Why Foreign Women Struggle Dating In Korea

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  • @uhmmdina5196
    @uhmmdina5196 Před rokem +1334

    I’m Dinara and I’m from Uzbekistan!

    • @tinalowen6166
      @tinalowen6166 Před rokem +50

      I thought that you could speak Russian. I can read it from your face expression. Right?

    • @Comebackherein2050
      @Comebackherein2050 Před rokem

      Ты по национальности узбечка?

    • @uhmmdina5196
      @uhmmdina5196 Před rokem +85

      @@tinalowen6166 I do, in fact, speak Russian fluently

    • @peculliar
      @peculliar Před rokem +37

      заметила по твоему акценту. вообще шикарный английский, но тот шикарный английский, который бывает у русскоязычных. имя, конечно же, да и общий вайб. вообще интересно, как тебя воспринимают? понимаю, что черты лица всё же отличаются, но бывает такое, что принимают за местную?

    • @PapaDikpill
      @PapaDikpill Před rokem +25

      I have a feeling you'll go far in life.

  • @BelanceM
    @BelanceM Před rokem +830

    You chose such great people to interview. It was diverse not just culturally but with their options and how how outspoken they were. That was cool. Hope you stayed in contact with them. They genuinely seem like cool people.

    • @BLMacab
      @BLMacab Před rokem

      This man is going to turn a third of korea Mixed in 1 decade and im finna join the party tho i likem 55-67

    • @gorgioarmanioso151
      @gorgioarmanioso151 Před rokem

      @@BLMacab he is charming ahahah

    • @BLMacab
      @BLMacab Před rokem

      @@gorgioarmanioso151 hes really chill and dresses sharp and im guessing hes not ignorant american like me

  • @calen56
    @calen56 Před rokem +507

    I think this interview is trying to be realistic for the ppl who actually want to live in or stay for long in Korea. As Korean, I don't think it's disrespectful maybe it's honest bc it's comes from their personal experiences. Someone who wants to live in this country, it's better to be prepared for the worst rather than living up with too unrealistic expectations. Besides, there is always ups and down in every culture and every country. So I don't think they need to sugarcoat it. You are doing great, K Explorer

    • @Fartsquad_
      @Fartsquad_ Před rokem +9

      But also when I went to Korea During the summer, I’ve noticed a lot of the foreigner girls that are there date Korean boys by dating apps or speak of experiences with them in clubs. And then they generalize all Korean men to be the same as the people that they meet through dating apps or clubs. I find that strange. I live in the US, I don’t try to meet men through those sources because they’re usually only looking for one thing

    • @AndreasViking1
      @AndreasViking1 Před 9 měsíci +3

      Of course it’s not disrespectful to condemn and expose horrible behaviour.
      "About 8 in 10 Korean men said they had used violence against romantic partners. According to a study conducted by the Korean Institute of Criminology, 1,593 of 2,000 Korean men, or 79.7 percent, said they had abused a girlfriend while they were dating."
      "About 71 percent of those who admitted to a history of dating abuse said they had control over their girlfriends' personal activities, such as restricting them from meeting friends or keeping them isolated from others, including family members."

    • @user-mr5yw7mx4g
      @user-mr5yw7mx4g Před 6 měsíci +2

      ​@@AndreasViking1이건 거짓말임.. 도대체 왜이런 악의적인 소문을 내는지모르겠네..

    • @user-mr5yw7mx4g
      @user-mr5yw7mx4g Před 6 měsíci

      모든나라는 다완벽하지않음. 그렇지만 이채널은 부정적인것에 초점을 맞춘 채널임.
      왜냐면 부정적 편견울 깔고있는 질문을 함. 유도심문할때 쓰는 수법임.
      부정적인것을 일반화하는건 좋지않음.
      반대로 장미빛 환상을 갖는것도 좋은게 아니듯..
      중요한건 시간을두고 천천히 직접 겪어보지않으면 알수없음.
      그리고 한국에서도 사람을 사귈때 클럽이나 헌팅보다는
      믿을만한 사람한테 소개받거나 보통은 주변에서 찾음.
      외국인들상대로 호기심에 또는 가벼운마음으로 접근하는 사람들은 어디에나 조심해야함.

