Too Proud To Beg & Too Tired of Work
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You know what I hate, to see beautiful women selling themselves short. Involved with: dusties, struggle love, baby mama situations. 🤢
You hate to see that cause your a damn simp always gotta feel like they gotra save some ho who make her own bad decisions
Yes it’s awful
I cant stand seeing a pregnant woman at work ?!!! I look at them with disgust why are YOU here ?? Where's your MAN??? Shes literally 9 months and still working smh.
I would see this while out on dates, and I would test the man by commenting how I feel sorry for that lady that she's with a man that makes her work while pregnant. Then I would listen carefully to their reply to determine if I continued talking to them.
EnMode yep use that as a shit test!!
Some women really love their jobs i guess i remember my teacher at university still worked when she was 8 months preggo
@@mplexartaetos2404 The pregnant women in professional or corporate positions, to me, just feels a little different upon seeing it (slightly more acceptable) than seeing a pregnant bartender, waitress/hostess, or store cashier. Just gives me a different feeling inside. Especially when I see a pregnant gas station or convenience store cashier, like...the man who got her pregnant doesn't even care if she gets robbed and killed on the job :(
@@enmodelife yeah I feel you on that. Pregnant in a cushy job where you can actually sit down in a comfortable office and take breaks when you need it is much different than physical jobs like waitress etc . Women are strong mehn. I couldn't do it. I quit my office job when I found out I was preggers. I let my husband look after me... I ain't too proud lol.
My older uncle just told my 23 year old daughter to get her an older established man to take care of her. So these men truly know what's best for women and they give this advice to their loved ones. But they will let you be a Pickmesha or Bob the builder if you dumb enough because it's easy for them. But believe me! Their neices, daughters, sisters and women they want the best for, they agree with same advice Shera giving y'all. Don't let them fool you. So, Thank you for educating these young ladies and making us older ladies wish we had applied this same knowledge. Y'all better listen!
@@luxuryqueen42uncle is 60. He told her to get a man in his 40s.
I am 24 soon 25 and am seeking for only 40+
I agree with “established” but not with “old/er.” Old/er doesn’t guarantee better. Nor does it guarantee the man will take care of her. She may just as easily find herself expected to take care of him.
A good man with sound values is who he is. A jerk is a jerk. Plenty of old jerks in this world.
@@luxuryqueen42 he spoils his gf too. She in her late 30s.
@@amasion2882 yea. He told her all that.
Every girl deserves a mother like SheRa. If I had one I would have made such different choices!
Me too!
Me too, I regret the time I have given in the past to dusties and I have now two dusty boys, who think like the dad. I love my boys but I am telling them to get smart with the money and not be jerks and not expect a lady to help them
@GenZMommy I know omg, my por kids what are they going to do? Since they are cute, they will get a pickme for sure. A woman smarter than them. I will have to enhance the fact that they are cute. omg
No! She brain washing you!
Me too OMG. I would’ve dodged soooo many bullets in my 20s smh🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️. But at least we know now tho 😘💯
Tbh I stopped watching your videos for awhile. I WANTED to BELIEVE that love feelings “being equal yoked” etc was the way to court, date and marry. I went to a family party yesterday and noticed everyone was in that baby momma role. IT SCARED ME STRAIGHT.
Intensifying my level up, turned on my notifications and yes I will be getting a consultation soon.
Thank you for being honest, even when it’s hard to hear.
Welcome back. Now let's get to work girl!
Glad that you got your wakeup call!
Ms. Audrey Rugburn have you ever watched the show Scared Straight where they bring at-risk-youth to jails to show them how their future will be like if they don’t change their ways? That’s exactly what I experienced lol
I’ve blocked all my Dustys, went to the gym this morning and have been binge watching shera’s videos to get back into that mindset. I refuse to live life like that. Thank god for that wake up call
Angelica C. Pickles thank you sis! I’m glad to be back
What Sheera says it is the reality, nobody talks about that, TV, movies, etc, tell a joke story and programs women to the a mother to their partner. My ex bf said I was a lot like his mother and it bothered him but I was just trying to be nice. I should have acted like I do not care. Women would even not ask the man for money to protect them. Why do you want to protect his money, they are alwasy selfish anyway.
