I identify as UGLY and always will. My identity is based on that.
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"Let me give you some advice, Bastard. Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you." - Tyrion Lannister
fk... perfect quote.
@@AbaNPreach aba, why is this shit so relatable?? the Tyrion Quote 😂
Easily the most interesting character from the show. Never got enough screen time.
@@t0ny_708 got butchered in the last season tho
amen
Was he ugly or did he just have extremely questionable hair choices lol
he still could use a good haircut
Thats what I was about to say, his face is fine it was that HAIR 😳😳😳😂😂😂
😂😂😂
It was the yee yee ass haircut he got
HARMONY EXISTS looool
Not being dependent on compliments and validation is a strength all by itself
Thanks for that @PoseidonKross2009, I always thought there was something wrong with me emotionally. I'd get a compliment from a friend and I would appreciate that it was coming from a good place... but... it just wouldn't really hit or penetrate me emotionally you know? I'd feel nothing. A weird phenomenon but it just might not be so bad after all. 😂
Big facts.
I feel very akward whenever i get a physical compliment…like the anime blush but tsundere version
I find Aba incredibly physically attractive, but his mind is the true treasure.
Same. I think he's very attractive, but his inside is sexy AF.
YES
You ain’t never lied.
Agreed. The ability to communicate!!!
I agree
If I had a dollar for every woman who thinks I’m unattractive, women would find me attractive.
😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣 good one bruh
this was smoothhh 💀🤣
Lol
goat
damn imagine telling your friend you think you’re ugly and his first response is “I totally understand what you’re saying” 💀💀
😂
Lmaoooooo
😂️😂️😂️💀️
Lol seems legit
Honestly, I would rather that reaction. Than a dishonest "nooooo, you're beautiful". I mean if you can't be honest with your friends, that's a sad life.
Aba: "Some of you are still gonna say I'm ugly"
Preach: *without hesitation* "fair"
"If you're ugly you're ugly, there's no such thing as inner beauty, ever heard short people going aroubd saying they have inner height?"
~Joker
Underrated comment
My mom says I'm handsome
@@NicofTime... so does every mom in this World
@@arb1897, if _every_ mom thinks he's handsome he's probably quite handsome. ;-)
@ well.... maybe, but have u ever considered, she don't want to hurt you cause you is her son? Just saying
As someone who always thinks their ugly, always surprised when people show interest. Apparently having a personality matters or something
Same my vice was being really nerdy
U just a t h i c c boi.
Ikr?
@@drlulu9967 Now this is true. I have bigger glutes than many girls
Personality absolutely matters! Every person I have been with, it’s been because a level of attraction that had mostly to do with personality.
He wasn’t even ugly his hair styles were just crazy
True but « Ugly » is subjective
Nah he was ugly.He was a lttle too skinny for someone his height and the hairstyles didn't help.
@@Panther888 To a certain degree yes, however I do think there's an objective basis for beauty.
He needs to see a barber
Missing the point
I think we all should build our identities on being ugly because it will make us humble and genuine
@@SurfyStories thanks for the compliment
I'm humble, genuine and I think my looks are great. And I'm not just telling myself that to artificially inflate my confidence like some people do. I think I look 7/10 on a bad day, 8/10 on a good day and 8.8/10 wearing a suit. I just don't get mad when other people don't drool looking at me. It's that simple.
Or we should build those ugly identities so that when someone rejects us, we won't feel so bad for being rejected, because if we're ugly it make total sense
I'm used to compliments about my looks but often they were back handed "you're pretty for a black girl"
thats fucked up.
Oh the pain...🥺
I want to hug you :(
That's rude as fuck!! Yeah same, people told me that I was pretty for an asian. WTF
Ive never understood why people say that, like youre pretty than youre pretty. Period.
When tackling subjects, Aba speaks with precision, has a great vocab and rattles off complex concepts with ease. Preach doesn't share that calm collected demeanor but instead uses very effective analogies and vibrant metaphors that accurately reflect those same complex concepts. Perfect example of how equally great intellect and wisdom expresses itself differently in people. You guys are great
I just really love this comment
This is why I love their dynamic, it’s very complimentary.
Yes true, so insightful of you!
These two are so good with speaking. I want their speaking skills.
I swear they always remind me of the boondocks
"Women who grew up ugly, then turn beautiful later on, are always the juiciest."
10/10
Amen
i guess i‘m juicy now then 😩
why though?
@@thorafoster-bill1919 Because they usually have just a healthy enough self esteem. Not an overinflated unrealistic view of themselves. They have been on the other side and they mostly have learned not to look down on people. So they are givers as friends and lovers. Sex with them is usually good. Not the boring sex of someone who thinks all they have to do is be beautiful.
Thank you 💗.
I just keep laughing thinking
Girl: “I like you I think you’re attractive”
Aba: “why are you imposing your perspective of me onto me? How dare you?”
You weren't ugly in those old pics - you were cute with an AWEFUL fashion sense. :D
"I'm ugly and I'm proud!!!"
-Spongebob Squarepants
I'm so glad I wasn't the only one to think about that 😂😂😂
I thought about that too lol
According to Nickelodeon he's gay and proud now lol
@@TheSwagmasterJay I don't agree with make kid cartoons characters gay but spongebob I can lowkey see being gay
@@TheSwagmasterJay Oh wow.Makes sense.
