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Hey there, TikTok lovers! It's Charlotte Dobre, and today we're talking about some tea that got spilled on the app. That's right, we're diving into some messy drama that's been making waves across the internet.
You know how it goes: one person shares something, and suddenly the whole world knows about it. That's exactly what happened when a group of users decided to spill their tea on TikTok. They started sharing their personal stories, exposing secrets, and airing out dirty laundry for all to see.
Some of the stories were pretty shocking, with people revealing scandalous details about their personal lives or their friends and family members. Others were more lighthearted, but still got people talking. No matter what the topic, though, everyone was hooked.
Of course, not everyone was thrilled about the tea being spilled. Some people got upset, and there was a fair amount of drama as a result. But for those who were just watching from the sidelines, it was pure entertainment.
So if you're looking for some drama to spice up your feed, look no further than TikTok. Who knows what secrets will be spilled next?
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Mom of groom hired a hitman to control the guest list and the family decides to proceed with the wedding?? And grandma STILL isn’t invited?!?😮
How much was grandma worth? Are they in her will I'd be changing that tout suite if so😑
I guess Grandma is uninvited for her own safety? Since Aunty-I-will-hire-a-hitman isn't under custody, inviting Grandma could make Aunty desperate enough to try and take matters into her own hands. Best do some risk management and avoid any potentially life threatening situation for Grandma.
I mean did the aunt already pay the hitman?
My guess is the psycho MIL to be was “protecting” the “treasure chest”, in that she’s afraid grandma will give to expensive of a gift to the newlyweds, and MIL has plans for that inheritance. That’s some sick, sick 💩
@@gnashsang Well, if Grandma's sound enough in mind to acquire and gift expensive gifts, she's sound enough in mind to disinherit Aunty in her will, especially after the hitman shenanigans.
Regarding the Nanny issue... if that mom has the time to work from home and come and critique the girl every 15 minutes, she has the time to just raise her kid herself.
100%. Who would bother hiring a baby sitter OR nanny only to micromanage them 4x/HOUR?? Take notes and report EVERY conversation? LMAO
She needs a victim to belittled
I'm guessing the excuse was that she didn't have time to actively engage with her son every 5 seconds as she was too busy being a "famous artist"? I have no idea why they didn't let the grandparents take the poor kid out somewhere. Why not just send him day care or something at that point?
working as a nanny with stay at home parents or parets who work from home is another form of hell. They expect you to make the child silent (3/4 yeard old kids), they come to "check" and make constant sugestions.
@@gravyz2cute4u the grandparents were the artists
At the age of 15, I started having awful pain in my abdomen. Went to the hospital and the nurses and doctors kept asking me I could be pregnant. What?! No?! “Are you sure?”
Turned out to be a huge ass cyst and I ended up in the hospital for two weeks. I swear everyone at school thought I was pregnant . Couldn’t return to school for another two weeks, so of course that must have been it! I was super sick and was cut open hip to hip and lost an ovary. People are idiots
My mom went about the "over controlling parent" thing a different way. She made me afraid of everything a rebellious teen does. Jokes on her. Guess who's basically agoraphobic and will never have children?
My mom did the same exact thing to me and only recently was I able to move out for grad school and now I'm living on my own and thriving
They hired a nanny so that when the kid is inevitably screwed up they can blame someone else
Yuuuuuup!
That child sounds like an experiment, like a literal test tube baby.
Pretty much.
sounds about right
Dude, the groom dodged a bullet. Like literally.
Why are we offing grandma 👵🏼???
Roses are red, cacti are prickly, holy shit that escalated quickly
I'm stealing that comment.
Can I, please?😂
I’m going to need to steal this. Love plants and I’m an English major. 💋🤌🏽
😂😂😂
awesome
Plz give us the permission to use this
That Nanny story....reminds me of a "Meet and Greet" I did with this wealthy lady living out in the middle of nowhere. She and her husband were going out of town and needed a pet sitter for her dog and two horses. She handed me SEVEN binders that were jam packed with instructions of how their meals were put together, specific times that they HAD to be fed. Not a minute before or after, three times a day. Exercise routines, also timed and regimented down to grooming routines, stall cleaning technique, how exactly to change bedding, a certain level of water in each bucket and bowl, their exact favorite toys and when to bring them out for their strict playtime sessions, what time the mail came every day and where exactly to put each separate piece of mail and newspaper, down to a list of clothing items I could and COULD NOT wear in the barn oh and I needed to take a shower and bring a change of clothing when going from the barn to the house so that not even a whiff of barn odor or horse scent could be detected inside the house as the dog would be offended and the owner would know it as she had cameras set up all around the property. All of this for $11 an hour. Yeah.....I was at that meet and greet for FOUR HOURS and I did NOT take the job. What a crazy megalomaniac!
I hear stories like this and it's crazy to think ppl like this actually exist. This is lk serial killer vibes
@@olivrose9226 oh they do exist. I met a few myself (in a big city, worked with some wealthy delusional people, but it's important to mention that not all wealthy people are like that. Some are very nice to everyone regardless of their bank account, or their family name)
I remember getting woken up in the middle of the night when I was 13 and being made to pee in a cup. I was so groggy that I barely remembered it and didn't think about what was going on. It turned out that my parents were afraid that I was possibly pregnant or doing drugs because I was acting differently. I had just gotten back from camp and for the first time hadn't been bullied but befriended and started getting noticed as not a nerd. I hadn't even had my first kiss lol. I had barely even started noticing boys at the time.
Please go NC with your parents if you can
Aaah camp. Every bullied and/or abused kid’s refuge (who were able to go). I loved every day of it… cold showers, mosquitos, freezing nights 🤷♀️. All worth it!
This literally hurts my heart. I would never! I would lose my kids trust and never get it back. There are so many ways to handle this without the lack of trust later.
