Why Men Commit and Why They Don't

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Komentáře • 527

  • @onamission4029
    @onamission4029 Před 4 lety +1130

    My dad said you gotta make a man miss you. If you too available you have no value. I aint listen then but baybeee I KNOW NOW.

    • @Vanessabobessa10
      @Vanessabobessa10 Před 4 lety +63

      On A Mission its true. Get up and find hobbies, friends, a business something! Anything!

    • @heatherschaeffer4579
      @heatherschaeffer4579 Před 4 lety +16

      If a man is ready for a rlt and truely loves a women he will not want to miss a day with her. Many, people say missing a loved one is a good thing, this depends on the couples if y have a scorpian and a cancer it could work alone time. However, a pisces , gemini, Sagittarius it may not be a good fit.

    • @heatherschaeffer4579
      @heatherschaeffer4579 Před 4 lety +8

      @Irina Ivanova No, Taurus is a strong sign you just need the right people in your life to bring out the very best in you.

    • @babyc.3015
      @babyc.3015 Před 3 lety +5

      @@heatherschaeffer4579 You should start an astrology channel. And that's right about scorpios lol

    • @a_la_drinah
      @a_la_drinah Před 2 lety

      True

  • @italis2542
    @italis2542 Před 4 lety +853

    Its best to be an old man's darling than to be a young man's slave.

    • @peakjvs4967
      @peakjvs4967 Před 4 lety +17

      You kind of giving me gold-digger vibes

    • @breonaleigh1496
      @breonaleigh1496 Před 4 lety +80

      Mrs Brutulius and she’ll be sitting pretty financially while you’re here trying to imply she’s a gold digger 😇

    • @peakjvs4967
      @peakjvs4967 Před 4 lety +9

      @@breonaleigh1496 Sweetheart, her statement screams of golddigger vibes LMFAO!

    • @breonaleigh1496
      @breonaleigh1496 Před 4 lety +75

      Mrs Brutulius that’s a matter of opinion, but regardless, what exactly is wrong with wanting a man with money?

    • @kirsten1007
      @kirsten1007 Před 4 lety +5

      True that!

  • @DebAmoretto
    @DebAmoretto Před 4 lety +444

    I felt that deeply “a dusty won’t even commit to a desperate woman” I’m dead 😅🤣🤣

    • @grae1152
      @grae1152 Před 3 lety +7

      Haaaaa!! U watch Shera seven1 👑
      I love your channel too Deb
      Sprinkle Sprinkle 🦋✨✨

  • @brittneymartin9815
    @brittneymartin9815 Před 4 lety +458

    This red lip is everything honey

    • @leelee6000
      @leelee6000 Před 4 lety

      You will never get a guy and guys will always know when you use them for money lol wait and see when the guy gets rid of you trust me you be the one getting you're arse kicked out the house and look silly

    • @dorap1993
      @dorap1993 Před 4 lety +19

      It’s bad sis💋👏🏽 red is classic

    • @leelee6000
      @leelee6000 Před 4 lety

      @@dorap1993 what's funny is you can't live without men

    • @leelee6000
      @leelee6000 Před 4 lety

      @@dorap1993 and as a guy that's very very embarrassing

    • @leelee6000
      @leelee6000 Před 4 lety

      @@dorap1993 it's like us make you girls who you are

  • @farmhouseonthemountain
    @farmhouseonthemountain Před 4 lety +625

    I cosign. EVERYONE was shocked when my husband proposed. He was one of them that always said he'd never commit. Mm hmm, until I pranced myself right on into his life being all kinds of sweet and concerned, needing all kinds of help. Once he took me to his company's black tie Christmas party and everybody loved me, it was a wrap 💅🏾

    • @Maaseiahyah
      @Maaseiahyah Před 4 lety +16

      Mortal Silence THANK YOU for tell her 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @krismladjenovic5034
      @krismladjenovic5034 Před 4 lety +7

      @Mortal Silence 😂😂😂

    • @krismladjenovic5034
      @krismladjenovic5034 Před 4 lety +4

      👏👏👏

    • @MelaninMagdalene
      @MelaninMagdalene Před 4 lety +2

      Mortal Silence
      You can always swoop in and speed it up if his pockets right...right?🤣

    • @farmhouseonthemountain
      @farmhouseonthemountain Před 4 lety +165

      Mortal Silence, no offense taken. We've been together for 12 years, new baby, no prenup. I add to much value to his life for him to wanna split but if he does want to, I'm set up well 💅🏾👌🏾

  • @donnamcintosh2109
    @donnamcintosh2109 Před 4 lety +307

    Some women will stick with a man in the hopes that he will eventually see her as the "one". I know from experience; I have learned to take what a man says at face value. When a man says he is not looking for a girlfriend, cut all ties. This man will never see you in a different light. Also, a man is definitely not fighting any feelings.