There's a sense of freedom that comes with not caring how you look.
Yep, and as you get older it's like screw it. Like me for who I am or don't. Some day I'm going to be one of those old ladies that doesn't shave her legs and goes right out in public. I used to be shocked by that when I was 14 and now it's my goal. Nobody is going to be good looking forever. Get used to it.
I disagree. I feel a sense of gratification and therefore freedom when I have my hair done, make up done, nice clothes on etc. Not caring about how I look is actually the first sign of a potential mental health relapse for me, but hey, we all have different experiences relating to appearance, so do whatever feels good:)
Truth
I promise 😩😩😩
@Brandon Piperjack Not caring how you look and giving up on yourself is not the same thing. I got to a point where I began to think my looks mattered less and less to me, not that I stopped giving a shit about myself. The freedom of not caring doesn't mean letting yourself go, it means letting yourself acknowledge that there's more to you than that.
Man, in high school guys just weren’t into me. I remember one dude said he wouldn’t date someone like me and I was crushed. I gained a bunch of weight in college and was made fun of. In my late 20s (I’m 31 now) I got in the best shape of my life, lost a shit load of weight, I got a sense of style, became a makeup artist, etc. Men started paying a lot of attention to me, dated a lot, but my self esteem has always been low. Now I’m with with the man I’m going to spend my life with and even to this day it’s hard to truly believe I’m beautiful.
Damn, hopefully you heal from those wounds and not let them hold you back from a fulfilling life/relationship
I hear you
yeah but remember beauty on the outside isn't real beauty. Real beauty has been inside you this whole time.
you were a loser and became not a loser
hope ur doing well in life
Regardless of how I feel about myself, if someone give me a compliment I just say thank you. I was an ugly kid too, compliment always makes me feel uncomfortable.
Agreed!
@curry flocka 😂😂😂 That's funny!
@curry flocka At you realize it ... Some people never got the hint 😂😂😂 jk
I agree. Cuz growing up people use compliments to be passive aggressive. « You look pretty today » then laugh. So to this day I still pause when people compliment me cuz I assume they’re joking.
@curry flocka or you think they’re trolling you lol
"I'm ugly and I'm proud." -Spongebob Squarepants
👏👏👏👏😂🤣
Squidward: Is that what he calls it?
boi mac you got me dead as hell, you have the profile pic to go with it lmaoo
Bruh lol
In mirror: "Ight, I don't look _that_ bad. Far from the supermodel, but ok"
On camera: *delete*
Ikr!! My mirror is so freaking kind to me. I look hella gorgeous in it.
Pictures is how I know I’m ugly lol.
Thankful the mirror is how I most see myself. I get to feel confident most of the time.
Iphone cam is the worst btw. Soooo damn ugly in that...
Yowww story of my life. I would do my hair and put on a nice outfit, I would look fire in the mirror. I don't usually dress up, so I be feeling myself when I do (low-key hyping myself up). But all that good feelings go away as soon as I look at the picture I just take. Delete real quick.
Why do cameras amplify ugly? :/ I live my life in fear or cameras.
@@blinkingintensifies8212 🤣🤣🤣
I understand that. And, from experience, I think it has more to do with the limitations of cameras than people actually being as ugly as they may look on pictures.
First problem with cameras, they don't do 3D. Whatever curves may or may not be there, they will at best be reduced to whatever shadows or bright spot outlines them. And there may be a world of difference between what 3D model you try to recreate from that and what is actually there. In a mirror, you see with both of your eyes so you don't have the issue.
Second problem, consumer grade cameras don't capture color as preciselly as the human eye can. Contrast may be limited. Red sensors may also include some infrared. That kind of shit. So, combined with problem one, you look even more like a bloob of a human being instead of you.
As a very pale person, I got that shit all the time. Unless you work precisely with angles and lighting i'm not very recognisable on pictures despite strong facial features. Xbox Kinekt got a similar issue with black faces too a few years ago. Facial recognition just didn't work on them because the camera couldn't capture their traits.
The nicest compliment I’ve ever gotten from a guy was to say I had a nice outfit and walk away because I KNEW IT WAS FIRE and I appreciated the acknowledgment. Same thing with outfit compliments from girls in the bathroom.
Tbf, I've heard girls say to guys girls appreciate compliments for thier fashion way more thier looks
@@shrisiva4016 very true lol I love when someone says I got drip 😂
I was ugly growing up and girls said “awww your a good person though” ....then I started taking care of my self, lost 50 lbs and gained confidence and those same girls was like 🤤 and I was like 😬✌🏼😂😂
I feel the same way. Growing up I didn't see myself as beautiful / attractive and it hurt me a lot, but this pain made me accomplish the important things in life, like my education and my family. The only things that matter in the end.
@@jackreidasaboboras3654 very true!!!
@Dnomyar Akunawik I know I’m cursed 🤢🤮🥺😂
@Dnomyar Akunawik look who's the one talking lmao jk
I lost weight and I know what your talking about.
