But the way this south Florida heat is set up...😂 but she’s right, no bright color/spring/summer clothes in the fall/winter. Personally, I wear booties since it’s too hot for actual boots. And I stick to appropriate seasonal colors since it’s so warm here... rust, hunter green, gray, burgundy, etc
Bella 09 For example, even if it’s warm in winter, don’t wear shorts, sandals, sleeveless, just wear lighter winter clothes like a nice trench, sweater, etc.
Men love variety. Wearing weaves and makeup makes it easier to look like a different woman everytime. Its like being five different women in one. I've had short hair, long hair, weaves, natural, pixie cut, Bob, etc. And every single man I've been with loves that I can switch it up on them. They never get bored. Any man that dosent like it, is usually intimidated by the fact you can attract other men
True but they go crazier when your natural hair can do this. Men love naturally curly hair then all it takes is a flat iron to switch it up. Thankful I don’t need wigs to look like something most of the time it looks fake on some women and they look like drags.
I've seen men spoiling their pets. If a man can't or refuses to treat you better than his dog....darn he doesn't give a damn about you. These men out here providing shelter, medical, love and gourmet meals to a darn pet. A pet getting more benefits than pickmesha. SMH. Have high standards ladies.
Guys Ashera is the truth. I went from messing with dusties and thinking it was normal to pay for things; to being a woman that attracts men of a higher status and don’t dare ask me to pay! This man works in technology and seriously discusses marriage with me. He wants me to quit my job and be a stay at home WIFE 😉 I’m barely 20. Glad I found her so young.
Shera always puts things in the simplest and most logical way. But that last part really was the nail in the coffin. Self love is of utmost importance, not only do husbands come and go, your children do as well. They will grow up and start their own families, and there’s no guarantee you will be cared for. We will come to an age where we don’t have anything left because we loved everyone else except ourselves in exchange for their love and titles. Love is a beautiful thing but also dangerous if in the wrong hands. When you love someone it buys them more time. More time to play games, more time to come up with excuses for not treating you right. While you become lenient, They slowly chip away at the boundaries and standards you once held. Love yourself first Ladies. And be weary of the title girlfriend or fiancé, after 2 years or so those need to have an expiration date. Don’t waste all your time being someone’s temp. In the end all you have is you, we must plan wisely...
Omg Finally More attacks against natural black women I see. Just because we don't like attaching dead people's hair to our scalps, it doesn't mean, we can't be classy. Y'all really tickle me. Lol!
They do like natural women black men love it ! I've never had issues when I'm natural & have Xtra curly hair ! Men love natural they don't take fake shit and weave seriously,but they will bang u and go home to their natural pretty wives and mates
There's a way to do everything. Weave is fine as long as it looks nice & undetectable. Some women go way too far & it just looks fake & ratchet. Less is more
Men always cheat on the plain homely blah looking "natural" woman to get with the gold digger adorned with big fake titties, ass, hair, nails, and makeup lol "Nah baby I love you the way you are" Oops I got my sidechick pregnant. See ya! 🤣
Y’all SheRaSeven1 is the truth! I was lucky enough to watch my aunties and big cousin pull wealthy men that takes care of them! When I tell you I’ve literally watch my auntie who by the way, smokes weed and is a little Rachet lol, pull a wealthy man that she is married to today! Now she has been married to this man for well over 10 years and he just found out she smoke lol...perception is everything...if you want it bad enough...you will and can get it...it’s all about playing the game!
My 3 yrs old son saw me watching you, he said " I like her mommy- shes pretty, I like her hair and lipstick" lol Thank you for all of your advice, started waking up earlier and doing my hair and make-up. Ladies at work noticed me LOL !!!!!
AWW THAT'S IS CUTE AT THREE YEARS OLD THEY ARE DO LOOK A 15 YEARS BOY WALK OVER TO ME AT A GRABE STORE HE WAS WITH HIS MOM AND HE SAID TO ME YOU LOOKED SO PRETTY.I SAID BACK AWW THANK YOU.. I NOT SURE HIS M OM LIKE IT THO HER HAIR WAS,T FIX HER CLOTHES WASN'T NICE LOOKING.i wonder if his mom later fixed her self . I didn't think young boys really looked at older women..I was thinking it was wrong.BUT than you said your son said SHERA was cute and he was three years old..IT had me thinking.. for sure. . .SHERA really is smart she said when you looked nice you get FREE STUFF AND BETTER TREATMENT HOW TRUE.i got free french fries today..FROM A MAN THAN went to Burger King two months ago.and got double my order..I couldn't believe it..so she is so right looking cute you get better treatments..and free stuff how SMART SHE IS thanks SHERS...I have been wearing lots of dresses and the cutest thing are being said to me one person said to me last week THAT I LOOKED LIKE no A BEAUTIFUL FLOWERS...HOW cute that was it made me so HAPPY...stay looking cute girl.
