HAVING GENITALIA PREFERENCES IS TRANSPHOBIC
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Guilt tripping someone into sex is really predatory and really creepy.
It's gone way beyond guilt tripping which is gross enough. They are demonizing anyone that doesn't obey them and fully intend to unleash their mob on any that dare say they won't date trans.
Yep. This is entirely about trying to use social convention to force people to submit to rape.
I was looking for this comment... thank you!
It's just stupid.
The black lady said... Trans women are women.
Even if everyone agreed with that assertion... I wouldn't date all women. I doubt any man would date every woman solely because they are women.
Just like every woman wouldn't date every man.
But when it's trans people... Bring out your phobes! Phobes for sale here!
It’s a groomers mentality. I’d also advise not leaving your drink unattended near someone that has this sort of attitude.
For the last time: dating preferences are inherently discriminatory. Love doesn't have to be inclusive, no one is owed love.
Yeah, I find it hilarious how people think dating is otherwise egalitarian if not for specific discriminatory preferences.
Right? Switch the roles, straight dude says women must date him regardless whether they are attracted to him. 😮
This narrative that you're transphobic if you have a body part preference is gaslighting at its best and "grape" culture at its worst.
No one and no government/kingdom/etc can force 2 people to be together. Wouldn't be surprised if people like this try anyway to get the government to force people that don't want to be with them, to be with them.
Sex and love aren't the same thing. Every one is owed love,but nobody is owed sex.
No trans women are not women. I'm tired of these people downplaying the word and definition of what a woman is.
as a women, same.
they can't have a period, they can't hold children, they can't bare children, our skeletons are actually different with women having wider hip bones because we have a womb, they can't go through menopause
where are the active femists are complain that men take over everything when you actually want them around seeing how they're saying a man who had SURGERY to be a women, are on the same page now as women
if you have to have surgery, you weren't ever that gender
be trans allllllll you want. be a lamp post for all I care if you're 18 or older it's your life to screw around with
but don't damn well tell me, as a person who was once a man, can understand 100% how it is to be a women. because I call bs on that. unless they can bleed, have cramps and have slight fear of knowing they can be knocked up by accident, don't talk to me about what it's like to be a women.
if black face is a thing, I do believe then this is women face.
This.
It’s really only bad if trans women try to act like they have the physical components of a woman born a woman. If a trans woman can understand and make peace with that, as well as with herself and the changes that she would like in order to be comfortable with herself, then I think it’s ok. Being a woman isn’t always about being a physical woman, it’s mental too (socially or growing up as a woman, etc.)
Trans woman just lean more towards mental womanness - even if they’ll never be a woman-woman or have the entire experience of one I think making the accommodations necessary is important and shouldn’t be looked down on (although I feel like people should only be able to transition once they’re an adult or past certain brain/physical development (both to understand their self better and protect those being manipulated), since a lot of children are being manipulated into thinking they’re trans when they arnt, physically mentally or both.)
Edit: also, people seem to hate or dislike trans people due to a lack of understanding. A trans person obviously knows they’ll never truly be woman.
I think it’s important to understand something to the best of your ability (an open mind is also important. You can hold your values or opinions while also setting them aside to learn of different perspectives and what not) , and if you still hold the same opinion or values as before, hate or otherwise, that is ok.
But people seem to think that trans people think they’re *already* physically their desired gender, when that’s not how that works. It’s gender dysphoria for a reason. It’s becasue of how they currently present, physically or socially.
Does that mean that people who change themselves shouldn’t, simply because that’s not how they are currently? Does that mean that a woman can’t embrace her femininity (make-up, dresses) because that’s not how she currently presents (presenting more masculine)?
Changing who you are for other people is different from changing yourself to feel comfortable or changing yourself for *you*.
Using a similar logic ,does that mean that people with mental illness shouldn’t get treatment? Why?
Let’s use neurodivergence for a reference.
Are you saying that, because of the way someone was *born* they shouldn’t seek treatment options because the treatment’s arnt ‘natural’ (medication, etc.) or ‘against their natural mind’? That they shouldn’t help themselves and instead suffer?
What about depression? Should someone continue to suffer and not take treatment, possibly giving in and killing themselves?
So then why can’t someone present how they want to present, or help themselves when they need help?
Sorry if the format is bad or if I sound like a complete idiot, I just got home from school and I was doing make-up work all day LOL. I’ll add to it later.
If I’m spreading misinformation or something similar please feel free to correct me, Misinformation is very dangerous.
I’m open to discussions, I like learning about different people and topics.
Also, I’m not a professional I simply learn about psychology in my free time. I want to understand myself (neurodivergent, trauma, etc.) and others better. Plus it’s just interesting LOL.