“I’ve built my entire personality around accepting the idea that I’m ugly and I’m gonna overcome it.” SAAAAAME 😂🤣
I attribute my determination to my ugliness in have embraced it and used it to motivate be to improve at every other aspect. Just like Abba I have accepted it and am ok with it
Maybe yall can relate to this idea. I think I'll always believe im ugly.
hes not the handsomest but hes a good person
you cute my nigga id kiss you on the cheek
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Grow your hair out
No you're not ugly
i don't think I'm ugly, but i do know that I'm not always good looking... 🤷♀️
The old me would have said "Aba, I would climb you like a tree". But I'm a changed woman. So I won't say that. 🤐
@sh r/wooooosh
hahahaha!
😂😂😂🤧🤧🤧 u nasty😂😂
😂😂😂
Very sneaky... you still said it but implied you didn't believe it anymore!
If Aba classifies himself as ugly, it’s because he chooses ugly lmao he actually has potential to be very attractive, but I feel like he gets up every morning and says “Fuck it”. And that’s the conclusion I’ve drawn lol
FACTSSSSSSSSSS
yeah many people just don't put in the effort. There choice tho.
Most research shows that Women think 85% of men are average or below. So if you’re not in the top 15% or in the bottom 5% you’re just average. The amount of effort you put is what determines your success. Aba you’re average stop playing yourself.
He isn’t a model but he isn’t ugly either tbh. He looks like he takes care of himself and that makes him more presentable than most ppl lol.
He doesn’t like spending money on clothes and on changing his appearance it’s not that he doesn’t want to put the effort
My girl don’t understand what this is like because she’s gorgeous and constantly gets validated. She was arguing online with a guy and he tried to insult her beauty so he was like “You average.” I can’t imagine being so attractive that someone can’t even call you ugly.
Keep on greasin brotha 😎
Average Mo are you forreal
Average Mo lol very interesting.i wonder what about her wasnt orginally attractive. ive def met a lot of people where i didnt think they were good looking until i got to know them. somehow an attractive personality rly changes the way you look at someone
Average Mo That’s just called being in love. My fiancé told me I could weigh 300 pounds and he’d still love me. Push me around in a wheelchair and hose me down in a kitty pool in the back yard. lol 😂 But seriously, real love doesn’t waiver with age or decrepitude.. sorry couldn’t think of a better word. lol
ScrambledMegdresqlol thats super cute 🥺 dang
“Hey you cute...SIKE” I felt that, I had flashbacks, I’m hurt.
What does sike mean? I think get it from the context but 😂
@@luanaalmeida809 it means just kiding
*Syke, I used to think you spelt it like "psych" but no, it means "not seriously" or "just joking".
Same I got that split second of pain in my heart hearing that 🤧
@@MagicRay2 Thank youu
Honestly, I've always thought Aba was so handsome. You've a lovely voice and a great beard. The intelligence is a great bonus too.
This is so honest. I've grew up dark skinned women in the south, and chubby...so I learned to accept it and be the best me I could be.
Here come all the IG "models" to come say they're ugly too.
Yup
Instagram models are the worst that’s the reason most people have low self esteem now
Yup and IG "models" are known to photoshop the hell out of.their pictures. All that shit is FAKE!!
Tee Kaybe yup they even have photoshop video apps now. It’s getting even worse tbh
Because they want validation... They are forcing for validation
I prefer the term 'aesthetically challenged'
😂😂😂
I concur. Lol. XD.
Compliments have always felt either insincere (or a joke like preach said), or like a reflex that people exhibit to make themselves less uncomfortable with me not feeling attractive. I learned to just say okay and move on. Like my mother-in-law is wonderful, but she's a compliment-giver and it's always felt like she does it to boost my self esteem because she doesn't like how I see myself. It's cool and all, but that's her thing to work through. At 30 I am where I am and I don't need a paradigm shift about something as mundane as my skin or weight.
Growing up I was the boney, darkskinned, tough head that kept their braids in too long and wore my brothers clothes. My teeth were late late bloomers and I was called" white washed" coming from a jamaican background being Canadian. As you get older you seek less validation and get comfortable within yourself. That's what makes people want you now. I get it.
Compliments make me uncomfortable, and sometimes I get the idea people give them because they want some in return.
I think we can clearly feel when it’s a genuine compliment and when it’s just for something else
still fucks with me, cuz when i was younger compliments always followed a favor
@@Panther888 the genuine ones are the most disconcerting
I just compliment things I like about people. No ulterior motives.
@@STOPPEDINCOLORADO Same here. I'm an artist and always find something fascinating about someone, whether it's their looks or another trait about them. When I compliment, it's basically thinking out loud, like what they said in the video. Though I still mean it genuinely!
"Say it, say it."
"I'm ugly..."
"You're ugly and what...?"
"Square?"
"No. Proud."
"I'm ugly and I'm proud."
"Good! Say it louder!"
"I'm ugly and I'm proud!"
"Louder!"
"I'M UGLY AND I'M PROUD!"
IM UGLY AND IM PROUD!
I'M UGLY AND I'M PROUD!
Hi sir, I hope my terrible ugliness doesn’t distract you.
Not at all boy
....... DDUUEEEEGGHHHHHH
@@tjlnintendo
Look at it!!
Look at it!!!
*While holding a random funky sponge*
Bro I appreciate you!
I wish y’all talked about the definition of “ugly” and/or “attractive” and went into more detail as of why you felt ugly (ex what features/insecurities you’d had that made you feel that way). Also Ik you’ve accepted that title for yourself but why? Just curious.
