Oh wow I wish I discovered this woman in my 20’s. I spent thousands and thousands on therapy, schools, losers . She has the wisdom to guide any young woman to find happiness and peace. Young ladies I beg you listen to her words
@@TheFood4Thought18 im 29 too,going on 30 this year.Just found out her channel like a month ago!I dont deal with dusties but I cant get rich men to holla at me because I look a mess.working on leveling up my looks atm. Whats your progress like?
You can not hide yourself from life lessons. You can not be her.........you are yourself................she had said this before........She is pretty, and has life experience , and brains.........You are not her.
Self love is the best love ❤️. I was super focused on relationships at one point in my life. Then I decided to direct that energy towards myself and I’m experiencing great results. Your messages helped me on this journey, thank you 💕
Yall better hear her CLEARLY when she says LONG-DISTANCE R/SHIPS ARE NOT REAL R/SHIPS. Period!!!! Stop contemplating it! If they aren't planning on moving any time soon for their own reasons, or you aren't planning on moving any time for your own reasons, LET IT GO. It's not real and it won't last.
Lol. The guy you see in my dp we dated long distance for 8 years hes from the uk im all the way from canada ontario i wasnt able to go to the uk my mom didnt alow it so my bf at the time said wel make it work il come to you and gues what he xame for my bday and stayed since and for the i years we been on cam slept on cam at showed eachother the world and now we are married with a baby on the way long distance does work im living proof i connected with him god gave me him and im blessed
I know she's not Christian but for all the religious women who are fighting what she's saying and feeling like you have to build a man. What Shera teaches is biblical. Husband is supposed to work and provide and the wife stay home and raise kids if you choose to have them. People always wanna change shit! It's not benefitting us.
Thank you. I'm spiritual "my religion has kept us as a people in bondage", and it literally says a man is supposed to provide for his home, while the wife takes care of the home (meaning the kids, etc). IDK what book some people are looking into saying we have to go all out for a man... The man that finds a wife (not boyfriend, smash buddy, etc), finds a good thing.
@lovey amen. They are supposed to have a home already when they find us to put us in. It's dumb to work along side a man while trying to care for the home.
A proper Christian husband is supposed to do those things. Any real man is supposed to take care of his lady, Whether we practice spiritual principles or looking out for ourselves, we need to get our act right and think for ourselves and more of ourselves 🌸
Jazzitay Creationz I make a lot my aunt misled my cousin too.I have transitioned into skincare and opening a beauty bar!!I can’t have a boss I’m a boss..and work 3 days a week
@@Ms.Bookie0501 Hi. I am interested in opening a beauty bar for natural hair specifically and only want to work 3 days a week as well. What advice can you share? Thank you🌹
I don't use my degrees either #DamnShame #MSToo you're videos are changing my life Shera!!! Thank you! 38 and these are things my mother should have taught me! Better late then never
So grateful my Pieces Mom sent me to beauty school as a teenager because she saw a natural talent I didn’t even want to go. All these years later I never feel like it’s work and only work part time! I can do my CZcams and Acting all things I enjoy. You’re right on about what you loved as a child do now!
You're like a female sadhguru but way hotter and more goddessy. Like a sage, I love it. It's like with each word you're drawing out a truth that was already buried within.
Not gonna lie for a long time I was focused on pleasing others and what they thought of me mattered so much more than what I thought of myself you have thought me so much about self, myself, self love , self fulfillment doing things that please me despite what others say and never settle. I try to work on these affirmations everyday
This is so true, the title alone says it all. I have seen a lot of women put their entrepreneur and business to the side once a man comes in their life. And once the man does them wrong than they make videos to get emotional support. Now I see why a lot of women who make or are in a position to make thousands to millions don't because they let a man get in the ways of their BUSINESS AND MONEY MAKING OPPORTUNITIES...#whereisthelie
I am not looking for love. I do what I love. These men don't let me do things I want for myself. They always have negative to say about it. I never asked them for money. When I want to buy something for myself is always a no for them.
She needs to give this sermon to Pisces men and Libra women. Bc goodness do they not get it lol. Pisces men stay looking for mama 2.0, and Libra women stay looking for SOMEONE lol.
The outer displays of what is interpreted as love is an illusion. The outer is only a reflection proportional to the love within ones self. There's nothing outside of one's self to receive.
MR STRUGGLES The love you assume that is coming from others is originating from within you. People are mirrors... they reflect our state of consciousness and beliefs of ourselves, "There is no spoon".