  • @user-he9nk2ys4r
    @user-he9nk2ys4r Před rokem +653

    As a Korean, I hope you guys will meet good people As you guys know not everyone in Korea is like that but there are some idiots and weirdos I think idiots and weirdos are everywhere all over the world so I just hope you guys meet good people here

    • @ishyameru6232
      @ishyameru6232 Před rokem +81

      I agree as a black american. It's unfair for anyone to be stereotyped due to what an idiot does.

    • @cesars267
      @cesars267 Před rokem +5

      One thing is for sure , Korean girls are the most beautiful, I give you that!!

    • @maya_jones3411
      @maya_jones3411 Před rokem +82

      @@cesars267 The vast majority of humans are average, so most Korean women (and men) are average looking just like most people in the world. Beautiful people exist in all countries, there’s no place with ‘the most beautiful’ people.

    • @MichelleLeeSWEKR
      @MichelleLeeSWEKR Před rokem +39

      I agree! My bf is Korean and he is the sweetest person I've ever met and he showed me he was really serious about us from the start so there was never any doubt about that for me :)

    • @larizoclack1541
      @larizoclack1541 Před rokem +2

      @@maya_jones3411 Yeah

  • @Riaaonline
    @Riaaonline Před rokem +1761

    If I were to go to Korea, dating would be the last thing on my mind. Save myself from getting played, fetishized overall traumatized

    • @bear6726
      @bear6726 Před rokem +1

      You haven't been there and have no experience yet you think all men in Korea will play and fetishize you?

    • @tamaryra
      @tamaryra Před rokem +217

      I plan to go there just for education and business opportunities. Idk how people travel from afar searching for their k-pop star lover ?? lmaoo 😬

    • @migukin7492
      @migukin7492 Před rokem +20

      HAhahaha yeah right. Why you come to korean then?

    • @Riaaonline
      @Riaaonline Před rokem +267

      @@migukin7492 I like the culture, food, the scenery and I plan on studying there. Not everyone goes there for the men or kpop😌

    • @NoRockinMansLand
      @NoRockinMansLand Před rokem +73

      Someone that respects themselves demands respect👌🏾

  • @vjthomas2288
    @vjthomas2288 Před rokem +179

    Off topic but I’m so impressed by the last two ladies and their Korean level after a short time. And what?? Self study and that good. I need to get more textbooks and get cracking on the language skills but anyway it’s always so amazing to see foreigners speaking Korean. In America so many different nationalities speak English so it’s so cool to see different nationalities speaking Korean

    • @sensimania
      @sensimania Před rokem +3

      Textbooks wont cut it. The best way to learn a language is to fully immerse yourself. So it helps to be in the country of the language you're learning e.g. get out there and speak with the locals.

  • @user-px5xe1zb5f
    @user-px5xe1zb5f Před rokem +504

    As a Korean man, I recommend foreign women not to meet a man in clubs.
    The foreign women who complain about their ex-boyfriend mostly meet the boy in clubs🤣
    To be quite honest, unlike western countries, good men tend not to go to clubs.. Most Koreans consider clubs as the place to find FWB not as the place for dancing😂
    It's a cultural difference.

    • @user-on8qo6rs5c
      @user-on8qo6rs5c Před rokem +2

      Nah it's the exact same in western countries. Western women just get shocked because they think the korean men will be different based off of fantasy for korean drama.

    • @NoRockinMansLand
      @NoRockinMansLand Před rokem +183

      To be honest even in the west good men dont usually go to clubs, but women still foolishly expect to find something in clubs and tinder which were both made for hookups

    • @lisag.2665
      @lisag.2665 Před rokem +53

      @@NoRockinMansLand Agreed. I feel like that's fairly common anywhere. Thus many times younger crowds.

