Making Blended Families Work | Hina Mirza & Rizwan Ali
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- čas přidán 15. 01. 2023
- Blended families are becoming more and more common as people divorce and then remarry. What's the secret to successfully bringing two families together under one roof? Husband-and-wife team Hina Mirza and Rizwan Ali say it starts with the couple building strong foundations with each other and with their children. They offer tips to deal with stepparent discipline, conflicting family values and responsibilities, sibling rivalry and complicated scheduling and transitions.
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I appreciate your mutual understanding , mutual respect and your commitment to focus on family matters more than your own personal interests.It's amazing to see such a high level of maturity and responsibility on both sides MaaShaa ALLAH Tabaraka ALLAH 🤲👍👏👏👏May ALLAH bless you with more knowledge ,kindness and wisdom 🤲
Education is what makes any relationship successful
What a beautiful relationship.. :)
This is such great advice! And they sound like they are wonderful parents!
Thanks for the very interesting topic and a great example of a family, mashallah
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ONE BECOMES MORE RESPONSIBLE & AWARE OF LIFE. MORE STRONGER, MORE LIABILITIES & MORE COMMITMENTS.
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How does this work with the three other Wives of Rizwan?
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Related to this, what is the Islamic view on divorce itself?
If you search “Let the Quran Speak Divorce” they have multiple videos on this, hope this helps!
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Hmm, what if the other parent was really abusive and the child actually likes the step parent more? Saying to them "I'll never be you mum/dad" may be not the best idea.
Noticed you didn't bring the kids on the share how they feel. Bet if you asked them they wouldn't be too happy with a "bonus" parental figure or you sharing such a connection with the other person's kids. "Blended" Brandy Bunch shouldn't be promoted as normalized or "common" (neither should divorce). This is a very problematic and weird situation the parents have forced the kids into and will likely traumatize them even more if respect for their feelings and emotional needs are ignored or unattended for. You may have failed as a partner (for whatever reason), don't fail as a parent.
The other thing is once your daughters reach puberty & become teens its extremely awkward to have a new father. Blended families are problematic for gender reasons
You shouldn't be so quick to assume how her kids feel and the deeper relationship they have with one another. All you know is what they have said and nothing more. Divorce is already normalized and not once did they promote it? They are talking about their experience with their divorces. This interview was more about how they made their marriage and blended family successful. They never went ahead and said "have a blended family" but rather explained how they approached their situation to guide others if they are experiencing the same. So for you to assume that they may have failed as a parent (which they haven't) is out of pocket and really not for you to say since you're an outsider. Hina is a psychotherapist so she is well aware of the possible consequences, and I'm sure she would have provides resources for their kids if they have had a hard time with the situation. So don't assume they didn't bring their children onto the show because they may have been afraid that their kids would have said that it negatively impacted them. there's so many other reasons why they didn't come onto the show, they have lives you know.
Just wanted to come here and provide some insight as the eldest child of a blended family. I feel like it definitely depends on the situation. In my specific case it was actually pretty ok. The way you introduce a "bonus" parent to the household is important, and while it may seem traumatizing, problematic, or weird, it doesn't have to be perceived so negatively. In fact, blending a family can honestly be a beautiful thing! While I agree divorce should not be something taken lightly, it's extremely important to take a look at the bigger picture, it's hard for the parents as well! Anyways, just wanted to mention how the idea of having divorced parents, who both blended families, does not always have to be a bad thing, make sure you take the time and check in with your kids, tell them you love them. They just want you to be happy!!
@@mirhakhan6785 Never said they failed as a parent, it was a warning not to (aimed at the audience/comments section).
@@imanzuberi It can depend on many different factors such as the age of the child, or their bond with the other parent, how easy or hard they may take to such a potentially huge new change in their life. But just generally speaking it is not a positive experience for the children. Usually its unsettling, stressful, and destabilizing. My point was be careful not to neglect their needs. Thank you for sharing your insight I'm glad this wasn't the case for you.