selling my heart horse
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- čas přidán 9. 01. 2021
- My first video of 2021 is a bit of a bittersweet one...
I just wanted to sit down and explain what's been going on and a big change for me. It was a really difficult decision and pretty hard to film as you can see...
Facebook/Instagram: @vanfleetmustangs
Website: vanfleetmustangs.com
Hey! My name is Sam and I enjoy making content of all my horse adventures and sharing some training tips to help others understand horses a little better. I enjoy competing in Extreme Mustang Makeovers and traveling cross-country with my horses and teaching clinics! I love interacting with all of you so feel free to leave me a comment or message me on Instagram :)
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Re-occurring Horses (Personal Horses)
Lynx- 6yo 14.2hh grey BLM Mustang (Wood Hills NV)
Calypso- 6yo 15.3hh pinto Draft X (PMU foal)
Calliope- 16yo 16hh pinto Draft X (PMU foal)
It so hard saying goodbye to ones you didn’t think you ever would. Calypso is so lucky to have had you for her start and for thinking of what’s best for her. Love you❤️
I know you can relate 🤍
I am 58, been riding since I was 5. I trained my first horse at 20 so well, that I started training so many other people's horses, that within 5 years I burnt out. I pulled out and kept my horses and realized that they are my happy place and got a regular job. What I have seen horse people that do not train, not understand that the relationship you built with the horse is sacred. Please, have something in writing that if she ever cannot keep the horse that it goes back to you, and that if you really regret selling her you have the option to buy her back or maybe even co own her 50/50.
Sending you a big hug and much love.❤🐴
Unfortunately you can have all the first right of refusals you want but they aren't really enforceable
Often the right thing to do is the hardest. My heart aches for you. You are so lucky be able to see her and know she went to a perfect home.
When a love of horses evolves into being a professional horse woman; training and business can bring unexpected changes! Your passion will experience a lot of ups and downs but you will really grow with each experience. Being able to place a loved horse into the hands of the right person can be an actual goal that also takes maturity and passion! Sad but ok....when you watch the growth of that pairing succeed you will experience a grand feeling of having been a part of it! And smile...with a full heart!
Many Years Ago, I Sold My Best Buddy . I Was Going Into The Service. I Still Think Of My Boy "Rebel" To This Day . That Was 46 Years Ago. I Feel You Young Lady. ...
I really believe that this horse will always remain faithful and remember you full heartedly. She's your protector. Don't feel empty.
I can’t even imagine how hard it must be to say goodbye...i’m sure she will have an amazing home though and it was a very good thing to do to for her if you knew it was for the best. Hugs to you❤️
"If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours..." You show your love by putting Calypso's needs above your own desires.
The fact Calypso will have full time love and attention is wonderful, and you'll always love her too! And you know she is happy and well cared for!
Not excessive at all. It is an insight into the heart and mind of true, kind and supportive involvement with an animal(s) you love.
Too many people never get to have that kind of connection. So many don't even know it can exist.
Your video illustration of the way you feel is confirmation to those that have experienced it (bring back lovely memories) and a glimpse into what's possible for those that haven't experienced it.......yet.
May more folks search for that affirmation of life thru seeing your journey.
This is exactly what I did with my first mare. I didn’t sell her I gave her to another little girl for her birthday and it was the best day of her life. That’s how I got her. I got her on my birthday, it was definitely the best day of my life. I was moving and my mom refused to let me keep my horse so I decided who we got to give her to. And I decided that they didn’t have to pay for her. Because no amount of money could buy her. I just had I know she was going somewhere that cared for her as amazing as we did 🥰🥰
Thank you for talking about this! I’m currently going through a tough decision whether to sell my own horse or not, it’s so relieving to know that I’m not the only one dealing with this❤️
I was the same way naming my twh mare. Id been seeing her ad online for a month or so before I was ready to actually purchase. I was keeping my eye on this little chocolate colored mare with the flaxen mane and tail for so long, I was referring to her as Little Miss Chocolate. When I finally got her home I couldn't for the life of me think of a good name! Our vet put a tentative "Miss Chocolate" on her records with the assumption that I'd give them her name when I came up with one...whelp...6 months later...her name IS
Miss Chocolate💖🐴💖
Sometimes doing the right thing is the hardest thing! It's called selfless love, and thats just what you are doing for her. Doesnt make the decision easier, but in your heart, you know it is the right move.
