Connecting with my Daughter So I Don't Lose Her

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  • @serenahoward5177
    @serenahoward5177 Před rokem +165

    As a young woman watching your videos it’s very reassuring that perfection isn’t the goal ,the goal is to keep trying at whatever it is .Thank you for sharing .

  • @darronhilaire1703
    @darronhilaire1703 Před rokem +167

    I just got off the phone with a friend of mine who is going through a hard time with his daughter and got to pray with him in this moment. We both admittedly suffer from a lack of knowledge of what it means to connect with and minster to the women in our life. We both realized we don’t have think much of how to be there for the guys in our life but it is an effort and commitment to show up in the same way for the women in our life. Then I turn to media for answers and examples and here you are. Thank you!

  • @recipebandit3563
    @recipebandit3563 Před rokem +118

    Anaya's smile is infectious and beautiful. You all were blessed with an angel. As a daddy's girl myself, she will speak of your interactions like this forever ! Good job Beleaf!! Yes ,the boys in the kitchen 🤣

    • @MizzSophiistiicated8
      @MizzSophiistiicated8 Před rokem +1

      Also yes lol, I forgot to mention in my earlier comment that we wanna see the boys in the kitchen! We're here for the laughs and the vibes and the memories!

    • @rasta487
      @rasta487 Před rokem +1

      Thank you. The relationship between father & daughter is otherworldly. When it's good it's everything.

    • @Purpleiciousbabe
      @Purpleiciousbabe Před 11 měsíci

      Yes forever! She will definitely hold him highly!

  • @thekingdomway3473
    @thekingdomway3473 Před rokem +73

    As a father some of my greatest dad moments have been with my oldest daughter.
    Her smile in the beginning says it all

  • @LetMeTellUSomething...
    @LetMeTellUSomething... Před rokem +57

    Sweet memories in the baking

    • @BBBB-nd8pl
      @BBBB-nd8pl Před 10 měsíci

      You stole the words right out of my bowl. 🥣

  • @ChavonJWright
    @ChavonJWright Před rokem +38

    The way you didn't yell or fuss or chastise her for the mess, like didn't even acknowledge it and she went to grab a paper towel. ❤😊😭 OMG I'm grateful for my mistakes just dropped and now I'm REALLY crying. I'm currently spending hard earned money undoing my family of origins contempt towards mistakes. IM grateful for this beautiful example of black fatherhood.

  • @jdezeeuw6540
    @jdezeeuw6540 Před rokem +19

    For all of us ladies who craved the attention that a father could have given. I give this dad his flowers. I always fantasize my donor really would have loved me as a daughter. 🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸

  • @25447carepear
    @25447carepear Před rokem +95

    Remember when you said
    " Marry well. I did?"
    That stuck with me. 😊You as a dad to Anaya, she will not understand a man offering anything LESS than the standard you have set and SHE too prayerfully, will marry well. What a blessed little girl and daughter. 😊

    • @shawilliams9701
      @shawilliams9701 Před rokem +5

      Anaya has Yvette and Theo's whole face, her smile is ridiculously beautiful, loll

    • @animula6908
      @animula6908 Před rokem +2

      I still pray for her, because she’s got that “saving the boy” complex when it comes to her baby brother, and I just know when she rebels as a normal adolescent some bad boy is going to be standing by to try to play on that. But her good upbringing and the lord will prevent it from bringing her down. No weapon that is formed against the shall prosper.

  • @kayayy
    @kayayy Před rokem +75

    Anaya’s excitement is soo pure and heartwarming!! 🥰🥰🥰 Love it 🧡

  • @trenaeborders6192
    @trenaeborders6192 Před rokem +51

    Anaya is so beautiful and her smile is so wide and special! Love it❤

  • @kp1055
    @kp1055 Před rokem +26

    Beautiful! Every time I see you interacting so tenderly with her I flashback to when you used to sing the ANAYA SONG to her as a baby. I think it’s time to unpack the song for old times sake with her reaction to your serenade of love to and for her🙏🏾💕💗🦋

    • @lwya12
      @lwya12 Před rokem

      This!!! I wanna hear the song and see baby Anaya!

  • @doll.ov.poetrii4682
    @doll.ov.poetrii4682 Před rokem +9

    Anaya is a living, breathing doll; so pretty!