  • @oli5726
    @oli5726 Před 4 lety +512

    Looking more beautiful than ever...you really are aging backwards

  • @ivy6179
    @ivy6179 Před 2 lety +347

    Not Commit
    • if u don't represent them
    • if u don't fit in their "long term" goals/plans
    • if u make life worse
    • if they don't like what u look like
    • if u have diff. religion/culture
    • if he's always looking for options
    Will Commit
    • if i give him an "ultimatum" (makes or break)
    • if he sees u a good role model as mom
    • if u match w/ his fam and friends
    • if he doesn't see drama (keep it interesting but don't be a psycho lol)
    • if you're everything he's not
    • if u his type
    • if he knows u have a lot of options

    • @marinalovric2700
      @marinalovric2700 Před rokem +1

      Wdym "makes or break"

    • @LL-sf3cv
      @LL-sf3cv Před rokem +8

      @@marinalovric2700 with an ultimatum you risk it all, either he will make the commitment or break up.

    • @izetsalihbegovic115
      @izetsalihbegovic115 Před 10 měsíci

      @@marinalovric2700 It is a blackmail (ucijena). I am not sure it work in all parts of the world (hint, hint balkan :) ). Sprinkle, Sprinkle lol.

    • @nagolyaj2
      @nagolyaj2 Před 7 měsíci +4

      The not commit list is on point. The will commit list has some questionable entries lol

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr Před 21 dnem

      I have conflict when it comes to these diseases that's out here..

  • @alexisglover7628
    @alexisglover7628 Před 4 lety +247

    Life equation : Be selfish + unbothered by other ppls opinion + right target - dusties × 10 = nice life. Got it 😏

  • @missautumn1280
    @missautumn1280 Před 4 lety +345

    Shera!! You are a blessing!✨ I leveled up so hard, I have been dating affluent men, and just minding my own business... a dusty ex boyfriend leveled up so hard, got himself together, and came at me with a ring💍, a limitless credit card💳, and offering to pay alllll the bills and take me on vacations, invested in my business, buy homes etc.. I didn’t give an answer of course lol my point is.... ladies her tips workkkkkk! Level up your life and the rest will fall into place. Be feminine, use your femininity to get what you want, and never let what a man bring to the table be alll you have to eat!! Study and listen to her videos!! Have a good day ladies 💐 Sprinkle Sprinkle✨✨

    • @Shrlyn777
      @Shrlyn777 Před 4 lety +4

      Miss Autumn lmfao this is hilarious 😂 I am thinking of dating very wealthy men too but too scared 😟

    • @missautumn1280
      @missautumn1280 Před 4 lety +27

      Betty Boop if you’re too scared, you’re not ready yet. Level up a bit more and be more CONFIDENT in yourself and KNOW that you deserve what you want. When you’re ready, and confident enough to get out there, you won’t be scared. And look at it as practice if you don’t get it right the first couple of times.. it’s a fun learning experience.

    • @hunny585
      @hunny585 Před 4 lety +2

      @@missautumn1280 wow awesome. Can u summarise what leveling up meant for u in terms of making changes.

    • @missautumn1280
      @missautumn1280 Před 4 lety +25

      Hina B. Shera has videos on this subject 🤣 but basically make sure you work out any mental, emotional, and physical issues you may have... examples: losing weight, eating a balanced diet, going to a therapist, finding hobbies that interest you, get to the root of problems that made you think you weren’t worthy enough of deserving a relationship you desire

    • @islandgirl220
      @islandgirl220 Před 4 lety +2

      Congrats girl!

  • @danathompson3605
    @danathompson3605 Před rokem +45

    He doesn’t fear commitment…he just don’t want to commit to you cause you ain’t it 😂😂😂

  • @Livcarter47
    @Livcarter47 Před 4 lety +252

    Shera looks more and more beautiful with every video. Great example of when the interior and exterior are complimentary. Stunning!

    • @leelee6000
      @leelee6000 Před 4 lety +3

      You stupid fucker listening to a girl on youtube who has no clue about guys brain im a guy we know when you use us for money we know Olivia

    • @laurenlocd3180
      @laurenlocd3180 Před 4 lety +8

      Lee Lee 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣^^^^^ this man is MAD commenting on every post . Let’s me know shera speaking the truth.

    • @Melanie-le6mw
      @Melanie-le6mw Před 4 lety +8

      Oh thats Lauren he real pressed. Like why do losers even care? People really be reaching 😕🙄

    • @Livcarter47
      @Livcarter47 Před 4 lety +3

      @@leelee6000 so much hate 😂...ughhh honey go read a book👌 cant believe I got a notification for this. Tisk tisk

    • @Trailblazers323
      @Trailblazers323 Před 4 lety +1

      Its that veganism

  • @roxanne4820
    @roxanne4820 Před 8 měsíci +35

    13:51 "A man will stick around for as long as you allow him to" that's really a key piece of info as well. Don't be sitting around waiting for him to leave first, or think to yourself 'if I wasn't the one he would leave'. As long as men have sex and companionship they'll continue to waste your time. You know deep down if he's gunna marry you or not, there's always signs, read them and make your decisions accordingly.

  • @faa1412
    @faa1412 Před 4 lety +321

    Sorry ladies, but for some of you, you are just the placeholder for the person he's really meant to be with ... this is why you'll hear stories of men who'll be with women for 6,7,8 and longer years and the women get no ring. Then BAM, the next woman gets a ring after only 6 months or a year of dating. Sometimes it just boils down to who's meant to be together and who's not.

    • @olgachafeeva2828
      @olgachafeeva2828 Před 4 lety +97

      so how about don't be the damn placeholder then? If he doesn't propose in 2-3 years, LEAVE.

