Tricks Men Use Not To Commit
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This womans advice is gold. I have read over 100 books and in just 1 of her videos she spits more knowledge then all those combined
Yes and we love to see it!
Yep. Would be great in a book
That's it. All the books youtube videos and conversations I had in my life didn't give me the knowledge Shere gave me.
I agree❣️
Facts
The sperm chases the egg, not the other way around. Periodt.
A better way to look at is is women are the gatekeepers of sex, guys are the gatekeepers of relationship. There are lots of parallels between the two. For instance, women make fun of incels, guys make fun of cat ladies. Men use and don't respect promiscuous women, women use and don't respect relationship thirsty men. Guys have women who friend-zone them, women have guys who "use tricks to not commit".
Stormey Danielz facts!
Jim Johnson true :)
@@jimjohnson394 you should make some videos please!😊
first name I don’t see how bit to each is own. I’m not chasing.
I cannot begin to tell you how my life has changed cause of Shera.... I don't work anymore, my perfume cost same amount as my rent, I have 2 cellphones, I get money and spa days weekly, I'm free and I'm loving life. At first I found some of her tips outlandish and crazy but I believe now cause I see it working in my life...everyday is Christmas and my birthday that's how blessed I am since leveling up and picking the right targets.
Edit: I have 2 bfs and a sugar daddy
Yes girl plz share & tell us more!
What tips work best ?
How old are the 2 bfs?
Expensive perfume won't cover up your stench!
No man really wants a commitment unless there is something that scares them that someone else is going to get you. A real man will never let a woman pay rent etc. He don’t feel like a man when a woman do that stuff. If he lets you he’s not a manly man. Thank you Shera.
“A man will wanna tie you down quick, so he can untie you faster” 👏🏾👏🏾
@@mahoganysins614 she speaks Facts. Go to sleep Aubry😎
Alfred Aubry I don’t even know you
Alfred Aubry there are enough anecdotes to paint the picture colourful enough for me, not necessarily fax, but true experiences from female friends of guys committing too soon
Pan-Aggie if your living off of female fax as you call them, I would state that females tend to leave a lot of them out when telling story’s to other women and men. They tend to paint themselves in a better light In fear of shame . To believe half story’s of women without listening to the man and how he would paint 🎨 his picture about her is very disingenuous. I would love to look at statistics of the men who marry a woman to just divorce her. Fact women file divorce at higher rates than men. It’s not rocket science to do a search for truth. Look it up
Alfred Aubry looks like I am not on the same page as you, I was simply talking about the point I quoted, it’s something men do, commit quick just to break away soon after from my friends’ experiences, I don’t know about divorce and all that, but speaking from this commit quick thing, it deffo happens.
If they are not spending money right away - don't have sex. He will ghost or will pursue you further, you still don't have sex, they might say "let's be official" just to get sex, you agree (just act), still don't have sex, then your problems will start, you need this, you need that, and when you're "committed" he cannot say no, if he does - you go distant until he does what you want. Never meet at his or your place. Don't ever tell him where you live either.
Something I keep seeing on dating apps is "Friends First." Basically, that means they want you to entertain them for free while they try to sleep with you. No man who's interested in a woman wants to be her "friend first" and leave her on the market for someone else to snatch up.
I have your same mentality with men online. If there's no date or money mentioned within like 5 minutes I'm already bored and gone. Lol
I will say that online dating is a little different. There are so many women online that you have to stand out. I suggest exchanging numbers the same day. I've met some great dates this way. I also say hello or good morning first then I let them lead the conversation. If they don't I delete the message and move on. It makes them chase😉
I ask them what they’re looking for and they all say a connection, but obviously friendship first. It’s all nonsense and I’m just blocking these idiots now
@@LolaSemone I never ask what they're looking for. If they ask me I say a gentleman lol. If they keep asking I say let's exchange numbers. I keep conversation moving towards that date honey!
Starr Johnson I ask because I want to know if they’re serious or looking for sex.
@@LolaSemone lol I understand. I just like dates and getting spoiled so it works out good most times!
”men protect things they love” (legally in most cases, cars, properties, etc)💯but marriage just a piece of paper to y'all???🙃
Scarlet Rose that part 👆🏾...
@Scarlet Rose you mean marriage is?
Preach sis
Dusty alert
They're playing dumb. They don't want you to have legal rights and benefits that come with a marital contract.