I was watching that show Life After Lockup and this lady that was IN PRISON got a man to fund her heroin addiction for 90,000 in jail . I screamed at the television screen like "go girl "
Perfume wise ladies i get so many head turns with ysl black opium it smells so great and I’ve gotten so many compliments from men it’s a classy fragrance i get it from Macys it is 100 a bottle but you can always if you’re on a budget grab samples and then wait until you have the money to support it
@@brenrob1965 you know how the autocorrect is on these phones. Obviously you know I meant Vagina. I'm going to fix it for you. However, that doesn't invalidate my point and the context of which I was conveying my thoughts.
So true Beyonce is 37 years old and these dusties that are saying at the age of 30 we hit the wall must all have her picture on the inside door in their bedroom to look at every morning and get inspired to say the least
If you don’t like to collect large bottles of perfume like myself or are on a budget , you can get designer perfume through scent bird. I also purchase Chanel, bvlgari etc perfumes in an atomizer at my local drug emporium.
MJ Talks Consider yourself lucky for now, you just happen upon a affluent man who likes you thus he tolerates your tats. As most older affluent men will not.
My favorite perfume is made by Bvlgari : the scent is called “Omnia Amethyst”. It comes in a lavender bottle. It also happens to be my birth stone. All of their fragrances smell great. The men love it and can’t get enough.
These trolls that come to your site. They don't have anything else to do. Dusty men that don't have jobs because they got the time to troll you or Pick Me, 50/50 chicks on their day off from the call center. The builder chicks don't have time because they killing themselves or side chicks that get the d+$k but NO MONEY! Believe me I am learning QUICK! Your my guilty pleasure that speaks truth. LOL
White men are willing to go BROKE over me. I get more ogle eyes from them. And the fact that I look exotic (dark, slim thick, natural curly long hair, and tall). I also, wear heels often and my makeup. African, Indian, Arab and Latino men adore me as well. I live in a michigan(lots of white , Indian, and Arab men with money. And some black men.). May I add, my natural hair products are expensive (I spend almost 1k per month on my hair alone. ). If he can’t afford to buy my hair products....he has no chance at all.
Us women are masculine, speaking for myself. UK women are honestly more refined unles they’re ghetto, unlike US even some rich girls are ghettooooo lol
Some of my friends and co-workers tell me I'm 'too boogie"! Everything you're saying, is what I tell the women around me! I never bought a perfume that costs 50.00! I don't think you can buy a designer's perfume at 50. Oh, my!! I so want to send this video to a bunch of women!!!! Everything you're saying is what I often tell them and wish I can make them understand! But they would feel insulted! Most of them go for dusties and think I'm materialistic! Then they say I only go for "handsome men with money." That's right!! To me, how you speak, dress, smell, and carry yourself, says a lot! Dusties don't even get near me ever!
Oh, and I love how men like "women without make-up" but love it when you get dressed to leave the house with make-up! 🤔 Dusties don't deserve classy women or kids! They can stay with the non-classy Dusty daters, who do everything to please men, including going 50/50 on bills or even pay for everything! That's where they belong.
@@yetfitmaafar6566, On sale?? Where do you get your perfumes? I buy mine at Macy's and I've never seen a sale. They don't do that. They add a bag or a smaller version of the same fragrance on holidays and sometimes both but a sale where you get their perfumes at a lower price, is inexistent there.
Love can grow !!!!! Romantic love is a relatively new construct. Many women married men in whom they saw potential for a good life; guy had good values, morals, earning potential etc. In time a woman could love a little green man from Mars if he treated her right. Of course, I'm going to find something physically attractive about him (learn to love green if he's Martian !!). Shera is clear-headed in her ideas. What she's teaching are things that our mothers and grandmothers taught their daughters in an earlier age............
This might be a little off topic but I think it's somewhat relevant to the sprite of the cause... to seduce or to "con" someone, you must get into their mind; you must tap into their energy, absorb their being. You start by asking "KEY" questions to discover their "core values" and then put yourself in their position and test situations on how they would respond. It's like a mental movie that you play in your head and you are the director, testing situations on how things will play out... Water signs can do this naturally... They can BECOME YOU... and SEE YOUR NEXT MOVE. I can do it too... so I know where they are coming from. And when I started meditating... I can do it MUCH BETTER... but I had to stop... because I tapped in to their PAIN as well... I can literally see what's wrong with each person I interact with... and become sensitive to their pain... If you know a person's pain, and you're able to cure it... you will have them forever.... I'm a Libra and I refuse to get that deep into a person's psyche... no sir... I STAY ALOOF...