    • @GG-vo7yx
      @GG-vo7yx Před 4 lety +12

      My brother's girlfriend's Ex did that he got married after 3 months

    • @beac8238
      @beac8238 Před 4 lety +55

      My name is my name Many of the male CZcamsrs actually say that a man over 25 knows within 6 months if they want to marry a woman. For women over age 25 we should not be waiting no more than 1.5 years for an engagement. Our youth & beauty is our leverage with financially stable men who have options. We don’t have time to waste.

    • @lionsskyblue442
      @lionsskyblue442 Před 4 lety +38

      it's not a case of 'who's meant to be,' but rather who he's actually into
      it's not destiny, it's choice

    • @scurryfunge9581
      @scurryfunge9581 Před 3 lety +4

      Such a man thing to say! \-_-/
      It's about whose willing to put up with being a placeholder and "see where it goes".

  • @assianeu197
    @assianeu197 Před 4 lety +108

    Somebody in the chat said “ I want to be your dusty”🤣😅

  • @ninawestlake5005
    @ninawestlake5005 Před 4 lety +150

    Men are men. No matter how good you look, how educated and feminine you are. Or how 'good' you make him feel. They want what they want, they're never satisfied and so am i. I need me a Prince Harry.

    • @chocolatenikki
      @chocolatenikki Před 4 lety +8

      Facts.

    • @a_la_drinah
      @a_la_drinah Před 2 lety +2

      Love it

    • @ritasjourney
      @ritasjourney Před rokem +18

      Which is exactly why you need to go for the money so you leave the relationship better than when you started

    • @izetsalihbegovic115
      @izetsalihbegovic115 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Why not go for Thanos. He can snap his fingers and make it happen for you.

    • @iaf4454
      @iaf4454 Před měsícem +2

      ​@@izetsalihbegovic115 I prefer Thor 😂😂😂

  • @celenagostavo8207
    @celenagostavo8207 Před 4 lety +114

    Thank you beautiful Shera. I am 23 years old and i have learned a lot from you.🌹🌹🌹🌹

    • @leelee6000
      @leelee6000 Před 4 lety

      You ain't learn nothing because I'm a guy and guys don't give girls money you aren't getting money of guys they aren't silly

    • @dorap1993
      @dorap1993 Před 4 lety +17

      Keep it up girl!

    • @celenagostavo8207
      @celenagostavo8207 Před 4 lety +21

      Lee Lee you're broke and have nothing to do in life but looking for videos of men online and responding to women's comments. boy bye

    • @celenagostavo8207
      @celenagostavo8207 Před 4 lety

      Dora Perkins Thanks love

    • @Trailblazers323
      @Trailblazers323 Před 4 lety

      Theres hope for you grasshopper

  • @marthadivine8426
    @marthadivine8426 Před 4 lety +158

    A lot married men don't care. A man will be married, and have another women on the side who he takes care of. If your going to be with a married man make sure its to your advantage.

    • @peakjvs4967
      @peakjvs4967 Před 4 lety +6

      Hahahhaa, thats evil !!

    • @mikes6109
      @mikes6109 Před 4 lety +27

      That's true. ...I'm an 42 y.o. married man and my wife of 9 years(as of 2/25) is 38 and I'm sort of taking care of an 29 y.o. woman(she doesn't know I'm married). She just think my wife is my girlfriend. I've sent flowers to her for valentine and bought her luxury handbags...we work together, so it's easy to get away with.

    • @October3074
      @October3074 Před 4 lety +14

      @@mikes6109 let's see how long that lasts 🙄 if other ppl on the job know you're married that's f'd up.

    • @mikes6109
      @mikes6109 Před 4 lety +1

      @@October3074 it's an 3 person office and the other co-worker is not very observant, so I see no danger of getting caught, but,I am feeling a little guilty and the young lady doesn't seem interested in pursuing more of an relationship, so I think I'm going to back off.

    • @mikes6109
      @mikes6109 Před 4 lety +5

      There has not been or any plans on physical intimacy between us. We just really like each other and just seeing where the chips may fall over time. We've never even been out anywhere together. I'm not expecting anything much...just a little excitement

  • @basicinfo2022
    @basicinfo2022 Před 3 lety +74

    Most likely it’s because he’s not the marriage or commitment type. You have to accept people for who they are. They are probably too broke or cheap to marry. Choose someone who brings up marriage and talks about it first. Usually their friends and family are all in marriages.

  • @YourMotivationPage
    @YourMotivationPage Před 4 lety +68

    Love, respect and appreciate yourself first. Connect within, connect with your divine purpose and you will never be alone. It is easier said than done but taking care of yourself is a lifetime commitment. Nobody will ever make you feel 100% or complete. You have the power. You can do it. I believe in you. Love you all 🙏❤️

    • @omari7219
      @omari7219 Před 4 lety +1

      Yes thissss. Spot on!! Thx for sharing these words

  • @shebutter3195
    @shebutter3195 Před 4 lety +77

    Lmao work 8 hours to roll around with a man for 30 minutes is so true. Roll off the mattress and go straight to work🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @tawanawilliams9618
    @tawanawilliams9618 Před 4 lety +93

    I feel sex is over rated for me it was never all that any way and now I'm older I could care less

    • @firesign4297
      @firesign4297 Před 4 lety +10

      😳 Meeeeeee😳 TOO!😄😳😊

    • @MsLotusBlooms
      @MsLotusBlooms Před rokem +15

      It shouldn't even be a part of dating to be honest.