”a wet booty and a dry purse” omg that was deep 😂👏🏾🙌🏾
Love your Honesty. I just quit my job and my husband agrees that I dont have too work. I'm the woman, I dont need the stress of a Bs job. PLUS staying home keeps me focused on being Feminine and Pretty..
jeanette outlaw how pathetic....your husband and you.
@@thedadyouneverhadchannel3544 you sound jealous
@@Introvertsan :he is..lol
@@October3074 😂😅
@@thedadyouneverhadchannel3544 Shut up and go get you a Pickmeisha, dummy. Or a Tyrone. Whatever floats your effeminate boat.
LOL..."What's the best sign to date?" Answer: "Money...the dollar sign."
Facts
Exactly
🤣😂🤣😂
Low self esteem women on her channel, sad.
c. 1 dating broke men
" A boy toy will have you 🤰 and back in the hood..I need some money, real estate and insurance policies ". #facts
You sound like a good catch.
Typical feminist!
I used to have a boy toy and he did not help me in any way to do better in life. The sex for 3 years left me with 000.000 better situation, I had to ask him to leave me alone and I am so happy now.
c. 1 Do you even know what a feminist is? Smh
@@Trailblazers323 yes!
Having a boy toy will have you pregnant and back in the hood lmao so true. I'm 34 no kids. My future child's father will make at least 6 figures. You will not embarrass me and make me a statistic
I'm with you 💯%
Lol yes I refuuuuuuussseee
Yes! Your womb deserves to be shared with only the best, not some idiot who will make life harder.
Snap . In the meantime looking fly and travelling the world .
Factz! 32 no children
Shera honeyyyyy I been listening I got two big belly papas that like to spend money and trying to put me out of work.. carnote paid check, just because money check, money for hair ✅ when you dating for business and not looks. I just got to figure out a side hustle to fall back on. I’m happy and will soon be living the life I’m destined to live.
you go girl.
How do I find one , I want a sugar daddy
There is a thing as being too skinny. However, someone who is thicker won’t understand that. My advice is to get fit. Lift light weights, it’ll allow your curves to look more defined and fit.
I know that's right. Let that man provide for you. Sometimes we as women waste our youth, and wombs on men who can't even provide or take care of us.
Martha Divine but it’s always someone else’s fault isn’t it cow??
Eww Scotty you look disgusting like a true woman hater. I feel like throwing up when I see you
My pride took me nowhere that is for sure.
Can you imagine what a “real woman” looks like? She’s ‘gon look “real rough.” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
What I love ❤️ about shera is she’s exposing our so called loved ones who saw you struggling in your relationships and knew what advice to give but didn’t because they didn’t want to see you level up and pass them by but god had another plan thank you 🙏 shera ❤️❤️❤️❤️💄💅🏿👚🤩🤩😍😍
I hated that, why my parents never adviced me on that, looking too good is not good. whaaat???
Exactly waiting to see what you'll do in life while withholding information and possible keys to help level a person up cause most ppl dont want the next person to succeed unless they take some sort of "liking" to you
Shera makes you think 🤔 about how you present yourself to the world and I noticed some people don’t like the new look 👀 but so what!!! 🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️💅🏿
It’s sad, but not everyone’s family wishes them well. I’ve witnessed mothers who are veterans of abusive, dysfunctional relationships try and “push” their daughters at similar partners and actively sabotage opportunities for them to do better with quality men.
It’s hard for very young women to accept that, but sometimes Mom doesn’t know OR WANT the best for you. Really crazy toxic relatives even attack a “black sheep/scapegoat’s” character to discourage decent suitors. They may spread rumors the victim is highly promiscuous, for example. Or claim the person suffers mental illness. It’s pretty extreme, but it happens.
True or just relatives in general. None of my male relatives or female with the exception ever gave me any advice much more sensible advice on this issue.
Love yourself first and then you will have to discipline not to spread your legs before the money
Elizabeth Walston exactly
Yup spending $30 on one date doesn't do it for me. I'm 30 hunny come with the cash or bounce up out my face
@@AmaLoveGoddessTV and we wont get naked after a dinner and drinks...no sir.