  • @user-alfredo-saucy
    @user-alfredo-saucy Před rokem +6

    "I know Anaya loves brownies but hopefully, you know what I'm saying, she could love me one day as much as she loves brownies..."🌟
    Best line!😍🤣 (My favorite!)

  • @litgirlablaze3432
    @litgirlablaze3432 Před rokem +17

    Her smile from ear to ear is so awesome to see! She loves her dad soo much!! Very cool of you to get out of your comfort zone since you don’t usually bake brownies to have this fun time with A!

  • @Belle0477
    @Belle0477 Před rokem +12

    The sweetness of this video and beauty of Anaya’s smile brought (happy) tears to my eyes

  • @mcneilla77
    @mcneilla77 Před rokem +37

    This was beautiful, intentional, and a priceless moment!! You said it, presence means so much more to children!! Spending quality time, and those still quiet moments is so fulfilling and a blessing!! ❤❤

  • @Msharve
    @Msharve Před rokem +15

    Anaya is growing up Beautifully!! I saw the joy in her face being with her Dad❤ Great job bonding with your daughter, Mr. Henry

  • @manil3011
    @manil3011 Před rokem +17

    She is growing/blooming soooo beautifully. I'm literally crying

  • @litgirlablaze3432
    @litgirlablaze3432 Před rokem +6

    One of the best parts of making brownies as a kid w my grandma was “licking the bowl” at the end 😆😁

  • @turquoisebrowntq
    @turquoisebrowntq Před rokem +8

    I would absolutely love to see each boy making their requested dish one on one. This warmed my heart! Anaya is always so full of love and joy. Each child brings something different ❤

  • @danitabarnes5516
    @danitabarnes5516 Před rokem +6

    Nothing like a father-daughter relationship. I was truly a daddy's girl, especially since I was the baby of the family. He got older and more settled in life and probably spent more time with me than any of my older brothers and sisters. I cherish those times and memories! Anaya will cherish the times she spends with you as well. Love your beautiful family!❤

  • @Jasmine-mi5dq
    @Jasmine-mi5dq Před rokem +10

    It's so important to have that connection with each child. I'm a single mother of two preteen boys and a five year old girl. They are so different. It can be overwhelming for me but they remind me that its worth. Show them love of self, each other, and the world. I have been watching since your boys were little and I so appreciate the love I feel through the screen. You give me hope in being a present, continually learning and openingly loving parent. Thank you from my family to yours.

    • @MizzSophiistiicated8
      @MizzSophiistiicated8 Před rokem

      You're doing great, mama! Just keep reminding your babies that you love them, and they'll grow up to not only thank you, but hopefully think the world of you (assuming you don't have the time you wish you did to spend with them now).

    • @yahschosen7831
      @yahschosen7831 Před rokem

      Ye-e-s… one day at a time… and one moment or situation at a time. You are doing an AWESOME job, Sis!🥰
      Peace and blessings be unto you…🙏🏾

  • @chillinx7268
    @chillinx7268 Před rokem +5

    I love her hair. She looks so pretty and older. Father/Daughter time is essential especially in a house with 3 boys. Her parents are doing an awesome job. Thank you for allowing your family to share their experiences growing up with us.

  • @Baddesthtx
    @Baddesthtx Před rokem +13

    Love this ❤she is so blessed to have you. A father’s presence is so important

  • @terrelandrews6417
    @terrelandrews6417 Před rokem +3

    Her smile just lights up a room.☺️ She is growing up so fast and is a beautiful little girl❤❤

  • @charmainewallace7414
    @charmainewallace7414 Před rokem +3

    She is looking more n more like her Mother's twin😊

  • @jaselise22
    @jaselise22 Před 10 měsíci +1

    “It’s not about being perfect it’s about being present” I’m gonna hold on to that forever. ❤ this video really struck my heart.

  • @The66Tink
    @The66Tink Před rokem +2

    The smile on Anaya’s face says it all! She’ll always remember & treasure moments like this one. Maybe having a daddy/daughter date once a week is something you could (doing whatever ie baking, cooking, playing, coloring etc) do. ❤❤❤ these moments. Watching the boys in the kitchen would be great!

  • @janiegetyourgun
    @janiegetyourgun Před rokem +2

    Healing my inner child with these videos of you and your daughter. She is such a lucky girl, and you are one lucky dad!