@curry flocka like what? And does that go for both genders?
I think accepting your reality is very important. If you really feel ugly, then just accept it. It helps you avoid dwelling on stuff that doesn't matter, and instead you are free to pursue improvement in other areas.
@@springfresh4344 A person who calls himself/herself ugly for no reason is very unattractive. It comes off as begging for compliments to boost one's low self-esteem. However, if you accept it within yourself, you'll be able to improve different areas of yourself and physical looks stops being an area of weakness for you.
@@theexception9307 your reality is what you make it tho. You can choose to see yourself as ugly or tell yourself you look good, or change the things you feel make you ugly or unattractive so you can be the best version of yourself physically. Doesn’t mean you’ll be the most attractive person ever but you’ll have a better self image atleast.
@@Raymlewis23 Once you reach a certain level of confidence that is definitely possible. However character building takes a lot of time. When you're a teenager who's constantly made to feel unattractive it's hard to challenge that idea. So one thing you can work on is self-awareness. It's one of the traits that's helped me the most in life, and on my journey to gain confidence. To be able to tell everything about yourself objectively is powerful, and it erases all of your weak spots. I never found myself ugly, I also don't think Im particularly eye-catching. But that principal helped me overcome my stuttering problem, which is what people would always hit me with. Once I accepted that it was a part of me, I stopped seeing it as a problem and their words stopped hurting me. I think that concept can be applied to other things, like physical beauty.
When someone is set in their opinion of their own selves, there is NOTHING you can say to change it. It doesn't matter how many times you tell them that they are beautiful, the mind won't change.
As a “former ugly kid” who is supposedly not ugly anymore.... I feel this.
So you became Beautiful :)
I am not ugly, I am just mysemf :)
same
Nah. You still ugly. He lied to you🤣
ditto
i was short until i graduated "(german) high school" (around 18 years old).
girls never liked me or found me attractive and i was often harassed because of it.
now im 1.82~ (~6 feet and somehow still growing at the age of 21) and I am grateful for the "education" these kids unknowingly gave me because i learned what my real values are and now i can judge people based on my values and not theirs.
to sum it up:
in the end you will always be smarter and you might have learned something from it, that you didn't know could be learned from a situation at the time.
I’m not ugly, I just have horrendous social skills. Swear to god, my mind becomes an abyss of nothingness the moment I’m approached by someone I’m attracted to.
Me too have the same problem. Have been approached by so many hot but once they see the coward me i become a fool!💔
@@cyandamadlala9610 I can relate that's why it helps me to tell myself " people make fun of you ridicule you until you think low of yourself " then those same people will pity you and get mad because your acting like a coward and arent confident in yourself. So moral of the story is people get mad over everything no matter what you do someone will say something so you might as well do what you want fuck their reactions.
The problem with having problems socially is we believe in our heads what we do or what we say will effect how the person perceives you although that may be true somewhat. People 80% of the time already have a perception of you before they meet you so it wouldn't have mattered how you responded they already had ideas about you from the beginning.
Bruh, I’m not even shy in the slightest but my social skills just ass 😭😭 it’s not even with women, I fuck up conversations with my mailman and shit like that 💀 I think it’s an anxiety issue.
Me too. When a hot guy said hi to me, I quickly turned and walked away real quickly.
OMG YES!!! THAT IS SO EMBRASSING AND I CANNOT STRESS IT ENOUGH!
In my head i'm like "iT's fInE, eVeRyThIng iS gOiNg tO bE fInE"
**Crush comes**
Me: **"OK BRAIN CLAM DOWN I NEED TO APPEAR NORMAL"**
My brain: _" Ha! YOU _*_t h o u g h t_*_ I was going to _*_o b e y_*_ you.... _*_evil laugh_*_ I think _*_N O T_*_ "_
My body: *Having a seizure in front of my crush*
Me: FFS
I totally agree with this entire video.
I don't think I have ever in my life truly believed that I was beautiful. My hair, my eyes, my teeth, my skin, my body, just nothing about me strikes me as particularly attractive. And it's not because I want people to tell me otherwise; it's cuz I genuinely believe that about myself and I will never change my mind even if I could change all the things I hate about myself instantly and for free.
I've learnt to just take the compliments as they come, say "thank you" as one should and move on.
I especially hate the people who are pushy about complimenting my looks and then THEY get upset when I don't accept like "oh my god you're so right and I was wrong and I'll totally change the way I see myself cuz you helped me see the light"? Get outta here.
It's how I choose to view myself and it's NOT a bad thing. It is what it is. And you're not a better person for nit agreeing with me.
What you think of me is none of my business. I don't get up every morning and brush my hair or put on eyeliner to try to please the general population. What I do or do not do in terms of aesthetics is for my own benefit.
I don't mind going through life thinking I'm ugly. It 100% DOES NOT bother or affect me.
I love watching your videos, cuz yall always so real and true genuine and it's scary (but like, funny scary) how much I agree with your statements.
Aba, I love those wacky faces you pull and Preach's laugh always makes me laugh lol
Thank yall for the amazing content 🤘🏻
You know i find it strange that once you admit you're ugly people perceive that as if it's automatically tantamount to hating yourself 😂 like my pyshical aesthetics are just one part of me not the whole..and i can love other parts of me outside of my looks and not mind or even like being ugly 🤷
Thank you! Exactly....