Level up more cause I'm not opening anything until they have a house, a car and a ring for me.
@@azucenakennedy4850 lol right
"I can get my own money sitting right here on this pillow" DED!!!!!!!!!!!
I love that, I gotta get smart.
Preach LOL
Boss Lady!!💰🤩
"Of course gold diggers.. What are we digging for buggers" 😭😭😭😭😭
ha ha ha
BOOOO! that was dumb.👎👎👎👎👎👎👎
I can always count on this lady's videos when I need to hear women who can relate to how I feel. I don't mind being called a gold digger. Men will try to make you feel like you're a bad person when you have standards and ask them to level up. They resent the fact that you were spoiled by men before them. Thank you for reminding me Shera that he is NOT it, that I am NOT a horrible person, and that I made the right decision!
I love shutting dust mites down by telling them in a real nonchalant voice "well that's what I'm used 2" and shrug my shoulders. U can see them seething with anger 😄my standards r not up 4 debate.
@@October3074 They hate that shit💯
I agree with everything that you said. Told your advices to some girls and they said they prefer their self respect rather than using baby voice to get something from men. I was baffled. They don't know the game
I use the baby voice with my husband. It works!
@@TatiSaysSo it works all the time
It’s the same voice we used as girls when we asked our dad for something so it should be easy
Women manipulation at its finest
Forgive them for they know not what they say. It’ll hit them in the next 10-15 years.😏
👏MEN 👏DO 👏NOT 👏LOVE 👏 YOU 👏. Fall In Love & See How Many YEARS YOU WASTE!
Drama Free
It's very true. I wasted 23 on one. Two kids-never even lived together-just...I was in love.
Then I heard Shera, my mindset had changed, thankfully. Never again will I love-unless he can provide better than I can-which majority-CANNOT.
Booooo!👎👎👎👎
You are absolutely right. I have been married 3 times. They said they loved me but they did not. Their actions show you. Sheera says: Only believe in their actions today and each day. They have to keep the gifts and money rolling for you to show us that they love us.
"Go find your love, than come back to this channel" Wow, here I am at 42 years old 20 years in-love. Yet, here I am on this channel.
Ashera Dropping GEMS
"When I worked a minimum wage job in high school..." -- I cannot with you, Shera!!! I just cannot!!! You are tooooo funny!
White men love chocolate women ...trust me😉
Careful there. They love us for all the wrong reasons....it's always fetish city with them
I like She-Ra because she is not fake phony full of s*** she telling a motherfuking truth put up or shut up
I'm an old Jeep from back in the day put your money where your mouth is baby come on let's do the damn thing
Show me what the what you working with baby
I got to go alpha male strategies going to be mad at me talkin to you like this
That's right change your mindset from that negative poverty mindset to a magnificent prosperous mindset
This guy keeps talking about sex and I keep telling him no because he hasn't spent anything on me...looks like he won't give until he gets 🙄 I told him straight up I got bills that need to be paid and I ain't fucking for free...
So you literally told him that you would t fuck him until he payed your bills?
Same 🤷🏻♀️ it saves time
Best thing to do is seduce his mind sexually as if you'll give it to him, THEN ask for help.
Read Ho Tactics.
Too many women give it up, thinking that the man will change after they give him sex. No. The opposite will happen. He’ll ghost quicker.
Please don't tell anybody that. She ra talks about making sure someone is invested( and has invested)in you before you have sex with them. Not selling 😺. Which is how that may have come across to the guy. If you're going to do that you may as well just be a professional and get paid for it. If Next time, tell him you'll call the cops for trying to coerce you into sex. If you were to have sex with him because of the coercion, that can legally be deemed as rape I think. He will leave you alone forever
On the race issue, I can tell what someone is based on where they would have been on the plantation and that pretty much ends the confusion. When someone asks if my daughter, myself or anyone else in my family is mixed, I say, “Yes, with sperm and egg.”
I'm 29 and the only guys that approach me are 40&up... I'm not sure if that's a bad thing or a good thing. But it's never the older guys with money it's the ones that brag about money they don't have .
