A man crossed the room for me the other day. I was dressed up in heels etc. I’ve officially become the person that’s always overdressed wherever I go. It has such an impact in these modern times because the majority of women do not dress nice and take care of themselves.
@@yumyumkitty2104 nope woman always have options even a 40 something year old...sure they have to go 20-25 years older than them but women always have options...men just want us to think we don't 🤣
Investing on your looks and class is a major upgrade. People automatically respect u. Yes u could have been pretty before hand but there's a difference when men say "hey sexy" and "good evening beautiful". MAJOR. Class is important
Shera I'm a flight attendant. I met him on a flight haha he was my passenger so I couldn't use the receptionist trick 😂 but all your other advice got me the ring & my rent paid every month 💅thank you so much! You are the real deal.
@@LinguistAmbie I've been wearing all of those in the name of cold weather 😭 but girllll it was a major sports team owner on my flight last night and I really thought about how I need to step it again like I did in the beginning and your comment let me know as well
I love you, and thank you so much for stopping me from ever returning to the mess I left 3 years ago. "A man doesn't care about a woman's income unless he's going to ride on her back." YOU LITERALLY even though you don't consider yourself a feminist, are a true feminist if we defined it correctly. You are for women getting treated how we deserve, recognizing we are not the same we are different. That's a true feminist in my book, not these crazy women trying to act like men!
I am 42 years old. I am always told i look about 30. I wear my hair boring and natural but do wear make up. Today i put on a wig and glammed up my make up. My 10yr old daughter said, 'Mummy, you look so preeeeettty'. We are only going out to run errands and I am nervous about the wig but here goes! Thank you Shera!
@@Oneandonlyfrenchcandy i wasn't confident with the wig. It was a half wig and the front frizzed up! I can't work with lace fronts to make them look good. I have ended up with crochet braids (twists) which is a major step up from what i used to look like. I am a work in progress! Thanks for asking x
a friend of mine used to work at the coffee shop next to the court (tribunal) 'coz still formally married with one kid her husband turned out to be a dusty (!!) and she needed to work finally at the coffee shop she got to know a judge who used to go there for his coffee / lunch break in the end the judge supported her in finalizing her divorce and he married her he took care of her kid and trusting her by giving her a monthly money so that she could quit her job at the coffee shop !! 😍 true story ! you gotta believe it is possible !! 🎯
I remember when I was 22.. my supervisor had a crush on me. I would come in late everyday. I never got written up. The older and less attractive women would get written up tho... and my supervisor would always ask me to come by his desk and he would have random conversations lasting hours lol... I barely worked and he encouraged it lol
thatlovegirl12 Haha! Made my supervisor so sexually frustrated, she thought she could get me to do dumb shit-only to end up delegating what I told her to do to others-after sending me home.. I was back to bossing up on her sexy ass the next day🤣. Wanted to go home early anyway🤣 Attractive people have it easy, when they’re intelligent. LvLnUp ugly world with plastic surgery, but you can’t fix stupid-unless SMART water is true. Then again, still wouldn’t work because dumb people don’t drink enough water🤣
Fires And Flowers Let her enjoy it. I speak to the older woman that prune the flowers. They’re like google on legs. I can tell she enjoys my brief company. But I hear you tho. Millennials were sold an unsustainable dream. AI could be the matchmaker of the future-better than tinder. But above average males getting the swipes will be disappointed when the picture didn’t tell him her breath would stank. He’ll be saddened because he’ll realize none of them can be his friend-just a bunch of girls to make bet with-“like I bet you can’t make me ejaculate”. It’s gets sad not watching take those Ls and paying up. They believe in Love, and they’re learning weemen don’t love them.
Shera for years I’ve been dreaming of a man to fully provide for me. With your Chanel, I realize there is a formula to getting what I want. You’re wonderful.
I love you Shera!!! I have a new car and he is buying me a house soon... You are Right! You HAVE to look good because you are the prize! Ladies listen to her... When a woman looks Good as hell other men and other women recognize this and they know what's up.. I very rarely hear the word NO! #spoiled!!!!!
Hey Miss West Get it girl! He just gave it to you, or did you ask him by creating a problem? Also, in picking to entertain him from the website, did you make sure he was a millionaire first? Thank you for responding💓
Lali Khvedelidze The nothings are not the prize. The rich man making it so you don’t have to work is🤣 All these dusties out here, I’m sure a lot of these females have to work for the rich man-so even the rich man will put you to wirk🤣
I work at a restaurant, when it comes time to pay, it's always the women reaching for their bags when they with a man lol. Hey, maybe all the customers I had were just friends. Who knows?💀
I don’t need to work but I feel bored so I just go out and work and save my own money. At the same time I still can swipe my husband’s credit card for everything 😁💕
Sofia Vergara says she doesn't need help paying basic bills from a man she dates but they must be generou$$ with the gift$, contract$ and connection$ they introduce her to, lol. She has dated so many tycoons.