@@sakurahirawa Also people manipulating them might just honestly dont know the diffrence between a trans person and say a tomboy?
💯
I can remember when trying to coerce or bully people into having sex with someone they didn't want to was called rape.
So in other words the "fight against transphobia" is actually a fight to allow the trans community to rape whomever they want?
SA at the min
Not even a decade ago, to.
"You cant choose your sexual orientation!. . . Unless its a trans person."
"Sex and gender is different when convenient."
They gottabe trolling at this point smfh..
THIS
@@o.gparamount3099 they believe everything they say unfortunately
For them biological sex is a game. Soon they will change sexual attarction to gender attraction. If they haven't already.
I was hoping to find a comment like this!! I really hope things can be something like normal again.
You can't shame someone into attraction. Unless it's their kink.
agreed
Just wait until they tie you up in court for committing the "hate crime" of not finding them attractive.
Michael Scott: "I am a victim of a hate crime. Stanley knows what I'm talking about."
Stanley: "That's not what a hate crime is."
Michael Scott: "Well, I hated it, a lot, okay."
Apparently that's not a decision for you to make. You will be attracted to trans people and fat chicks, dammit! You have to be because they said so!
Basically they're claiming it's zoophobic if a CIS man won't have sex with a raccoon...whether it has a penis or a vagina.
*Kink shaming is my kink.*
Rough rule of thumb for anyone: if you have to accuse/guilt trip someone into dating you, you're probably not a hot item.
I've had that happen before when a girl and group of our friends tried to guilt trip me into dating her while she was almost 400 lbs. I don't like that and they tried to shame me. No thank you.
I don't mean to sound like a parent but those people are not your friends!
@@brandocalrissian3294 women: I want a men with his own house 2 cars makes at least $200,000 a week and has a body like Roman Reigns. Also if your under 6 feet don’t even approach me.
People: yassss queen get yo man.
Men: I want a nice women who’s not underage breathing is kind and compassionate.
People: ok ok.
Men :oh and she can’t be overweight.
People: how dare you.
Not say all women are like this.
I'm not a "cis" woman, i am a woman , and that " cis" term to me is a slur and deragotary to me.
FACTS!!
I loathe whoever was the first person to make that term common.
at this point i don't even want to be labelled as human anymore
@@xavierhouston4650it was first used in a German language book on sexology in 1914. The first time it was used with gender in mind was in 1994
I copied it
It makes sense when it’s used in the trans or cis context. But other than that I don’t really see a point in going out of your way to use it. It’s just a term to make things easier.
Sewing 6 arms to your chest doesn’t make you an octopus.
No but I'd date someone with 8 arms, at least it would be an upgrade.
@@melchiorlise2466 You know what... I'm going to disagree, I feel like 8 arms would get in each other's way. 8's a lot of arms and not a huge amount of space, or you would have to extend the chest as well.
My limit would be 4. Still twice as many. But they'd have a lot more space than 8 arms.
It’d make you shiva
No, it makes you a spider.
THAT is FUNNY!
They somehow gaslighted the world to think "Transphobia" is a bad thing.
All it tells me is that you are still normal.
TBH... In their world, it's not gaslighting. They actually believe it's a bad thing.
@@Trehlas They need better parents.
@@xavierhouston4650 They had parents?!?
@@Trehlas Somewhere in the world there is a coocoo bird looking for its eggs.
i must be a transphobe myself seing how as a women.....I want a man around my arms, not a women who became a man
that's like in this sense, would you rather have the game you've been waiting to get, or the fake bootleg that isn't exactly like the game you wanted at all.
....
the answer is clear
'No' is a complete sentence. You never have to justify, explain, or qualify your right to withhold consent.
Indeed. It doesn't matter what that person's reasons are, if they say they don't want to sleep with you then the only response you should give is "okay". Any other response is coercion at best and a grape attempt at worst.
You should be free to state why without judgement.
But never obligated to state your reasons, nor obligated to alter your answer to avoid accusations or persecution. @@JP-sx7fq
I'm straight, which means I'm naturally not going to be attracted to a guy, even if he's wearing lipstick. That's "normal". According to them, it's also "transphobic", which means they 're saying "It's normal to be transphobic." Well done, ya played yourself with these mental gymnastics.
As a bi man, I'm not attracted to something in-between either.
@Gr3nadgr3gory As a bi woman, I agree! 😂🎉
As a bi man, I'm not attracted to metal disorders
@@fillerbunnyninjashark271Sorry, but I had a vision of Rob Halford hitting a high C when I read metal disorder.
@@chrisgibson5267 auto correct got me and I didn't even notice 😆
No, it's called having a sexual orientation!!!
