How to deal with nosy people

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  • @soulfulishgirl816
    @soulfulishgirl816 Před 6 lety +214

    What irritates me the most about nosey people is the fact that they're to stupid to know when they're over stepping a boundary...being disrespectful by asking inappropriate questions.
    I have zero patience for that type of ignorance.

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  Před 6 lety +16

      soulfish girl. I understand where you coming from. thank you so much for your comment peace. and blessings to you.

    • @gjjhwanderer6391
      @gjjhwanderer6391 Před 5 lety +10

      My co-workers keep asking me how much money I make. Because I'm Part time and they are full time. I keep telling them in a nice way to stop but they won't listen to me. How can I tell them to stop in a firm way but not rude?

    • @Ruth-vy1qj
      @Ruth-vy1qj Před 5 lety +1

      GJJH Wanderer What kind of place u work at? You might have to ask the supervisor they to nosy. Ask them what ur SSN number, how much is ur rent, etc . Sorry to said no more Mrs Nice girl because u said they want stop. It time to go up level. Some people was raise being nosy adults that normally for them. When u see they don’t like it tell her just like u don’t like it stay out of my business. U got a lot gossip people at ur job.

    • @michaelusi7117
      @michaelusi7117 Před 4 lety

      @@Ruth-vy1qj most of them are outgoing person

    • @chrissmolik8091
      @chrissmolik8091 Před 4 lety +4

      @@TylerJTI Are nosy people considered to be bossy? Just wondering. Thanks

  • @HelloKitty-sq2jo
    @HelloKitty-sq2jo Před 6 lety +201

    Nosy people give of the impression that their trying to help u but really there plotting against u

    • @Dana_inc
      @Dana_inc Před 6 lety +16

      Hello Kitty yes! And come around and be nice to fool you.

    • @ci.ci.1998
      @ci.ci.1998 Před 5 lety +4

      Hello Kitty Omg! Yess!

    • @violet482
      @violet482 Před 5 lety +5

      Omfg yeeeessssss

    • @2bethankful48
      @2bethankful48 Před 4 lety +4

      Amen too that!

    • @beaulieuc8910
      @beaulieuc8910 Před 3 lety +12

      Exactly, they are often trying to be friendly and nice to manipulate you

  • @vanessalynn4064
    @vanessalynn4064 Před 5 lety +92

    I’m glad I’m not the only one who gets annoyed by them.

  • @nikkinichole1505
    @nikkinichole1505 Před 4 lety +46

    The nosiest people ask you questions but don't want you to ask them any

    • @beaulieuc8910
      @beaulieuc8910 Před 3 lety +10

      exactly it is all one sided, and then they will tell all the other neighbours your misfortune and then they will target you for all sorts of reasons

    • @victoriasegall3404
      @victoriasegall3404 Před 2 lety +5

      Exactly! They have a double standard.

    • @josephdouglas7765
      @josephdouglas7765 Před rokem +2

      Yeah I have two nosey neighbors ask me who drop you off in that car me I said your mama bitch 🥃

    • @btytwwts
      @btytwwts Před 3 měsíci +3

      It's funny because I looked this up because my grandmother is the nosy person in question, but the thing is she tells me a lot about what's going on in her personal life too, I honestly just wish that she would leave me be and stop trying to talk to me every five minutes, she talks a lot and repeats what she already said too, but she's at the age so I guess she'll never really understand

  • @tarasowell2656
    @tarasowell2656 Před 5 lety +63

    Hi Tyler, nosey people don't have no life to much time on they hand.Instead of minding other people business they missing out on there own business.There miserable people.

  • @victoriacampbell4412
    @victoriacampbell4412 Před 6 lety +87

    Can't stand it when people ask me where I live and what I dooooooo

  • @klueboy131
    @klueboy131 Před 5 lety +50

    I like to say to nosey people.. “what’s the long number on your debit card, and the last 4 digits on the back? They don’t say anything else after hearing that. Works a treat.
    Good talk

  • @KL-is3op
    @KL-is3op Před 4 lety +60

    When someone ask you a nosey question just ask them " why do you want to know?" That usually will shut them up quickly. I also like the uncomfortable feeling they get with the unexpected question.