SheRa, you are spot-ON when you say that you can just walk in and LOOK GOOD and get the job without even interviewing. I can testify and let yall know that THIS IS REAL👍💁❤❤❤👊👊👊😂😂😂💰💵💵💵💵💳💳💳!!!
Yep. According to the laydeez here. Men not working so the laydeez can walk in and look good and get the job. Less sugar daddies to compete for laydeez. . You can always walk in and be hired off looks as plan b for no sugar daddy( let them tell i) iIf you’re a natural beauty you can use me as a reference.🤣
Cardi Bum was out here drugging and robbing men, and was she removed from streaming? No laydeez. See? Equal rights has made you superior. Let’s see how your superiority works out for society. 🤣
For males, it’s opposite. Don’t drive your best car. Don’t dress in your best. Don’t wear fragrance, don’t be smarter than your female supervisor. Don’t work circles around the others. They’ll be jealous and you’ll not get hired.
I tried to listen to other Love Guru. But only Shera give the strategic advice. Some advice from other channel more on moral, guilt and being goody-goody. Shera is the best.
I was a pickmesha! Cause I raised up in a pickmesha culture! NOW IM A CLASSY WOMAN THAT MEN PAY ME A LOOOOOTTTTTT ! Thank you my Shera ❤ I see you as my sister ❤
Shera, install safety door camera and do not open door in person, for safety reasons, use microphone to talk to them. Especially showing random ppl on youtube when responding to door. Be safe.
@@themoonbleu627 Thank you :) I have locs and I know that hair can change the face. I love my hair but am also aware that when it is starting to be "messy", I don't look the same. That is why I want to learn makeup
When I met my spouse at age 18, he was 43, I was levelled up, & always attracted men who made 300k or better, he came along 100k or less talked about providing for me, proposed begged me to live with him when I got pregnant, when I did he started in a settle way saying things like why are u always dolled up & in heels you should relax, then said your naturally beautiful you dont need make up or weave once I believed him he started asking me to help with yard work, ask me to get a job, b4 I knew it I went from a woman who made 5 grand a month off sugaring to a cashier making only enough to pay my car insurance and gas to get back to work, every time I had a business idea or tried to find ways to make more 💰 he'd find away to talk me out of it, kept me too busy cooking, cleaning, school, kids aft sch activ, working, yardwirk on weekends to think logically, after I got my degree I made better money but found myself watching beautiful days pass by as I worked from sun up to son dwn cooking & cleaning, caring for kids & helping him pay his mortgage at first till my brother made me realise how he would ignore me till payday or tax time, stop taking me out & initciating sex after I was age 23. I lost my self, & even my voice I used to be fun adventurous outspoken, now I'm socially awkward and dont stand up for myself anymore, I'm 26 now I dont work and hes very mean & were still not married he says its my house to although he had it b4 me, my house not on the deed, everytime I bring up that I refuse to help him pay his mortgage and house repairs he says when he die, itll all be mine but Ive seen no papers supporting his statements that im his beneficiary on anything, now that I have been awakened how do I go from living in the suburbs where our 2 children has grown up & the schools are good as well, starting over I fear my children will hate me if I dont provide them with the same upscale environment, but I feel like Im at a constant battle with not letting him use me up and waste my youth. I have to wait at least 2 years b4 I can leave, I have to save up first & be closer to my second degree.
Try to go live in a good neighborhood, level up and start dating again. Your kids will still love you make sure you explain the situation to them clearly. But not in a mean way. Maybe you can save up so u could move to another part of the neighborhood ur currently in so u could be close to them. It's a hard situation but ur still young!!!
Or start demanding stuff from him and if he doesn't marry u leave him, test him!!! Level up of course!!!!!!!! Start working less say u have pain from work and all of that sexual harrasment. And see how he reacts
You are not done and you are not old. Please leave, you sound so sad especially if you were a fun person. Girl, you are at the right time. Live your life and don't let negative people tell you what
43!?!?I am so mad that it was an old man using you up..Not even a guy your age and you could blame it on young love..This guy doesnt deserve anymore of your youth.Anyway you're not even 30 yet go back to dolling up and get your life back.