Fr, I love how they swear up and down that gender and sex are so extremely different, but they don’t differentiate when it’s convenient to them
Yeah, the LG side of their community really needs to pay attention to this as they are basically being accused of transphobia as well.
The left: not dating trans folks is transphobic
Me: aw shit here we go again
i love your profile picture
@@realteamwallthank you
Not all the left, just most of the ones under 25. And a few stupid one older ones. The rest of us are shaking are heads over them too.
its more the leftists and progressives than the liberals i think @@brianpratt3224
I was told that not dating black women is racist. I was then told dating black women is still racist because I must be fetishizing them. I'm pretty sure the same logic would go for trans people. You're damned if you do and damned if you don't.
How do they not know that dismissing sexual orientation as “genital preference” is *homophobic* like HOW DO THEY NOT SEE IT
Stonewall in the UK recently decided homosexuality is same gender attracted. It's a weird version of the horse shoe theory when a gay rights group becomes one of the most homophobic orgs in the UK.
@@ajikpajik9331Which is why you see new organizations forming in the UK which stand only for the lgb, a rebirth of old school gay rights community. As an American and a bi woman, I congratulate your gay community for showing the way and hope to see more of the same here. Not only is the trans agenda homophobic. Wearing womanface is a straight up hate crime, same as blackface. They've been silencing our gay voices for years. Time to speak more loudly...
Because they have no brains.
@@ajikpajik9331 lol 🤯🤯🤯
So wait... Using this logic. You can't have any preferences? So that means if you are Trans and you too don't date someone that is Trans then you are also Transphobic. But if a Trans dates a Trans person then they are either in a straight or gay/lesbian relationship. But that is a preference in of itself. So this means that no one can be in a relationship because any relationship would be a result of a preference...
Stop, bro, it's not worth the aneurysm trying to understand their illogical gobbledigook.
All relationships are based on preferences. Either looks or interests. Everyone has things they like and don't when it comes to a partner. These people are just insane and will die alone.
Their movement is turning into dam algebra and Im not the one. They got a million titles and pronouns and every day they crying about something new.
@@brandocalrissian3294 Yeah their logic is something that is beyond rational thought. Next thing they'll have issue with is if someone has a basic preference like being able to produce an offspring with someone.
See... they never get that far. They think so much about how to apply rules to others they never even consider rules applying to themselves. Never mind the fact they are in no position to make rules for anyone in the first place.
They are just mad that they're dating life is basically going to be non-existent because the guys they want don't want them.
The problem with a lot of trans women is that the still look like men. As a straight men I am by definition not attracted to people who look like men.
they can't even maintain relationships with each other but think they're gonna force the rest of us sane folks to join up with them?!
They want straight guys thinking they're exactly the same as the women straight guys want. Even when they get the surgery they think that solves it. No, it does not. It's just gross.
They're desperate using any tactic they can
You’d think they’d realize if I didn’t want you then you putting on a wig and wearing makeup isn’t gonna make me want you now.
Guess im phobic.
Yall aint bullying me into being down with dong
You won't be bullied into being gay. Neither will I.
@@IamtheFerryMan theses people are also disturbing telling gay/lesbian the same thing they are after homosexuality and heterosexuality the only two real sexual orientations.
There ya go. Just tell people you're dongphobic. You LOVE the trans community but sadly, you are dongphobic. You can barely stand to look at your own, and in fact, you hate it so much that you beat it up on occasion. You beat it til it leaks. You savage.
Come to think of it, maybe you're just too violent against dongs to be trusted around one...
Publicly shaming people for not wanting to date them just shows that they're insecure about their identities.
Nah, they just need more instances where they think they can claim the moral high ground. Every time they can call someone a phobe their self-worth increases tenfold
Maybe…I think it may also be manipulative and predatory. They want to remove your ability to say, “No”. To be honest, that’s what it is.
They demand the world accept them for who they are when they forget that they wouldn't even accept who they were. So yeah, there's that too.
As a woman I wouldn’t tell men they are some sort of phobic because they don’t want to date me because I am a 64 year old woman. I would simply think they aren’t attracted to me. Not rocket science. You cannot force sexual attraction that would a ridiculous stance to take, wouldn’t it?
Body positivity is great because I get to tell women they're phobic for not wanting to date my fat ass.
Oh wait. I forget "body positivity" is only for fat women.
Gilf?
These kinds of people love to force people to do things they don't want to do. So in their mind... Yes, they can force it.
Isn’t forcing anything sexual on someone kinda grapey?
@@xavierhouston4650 G-MILF is how I've seen it. And G-DILF for the male variety.
The word transphobic holds no weight in today's day in age
It never did.