    • @HoneyBunches100
      @HoneyBunches100 Před rokem

      @@MsLotusBlooms I agree. These dusty men have made it a requisite. They put pressure on women to be sexual with them and because we’re too NICE and think we’re supposed to be PLEASERS we give in too easily. But all it’s done is made Blk women the easiest and loosest women who they don’t even marry (80% of blk children born out of wedlock). It’s a shame. We have to insist they respect us and don’t pressure us to do what we don’t want to before we’ve vetted their ability to commit and be a family man. ❤️💫🌍

    • @jt305
      @jt305 Před rokem +3

      ​@@MsLotusBloomsthe man old dusty said that's what all normal couples do" 🤮🤮

    • @aminah761
      @aminah761 Před rokem +3

      Yesss very overrated 😂😂😂

  • @pikaluv1186
    @pikaluv1186 Před 4 lety +50

    I swear shera you’re so right
    I talk to this man and everytime I curse he always tell me “ no profanity over here”

  • @defiantlypinki1107
    @defiantlypinki1107 Před 4 lety +60

    Shera looks amazing! Model mom status.

  • @spacexghost888
    @spacexghost888 Před 4 lety +122

    Yes ma’am. My husband wanted to marry me so quick I was like whoa there partner lol. Looking good auntie

    • @Melanie-le6mw
      @Melanie-le6mw Před 4 lety +4

      • spacexghost 🤣🤣🤗🤗

    • @Trailblazers323
      @Trailblazers323 Před 4 lety +7

      I had a guy that I dated a year ago like that and it scared tf out of me. I broke it off lol

    • @bxndo5ive
      @bxndo5ive Před 4 lety +10

      That’s cool if he’s a provider which yours probably is. A lot of men want to pursue marriage with me but I’m good because I’m not into building any man.

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr Před 20 dny

      Nobody else wanted u..

  • @babyc.3015
    @babyc.3015 Před 2 lety +30

    -Your husband is not supposed to make you happy
    -Don't have Godly expectations from a man
    -Don't be obvious abt going out/clubbing (but doesn't hurt to go Girls' Night Out)
    -If he's old, he should think marriage/ULTIMATUM (you're 25yo+ up) ("I'm ready for a change")

  • @msshawnellcarter1628
    @msshawnellcarter1628 Před 4 lety +51

    You look really nice shara! The level up is real.

    • @leelee6000
      @leelee6000 Před 4 lety +1

      The level up is real guys know what you're up to they will never love you how does that feel trust me ariel I'm a guy we know when your using us we know it's wired in are brains

  • @homodeus8713
    @homodeus8713 Před 4 lety +57

    I just found this and you look stunning. I agree, this is the best you've ever looked in all the videos I've watched,

  • @unravelwithanne9249
    @unravelwithanne9249 Před 4 lety +45

    Prime example P.diddy. Wasted Cassie's time

  • @bonitachica2136
    @bonitachica2136 Před 2 lety +25

    True !! My ex was head over heels for me at first offered to pay for everything 5 months later his family had doubts because I didn’t bring my son around him immediately he asked me and my 3 year old son to move in and go half on his bills because he’s trying to figure out life together .. no . We’re not together

  • @travelfoodielove
    @travelfoodielove Před 4 lety +65

    How are you aging backwards? You level up more and more in every video gorgeous

  • @EvaC_24
    @EvaC_24 Před 4 lety +73

    This old dusty told me that to be a wife I had to act like a wife (cooking, cleaning, etc) which I was at one point faithfully, until I broke it off because I felt like I was getting stringed along. Shortly after, I found your channel right after the break up and you described all the dusty and pickmeshia’s characters that he and I were playing and not even knowing it.
    But I know men who will marry whether or not the woman can cook or clean. I had this lady coworker that would always brag how she doesn’t cook or clean, or takes their daughter to all her kárate practices,etc her husband does. But she makes more than him and still working like him except he has two jobs....🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @thetruehustler1365
    @thetruehustler1365 Před 4 lety +78

    I’m so frustrated because I’ve been working on myself for so long but it seems like I’m in a perpetual hamster wheel of not being the woman I want to be. I’ve had a hard time saying no to men all my life which has left me exploited, manipulated, used and abused. (I was abused as a child so although I’m in therapy and working through that, it’s a LOT but I’m trying so hard to break it). Not to mention, Every woman around me is weak, WEAK y’all. PICK MES!!!!! HORRENDOUS examples of how to be a woman. They don’t take care of themselves, their hair, nothing. So I’m trying so hard to learn femininity and how to be a woman and how to love myself and see myself as worthy but I’m gonna be real, I’m afraid I’ll never be able to break free, it’s a generational curse if you ask me. I’m just so frustrated about it

    • @lionsimba723
      @lionsimba723 Před 4 lety +37

      Make new friends with leveled up girls. Iron sharpens iron. Avoid pipo who look down on you. Cut all contacts will ex dusties

    • @nishamack586
      @nishamack586 Před 4 lety +23

      using self defeating words such as being, frustrated,hard time, and living in your prior abuse is telling. love on yourself first. when you do that you will trust yourself to accept nothing less than what you deserve.