  • @VashtiPerry
    @VashtiPerry Před rokem +1

    She loves you. She looks at you for approval several times ❤

  • @earthtoneige
    @earthtoneige Před rokem +5

    It’s so beautiful to see the devotion you have to your family. I got so emotional watching this video because part of me wanted quality time with my dad just like this. He showed his love in other ways, and possibly the only way he knew how.

  • @ciaras.8496
    @ciaras.8496 Před rokem +1

    The little girl inside of me appreciates and thanks you for wanting to be present and being active with your babies plus sharing with us. Much love❤

  • @eve438
    @eve438 Před rokem +2

    She's so beautiful! She looks like my granddaughter!!

  • @BeroKyandi
    @BeroKyandi Před rokem +1

    When I was young, my dad would say that girls eventually fall out with their mum after puberty so then we'd be close later. He has no sisters, no nieces, no other daughters, and he's not close with his female cousins so I don't know where that info came from but it definitely didn't come to pass 😂 I picked up guitar just to have something in common with my dad or we would never spend any time together. He was originally so excited about me learning guitar but the last time we talked about guitar, he was telling me how much better my brother was than me (he wasn't even learning guitar, he was learning bass!) and how much faster he picked it up. It broke my heart and making music, which I genuinely loved, has become really hard.
    All this to say, you admitting that you don't like baking but taking the time to bake Anaya's favourite dessert was everything. I am joyous for her, to have you as a father. And it gives me hope that the family I was raised in won't be the family I will raise my kids in. Thank you and God bless, from the other side of the world

  • @salowasalzer1974
    @salowasalzer1974 Před rokem +5

    Yes! Please cook with each of them. What a great time and super fun to watch.

  • @djinifza7981
    @djinifza7981 Před rokem +1

    This man is my dad I mean he gives me what I didn't get from my biological father. He's everything I can't explain. I could pay for them to allow me join their family. The good Lord is with this family. Calm parenting

  • @chimburuomatreasure2466
    @chimburuomatreasure2466 Před rokem +4

    So beautiful to watch, love the excitement on her face when you even told her let's go make some brownies 🥺🥺,may God continue to bless this family greatly, Amen 🙏🏾 ❤️

  • @hyunbinsdimple5803
    @hyunbinsdimple5803 Před 10 měsíci

    I just had a hectic week at work. Full of mistakes, and second guessing. Hearing Glen say “I’m grateful for my mistakes, they taught me everything I know” helped me to understand that it’s ok.

  • @chicagogirl14
    @chicagogirl14 Před rokem +1

    I love that you asked her questions about her love for brownies! Her joy was so palpable that I was curious too.

  • @user-alfredo-saucy
    @user-alfredo-saucy Před rokem +1

    "It's not about getting it perfect, it's just about being present" 🌟
    Amazing

  • @ingareid8680
    @ingareid8680 Před rokem +4

    Great memories are created in the kitchen, loved that moment with you and Anaya. ❤
    Yes I would definitely love to see all the kids in the mix.

  • @nicolegordon129
    @nicolegordon129 Před rokem +1

    Anaya is beautiful! She’s growing up so nicely. Great job parenting you guys

  • @rasta487
    @rasta487 Před rokem +1

    She's everything. So cute and sweet.

  • @chelseafrattura7742
    @chelseafrattura7742 Před 11 měsíci

    Mindful baking for a mindful girl!! You can tell Anaya loves those small details. She shines brightest when you’re taking the time to notice every beautiful little thing about her ❤

  • @denisemichelleharris6689

    Great content! Love the Daddy Daughter Time! Yes, you gotta cook with each of the kids!

  • @WoollyB
    @WoollyB Před rokem +1

    Greasing her scalp will be in one of her core memories 💕 you're really #1 Dad

  • @saraholson287lovesJesus

    I miss my dad every day. He was the best dad who spent time with me like this. May God continue to bless you and your family

  • @MsLanny9
    @MsLanny9 Před 7 měsíci

    Such a smart, compassionate little lady!!!!

  • @lotsoflollies1082
    @lotsoflollies1082 Před rokem +1

    Such a beautiful father daugther moment. Anaya is a gorgeous and I think its great that you are taking attention to sugar cravings to keep them balanced!
    Thank you for sharing and hopefully more fathers feel inspired to love their daugthers with intention and care. 💟

  • @amidia3249
    @amidia3249 Před 6 měsíci

    I was thinking the same thing about her face while she was eating from the spoon. She was REALLY enjoying that.