I’m transphobic. I almost got crushed by Megatron and that event forever scarred me. Get them Cybertriggers off this planet.😢
It’s as heavy as a single piece of toilet paper.
Zero.
when did it ever have any real power
gotta love how the idea of consent goes out the window if you dare not consent to a trans person who wants you
Attraction is real, as is revulsion. Making all of these stupid "phobic" accusations simply destroys your entire argument. NO ONE is required or can BE required to find anyone else attractive.
Equating real women from the fake variety with different brands of bottled water is one of the stupidest arguments I've ever heard.
Seriously I like women but bald women and feminist disgust me to the point I would never find them attractive or want to imagine them in a sexual way.
Because there are actually people who have a favorite brand of bottled water and don't drink from every random bottle.😜
Really my comment was deleted already for only saying I don't find bald women and feminist attractive.
Th use of th different waters is stupid, the biological female is for the man like a juicy fruit, the trans woman like a fruit made of glass or plastic, sorry.
Also, trust me, even water purists would drink another bottle if it got that way, because you can actually get really sick and die if you don't drink anything.
Do I die if I don't sleep with a trooner? I think I will be just fine, thanks.
Wielding guilt as a mechanism to coerce people into sexual situations they're not comfortable with is incredibly rapey.
For people who don't want to be labelled, these mofos sure like to label stuff.
The goalposts never stop moving, that perceived 'fear or hatred' seems less and less irrational every day
And you can never do enough to satisfy them. There'll always be more you need to do in their eyes.
I think we have a word that describes forced sexual relations.
Struggle snuggle
I think we both know they don’t go by the same rules as us.
Tylenol PM is 2 words.......
Yeah, and it rhymes with “tape”.
@@BlueBubblesMelrose They are okay with this line of thought apparently because that word no longer exists in their community.
"Genital preferences are transphobic."
By that logic, straight women and gay men would also be misogynist.
No one should be judged for having preferences. It’s not about being hateful, it’s just natural. It’s quite horrible for someone to try and guilt someone else into dating another because otherwise, it’s -ist or obic.
It also implies someone not giving consent to someone else is immoral. It seems like it could justify some bad behavior.
It's not even a preference. It's a sexual orientation. Born-this-way. I'm not attracted to what I'm not attracted to. I literally cannot force myself to change. What in the world even is this, my god....
That evian/desani analogy was absolutely terrible.
@@brandocalrissian3294 Yeap... The discussion is about about having a vagina. Evian/Dasani both are water. Trans-women don't have vaginas.
Hell, even post-op transwomen have said that having sex with their faux-vagina is painful. So they're probably not even interested in vaginal sex.
They can judge me and call me every -phobe or -ist they want to! I'm not nor will I ever be into hairburger! Oh well
These lunatics were screeching about this same thing years ago, clearly they’re still firmly keeping the door shut on reality.
I’m absolutely fine being called transphobic now. It means I accept reality
The label bothers me as much as a sunny day.
@@Man-vs-Metal lol
I don't think the LGB (without the T) people ever label the straight people as homophobic when they had a preference
They don't. This is literally just a T thing.
GO figure. That's why so many people are onboard with the "LGB minus the T" concept. Because we are 100% cool with and supportive of the LGB. The T ruined it for themselves though.
Not to mention the original definition of phobic- to be scared of something was a funny comeback because of the implication that they were closet gay and actually angry at that repression.
This new definition just $hit all over that
that's because (to me at least) the LGB
1. didn't want to change gender 2. were just into the gender of the same
being trans to me, is a form of self hatred, that you hate the body you were in and just didn't like it and thinking if they change over their lives will be better when in reality it's worse because there are so many complications that doctors won't tell them.
for those who got full surgery the most "sexual thing" they can do is probably anal seeing how I don't think a gaping hole is going to feel good and a lot get gas pain because that hole was never supposed to be there along with a horrible smell.
the LGB didn't change gender, they just went for the same gender or for all genders
they didn't think twice "man I'm not a man, I'm a women inside."
and as a person whose a gal who grew up thinking actually to myself "I hate a lot of this girlie stuff, life would be easier as a man" at 15, turns out tomboy exists and when I found that out I was actually feeling more happier and self confident
these people hate their body and have no self confidence and think changing gender will make them love themselves. which I have yet to see any of them really love themselves.
Seriously, as many times as I got the "sorry, I'm straight" response from different guys, not a single one of those times did "BIGOT" cross my mind. Rejection is not the end of the world, and friends are still a thing.
Unfortunately, I've known a few who do. It's very cringe. I don't know if it's out of insecurity with their own sexuality or just being bitchy over rejection but I've seen it.
"She's homophobic!" Or, you know, maybe she's just straight? They would sometimes also frame it as someone being afraid to admit their own sexuality which is also a weird flex.