    • @mshyena1276
      @mshyena1276 Před 4 lety +9

      Surround yourself with the opposite of pickmes! You can do it

    • @ritaaleksandrovna4518
      @ritaaleksandrovna4518 Před 3 lety +7

      Don’t give up girl! You can do it! ✨

    • @scurryfunge9581
      @scurryfunge9581 Před 3 lety +4

      I hope you're having a much better time now than when you wrote your worries out.
      It's super nice to see that you've identified what's going wrong for you and want to change it too. That's level up half done.✅
      Getting frustrated when things don't seem to work out is very natural please don't get worked up on trying to be over-positive. It is enough if u just identify what you want to do and discard people and things that don't match with your vibe. You'll eventually have what you want, just be confident and persist in trying to change.
      You'll break that curse! I'm rooting for you. 🌷🖤

  • @MaiaGodiva
    @MaiaGodiva Před 4 lety +120

    to be honest less men are getting married ...stop putting so much on yourself like you aint what he want..half these dudes do every woman who cross his path the same (narcs) andin 2020 with social media its growing..some may commit because you caught them at a right time when theyre tired..or you the only one putting up with him..etc

    • @tanashabethel4708
      @tanashabethel4708 Před 4 lety +4

      why do you think less men are getting married now?

    • @MaiaGodiva
      @MaiaGodiva Před 4 lety +36

      @@tanashabethel4708 its 2020 and social media..relationships are not the same theres a reason dating today is tough..thats why its weird getting advice from ppl who been married for years because they are not in this playing field

    • @MaiaGodiva
      @MaiaGodiva Před 4 lety +17

      @@ScientificAnomalies876 its not me this is the sentiment of many women hence why shera and many got many views from women seeking a man lol

    • @anthonyx6618
      @anthonyx6618 Před 4 lety +10

      Men have no reason to get married pump and dump is freedom 💯

    • @peakjvs4967
      @peakjvs4967 Před 4 lety +13

      @@anthonyx6618 Hahahhaha It has never been easier to be a fuckboy, no father who threatens you that if you treated his daughter badly, he would come after you, since these women nowadays are strong, free and independent

  • @lebnikon1436
    @lebnikon1436 Před 4 lety +66

    James will always be home with Shera as fine as she is. I laugh when people ask about Shera's husband. James has a good looking wife so he will always be home with his wife. And like Shera says, James is older so he will not have the energy for other women, he will spend more time with his family.

  • @donnamcintosh2109
    @donnamcintosh2109 Před 4 lety +50

    No man should expect a woman to cook for him during the very early stages of dating. After that man and I have spent enough time together, and a strong connection has been made, I will cook a romantic dinner for us. And, of course, he will reciprocate.

  • @andreahunte3602
    @andreahunte3602 Před 4 lety +38

    Dressing up for a date shouldn't be trashy...so much is accepted nowadays- going out in sheer dresses- pantsuits in a thong is too much lol beachwear its clothing now ppl go out in...you want to leave something to their imagination if you put it all out there nothing to work for

  • @siphokazin.7552
    @siphokazin.7552 Před 4 lety +29

    They may not commit if u from a different culture or religion. That's so True. You have to be a good representative in Public.. Love that💖

  • @bambam6231973
    @bambam6231973 Před 4 lety +25

    Facts sex is great but your future is forever!

  • @eternalstyle4697
    @eternalstyle4697 Před 4 lety +16

    I have been binge watching your video like crazy and the biggest take away from your videos...is that THIS ONLY WORKS IF YOU ARE THE ONE OR HE THINKS YOU THE ONE 💅🏽...so I’m taking all this in but that little part is always standing out which is good so I won’t waste my time

  • @Auntiefeliciaofficial
    @Auntiefeliciaofficial Před 4 lety +38

    SheRa looks good.

    • @leelee6000
      @leelee6000 Před 4 lety

      What is it with you girls always caring about other girls looks you so weird you girls no wonder guys don't like you

    • @Auntiefeliciaofficial
      @Auntiefeliciaofficial Před 4 lety +4

      @@leelee6000 because I can comment if I want to and not be jealous. The woman looks good. I admire beauty period in men and women.

  • @dbsk06
    @dbsk06 Před rokem +6

    Will commit: be the very thing they are not, representing him with respect / proud of in public

  • @chloechen2305
    @chloechen2305 Před 4 lety +15

    Omg Shera looks like a real Diva today! So beautiful and elegant!

  • @tawanawilliams9618
    @tawanawilliams9618 Před 4 lety +14

    I like that we going to treat his wallet like he is not married.