    • @katlegosibara3317
      @katlegosibara3317 Před rokem +21

      Society think that clubs is where its at smh and people need to wake up. Have some respect for themselves for a relationship standpoint in all honesty

    • @sssssssss111
      @sssssssss111 Před rokem +28

      You’re absolutely right. Women in clubs are looking for fun as well, but passport bros go there to look for submissive wives. If you’re serious just live life and let relationships flow naturally

  • @Neekoolos
    @Neekoolos Před rokem +658

    I've lived in Korea for 10 years, and from my observations, most of my foreign female friends/colleges have found successful Korean relationships/marriage through language exchanges, hobbyist groups (like a tennis club, hiking club, art classes etc.) , or blind dates. The foreign dating apps or clubs/bars are were you find the d-bag Korean boys hehe. If you use the Korean dating apps you'll will find guys looking for serious relationships more often I have been told.

    • @user-xj5ig9yy2v
      @user-xj5ig9yy2v Před rokem +82

      Unfortunately, lots of foreign women will ignore your comments to continue to find boyfriends from clubs.

    • @noinstein7041
      @noinstein7041 Před rokem +62

      @@user-xj5ig9yy2v ㄹㅇ클럽에서 진지한만남을생각하는것자체가 웃기긴함ㅋㅋ

    • @celestialasmr9624
      @celestialasmr9624 Před rokem +24

      ​@@noinstein7041 that actually happens very commonly in the UK!

    • @novaacta8340
      @novaacta8340 Před rokem +15

      Dating in Korea is the same as in other countries. Also, a man's position is the same as a woman's position. Just as a woman chooses a man and breaks up if she doesn't like him, so can a man. It is weird that foreign women want Korean men to be always faithful to them and treat them like princesses. That is illogical and unfair. Just stop complaining, girls, and rather do your best to win a man's love, just like a man does to a woman to win her love.

    • @jaded4me
      @jaded4me Před rokem +8

      hongdae club boys r so scary pls. when i went to study, i saw my foreigner friends fall victim left and right. my condolences to all of those girls. also warning to all of the girls who go pls be aware 😭

  • @4mydearlady
    @4mydearlady Před rokem +57

    With rare exception, night clubs and Tinder are not great places to meet men who want a meaningful committed relationship.

    • @lijoon.
      @lijoon. Před rokem +2

      👍👍

    • @focabox5594
      @focabox5594 Před rokem +5

      That's life overall everywhere. More people in general does not want commitment, including women

    • @doujinflip
      @doujinflip Před 8 měsíci

      ⁠Modern capitalism creates an environment that values flexibility over loyalty. The most ideal and thus well paid workers are single and childless who can be called to anywhere with the least amount of personal disruption and protest, and that mode for getting our paycheck has infiltrated into modern culture.

    • @ImaBrown-kd5nl
      @ImaBrown-kd5nl Před 6 dny

      Yeah in any capacity, in any country

  • @legobatman8811
    @legobatman8811 Před rokem +81

    Bro is never lacking with the fits🔥🔥😂

  • @Hi_Im_Jie
    @Hi_Im_Jie Před rokem +13

    Great topic, KExplorer! I find your videos insightful and adds a different perspective/dimension of what South Korea is/can be. It's so important to hear the experiences from different folks to get a better picture. Cheers!

  • @miaka123ify
    @miaka123ify Před rokem +124

    If u want to date a Korean man or a Chinese one, I suggest being direct, honest and frank and also saying what u want. Like my experience is clear communication and direct answers normally things go well. I remember when I date the first thing I make clear was that their parents need to speak English or at least be able to accept I am not Asian, and I need to visit their family too ( wich I did and we broke up for different reasons). About hookup I think is a problem everywhere and most times men left me as soon as say I don want to fuck, never get a problm.

    • @clown6507
      @clown6507 Před rokem +28

      You should also try to speak their parents' language if you want clear communication.