You've really changed my life for the better!! I enjoy following your teaching which is something my dead beat dad should've taught me. Nways I would appreciate working with you one-on-one.
gold dust My head is bald by choice. Downgrades my looks purposely by shaving it. If you tell me how my teeth look, you’re the truth🤣 Are they at least purty?
Yes it's important to take care of yourself but please don't be with someone who is only with you for your looks. It will become such a toxic relationship. Be with someone who also appreciates your personality.
At some point Shera wanted to replace the word dusty with another one. I propose the word SCRUB as in scrub from the 1999 song No Scrub that I'm sure y'all know that is EXACTLY about this type of dusty guys. Please ladies, like this comment so she can see. ❤️✨🍾💰💰💎
I love you so much! I send your videos to all the young ladies! They are trying so hard to cheat and short change woman anyway they can! Your videos show the truth and reminds us ladies of what men are supposed to do.
OMG! Shera, you were ON FIRE with this video!!!! Soooooo many gems! Cereal. Prenups. Eggs and sperm. Dustin Tumbleweed. George. Fake triggers. Bend over and snap something. Reverse psychology. The roast. Food Network. Cooking and cleaning fees. Free information! You (clap) were (clap) on (clap) a (clap) roll!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And I had no idea what Sasha was talking about until you broke it down: FEE-male. Toooooo funny! She was serious about that thing!
I've always fed myself and the kids first then my husband's plate. Main reason is because I'm hungry after cooking all of this! And second the kids will be going crazy because they are kids and don't want to wait to eat. A man will be just fine if he gets his food last. In fact he'll be grateful to have a woman cooking for him in the first place.
45:59 I learned this when I was a little girl James Brown. Ain't Nothing worth nothing without a woman or a girl don't forget it everything that has been created on this planet has been created by a man for a woman!
Lol Oh my! @giving extra doses of Insulin. That's the first thing that came through my mind when you said Doc tryna kill you. I have Type 1 Diabetes and FeelThis one. Lol. You funny SheRa...but thats Real!!!
So are all other forms of lethal injection...#traceable Esp. Once an autopsy is completed. However, who CARES💁if you can trace a drug after 🙅someone is dead!?!? SheRa's tryna hip us to the game BE-FORE anything happens to any of us. Shoot...PRE-VEN-TION is that BEST MEDICINE👍
I need help! I totally agree with a lot of what you're saying BUT what happens when you get older and you lose your good looks? Do you lose the money and your daddy? Is that the time to become independent from men?
Yaaaa I need advice lol I have 10 g do I invest it ( yes my bills already paid by a semi dusty) or do I put it toward my beauty since I’m 33 ( I wanna do some tweaking, even tho I’m already a 7.5-8) ….but I wanna marry soon now I’m ready lol. Do I invest or do I put into myself
Hey Shera, I'm an investor and a junior developer from the metropolitan areas of NC such as Chapel Hill, Raleigh, etc. I love your work and would love to pair you with an impressive beauty partner of mine. Any other needed investments are on the table as well! -Ms.misse
I have a real issue... So... I haven’t worn my natural (type 3c, 4a) hair out since I went completely natural. I don’t like to mess with my own hair, & I don’t like the way I look with it because I prefer a more sleek look (like straight hair with no hair out of place). I rarely straighten it because I’m afraid of heat damage, so I wear wigs most of the time. My question is... Should I just relax my hair & let my stylist keep it up & beautifully styled? Or what are my options because I have lost confidence in that department. I used to do so much more with my hair when I was relaxed.
Wigs, beautiful braided styles ..have someone else dp your hair and learn from them. Neat and pretty does NOT mean straight. Work on deprogramming yourself rather than chemically mutilating your hair
@@SunsetGlowASMR it's worked for me. Sometimes I'll wear my own hair after a good wash and condition..then do a twist out, or a twist UP. (protect your ends). I also do curly wigs that look more natural, but I'd love to have a regal, low to no maintenance corm row style. You can find hair care and styling videos for nearly anything you'd like to try.
Femme Fatale Thank you, love. I was thinking of doing that too... I used to do sew ins with leave outs also but i had the same issue. Well, I’ll figure things out. Keep me updated after u relax.😊
A man crossed the room for me the other day. I was dressed up in heels etc. I’ve officially become the person that’s always overdressed wherever I go. It has such an impact in these modern times because the majority of women do not dress nice and take care of themselves.