@@thealkemychannel4758 what's your opinion on jealousy? Throughout my life I feel as though people, and family were always jealous of me in some way. I pushed them feelings to the side. Now that I've loved Myself, not putting anyone before me it's as if I see in me what they wanted to be hidden. It's as if I see what they hated in some way all along. I would dim my light, or what came naturally for me to make someone else feel good. Its weird though! Ain't no turning back, I wish I would've always been this way.
Nisha Mack sounds like you developed a strong resolve to never be stifled again, which is perhaps the only lesson to be learned from such an experience in hindsight. The cure for jealousy is knowledge... but, it's irrelevant if the Sun is orbiting the Earth or the Earth is orbiting the Sun because YOU are the center of your universe and ultimately you assign the roles to all the characters on your stage... consciously or unconsciously.
More action, less talk. I don’t even mess with talking. If I try to talk to the man I’m with (clearly I’ve made some trial and errors with dusties, my bad) and he can’t mentally deal with my level, I just leave. These low level mentality dusties are trying to mentally and emotionally wear you down until you get too tired to rise above it all to keep you in that place so they can keep using you. There’s no reason to even try to negotiate with terrorists. In short, I don’t fuck with any of it. It’s a waste of time. Just bounce.
Thanks for posting . 20 years ago today I married but my life was a roller coaster and it's now changed . Today's video is all about how I feel believe it or not. Thank you .
I absolutely love your channel. It inspires me to make my own page and my own group. There aren’t enough women telling other women the truth.. thank you for your wise wisdom. 🧜🏽♀️
My 24 year old boo act like he doesn't care if I work bc he's on the way to being successful. About to be a chiropractor or physical therapist when he graduates next year and he sees me as the prize. He's not stingy and invests in me through dates and training me for my upcoming pageant for free. He's about to take me on trips for my bday and his in March and April. Wander what I'm getting for Valentine's???!😂😂
You're so beautiful Ashera.❤ I Love your videos and what you say about secure and love yourself figure out what you want and do what you truly love 💜 Thank you ❤
I think this is one of your best speech. V inspiring, full of posititivity and motivation. Award winning worth putting in syllabus of schools colleges. I do motivational speaking for hopeless people.There are days where we need to puck us up and start doing something else after losing motivation.May be you can do a lecture on that..Thank you for your wisdom sharing. I appreciate what you do. I admire your experimenting with looks. It takes alot of effort to do what you do. Where you go for validation and stay motivated.The varaity you experiment is amazing in looks in life in matters. Wish you peace of mind and good health. Thank you for your wisdom sharing.
MY JOY WAS WRITING ALL THE WORDS OF ANY SONG I LOVED ON THE RADIO AND I COULD DANCE TO BUT I STILL HAD TO HAVE THE HOUSE CLEANED BY THE TIME MOMMASITA GOT HOME FROM work followers face
Oh wow I wish I discovered this woman in my 20’s. I spent thousands and thousands on therapy, schools, losers . She has the wisdom to guide any young woman to find happiness and peace.
Young ladies I beg you listen to her words
carolina me too! I wish i knew what i know now when i was 20!
I found her 2 months ago, I will be 29 next month, she helps me improve my plans every video
@@TheFood4Thought18 im 29 too,going on 30 this year.Just found out her channel like a month ago!I dont deal with dusties but I cant get rich men to holla at me because I look a mess.working on leveling up my looks atm. Whats your progress like?
Found her at 20 ❤️ but I had to go through some things tho
You can not hide yourself from life lessons. You can not be her.........you are yourself................she had said this before........She is pretty, and has life experience , and brains.........You are not her.
Self love is the best love ❤️. I was super focused on relationships at one point in my life. Then I decided to direct that energy towards myself and I’m experiencing great results. Your messages helped me on this journey, thank you 💕
Jessica Jane ❤️💖❤️💖
Yup! And congratulations!
@@jaybae7315😅
Ladies think rationally and strategically don’t let your emotions screw your life
Changing at age 45
Honest ✨
Some are worth using if come across weird guy.
Yall better hear her CLEARLY when she says LONG-DISTANCE R/SHIPS ARE NOT REAL R/SHIPS. Period!!!! Stop contemplating it! If they aren't planning on moving any time soon for their own reasons, or you aren't planning on moving any time for your own reasons, LET IT GO. It's not real and it won't last.