    • @BigBishop609
      @BigBishop609 Před 3 lety +8

      My Dad taught me that response too 👍

    • @victoriasegall3404
      @victoriasegall3404 Před 2 lety +7

      My mother taught me that reply when I was in my teens.

    • @medievalknievel
      @medievalknievel Před 24 dny

      No one likes a nosy rosy….. always shut people down real quick lol especially in line at Walmart lol

  • @cliffimages1785
    @cliffimages1785 Před 6 lety +92

    Nosy people are irritating, and ignorant. Great advise, Tyler.

  • @Lovely_Diva
    @Lovely_Diva Před 5 lety +25

    Nosy people are the reason why Iam PRIVATE. I refuse to tell my business to anyone. Nosy people are gossips. If people attempt to get in my business I let em know it's not up for discussion. Or if its mild I give them a vague answer that they cant run and spread rumors with.

  • @Star-vg7ix
    @Star-vg7ix Před 11 měsíci +8

    Someone from my past was brillant at answering these questions. He would usually answer "why?" to every question, and then again "why"? Hhehehhehe loved it.

  • @1thankful
    @1thankful Před 6 lety +27

    If someone wants to get nosey with me ....i feel they just bought themselves a ticket to hell 🙄

  • @thejessman1460
    @thejessman1460 Před 3 lety +12

    Ill intentions seem to be the motivation. No respect for boundaries or basic human rights for privacy. Lazy and manipulative. Unsettling. Thanks for the insight.

  • @beaulieuc8910
    @beaulieuc8910 Před 3 lety +20

    The thing is there are so many people who are untrustworthy and will use your information to their advantage.

    • @sntmdsa3628
      @sntmdsa3628 Před 5 měsíci +1

      You don’t have to say all that in a robotic voice. When they ask nosey questions just say “unhuh” and don’t even look at them. Works like a charm. Eveytime some ask you a personal nosey question that you don’t feel like answering just say “unhuh” can keep it pushing

  • @pinkgypsytees
    @pinkgypsytees Před 6 lety +40

    None of your DAM business, it ain't none of your business...LOL...TELL EM TYLER! LOL..

  • @bijou121382
    @bijou121382 Před 5 lety +48

    I hate all questions... Honestly I'm getting to the point that I don't want to communicate with most ppl... I don't care what they got going on and I'm always taken back by the fact that they even care to ask my personal business in the first place...😑

    • @karinam4115
      @karinam4115 Před 5 lety +6

      bijou fofana feel the same. Now I want to be more in solitude

    • @bijou121382
      @bijou121382 Před 5 lety +5

      @@karinam4115 I have mastered creating the solitude I desire while having selective/limited contact with any/all in my life... I don't care who that somebody is. Their comfort NEVER overrides my personal comfort...

  • @MelModica
    @MelModica Před 4 lety +16

    Thank you for ideas to deal with these nosy people! I cant stand obnoxious rude nosy people!!! I treat people with respect and don't intrude on others life!!! My brothers friend was at my house the other day snooping around my house and going through my trash and I swear to God he was snooping in my bathroom!!!! He then had the nerve to try to invite himself over my house the next day to do yard work that I never asked him to do!!! I am furious that people think they can invade peoples privacy!!!

  • @Voldemort318
    @Voldemort318 Před 6 lety +39

    Man you are the greatest on preaching and being funny at the same time always lighting me up keep up the great work brother

  • @sisSonders
    @sisSonders Před 4 lety +12

    It sucks because, I work close to a nosy coworker... And it makes me uncomfortable. Trying to keep it courteous though.

  • @margaretcooper797
    @margaretcooper797 Před 5 lety +13

    People who give you the third degree when you don’t immediately return their phone calls or texts.

  • @MJay3060
    @MJay3060 Před 2 lety +8

    The nosy type I'm dealing with is the one that the more you stray away from the more it gets interpreted as "please keep asking me more questions and talk to me more" for some reason. I got to the point where I just completely ignored their presence. Exhaustion of teaching the untaughtable is unbearable.