I was that man.....lol.....multimillionaire
Marilyn Monroe said in Gentlemen Prefer Blondes..."Don't you know that a girl being pretty is like a man being rich?"......
Suzan D Exactly!
Thank u suzan
Susan D 💯!! looks and body!
That is, until she ages. Men are perpetually attracted to women 1/2 or 1/3rd their age. Just sayin'...
@@yumyumkitty2104 nope woman always have options even a 40 something year old...sure they have to go 20-25 years older than them but women always have options...men just want us to think we don't 🤣
Investing on your looks and class is a major upgrade. People automatically respect u. Yes u could have been pretty before hand but there's a difference when men say "hey sexy" and "good evening beautiful". MAJOR. Class is important
Exactly!
Very true!
Shera I'm a flight attendant. I met him on a flight haha he was my passenger so I couldn't use the receptionist trick 😂 but all your other advice got me the ring & my rent paid every month 💅thank you so much! You are the real deal.
I'm trying to get like you girl 😅 I gotta get the cute dress uniform and flirt with fc
@@alexisjada17 yesss. All I where are the dress uniforms to work. I never wear the pants or the turtleneck set. And my RED lips every time 😉💄
@@LinguistAmbie I've been wearing all of those in the name of cold weather 😭 but girllll it was a major sports team owner on my flight last night and I really thought about how I need to step it again like I did in the beginning and your comment let me know as well
I feel flight attendant is still a safe job
Siempre Ambie TV Congrats beautiful! Have a lovely marriage and life.
...."Your looks are your money...."
that does make sense.
I love you, and thank you so much for stopping me from ever returning to the mess I left 3 years ago. "A man doesn't care about a woman's income unless he's going to ride on her back." YOU LITERALLY even though you don't consider yourself a feminist, are a true feminist if we defined it correctly. You are for women getting treated how we deserve, recognizing we are not the same we are different. That's a true feminist in my book, not these crazy women trying to act like men!
Look into womanist. That’s the real feminism. Feminism is the wrong way to go about empowerment
Hent Bust i know what it is, we studied it during my masters degree
Eggs don't chase sperm - brilliant!
Lionssky Blue
Fact! Sperm don’t spill. You’ll be on the chase for richest, best looking, male with status until you’re kept.
YES..AMEN
I thought the same!!!
Yes, this was good.
I am 42 years old. I am always told i look about 30. I wear my hair boring and natural but do wear make up. Today i put on a wig and glammed up my make up. My 10yr old daughter said, 'Mummy, you look so preeeeettty'. We are only going out to run errands and I am nervous about the wig but here goes! Thank you Shera!
So, how did it go?!?
@@Oneandonlyfrenchcandy i wasn't confident with the wig. It was a half wig and the front frizzed up! I can't work with lace fronts to make them look good. I have ended up with crochet braids (twists) which is a major step up from what i used to look like. I am a work in progress! Thanks for asking x
@@danmeck5978 girl, I'm sure you look good. Keep it up!😘
I feel senvetive about the wig , what if it's falls off ?
a friend of mine used to work at the coffee shop next to the court (tribunal) 'coz still formally married with one kid her husband turned out to be a dusty (!!) and she needed to work finally at the coffee shop she got to know
a judge who used to go there
for his coffee / lunch break
in the end the judge supported
her in finalizing her divorce and
he married her he took care
of her kid and trusting her
by giving her a monthly money
so that she could quit her job
at the coffee shop !! 😍
true story ! you gotta believe
it is possible !! 🎯
I remember when I was 22.. my supervisor had a crush on me. I would come in late everyday. I never got written up. The older and less attractive women would get written up tho... and my supervisor would always ask me to come by his desk and he would have random conversations lasting hours lol... I barely worked and he encouraged it lol
thatlovegirl12
Haha! Made my supervisor so sexually frustrated, she thought she could get me to do dumb shit-only to end up delegating what I told her to do to others-after sending me home.. I was back to bossing up on her sexy ass the next day🤣. Wanted to go home early anyway🤣
Attractive people have it easy, when they’re intelligent. LvLnUp ugly world with plastic surgery, but you can’t fix stupid-unless SMART water is true. Then again, still wouldn’t work because dumb people don’t drink enough water🤣
Fires And Flowers
Let her enjoy it. I speak to the older woman that prune the flowers. They’re like google on legs. I can tell she enjoys my brief company.