Lol. The guy you see in my dp we dated long distance for 8 years hes from the uk im all the way from canada ontario i wasnt able to go to the uk my mom didnt alow it so my bf at the time said wel make it work il come to you and gues what he xame for my bday and stayed since and for the i years we been on cam slept on cam at showed eachother the world and now we are married with a baby on the way long distance does work im living proof i connected with him god gave me him and im blessed
Yes I know first hand.. the hope dissipates over time. Reality sets in once you realize that neither one of y'all will be the one to move
@@sprinkleoflight aww you are the exception not the rule...
🙄💯
Leticia doesn't talk about the minority she talks about the majority and reality.
I love this, “pick me” theory applied to the workplace/boss relationship as well. My takeaway: Don’t be a pick me employee either! Good point 👍🏽
Danielle Lovelight Says don’t be a pick me in life, PERIOD’T. It’s your life, you make the rules.
Great point!! My boss acts like we replacable, but so is she
I am so thankful that I found my passion at a very young age and it allows me to be self employed.
What do u do sis
Web designer
I know she's not Christian but for all the religious women who are fighting what she's saying and feeling like you have to build a man. What Shera teaches is biblical. Husband is supposed to work and provide and the wife stay home and raise kids if you choose to have them. People always wanna change shit! It's not benefitting us.
Thank you. I'm spiritual "my religion has kept us as a people in bondage", and it literally says a man is supposed to provide for his home, while the wife takes care of the home (meaning the kids, etc). IDK what book some people are looking into saying we have to go all out for a man... The man that finds a wife (not boyfriend, smash buddy, etc), finds a good thing.
@lovey amen. They are supposed to have a home already when they find us to put us in. It's dumb to work along side a man while trying to care for the home.
YES YES YES I am a Christian too and this is the truth
A proper Christian husband is supposed to do those things. Any real man is supposed to take care of his lady, Whether we practice spiritual principles or looking out for ourselves, we need to get our act right and think for ourselves and more of ourselves 🌸
Yup!
My mom use to tell me that cosmetologist don't make money. Never should stop going to school biggest mistake of my life.
Jazzitay Creationz I make a lot my aunt misled my cousin too.I have transitioned into skincare and opening a beauty bar!!I can’t have a boss I’m a boss..and work 3 days a week
My mom told me the same thing. Now all these student loans to pay back and I'm still doing cosmetology
@@Ms.Bookie0501 I know that's right!💅🏼💅🏼im so ready to Branch off work in asian shop got me stressed out on do many levels
@@Ms.Bookie0501 Hi. I am interested in opening a beauty bar for natural hair specifically and only want to work 3 days a week as well. What advice can you share? Thank you🌹
I don't use my degrees either #DamnShame #MSToo you're videos are changing my life Shera!!! Thank you! 38 and these are things my mother should have taught me! Better late then never
Use your degrees??
I loved this reminder for us to not forget who we truly are and do what we love & get paid for it as well. Very important and inspiring message ♥️
So grateful my Pieces Mom sent me to beauty school as a teenager because she saw a natural talent I didn’t even want to go. All these years later I never feel like it’s work and only work part time! I can do my CZcams and Acting all things I enjoy. You’re right on about what you loved as a child do now!
You're like a female sadhguru but way hotter and more goddessy. Like a sage, I love it. It's like with each word you're drawing out a truth that was already buried within.
😍💐💐💐
That's an insult to Leticia. She is genuine not some fake guru supported by nefarious people.
Not gonna lie for a long time I was focused on pleasing others and what they thought of me mattered so much more than what I thought of myself you have thought me so much about self, myself, self love , self fulfillment doing things that please me despite what others say and never settle. I try to work on these affirmations everyday
This is so true, the title alone says it all. I have seen a lot of women put their entrepreneur and business to the side once a man comes in their life. And once the man does them wrong than they make videos to get emotional support. Now I see why a lot of women who make or are in a position to make thousands to millions don't because they let a man get in the ways of their BUSINESS AND MONEY MAKING OPPORTUNITIES...#whereisthelie
I did
When i was a kid my dream was to grow up and get marry to a gentleman and have kids and also have my own boutique
Same here girlie.. Hope it works out
❤
I took up painting only to find out it is a hidden gift. I work full time but when I am off all my time goes towards my craft.