Hearing people spill tea is great on TikTok because I get to know 103% of the drama without having to deal with any of it!
So true. I stay off social media as much as possible. It can be SO toxic, and drama takes too much emotional energy.
Also thankful Miss Charlotte that reacts to TikTok so I miss the drama and the TikTok nonsense. Thank you Miss Charlotte!
Its ideal!
@@josi4251 o
Reddit is just as good, lol... without the videos of course
I let my bridesmaids pick out their own dresses as long as they were either navy or silver or some combo. My sister was one of my bridesmaids. She calls me and says “I found a great dress! It’s white with navy trim.” First thing out of my mouth, “Are you the bride? Aren’t you already married?” She comes back “Well this is the first dress that I like.” And I said, “Well find another dress or find another wedding to wear it to because there is only one bride at this wedding.”
'find another wedding' 😆😆 Love it
I did the same - just told my bridesmaids to wear a black dress that they liked, and one of them did call about a navy dress that she preferred. (I just told her to wear whatever she felt comfortable in.) But white?! I wonder if your sister was planning to follow the gown request with an "it only looks good if it's paired with the matching veil, though - you don't mind, right?"🤣
What the hell???? 🤣🤣 good on you!!
As someone who has no interest in fashion and wears literally the same clothes for 20+ years, my first reaction was „Well, white is close enough to silver“. 🙈
I could have totally been your sister in the excitement of having found something I liked 😅.
I guess lucky me, I never got invited to a wedding yet 🤣 (apart from my own - and I wore blue), could have been potentially embarrassing.
yes! fucking queen!
I had a similar experience with “babysitting” when I was around 15, although not quite as severe. I would go over after school to watch a 3 year old boy, but both his parents would be there, not working, the entire time. I thought, ok, they just want a little break to get stuff done, that’s understandable. But the mother would constantly interrupt whatever we were doing to breastfeed him, critique how we were playing and make suggestions of things we should do instead, hover around while I was doing things like changing his diaper, and just generally order me about. The father was either being creepy or acting as if I didn’t exist. No in between. I didn’t last long there. I advertised my services as babysitting, not nannying, and I didn’t appreciate being constantly supervised and micromanaged. Like, why was I even there?
probably just so she could have someone to control honestly.
3 years old? Still in diapers? That would've been a red flag for me. I don't do diapers. I would only babysit kids who were potty trained.
Because they are lazy
@@phaedrapage4217every kiddo is different and also the body. Accroding to my study it's normal till 5-6 y.o. after tjat it is a health issue
I love how the grandma is more pissed about not being invited to the wedding instead of the fact a hitman was after her 😂
I think the mom just enjoys the power trip. Maybe the grandparents used to watch the kid, but when she tried to micromanage them they told her "F off, we know how to raise kids and we'll feed Billy a PB&J if we want to!" A shy little 16 year old is easier for her to boss around.
I was thinking the same thing. I am sure she is thinking or telling people how affluent she was because she has a nanny for her son.
At that point I would be like " well since I'm his teacher I want a teachers salary" bet she'd back off then
@@jordandupree420 Starting teacher's salaries only around $15/hour in a lot of the country, unfortunately.
good point
@@rachelmaddowswife8713 she was also 16 and expected to be this kids teacher with zero experience in child development. So if they want her to be the teacher pay her a teachers salary. I stand by my comment
My sister was a governess, and she dealt with some really nightmarish parents. One family was so bad that the ghost that haunted the guest house she lived in would unlock and open the front door every night as if to say "Ya gotta get out of here, bestie."
Oh boy. You know it’s bad when even the dead are like; SAVE YOURSELF!!!!
👻👻👻😂
Makes me wonder if the guest house ghost was once a governess?
😂💀 I legit snorted, you win the day.
@@melissacooper8724 *reading this thread* NOT NOW, MUSE! Lol
When I nannied, I came across the people that wanted to hire me for my age and experience but wanted to pay me like I was a 12 year old. I literally told one lady, *you can't have it both ways... If you want to pay for a teenager, that's fine; I'm just not your sitter. If you want an adult, you can pay for an adult.*
The demonetization rules that CZcams has reminds me of old television, like I love Lucy. They had to sleep in separate beds, and couldn’t show the toilet. I love your cleverness in skirting around the demonetization rules. Keep up the good work!
And when she got pregnant and they wrote it into the show, they weren't even allowed to say the word 'pregnant'. They could only say she was 'expecting'.
My friend was a babysitter for a couple that was always there with their twins, so she wondered why she was there, and after a bunch of red flags and awkward questions, they eventually asked her if she would do… things with them for money.
OMG the scream I scrumt!!! *EW*
Was your friend under age? I'm asking because the couple could have hired an upscale sex worker, yet they went this route.
Yuk
oh as a babysitter... 🙂
Holy wow that is horrifying good god
When my sister got married in October of 2022, myself, her twin, and her closest friends were the ones to help get her ready/do her makeup and hair. She looked SO beautiful. All of us rushed to get ourselves ready just to make sure she was comfortable and felt beautiful! Could never imagine sabotaging/ruining my sisters weddings over jealousy.
I could never. My sister Jen even told my mom and I that we were lucky to be invited to her wedding (out of 15 kids she was one of the only ones to move away and go zero contact, the rest of us are super close), and were forced to babysit my nephew I had only met once at that point. I told her if I wasn’t a classier woman, she’d be going down that isle with a black eye. I then grabbed my moms hand and we left. Drove the 10 hours back home, For nothing. Some people just be ungrateful for no reason. That poor girl, I feel bad for her being sisters with her. Honestly, I don’t know what came over my sister Jen, like the second she got a ring on her finger (she was 3rd oldest out of 6 girls and 6th oldest out of 9 boys). I think it’s cuz she was the first to get married and she felt she was now better than all of us. Especially since most of us were adopted (my brother Ry and I are biological) and we were raised by a single mom. Like; you’re only a real woman if you can keep a man. In fact that’s pretty much what she said to me when I found my ex cheating on me. Like it was my fault. I don’t miss her.
