad when I was 18, he saw my license and that the middle initial was now E instead of M and was heartbroken. I still felt bad about it when I had my daughter a couple years later so I gave her the middle name of Ann-Marie, a combination of my bio mothers middle name and my birth middle name. Just wanted to share on the topic of name changes during adoption, sorry
That puzzles me. You had the right to pick a new middle name.
that's weird on your dad's part. he shouldn't have made you feel like you did something wrong by creating an identity for yourself when you were so young, especially when you did it so thoughtfully going so far as to incorporating your older middle name. emirie is a very cute name
@@yoshitasharma9937 Highly agree! Well said. 👏
So happy that MMM is back. I watch Dark History as well but this is my favorite. ❤
In addition to some guided help..your videos really help get me by when I am struggling and feeling just so sad. Thank you Bailey.. for always being here..whether that is a new video or going back to enjoy one of the originals again.. much love ❤️
Girl you got me through my qhole work day, this is the last video I watched at the end of my work day. Thank you so much for all you do!!!!
I'm on the fence with this one because I'm thinking about my developmentally delayed sons. They aren't giving any empathy once they are no longer "cute." That's why we fight for continued services.
Perception is a huge complicating factor, for sure! Stay strong, Mama, and please make sure you get breaks when you need them, even if it’s pretty hard to facilitate- 💜⚡️
It’s so crazy that you say that! I was looking up programs for my adult cousin. She’s developmentally delayed. She lives in a small town and doesn’t drive. She’s very isolated now that she is out of school and doesn’t qualify for young adult programs. It makes her act out and depressed. She needs to be able to socialize with individuals like her and make friends or learn a skill that can help her feel useful and like she is part of society. I was furious, because there were none in her area. I found ONE cool one and it’s so expensive. I’m a teacher, so it really hit home for me, not just because it’s a family member but also because of all my students who will be on the same boat later. I kept stressing how these kids won’t stay kids forever. They will eventually grow up and need services. It made me sad and so infuriated at the same time. We’ve always shown her a lot of love and love spoiling her, but I know she needs a weekday program and to socialize. I keep researching and hoping to find something but it’s frustrating!
Bailey's got the energy of the fun aunt that's been single for 10 years.
I drive by that prison in Florence on my way to Phoenix, and it always gives me the creeps. Although it was cool years ago when they had a gift shop. I got some cool metal yard art from a talented inmate artist.😎
Hello! I'm almost done with the entire mmmm playlist! I love the way you break down stories and I don't have to suffer from nightmares afterwards, thank you!
I have a recommendation: Can you make an episode about Pablo Garavito?
The reason prisoners are let out for a short time, is to help with them being institutionalised . It helps with almost training them to connect with society again & it's been proven to reduce reoffending rates (sometimes when long term prisoners are suddenly released, it's too much of a shock & they commit any crime they can in order to be imprisoned again sadly)
I'm a first responder and work this same area. The prison is within walking distance of Blue Mist. Prisoners get released and have nowhere to go, so they just wander this tiny little town. Lots of weird stuff goes on there. I've been in the room where she was killed. Robert even tried to wear his dead moms head.
Ohhh nooo, that’s even more horrifying...did the motel room become a “tourist attraction”? I’m just getting the creepy vibes that the room holds.
I live on 7 acres not far from the prison. I drive by the blue mist all the time. I often have prisoners that were set free just wander onto my property asking for rides, to use the phone etc. They literally just dump them out onto the street in this very rural desert town This is a strange little town. Now the Blue Mist has a whole new light to it lol!
@@kimberlygraziano7407 i hope you have cameras, and big dogs for protection! I’m sorry that the prisoners get dumped out like that, it’s definitely not safe for anyone walking nearby the motel or in the community. I imagine it’s spread out bc of desert, tho. 🤔 doesn’t anyone in local government help to make changes for safety?
Wait, what? He tried to wear her HEAD???
😱
Coming from someone that lived in Florence right next to the motel for most of my teen years; Thank you for shedding light on a story that has been partially told for years!
I’m soooo happy that these are back. Forget the haters, those who know, know that these videos do nothing but promote awareness! Love you sis!!!