But I hear you tho. Millennials were sold an unsustainable dream. AI could be the matchmaker of the future-better than tinder. But above average males getting the swipes will be disappointed when the picture didn’t tell him her breath would stank. He’ll be saddened because he’ll realize none of them can be his friend-just a bunch of girls to make bet with-“like I bet you can’t make me ejaculate”. It’s gets sad not watching take those Ls and paying up. They believe in Love, and they’re learning weemen don’t love them.
thatlovegirl12 😂😂😂😂
@Fires And Flowers but not today lol
@@MelaninMagdalene lol!
Shera for years I’ve been dreaming of a man to fully provide for me. With your Chanel, I realize there is a formula to getting what I want. You’re wonderful.
It's not that hard ladies. Men are visual! Give them something good to look at!!
Exactly
Always keep 20 dollars in your car for emergency trust me.
I love you Shera!!! I have a new car and he is buying me a house soon... You are Right! You HAVE to look good because you are the prize! Ladies listen to her... When a woman looks Good as hell other men and other women recognize this and they know what's up.. I very rarely hear the word NO! #spoiled!!!!!
How are you the prize
Hey Miss West Where did you meet him and how long before he gave you money?
@@MalloriDan he was giving me money the second month of knowing me.. we met on Match.com
Hey Miss West Get it girl! He just gave it to you, or did you ask him by creating a problem? Also, in picking to entertain him from the website, did you make sure he was a millionaire first? Thank you for responding💓
Miss west, your a cutie ...
Me and my girlfriend now use “ Dusty” when it comes to losers.
I love when you say it 😀
And I love you ❤️
Bravo. Some men of means call you “Nothings”
And when you have kids. Don't raise your Boys to be Dustu.
beastcoaster 1999
The whoremongers are many. I don’t doubt it.
“Let’s go get some nothings”.
Looks like Dusties are in town.
As someone said: “ relax, you are not the Target”
Lali Khvedelidze
The nothings are not the prize. The rich man making it so you don’t have to work is🤣
All these dusties out here, I’m sure a lot of these females have to work for the rich man-so even the rich man will put you to wirk🤣
I work at a restaurant, when it comes time to pay, it's always the women reaching for their bags when they with a man lol. Hey, maybe all the customers I had were just friends. Who knows?💀
@Double Pisces wow were they on dates you can kinda tell by how they dress lol
Damn really you see all ages of women paying too? Or just reaching for their purses?
Eww I see that too & they’re actually couples
I gave a girl my card before leaving and said, “act like you paid. “. Lol
So y’all know the group servers don’t want holding up their tables?🤣
ive definitely got the ''you too pretty to be working here'' when I was working @ an apple store lol
I don’t need to work but I feel bored so I just go out and work and save my own money. At the same time I still can swipe my husband’s credit card for everything 😁💕
INDEED...I touched on this in my initial post and my response to "rainbowflower 333."
Sofia Vergara says she doesn't need help paying basic bills from a man she dates but they must be generou$$ with the gift$, contract$ and connection$ they introduce her to, lol. She has dated so many tycoons.
Whenever I’m feeling weary and feel myself slipping I watch your videos and immediately feel empowered to workout and primp myself!
I have always said that a woman’s youth and looks are like money.
SheRa, you are spot-ON when you say that you can just walk in and LOOK GOOD and get the job without even interviewing. I can testify and let yall know that THIS IS REAL👍💁❤❤❤👊👊👊😂😂😂💰💵💵💵💵💳💳💳!!!
really?
Yep. According to the laydeez here. Men not working so the laydeez can walk in and look good and get the job. Less sugar daddies to compete for laydeez. .
You can always walk in and be hired off looks as plan b for no sugar daddy( let them tell i) iIf you’re a natural beauty you can use me as a reference.🤣
Cardi Bum was out here drugging and robbing men, and was she removed from streaming? No laydeez. See? Equal rights has made you superior. Let’s see how your superiority works out for society. 🤣
For males, it’s opposite. Don’t drive your best car. Don’t dress in your best. Don’t wear fragrance, don’t be smarter than your female supervisor. Don’t work circles around the others. They’ll be jealous and you’ll not get hired.
What happens when women are interviewing you and are the boss lol
Yes, yoga every morning will change your life!
I tried to listen to other Love Guru. But only Shera give the strategic advice. Some advice from other channel more on moral, guilt and being goody-goody. Shera is the best.
Okay Sasha is a genius y’all it took me a while to understand she said “Fee”/Male!!! Train up a child Amen!!!