Im tired of all the shortphobic bigots myself
😂😂😂
You might have a case on your hands in the guilt-based economy.
Getting too many "You must be six foot tall to ride this ride" types, eh?
Next up:
Breathing and how its transphobic
You know Hitler was known to breathe.
@@andrewcanoy1708so did Stalin and Mao clearly breathing means you are a murderous dictator
Sorry that was last year. We're now trying to educate people that decaying and suffocation are transphobic to make sure good allies know that trying to hold their breath isn't enough to prove they are good allies
Actually, existing and having the ability to acknowledge your own existence are tools of istaphobazis.
So, why don't you tell the entire class why you LITERALLY commit genocide insurrection attacks of colonialism transphobia of racism?
I know it's sarcasm, but given the unalive statistics I wouldn't be surprised. "People should follow our example".
being born with a particular sexual orientation is not a phobia of anything. Imagine sinking so low as to take a moral pressure and put it on people to force them to have intimate relations with you. I do not want to sleep with you, that should be the end of conversation. Peer pressuring people into consent? Even sexual slavery doesn't try to pretend it's for the greater good. And these people claim they have a moral compass ?
that's why I don't take them seriously and it's even hard to stand by this group
even if a Christian myself, if you're 18 fine do what you want with your life. Be a lamp post for all I care
but don't drag people into your narratives, let people live their lives, and if you're unhappy with your life choices dont' go blaming it on others and calling them names because that literally destroys any argument they had because then they resort to voilence and name calling.
they're only proving people's point that most of these people have a mental illness that goes unchecked because the media wants them around.
then again if you have a mental illness you're easier to control.
She isn't even trans, she's doing this supposedly on their behalf🙄
We are not BORN with sexual preference. Children & babies are not sexual
@@1voiceCriesOut 1) You confuse sexual preference with sexual orientation. Being straight or gay has nothing to do with preference. An orientation is immutable, it is which sexual form you are naturally attracted to. A preference is a taste or choice. The former, all evidence points to it being inborn, or determined very early on in development. The latter is not applicable to which sex you are attracted to at all, and may only apply to bisexual individuals. You cannot force a straight man to other men physically in a sexual way. Neither can you force a gay man to like women physically in a sexual way. Sexual arousal is an involuntary neurohormonal response to stimuli, hence men need to learn to control their erections in public at a young age so as to not embarrass themselves.
2) That's like saying women aren't born with breasts and men aren't born with sperm. We are all born with the capacity to either make sperm and lactate, just not immediately. But the configuration of what you will become is already there prior to birth. Children already know they liked boys or girls as young as 3rd grade. They aren't sexually activated biologically, but the orientations are already extant. I knew my sexual orientation as young as 8 years old, even though I didn't know what sex was, I knew I liked boys romantically, girls only as friends.
I wouldn’t have counted myself as “transphobic,” back when I just generally was supportive of transsexuals who were just trying to live their lives.
But now, I apparently am “transphobic” because all that’s needed to be so is to have so much as one point of disagreement with the Gender Jihadis and the Transmissionaries.
🙄
The next thing they'll say is eating & sleeping is transphobic lmao
They already attached racism to sleeping so why not? 🙄
@@toodlescae Same with Math, being on time, working hard, having morals, and putting in any effort towards anything whatsoever.
These people are just hedonism, laziness, entitlement, jealousy, narcissism, privilege, and stupidity incarnate.
Rather, they're 3rd wave incels.
@@toodlescae8 hours of sleep is a white supreme ideal
Working out is to
@@cliffordfernandez3524 don't forget being punctual
@@megsley Along with having manners and common courtesy.
As a brotha who doesn’t care about genitals no it’s not transphobic. People who think like that have messed up thinking and are trying to force their agenda on others 🤷🏽♂️
Basically they're claiming it's zoophobic if a CIS man won't have sex with a raccoon...whether it has a penis or a vagina.
Exactly. They act like a penis and a vagina are Exactly the same. No, they certainly are not. I've seen trans people say that if you don't bottom for them, it's sexual assault. This stuff is seriously out of hand.
All started, because a sexologist forced a sex change on two little boys and took sexual pictures.
@@xavierhouston4650I remember that. The twin brothers right? Such a sad story, both ended up “unaliving” themselves. Smh.
@@kaymillerfromTX Yep.
Ok, let me see if i understand this. By the definitions I've seen, to want to date any gender is pansexual. If having preferences is transphobic they want everyone to be pansexual? Therefore eliminating all other sexualities. Am i understanding this correctly?
Yes. and it's why the LG&B's are talking about the LGB without the T movement.
