STOP WAISTING Your Time & Look For These RED FLAGS In A Relationship! | LILY COLLINS & Jay Shetty

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  • čas přidán 5. 05. 2022
  • In this ON Purpose episode, Tune to hear Lily Collins tell Jay Shetty about her past toxic relationship. Learn how she identified the red flags after she left and turned the negative experience into a roadmap of what she wanted in a healthy relationship.
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Komentáře • 51

  • @daphantom6632
    @daphantom6632 Před rokem +20

    In a relationship, the reason why it’s so important to “know yourself” and “love yourself” is because then, you can set boundaries that nurture and protect your “true self”. When a peson respects your boundaries, you feel heard and seen.

  • @ingrid3578
    @ingrid3578 Před 2 lety +52

    Hi sorry but I have to tell you that you spelled "waisting" wrong. It's "wasting." People, please thumbs up so Jay can see.

  • @Yourpetstories
    @Yourpetstories Před 2 lety +38

    “Instead of worrying about what you cannot control, shift your energy to what you can create.”
    ― Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart

    • @IwonaBial
      @IwonaBial Před měsícem

      But the main problem is not control, not creation, but wrong communication in relationship, lack of understanding. If you want to "create" good relationship with somebody you love, you cannot do this without this person, on your own.

  • @meeezy
    @meeezy Před 2 lety +26

    crazy how im going through this but with friendships. im in a better place now and at peace of what’s happened with losing those that walked of my life. this interview came at divine timing.

  • @iamgoddessoflove
    @iamgoddessoflove Před 2 lety +13

    Any relationship that makes you feel worse about yourself, rather than better, is toxic! When you are left feeling unloved, drained and have been attacked in any way, is a sure sign that you're in a toxic relationship. No one is worth staying in a relationship that causes you constant pain and heartache.💔
    💙CZcamsr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

  • @serenesweet2000
    @serenesweet2000 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I am going through this in my marriage. My husband became abusive, and my body started telling me to run away. Thank you so much for sharing your story !

  • @brainstormd
    @brainstormd Před 2 lety +39

    “Life is not about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.”
    - Lolly Daskal

    • @himanshusharma681
      @himanshusharma681 Před rokem +3

      When you find yourself you automatically create yourself

    • @IwonaBial
      @IwonaBial Před měsícem +1

      If you are not alone, life is about relation, how to take care about relation, how to built them

  • @bellabella8677
    @bellabella8677 Před rokem +1

    I kind of experienced the same in a relationship....It's refreshing when u feel u are not alone to experience it,people struggle, do mistakes & grow more from it💞

  • @lizziebuggio
    @lizziebuggio Před rokem +3

    I read her book, I saw all of her films, she is literally the best person to me, she’s been into a lot of situation, I can’t help being in love with this a,axing woman

  • @TrinaSuperStar
    @TrinaSuperStar Před 2 lety +8

    Wow thank you for sharing. I went though a similar situation. I am a positive person and even in the hard times. I kept saying what are the lessons the blessing and gifts that have come from this and how can I grow from this. We have a choice in any given moment on how we react to certain situations. Its up to us.

  • @Natalie-sn2tl
    @Natalie-sn2tl Před 2 lety +2

    I have always loved Lilly 💕 She’s so amazing !!!

  • @samrajunaidha
    @samrajunaidha Před 2 lety +2

    I had watched the clip on Insta but could never find the full interview. Thank you for uploading!!

  • @EvaEva-lf3ww
    @EvaEva-lf3ww Před 9 měsíci +1

    Thank you both for that precious video

  • @minfawaz3339
    @minfawaz3339 Před 2 lety +1

    I love hearing you two 🙏🏻

  • @entropicvibe
    @entropicvibe Před 10 měsíci +1

    I love the way she talk!

  • @leahdelpezzo1364
    @leahdelpezzo1364 Před rokem +2

    Wow everything she’s saying sounds like my previous relationship and how I felt ❤

  • @englieasy3860
    @englieasy3860 Před 2 lety +1

    Great, you pursuing to let people live a meaningful life more than ever if they recognize what are they trying to say to themselves daily.
    Thanks that's a great job.