  • @annanunez978
    @annanunez978 Před 4 lety +14

    Everything you speak is facts and so wise ! Much love from San Diego, CA ❤️

  • @HonestTimes
    @HonestTimes Před 4 lety +25

    Dear universe thank you for bringing sheraseven1 in my life! She is a spiritual teacher, thank u

  • @blessedqueen9517
    @blessedqueen9517 Před 4 lety +35

    You look so pretty please give us some beauty videos

    • @katechipata9934
      @katechipata9934 Před 4 lety +5

      SimplyMe Godschild she has a beauty channel Ashera Star

  • @TheGoldenAgePiscean777
    @TheGoldenAgePiscean777 Před 4 lety +12

    My Pisces ♓️Sis this is by far one of the BEST videos you’ve ever made of anyone has made on this subject. This as sooo eye opening and so on point, Chile! You DID THIS!! Yyassss Hunny.Thank you Sis🥰🤗😘👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @jellygurl27
    @jellygurl27 Před 4 lety +15

    Classic sheraseven schooling!! I have not seen a video like this in a while. I got the feminity and level up, but I need my notepad for this.! Let me take notes! Lol

  • @hajarhajar8906
    @hajarhajar8906 Před 3 lety +42

    I get men who want to commit to me one week after meeting them!
    The thing is that even if these are high value men they scare me. Because it seems to me that the faster he wants to commit it means that he has something wrong that he doesn’t want you to know about so that you don’t runaway

    • @ritasjourney
      @ritasjourney Před rokem +7

      Yeah seems like a red flag but as long as you secure the bag???

    • @mashae.1066
      @mashae.1066 Před rokem +8

      I completely agree. The very rich men that are already talking about commitment and building a life together 2 dates after meeting me, are kind of a red flag. 😬

    • @jt305
      @jt305 Před rokem +5

      ​@@mashae.1066they might be saying it cos they want the benefits example free sex

  • @vam9785
    @vam9785 Před 4 lety +15

    Shera you look absolutely stunning!!

  • @69Fabulosity
    @69Fabulosity Před 4 lety +13

    Tutorial on this look plz😍❗Moral of the story if hes intrested he will commit & if he not he will let you walk (Common sence)!

  • @FunnyIslamicTeachings
    @FunnyIslamicTeachings Před 8 měsíci +2

    This lipstick shade is PERFECT FOR YOU

  • @venty5197
    @venty5197 Před 3 lety +15

    A dusty wont even commit to a desperate woman he will lie and do exactly whta they need to do.

  • @alinahalistov8710
    @alinahalistov8710 Před 4 lety +6

    Omg you look here amazing! Everything’s so flattering to you

  • @dbsk06
    @dbsk06 Před rokem +4

    12:50 give him an ultimatum
    Key: make him spend!!!!

  • @latanyagordon5605
    @latanyagordon5605 Před 3 lety +13

    A woman can be with a man for yrs and he still don't want to be there for some reason...some are there because he can't get the ex back are he don't make up his mind what to do he don't want to commit and he still don't want to let you go just there to waste your time and yet we be a good women a man stay because he wants to stay if he don't want to nothing can make him and when he tell you he is believe him.

  • @islandgirl220
    @islandgirl220 Před 4 lety +6

    These videos feed my soul..so refreshing! I just got kicked out of a fb group for sounding valuable..i forgot it was an all look ugly broke bitch group, i had to come bk here

  • @ShayLamere
    @ShayLamere Před 2 lety +3

    Whoa! 8 years, but the same date?! Wow! That’s always so cool when sisters share a birthday but they’re not twins. My friend is that way with her & my father & grandfather have the same birthday

  • @diamondelusive1125
    @diamondelusive1125 Před 4 lety +10

    Sprinkle sprinkle 🔥

  • @4everu984
    @4everu984 Před 4 lety +35

    💞🔥💟 love your channel.
    It’s not for me to get my man, this reminds me how to keep him!
    From a happily married marriage counselor you are right on the $$$.
    Marriage is a very important deal 😉.

    • @leelee6000
      @leelee6000 Před 4 lety +1

      I would use you for you're money to and I'm a guy we can play it both ways

    • @leelee6000
      @leelee6000 Před 4 lety

      You need a man because women are nothing without them why do women need men so badly I don't even need a women it's like you can't be anything on your own you women need men to be something so embarrassing

    • @leelee6000
      @leelee6000 Před 4 lety

      You will never ever win maui guys know when you use them for money you will find out

    • @leelee6000
      @leelee6000 Před 4 lety

      Maiu you would never be able to get a man by using him he will see right through you girl

  • @christophercoles175
    @christophercoles175 Před 3 lety +4

    Your makeup and hair is fire here! 🔥

  • @kristenglamour4023
    @kristenglamour4023 Před 3 lety +5

    ❤️this whole look✔️

  • @elaineq586
    @elaineq586 Před 4 lety +9

    You look gorgeous shera😍

  • @Abetterfitforlife
    @Abetterfitforlife Před 11 měsíci +2

    Shera is gorgeous in this!!

  • @bindello76
    @bindello76 Před 4 lety +8

    Looking like a prize 😎😍

  • @renestarr5592
    @renestarr5592 Před 2 lety +2

    So your example of how powerful a Pisces woman is once she levels up!

  • @alisa-zs2oq
    @alisa-zs2oq Před 4 lety +4

    serving that red lip 😤😤

  • @dumitruedelean59
    @dumitruedelean59 Před rokem +2

    Shera looking so high class here ❤️

  • @heatherfeather9951
    @heatherfeather9951 Před 4 lety +105

    "Why does he keep calling back-because you're free, that's why."