Right! I’m about to be the matron of honor at my sister’s wedding in Oct of this year and I’m doing everything possible to help with planning the wedding and will do everything I can to make sure she has that most amazing day possible! ❤
@@ndawn90 holy schnikes!!!! I’m so very sorry, I’ve made sure my other sisters had amazing weddings. There’s still two of us who have yet to get married. Mine is on the books, but my baby sister is happy being alone, and we aren’t trying to convince her otherwise.
Because you're NORMAL, not a narcissistic AH. I don't have sisters so stories like that make me so grateful. Then I read stories about sisters who are best friends & always watch out for each other, then I'm envious. Hope you & your sisters always have a great relationship, it's not as common as some people think.
@@erikarussell1142 OH my goodness! I am so sorry she did this. Holier-than-thou people are so going to get their comeuppance some day, and I hope you happen to be close enough to enjoy it! 😉
The Nanny story made me think about what my mom could have said had she hired a nanny for me when I was three years old. "He doesn't really talk yet. As long as Smokey & the Bandit is rolling on the vcr he'll be sitting still. Make sure he doesn't choke on anything." Except maybe not even the choking part would worry her... xD
Thanks for uploading! Greetings from Sweden
My fiance broke up with me yesterday in the most unimaginably cruel way, I'm naturally completely devastated and heartbroken but at least your videos provide me some much needed mirth and distraction. Thank you!
thinking of you and hoping you are in a safe place to work out your feelings.
@@kathrynhonggg I am, thank you, that's so kind of you to say
I am so very sorry to hear what you are going through. Went through a bad break up of a 5+ year relationship 1.5 years ago in Jul 2020. I then found The Potato Queen and the Croquettes. Binge-watching all the vids I missed, plus reading, and responding to posts was just what I needed. Very importantly, it helped keep me from ding something stupid like get into any relationships, or even date, until I was ready. And poof! Two months after being ready, about 9 months later, I met the most wonderful man. Hugs and love from another Croquette from Long Island, New York.
❤ He did that to make way for the wonderful man who will come your way when you least expect it and treasure you for the rest of your lives together. I wish you a wonderful life xx.
Oh, also, that Hitman story reminds me of the time my mother was contacted by a cousin she hadn't heard from at ALL in 10 years. Turns out the cousin had just come out of witness protection which is why she had basically vanished for the past 10 years. Cousin was a female, her brother was in a failing marriage but didn't want to lose his property in a divorce so he had his wife killed. His sister had suspicions the death was her brother's doing and found some evidence to prove his guilt. She was supposed to testify against him in court. However, their MOTHER apparently loved the son more and decided to hire a hitman to have her daughter killed so she couldn't testify against him in court!!! 🤯😱 That's why she was in witness protection. My mom said they actually produced her cousin's story on one of those true crime shows but I forgot which one. It's a crazy story though, super messed up.
Wtf
horrible
Please come back here and let us know if you figure out the show name, I’m really curious now
Replying here for when the name is found cuz I'm so invested. I'll get the popcorn, and pray that everyone is doing better now!
Woah 😳. Crazy!
I have 4 kids and the nanny job story broke my heart. That poor little guy didn't get to be ....a little guy!!! Who the hell makes their 3 year old do nothing but learn all day? Heaven forbid the child had a fun day doing normal 3 year old things like playing in a kiddie pool!!!! How sad!
They’ve completely crippled him entirely. Independently, emotionally, and even mentally. Just not in education. He’s going to be either very insecure, or super insufferable.
I have 11 year old and 14 year old grandkiddos and they both freaking love the wading pool and sprinkler and water balloons out in the back yard! I'm sure that little Mr man loved being a baby. Hell at 3 he's still a toddler.
I have a 2 year old grandson that would kill these upright helicopter zillas!
Wouldn't be surprised if that kid becomes serial killer
Amd it's not like three year olds don't learn all the time whatever they're doing... Playing in a pool sounds like an excellent way to learn motoric skills
Yeah, I'm childless, plan on remaining that way, and even I was sat here all "HE'S 3!!! LEAVE HIM ALONE! Keep an eye on him but leave him alone for some self-development time! He'll learn his own skills his own way! Let him have the paddling pool! You can't know what his mental age is!"
2:33 I lost it at the hit man sneaking behind her and peaking out from the corner I just couldn’t 😂😂😂😂
For the nanny, I feel like that's a case for CPS. It really sounds like a child neglect and emotional child abuse case. I've worked with kids whose parents did that, and they have so much trauma. It's really sad.
I wouldn't say neglect but it is some form of abuse helicopter parenting at its finest 👌
Adults that get pushed to their limit at work have break downs. That kid is only 3. He's going to unalive his mom by 10 just so he can sleep in one day. When he breaks it's going to be bad. Poor thing.😱
Former Nanny here in the US: oh my freaking god! That story gave me anxiety. I luckily never had that crazy type of parents, but I’m telling you very close to it. The problem I have noticed with these type of people is, that they feel entitled to the degree of almost “owning” you. I had people treat me like I am a third world citizen. Dude, I was just an exchange student from Germany. One lady in particular treated me really weird (mind you she was German herself but since she lived in fancy Bethesda,MD, she thought she is above anyone else). I was only allowed to help myself out to their faucet water. But the dumbest thing was that she had her 12 year old daughter count how many times I would use the bathroom.
Wtf!?! That is SO CREEPY
I had people treat me like I am a third world citizen?
Haha always crazy when you see your city and state randomly pop up in a comment!