  • @lucillesamuel7331
    @lucillesamuel7331 Před 6 lety +20

    nosy people want to be in your business because they have know of there on .so that's why they nosy about your business.nosy need to take 6months to mind there own business and leave other people business alone.great video Tyler.✌✌✌✌✌

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  Před 6 lety +4

      Lucille Samuel. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.

  • @starkid77
    @starkid77 Před 6 lety +21

    Thank you this was exactly what I've been looking for and for a very long time. It took me getting older, smarter, angrier, and too tired of some of the same people casually asking stuff they have no business knowing. I realized these types of people need to not only be called on their inappropriate behavior but straight up hung out to dry by embarrassing them. No one owes anyone personal info about their lives, not even family who may think they have the right when they don't. It feels good to not only be as serious as I need to be and smile only when I feel like it, but putting people tactfully in their place, assertively, and sweetly can be a joy if it's effective and and reduces stress knowing that those nosy people are taking it somewhere else because we let them know they won't be getting their thirsty, desperate gossip from me or my life. Thanks for the help to be more assertive.

  • @codelicious6590
    @codelicious6590 Před 5 lety +16

    Nosy people that hide the fact they are nosy is more irritating than anything, at least someone that's obviously nosy you can say straight up, mind your own damn biz, but when they're nosy on the dl you have to leave them notes😂

  • @stealthone6080
    @stealthone6080 Před 5 lety +13

    Wow u on point brother..Stay sharp

  • @mk82snakeye8
    @mk82snakeye8 Před 2 lety +7

    It's not a matter of if, but when. The moment they don't get what they want, you will see. Better still, just don't bother with the risk. Kudos Tyler.

  • @Trekkie_boy
    @Trekkie_boy Před rokem +3

    I work with the ultimate nosey Parker, liar and gossiping backstabber. Always asking did I meet a girlfriend? Wanting to see pictures of my female friends. I don’t know how to answer it.

  • @ZE308AC
    @ZE308AC Před 2 lety +5

    You could always say something vague or say like CrisBemmer "I don't answer those questions"

  • @HealingThroughInspiration
    @HealingThroughInspiration Před 6 lety +14

    Perfect timing my biological father always wants to know about my business I am running, trying to give me advice I didn't ask for like he's helping me. But hasn't even started his own when he said he would. He's has been jealous of me my whole life.

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  Před 6 lety +4

      healingthroughinspiration. thank you for telling your experience. thank you so much for your comment peace and blessings to you.

    • @lifeslessons9889
      @lifeslessons9889 Před 11 měsíci

      Move on and away then …jealousy is a road to hell .

  • @RobynR000
    @RobynR000 Před 6 lety +19

    You keep it so Real. Love it. So grateful to have found your channel. Dealing with family looking at my bank receipts asking me about my MONEY! Absolutely insane. I'm a grown woman.

    • @asiaparks7158
      @asiaparks7158 Před rokem

      💯💯💯💯💯they want to devour u the devil comes to steal kill and destroy same here the devil uses them I'm glad there permanently out of my life

  • @iwapelemovement
    @iwapelemovement Před 6 lety +26

    You’re on point my brother. You had me laughing about the nosy 🐜 .

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  Před 6 lety +4

      tribal unity organization.you have great content thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.

    • @iwapelemovement
      @iwapelemovement Před 6 lety +2

      Tyler JTI you’re welcome brother. Likewise. What you say is relevant and realistic.

  • @niecys
    @niecys Před 6 lety +11

    Nice Strategy you've suggested. I'm going to use this tactic at work!

  • @playboymaxim
    @playboymaxim Před 3 lety +6

    He reminds me of Katt Williams lol
    But great video man!

  • @ahunter9503
    @ahunter9503 Před 3 lety +8

    Why do nosey people exist? THIS IS A GREAT UPLOAD...Thank you so much Tyler JTI.