Hot Sauce I’m libra Scorpio cusp, natural empath, and my life path is an 11(simplify it and if im not doing my spiritual work I’m a 2). So trust me I tap into people a lot unintentionally without trying. So I have to meditate and cleanse myself of energies a lot. Thankfully my Libra moon and Capricorn rising saves me
Also, we need to sound take-anywhere-able....Important to get the grammar under control - minor errors aren't bothersome but glaring ones will have doctors, attorneys, entrepreneurs running. We can be take-any-where-able by fixing the most blatant/worst grammar offenders. Google English grammar rules for these: DOUBLE NEGATIVES ("Don't nobody, "Can't do Nothing" instead of "No one", "Can't do anything") AND Wrong tense of the verb to BE . ("You be", "You is", "He be", "They Be" ). It doesn't matter how seductive or tastefully you're dressed (notice the "you're" and NOT "your" which is possessive like 'your car', 'your iPhone') if you open your mouth and this stuff spills out. Deal Breaker. We can be take-any-where-able and not a social embarrassment by just nailing this. Simple correction.
Exactly i made a comment saying the way you look is exactly what you will attract and the girls were in SHAMBLES and disagreeing so hard but its true lol if you look like bum, dirty, hair not done,nails not done, stained clothes...just a hot mess and the type of men you will get will be from "shein" and "fashion nova" not even just men but people overall too! If you look like you dint care about yourself chances are you dont and you will surround yourself with those same types of people that same energy and the same men.. DO BETTER LADIES. You most def dont have to spend alot of money to look well kept and classy but you do need to invest in yourself if you want your man to also see you as an investment
I'm a 10 in my eyes...but this weight is hurting my overall game ...share some of your secrets....all your followers will be tuned in when you do....we seen you from before...and now you all glowed up...come on share it L.🙏😇💜
Yeah she lost a lot of weight in a small amount of time... I’m a new subscriber and when I saw some of her videos from early 2018, it’s a big difference
Don't get me wrong, your wigs look very natural and beautiful. But personally, I don't see anything wrong with your pretty wavy hair. My hair is wavy too. And I always have gotten compliments for wavy hair.
Love your page Ashera. I’ve followed you and leveled up so much and have much more because of you. But please for the love of God don’t speak of things you do not know. Such as Michael Lavaughan Robinson & Barry Soetoro. You will eat those words up in disgust once this info hits the fan. I know atm most won’t know who I mean. But not for long. It’s all coming out. But I still thank you for your knowledge of men and women’s roles. By God you do understand that. Bless you. 🙏🏽
1.What Shera is saying about men staying at home then cheating is true. It has happened to my friend. She date than married a man who couldn't do much for himself or her. She was working longer hours than him so he got into an affair with the neighbor. And that's how the marriage ended with her being on the brink of total collapse of course. 2. Brazilians, 8 times out of 10, prove to be a bad investment. Because they hardly stay into a situation be it long term relationship or marriage or they end up making your life miserable by cheating, arguing and so on. The 2 happy cases I'm talking about are whites. So best to try other nations like Cuban maybe, other Latin Americans or even Carribean if need be. Good luck.
My hubby used to take care of me but has been in immigration jail for almost two years now... I’ve been working but sometimes I feel like I need help it be hard
SheRa could you do a Mom makeover on me? I'm like stuck in a rut (I'm looking at some of your older videos from 2014 when you were a mortician in glasses...wow big difference)....
There are alot of these 'ladies' who are doing this, asking dumb questions, using wrong advice for the wrong situation, these are more than likely going to continue being dusty losers...
I’m so glad I found you at 21, perfect age. Wish I did earlier. My 20s are going to be so great in terms of dating now, thank you.
You’re so lucky!! You will do so well!
Amen!! That's EXACTLY the right age to hear this! You are VERY LUCKY!!
Me too !!!
Same. I’m 22
same here started @20 I’ll be 22 this month I’ve saved a lot of time!
"Wealthy people dress for the season, not the weather." Got it.