  • @cycyj847
    @cycyj847 Před rokem

    What a precious memory she will have of this. She's so beautiful and smart, she's able to give a wonderful reasoning as to why yall should bake brownies.

  • @honeyboombuley6362
    @honeyboombuley6362 Před rokem +15

    I love you guys relationship! Every girl wants a relationship with their dad. I did! Unfortunately he wasn't there for any of his kids.(the ones I knew anyway. It's just a desire that every young lady needs/ wants. Much love to you guys! Great Dad! Presence is greater than presents.❤

    • @royalbeauty5285
      @royalbeauty5285 Před rokem +2

      Love this "presence is greater than presents" ❤

    • @mshippy19
      @mshippy19 Před rokem

      Every year for my birthday I tell my friends and family that.

  • @sydnidavis1846
    @sydnidavis1846 Před rokem

    Anaya is so beautiful. Through her smile, I can tell she loves her dad, especially having you all to her. And YES, let's see Biscuit in the kitchen. 🤣🥰😊

  • @khaily6645
    @khaily6645 Před rokem +2

    Such a blessed daughter and father relationship.

  • @deder71
    @deder71 Před rokem +1

    She has the most beautiful smile ❤

  • @shonalovely2143
    @shonalovely2143 Před rokem +1

    I absolutely love this. I swear her smile is contagious.

  • @yasmidelacroix1613
    @yasmidelacroix1613 Před rokem

    I miss my dad sooo much. We use to have moments like this. My fake egg and his real one. She will treasure this when she gets older for sure❤❤

  • @daniellesmith7149
    @daniellesmith7149 Před rokem +2

    This was so beautiful ❤️

  • @curiositeatv
    @curiositeatv Před rokem +2

    Anaya is so beautiful and getting so grown up! You are blessed to have each other ❤

  • @sademorris2433
    @sademorris2433 Před rokem +1

    This comedian at this church event said “Having a daughter really makes you a dad. Having a son just makes you a supervisor.”😂

  • @mz.beaute6399
    @mz.beaute6399 Před rokem +1

    This is very beautiful!! Your an awesome father keep making memories!! ❤❤

  • @artesha8077
    @artesha8077 Před rokem +2

    This is so wholesome and beautiful. 🥹🥰

  • @iluworks
    @iluworks Před rokem +3

    Thank you so much for the video! You and your family share a lot of positive energy. It's very wholesome to see. Anaya seems to have really enjoyed quality time with her father. And yes, it'll be great to see Uzi in the kitchen up next! Please let us know when the next batch of bracelets are going to be available so we can show our support !

  • @robinmcghee2591
    @robinmcghee2591 Před rokem +2

    I love the way that you are parenting your children

  • @beulahdukes
    @beulahdukes Před rokem +2

    Ohwwwww, I can’t wait 😊. You’re a Great Dad. She’s such a Doll Baby. ❤😊

  • @deborahfoster4825
    @deborahfoster4825 Před rokem +1

    Oh so beautiful her smile is so pretty and brownies are good oh what good memories for you and your daughter blessings to you and your family

  • @BrownSugarNCurls
    @BrownSugarNCurls Před rokem +1

    I absolutely love y’all 🤎🙏🏽

  • @brittanyfigaro
    @brittanyfigaro Před rokem

    These moments will forever be cherished!

  • @Blagal2473
    @Blagal2473 Před rokem +1

    She's the cutest❤

  • @Purpleiciousbabe
    @Purpleiciousbabe Před 11 měsíci

    The best part about baking is licking the bowl 😊

  • @raggedyhaggity250
    @raggedyhaggity250 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you for making this Mel. Some of us will never experience this in our lifetimes, some of us just got unreconcillable relationships and extremely toxic dynamics.
    Just having these type videos exist gives me hope. And a taste of fatherly love heaven.
    God bless yall

  • @MsJoyce31202
    @MsJoyce31202 Před 9 měsíci

    Beautiful. ❤️❤️

  • @CourtneyPri
    @CourtneyPri Před rokem

    Im just like Anaya when it comes to sweets, especially brownies 😂😋. I gotta get a brownie now😂. Love you and Anaya's bond. Yall remind me of my Dad and I when I was a kid. He was my Dad, my hair stylist, my friend, my play student (I'd pretend to be a teacher), my play tea partner, helped w/ school projects, etc. He isnt perfect but these memories are extremely important, but more important is how she sees you with Mom. THAT is everything

  • @tksimpson5735
    @tksimpson5735 Před rokem

    Love this! These are memories that Anaya will cherish forever. 🥰

  • @MsFrazier222
    @MsFrazier222 Před rokem +1

    Again I ADORE this wonderful family!!!