To all my Christian ladies!! Most of what is being said here ARE Christian values. A man is supposed to be the head of the house hold and PAY. If a man wants you to do wife like things (sex, cook, clean etc.) he should do husband like things TAKE CARE OF YOU. In fact he is supposed to give up that ring and treat you like the queen you are. Please, hold strong to your faith because it can serve you in many ways 😉😘
The hypochristians have arrived
@@jessicajennifer9827 girl u sound bitter. the message was not for u, so dont address it
Uoeno Ho right what a channel to pick. Shera is our non Christian spiritual queen.
Jessica Jennifer you got a lot of growing to do!
LIKe Sherpa said most men are not Christians. Sometimes they use it as a game to get naive women. Plus they try to use it for free sex.
How can one woman serve so many looks on a consistent basis...simply the GOAT
This is so true, I just broke up with my friends with benefits, I caught feelings and he ghosted me,🤣🤣🤣 ladies don't take these men so serious it's all games🤣🤣
Hey at least you accepted responsibility of a side piece. But a woman to control her emotions impossible. It's already impossible to get straight answers from women.
@@aim-for-greatn3z947 Spend time with your boyfriend and get off the internet.
They don’t care about us after they get their nut
How was he playing games if you were a f.ckbuddy?
They point out "flaws" they perceive in you.
Too bad they don’t look at their own flaws. They usually have many. Drinking, drugs, broke, lazy, gambler and cheater.
I think both men and women lives are going to be so much better when sex/companion robots come out and is the norm. Most of our problems will be solved. I'm hoping sooner rather than later. It would have been perfect during this pandemic while we stuck in the house.
Jay Jones 😂
Lol! A man would say that Jay Jones
I have had men tell me they don't want a commitment. Then, a couple months later they want to be exclusive. The games they play.
They do that to try to make u work hard for it. When they realised u dgaf now they wanna be exclusive 😂😂
Never understood the being exclusive shit.
He wants you to be exclusive so he doesnt lose the only stable puxi available and he keeps his single status just in case. Many men don't have the time and money to date multiple women
The way you describe men is how you would describe a Psychopath.
And you are damn right about that.
Everything you are saying is true. I was in a situation like that for years. Falling for every single lie. I was foolish and blind and way to in love to want to accept the reality of what was happening. Once you open your eyes and see the truth it is truly heart breaking. Be smarter then me ladies take this woman's advice. She knows what she is talking about.
Also Break means ITS OVER!! Get it n move on >>>>>>
This is game ladies, we are so hard headed at times and let our hearts lead the way. Class is in session 📝🤓
Anyone that say they don't wanna play games, they play games..
Not necessary true some ppl say what they mean & do as they say! Some ppl are 2old 4 nonsense and games & rather put that out there so if u want 2play games they let u know they aint gonna tolerate it and will move on once they see u aint on their mental level !
Anyone that says. Im not about drama. Is drama. Anyone that says they want good vibes only 😒 They are the bad vibes
@@69Fabulositynope. They are just saying they have a lot of experience with the drama. So that means they attract it every time. It has nothing to do with 2old to deal. If you really are drama-free, you do not attract drama.
Or they say that they date with a purpose and don't believe in multiple dating to make you feel guilty about talking to other people keep you from talking to other people while they have a roster themselves. If there is no commitment you have every right to date other people
My ex husband said that we should separate and then see what happens!
I went straight away and filed for divorce!
These people are crazy! LOL
Edit: actually this was after he wouldn’t go to counseling and did two back to back military deployments. I was the one fighting and asking for counseling because I was young. I knew counseling could help with understanding and communication. He was the one who wanted out and this is the way he went about it.
Some of the best decisions I’ve ever made: filing for divorce and getting counseling on my own, which helped me to never question decision #1. I had a good counselor and as a young woman, i needed that!
And yes, he would come back from deployments talking about we can’t have sex for three days until the government gives then a zpak...that’s usually used to treat STDs. I was in the military and went on deployments, I was never given that! Boy was I naive! He was cheating and I didn’t suspect it! Haha
I'll never want someone that don't want me 💦🤔
YES GIRL I AM WITH Y0U WHAT IN THE MEAN TIME WHAT D0SE THAT MEAN..IS HE G0ING T0 DATE 0THER W0MEN..0R N0T 0N THAT BREAK..WHEN SEEING WHAT HPPENS ..I AM LIKE Y0U WHAT THE P0INT...MEN MEN
M0ST MEN...WILL ALL WAY,S MAKE IT W0RK F0R THEM THAT.S IT..G00D F0R Y0U Y0U STILL GET Y0UR M0NEY IF IT S PAST....25 YEAR,S ...I AM GETTING MY CHECK EVERY WEEK....THAT,S WHAT I AM TALKING AB0UT .