Sometimes when Preach laughs I feel like he's gonna have a heart attack.
Bro he be dead 😂😂😂
@@jahrocky1860 This isn't gonna age well if that's how he ends up dying I realize. XD
@@buffgarfield3231 bruh
So true😂😂
Yeah, he’s got a little hypothyroid eye thing going and a propensity towards heart disease bec he’s a little heavy. You’re really not far off the mark here. Preach, we love you. Take care bro.
Video thumbnail: I’m ugly.
Under video: recommended for you
Can I start a protest against the CZcams algorithm at this point lol
i found aba and preach beause of an recommended video "I am ugly" to which they responded....i support your protest
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Hey, so to that one person who thinks they're ugly, unattractive, ect. EVERYONE is ugly at some point in their lives. Not to mention everyone has a different perspective and standard of beauty. So YOU might feel ugly but someone else believes you're beautiful 🤷🏾♀️❤️. Most importantly love all of you including the ugly parts.
"I'm ugly and I'm proud!"
-Aba SquarePants
I love that Spongebob episode.
I can relate. 🤣 I was ugly as shit in high school, and I accepted it. Clearing up acne and eczema does wonders.
My father used to say, "If a little boy calls you pretty, it doesn't matter because I think you're beautiful". In hindsight, he probably was saying that because he knew it was likely that given my looks at the time, a boy calling me pretty wasn't going to happen but he knew I needed to hear that from someone. 🤣🤦🏾♀️ Fathers are so important.
What do you do to clear eczema and to control it. I look so dirty and its emotionally embarrassing.
@@orochimaru3950
Yoo I’m asking the same thing 🤧
@@cuzumakemyearfquake I got some 100% shea butter online. I've been putting Vitamin E oil and jojoba oil. Time will tell.
@@orochimaru3950 keep moisture in your skin, avoid chemicals (even soap).
You can cleanse with oils; almond, avocado, coconut, grapeseed etc.
You rub the oil into dry skin, then wet the skin and rub gently (use your hands) until the oil emulsifies, rinse off gently and BLOT yourself dry.
Moisturise with aloe Vera (95% - 99% aloe gel) as it's mainly water, that has healing/cooling properties).
Also eat healthily, fruit vegetables etc, avoid alcohol, caffeine and processed foods and drink plenty of water daily.
Exercise regularly, have a sauna once a month (10 minutes, so not to aggravate your skin).
Wear natural fabrics like cotton, wool and linen.
Avoid washing your clothes in harsh chemicals or fabric softeners.
Shower regularly (use oils) and luke warm water and Moisturise (aloe vera) each time.
If you are female, resist the urge to cover with make-up. It makes it worse.
Instead, let your skin breathe.
This is my approach for 17 years, and it works for us.
Good luck 👍 💓
@@cuzumakemyearfquake @Orochi Maru keep moisture in your skin, avoid chemicals (even soap).
You can cleanse with oils; almond, avocado, coconut, grapeseed etc.
You rub the oil into dry skin, then wet the skin and rub gently (use your hands) until the oil emulsifies, rinse off gently and BLOT yourself dry.
Moisturise with aloe Vera (95% - 99% aloe gel) as it's mainly water, that has healing/cooling properties).
Also eat healthily, fruit vegetables etc, avoid alcohol, caffeine and processed foods and drink plenty of water daily.
Exercise regularly, have a sauna once a month (10 minutes, so not to aggravate your skin).
Wear natural fabrics like cotton, wool and linen.
Avoid washing your clothes in harsh chemicals or fabric softeners.
Shower regularly (use oils) and luke warm water and Moisturise (aloe vera) each time.
If you are female, resist the urge to cover with make-up. It makes it worse.
Instead, let your skin breathe.
This is my approach for 17 years, and it works for us.
Good luck 👍 💓
"women who grew ugly and turned beautiful later on are always the juiciest" of that face you had when you said it was priceless
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It’s not about whether your ugly or attractive, it’s about how much you love yourself in your own skin
Where I live we have a lot funny ways to talk about being ugly:
I'm not ugly, I'm difficult to see.
I'm not ugly, I'm uncomfortable to see.
I'm not ugly, I'm aestheticacly challenged.
I'm not ugly, I'm visually alternative.
🤣🤣🤣🤣😅😅
@@jjul2009 😂😂😂😂ahh mann, this not only made me laugh but after I settled down it had me thinking about how facial attractiveness is usually something you can't control.
And then there's some people who aren't even ugly, they just don't know how to dress.
I'm included in this category 💀
Many of us fall in this category
Could be worse, imagine having good taste but no money to buy the stuff
Cleiton Oliveira literally the only difference is the logo.
Yes I don't think people see beauty they see clothes and hair and esp men, they don't know what good looking is. She a target if she overtly dresses to lure men even if it's tacky and sloppy. If you ugly with long hair, light eyes and a fit body they call u a ten. If your fat or dark people call u ugly. I don't agree that people are UGLY. I never see ugly people. They are less common than albinos forreal.
I‘m the opposite lol
Legend has it in Abas past, girls used to call him the Dusty Krab
blackshow bob
Oof
I think what this is really about, more than being "ugly" is acceptance of self. The ability to move forward past any flaws, and to make and to make yourself STRONGER in spite of weaknesses. I felt the same way for a long time as well, so I started working out. Not because I desire women, I'm happily taken, but because I wanted to feel better about myself.