  • @houdabouabdallah7106
    @houdabouabdallah7106 Před rokem +2

    Wonderful inspiring video

  • @keevancrawford6708
    @keevancrawford6708 Před 2 lety +10

    Aren’t we pretty much the same people we were as kids, to our core, but get off track, jaded, or lose integrity based on circle of influence? I don’t feel as I’ve changed that much. You do grow as far as the external tangible stuff but my character is pretty much the same.

  • @ibraahimyuusuf8228
    @ibraahimyuusuf8228 Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks🥰🥰

  • @ellie698
    @ellie698 Před 2 lety +10

    waisting??

  • @alexandermaruri1732
    @alexandermaruri1732 Před 2 lety +5

    Huge fan of the pod... Waisting?

  • @user-rz5pr8gt5j
    @user-rz5pr8gt5j Před 10 měsíci +1

    ❤❤❤Lily Collins❤️❤️❤️

  • @laelasequoia
    @laelasequoia Před 2 lety +1

    jay you spelled wasting wrong my dear friend

  • @steff8345
    @steff8345 Před rokem +2

    That was an amazing interview!!!! I listened to the whole audio book in sauna moments. 🧖🏻‍♀️ 💕
    Favorite quote: “Learn to love yourself when everyone is judging you”.
    Thank you Lilli and Jay!!

  • @thewhiterabbit3221
    @thewhiterabbit3221 Před 2 lety +3

    WASTING not waisting

  • @JaeSwift10JamellaSwift
    @JaeSwift10JamellaSwift Před 2 lety +3

    *Wasting, not waisting, unless your working on your abs.

  • @tagoresai5789
    @tagoresai5789 Před 2 lety +5

    waisting ?means

  • @user-gm6nf5ln8f
    @user-gm6nf5ln8f Před 2 lety +4

    Wasting not waisting*

  • @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489

    When human has the fear of God human's relationship will be blessed

  • @emmapaynter9893
    @emmapaynter9893 Před rokem +2

    You guys literally spelled wasting wrong.

  • @alezandradavila2581
    @alezandradavila2581 Před 2 lety

    Ya

  • @josephvongphakdy2877
    @josephvongphakdy2877 Před 2 lety +1

    🔥

  • @gavinspeaks
    @gavinspeaks Před 2 lety +3

    All your wishes will come true, every wish has its own appointed hour. You can't miss it. Everything you do brings you closer to your desire. or your imaginal act. You get what you think about.
    ~Much Love from a Law of Attraction CZcamsr💜

  • @Kwilt2collect
    @Kwilt2collect Před 2 lety +3

    Isn’t it wasting vs waisting?

  • @alezandradavila2581
    @alezandradavila2581 Před 2 lety +1

    That was me

  • @graceygracey2764
    @graceygracey2764 Před 2 lety

    Hmm

  • @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489

    God created the relationship on this earth through Adam and Eve for them to be happy but because their disobedience to God happiness with sadness exist till now.

  • @sharonj731
    @sharonj731 Před 2 lety +2

    Title error: Stop WASTING (not waisting - not a word). I initially thought this was a play on words and maybe this was going to be about weight loss, which would have been odd for this channel.

  • @fatimasadat1262
    @fatimasadat1262 Před 2 lety

    ❤❤

  • @momione11
    @momione11 Před 2 lety

    ♥️

  • @muftiwibawa66
    @muftiwibawa66 Před rokem

    Me watching this be like:
    "Ehem, yeah, ya I agree"
    "Gosh, she's beautiful"
    "Aaah, yeah I agree"

  • @ibraahimyuusuf8228
    @ibraahimyuusuf8228 Před 2 lety +1

    🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @sravanidandu794
    @sravanidandu794 Před 2 lety +2

    Waisting??

  • @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489

    Flags are created by human.Heart and relationships in human life with happiness is created by God.

  • @Brahemym
    @Brahemym Před rokem

    قالت yourself أكثر من نامجون