@@rickc-arelsii6276 As they should! I never understood how the LGB's were put together with the T's. LGB's are your preferences and the T's are how you feel about yourself. Never made sense to me. The T's have seemed to hijack the LGB's movement.
There’s this one trans activist Veronica Ivy(formerly Rachel McKinnon) who said pansexuality is the only moral sexual orientation because it doesn’t exclude anyone. These loons truly believe you should be open to dating any and everyone.
They did hijack our movement. They ejected and banned us for wrong think, same as you. If you think they hate you, they really hate us for "being different too" and still saying they're insane and we're not dtf. The label pansexual is one they introduced in order to denigrate bisexuality and replace it with this concept. Embracing the term pansexual is biphobic. As a bi woman, please stop. Wanting to bang trans isn't an orientation. It is a preference.
My sexuality is not dependant on other people's opinions.
"(insert quote) is transphobic" is just translation for, "I'm just ugly and I'm sick of not being picked."
What those activists said boils down to "they can lay with whoever they want but the other person doesn't get a say in it." In other words, the target of their lust doesn't get to say no, opt-out or decline... Do they not realize they are literally advocating for sexual coercion and threatening defamation of character as a means to enforce it? There's a word for that, and it rhymes with grape...
Getting closer and closer everyday to, not being gay is homophobic😂😂😂
Actually, Leon, it's worse than you think. They call it a "genital preference" because they don't like people saying that you're rejecting a whole sex class.
Like, I'm homosexual, and I have no interest in females regardless of how they look. If gender identity was enough, anyone who called themselves "a man" would have a right to be taken seriously as a sex partner for me. That's not fair to me since it's far more than gender for me. If I say "oh, you just have to pass well enough," then that puts pressure on them to meet some arbitrary expectation and it's not fair to them.
My solution? I reject anyone who is female under any circumstances. I think a trans man can certainly have some experience of manhood and grow into the concept, but the men I love are more like me. Natural men who grew and matured into the identity. It's human, it's ancient, and it just happens to not be inclusive of the opposite sex.
It's fair.
like the man sang, "ain't nothing like the real thing, baby!"
I'm a straight guy. I'm not attracted to trans women because many of them still look like men to me. As I'm straight, I'm not attracted to people who look like men. Another problem is that a lot of trans women don't _act_ like women either. They might as well be men in make-up.
The fact of the matter is that if someone is obviously trans I instinctively don't think of them actually being that gender. Tranwomen can call themselves women all they want but if their transness is obvious I'll treat them like men. That's not because I'm consciously attempting to be rude either. It's just the way my brain is wired.
it's crazy that leftists who consider themselves "progressives" and " lgbt allies" are spouting the same conversion therapy talking points as the most ragingly homophobic religious conservatives
That's because a lot of the T's are trying to erase us. They want everyone to be pansexual. Them demanding that gay men date trans men or lesbians date trans women is literal homophobia. We are same sex attracted. A trans person is NOT the same sex.
So, you're super gay? I can dig it. Myself, I'm super straight. Be you.
If surgery can fix a psychological condition, then you can call a psychiatrist if your appendix bursts and that will also work. Right?
There are options for “straight “, “bi” and “gay for a reason, what your man there is saying is “I really wish the whole world was bi”. Kind of creepy
This is why I don't support trans or Bi, homosexuality and heterosexuality are both under attack from all this abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz cult.
I'd love to know a bi persons thoughts of dating someone who mutilated their privates
well more like pan because they don't mind who they are with
I think even bisexuals may have a preference towards this but I guess I wouldn't know since I'm straight and apparently transphobic lol.
@@savageratentertainment there's no such thing as pan, it's LGB and S everything else is a cult and a big lie.
@@savageratentertainmentThere’s a survey that was released in 2019 about trans exclusion in dating. 47% of bisexuals/pansexuals in the survey said they would not date a trans person.
weird how quickly we went from # metoo to "sleep me with me or youre a bigot!!1" 🤔
bro I can't believe anyone lets these weirdos boss them around and shape their reality
Exactly 😂
Preference? You mean my sexuality????
I thought we been stopped shaming people for that.
Coercing and gaslighting people into unwanted sexual acts is SA.
If I was dating someone and knew ahead of time that they couldn't have children, I probably wouldn't date them. This argument of theirs is really dumb cause it isn't mildly comparable to dating someone trans.
Back in high school I asked a girl out and she said she was a lesbian and wasn’t attracted to men I said oh well and went about my day.
Why can’t they do the same?
I might "identify" as a chicken, but I still ain't gonna be laying any eggs.
I don’t get why people who believe in love being love and that you can’t change someone’s preferences are trying to convince people to like something they don’t like and that there a bad person for not liking something.