BF giving u $8,000/month? Did u voodoo him? 🤣🤣🤣
YumYum Kitty not if he can afford it
Lol
😂
Lmao yeah prolly 😂
Shera giving me Cleopatra vibes, love the hair & makeup
Lol "Tell your Mama HEY when she gets home George." 😂🤣
Wetesk53 she got mad clap back skills!!!
LOL...yeah I caught that one too.
Doesn't SheRa make you scream? So funny
I’m from the Midwest, whenever I dress nice with makeup people assume I’m looking for a man or have a man. Most women dress down in this area.
FACTS!
I was a pickmesha! Cause I raised up in a pickmesha culture! NOW IM A CLASSY WOMAN THAT MEN PAY ME A LOOOOOTTTTTT ! Thank you my Shera ❤ I see you as my sister ❤
That y pickmes provide because they think oh I’m doing for him he not gonna leave me for somebody else because they not gonna do for him 😂😂😂😂😂
Shera, install safety door camera and do not open door in person, for safety reasons, use microphone to talk to them. Especially showing random ppl on youtube when responding to door. Be safe.
I am average but guess I have to start learning how to put makeup to level up myself and go fishing
bubble gum you’re beautiful
@@themoonbleu627 Thank you :) I have locs and I know that hair can change the face. I love my hair but am also aware that when it is starting to be "messy", I don't look the same. That is why I want to learn makeup
bubble gum I see well... do what makes you feel good and attract the energy you need to advance in life ❤️
Ya gorgeous doll. I’m meh and with makeup -- woo chile!
No ur not average.
When I met my spouse at age 18, he was 43, I was levelled up, & always attracted men who made 300k or better, he came along 100k or less talked about providing for me, proposed begged me to live with him when I got pregnant, when I did he started in a settle way saying things like why are u always dolled up & in heels you should relax, then said your naturally beautiful you dont need make up or weave once I believed him he started asking me to help with yard work, ask me to get a job, b4 I knew it I went from a woman who made 5 grand a month off sugaring to a cashier making only enough to pay my car insurance and gas to get back to work, every time I had a business idea or tried to find ways to make more 💰 he'd find away to talk me out of it, kept me too busy cooking, cleaning, school, kids aft sch activ, working, yardwirk on weekends to think logically, after I got my degree I made better money but found myself watching beautiful days pass by as I worked from sun up to son dwn cooking & cleaning, caring for kids & helping him pay his mortgage at first till my brother made me realise how he would ignore me till payday or tax time, stop taking me out & initciating sex after I was age 23. I lost my self, & even my voice I used to be fun adventurous outspoken, now I'm socially awkward and dont stand up for myself anymore, I'm 26 now I dont work and hes very mean & were still not married he says its my house to although he had it b4 me, my house not on the deed, everytime I bring up that I refuse to help him pay his mortgage and house repairs he says when he die, itll all be mine but Ive seen no papers supporting his statements that im his beneficiary on anything, now that I have been awakened how do I go from living in the suburbs where our 2 children has grown up & the schools are good as well, starting over I fear my children will hate me if I dont provide them with the same upscale environment, but I feel like Im at a constant battle with not letting him use me up and waste my youth. I have to wait at least 2 years b4 I can leave, I have to save up first & be closer to my second degree.
Try to go live in a good neighborhood, level up and start dating again. Your kids will still love you make sure you explain the situation to them clearly. But not in a mean way. Maybe you can save up so u could move to another part of the neighborhood ur currently in so u could be close to them. It's a hard situation but ur still young!!!
Or start demanding stuff from him and if he doesn't marry u leave him, test him!!! Level up of course!!!!!!!! Start working less say u have pain from work and all of that sexual harrasment. And see how he reacts
He sounds evil and insecure as fuck. What a loser. Sorry you met him. I hope you get out of this situation
You are not done and you are not old. Please leave, you sound so sad especially if you were a fun person. Girl, you are at the right time. Live your life and don't let negative people tell you what
43!?!?I am so mad that it was an old man using you up..Not even a guy your age and you could blame it on young love..This guy doesnt deserve anymore of your youth.Anyway you're not even 30 yet go back to dolling up and get your life back.
1. I’m HERE for the bangs and this whole look 😍 and you’re chats have been helping me a lot! You keep is super real and that’s what’s needed
Best live! U remind us men are visual and we gota stay on point! 👌👌👌
Love u Shera! We need hair details! This hair is bomb! So youthful, mysterious and sexy!
Plz Shera make a video on how to break men down internally!
🤣🤣🤣
It’s no hope for tricks 🤣
Pleaseeeeew shera!!!
Yes because that’s what they do to women
Black Rose
What does that have to do with you getting money and married and kept? Y’all lvln down or up?