    • @bubblygirlduddett3
      @bubblygirlduddett3 Před rokem +12

      I think people date nowadays because they want hookup. Back then when i was single i stately make it clear that i am a serious dater, don't want to sleep around and i want something to last. If that is not your objective then let's cut this short and good luck

    • @tsun_ah
      @tsun_ah Před rokem +3

      If I've gotta choose among East Asians, I'd choose to date a Japanese. For me, Korean guys are too active and outgoing. And I don't know much about Chinese guys so. But I've heard Japanese men are so respectful well of course that depends on people as well.

    • @af4362
      @af4362 Před rokem

      @@bubblygirlduddett3 you're a woman???

    • @bubblygirlduddett3
      @bubblygirlduddett3 Před rokem

      @@af4362 lol yes

  • @jalfredprufrock620
    @jalfredprufrock620 Před rokem +33

    Lot of these answers sound like young people navigating the dating world in general, rather than being experiences specific to Korea.

  • @emylix3
    @emylix3 Před 9 měsíci +4

    Really calming to watch your interviews. You're super respectful and complimentary with the people you interview with as well.

  • @humanconnectionflores
    @humanconnectionflores Před rokem +78

    My goodness,being a young Adult in today's world seems exhausting.

    • @udontevenwannaknowbruv
      @udontevenwannaknowbruv Před rokem +9

      It really is. I don’t like to go out or go on dating apps, I’m also not a fan of hookup culture. But it seems like these are the only options nowadays to get into a relationship. And then there are people saying that you don’t get into a serious relationship from meeting in a club or on dating apps. I haven’t had a boyfriend in my 24 years and the few men that were interested in me were bluntly making it apparent that they were only interested in a hook up. I don’t know at what point hooking up with strangers, friends, colleagues, basically anyone, became so normalised. It’s nearly impossible to meet someone who’s dating with the intention of marriage and not for fun or just out of loneliness

    • @HellonihaoJohnnyHola
      @HellonihaoJohnnyHola Před rokem +1

      @@udontevenwannaknowbruv fr

    • @nessparadis6948
      @nessparadis6948 Před rokem +7

      It’s so exhausting 😂

    • @maxvrolijk1751
      @maxvrolijk1751 Před rokem

      @@udontevenwannaknowbruv this goes opposite too though, most people both male and female are just looking for hookups around 19 to 25. and the girls have so many options that they dont really care to put in effort and try for a long lasting relationship because when shit gets hard they can just move ships. like people are not perfect back in the day u had a fight u would fix it and then look on how to work together and grow together. nowadays most girls just ghost if they lose interest or 1 thing is said that they dislike

    • @moniquewrites9046
      @moniquewrites9046 Před rokem

      Yep

  • @lolacarolina
    @lolacarolina Před rokem +28

    I don't understand why people go to foreign countries like Korea to go through these uncomfortable situations.

    • @user-mo2mg1yz9f
      @user-mo2mg1yz9f Před rokem +10

      I can say why ppl come to Korea only to dating Lol toomuch expectation of kpop

    • @gonzaloetse29
      @gonzaloetse29 Před 11 měsíci

      Might want to travel a bit to find out

    • @fayseverin2305
      @fayseverin2305 Před 7 měsíci

      Me too.

    • @ori5581
      @ori5581 Před měsícem

      ​@@user-mo2mg1yz9fsome people think korea as disney land

  • @raquelfigueroa5539
    @raquelfigueroa5539 Před rokem +132

    Every where in the world I think, foreigners women are treated as a summer love, holiday day love something that won’t last. But only from Koreans I have heard this “Open minded” when referring to foreign women.or “I will like to experience dating a foreigner”. I was born in Dominican Republic and lived there until the age of eight and I remember as a teen going on holiday to Dominican Republic, to visit family. Teens like me thought that because I live in the USA I was easy. I think we need to show them, it’s not the case. Not all foreigners are careless about respecting themselves. It shouldn’t be like that, but we don’t live in a perfect world. The media keep showing the world stereotypes about different people in the world.
    Thank you for your videos. Hopefully we all learn to value and respect people regardless of our cultures differences and educate each other.