My parents used to have au pairs in the DC area, and I remember growing up hearing the horror stories that circulated among their social groups 😬
I would go to the toilet extra just for that...
That wedding story went from zero to felony real quick! 😂
"And I now pronounce you, Criminal for life. You may wear the orange jumpsuit"
I have a similar Cocoa Butter story. That story is why I drink, smoke, slept with my first boyfriend, and honestly did a lot of things I probably never would have done if it hadn't been for my egg donor telling everyone i was already doing those things since age 11 anyway. If I wanted one thing out of my mother, ever, it was *Honesty* so *I made an honest woman out of her.*
I took one and only one job as a nanny like this. The woman was home mostly. And it was easier when she wasn’t. She told me absolutely no tv time for the kids so when they asked I said no. And a huge tantrum was thrown…and she told me to never let them cry like that and had someone else fire me
The young nanny just added a new category to craziness: Momzillas! I couldn't help wondering as she went through her story whether the psycho mom still had a husband (or ever did). Who on earth could live with her?! I feel bad for the little kid. It's one thing to fold education into a kid's day, but freeform time spent exploring, getting dirty, falling down and discovering that pebbles don't taste good are all part of mental and emotional growth.
And independence. If he isn’t ever left to his own devices, how will he know he can do anything on his own? How will he know his own opinions and thoughts and emotions, without having her in the back of his head? She’s literally crippling him independently and individually.
i thought pebbles were delicious when i was a toddler 😂i accidently swallowed one once
Yo. Momzillas. I definitely am seconding a request for more crazy nanny story videos!!
@@erikarussell1142 she basically just wants a mini her. I’m sure if kid figures out he’s anything but a cis straight dude, she will be raining down hellfire and disown him
I was a nanny for 10+ years and have definitely seen some shit. I found a box with really crazy legal information about the parents of one family I worked for years ago when they had me clean out part of their house. Another mom decided she wanted me to be salaried, but, ultimately kept making requests outside the scope of my job because I was "salaried." Another family told me how much they (and their boys) loved me for a year, then, as soon as I was late ONE TIME, the mom YELLED at me, gaslit me about yelling at me, settled down for a few weeks, had me house sit their cats while they want on a vacation, failed to tell me one of the cats had been in a serious fight with a cat outdoors, put me in a position where I had to take the cat to an emergency vet center, then, when they came back followed me from room to room yelling at me the first time we saw each other prompting me to walk out right then and there. And one family--during the interview--kept telling me that they didn't want to hire someone who took "medications" (or something) and kept going on about something related to this and a past nanny. I took their kids on one outing in my brand new car, the back seats of which were covered with towels to protect them from booster seats. After the outing, they reached out to me complaining how I had done something personally hurtful to their kids by putting towels on my BRAND.NEW.CAR.SEATS.
Yo. Would you consider doing crazy nanny story reaction videos?! Scrolling through this comments section, I definitely don't think I'd be the only one who would find those validating and entertaining!
Bro u hv suffered... 😅😅😅 .. kudos to you . Glad where I'm from most ppl don't hv teenage nannys. It's not a thing . If both parents r working , they try to get the grandparents to look after the kid( in most cases grandparents r already living with them) , they bring the grandparents to live with them or last resort if they don't hv any close relatives they leave child at day or hire an adult nanny ,who actually knows how to look after a child an entire day without being overwhelmed. Most parents are easily going too. I hvnt heard many crazy stories like the ones in video or yours.
Omg, the paperwork is sooooo juicy.
My mom babysat for extra cash after raising four of her own plus about 5 others, in addition to her 6 younger siblings. One woman decided that she wasn’t allowed to go anywhere with her child, including grocery store or errands (10 mins from our house), nor could she take her in our pool (I was a licensed lifeguard and at home during summers, as well as a licensed first responder, along with my dad). Child’s dad was a sweetheart. They were in a messy divorce (she cheated). People expect and behave in the weirdest ways when their kids were involved.
Total agree with the 2nd chick- strict parents just force you to become a better liar and make you curious about things that had never even crossed their minds yet
Over controlling parents = Self sabotage leading to a self-fulfilling prophecy 💯
This whole time I thought *I was making mistakes* and ruining my life, when it was really *my parents fault* the whole time. See, I knew it couldn’t have been me that was the problem! 😅
With the babysitter story, it has the perfect setup of a damn horror movie. Especially with the context of the parents being artists that use nude women as their most common subject matter. It almost feels like they were being overly nice to try and pull her in and groom her in a way. IDK why, just the feeling I have.
EDIT: I'm sorry for implying the subject matter of their art and their behaviour to the babysitter have direct links. I never meant it in that way.
Yes, it reminded me of Jordan Peele's "Get Out" 😂😂
@@fdm2155Definitely. Also since she mentioned "Us", his follow up to Get Out. 😂
Black Mirror’s White Christmas vibes!
@@gypsydust Oh god, yeah.
Many great artists have sculpted and painted the human form for centuries. Nothing pervy or weird about that. She wasn’t asked to pose nor was invited in the grand-parents on-site studio. Let’s just calm down.
Re: premarital sumo wrestling. I grew up with super strict Southern Baptist parents and I was burning incense once (because I liked the smell) and my mom RAGED because "Only people who smoke the Devil's lettuce burn incense." ... Cut to me being an adult and yes.... It does help cover the smell. 😂😂
It does, but not just lettuce smoking people, my mom loves them and she is very much straight lace. Lol
Saaaaame! "You know you're not fooling anyone with that!" With...my Fizzy Pop incense stick? No shit...🤣
My mom used to come into my dorm (in the 70’s) and mention the weird smell. Oh, that’s just “incense”, Mom!!😂
"you're giving me ideas, mom!"