I can't help but cry and choke-up everytime you let one go; I don't know how you bear it; even though you cannot keep them all.
Love your videos and all the mustangs too!
ik how you feel girl! I sold my pony I have for 9 years 4 weeks ago and it was a hard thing to do but my dad said to me, we can be upset about this but it is not the hardest thing you will face in life. luv your vids!
Each of us are proud of you, that decision just shows how incredibly much you love her. I'm sorry that this change is difficult, I hope you can regain your joy.
Thank you for always creating great content as well as great horses.
You and Calypso were lucky to find each other! But now she is going to live a great life with her new person!❤ (go hug Lynx, he will make you feel better😉)
Dang Sam, you had me in tears at the beginning, bc I had a heart horse who I also had to sell after 12 years of owning him. He would be 32 now. But I have that love right now for my Antelope Valley mare Diamond. I would have a huge hole on my heart ❤ I love your Mustang vidoes as we now just pickup another one and wanting to get 2 more in the next year or so. Thank you for sharing. God Bless
Jesus! You have me crying so much. I couldn't do it even though you done the right thing for the horse. Hugs
I wouldn't ever even be able to fathom what it feels like to lose a horse that you've had since it's birth. Calypso was so lucky to have you as a trainer for so long.
I had to sell my horse of 8 years when I was in 7th grade and I cried so much cause she was so sweet, but I just got another horse again after 3 years and it's almost as if she was put in my life to help me and guide me to learn patience, we got her for free, I guess u could say she's a rescue but we r growing a strong bond and I hope to keep her for the rest of her life😊
Wow... I can't imagine how hard that must have been to keep it together while filming, I mean you said you did it a couple times. Thank you for the update and hope it gets easier💕
You made the right choice girl! She looks so happy. I love that you made someone's dreams come true! Look forward to all of your new adventures this year and the MANY MORE LIVES YOU WILL CHANGE!
You did a brave thing. You have a special talent with horses and can share that with so many with your clinics and your "business". Never forget how blessed you are to spend everyday with horses. I hope to attend a clinic of yours one day. You are an inspection.
You are amazing and this is more proof 💙 No words can help but time will. You do so much for others and help them with their journey 💙 Please make sure you keep yourself healthy! 💙
Such a hard thing to do. You're so mature and brave to be able to recognize that even though a horse can be so loved and important to you, that sometimes, even though we love them, sooooo much, that they would thrive more with someone else. I'm in a very similar situation with a gelding I own. He's my baby, he's the sweetest thing in the whole world and lights up my day everytime I walk outside. But just like you, time, life, energy, whatever it may be, sometimes it's just time to consider that someone else that would take him to the next level and give him the life he deserves. Lots of love and good vibes your way. Virtual hugs!!!
Well, tears are falling for you, and still what a wonderful thing for the perfect new loving home for Calypso. She's so beautiful ❤️ all best wishes for Annabelle and Calypso
Oh Sam (virtual hug). My heart horse was also a paint. I bought her when she was very young and backed her etc and had to sell when my husband wanted to move into the city. I've had horses since but none will ever replace the special place she holds in my heart. I suppose that is what makes them our heart horses. I am looking forward to watching you journey this year. I can imagine that you will have a lot of adventures and you will bless a lot of people with your talent and experience. xo
I know it's hard..my first mustang was a Red roan stud Colt.. I hurt when I had to find a new home for him.. The only thing I can think to say is I have watched your work which I know you love and know that you are good at what you do.
Ya never know what the future holds..
Keep being you and you will be amazed at the outcome.. I have no doubt
It’s been 2 months since I sold my heart horse, I haven’t gotten over it yet. If it was up to me I would have kept her but my parents said I needed something bigger....I am currently crying commenting this and I just want to go and hug her but she is so far away, I don’t know how to cope
Aww hugs for you 🤗😢
Glad you are healthy , thank goodness she has a wonderful home , and you will keep a eye on her forever
Take care of ' you' 1st. No worries about social media: That stuff will all work out. This transition is a heavy duty change and not in any way easy. Always remember you gave Calypso the best life & training possible.