  • @1systa
    @1systa Před rokem

    Beautiful Memories ♥️🖤💚

  • @tanyatimms2951
    @tanyatimms2951 Před rokem

    Such a wonderful relationship with your daughter. She will remember this. She is so pretty

  • @BonusMomLife
    @BonusMomLife Před rokem

    Love this♥️

  • @cj10109
    @cj10109 Před rokem +1

    This is so special! Anaya is so precious 😊🫶🏾

  • @PatriciaPatricia_
    @PatriciaPatricia_ Před rokem

    This is SO important. So so so so SO important! You don’t have to share with us the way you do but i am Beyond thankful for your openness!

  • @SueProv
    @SueProv Před rokem +2

    It would be hilarious to see all of them and you trying to organize. Please do it.

  • @SallyM-7777
    @SallyM-7777 Před rokem

    This beautiful child has grown up before our eyes!! She will never forget these sweet moments.

  • @jaechanda7
    @jaechanda7 Před rokem

    This blessed my heart so much.

  • @jasminehobdy3414
    @jasminehobdy3414 Před rokem

    Love to see it!!😊

  • @tianahawver8378
    @tianahawver8378 Před rokem +1

    This brings back some core memories of time with my dad. I still love spending time with just him ❤ And definitely want to see you with the boys individually in the kitchen!

  • @Flo2Litt
    @Flo2Litt Před rokem +1

    I definitely appreciate how you followed through and kept your word with spending time with your daughter. ❤ You have done something that she won’t forget. Also, she does love you more than you know. I can tell how she looks at you. Plus I would love to see you and the boys in the kitchen. Have the best day! 😊

  • @Slan.Vizions
    @Slan.Vizions Před rokem

    Bro, I love these videos man. Inspiring for sure

  • @tamiweinert1007
    @tamiweinert1007 Před rokem +1

    Her smile ❤

  • @ebonymedard5582
    @ebonymedard5582 Před 10 měsíci

    ❤The look of pure happiness on her face, you really made her day And Yessss please we want to see Uncle Baby in the Kitchen.😂❤✊🏾

  • @isaackhelo3766
    @isaackhelo3766 Před rokem

    Inspirational🙏🏿

  • @saraw7050
    @saraw7050 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for sharing this simple and beautiful time spent with Anaya. As someone who lost her father suddenly at the age of 9 and still misses him over 40 years later, this video was heartwarming. I ask you to stop saying that it was a fatherhood fail when you didn't bake brownies with Anaya when she asked previously. Lovingly setting and sticking to boundaries and standards are good things for us all at any age. I say with confidence that your daughter loves you more than brownies 🤣. And of course, I want to see another video with all the kids - particularly my boyfriend, Uzi! God bless you all.

  • @nancyj1765
    @nancyj1765 Před rokem

    I love this!

  • @aliciakeyslover83
    @aliciakeyslover83 Před rokem

    I love everything about this

  • @casandratappin6349
    @casandratappin6349 Před rokem +1

    Beautiful! We want to see all the kids cook!!

  • @Dan.W.05
    @Dan.W.05 Před rokem

    ADORABLE

  • @josephkangandjera2054
    @josephkangandjera2054 Před rokem +1

    This is beautiful.

  • @NANDOEDITZ2023
    @NANDOEDITZ2023 Před rokem

    This video just made me happy❤❤ I can’t wait to be a parent. As hard as it is..(I can only imagine). I’m excited❤❤
    Good Job Dad!🎉

  • @shalindsey1769
    @shalindsey1769 Před rokem

    I love this!!!! Great job dad!

  • @tammywoodall9288
    @tammywoodall9288 Před rokem

    Your children are beautiful! Your family is beautiful. You both are VERY special parents. I really enjoy watching your videos.

  • @TiaGLDN
    @TiaGLDN Před rokem

    Yes, we want to see it all. ❤