  • @Eversoluscious
    @Eversoluscious Před 2 měsíci

    Sheras ringtone is so iconic 😹😹❤️

  • @remshjgh2245
    @remshjgh2245 Před 4 lety +8

    Damnnnn girl you looking good girrrrl

  • @babyhacker7350
    @babyhacker7350 Před 4 lety +19

    What do you do that you get much and much more beautiful?!?!

  • @toolate4536
    @toolate4536 Před 4 lety +5

    I just love you shera again and again I learned a lot thank you 😘😘😘

  • @kettanistar
    @kettanistar Před 4 lety +2

    This advice in this video is gold!

  • @chinwendu4
    @chinwendu4 Před 4 lety +4

    Well said auntie!

  • @kristenmoonrise
    @kristenmoonrise Před 8 měsíci +1

    I want to try this hair/makeup look for an upcoming date!

  • @robertandrocky5004
    @robertandrocky5004 Před 4 lety +30

    I was seeing my age man . i am 40 , they acting like they 30 or 25 . They still wear pants that pulled down , nose rings , they day "what is up ?, demand gor me to respond to each of 50 texts on the day they taken my number . I could deal with it

    • @Angie-nb4pg
      @Angie-nb4pg Před 4 lety +37

      Natalia Rentner you need to re-write this

    • @princesspai1975
      @princesspai1975 Před 4 lety +5

      You 40 and dont know how to string a sentence together...
      No wonder why you getting played lol smh

    • @peakjvs4967
      @peakjvs4967 Před 4 lety +2

      @@ScientificAnomalies876 did you learn the lesson after they used you, or did you get the news in advance?

    • @Femininelovevibes
      @Femininelovevibes Před 4 lety

      😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @iaf4454
      @iaf4454 Před měsícem

      Go up!! There is always a older guy

  • @fluffypinkglitterwingz8082

    That is a beautiful makeup and hair look on you. And thanks for the video.

  • @alzoom7219
    @alzoom7219 Před 4 lety +35

    Marriage is more spiritual than financial gain. Marriage is for two mature people to build a life together, based on love, respect and be emotionally committed. The financial gain is based on their financial situation at the time. Children are not always necessary but do well in a healthy marriage. Its for two individuals who are prepared to work together and strengthen by the relationship with GOD. The originator of Family and Marriage. If you see yourself as divorcing as soon as problems arise. Don't bother getting married.

    • @clatowett
      @clatowett Před 4 lety +5

      The comments I look for

    • @love_reka_8877
      @love_reka_8877 Před 4 lety +3

      They dnt see it as such on this channel lol

    • @babyc.3015
      @babyc.3015 Před 3 lety +1

      Old Testament says otherwise lol

    • @alzoom7219
      @alzoom7219 Před 3 lety +1

      @@babyc.3015 The Hebrew scripture were mainly addressed to Israelites, some things we learned how God tolerated polygamy. So the nation could grow. But the original standards for Christians is husband and wife. This is what I'm referring too.

    • @blockawocka4026
      @blockawocka4026 Před 2 lety +5

      You should read historical books, and sociology to understand what marriage is..

  • @ViolentAurora
    @ViolentAurora Před 4 lety +19

    I just cant do the sleeping with someone in a relationship or marriage. I can certainly call your wife or mother for you. The idea makes me feel really sick inside and while I love money and y'all can do whatever its okay, I just don't want that on my mind. And it would be for me.

    • @sugarmcdoodles8462
      @sugarmcdoodles8462 Před 4 lety +20

      Girl you do not sleep with these fools lol He’s married trying to chase you so lie, make empty promises, and be pretty to make them spend.

  • @modestprophetess582
    @modestprophetess582 Před 4 lety +22

    How'd you lose weight witcha?? Can we discuss THAT???!!!

    • @oh-duh
      @oh-duh Před 4 lety

      Here it is, if it doesn't post, check my Twitter...I posted it there @missinappropri8
      I'll try this again -- smile.amazon.com/dp/B00BGVLG64/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_U_x_p2evEbE3YB4V9

    • @defiantlypinki1107
      @defiantlypinki1107 Před 4 lety +20

      She said this: Cut your calories; don’t eat more than 1,200 calories a day.

    • @modestprophetess582
      @modestprophetess582 Před 4 lety

      @@defiantlypinki1107 thanks. Im going to adjust my diet

    • @fluffypinkglitterwingz8082
      @fluffypinkglitterwingz8082 Před 4 lety +2

      I think she had said watching what you eat and going shopping 😁

    • @kellyupshaw6598
      @kellyupshaw6598 Před 4 lety +1

      I'm using TLC Laso tea and TLC Nutraburst. It works and I struggled with my weight. Lost about 20 lbs so far. It's really cut my appetite and I actually want to excercise!

  • @bxbee1100
    @bxbee1100 Před 4 lety +16

    Wow..im extremely surprised by what u said about entertaining married men. Ur a married woman!

    • @leelee6000
      @leelee6000 Před 4 lety

      Just ignore this channel she will get shot one day when a man sees her money grabbing fingers

    • @leelee6000
      @leelee6000 Před 4 lety +1

      You don't need comment your not important you're just a pixel it's just like real life if I find you weird I will ignore you don't comment if you make no good comments okay

    • @bxbee1100
      @bxbee1100 Před 4 lety +22

      @@leelee6000 stfu..ur a nonfactor..keep it moving

    • @shaystuh
      @shaystuh Před 4 lety +19

      you must be new here..lol

    • @bxbee1100
      @bxbee1100 Před 4 lety +2

      @@shaystuh I guess I am..