Because the rules are for us, not them
there is nothing wrong with having a prefer'd dating preference. It's only wrong if you're into young kids or think it's okay to force people into making them like something they're not into.
Urine and Disanni are both mostly water so they are the same thing, right?
Another day of being happily single while the world of dating rots to mush
I can't believe that this is even a thing
"Trans women are women!"
Then why do you feel the need to put the prefix "trans"?
"Um..."
Because you subconsciously know there is a large enough difference between men playing dress up and women to add that prefix to differentiate the two.
What a world. These people are arguing I have to date or be attracted to people the way they want. And why do they want it? To get validation from strangers.
With supposedly having such a close and tight-knit community, you'd think they'd have absolutely zero issues just dating each other. Talk about having a shared life experience to bond over, right? But that's not what they want.
They want a "real" man or woman to date them. Why? Because it's validating. Why do they need validation? Because they don't even believe themselves.
Why would I believe anything these people have to say when they can't even take themselves seriously?
I wouldn't even know what phobic I am, I just don't want someone that has the same body parts that I have
Even if we ignore the whole preferences thing, calling someone transphobic just because they don't want to sleep with a trans person is at its core a flawed argument. For example I love my friends dearly, I care about them and would do almost anything for them. Does that mean I want to sleep with them? No. Does the fact that I don't want to sleep with them invalidate my love for them? No, it just explains why they are my friends and not my lovers. Loving and caring for someone and wanting to date and/or sleep with them are two very different things.
Well-said
"We just want to get married."
Now I think it's time time to roll back every concession made to this demonic force.
Agreed, give an inch and they’ll demand miles and miles.
You realize LGBs hate this movement as well, right? TQ+ latched on like a parasite because they don't want their own thing going; they want to destroy what other people have. Lesbian spaces have been closed down as a result. Dating apps are plagued with coomerbrains shaming anyone who won't bow down to their kink. When people just trying to live life complain, they get censored by big tech. Or worse, the police don't show up. At least gay men have been able to (mostly) successfully shame trans people out of their spaces with little backlash.
Yup they’re pure evil
Especially the Ts n their communist masters trying to influence little children
Ironically you are forcing people to do what they don't want, classic religious zealots
@@masterkni666 The latest religion is woke authoritarianism...complete with tenets and disciples.
But when it comes to them, they can have preferences without it being a phobic, right? 🤦🏾♀️
This is one of the reasons why even the LGB community has problems with the T. Especially lesbians get called transphobic all the time and some have even been banned from dating apps for clarifying in their profiles that they don't want to date trans women. It's complete madness.
Manipulating and shaming someone into “dating” you is a form of coercive control.
They've been saying that garbage for years now. If someone doesn't want your junk, whether it's in tact or inverted or whatever, get over it and move on.
Don't you love how they think they can lecture the world into compliance? Like all that shaming is actually going to accomplish anything. 🙄
Making a statement & saying, "You're welcome" after doesn't make it true!! Liking who you like is perfectly fine & there is nothing phobic about it!! Dying of thirst is not the same as picking a life partner &trying to make that correlation is really telling about how far you're willing to go to shame people for having their own PERSONAL PREFERENCES!! Posting reactions to people not agreeing with your every word is a HUGE RED FLAG!!
To all the women in those videos shaming men for not wanting to date a trans - when are you going to date that broke, overweight guy at the office who's asked you out 10 times but you recoil in disgust when you think of touching him!! Sounds like you're a bit phobic now doesn't it?? But you wanna call it a preference when it suits you!!
Sorry to all of those that feel shame & bully tactics are the way to win over allies but it's not going to work!! If you truly just want to be "treated like everyone else" start acting like everyone else & that starts with not screaming & yelling when you get misgendered by someone who doesn't know anything about you - like the random waiter/waitress or delivery driver or cashier bcuz acting like that screams "I deserve to be treated better than everyone bcuz I'm different & you all need to know it, learn all about it & live by it or I'm going to ruin everyone's day!" Not winning anyone with that kind of behavior!!
Thank you Leon for helping spread the word of SANITY!!
You killed it dude!
Yeah. I don't have a genital preference. Preference implies you like both but you like one a little more than other.
what you described was both pan and bisexual lol
When Ginuwine was called transphobic cause he didn't wanna kiss a "transwoman" I accepted the fact that I'm transphobic too and moved on with my life. 🤷🏾♂️🤣
So that one would prefer if we consider them non human? Because that’s what I heard.
And as a Martian I’m finding him very alien phobic! The idea that I would lay eggs in him is pure phobia.
"My TikTok, my rules..."
Can I laugh pentatonically in Chinese😂?