😂
That nanny story reminds me of my mom, my parents are well off but our mom never was there or spent time with us as kids and we struggled yet they expected so much but wouldn’t ever pay anyone for help even if homeschooled we were left on our own and expected do everything around house even though she was home.
As a nanny, that last one shakes me. I just got myself out of what I thought was a horrible job, but it doesn’t come close to those psychos…
I love the dress shop owner story! Not all heroes wear capes ❤
She was a badass: We have our ways.
That’s wild to me, I have 2 sisters, we all HATED each other by the time we were teens, we did terrible things to each other, but by the time we all reached our 20s all of that was forgotten, like, it baffles me how family can be jealous/hateful towards another family member beyond a certain age.
I still have issues with my older brothers. Tomorrow I turn 35, but they'll still be astonished that I'm somehow an adult and know thing and have opinions. It's irritating.
I’m certainly not sure how people get comfortable enough to air out their laundry on the internet… but I hope they keep doing it because I’m invested!
I actually love doing baby yoga with my nanny kiddos and being outside is important in my care with children but that family was completely nuts!
The bridal shop lady was so adorable... but my god pouring a drink on your sister's dress is monstrous.
100% on the over controlling parents. My friend's parents wouldn't let her drink more than one drink or go out much, so when I went to her place we would sneak out the window and jump the fence to meet boys and drink. On the other hand, my parents would buy me what I asked for and pick me up wherever, as they then at least knew what I was drinking and that I was safe. I remember telling my mum about it the next day and the futility of her parents' actions.
In the end, after they disapproved of her boyfriend she moved out to his place and got engaged quite young. An even bigger tarnish to their image!
Why can’t we just love and appreciate our children for who and what they are? You can only control your own actions, trying to control others just causes strife.
This happened to a friend of mine as well.
We lived in a small-town religious community, and she was always the gold standard of what they thought the youth should be like.
While in highschool she had to do a project with a boy, and her family blew up at her. They started accusing her of terrible things, just because she was spotted alone with him. Eventually this treatment drove her to leave home, since she literally had been the perfect daughter her whole life, and was now getting dragged for nothing.
Where did she move out to? That boy's house, who she eventually ended up dating.
I don't think she even saw him that way initially, but her family pushed her into that circumstance, which resulted in what they were worried about to begin with.
People have to stop projecting their insecurities on to their kids... Just because it's what you would do, does not mean they will.
Not always, anyhow.
Exactly, my childhood best-friend had a very over-bearing strict mother. And my friend became very very rebellious when we hit high-school. Anything her mom disproved of, she would find fascinating, anything she wasn't allowed to do, she would do. In our mid 20's she moved to another state to marry a man her mom didn't approve of.
My dad has a lifelong friend who has strict parents. After she got married (arranged marriage), she left with her husband across the country, and they've only come back a max 4 times in the last 15 years. When they visited, they only stayed in her parents' house twice. The husband had to sleep in a separate room from her and their daughters.
Strict conservative parents raise excellent liars. Signed, an excellent liar.
I just turned 20, and I grew up with lots of friends. The past few years I’ve become so lonely and my boyfriend seems like my only friend now. Which sucks sometimes, but you make me so much happier when I’m lonely.
Lmao 🤣 my father accused me of trying to run away from home at the age of 18 , I wasn't trying to do any such thing nor did that thought ever cross my mind. He literally gave me the idea😂1 year later I actually ran away. He literally gave me the idea 😂
The last drama story, that family doesn't need a nanny AT ALL. The parents and grandparents are just too lazy to watch the kid themselves. The kid should be in a school if the parents want him to learn so much at home
That poor child is going to need therapy when he becomes an adult. Also, thanks Charlotte, now I'm craving a cannoli.
That child is gonna discover drugs by the time he is 10 y/o. Trauma like _that_ takes a huge toll on the mental health, poor kiddo. Maybe he'll get lucky & not know any better, just turn out to be _exactly_ like his parents instead. No matter what, it's a lose lose situation for him, either way. 😣
U'm not an expert on child psychology, but isn't is overworking the child to constantly trying to teach him stuff? What this poor boy had to recite sounds exhausting.
@@lauramarschmallow2922 Hey now, _you_ are really starting to sound like a _completely_ logical adult! You may wanna stop that before it gets outta hand? Next thing ya know, you'll be absolutely right about most things. Ah shit... too fckin' late! 😂😂😂😂 Look, if _I_ didn't harass ya in this comment section, who would?🤣🤣🤣🤣 Stay strong woman... YOU ROCK!
3:44 that is totally something my mom would have done. She started smoking because her mom accused her of it and yelled at her and smacked her, so my mom just started smoking out of spite. (she finally quit about seven years ago). me, on the other hand, if my mom would have yelled at me about something i didn't do, i would be like, "well, i won't do that. i don't wanna get yelled at again."
I'm so happy my sister and I love and support each other. When she got her dress, my mom and I knew it was the dress before she even said it. She looked stunning and we all cried together.
I can relate to the 1st story for a different reason. 1 male sibling with sociopathic tendency, was made executor of "parents" wills despite his having a criminal record. He had planned to sell everything, take the money and run. Only giving very little to the eldest sibling, and my then husband who was not even mentioned in the will, while leaving me penniless. His little plan was contingent on him not only planning and executing my murder. But also pinning it on my then husband. I caught wind of it, and had a plan of my own. I put my phone on silent, and then proceeded to "talk" to a friend (making sure he over heard me) saying if anything ever happened to me this where you have the police look, and why. I have no contact with any "relatives", and none of them know if I'm alive or dead, and that is my revenge.
HFS!
This is why you record all evidence and proof and call the cops! Damn mf is a creepy bitch!
Im praying your safe yes?