But the way this south Florida heat is set up...😂 but she’s right, no bright color/spring/summer clothes in the fall/winter. Personally, I wear booties since it’s too hot for actual boots. And I stick to appropriate seasonal colors since it’s so warm here... rust, hunter green, gray, burgundy, etc
Wait what does that mean
Bella 09 For example, even if it’s warm in winter, don’t wear shorts, sandals, sleeveless, just wear lighter winter clothes like a nice trench, sweater, etc.
S Lines I kinda know what you mean but being sweaty isn’t cute either. How do you solve that?
Bella 09 Maybe short sleeve or cap sleeves, booties or flats. I think just not actual summer clothes.
Men love variety. Wearing weaves and makeup makes it easier to look like a different woman everytime. Its like being five different women in one. I've had short hair, long hair, weaves, natural, pixie cut, Bob, etc. And every single man I've been with loves that I can switch it up on them. They never get bored. Any man that dosent like it, is usually intimidated by the fact you can attract other men
True but they go crazier when your natural hair can do this. Men love naturally curly hair then all it takes is a flat iron to switch it up. Thankful I don’t need wigs to look like something most of the time it looks fake on some women and they look like drags.
Once you have a taste of champagne, you dont want beer.
So true!!
BROOKLYN LADY Was
@BROOKLYN LADY: That's like saying... once you get a taste of that crack pipe... you will never want cigarettes again...
CHAMPAGNE.... NICE WATERS.... NICE WINES...
@@hotsauce7362 No. Like saying once you smell a dusty like you, you need permanent dust repellent.
Dusties before 22 teaches you a valuable lesson; avoid dusties.
Exactly and get that bag from rich men for the Sigmas.... Make you feel good sexy lady.
I've seen men spoiling their pets. If a man can't or refuses to treat you better than his dog....darn he doesn't give a damn about you. These men out here providing shelter, medical, love and gourmet meals to a darn pet. A pet getting more benefits than pickmesha. SMH. Have high standards ladies.
You spoke FACTS
Almost spit out my water reading this. 😮😂
Yup!
So true. They don’t like women who don’t up keep themselves !
Guys Ashera is the truth. I went from messing with dusties and thinking it was normal to pay for things; to being a woman that attracts men of a higher status and don’t dare ask me to pay! This man works in technology and seriously discusses marriage with me. He wants me to quit my job and be a stay at home WIFE 😉 I’m barely 20. Glad I found her so young.
BARELY 20. GET ITTT
I wish you nothing but happiness, Ms. Destiny!!! Sincerely.
Why are people encouraging you? Get married but have no babies as wait for a while.
Grace Lynn Thanks mom!
Ehhhh barely 20? At least get your education out if the way.
Shera always puts things in the simplest and most logical way. But that last part really was the nail in the coffin. Self love is of utmost importance, not only do husbands come and go, your children do as well. They will grow up and start their own families, and there’s no guarantee you will be cared for. We will come to an age where we don’t have anything left because we loved everyone else except ourselves in exchange for their love and titles. Love is a beautiful thing but also dangerous if in the wrong hands. When you love someone it buys them more time. More time to play games, more time to come up with excuses for not treating you right. While you become lenient, They slowly chip away at the boundaries and standards you once held. Love yourself first Ladies. And be weary of the title girlfriend or fiancé, after 2 years or so those need to have an expiration date. Don’t waste all your time being someone’s temp. In the end all you have is you, we must plan wisely...
Bri Marie well said. The children leaving part really struck me, so damn true.
yup!@@Ruthmarahill
Bravo !!!!. Perfect analysis!!!!
Exactly
Wise words
Yes, men hate the fakeness cause they can't afford it.😋😊😍
Exactly
Men SAY they don't like "fake hair, fake nails, makeup "..... they do. They think they like natural but natural isnt sexy, it's easy.
Omg Finally More attacks against natural black women I see. Just because we don't like attaching dead people's hair to our scalps, it doesn't mean, we can't be classy. Y'all really tickle me. Lol!
Traveling Diva2018 exactly 💯
They do like natural women black men love it ! I've never had issues when I'm natural & have Xtra curly hair ! Men love natural they don't take fake shit and weave seriously,but they will bang u and go home to their natural pretty wives and mates
There's a way to do everything. Weave is fine as long as it looks nice & undetectable. Some women go way too far & it just looks fake & ratchet. Less is more
Men always cheat on the plain homely blah looking "natural" woman to get with the gold digger adorned with big fake titties, ass, hair, nails, and makeup lol
"Nah baby I love you the way you are" Oops I got my sidechick pregnant. See ya! 🤣
Y’all SheRaSeven1 is the truth! I was lucky enough to watch my aunties and big cousin pull wealthy men that takes care of them! When I tell you I’ve literally watch my auntie who by the way, smokes weed and is a little Rachet lol, pull a wealthy man that she is married to today! Now she has been married to this man for well over 10 years and he just found out she smoke lol...perception is everything...if you want it bad enough...you will and can get it...it’s all about playing the game!