As soon as they start bragging about money, start asking for money. If they’re not giving you any what’s the point in talking about it? 🤣🤣
There's a lot of men 40+ who don't have their act together. Just because they are older doesn't mean they are established. Observe their behavior first.
@@artistpr5386 The guy that's trying to Persue me now is 40 he keeps asking to take me to dinner and has been begging me to call him. He also mentioned he has his own place and a good job... I&m contemplating wether to give him a chance . Because some older men just want the thrill/experience of being with a young woman and no commitment.
@@TatiSaysSo I want to be spoiled, without asking... How do I go about doing that?
@@JoahnD That is true, do not call him, he has to give you a call or text you. Many older men they want that thrill. Feel offended if he asks you for intimacy soon. Delay the process. Mention that you are looking for a relationship with honesty, love, etc. An older man than me wanted that thrill but i did not comply and he got bothered but oh well, and I do not think he will call me again, because there are so many stupid ladies who will give it to him for free, and be ghosted... he will get that thrill from someone cheaper. I had a boyfriend last year, and we had an affair, just to realize that he was totally broke. So before you do that, he has to probe himself. My converstation was not about money so I totally deviated the romance. But I think it was too cold. he wont call me. but I do not care. I should find my right balance, a man like James! lol
Men have the audacity to wonder why we as women want to be provided for but come into our life when we need help the most and the men who approach us have the necessary tools to upgrade our life without breaking their pockets it’s only right why would i go work for a car dealership and get free cars to work there to just go and buy from another seller that’s outrageous.
Shar S. Yes 💯‼️
Yes it’s annoying like just leave me the hell alone
Glad I came across this channel. A lot can be learned from this woman! I have learned things that no one has ever mentioned when it comes to men!!💯
I make sure I listen to Shera's advice everyday during my day!!! Levelling up so that I can get this bag!
Stop telling him everything
I love you Ashera 🤗
Love the title so much! Always coming up with great topics! #sheraseven 😁💃 "close mouths don't get fed." Hahahaha exactly no woman enjoys going to work society is forcing her to have two jobs! One for free being a mom and the other a slave to the CEO/ manager ??
Truth!
yeah that is not a life
Yes and it’s absolutely exhausting
Girl getting me an alien 👽 with his own galaxy 😂
LOL..."My mama, Louisiana, My daddy Puerto Rican. You mix that Rican with that Creole make a Texas bama…"
No wonder your hard headed! Your Puerto Rican! Me too, but I'm one of good ones. Its ok, we Puerto Ricans also have sour apples. Grow up and represent our people one some class. 🇵🇷🐓
When I become financially free I’m gonna donate to this woman, what a treasure
Oh my God I can't believe you said that about young marriages my friend is getting a divorce right now because she marry a child with no ambition he is four years older and still going nowhere she is leaving him and he is here still dragging his feet this is so true you need a television show to educate more women.
I haven’t even listened yet but this is exactly my mood for today. Had to break down and ask baby for money today.
Securing the Bag ..cost work in Leveling...but it cheaper than living in skid row after a dusty then left you homeless and moves back with his Momma......and get this you the WIFE. My friend had this happen. Listen to Sherra don't be to PROUD.
Sheera, I went on a date and he paid for dinner and drinks, but it was our first date, then he asked me to go to his place and I said I was not ready, and I think.I did the right thing, because I was not feeling comfortable. His car is not luxury. He did not offer anything then he apologized for being too forward.
Blue Orb you did the right thing girl.
Don’t know what’s crazier, that men invite women to their homes on a first date, or that women actually go.
@@amasion2882 Yes, men at every age will try to push things, Sheera already told us that, they are pushing on how soon he can get us to bed, but at that point I should have mentioned something like, wow, I cant believe you are asking for that this soon! and then say, something like, if we become intimate, ...and honestly I got nervous, I only said, Im not ready, what is your rush? and please do not anylyze things.
But two things he said tell me he wont call again: He said, thank you for coming with me to this new restaurant, and have a good summer. Like someone who is saying goodby to someone you met in another city. So, he had a plan in mind, he did not accomplish, he got the wrong latina in Houston, I guess he got the only latina who does not go with guys for free, Im sorry ladies but it is true, we latines have such a bad reputation and this is why I am having trouble for men to respect.