Physical attraction is mostly just lust
The only times I would call someone ugly is if they have a awful altitude.. to me the mind of someone can be so attractive along with a great sense of humor and someone is instantly attractive 😍
Mostly thats how it works for girls
Stop the cap, literally every girl who doesn't claim to be shallow says looks don't matter. They do, you are not shallow for going for the looks but at least be honest about it. The girls who will genuinely not care about it are 1 in 1000.
Aba: I'm ugly.
Preach: I completely understand where you're coming from with the whole ugly thing.
I personally like it when someone’s able to say they find themselves attractive, without being cocky tho
Those are the best people! Usually they'll find beauty in nearly everything, not only just themselves 💕
Same. The problem though is that it is quite rare to find those kind of people nowadays.
Exactly. People who are happy with how they look also tend to be less looks focused cause they’re not so worried about it
You know what’s hard, is getting older and trying to stay looking young. I’m 51 and i am working on maintaining now , lol. As far as men go, if you make me laugh- you are beautiful!
yeah, there was a time i thought i was hideous, and at some angles, i am, but i just consider myself average now
I was ugly as hell in Middle/HS. Got dragged all the time. Not an issue anymore (I can blend in to public now lol). Ugly Ducklings usually grow up to be Swans eventually. We're supposed to be a little off growing up, we're not adults yet. Gotta give yourself time to grow, physically and otherwise.
When complimenting someone, always compliment things they can change. People can't help what they were born with lol.
6:61 ain't gone lie aba looks fly there
When you're ugly then become attractive or even average looking you start seeing your life slowly changing, like people start being way nicer to you than before or want you to hang out with them. Never forget the people that got your back when you were ugly.
Yessss !
“It’s always fun to see someone fall from glory” CHRIST ALMIGHTY ABA 💀💀💀💀💀💀
I agree though. I've had ild crushes recognize me after 15 or 20 years not seeing me and then tell me how different and pretty I look. I tell them I look the same or you wouldn't have recognized me. It's really their perception that changed.
@@korie4198 Facts lmao getting the last laugh is the greatest
he spittin facts tho
Aba saying to much is going to hold them back if hes not careful
@@korie4198 I had an incident like that a couple years ago. Saw a guy I'd had a crush on in high school.
Guy: "Oh hey I remember you from high school! Wow, you sure grew up to be pretty."
Me: "Boy, my face looks the same as when I was 17 so I know you're full of shit."
Guy didn't seem to know what to say after that and I didn't wanna hear it anyway so I walked off and went back to my grocery shopping.
Compliments after weightloss:
"You're pretty now."
"You look so good now."
And I'm just there like "😐️ Umm... O.K."
Duuuuude! Those are the worst. They think it's a compliment, but in my head I'm like you're gross, you wouldn't be saying that to me at my original weight
@@luciq1007 IKR! It's one thing to say "You're pretty." It's another thing to add a period to when one is pretty "now" or "then", what are you implying?
I know what you mean. When I was younger I was overweight I didn't perceive me as attractive nor other people. Sometimes there were people who said "you're" cute or whatever. When I lost weight when I turned 17 not only did my body change but also my face. When I was in Lithuania during an exchange program when I was 23 women considered me the "hottest guy" at the university (only 600-700 people though) even men complimented me being handsome. This goes for people who met me after my body transformation. People who knew me from before always say "can't imagine how fat you were but now look at you"...yeah life is weird sometimes :D. But I do understand your whole appearance can change due to your weight loss and that's what happened to me.
I mean look at Adele, she was heavily overweight, had a cute face but look at her NOW! Like two different people.
@@teshc4795 exactly. I've always been a face person (I love smiles and the way someone's eyes light up), so body is kinda irrelevant for me unless you physically can't keep up. I've always been a bigger girl but active, and when I lose weight I get A LOT of attention and I hate it lol for me, it's like what are you thinking in your head that tells you that you have any right to comment on my body to me? Like what makes you feel the need to tell me you're looking at me and thinking whatever thoughts you have? Like are we cool like that? Have we chatted and flirted first? I honestly immediately lose all interest in any guy or girl who comments on my facade first before anything else. I'm a big supporter of you can look but don't touch, and you don't need to tell me you like what you see either. But I also have trauma related to that. Growing up I got told I was so pretty or so beautiful, and then was treated like shit lol so someone who approaches my looks first just gets a hard no from me. Some girls thrive off of direct compliments and attention, I thrive in my bubble and not having my boundaries compromised.
luciq1007 Physical features are gonna be what you see first when you meet someone and in turn flirting starts with that initial physical attraction. I myself don’t care that people say I look good now compared to before when I was in high school because I worked for it. Personally I don’t understand how someone saying it would be a problem, but different experiences create different believes and thought pattern. So I guess my question would be is it a bad thing that they thought you weren’t attractive before because of their preferences and now you fit more their type? Also honestly is it the fact that they’re commenting on your body or the fact that it isn’t a guy that’s your type approaching you?