I'm sorry.
It depends tho what you would separate for. If it's abuse, you probably should!
Alfred Aubry a man that needs to test you to see what you will do got too much time and insecurities she did the right thing. A man that wants you will not do anything to jeopardize that!
@@memoryrinehart YES IT WAS ABUSE 15 TEEN YEAR,S IN T0 MY MARRAGE HE STARTED HITTING 0N ME I GUESS THAT WAS HIS WAY 0F TELLING ME HE WANTED
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If you're living together, Act like the wife but still Behave like a Single Women until you get Married. Keep your friends, have a social life, be mysterious and never forget you're number One. Keep yourself leveled up for You. Hes just an addition to your life.
Wrong. Never live with a man that's not ur husband.
Never live with him if he is not your husband
By living with him you are already giving him husband benefits. He has access to you 24/7 he has no incentive to marry at all.
@@jazzyone1986 I completely agree with you. I think giving him 100 access to you 24/7 is killing the scarcity principle, therefore during habitation ensure the /mutual wife-husband benefits through reciprocity. & keep your life/social circle and yourself on the pedestal. With keeping yourself first choice there is no manipulation or control.
@@bellakim9404 hilarious cant even admit your own comment was wrong🤣🤣🤣 woow. Women these days
I have finally convinced my two best friends of the level up way of life! Thanks so much Shera. We are passing on your teachings
So many of my friends still dont wanna hear it. Welp, they will have to experience everything themselves.
Hypergamy is a females nature. You don’t have to teach level up to a woman she will do it naturally. What you mean is your teaching your friends to look for men with 💰 and material positions. How to value his recourses and not his inner quality’s. That is very different indeed
Benazir Ngwa they will change their minds when they experience it for themselves
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@@October3074 facts 💯
If I knew all this 14 years ago...😔
You mean to tell me you didn’t know how to lie 14 years ago?
Jenny Chung
You love your gender, almost to a fault. I get it tho. But this video here is about lying (tricks)-so what does she wish she knew 14 years ago?
You know it now
@referral madness what wrong with being a gold digger?
“Men will tie you down to untie you quicker” that reminds me of that Martin Lawrence movie A Thin Line between Love and Hate.
I mean imagine a man telling Margot Robbie that he can do only 2 hours in a week 😂, and risk losing woman like her. He would try to impress her as hard as he can
Margot ain't nobody special.
Shera I swear your advice is like gospel. So said so done. I follow your advice to a tee and it has been working
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Ladies, this is the most entellengent and elligant lady on here. She, is here to help you not hurt you, so take notes. Men, that pursure women out of their town be careful they may be dating other women or have a wife or gf they do not want to see y with. Never, buy men gifts that are not apart of y life 110% like a fiance or husband. Women, that make a guy to marry them will not be special.
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He didn't use you and left you because he was a dusty. He did that because you let it! Never let any man manipulate you.
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💎your advice is changing my life. Thank you Shera.💎
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You have pearls of wisdom and I be listening because I see people get played like this all the time
I'm looking for someone whose fun interesting and exciting that I can hang out with 😁😁😁- I Bet they never saw this coming😉
I've had two rings in five years with no plan for an actual marriage so I'm done
i hope u kept the rings lol
@@SheRaSeven1 🤣🤣🤣 I mean there's toxic all over the situation I don't think u would keep rings that mean more to you than the Person giving them so sad really
Omg I’m in the same situation as u 2 rings and no wedding date we been together 7years so Over it he’s a good man but idk
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Please do a vid on most regrettable things said to men (if you think it would be useful). Thx
Even tho I'm not her... I do think it will be useful.. I just said some foolish things today to a man. I messed up bad sadly lol
Girl I do it too🤦🏽♀️ working on it tho
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The bitchcraft has people lying to themselves indeed.
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I would never ever agree to be friends with benefits noooo waayyyy
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@@xohotronic what product?
Xochi milco what product ? So we know not to use it. And I like her lips either way.
@@xohotronic r u serious???
What product??? Omg, that's crazy!!!
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Ok u get 5 minutes to court me or your nexted!
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lol, I love your honesty.
But also be careful of those men rushing too.
Say you’re 24, and when you get busted say you’re disléxic cause you’re 42 😂🤣🤣🤣 I died
That’s the funniest thing ever 🤣😂
Lol!
Oh my god you look stunning !!
Shera please make a video for unnattractive women. How can below average women get a bag? Not everyone looks like a 10 with makeup and a wig and cute outfit.