Nobody wants to invest in a lady. And it is so true when Sheera says, do not mention if you have kids, they do treat you different, they treat you lower, like you are a charity work. They are so discirminatory and labeling, men are such pigs. All of them.
You should be proud of yourself. We are all out to get something and this just shows. Likr shera said get or get got. And he didnt get you. Over 1 dinner... thats dusty behaviour if he dismissed you like that after. Block and dont look back.
@OutThere2017 exactly..
😂😂..the intro...was hilarious Shera7..ya look good...u said. Ain't tryna compete with no man...we suppose to be looking cute... 😂😂
I just want to thank u for everything u teach I’m a smart attractive woman I’m actually a hair professional ! I have a good job and it’s hard to find men who don’t want to take advantage of that..but I now know that I was looking at this dating thing all wrong “we are the prize” and now I know what to do to keep dusty ‘s and give me guys away ! Thank u soo much I’m manifesting my successful husband as we speak 😊
I rather beg than go to work. And that says a lot cause since I was a little girl I was denieded a lot of what I asked for. maybe it's fear of rejection and not proudness. I know that's what I felt until I started doing more, the more I was denied the more I asked for.
Shera + James = #CoupleGoals
SheRa is right about successful BM...When they hit that age and they are ready, they're looking for a BW who will "fit in"' that environment. The preppiest guy in my circle suddenly started showing interest and I was extremely confused. I assumed he didn't date BW so I never thought about us dating, until I realized he didn't step to me before reaching a certain level of success. 😳 I really appreciated that. But that also let me know that I can attract others like him.
Johnny Tramain Whoa- not talking about physical intimacy buddy. Calm down...not everyone on here is looking for a come up, and the people who know me are aware of that. Lol
I used to be to proud to ask also. Never again!
I love you sheRa star goddess thank you so much for all of your information you share really appreciated💖💋
Your hair is giving me life Ashera 😍😍
That previous relationship answer is genius! Thanks. 🤝
Ah, let me get my Shera dose of the day ❤️
She said scallawags that word cracked me up!
I use that word and ppl laugh all the time. 😄😄 it's so appropriate.
Love this look! Looking so young.
DAMN you were on fire tonight! so mad I missed this live! XOXO
Hi SheRa, Thanks so much for the Life Lessons...❤❤❤
She said you going to have to go through an obstacle course LOL 😂😂😂 I died and came back LOL
I am so glad I am celibate. The game I know very well just have no time to play it. I said that the other day if I do get in a relationship he will be older than me. Already raised his kids they grown plus he will be established or retired. They do try to talk to me I just have not return the call. New numbers I have not called. Not in a rush do not see it as the end of the world when I do not feel like courting. I lose no sleep ever over men. It is a big world. Not in a rush. People will harm plus set up people for their insurance money. I am not interested in that either. To each it's own. It can easily come back on a person who plays that game. So I never play that game. It is more than one man out there so I do not care about my leftovers or if I did not jump quick then someone else did. I do not have to jump quick. Long as he do not go both ways or like orgies we good. I do none of that so he would have to find a women that likes all those different lifestyles plus bringing people in the bedroom if that is what he likes. Other than that I am in chill mode. Loving it to. I be dancing in my beautiful comfortable summer dress with comfortable shoes. Wear what I want when I want is what I do. Do not care what no one say as long as they do not approach me meaning harm. I am good. Protect myself I Am. I am gonna think they jealous if they lie set up to mean harm.Not a follower is who I be. I do want to learn about real estate so that is my next move. Meanwhile at work all I hear is this women talking about praying for her husband whom will not do right or you got the one that is constantly talking about folks while she working hard as hell while her husband run around talking mess being disrespectful. He be like all I got to do is wash clothes. plus take classes. I be laughing that is her problem. I be like shew I am glad I have not just settled for anything. He has to work not watch me work. I do not play the radio. They cannot stand me. The others love me. For the ones that do not love me I love me at the beginning plus end of the day. So let me slip on my slippers and dance. Relax. Blessed not stressed. Enjoy your week plus weeks to come to all.