I'm very SHOCKED that girl was hired as a NANNY AT 16!!! It sounds like NO EXPERIENCE AND NO QUALIFICATIONS AT ALL! And the amount of work she was demanded to do, how TF could she do that at her age and her experience???? Babysitting, yes. Nannying? No FIng way!
Yeah, that's a baby sitter. These folks didn't want a nanny (ie professional) because 99% of them would decline as soon as they knew 5 or 6 other people bailed on the job. Anyone who actually interviewed with the family would quit as soon as mom handed them the ridiculous binder. 😅
She said it was through an Agency. They are at fault for placing her in the situation where they’d already placed 5 previous nannies. The agency should have dumped them as clients.
I’m sure the agency knew that this girl was going to only be there a few days after she accepted the job thus giving her some experience on her record and he first time being fired without it blemishing her record 😂 they gave her ALOT of experience in those short first few days!
Ps.. I would hope that an agency would hire based on qualifications Also 16-year-olds come out of high school, fully prepared with an education with college degrees etc. So many schools now have these programs that they can go into such as child education, nursing, welding and social workers, and so many other things all with actual college degrees. So because all of that now so we’ve got to stop just assuming that because someone’s a certain age they don’t have the experience we don’t know she might’ve been babysitting since she’s 10 years old and then went to high school took four years of high school in child education and now is college educated and straight out of high school my daughter graduated high school at 17 they can graduate two years early now it depends on the child. Granted she probably hasn’t had a lot of experience with crazy people like this, but like I said above she just got it 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
About "parents pushing their kids by helicoptering"
At a wedding hanging out with my cousin, and her mom came found us with panic in her eyes, but I couldn't figure out exactly what had happened.
My mom had to explain that my aunt thought we were 'premarital sumoing'.
I must have been 13 and she 10.
We were definitely just shooting an airsoft gun at cans or something.
I didn't really know what sex was, or acknowledge my cousin as a girl, or even that somebody could do a sex thing to a cousin.
BIIIIIG lesson about gender, sexuality and family, all applied by adult expectations.
i taught preschool for many years and did some nannying too… so many parents are like this and they abuse nannies like a mofo it’s SO common! i quit that profession bc people like that.
I am 100% on board with, "if I'm getting in trouble for it, anyway, then I'm gonna do it!" Story of my life, as a kid AND now! If someone gets mad at me for something I haven't done, I'll eventually get upset and go do it!
My Mom always accused me of all kinds of things. None of which I was doing. I just let her. That way she never realized what I was actually doing.
@@lindah3803 nice strategy! I never did anything I wasn't supposed to. I was the very definition of a goody-goody. Straight A's, teacher's pet (I was even a teacher's aid my senior year), I never disrespected my grandparents (they raised me)... So, how I ever got accused of ANYTHING is beyond me.
Not much has changed. I drink occasionally, but I don't party. I definitely don't do any drugs. I don't ever really leave the house. I'm a loyal friend and partner. I do have a very smart mouth, and I CAN be petty. But those are the worst things I ever get up to. And still, people often accuse me of stuff I'm not doing. Like wtf??
One babysitting job I had as a teen, They turned off the TV and internet in the house and I wasn't allowed to read or do school work, even if the two kids were napping or entertaining/playing with each other or themselves. I was expected to always be doing something educational or intellectually stimulating. I was even told once to take them outside to pick up and count pine cones LOL
Oh boy. “You must always be doing something intellectually stimulating” also “no doing homework even if they’re asleep”. Makes complete sense
So in other words, they want you to do their yard work for free and then make the kids count them so that they Cousy use the excuse that it was for educational purposes.
11:57 That family is the definition of Delulu 🤣
WOW !!! That first story accelerated quickly!
My little sister did smear chocolate on my wedding gown, on my wedding day. To be fair, she was four years old, and I was the one who fed her the chocolate. We have a 23 year difference between us. I was sort of hoping that the little hand print WOULD stain the dress, because I thought it was a cute memory of her tugging at my skirts, but unfortunately it washed out completely when I had the dress cleaned to be packed away.
I would have had her little hand print saved. I would’ve cut it out. But that’s just me. I won’t be passing down my gown, both my girls are a bit bigger than I am. And my gown is going to be very much fit to me. But I plan on wrecking it and framing it.
@@erikarussell1142 I kind of wish I had thought of that at the time! I do have a photo of it with me laughing and my sister looking like she wasn't sure if she was in trouble or not.
@@jennieeveleighlamond oh that just warms my whole heart. What a precious memory.
@@jennieeveleighlamond actually, now days you could take that photo in to a custom apparel shop and have it printed back on.
Who knows how to hire a hit man? Did the auntie have a hitman on speed dial?
The sister of the bride story made me so sad.
There's an 11, 13, & 16 year gap between me and my little sisters. I got engaged a month ago, and I've asked them all to be my maids of honor (instead of having just 1 maid of honor, or having them all just be bridesmaids). I just can't comprehend a sister acting like that. Especially an older sister. I'm so motherly protective over my sisters I don't get it.
I'm 10 years younger than my sister and she was AMAZING when I got married. She wasn't married yet and wouldn't be for another 6 years, but despite all of that she still went above and beyond for me. Her and my best friend took care of so many details and so much planning, they really made my wedding day go smoothly. Heck my sister even GIFTED me the flowers and the cake. Like she literally paid for both and they were beautiful. I had a fall wedding and my sister got arrangements made of yellow and orange confetti roses that were so beautiful and worked so well with my fall theme. She also got a two tier wedding cake and a groom's cake, in our preferred flavors it was amazing. When she got married a few years later I did my best to make her wedding just as special as she made mine.