Losing a horse is losing a best friend. I actually just sold my heart horse (the horse in my profile pic) he was the best thing to happen to me but due to reasons I had to sell him. I understand fully and I promise it gets better ❤️
i’m so sorry you had to sell your heart horse. that must be so hard.
@@maddalenahylton it was
Sam, while you may have sold Calypso, you actually also shared her. She and you and Annabelle will always be a loving family. All of you rescued one another. And then by posting you invited the rest of us into the group.
Beautiful Sam, beautiful horse. Awesome combination. Love it.
Sam,
It sounds like a good move for all of you. Been there. Tender times. ❤️
She’s still your heart horse. You have a big heart. There’s room for more.
Early!! I’m scared because the title 😕😞😔😭 The intro is KIlLING ME....Sam don’t cry! Nice new hair? 💛 edit: awww I loved the photo shoot clip! Annabelle and Calypso look like they’re going to have an amazing journey together! Thank you for sharing this with us Sam!😇💛💛👍🤩
Annabelle seems like a great horse mom and everything will no doubt work out great. Kudos to you for picking a gorgeous filly, saving her life and giving her the opportunity to shine and be special.
Hang in there. And trust your judgment! Good luck in 2021.
Such an amazing human you are! You found a wonderful landing for your girl. 💜
We just sold my heart horse today and it was the hardest thing loading him onto someone else’s trailer, I feel you...
Very hard decision but the love for your baby girl came first again ❤️.
Omg she is gorgeous!! I love how big and sturdy she is! 💕💕
I’m sorry Sam but you did an amazing job and gave her a good start.
Hats off to you to think of her rather than just money like most people do. Sometimes, we have to be selfless and look out for the horses best life.
Aww that must be so hard! I can’t wait to watch the rest of the video!
I have also had a rough start to 2021. My guinea pig Vanila passed away on the first. We will all be here for you no matter what tho so stay calm and hug Lynx 🙂
I know what you are going through, I had to put down a horse a couple years ago, it was the worst day of my life. I am glad you still get to see her, that wasn't the same for me. It happened when I was 10, I am 12 now. Your videos help me with my horse and I am glad I found you. 💗
Aw Im so sorry😥 the same thing happened to me and its so tough
I know what you are feeling and I know what you are going through. She will have an amazing home and you will still be able to see her, and thats best. The memories will act as reassurance in the future. She loves you and you know that, I hope you get through this okay. Its really hard to let go of things you love amd you will never forget that.
Sorry Sam. It is very sad to not have something anymore, that you love so much. You are a strong young lady, so try & cheer up. I'm not sure what else to say. Hopefully the rest of the year will be better & happier for you & all of us good hearted people. 👍
❤️ you are a good person. You have put the horse’s needs above your own. Hugs
I'm 31, and I've had this happen twice in my life now (And my first heart horse even looks almost exactly like Calypso!) and still stay in touch with both new owners of the two horses, and everyday theres such a heartbroken sadness that they arent mine anymore, but they are SO loved in their new homes so seeing pictures with them and their new owners learning new things together and with such strong bonds does take the knife out of the wound. I dont know if it ever goes away, but our eharts are always capable of growing for someone or something new. Not sure if you can have ANOTHER heart horse, or just more horses that are very near and dear. Maybe in time they become a new heart horse? Just like your relationship partners, I don't think we all only have 'one' soul mate. It is possible to find true and intense love again.
But the eyars waiting for them and being without them... are the quiet times. :( I'm in that time right now and don't see when it will end or when I'll meet my new heart horse. :/
Makes you appreciate what you do have, and your everyday, all that much more though doesnt it?
You put your horse's needs and best interests above your own, that is the best we can do
Bless your heart, Sam! Not extra to an animal lover. That was hard!