  • @gratzia
    @gratzia Před 2 lety +2

    this was one of your best looks Shera!

  • @andreahunte3602
    @andreahunte3602 Před 4 lety +11

    Showing cleavage occasionally is one thing all the time is too much...look at the housewives - married to medicine etc they all wear outfits showing cleavage and they are not prostitutes-lol

  • @diamondelusive1125
    @diamondelusive1125 Před 4 lety +5

    You are very informative ! Can you do a video on Mirror work please. I’m a new subscriber💜💜💜 Sprinkle sprinkle 🔥🔥

  • @oh-duh
    @oh-duh Před 4 lety +46

    You are gorgeous every day, but you look extra amazing today!
    I've asked this before, but would you please make a channel aiming towards teens & college aged females, considering they are going to college & working, and don't necessarily WANT to have a serious bf (especially my one still in high school, she is not into guys & you're advice is awesome but a lot of times doesn't apply to a teen). She is 16, so I mainly want her to listen to the wisdom from you, not necessarily how to grab the bag (although she informed me she knew what the bag meant already lol but she is underage to be dating & doesn't want to yet anyway). I think you get what I mean lol please make a channel aimed at "of age teens 18+" but can still be for 14-25ish. Conditioning them to be prepared AFTER they have their own career path & something to fall back on if things go wrong in a relationship. I hope I am making sense. But I guarantee it would be a channel success, as many of us love you & some of the things don't apply to teens that you promote, so almost like a prep-school of SheRa channel ;)

    • @singuensful
      @singuensful Před 4 lety

      Miss Inappropriate there are sugar babies that have channels here on CZcams...

    • @leelee6000
      @leelee6000 Před 4 lety

      You girls will never be loved guys don't love money grabbers you are so dumb to think guys don't know what you're doing they know your using them they check there money in bank and they work out how much your spending

    • @leelee6000
      @leelee6000 Před 4 lety +1

      @@singuensful you will never be loved by a guy

    • @leelee6000
      @leelee6000 Před 4 lety

      Miss inappropriate you will never be loved trust me guys are clever we don't just sit around picking are noses we read about gold diggers even are mommies tell us

    • @singuensful
      @singuensful Před 4 lety +9

      Lee Lee i already am...By many of them to be honnest. Now go and bark to someone else, there are still real men out there that dont mind spending money on women they want. The fact you are in women’s businesses show you are not a boss.

  • @earthlycolorbrown6246
    @earthlycolorbrown6246 Před 4 lety +2

    You look amazing Sister Queen!

  • @ImabelleRegine
    @ImabelleRegine Před 4 lety +4

    Your makeup is so pretty 🌹

  • @stephblenheim4283
    @stephblenheim4283 Před 4 lety +14

    Sheera what do you do when your 55yr old boyfriend you’ve been dating for the past few months that told you that he wanted children and a future with you suddenly does a U turn and says they don’t want it no more because he’s realised he’s “too old”? I’m 33. I said his age is good and doesn’t bother me. He said it’s also because of covid that’s affected his private practice as a consultant surgeon. I should move on but I’m not sure why he’s now not wanting a future with me because before he was so desperate for it.

    • @love_reka_8877
      @love_reka_8877 Před 4 lety +1

      Did u find out why

    • @stephblenheim4283
      @stephblenheim4283 Před 4 lety +45

      No. After 2 months break up, I have levelled up, met someone even better. He is back apologising and regretting what he said but I no longer want him back.

    • @love_reka_8877
      @love_reka_8877 Před 4 lety +12

      Steph Blenheim good for u

    • @natashabarnes1609
      @natashabarnes1609 Před 3 lety +8

      Good for you! I dated a similar old looser. Well done for moving on swiftly

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr Před 20 dny

      Stop being desperate. That man is old enough to be your daddy. U really wanna sleep with your own daddy. U r dysfunctional.

  • @999Lumen
    @999Lumen Před 4 lety +3

    Excellent!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @MsLolaTaylor
    @MsLolaTaylor Před 4 lety +5

    This LEWK >>

  • @fluffypinkglitterwingz8082

    I was just looking at food pics..... Now I want raspberries 😐 .... 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @user-kw9gq4yp9h
    @user-kw9gq4yp9h Před 4 lety +7

    I look super cute in this video 😍😍 waaaw

  • @Princ3lei
    @Princ3lei Před 4 lety +21

    Ma’am... you are looking GOODT. 🤤😍🖤

  • @ghostlycouture8821
    @ghostlycouture8821 Před 3 lety +1

    I LOVE THIS MAKEUP LOOK😻✨

  • @gabred5800
    @gabred5800 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Makeup looks nice in this video.

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr Před 20 dny

      She should've had a nude lip.

  • @scififantasygirl
    @scififantasygirl Před 4 lety +2

    I love your makeup!

  • @faithlover123
    @faithlover123 Před 3 lety

    Looking amazing. One of your best videos.

  • @ChellieMissUSA
    @ChellieMissUSA Před 14 dny

    I’m in ✅