    • @magnolia2
      @magnolia2 Před rokem +9

      Beautifully said!

    • @olives9303
      @olives9303 Před rokem

      "not all foreigners are careless in respecting themself" so because a girl sleeps with a man she has no respect for herself? pls get out of here

    • @user-on8qo6rs5c
      @user-on8qo6rs5c Před rokem +3

      @@olives9303... you dont have to think of it like that but other ppl can think of it how they like. And yes most korean women do not sleep on the first date so if a bunch of foreign women come here and sleep with these men on the first date they will be thought of as easy period...

    • @olives9303
      @olives9303 Před rokem +4

      @@user-on8qo6rs5c and where does respecting urself as a woman come into this?

    • @user-on8qo6rs5c
      @user-on8qo6rs5c Před rokem +1

      @@olives9303 ... I never said it does. You can respect yourself while other people lose respect for you. Just like anyone can respect themselves for anything even if everyone else doesn't

  • @espressoq5696
    @espressoq5696 Před rokem +408

    All my friends who dated Korean guys before were so traumatized by their ghosting, no one mentioned how mama's boy they are. It's like if you date a Korean guy, you're dating his whole family, especially his mum, sometimes makes you feel like you're a third wheel in between his mum and him, anybody with me on this page? ( Please don't let anyone steals you from your parents, stay with them forever! 👌 Problem solved. End of the story.Happy ending👏🏻)

    • @bear6726
      @bear6726 Před rokem +33

      How you get traumatized by that? If i date a girl really like i don't see any problem spending time with her family..whats wrong with that?

    • @espressoq5696
      @espressoq5696 Před rokem +88

      @@bear6726 I assume that you are a male, so what if you can't go anywhere without her dad and she always put her family first? Will you still enjoy it?

    • @bear6726
      @bear6726 Před rokem +46

      @@espressoq5696 you people compare Korea to some lala land there everything is perfect that is not fair..let's compare it with other countries.

    • @marzy1027
      @marzy1027 Před rokem +29

      They have a similar behavior of italian men, both are mama's boy ahah 🤷🏻 but i dont know If Is negative or positive 🤔

    • @ko-Daegu
      @ko-Daegu Před rokem +1

      dude going on 10+ dates and 15 days that's your issue you are after f boys who want to sleep with you and that’s it
      when you cheapen yourself this is what happens

  • @baeyonce
    @baeyonce Před rokem +91

    I just randomly watched your videos. I’m so impressed that your korean level! your way to talk is very kind,warm and perfect honorific. I literally surprised!!!! good job bruv. I’m so happy you’re staying in korea and trying to show a real korea to all around the world. keep it up man. I’m rooting for you!

  • @9y2bgy
    @9y2bgy Před rokem +42

    Dinara has almost no accent at all when she speaks Korean. Her manner of speaking follows the rhythm and tone of young Korean women, so it sounds almost native to my ear. Chachi speaks very good Korean with very little accent for the limited way she spoke in this video. I think she's humble about her ability in Korean. That's a very Korean thing in itself!

  • @joshdubline3593
    @joshdubline3593 Před rokem +113

    Living in London as a Korean and seeing all those 'Good Korea' videos on CZcams, I came to a point where this type of video should be more publicly exposed. On the other hand, even though I agree that there is a statistical tendency on what girls in this video described about Korean men, I have to say people are prejudiced anywhere in this world. Even here in the UK, there are girls who only meet Asians or black guys, and I cannot judge their preferences even though I don't like them to like me because I am Korean. At some point, I erased my own prejudice and embraced them as they were since my view was unsustainable. I know it is hard not to have a general opinion after some experiences, but there are people who can be real for you whether you meet them online or not. Being part of a different society requires immense dedication. Give a bit of space to embrace it and sight without your cultural lens. When the time comes that you return or visit your home country again, you will be able to see your own culture and people in a different way.