I was wearing a suit to high-school way back when, for a club recruitment day (we were trying to recruit freshmen). I dropped by class to tell the teacher what I would be doing, and the girls wolf-whistled. I laughed it up at the time, spun around and took a bow, but I felt they were mocking me. In retrospect, they might have been genuinely impressed. My self-image didn't accept it, though. Still probably wouldn't. I'm ugly and I'm not proud.
Aba thinks he’s slick. This is reverse psychology 😂😂
It's not, it's like you didn't watch the video. (I don't mean that in a disrespectful way)
You idiot
@@breaux-ken I don't think you understood.
Bruh, I agree with you. 😂😂 and he did a good job too.
I thought he was ugly, but when he said it I was like "damn he looks good"
Last time i was this early , my parents still loved each other.
Underrated comment
LUL
Jesus, that's dark humour lol
That hurt my feelings..............and I don't know you.
Am I wrong for giggling a little.
When he confused ugly with no personal style lol
Thats the thing with this shit, If you grow up being told you're ugly but eventually glow up, you're still gonna have it engrained that you are ugly. Getting out of that state of mind feels impossible
I've always thought whenever attractive people were interested in me, it was some kind of joke. I'm like why are you interested in me? Aba speaks what I feel
@Que_Rico "people" not niggas
If u getting girls I would not question my ugliness tbh. I don’t get girls so I know for sure I’m ugly, That’s just one of the reasons why I think I’m ugly though
Awww hugs
Don Williams hey at least you've had attractive people interested in you.
True me too at times
Aba: Today’s topic, I’m ugly.
Preach: ο_ο
0:02 is the funniest reaction from Preach lmaoo
As a guy who also considers himself as ugly, the biggest compliment anyone can give me is not from words. It's time. whether you think I'm 'beautiful' or not doesn't bother me at all. what bothers me is that you had to tell me to validate the time you spend with me. just spend that damn time with me in the first place without some vanity validation.
Aba, your personality and intelligence is what makes you *especially* attractive!
Edit: and you’re an attractive dude, damnit! Lol I didn’t mean it to come off like a backhanded insult! My bad 😂 love your channel Aba and Preach, and you’re BOTH attractive!
That sounds like a roundabout way to say im ugly. LMAOOOOOO
Aba, you ugly.
Edit: Feeling better now?
@@AbaNPreach ikr, but she ain't lying.
@@Kyoukichi Very cool, Garfield
@@AbaNPreach 🎵Back then they didn't want me, now I'm hot they all on me
🎵
"I may be Black, I may be ugly, but I'm here" Ceeli
Absolutely
@bobby macdiarmid is this from something because I feel it is...if not great wordplay...
@bobby macdiarmid Very clever lol. I like it. I have to give it a listen some time. Thanks for the compliments. Actually made me crack a smile
These reply’s r so cute 🥺
joey macdermott Omg how am I just seeing this now 😫 u made my day again y’all r so cute thank you
"I like being ugly, that way if they love me
I know that they love me for real"- Hard to Love by Jessie Reyez
I was super ugly in school, chubby, curly frizzy hair, super anemic and pale to the point everyone called me casper... the group of "popular' girls (you know the ones, blonde straight hair, skinny, tanned) told me that this hot dude fancied me and asked me if I would go out with him (be his girlfriend) and I was like " duhhh yeah" so after a week he hadn't spoke to me or acknowledged my existence I was like "well this is weird" so I sent my friend to ask him if he was still my boyfriend, my friend come back to me a bit flustered and said "no, he's not your boyfriend anymore" and she was like "his loss, he's a loser anyway". Couple of days later I was round the same friends house and I read her diary and in it she wrote the true story of what had happened when she went to speak to the boy, apparently his group of friends started laughing and he said "as if I would go out with that fat ugly bitch". The girls had tricked me into believing I was his girlfriend and he knew nothing about it.
Two important lessons were learnt that week-
1, if something appears to be to good to be true, just assume it isn't.
2, don't snoop and respect people's privacy, because you might find something that hurts, no good will come of it.
My friend purposefully tried to protect me from the hurtful comments and my sneaky disrespectful self got what i deserved when I read what had actually happened.... because when I read it, it felt like a punch in the gut.
I was ugly in high school and I’m still ugly lol I’ve accepted it.
Aye, LOL. Sometimes you got to know your limitations.
Im ugly and Im proud!
What about yourself do you find ugly ?
I felt that brother
Felt that
I believed myself to be a solid 3 all my life, I’ve never been called cute, never had rumors about me from girls, been shut down 9/10 times..but I tell you one thing...who I am..there’s no one that can match my energy and everyone who knows and loves me knows that
Very good speech my man !
I feel like that about help sometimes... for me people are always trying to help, but its more for them than for me, and I feel like if people really want to help, then they will hear, you, or understand the situation better, but often you find people getting offended when you try and explain you did try that before, and your reason for saying it is, Who knows maybe that person has further advice on why you doing that failed? But instead they then get offended that I am not just taking their advice, which tells me, it wasn't really about helping me, but THEM helping.
Aba "its really nice to see them fall from glory" bro that took me 🤣
It’s sad that most people are average but they think they’re ugly
80/20% rule is the reason
@GravityLee Nailed it
GravityLee facts
@@the_bath3235 EXACTLY. men vs women disparity fullstop
Fully agree with this. People are use to fake so someone being average automatically falls in the ugly category. It’s messed up.