Gawd damn. Y’all are ruthless. Lmao 😂
You've really changed my life for the better!! I enjoy following your teaching which is something my dead beat dad should've taught me. Nways I would appreciate working with you one-on-one.
Absolutely brilliant. I have been changed completely just by watching your videos.
Absolutely 👍💯 my looks are equal as a real man's net worth! Thanks
You got big feet don’t you?
@@MelaninMagdalene why ask a question ya know answer to. See me in the🔮😂🤣😋. I 🔮your bald big, head. hahaha ☠️ Furthermore, amputee in your cards! 👺💀
gold dust
My head is bald by choice. Downgrades my looks purposely by shaving it. If you tell me how my teeth look, you’re the truth🤣
Are they at least purty?
@@MelaninMagdalene Not impressed lame one.
@@MelaninMagdalene Not by choice bald. Hahaha
Girl ya freaking hilarious!!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣 ya calling the cops with the roast... lmaoooo I listen for the wisdom and the jokes....
Yes it's important to take care of yourself but please don't be with someone who is only with you for your looks. It will become such a toxic relationship. Be with someone who also appreciates your personality.
You are such a "troll wrangler" . I love seeing how easy it is for you to manage people.
"Drop some'n! Bend over!" LOL. GURRLLLL. Planning to join Pre-Level Up next year. This year I am strengthening my esteem and physical fitness.
Omg I stumbled upon your channel and you’re hilarious and talk nothing but the truth. Amazing love your advise
You are so strategic! I love your videos Big Sis!👠💄
Cant wait to see you hit 100k girl!!! 💯
You looking good!!! So hubby net worth must be GOOD 🥰❤️
That answer for when your young trying to get someone older took me out!
I’m 19 so ima definitely use that.
I like this new look Shera, it’s very youthful on you...❤️
At some point Shera wanted to replace the word dusty with another one. I propose the word SCRUB as in scrub from the 1999 song No Scrub that I'm sure y'all know that is EXACTLY about this type of dusty guys. Please ladies, like this comment so she can see. ❤️✨🍾💰💰💎
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One of them burned down a million dollar mansion. The scrubs dodging bullets just by being scrubs🤣
The one who did that is dead.
I love you so much! I send your videos to all the young ladies! They are trying so hard to cheat and short change woman anyway they can! Your videos show the truth and reminds us ladies of what men are supposed to do.
You should have a statue of yourself made of gold ❤❤❤❤
mr x you’re a fucking weirdo lol
OMG! Shera, you were ON FIRE with this video!!!! Soooooo many gems! Cereal. Prenups. Eggs and sperm. Dustin Tumbleweed. George. Fake triggers. Bend over and snap something. Reverse psychology. The roast. Food Network. Cooking and cleaning fees. Free information! You (clap) were (clap) on (clap) a (clap) roll!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And I had no idea what Sasha was talking about until you broke it down: FEE-male. Toooooo funny! She was serious about that thing!
Many gems in this video 💎 really good advices, thanks Shera, you are the best 👑. Next book: "How to get a man in the subconscious level", yes please 🧠
That lip color is everything ❤
You are so smart. Ppl really need to listen
TEACH!! ILOVE THIS “GURL”!!!! SHE’S “OFF THE CHAIN”!!! I needed a good laugh today🙏🏽
Looking beautiful as always! Loving the fringe!
I've always fed myself and the kids first then my husband's plate. Main reason is because I'm hungry after cooking all of this! And second the kids will be going crazy because they are kids and don't want to wait to eat. A man will be just fine if he gets his food last. In fact he'll be grateful to have a woman cooking for him in the first place.
Listen! That cashier spill took ME OUT!!!! 😂😂😂 Shera you cold ma'am ❤❤
Sheeeeeraaaa! You gotta do a video on Ciara n Russell Wilson...in bed $140 million dollars richer.💰
Taj The Great One she has a couple times
Beauty products and surgery cost. It’s an investment for sure.
😂😂😂not welcome in Masculine areas🤣🤣dont make me laugh! Sips tea 🐸☕ Love you SheRaSeven ❤
Im cant wait for that video!
45:59 I learned this when I was a little girl James Brown. Ain't Nothing worth nothing without a woman or a girl don't forget it everything that has been created on this planet has been created by a man for a woman!
Shera thanks for this wisdom and humour
“Dusty DaJuan” 😂😂😂
Loved this live I've been getting mad about this whole gold digger thing and people saying women don't add value
lmao "Go to a video that teaches you how to be a man". hahahahaha. I cracked up when you said that.