Life's growing pains r bitter sweet . It's called getting older unfortunately . My favorite Appaloosa stallion got old which seemed like overnight . The Love I had n still have for that horse will always b n my heart . We shared some unbelievable times together . That horse knew me as well as I him . Miles n miles of trail riding . Showed m, team penned, parades, hunted off of m n last but not least got a DUI on m back n my rowdier days . Even had m inside a bar but he didn't favor drinking beer . Enough to bring a tear to a glass eye !
I love the photo shoot. Attempting to buy back my soul horse from OR and bring her back to CA, and if they sell her to me I’m going to have my aunt capture the moment she’s dropped off 💕💕💕💕💕 hoping this moment will happen and can be as beautiful as this one !!
I also have a Calypso that is a buckskin pinto 2 yr old mustang I adopted from Palomino Valley holding facility when she was just 3-4 months old. She is my heart horse. I cant imagine life without her.
Started the year by selling my heart horse too. It hurt a lot but I know it was the right decision to make. I know it is hard and it hurts a ton but hang in there, because it will get better over time. Let God hold your heart and He will heal it!
Well, I didn't expect to cry tonight, but here we are. I feel for you, I can't imagine the strength it must have taken to make this decision. ❤️
I have a mustang that I just don't really click with and have made the decision to sell her because she is just too nice of a horse to not reach her full potential with someone else. It definitely isn't easy.
I know exactly how that heartbreak 💔 feels, my mom sold my heart horse from right underneath me!!!! I cried for weeks & weeks and tried to take him back!! I'm still mad at her and I will never forgive her for it!!!
Never say never. A grudge is a heavy burden and will hurt you more than it does anyone else.
Tough for you i know but with all you do maybe this works since you still see her. You did a good thing getting her and for sure you two made a abond and she will always be special to you. Annabelle seems to be going to be good for her and knowing you thats a big part that she deserves. She will always be with you in your heart and you did good for the both of you.
Hi I watched and learned so much from you and your liberty videos love them
I've learned so much from you!
Calypso is very blessed to be so loved
Wow what a hard decision you had Sam, that's a hard one to over come there's no words I can say, you have a heart as big as Texas and it shines bright and thank you, it's hard to sale family when I was young I tried to sale my brother to the circus but they told me he had a terrible act and ate to much and couldn't use him so I took him back home and tied that pork chop around his neck so the dogs would have someone to play with. Lol keep that beautiful face smiling and keep laughing there free today. God is always shinning on you my friend.
What a beautiful heart you have,, Sam.
Oh Sam, I'm sorry. Thanks you so much for being transparent.
Off topic, Early Fall, when the number of COVID positive cases in the Congregate Living Resident's Facility, where I work stopped and steadied, I could return to individual Natural Horsemanship Lessons. After week two, I put it out there that I really needed relaxation and stress relief time with Zak the horse, which, they wonderfully transitioned the lesson to, and it's now a lesson option offered alone of with family no more than four members. I also lifted my first four horse feet and picked one (need more bending holding stamina...keepin it 100...and larger pant size). I'm praying for warm reassurance reminders that you did what was best and grieving is an important process. Thank you so much, Laural
Your chanal i like it very much i really impresed by your methode of hourse training its really very impressive you traind the hourse with courege and patience please carryon allah bless you thankyou
Aww no! My heart goes out to you!! ❤️
You are a commendable young woman. Grace under duress.
Beautiful photo ❤️🐴
Sorry to here that
I’m so sorry you had to seek your heart horse it’s hard to say good bye I always dreamed my heart horse would be a 8-9 year old 17hh grey Hanoverian gelding and instead they turned out to be a 1 year old 14hh chestnut quarter horse mare but I love her so much I was there when she was born and when she had her first training when her mother passed it’s a lot and when things go wrong it really tears your soul I love her so much and can’t wait to continue growing with her! I know you’ll never get over selling your heart horse and you’ll always be missing a peace of yourself without them but it gets better it truly does I hope the rest of your years get better and you find another horse to help you heal.
I sort of know how you feel my Grandpa wants to sell my first horse and every time I think about it I start crying😭 she is everything to me I have other horses but she means a lot to me I have been through a lot with her and it breaks my heart to think that she might go to someone else someday EDIT: she sold😭😭😭
omg are you okay?