My 3 yrs old son saw me watching you, he said " I like her mommy- shes pretty, I like her hair and lipstick" lol
Thank you for all of your advice, started waking up earlier and doing my hair and make-up. Ladies at work noticed me LOL !!!!!
AWW THAT'S IS CUTE AT THREE YEARS OLD THEY ARE DO LOOK A 15 YEARS BOY WALK OVER TO ME AT A GRABE STORE HE WAS WITH HIS MOM AND HE SAID TO ME YOU LOOKED SO PRETTY.I SAID BACK AWW THANK YOU.. I NOT SURE HIS M OM LIKE IT THO HER HAIR WAS,T FIX HER CLOTHES WASN'T NICE LOOKING.i wonder if his mom later fixed her self . I didn't think young boys really looked at older women..I was thinking it was wrong.BUT than you said your son said SHERA was cute and he was three years old..IT had me thinking.. for sure. . .SHERA really is smart she said when you looked nice you get FREE STUFF AND BETTER TREATMENT HOW TRUE.i got free french fries today..FROM A MAN THAN went to Burger King two months ago.and got double my order..I couldn't believe it..so she is so right looking cute you get better treatments..and free stuff how SMART SHE IS thanks SHERS...I have been wearing lots of dresses and the cutest thing are being said to me one person said to me last week THAT I LOOKED LIKE no A BEAUTIFUL FLOWERS...HOW cute that was it made me so HAPPY...stay looking cute girl.
Ashera you tell the truth we need to hear..
"get rid of the high school junk and get real woman's stuff"
I need to level up more. I need to invest in more sexy-classy clothes and shoes and high end makeup. And a good quality every day wig!
Chris Rock says women cannot go backward in lifestyle. True, true, true!
I was watching that show Life After Lockup and this lady that was IN PRISON got a man to fund her heroin addiction for 90,000 in jail . I screamed at the television screen like "go girl "
I saw that too! That woman has game!
Lizzy is goals 💯
😂😂😂😂😁😁😁!!!!!
Wait 🤣🤣🤣
Cuz she looked like she had leveled up before she went in
Perfume wise ladies i get so many head turns with ysl black opium it smells so great and I’ve gotten so many compliments from men it’s a classy fragrance i get it from Macys it is 100 a bottle but you can always if you’re on a budget grab samples and then wait until you have the money to support it
Black Opium is my go to. Men love it!!!
Shar S. Girl this perfume is THEE BEST!!! I got a sample and I need the full size now!
This is the second recommendation I've seen for this perfume in 24 hours. Must be a message from the Universe!
Yass will be ordering soon! Thanks ladies
Will be buying this! Which flavor though? There are 3 of them.
Ashera Star Goddess: "If he don't like weave and fake nails it's because he can't afford em." 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂#dusties Why you call em #dusties thooooooooo
If I would've found your videos 5 yrs ago, I'd already be leveled up by now....smh better now than never
How??? Just by having a vagina? LOL... I'm a 34 year old educated military veteran with a good career...not sure I'll ever get married.
Educated huh? "Vagia" 😂😂😂not sure I have one of those.
@@brenrob1965 you know how the autocorrect is on these phones. Obviously you know I meant Vagina. I'm going to fix it for you. However, that doesn't invalidate my point and the context of which I was conveying my thoughts.
Yes!!!!.
Flora by Gucci, highly recommend, soft, feminine, long lasting, not offensive. $100 bottle
Love it
"He wasn't in community college making a mix tape" 😂 you crack me up. I love tell it how it is women 💕
This is probably why I end up getting broke men. I notice when I get my hair done I attract alot of head turns though.
Shera is my QUEEN! Everything she says is KEY information that half y'all mommas never told you! Level upppppp
So true Beyonce is 37 years old and these dusties that are saying at the age of 30 we hit the wall must all have her picture on the inside door in their bedroom to look at every morning and get inspired to say the least
And Rihanna Jennifer Halle were all desired after age 30
THIS IS ONE OF THE MOST SIGNIFICANT VIDEOS MS. SHERA HAS EVER MADE! Pass it on!, sisters, niece's, nephews, whomever! I am most grateful!