  • @ryanfresh8521
    @ryanfresh8521 Před rokem +5

    I’m just going to put this out there but in my case I’m in such a happy relationship with my girlfriend of 3 years. Most disturbing is that now this gives more nosey people more ammunition to pry into my love life that is generally happy and these nosey people are miserable with their spouses or partner or whoever.

  • @garylawton58
    @garylawton58 Před 6 lety +8

    This guys funny as fuck and right most nosey mofos are snitches

    • @victoriasegall3404
      @victoriasegall3404 Před 2 lety

      I am totally in agreement with you! Just one quick little fyi: They are ALL snitches. Trust me, Gary. They aren't kindly folks.

  • @beaulieuonnp593
    @beaulieuonnp593 Před 2 lety +6

    My neighbour doesn't understand boundaries, I get her talking through my hedge and I have had to block of my hedge. And when I go out of my house and she sees me I say I am busy and walk on i am now getting a Do not Disturb sign #uk

  • @yeosin_guluem7645
    @yeosin_guluem7645 Před 3 lety +4

    This boy is so nosy he’s so annoying thank you for making this video

  • @josephdouglas7765
    @josephdouglas7765 Před rokem +4

    Extra facts 💯

  • @jacquelinemanzano9328
    @jacquelinemanzano9328 Před 5 lety +18

    This is interesting, because intrusive people are everywhere! I happen to live in a town where gossip travels at the speed of light. My favorite response to intrusive people is as follows; " I am so sorry, I realize you may be asking a simple question, but with all due respect, I take my right to privacy very seriously and you should do the same.

  • @langchauvin1121
    @langchauvin1121 Před 4 lety +12

    We have a nosey neighbor, who spies on me and my wife. I could see him his shadows peeping on his blinds at night when we come home. He always says he is a vegetarian which means we can't do barbecue.

  • @ShinySilverBunny
    @ShinySilverBunny Před 3 lety +6

    This is the best advice Tyler I needed this lesson. I might bring up the fact I got diarrhea and gotta go 🚶🤣 as that's the type of subject nobody wants to talk about!! LOL. Your ideas are great. Thank you

  • @knowbodiesfull5768
    @knowbodiesfull5768 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Nosy person : "What's your sign?"
    Me : " Do Not Enter."

  • @abbagirl8819
    @abbagirl8819 Před 6 lety +35

    Just stare at them...lol

    • @Dana_inc
      @Dana_inc Před 6 lety +7

      nina renee good advice! That what my cousin says.

  • @Doodlefisher
    @Doodlefisher Před 6 měsíci +1

    Coworkers being nosy: I have work to do. They don’t want to hear that!

  • @cestmagnifique7932
    @cestmagnifique7932 Před 4 lety +10

    What do I do with housemate who is sitting for hours in the living room and the minute I step in the kitchen, they come running and stick their nose to what I'm cooking.. WTF

  • @sharonanderson6926
    @sharonanderson6926 Před 4 lety +6

    Yes!And the family is one of them if they can't get in your business they don't have any thing to do with you.

  • @donnah.3278
    @donnah.3278 Před rokem +1

    I'm dealing with this for the last several years .Thank you for posting this. I literally live by neighbors from H*ll

  • @llr1961
    @llr1961 Před rokem +1

    I love your conviction. We don’t owe nosey people anything.

  • @freakinthegardenfreakinthe4840
    @freakinthegardenfreakinthe4840 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Thank you very much- I enjoyed this video, but it’s NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS!
    😂😂😂

  • @cleighdesaez3104
    @cleighdesaez3104 Před 3 lety +5

    GM , and Thanking you for the reminder that there are polite and tactful ways of handling these situations.
    A person may give themselves over with out editing before the words come out .
    🙏

  • @helpme9766
    @helpme9766 Před 5 lety +10

    This video is dedicated to Paul and Morgan Ogglies...the noseyest married couple in the world.