Shes a beautiful horse 🐎
I'm sure if you for any reason you didn't feel right about your decision you wouldn't have sold her. But under the circumstances you described I think you made the right choice for you and Calypso. Happy new year kiddo. 🙂
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I'm so sorry
i just sold my heart horse today, his new owner will be by tomorrow and my heart just hurts so bad, i got a young inexperienced horse and made a barrel/pole horse who can do everything😭😭 i felt this
Im so sorry girl! Its hard, but hopefully you can still see her and know how she is! I wish the best for you and Calypso! ❤️❤️❤️ Hopefully you will get another one to add to your 2! Payers girl! Hope you get to see each other often! ❤️❤️❤️ Im sorry to bring this up on such a sad occasion but can I get a tip on a horse that will not go were you are wanting it to and it rears up and turns around and runs home. I am having trouble with my new horse and she refuses to go anywhere. I have to walk her all the way down my ditch bank than ride her back or else she won't walk.
Hope I'm not butting in because I'm NO professional like Sam . I would check n c if the head stall is to tight or try a different bit . Again please excuse me as I'm no trainer I just love horses n wish the best for u n ur horse .
@@perrysmith6872 Its ok, I want peoples opinion, Thank you so much! I will try that and wait for a reply rom Sam. Thanks for trying to help, I appreciate it. ❤️
P.s..Be Proud of who you are ❤️
Sam you have to know she went to someone that loves her and will provide her a good secure home , your decision was best for the horse you will always keep her in your heart know matter what happens in your future she will remain with you.
I'll miss my heart horse forever. I had to sell him due to life circumstances. Broke my heart. 15 years ago!
Oke but i got a question. If you loved her so much and traint her. Why did you not turn calypso in your main horse and sell links ?
My heart horse passed away on dec 30 so I how you feel
You'll find another favorite one again.
Sorry to hear you had sale your horse, how could I adopt a PMU foal, pinto draft X , and do you train mustangs for people, any information would be greatly appreciated
I hope these people didn’t try to bully you into selling this horse because she wanted it.
:-( U HAVE A GOOD HEART SAM. CHIN U R STILL BLESSED. DOREEN NOT BOB. ALSO CAN U FIND ME A GREY MUSTANG , & TRAIN HIM LIKE U DO? THEN BRING HIM BACK EAST TO ME. :-) I LOVE THE WAY U R WITH HORSES. JUST THE RIGHT AMOUNT OF EVERYTHING. NOT TO MUCH PRESSURE BUT ENOUGH LOVE TO BRING OUT THE BEST IN THEM ALL. U R GIFTED. YES, U WORKED FOR IT, BUT IT SURE IS REWARDING TO SEE THE FINISHED PRODUCT. GOD BLESS U & I AM PRAYING FOR MY NEW PONY. :-) SORRY DYSLEXIC.
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There is a horse near me named Calypso
ngl this is my 4th or 5th time crying today
It’s hard to put the best interest of the animal over your heart.
What are you going to do if your business horse goes lame? It takes so long to build that up.😢
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I regret selling my horse/cob she was 13.2 hh mare and I am 5’8 so I was to tall for her💔 she was only 8 and love riding took me forever to find her (the home) and finally did thought it was going to be great but the girl that got her had to moved her to her moms midnight my cob got stuck in fence and passed. I feel like it’s my fault I could have kept her did not have to have another horse. Well..... I needed a horse that I could ride that loves being ridden my Qh is 14 i know it’s really hard sold her May 9th 2020 cried every day since
Hi I’m 12 and I want to be a horse trainer do you have any tips I have watched you for a while and I try to take notes whenever you are training but I live in Pennsylvania and their is no horse trainers near me to teach me thank you for helping me reach my dream I doubt that it will come true I haven’t thought a horse a thing yet and only did join up once
Don't give up!!! Sometimes you can't control situations in life but you can control your mindset and actions. You attract whatever you think/feel so stay positive and whatever is meant to be will happen!😁
Hey Sam I know its so hard to sell your hart horse. Because she is so beautiful young lady . But she is better at your friends barn . Because you train other horses . And travel alot too. But you still see her all the time
I had to sell my heart horse. Thankfully the person who bought her gave her back to me!