Me too
I am not looking for love. I do what I love. These men don't let me do things I want for myself. They always have negative to say about it. I never asked them for money. When I want to buy something for myself is always a no for them.
then those men re not fond of you ... fine one that is
Lol I took your advice and stood up a guy for a coffee date... it was hilarious
You always have such great advice
I started hollering, when you said that James would be out there selling his organs! 🤣🤣🤣
Shera, your intelligence is off the charts. I know you help so many. Bless you, and please don't stop what you do.
SheRa - I love your Michael Jackson display on the white night table!!!!
She needs to give this sermon to Pisces men and Libra women. Bc goodness do they not get it lol. Pisces men stay looking for mama 2.0, and Libra women stay looking for SOMEONE lol.
Chill on us Libra ladies Lol. I have not been looking for someone
My brother in law is a Pisces man and he’s a good husband and father. He’s a doctor and he handles his business
Us libra women just attract lots of men. So we just get used to being in relationships. It's a blessing and a curse
You have to be strategic when choosing the right degree.
Just watched this. Certain of your videos are keepers....ones to save and re-watch once a year, this is one of them!!
The outer displays of what is interpreted as love is an illusion. The outer is only a reflection proportional to the love within ones self. There's nothing outside of one's self to receive.
MR STRUGGLES The love you assume that is coming from others is originating from within you. People are mirrors... they reflect our state of consciousness and beliefs of ourselves, "There is no spoon".
@@thealkemychannel4758 love this!
@@thealkemychannel4758 what's your opinion on jealousy? Throughout my life I feel as though people, and family were always jealous of me in some way. I pushed them feelings to the side. Now that I've loved Myself, not putting anyone before me it's as if I see in me what they wanted to be hidden. It's as if I see what they hated in some way all along. I would dim my light, or what came naturally for me to make someone else feel good. Its weird though! Ain't no turning back, I wish I would've always been this way.
Nisha Mack sounds like you developed a strong resolve to never be stifled again, which is perhaps the only lesson to be learned from such an experience in hindsight. The cure for jealousy is knowledge... but, it's irrelevant if the Sun is orbiting the Earth or the Earth is orbiting the Sun because YOU are the center of your universe and ultimately you assign the roles to all the characters on your stage... consciously or unconsciously.
@@thealkemychannel4758 wow! Thanks for your reply!
More action, less talk. I don’t even mess with talking. If I try to talk to the man I’m with (clearly I’ve made some trial and errors with dusties, my bad) and he can’t mentally deal with my level, I just leave. These low level mentality dusties are trying to mentally and emotionally wear you down until you get too tired to rise above it all to keep you in that place so they can keep using you. There’s no reason to even try to negotiate with terrorists. In short, I don’t fuck with any of it. It’s a waste of time. Just bounce.
Yes.
Thanks for posting . 20 years ago today I married but my life was a roller coaster and it's now changed . Today's video is all about how I feel believe it or not. Thank you .
I absolutely love your channel. It inspires me to make my own page and my own group. There aren’t enough women telling other women the truth.. thank you for your wise wisdom. 🧜🏽♀️
Sagittarius rising!! So THAT'S where the bluntness comes from!! 😂😂
Wow...
I love this!!! You dropped so many gems! If you don't love yourself and have a life that brings you genuine joy, no man will be interested anyway lol.
Im an employee and my job have made me a hated person im always mad and snap easily.
work alone or for yourself as soon s u are able to
Shera is right. So do what you love and you never work a day in your life
Such a beautiful and inspiring message thank you so much for helping us stay on track !! More to life than a man !! Hallelujah !
Great video. I needed to hear this today!!
My 24 year old boo act like he doesn't care if I work bc he's on the way to being successful. About to be a chiropractor or physical therapist when he graduates next year and he sees me as the prize. He's not stingy and invests in me through dates and training me for my upcoming pageant for free. He's about to take me on trips for my bday and his in March and April. Wander what I'm getting for Valentine's???!😂😂
Some women like school. If you like it and it won’t put you in a financial hole, go for it!
If you’re in school just because you think you have to be, then I 100% agree with Ashera. Waste of time and money.
Oooh you pretty, pretty
Goddess your answers are real and positive people please take notes peace and love
Thanks for dropping these gems and certainly everything you say is true. Appreciate the honesty.
You're so beautiful Ashera.❤ I Love your videos and what you say about secure and love yourself figure out what you want and do what you truly love 💜 Thank you ❤
This message couldn't have came to me at a better time mommy shera!