That part had me cackling. I couldn’t believe my ears. Keep thinking you can go through life controlling everyone’s language and outlook, she will need to make TikTok’s arguing about it the rest of her life
Why do they care about MY preference.
I can’t weigh in on theirs but fk me for having an opinion lol
Could'a swore dating and courtship in general were discriminatory by their very nature... Welp, guess I'm a träπsphobe^100 now.
You know what kind of person tries to guilt people into an intimate relationship? A manipulative predätor.
did they really just compare women and transwoman to water? Like I know they want to say both are women and both are water so it makes sense but they seem to be entirely NOT on the same page that most people still view on of those options as having NUTS and they're allergic.
“The majority of the time, our preferences are rooted in something problematic.”
Yeah. Sure.
The crazy part is that the "trans" crowd has their preferences due to actual problematic issues such as: p0rn consumption, easy access to surgery and drugs, echo chambers, the desperate need for validation, etc...
Them not respecting boundaries is problematic 😂
You know, ive already seen arguments that "sex is a social construct." This train got no brakes.
i swear those are unwanted people who wants to force people to like them . how dare they not like MEEE. make them like MEEE
Isn't coercing people into coitus, r*pe?
Whether it be physical force, gaslighting, guilt tripping ng, or through manipulation -- it's all r*pe, right?
If these people get *any* success eith these talking points or beliefs, I would have questions as to the other participants' consent.
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Wait. They seem to be talking specifically about people wio say they see transgender people as their desired gender but won't date them. So the argument here is that they are hypocrites, but I thought we were now obligated to see them as their desired gender ?
So, if a trans-woman doesn't want to date trans-men, wouldn't that make them transphobic too? Hmmm?
This shit makes me roll me eyes every time it pops up. To put it in terms they'll better understand; Just because I prefer waffles over pancakes doesn't mean I have a deep-seated hatred of pancakes or my preference for waffles is some problematic trauma response. It means I fucking prefer waffles!
It's hilarious how they think "transphobic" is a huge insult. Call me transphobic...see if i care.😂
Reminder; its sexuality not genderality. Its based on sex, not gender
Your "tell me how" made my mind try to create an abrifgment of Bye Bye Bye 😂
The analogy with the waters is just terribly bad. There's just no comparison between choosing a drink and choosing an intimate act with another person.
This creepy tactic of trying to guilt people into sex needs to be mocked until it goes away.
Leon hit the nail on the head once again. I am forced to wonder how many of these outspoken trans people turn down others due to preference?
It's funny how that changed. All those many decades, it was all about "you can't choose who you're attracted to!". And now it suddenly became "you CAN choose who you're attracted to! If you're attracted to women but someone who's clearly a man stands in front of you, you must feel attraction as soon as that person says he's a woman!"
Anyone else sick of the term problematic?
Yall do not even engage them by calling it "genital preference". Its literally our sexuality and what parts we're attracted to. genital preference is weird af and not a term regular people use. Honestly baffled Leon even went along with the term "genital preference" lmao like wtf even is that.
So is it homophobic if you aren't attracted to the same sex amd dont want to date or get sexually involved with someone of the same sex when you are straight?
"What do you mean, people can say 'no' to dating me!? That's bigotry!" They can go cry a river. 🙄
Trans Privilege is alive in America just like Black Privilege is alive in America they have something in common Reparations 🙄
Apples and oranges please don’t compare that bs to black people and there is no such thing as black privilege
It's called gaslighting. Also, you should thank people for being obvious about a relationship that won't work, rather than pretending totally would, then down the line they say nah, sorry, can't. I mean, which is more embarrassing/hurtful? A straight-up no early on or getting to bed and your partner has to have their eyes closed or ends up saying you don't turn me on? You will be happier with a partner who wants you 😑
So by that logic, not wanting to date outside your race makes you racist, not wanting to date someone in a wheelchair makes you ableist, not wanting to date an older person makes you ageist. The list goes on. Just date who you want and don't be ashamed of your preferences.
Coercing someone into dating a person they're not attracted to sound kinda grapey to me.
These people are just bitter that most "cis" people won't date them. Oh, well. Too bad.
*all “cis” people
ironic isn't it? When thinking about it they don't seem to date other trans people even though they have their own little group and you'd think them wanting to be with other trans wold also bring forth bonding experience to want to be with one another especially if they claim and are claiming that trans are also the real deal of both men and women
BUUUT don't actually date other trans people and go after these "cist" real men and women as if they're trying to validate themselves because they don't believe in themselves so if they can score a natural man and women it validates them being the same
so when the real thing rejects them it's transphobic
bt if they don't date other trans they're not?
something is fishy and it ain't just the gaping hole that they put themselves in.
Genital preference isn't a thing. It's called a sexual orientation.