I can relate to the nanny story. I was a live-in nanny, the mom was stay-at-home mom but she couldn't take care of the kids by herself. The kids we 2 & 3. I got to the house around 6 on Sunday until 4 or 5 Friday. I got paid $100.00 a week. (This was 39 years ago but it was still extremely low pay.) Within 6 months her stepdaughter (10) moved in and the mom announced she was expecting her 3rd child. I got out of there.😄
Congratulations Charlotte! Your channel is growing like crazy, well deserved, you're a breath of fresh air in this increasingly crazy world❤
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Thank you so much!!
There's a reason that kid's parents don't just do everything themselves. They know how insane it all is, and they don't want to deal with it themselves.
At 5:16 Charlotte was LITERALLY taken aback by the audacity of that snarky older sister. Love ya Charlotte!
My friend had Some pretty strict and controlling parents, she was the youngest of two and had an older brother and I’m pretty sure she felt over shadowed and quickly made a habit of rebelling and classic 2010 emo shit. She snuck out, etc etc, while I was the opposite and had a mom who let me have pretty much free reign and do what I want within reason. I never snuck out or stole or lied, in fact I was always home at a reasonable time and was honest with where I was going and who I was with because my mom TRUSTED me.
“Must be nice” lol. JK. That’s how it shooould be. Teach kids self-discipline & honesty & self-respect & kindness & all of that. I lived in a prison gone wild until I turned 16. It was sooo suffocating! That’s putting it very mildly.
yea it’s not hard to keep ur kids from making mistakes or doing things you’d rather them not do. it’s called gentle parenting. not being an over controlling person lol
I was accused of wanting to do things my parents didn't like so they grounded me all the time. Guess what? Because of them accusing me I finally did do it all for spite! I would never have thought to do all the things until they accused me.
My mum called me a pros--- for being r---d. Yh I'm an adult now and struggle everyday because idk if I should keep her in my life or not. I have 2 kids as well and am just lost on what to do. She was Christian and insanely strict
@@strivingtoonedaybeuseful6049 do whatever brings you peace or you feel like is the best for you & ur children. if she treated u like that she could treat ur kids like that too. just a thought.
If you're going to get hung, it's best to be the goat instead of the lamb.
@@yea0000 whatever decision I make will come with guilt. Kind of like a catch 22.
@@strivingtoonedaybeuseful6049 yea, i know. but if she still thinks that way then i don’t see why you should have any guilt removing her from your life. and your kids life. therapy wit a therapist, that your mother has no idea about.. will help you decide. help you realize all the things you don’t actually need to feel guilty for. kids can have much better family that doesn’t even need to be blood necessarily. peace over pain, why keep her around if she’ll just treat them like she treated you. y do that to them? so they can have a grandma? that’s silly. they only need you & a peaceful happy safe upbringing. much more worth it then keeping her around to make u suffer and at sum point ur kids. just choose urself for once, put urself first. she doesn’t make u feel good. she doesn’t deserve to be in ur life or ur kids.
That nanny story makes me feel better about my own parenting lol.
That nanny job sounds like a start of a horror movie 😂
I had an agreement w my mom one time and I was like, hey I didn't like how i was treated as a child so she went 20 to 80 and said, everyone knows I don't like children, that's barely better for my own. So I was like ok let's do this and asked why she had kids if she hated them so much. So she went 150 and said if she wasn't FORCED TO LOVE ME, she woulda kicked me out a long time ago. I was 17 at the time😅😮
I hope you are doing well. That’s disgusting
shame on her
My mother once told me that she never wanted kids. I was very young at the time, so I didn't know what to make of that. My mother went on to have 3 more kids she didn't want after me! I never got the chance to ask her why she kept having kids, but I did make it my life's mission to never have kids I didn't want. We adopted our one any only child with special needs when she was 2. She was very much wanted, and the best part of our lives. We lost her to cancel at age 26, and we miss her more each day.
RIP Baby Girl!
@Cheryl Jackson I'm so sorry for you loss. I'm going down the same path.i want to foster older children
I watched an older video of yours yesterday and seeing this one now, you just look even more vibrant and gorgeous! Thank you for bringing so much joy with your videos!
Also, I feel really bad for the child in the last story. That lady was such a helicopter mom
I would not be surprised if he cut all ties as an adult.
Yes !! High turn over rate is a suuuper red flag. I clean houses and every time there's a client who says something along the lines of "we just have bad luck with cleaners" is most usually awful to work for. One of those clients had called me and told me to go back to her house because I missed ONE of her picture frames by accident when I had done stuff for them I unusually don't do for anyone.
yeah I had a client like that too when I cleaned houses. She would tell me to put on my glasses (my reading glasses) and point out what I missed two weeks earlier. Found out that she was using her toilet and kitchen sink as an ash tray and they would get dirty quickly, but it was my fault for not cleaning properly. So I would clean her kitchen sink twice, when I first arrived and then just before I left as proof I cleaned it properly. So she would look for other issues. So I quit. Yeah I missed the red flag where she complained that she had issues with cleaning companies when she first hired me. Learned my lesson.
The One I Love with Elizabeth Moss and Mark Duplass. That’s the movie the fired nanny was talking about.
This video couldn't have come at a more perfect time. I'm visiting family and needed to laugh at other families who are also crazy
Here's some tea, my younger sisters best friend from childhood hired a babysitter and then r*ped her with her husband... she's been prosecuted now and my sister refuses to ever talk to her again. We all have kids....as a mom my heart breaks for that poor girl... a young teen thinking she's just at a regular babysitting job and then it turns into a nightmare.
i pray that she’s okay now.. that’s awful. u probably shouldn’t describe it as tea or be broadcasting it to other ppl when it’s not ur story to tell.
Oh wow! I'm sure u and ur sister feel sick over being so close with a person who wld do something like that! Too close for comfort rt there!
🤬OMG there are some evil people out there. That poor girl.
13:45 I think she’s talking about Coherence. That movie creeped me tf out because I didn’t know the plot beforehand.