Hypergamy pure hypergamy 110 % hypergamy that's all you talkin about
Just found your channel earlier today about 11am it is 11:35pm been binging on your videos all this time...while cooking
Hello Sheera, this video is helpful, yes, that is my situation, I was too shy to ask.
Shera you saved my life, youre incredible
Namyo ho renge kyo 🎶yessss I love that chant. My all time favorite
😁
My friend that has money told me he rather date a older beautiful lady than a young unattractive lady.so I say even as you get older stay pretty
Oooohhhh yes!!!! Love this hair!!!! 😍😍😍😍😍
I love this message!!!
LOOOL @ 48:05 😂😂😂😂😂😂 WHATS A LAMBO? Lol shera you crazy but you right cause ima go get me a alien man
Yes I know what one look like real rough she raised me and I’m tryna unlearn watching you so I don’t end up caring for another dusty 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Oh your hair loooks sooooooooooo prettty omg!!!!
TanzytheTrophy and sooooooooooooo fake!! Just like you!!!!!
WHEN SHEERA SAID "WET BOOTY AND DRY PURSE" I HOLLERED.
Well a real man take care of his wife but she take care of the kids but it's about the woman's loyalty
Your the first mixed lady that said the same thing I have been saying! Im black I don’t know the white side. But as soon as I open my mouth they know I’m black lol
I love you SheRa star goddess thank you for your information you shares 💋
I was doing good leveled up everyday and then ran into my crush on the random day I had no makeup on! 🙏
NEVER leave the house not leveled up!
Angelica C. Pickles girrrrrl I learned my lesson hard!!! At least I had my hair right that day!
I was geeking about karaoke
Happened to me neva again.!
Mmm sometimes its okay not to wear make up ❤ mascara and lip is beautiful too.
My point exactly...I don't understand...win u look good ya feel good..
Madea quotes giving it up on the first night with get you a dental in a movie. But if you hold out you get diamonds and furs Madea get out of this woman head.
The city girls have a song how to pimp a n now the words are not lady like but the message is what shera teaches listen to it.
I thought the younger they are the more lenient they were with size because of the whole "thick" trend. I see men in their thirties and forties saying they want curvy women where as old fashioned me believe a woman should be tiny. Im an 8-10 hourglass and this is just my observation
Facts, you the best!
Look like you don’t belong there preach that is so spot on lol
Looking good makes you feel good if nothing else
These men are IN LUST
This hair omg yeaaaa sis this is IT!
Hey Miss West the fake white girl hair?
I’m going to take you up on that promise and let you know !
Oh! Damn there are books🙌🏻
Get The Bag!
You are FACTS!
Damn where you been all my life?
Im still tryna find out dis same thing.
Goddess, you are such a pisces! #pisceswoman #piscesgang💓💓💓
Just because her friends are saying that her bf is too unattractive for her doesnt mean to get rid of them..theyre telling the truth..why did shera call them ratchets. Shes wild and crazy.
Learn from the Sopranos- when he cheats you get a new sable: )
SHERA U ,MAKING ME SMILE...U THE BEST
Great title and message..
One like hurrrrr lmao I love u Shera …. 🤣🥰😘
She's a beautiful woman.
And funny as Hell! 😄
Indeed
Georgia is not the best state for Women alot of pretty pickmes here.
boldandcourageous 41 the strange thing is that affluent men don't even want pickmeisha's. It's so weird ... level up women should just pick their targets better not just whoever is available.
boldandcourageous 41 yeah but men don’t want the women they can have... they’ll have them and keep it moving. Men like challenge. Those women are selling themselves short stand on your square.
LOL @ " girl he tall he 6'9...his brother 8'2".
Edit- Funny you mention the tidbit about McDonald's. It was my first job and I never have an issue with accents and I also have a good memory. I also didn't stay long because of looking like I didn't belong.
My dad family is spainard but we have Puerto Rican also in there. And carbbiean
That was fun, chat was lit tonight.
You right!!!!!
This lil kid looked me up and down at juneteenth.. she was jealous on what i had on..