I think this is one of your best speech. V inspiring, full of posititivity and motivation. Award winning worth putting in syllabus of schools colleges. I do motivational speaking for hopeless people.There are days where we need to puck us up and start doing something else after losing motivation.May be you can do a lecture on that..Thank you for your wisdom sharing. I appreciate what you do. I admire your experimenting with looks. It takes alot of effort to do what you do. Where you go for validation and stay motivated.The varaity you experiment is amazing in looks in life in matters. Wish you peace of mind and good health. Thank you for your wisdom sharing.
Thank you so much for this information. I wish i knew this kind of information about life when i was in my early 20s. 🙏
This video was confirmation ❤️ thank you Shera I needed this.. this is important to think about & execute . Thanks big sis
Love dont exsist.
Thank you for reminding me l still
have dream to finish. Have a strategy to accomplish it, go get my stuff. My purpose and fulfilment.
I have a sag rising as well! I knew that’s what drew me to you! That’s just confirmation for me.
Taurus sun Gemini Moon Sag Rising!
Taurus sun, sadge rising, aries moon. I love to feel free.
omg i needed to hear this stay at home wife being catered to gets boring everyone needs a purpose thanks
Yes this natural light is beautiful 💜💜...loved this background. 11:11 as I'm typing this..💜💜
Super great topic and very refreshing information you’re putting out! Thanks girly ❤️😘🌈🙏🏾
Wonderful advice wish we could bookmark videos to replay again and again! 45:45 is my bookmark AsheRa
Make a CZcams playlist called "rewatch" or something like that and then you can.
my favorite video of you shera watching you fo six months now you changed my life
This is your the best video so far. I’m enjoying it so much!
I love singing / writing songs / fashion design/ sewing/my CHURCH choirs since 12 yes old- & of course dancin
I so needed this in this very moment.
You always seem to be reading my mind. Trying to have fun in life as a single mother of teenagers.
This woman is number 1 woman in the world
Watching this in 2024 March 30th and taking notes💜💃👌🏾 Sprinkle Sprinkle ✨
Whah this is new thing I never heard thank you 🌸
She’s so right, i wish my mom left my dad too.
God bless you 🙏🏾💕💯Fantastic message 👌🏾
Yes!! Thank you! So much I’m in a relationship wear I have too much expectations! But hey secure the bag sis and worry about myself!
One of your best videos!!!
You are definitely inspirational !
Great video, especially about being fulfilled with what you love, not with another person.
Just In time thank u for this video 🙏🏼❤️
You are my fairy godmother💕
LMAO @ 25:02 when Shera holds up the bag of snacks Velvet said she had an increase in appetite too❤
THis is literally what I needed to hear
love you! u are so smart!!!
MY JOY WAS WRITING ALL THE WORDS OF ANY SONG I LOVED ON THE RADIO AND I COULD DANCE TO BUT I STILL HAD TO HAVE THE HOUSE CLEANED BY THE TIME MOMMASITA GOT HOME FROM work followers face
I absolutely love you lady!!!
Before "boys" I was singing for God at church and write a book.
Well you are still gonna have to figure out which god and re invent yourself n write that book. Church aint it either. Keep going✌
Storeenvy is free as well and has super cute web designs as well to sell your stuff.
Michael Jackson and my cat yes sis!!! Much love to you and thank you for sharing💜
You actually motivate me ...
Moon in Leo. I knew you had some Leo energy. Plus sag. Ascendant you gotta lotta fire lady :)
Love is the materials you want and the places you want to go.😘
I have the same record player in dark purple
Yes thats exactly what I said!! America is a Corp! Trump was the best fit for the job
Very important advise for the ladies, consumed by Bollywood shit romantic movies.
Great video Shera!!
Thank you for the Great info!!!.
Goodness you look absolutely gorgeous 🥰❤️❤️!
I cant believe you shared your chart!
Yes Girl Preach Love you.
Creative YESSSS
Nice hair and makeup
Another good one per usual
61k subscribers!!!! Congratulations!!!!
You look beautiful SheRa great Video!
PREACH MY "SISTA"
MJ lover here too Ashera👍❤
A local female radio personality and comedienne said "old men got worms" and I was afraid of that but I really don't know if its true, or just a joke.
I can live with what I have built even when I dont have men
I learned this the hard way, after feeling sorry for 2 E.T’s. Never again!
U look prettier and younger without the contacts
The north node in the 8th house in taurus, i stay steady gettin other ppls money or resource haha well astrologically
Overweight, belly fat, fasting but the weight still don't go away.....real age is 90 years old on the biometric scale
You might have insulin resistance
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