Around 70% of American women are overweight. If you get yourself in shape, you have the advantage over 70% of your competition.
@@ukkev7056 i am slim, with a nice body, nice smile ( white teeth and I wore braces for 3 years) a good sense of style and I can do makeup. Im intelligent and have multiple degrees...I speak 3 languages, etc.My issue is that im a "butterface". I look like a 8 from the neck down...from the neck up errm let's just say Im doing the best with what God gave me but im realistic and I know I will never be a 10 in the face. My hair is also a problem. So is it still possible to secure a bag?
@@ennvee1989
I'd still say you have the advantage over the majority of women.
The men of means who are only looking for fun will probably ignore you. Which is a small advantage in that the men who do show interest in you, are probably more likely to be serious in their intentions.
Long or big hair is a must for plainer looking women.
Eg: In a head photo, if a plain woman's hair is pulled back, the plain woman will look 100% plain in the photo. Whilst if the plain woman has good long/big hair in a head photo, the plain woman will only look 50% plain in the photo.
If your hair is a problem, go for a long term fix. You might have to temporary have your hair short to sort it out.
If your face is fat, wearing v-shaped necklines will sub-consciously lengthen your face.
Whilst if your face is unusually thin, circle necklines are needed to prevent your face appearing longer than it is.
If you're willing to go older, you should be able to get a man of means. Don't ask or hint for money. The men willing to splash out money early on women are paying for beauty. You have to be a different type of woman. If after 9 months, he's not hinted at marriage, move on. If at any time you have a choice of two or more men, go for the man who seems to be the most interested in you.
@@ukkev7056 thanks a lot for your advices i appreciate it! My face is long with a huge forehead and a "resting bih face" unfortunately. I have to constantly remind myself to smile to soften my features. Plus, I am transitioning to natural hair so it looks a mess right now. I guess i should start investing in wigs. Also, im opened to dating older men but not too old...Im 31 (I look much younger tho) and dont really want to be with a 55 year old...
Girl you sound impressive
Love ur outfit & background 🌟
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Shera coming thru with all the good tips!! It IS my birthday and I do love when he used to stop by the ATM ;)))
You look F’N gorgeous SHE, ❤️✨ it’s been a minute since I’ve stop by . Miss your messages been Focusing on get my level up on.
How are you so WISE?
I think men and women's lives are going to be so much better once sex/companion robots come out and are the norm. Most of our problems will be solved. It would have been perfect if it came out during this pandemic while we are stuck at home.
@@jayjones7891 I've heard about those too. It would definitely be nice. Especially if I can program it to go jogging with me and take the trash out
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Something I was saying
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Love you Shera and go girl@the lips. I think we have a lot of similar facial features. So Im thinking I might have to get that hair hunty. Thanks for the continuous Sprinkle Sprinkle. Your advice got my 20+20s poppin' lol🤗🤗
I would never ever agree to be friends with benefits nooo wayyyy 6:28
Love to listen to you specially when I’m feeling down u make me laugh
Great video Shera, looking beautiful as always. 💫💫💓💓
You look good. Still working on me. I admit half heartedly but you are an inspiration.
Looking classy today Shera
How do we free style during this pandemic!???
Shera your responses 🤣😂😂
Thank you for putting out great information
Thank you I have to read this again
Thank you for this, it helps me a lot
But I don't want him...I am leveling up and wait for the right one. I'd love to open a business
Ladies, commitment with a man has to be earned.
Most admirable thing my husband said to me (before married): "You're not a skank."
Underrated comment
What does it mean, if I may ask?
how is that admirable
@@xohotronic Would you rather be called a skank?
@@memoryrinehart no offense but he should have said u are a good woman, or u are ....(something good) bcs then someone is saying for example if I say u are not a hooker it is not a good compliment. It is better that he said u are smth good and not u are not smth bad. But maybe he didnt know how to say that u are a good woman in meaning not being sexually available to everyone. Maybe specifically he wanted to say that.
You are looking FABULOUS!!!!
I love this hair length on you!
Shera, the chat is not showing... please add it plz
Hey girls, I was wondering, maybe its good way to gold digg in the christian dating sides ( but only paid ones)? Men there are a lot more respectful, traditional
Looking good!!😍
Awesome Video!!
This is a very great look on you
Shera for the win💋
Shera thank you so much all the way from nigeria ❤️
Ur outfit looks amazing.
Love that hair!! 😍
Every time I switch up he find a way w get me right back
I love your lips 👄 either way. Can you tell us what do you use ? I like how it’s not permanent? Thank you and thank for the great content on this channel ❤️
When is your birthday?