A full beat "natural" makeup face, like neutral colors is the best for finding men. Maybe a winged eyeliner. Nothing for the club
Men LOVE Chanel No. 5 !!! The body cream is scented with a full ounce of the full strength perfume and is 1/4 the price of the perfume ounce bottle.
That's a great tip! Thank you.
Scented creams give me acne I have very oily skin. I just wear la vie est belle
Thank you, I didn't know that. 😊
that perfume is too strong !!
allure and chance are great too
I feel like I should pay for this. Shera teaching us stuff that are the essence of wisdom is priceless
If you don’t like to collect large bottles of perfume like myself or are on a budget , you can get designer perfume through scent bird. I also purchase Chanel, bvlgari etc perfumes in an atomizer at my local drug emporium.
Ha I’m heavily tattood and still secured the bag 🤷♀️
@foxylady246 That's because BW have beautiful skin, and puttin' that tacky shit on your body devalues your appearance.
MJ Talks Consider yourself lucky for now, you just happen upon a affluent man who likes you thus he tolerates your tats. As most older affluent men will not.
I love when Shera laughs at her own jokes 😂
Stop being a dust magnet 💀
Don’t just sit the wig on top of your head and go 😭😭😭😭
Haha
My favorite perfume is made by Bvlgari : the scent is called “Omnia Amethyst”. It comes in a lavender bottle. It also happens to be my birth stone. All of their fragrances smell great. The men love it and can’t get enough.
NemaLeem mine is la vie eat belle by Lancôme but yours sounds interesting. I’ll try it x
Try Dior Addict!!! Its 🤩🤩🤩
L Gee Christian Dior J’adore is my 2nd favorite scent. ☺️
My favorite. I like the original too
Each statement coming out of Shera's mouth is golden rule of life .Worth worshipping ..thank you Shera !! We love you.
OUR LORD AND SAVIOUR
These trolls that come to your site. They don't have anything else to do. Dusty men that don't have jobs because they got the time to troll you or Pick Me, 50/50 chicks on their day off from the call center. The builder chicks don't have time because they killing themselves or side chicks that get the d+$k but NO MONEY! Believe me I am learning QUICK! Your my guilty pleasure that speaks truth. LOL
The big sister I never had!!💋
White men are willing to go BROKE over me. I get more ogle eyes from them. And the fact that I look exotic (dark, slim thick, natural curly long hair, and tall). I also, wear heels often and my makeup. African, Indian, Arab and Latino men adore me as well. I live in a michigan(lots of white , Indian, and Arab men with money. And some black men.). May I add, my natural hair products are expensive (I spend almost 1k per month on my hair alone. ). If he can’t afford to buy my hair products....he has no chance at all.
i live in Michigan too where you find them? 💀😭 //.
Told my husband I need a sugar daddy cause I'm tired of being broke he got upset and said I disrespected him by saying this.....
Lmaoooooo 😂😂😂u outta pocket for this one but what does he expects you to do tho stay broke ?
At least he knows 🤣🤣 You could've told him in a way that could boost his ego to go out and make more money.
"My soul is not in my heart" SAvage!!❤❤❤
Ya momma, ya grandma, your wife a used up ... So pay the fee & get over it lol 💀💀💀😂😭🗣
Currently throwing all clothes away want all new QUALITY clothes…💕
"Move away from what's popular at the corner store" DOA!!
How do women not know this stuff already! What she teaches is common sense. Wow
Us women are masculine, speaking for myself. UK women are honestly more refined unles they’re ghetto, unlike US even some rich girls are ghettooooo lol
They were raised by slaves what do you expect. It's called poverty. And everything has declined so much the last 60 years. Classless
Exactly Shera...why do people tell you to tell people to wash. That's a given. This is the 3rd time in the past week I've seen someone say this
Shera you’ve been leveling up all the time
White Diamonds, Miss Dior, White Linen are my favorites! I love Chanel No. 5!!!
"obama wasn't getting his mix tape done" 😂😂😂
Some of my friends and co-workers tell me I'm 'too boogie"! Everything you're saying, is what I tell the women around me! I never bought a perfume that costs 50.00! I don't think you can buy a designer's perfume at 50.
Oh, my!! I so want to send this video to a bunch of women!!!! Everything you're saying is what I often tell them and wish I can make them understand! But they would feel insulted! Most of them go for dusties and think I'm materialistic! Then they say I only go for "handsome men with money." That's right!! To me, how you speak, dress, smell, and carry yourself, says a lot! Dusties don't even get near me ever!