  • @deletelater793
    @deletelater793 Před rokem +2

    Listen I got this one nosey ass neighbour who's always watching people outside his window always getting into people's business and asking an hour others! Nosey as hell! 👃The man just can't keep to himself

  • @tarasowell2656
    @tarasowell2656 Před 5 lety +6

    Hi Tyler you not lying. I like your video!👈

  • @codelicious6590
    @codelicious6590 Před 5 lety +5

    I hate when my roommate goes looking around in my space and through my stuff every time I leave the room. What's worse is when she stalks my CZcams history also and monitors absolutely everything I do that she can, I hope you see this and stop your bullshit Cassy, it's none of your business, get your own life- your own hobby.

  • @justjoey6939
    @justjoey6939 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Thank you for message. I enjoyed the video. Stay blessed.

  • @foodtoys8426
    @foodtoys8426 Před 4 lety +2

    I’m having that problem right now. They complain about everything we do. We can’t even put a pop up gazebo in our own yard without them telling us to take it down.

  • @happystarhappystar1477
    @happystarhappystar1477 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Thank you, Tyler.

  • @clausm2203
    @clausm2203 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Great video

  • @martyshousecommunityorg.2890

    I love you keep it real Tyler

  • @miguelcruz2682
    @miguelcruz2682 Před rokem +3

    All u got to say is : I Rather NOT SAY!!.🙌

    • @lifeslessons9889
      @lifeslessons9889 Před 11 měsíci +1

      That’s polite …but sends them into curiosity mode ..seeking more answers

  • @lisamyrie5490
    @lisamyrie5490 Před 5 lety +11

    Hi, How to deal with harrassment from nosey people, Who thinks everything is, Funny.

  • @Mike_Cosentino
    @Mike_Cosentino Před 2 měsíci +1

    Nosy people are narcissistic and narcissists are more often than not nosy people. I’ve noticed this correlation

  • @beaulieuc8910
    @beaulieuc8910 Před 3 lety +2

    I was in the car with my bro at home and my NN turned up and started talking to him and being nosy. I said to my brother hurry up we do have to go, keep going on at him to move. My bro talks to anyone, but I think he told him too much already in 1 minutes, but I watched her start her next nosy question and shut her down and she moved on, most of the damage had been done but she certainly made it clear that I was unhappy. #england

  • @eysanhatun652
    @eysanhatun652 Před 2 lety +2

    im botherd by them comming to me and tell me random low level basic shit. i work with these people

  • @renew7828
    @renew7828 Před 2 lety +2

    I hit them on the job with, I'm busy with work, so I don't make time to answer personal questions. 😂😂

  • @vaytring9265
    @vaytring9265 Před 2 lety +3

    IF THEY TALK ABOUT PEOPLE THEY TALK ABOU YOU.

  • @HandmedownTshirtz
    @HandmedownTshirtz Před rokem +1

    Made me feel like barking or turning around and sniffing them back 😂

  • @robrob7011
    @robrob7011 Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks man!!

  • @mk82snakeye8
    @mk82snakeye8 Před 2 lety +2

    The uninteresting stuff. Fantastic. Otherwise known as 'grey rock'. Boring, lacking in drama, it bores them stupid. Then they go elsewhere looking for trouble

  • @mariasophialopez9249
    @mariasophialopez9249 Před rokem +2

    I HAVE THE PERFECT SONG FOR NOSEY NEIGHBORS. IT'S CALLED SMILING FACES BY THE UNDISPUTED TRUTH. PLAY IT, LISTEN TO IT.

  • @rainynightz7573
    @rainynightz7573 Před rokem +4

    My neighbors ….

  • @cookiedough3629
    @cookiedough3629 Před rokem +1

    Thank you :)

  • @andreaharris2443
    @andreaharris2443 Před rokem +2

    I moved one in with me and I want it out ASAP please tell use how to get it out of my house please please please

  • @RondaSmith144Empress
    @RondaSmith144Empress Před 3 lety +1

    👌👌👌

  • @abdulayaan2734
    @abdulayaan2734 Před rokem +1

    you really helped me with life

  • @mercedesguerrero4976
    @mercedesguerrero4976 Před 5 lety +2

    Well. Said. ,,,. My. Kids. Listen. , To this with me. ,**. We. Lived. It. Well. Said. ___ subscribed

  • @HandmedownTshirtz
    @HandmedownTshirtz Před rokem +1

    💯

  • @Iamrosyd
    @Iamrosyd Před 2 lety +3

    Sometimes it best just to say that’s none of your damn business. Ugh 😑 they are so stupid.