I’ve been a nanny for over 13 years and I’m SO lucky to have had amazing nanny families that I’ve worked with. My advice for nanny’s just starting out is always 1) so it because you love it and you love kids you can’t just do it for the money 2) please be careful with the families you choose to work with. I’ve heard so many horror stories about the couples or dads coming into the nanny and fetishizing it.
I had the same issue with nannying for a crazy couple just like that in the Hollywood Hills...the mom worked from home with Nautica and actually had me put together a sample catalog she had to turn it in that day and all the crazy stuff like no leaving the house, had pre-approved recipes, checked on all the time and the poor 3yr old son was never allowed to play. Extra creepy had two baskets of magazines in there living room...one side was Vogue other side was Playboy. After a rainy day in la traffic with construction and heading up the hill...i was late and fired. That's only one of me working life horroe stories
I don't know if anyone else mentioned it in the comments, but I Googled the description of the movie that the person in the last video provided and it appears that the movie they were describing is "The One I Love" starring Mark Duplass, Elisabeth Moss, and Ted Danson.
Thank you, I came to the comments looking for this!
@@quirkybeeper You're welcome - glad I could be of help! 😊
6:30 is anyone else loving her accent? JEALOUS!
Not me watching Charlotte to listen to other people's drama while drinking rosé, eating whipped cream straight out the can and trying to forget my own shit 🤣
That poor kid with the nanny story, that is crazy
Oh wow, I'm so glad my sister was ok at my wedding, and she even helped pay for my cake(not a huge expensive wedding cake, just a small one)!! And omg, when I turned 18, I moved in with a really cool woman with 4 children and became the live in nanny, and it was ok for a whole, but I was 18 and young and had to move on!! I loved those kids, oh and when summer hit, I watched her kids, plus her sisters 3 kids, they were all around like 7 to 10 years old and they were good kids!!!! They loved me cause I was so young, lol, and actually had the energy!!! Love you, Charlotte and Happy St. Patrick's Day everyone!💚☘️
Glad you had a good experience
Coming home from work to a new video from charlotte always makes me so happy! We love you so much charmander🥰
The only time it is okay to spill something on a wedding dress is if it's someone else shows up to your wedding in a wedding dress.
Yes! Saw a post here on MIL-Zillas where an evil MIL showed up in a lacy white wedding dress, and an astute MOH "accidentally' spilled red wine on it.
My mom once told me over the phone, “you better not be drinking”. I was 26.
I'm 31 and my sister is 40 and our mom still says this to us, or she accuses us of doing drugs. Nah ma, you taught me not to do that shit cause you did it yourself and I didn't forget what it was like. These parents out here need to chill.
Holy cannoli!!
What’s more sad is I was living half way across the country, on active duty in the army at the time 😂
Damn I’m related to European royalty mainly Dutch, Norwegian, and Scottish and we stopped the hit man stuff back in the 18th century and we still have family problems. What the hell.
I remember my mom thought I was pregnant just because I was throwing up so much (i was 16) in between throwing up i laughed and told her i was just too much on the “forbidden lettuce” she said “oh good” and now we just laugh and never asked me again😂 we also do the forbidden lettuce together
That babysitter one, the poor kid! Kids need downtime and time to just play. He's going to leave home as soon as he gets a chance.
Charlotte, thanks for making an old bird laugh. Hope you are staying warm.
Loving the drama here in snowy Iowa! Miss Toocus is snuggled up in her Christmas Sweater as it’s green and she’s doesn’t care it’s not Christmas still lol. Dogs lol
Mine are wanting to play in the little snow that remains, but don’t want to actually stay outside because it’s cold today. Can’t wait for later in the week!! Hello my bestie neighbor! My Penny and new pitty pup remi say hi from also Iowa
I'm really surprised I haven't seen a video about things families/friends do during or after funerals. People become greedy, selfish, narcissistic individuals when someone dies. It's crazy!
That nanny story reminds me of my mum and me when I was a toddler tbh...aged 4 I knew all continents, most animals plus their pawprints and feces / could tell which region of the world they were from and three languages as well...no wonder I grew up with extreme anxiety surrounding school and bad grades / not being good enough I was basically programmed this way I wish I had a normal childhood fr :')
I definitely have some juicy family drama but no hitmen have been hired into the mix so I'm feeling a little better about it. Ya know, at least we're not that type of crazy 🙃
Does anyone wave back at Charlotte when she says "hey everybody"?! I doooo haha
No
My dad always criticized my weight and told me to exercise more so I decided to start going for walks. The third day My dad started to yell at me asking why am I going out so often, where am I going and who am I meeting. A+ wtf moment.
And yeah, I got accused of doing so many things that never even crossed my mind that I figured might as well since I'm already being yelled at for them.
Hugs 🫂
My dog now watches these videos with me because of all the sound effects that she finds very interesting… especially the squeaky noises 😂
Here for my daily laugh. 😂💜thank you Charlotte. You deserve an award for the most funny person of the year.
That one time when I was living with my Aunt's family, you know when you have long hair it sometimes falls when you comb your hair. So knowing how tidy they are I always tried my best to comb my hair outside so no hair will fall inside their home. One time it did, my Aunt picked up the strand of hair, and keep it dangling in front of me saying, "this is your hair, you see. No one in this family has this type of hair except you" and I remembered being so embarrassed, it was not like I purposefully drop it inside.
So, no pets, I'm guessing?
@@argusfleibeit1165 Yep absolutely no pets
that’s just hateful and seems like it was on purpose to make u feel bad. everyone sheds 100 hair strands a day even without brushing. she was expecting the actual impossible from u
growing up it was the kids with the strict parents that did ALL the 'bad kid' things! My mom was not strict and all I really did was play video games 😸
Tasha’s face and accent and obvious love of her job and care for her customers 😍