Oh, and I love how men like "women without make-up" but love it when you get dressed to leave the house with make-up! 🤔
Dusties don't deserve classy women or kids! They can stay with the non-classy Dusty daters, who do everything to please men, including going 50/50 on bills or even pay for everything! That's where they belong.
All my perfume cost $50 or slightly less, it's called being on sale. Never imitation #LevelUpFoverer.
@@yetfitmaafar6566,
On sale?? Where do you get your perfumes? I buy mine at Macy's and I've never seen a sale. They don't do that. They add a bag or a smaller version of the same fragrance on holidays and sometimes both but a sale where you get their perfumes at a lower price, is inexistent there.
Do yourself a favour and stop trying to convince your friends and coworkers please.
@@TheSandrafabian I knew my level up was showing when family, friends, and coworkers started calling me bougie 💅 Makes my day!
I haven't listened to anything yet,( just read the title ) I am here laughing my ass off saying Girrrrrl!!! How true is that?! I love Shera😍😍😍
Love can grow !!!!! Romantic love is a relatively new construct. Many women married men in whom they saw potential for a good life; guy had good values, morals, earning potential etc. In time a woman could love a little green man from Mars if he treated her right. Of course, I'm going to find something physically attractive about him (learn to love green if he's Martian !!). Shera is clear-headed in her ideas. What she's teaching are things that our mothers and grandmothers taught their daughters in an earlier age............
This is exactly what I was thinking. This is back to the true roots
You are looking very classy and pretty
Love your honesty Shera💯❤
Arrogant men exploit you..true haha
I agree with you on the tattoos!
This might be a little off topic but I think it's somewhat relevant to the sprite of the cause... to seduce or to "con" someone, you must get into their mind; you must tap into their energy, absorb their being. You start by asking "KEY" questions to discover their "core values" and then put yourself in their position and test situations on how they would respond. It's like a mental movie that you play in your head and you are the director, testing situations on how things will play out... Water signs can do this naturally... They can BECOME YOU... and SEE YOUR NEXT MOVE. I can do it too... so I know where they are coming from. And when I started meditating... I can do it MUCH BETTER... but I had to stop... because I tapped in to their PAIN as well... I can literally see what's wrong with each person I interact with... and become sensitive to their pain... If you know a person's pain, and you're able to cure it... you will have them forever.... I'm a Libra and I refuse to get that deep into a person's psyche... no sir... I STAY ALOOF...
Well you're not here to learn obviously. You have learned and this wont help anyone but a beginner
Same. I don't do it on purpose. But once I tap into their negative I pull away. It's draining
Hot Sauce I’m libra Scorpio cusp, natural empath, and my life path is an 11(simplify it and if im not doing my spiritual work I’m a 2). So trust me I tap into people a lot unintentionally without trying. So I have to meditate and cleanse myself of energies a lot. Thankfully my Libra moon and Capricorn rising saves me
My twin libra
Libras
Also, we need to sound take-anywhere-able....Important to get the grammar under control - minor errors aren't bothersome but glaring ones will have doctors, attorneys, entrepreneurs running. We can be take-any-where-able by fixing the most blatant/worst grammar offenders. Google English grammar rules for these: DOUBLE NEGATIVES ("Don't nobody, "Can't do Nothing" instead of "No one", "Can't do anything") AND Wrong tense of the verb to BE . ("You be", "You is", "He be", "They Be" ). It doesn't matter how seductive or tastefully you're dressed (notice the "you're" and NOT "your" which is possessive like 'your car', 'your iPhone') if you open your mouth and this stuff spills out. Deal Breaker. We can be take-any-where-able and not a social embarrassment by just nailing this.
Simple correction.
a lot of what you say are bitting me on the buttocks,but you are 100%accurate
Exactly i made a comment saying the way you look is exactly what you will attract and the girls were in SHAMBLES and disagreeing so hard but its true lol if you look like bum, dirty, hair not done,nails not done, stained clothes...just a hot mess and the type of men you will get will be from "shein" and "fashion nova" not even just men but people overall too! If you look like you dint care about yourself chances are you dont and you will surround yourself with those same types of people that same energy and the same men.. DO BETTER LADIES. You most def dont have to spend alot of money to look well kept and classy but you do need to invest in yourself if you want your man to also see you as an investment
Pointy kitten heels and pointy flats are also a comfy option. So long as they’re snazzy and feminine styles ❤️❤️
I'm in my early 20's and I still never had a boyfriend I've been looking the same since 3rd grade, like it's only me!!
She said I got a bad back bad knees feet go this way that way but I still wear heels 👠 lol 😂. If not wear cute flats if you must walk around.