“Good looking girls in high school look like dump trucks right now”. Mean, funny, yet true 😂😂
Which one are you doe?? Like fr fr???
@Callum Inglis i agrred with the original statement man. But this. If you ugly girl you gonna stay ugly😂
Cc riding, drinking and smoking has its toll.
“Dump truck” had me cackling 🤣🤣🤣
Lmao why is this so true? Like seriously
I was always pretty but I just didn’t know it. That’s sad too.
I felt that
Women telling me I was attractive definitely helped my self-esteem and confidence. Take a genuine compliment because someone else’s opinion of you might not be as skewed as your own.
I wish someone can put together a montage of Aba's hair and beard over the years. I've noticed how completely different he looks from some of the older videos.
Barbara Van der Westhuizen “there can only be one” 😭😭😭. He was experimenting lol
urgunnaluvmeh one shall stand ONE SHALL FALL
Aba: todays topic... IM UGLY
Preach: wait what?
Me:JAJAJAJAJ WTF JUST HAPPENED
Preach face at 0.03 had 😭😂😂😂😂
As someone bullied for my looks I compliment people because regardless of your insecurities I think it's important that you know to the world or at least to me you're beautiful. It's important for you to know someone cares about you. Because the last thing I would want to happen is for someone not to be here(do suicide ) because they felt no one care. I've been down the road and it is a dark and malicious road. When I'm down I remember that if I don't believe in myself atm someone does. Even if I don't think I'm beautiful someone does. Even if I don't think I'm worthy someone does. And it snaps me back to reality.
I can totally relate with Aba’s glow up, although my self esteem took a knock and am still struggling with that. I swear no boy wanted to date me back in high school, I was scrawny and looked like a boy and the buzz cut didn’t help much. Now when people compliment me on my looks it takes me a minute to absorb it ahaha
I prefer the term below average or almost attractive 😂
I should use that from now on, lol
How about "Attractively Challenged " :D
@@teekaybe4016 totally!
Tee Kaybe I’m stealing this
Almost attractive, that one's great XD
"I prefer ugliness to beauty, because ugliness endures." - Serge Gainsbourg
That’s all cap
10/10 comment 💀
No 🧢
Dammn!🤣🤣🤣 im rolling. Its profound but also a burn😂
Tell that to the ladies you will have a fun time :D
4:07 “if you think I’m beautiful, you’re right, if I think I’m ugly, I’m also right” love this
When ppl drop compliments it's because they want something... and when it comes to me people don't want from me what I want to offer them so I dont like compliments either 🤷🏾♂️
Weird how everytime i watch their videos, I'm like "damn Aba is fine"...
Aba wants to know your location
Facts girl to Both of them. you see preach with that retwist??? & Aba beard is life. Lol
I don't like compliments either. It makes me feel awkward. And that's why I stay in the house. #INTROVERTSREPRESENT
Infj!#
Infp 💕
Bro, you know those people that tell you you’re beautiful every time you see them. It’s just like “aight, mate. Thanks.” Like if I say “you too.” It feels like a vapid reflexive response. I don’t want to make every time I see you about gratification. Not the main reason I’m introverted (probably trama), but fuck, people can be so damn weird.
Infp
Hey, Noel, lets be neighbors, & not hang out! 🤎
It's really y'alls personality that smooth out the "ugly" in your physicality. Something is very sexy about sensible talking men 🤷🏾♀️
I'm black, 20 and 5'8 i get compliments of girls and guys saying i'm attractive but I still don't feel attractive enough
So I don't speak for all attractive people but some of us don't feel attractive enough and people end up going through surgeries and shit
My nose is a bit big for my face I was thinking of getting surgery and im still am. I dont want to come off as narcissistic or anything but just the reality of things.
At times the most attractive people, have the lowest self-esteem, believe me.
i used to get girls in school pretending to fancy me just to humiliate me in front of everyone really messed me up to the point where a lass said she liked me an i told her to pissoff thinking she was been cruel only to meet her years later and she told me it was true she really did like me lol
Honestly how messed up can someone be to do that :/
I hope it's all good now
Oh no :(( I absolutely hate when people do that, it’s like middle school behavior
Ouch. So sorry that happened to you.
You are strong bro, just keep your head up, you'll be fine.
That's so sucky :(
As someone who thinks their ugly, this is kinda hitting me on a spiritual level. I'm still the ugly kid. I'm not even a kid lol.
I so can relate.
Honestly I can relate.This hits hard because I feel like I'm ugly too,even though that's apparently not even remotely the case.How old are you? I'm asking out of curiosity.
@@summer5198 almost 23
I don’t even think it’s about being ugly cause that definition changes all the time for me the point is excepting who and how you are and the rest don’t matter cause you gonna be somebodies type!! And giiirl I think you look fiine in your picture!! Aesthetics says a lot too and girl you killing it
Ugh, I love you Morgan. I feel the same way girl.
Never got compliments that weren't back-handed, not about to worry about compliments now. I know how I look and this hits with much respect. I dont view myself as worth it or attractive, and I'm working on me for myself. Compliments much as yall said, do nothing for me because it's not where my mind is.
When I was a kid I asked a couple of girls who were dreaming about some guy if I was good looking. They said no.
I never recovered.
F
Damn 😔