💕💖💕Merci encore Shera !👌💕💖💕
im weak😁😂😁 you said u was gone kick it the pen😀😁
Hackers are getting pissed off that people ain’t got 50k in the bank, they’re about to start giving away money.🤣
Love the hair❤️
AMEN!!!! PREACH SISTA!!!!
YOUR RIGHT AGAIN. LOVE YOU.
Loving this look on you!
I just love u shera 😂😂😃so funny
Lol Oh my! @giving extra doses of Insulin. That's the first thing that came through my mind when you said Doc tryna kill you. I have Type 1 Diabetes and FeelThis one. Lol. You funny SheRa...but thats Real!!!
Insulin is traceable. Leave the killing to the killers lol
So are all other forms of lethal injection...#traceable Esp. Once an autopsy is completed. However, who CARES💁if you can trace a drug after 🙅someone is dead!?!? SheRa's tryna hip us to the game BE-FORE anything happens to any of us. Shoot...PRE-VEN-TION is that BEST MEDICINE👍
Sienna Miller
Ok booboo the fool.
I swear you’re a low key comedian. 😂😂😂 haven’t died laughing like this in forever 😂
It's true. Her vids r very entertaining.
I know I really laughed my ass off I cant believe they actually think that these women are so stupd
Dershalah she's HILARIOUS!!! I don't even think she's trying to be funny most of the time 😩😭
Yes! Nothing is more entertaining than an intelligent woman answering the questions of dumber weemen🤣
Lol
He must work hard for me too!!!! U go gurl- teach !!!!
I wAs putting off getting my nail fixed...then I clicked on this video now I’m otw
Would it be ok to go a dinner gala fundraising event by yourself or should you go with someone?
Doris Ortiz go alone so you can mingle and network
Dusty is a great word that's what their wallet have in it
He stole the roast 🤦🏽♀️ I’m dead 🤣🤣🤣
I need help! I totally agree with a lot of what you're saying BUT what happens when you get older and you lose your good looks? Do you lose the money and your daddy? Is that the time to become independent from men?
Girl, idk wth I’ve been doing with my life before I found your channel. Do you have an Instagram account?
The rock is my type too😗
Sasha is super smart! That’s right...FEE-MALE!!!!
She said “Fee-male.” I’ll never forget that 👌🏾😂😂😂
So true !!!!
Lmao I used to date a clown named Dustin
That mug, girl! 🍩 💀
Yaaaa I need advice lol I have 10 g do I invest it ( yes my bills already paid by a semi dusty) or do I put it toward my beauty since I’m 33 ( I wanna do some tweaking, even tho I’m already a 7.5-8) ….but I wanna marry soon now I’m ready lol. Do I invest or do I put into myself
Love the Egyptian inspired hair
Hey Shera,
I'm an investor and a junior developer from the metropolitan areas of NC such as Chapel Hill, Raleigh, etc. I love your work and would love to pair you with an impressive beauty partner of mine. Any other needed investments are on the table as well!
-Ms.misse
I have a real issue... So... I haven’t worn my natural (type 3c, 4a) hair out since I went completely natural. I don’t like to mess with my own hair, & I don’t like the way I look with it because I prefer a more sleek look (like straight hair with no hair out of place). I rarely straighten it because I’m afraid of heat damage, so I wear wigs most of the time. My question is... Should I just relax my hair & let my stylist keep it up & beautifully styled? Or what are my options because I have lost confidence in that department. I used to do so much more with my hair when I was relaxed.
Wigs, beautiful braided styles ..have someone else dp your hair and learn from them. Neat and pretty does NOT mean straight. Work on deprogramming yourself rather than chemically mutilating your hair
Ebony Elle girl, you’re absolutely correct 😊
Relax your hair...been natural for 3 years but going back....
@@SunsetGlowASMR it's worked for me. Sometimes I'll wear my own hair after a good wash and condition..then do a twist out, or a twist UP. (protect your ends). I also do curly wigs that look more natural, but I'd love to have a regal, low to no maintenance corm row style. You can find hair care and styling videos for nearly anything you'd like to try.
Femme Fatale Thank you, love. I was thinking of doing that too... I used to do sew ins with leave outs also but i had the same issue. Well, I’ll figure things out. Keep me updated after u relax.😊
30:00 Shera if only you knew that dusty was going to be one of your words and pickmeisha lol 💖💖💖
Everytime i see you im reminded that i need to look goooood!!! Qq