It’s true if u look good men will drop at their feet and do whatever to please u
I reelly needed to hear this
She said, some people walking around looking like their own mother!!!! I know i did with my rollerset!!! I got several wigs now, i love it!!!!
Go to all the counters in the department store for perfume samples. That'll keep you in business until you can afford a bottle. 😬
I love this idea!
I wish there were hundreds of like button that I could hit for your videos
I read the title n said damn
😁I swear I love your honesty "pay me"
I was so intimidated with wearing heels. I purchased Antonio Melani heels and I don't have a painful experience.
"Look in the dumpster"Love it.
Some Foo said don’t brainwash the Hispanic women! Lmao Toooo late Foo We have been awakened by her advice
I'm a 10 in my eyes...but this weight is hurting my overall game ...share some of your secrets....all your followers will be tuned in when you do....we seen you from before...and now you all glowed up...come on share it L.🙏😇💜
Yeah she lost a lot of weight in a small amount of time... I’m a new subscriber and when I saw some of her videos from early 2018, it’s a big difference
She shared it in one of her recent videos..I don't exactly remember which one. Check them out (2019 videos) it maybe helpful.
Treadmill and going vegan /vegatian meals ! it works when I wanna lose weight it should work for u and being organic and flushing your system out
You are so funny! I love you!!💕
Thank you Ashera for your permission to put myself first 😂😃😃😘 Love your videos. Have a great day❤
Oh, Asehera, you also mentioned your Sister in this video, has she ever been on your live chats? I would love to meet her. Have a great day❤
I had a feeling about that see through stuff was trendy fashion...but the bandage dress I tried it !!!
Girl idk if you’ll read this. But your videos are everything. I live for you 😂❤️
Don't get me wrong, your wigs look very natural and beautiful. But personally, I don't see anything wrong with your pretty wavy hair. My hair is wavy too. And I always have gotten compliments for wavy hair.
Lol u always keep it real
Thank you
You are an amazing awesome beautiful queen
please don't come, we don't want duties in Mexico. Love you Shera!
"Toe sucking, stripper money" I can't! 🤣
Shera you hell funny !! :P :P more love to you my lady !!
This title is everything!!!! Giiiiiiirl!!!!
It doesnt cost alot of monies to keep yourself up. It all depends on your level of high maintenance..
Love your page Ashera. I’ve followed you and leveled up so much and have much more because of you. But please for the love of God don’t speak of things you do not know. Such as Michael Lavaughan Robinson & Barry Soetoro. You will eat those words up in disgust once this info hits the fan. I know atm most won’t know who I mean. But not for long. It’s all coming out. But I still thank you for your knowledge of men and women’s roles. By God you do understand that. Bless you. 🙏🏽
Thank you Ashera
1.What Shera is saying about men staying at home then cheating is true. It has happened to my friend. She date than married a man who couldn't do much for himself or her. She was working longer hours than him so he got into an affair with the neighbor. And that's how the marriage ended with her being on the brink of total collapse of course.
2. Brazilians, 8 times out of 10, prove to be a bad investment. Because they hardly stay into a situation be it long term relationship or marriage or they end up making your life miserable by cheating, arguing and so on. The 2 happy cases I'm talking about are whites. So best to try other nations like Cuban maybe, other Latin Americans or even Carribean if need be. Good luck.
My hubby used to take care of me but has been in immigration jail for almost two years now... I’ve been working but sometimes I feel like I need help it be hard
Wow....that's sad.
I'm in the same situation. But you dont sleep with these men.....
Omg Finally right! Ok
How sad
Amber hang in there, praying for you and your family.
I love your show!
any opinion on weaves vs wigs?
She crack me up with the perfume
SheRa could you do a Mom makeover on me? I'm like stuck in a rut (I'm looking at some of your older videos from 2014 when you were a mortician in glasses...wow big difference)....
HD COVERAGE OR ULTRA HD / 4K MAKE UP COVERAGE
THEY ARE THE BEST
I love u sooo much..you make me laugh
I am definitely ready to join the level up group...let me create my FB page ...😍
Im at a restaurant..all i see r poor people with families..
I can't believe you have to tell people to wash themselves off at least do rag to Pitts and call it quits
There are alot of these 'ladies' who are doing this, asking dumb questions, using wrong advice for the wrong situation, these are more than likely going to continue being dusty losers...
Ashera lucky to have husband like james
I can't afford to move to the wealthier area. If I got a job there it would be an hour there and an hour home... Is that worthwhile?
I believe so. Make strategic sacrifices for a future satisfying lifestyle. Aren't you worth it?