  • @stephenwilkins6438
    @stephenwilkins6438 Před 2 lety +2

    I have an aunt that's really nosey so nosey she gets my personal business she is not something trustworthy

  • @littlestbroccoli
    @littlestbroccoli Před 2 lety +1

    Haha that's smart

  • @kevinturner3400
    @kevinturner3400 Před 6 lety +5

    Like

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  Před 6 lety +2

      Kevin Turner. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.

  • @haasanjacobs1462
    @haasanjacobs1462 Před 2 lety +1

    Yup and they'll keep asking you in your business until they get it. And they'll get off the phone because it Aggregates them

  • @margaretbatson83
    @margaretbatson83 Před 3 lety +2

    I've got nothing to hide on youtube. All I do is make comments on videos. I cannot stand people going through my shit.

  • @HandmedownTshirtz
    @HandmedownTshirtz Před rokem +1

    Have you ever been to the grocery store after gardening , then someone be behind you sniffing you

  • @so7iane88
    @so7iane88 Před 6 lety +8

    222 views

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  Před 6 lety +1

      4d. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.

  • @leonardwills4268
    @leonardwills4268 Před rokem +1

    I'm sick of nosy people myself they don't know how to money on damn business

  • @dakine4238
    @dakine4238 Před měsícem +1

    What if it's your roommate?

  • @arionnarhome9360
    @arionnarhome9360 Před 5 lety +7

    I deal with nosey people by telling them Mind your business

    • @michaelusi7117
      @michaelusi7117 Před 4 lety +2

      But this can offend them and might get physical on u trust me i been there nosy people get offended easily

    • @jameshiaconcrete3968
      @jameshiaconcrete3968 Před 4 lety +3

      @@michaelusi7117oh well.. so what?? Get people out you're business..

    • @michaelusi7117
      @michaelusi7117 Před 4 lety

      @@jameshiaconcrete3968 if they see u doing something and ask u nosy question just say " im busy repeat if they ask u again say not important

    • @victoriasegall3404
      @victoriasegall3404 Před 2 lety

      I also tell these bozos to mind their own business. If they get offended by that, good! It serves them right, and if they were to touch even a hair on my head, oh, boy, would they be sorry!

  • @bunnyrabbits35
    @bunnyrabbits35 Před rokem +2

    How irritating are nosy people?

  • @majinbuu1687
    @majinbuu1687 Před 2 lety +1

    Terrence Norris 👃

  • @wilsDav3
    @wilsDav3 Před 5 lety +8

    You not need to speak to people like this you can speak to people nicely

    • @jameshiaconcrete3968
      @jameshiaconcrete3968 Před 4 lety +8

      Man whatever....this world isn't a nice place to live in.
      Not everyone is nice or kind or friendly in the world.

    • @BigBishop609
      @BigBishop609 Před 3 lety +1

      @@jameshiaconcrete3968 I agree

    • @UnknownUnknown-cd4hh
      @UnknownUnknown-cd4hh Před rokem +1

      If you want to say it nicely, just reply once.
      “Sorry, I’m busy”.
      If they continuing asking why? Just ignore.

  • @mischellagreen1991
    @mischellagreen1991 Před 4 lety +7

    Stop being nosy 😒

  • @jeremy7904
    @jeremy7904 Před měsícem +1

    Tell them straight up Wow you're Nosey You need to mind your own business im going to keep reminding them stay out of my business. Didn't i tell you to mind your own business?

  • @OvertIntelligence
    @OvertIntelligence Před 16 dny

    Mf on the bust just out the blue asking me if I was going to work. People loove to be in your business…

  • @michaelusi7117
    @michaelusi7117 Před 4 lety +1

    Just say ' not important i'm busy

  • @ellaluvs21suarez32
    @ellaluvs21suarez32 Před 5 lety +3

    one nosy hater dint like the video