    • @ceemy8879
      @ceemy8879 Před rokem

      So...want to go out for dinner?

    • @AndreasViking1
      @AndreasViking1 Před 9 měsíci +3

      "About 8 in 10 Korean men said they had used violence against romantic partners. According to a study conducted by the Korean Institute of Criminology, 1,593 of 2,000 Korean men, or 79.7 percent, said they had abused a girlfriend while they were dating."
      "About 71 percent of those who admitted to a history of dating abuse said they had control over their girlfriends' personal activities, such as restricting them from meeting friends or keeping them isolated from others, including family members."

  • @eehhh3791
    @eehhh3791 Před rokem +3

    This guy is pretty cool like he got swag and his voice is smooth. He interview really honest people! Your a cool dude man!!!

  • @dhl900
    @dhl900 Před rokem +43

    As a Korean, i hope foreigners in Korea have a good time and meet nice Korean friends while living here. 🙏

    • @LMLification
      @LMLification Před 10 měsíci +1

      Although I moved to Japan after Korea, I will say that I still have fond memories and friends despite the numerous challenges.

  • @abena8339
    @abena8339 Před rokem +14

    Love this video. It’s nice to hear foreign women’s thoughts on dating in Korea with interesting questions

  • @Jassy555
    @Jassy555 Před rokem +69

    Thank you for another wonderful video!!! I hope you keep making videos like these because they really do help someone like me who is from America wanting to go to Korea someday to have a better idea of how I should be thinking and not really have so many high expectations when it comes to dating there and what to watch out for and remember.

    • @horseface3725
      @horseface3725 Před rokem +10

      Samee, I live in America and hope to at least travel to Korea one day. His videos are the best!

    • @BearingMySeoul
      @BearingMySeoul Před rokem +11

      I would second what the girl said about not meeting online in Korea. It's bad enough being foreign with the perception that you're not going to stay in Korea but online gives another layer of distance where the men can "play" freely without it getting back to their social circles. IF you're interested in something serious, date a classmate or someone you meet through a hobby.

    • @Jassy555
      @Jassy555 Před rokem +4

      @@BearingMySeoul I will definitely make sure to do that when I get there someday. Thank you and I agree as well.

  • @bokamoso_seloana
    @bokamoso_seloana Před rokem +5

    So much chemistry between K and D😭😭❤️

  • @Anastasia.the.1st
    @Anastasia.the.1st Před rokem +244

    I'm moving to Seoul soon. And almost everywhere in the world foreign women are treated like that. Hopefully, I will be able to navigate South Korea with caution. Thank you so much your videos are helpful to me!

    • @KExplorer
      @KExplorer  Před rokem +33

      Best of luck!

    • @pam3122
      @pam3122 Před rokem +19

      Please speak Korean and make friends. Don't walk alone at night

    • @pam3122
      @pam3122 Před rokem +3

      @@Encjwjdnfbejwks really. It's really not safe any where

    • @EBZ-bx7zc
      @EBZ-bx7zc Před rokem

      Try dating in America. The guy will make you pay for dinner and sleep with you for less than 20 minutes and throw you out into the lobby. And if you get pregnant good luck with that. American guys brag about their body count. Oh she is my number 240. It's like a competition. I don't think that's the case in Korea... If anyone here is complaining about daring in Korea then you won't last 2 seconds in America or even the UK or France with the dating scene. All the guys are sexist. Sleezy. Very disrespectful and catcall and grope your breasts on the streets. That's the western way. Woman are lining up outside Walgreens pharmacy or planned Parenthood to get an abortion pill or an abortion because the dudes get the girls pregnant and run away. That's how bad it is here

    • @Ytpremium5389
      @Ytpremium5389 Před rokem +9

      Just don't get ran through by a bunch Korean dudes

  • @seasurf5801
    @seasurf5801 Před rokem +2

    Thanks for leaving their instagrams

  • @patriciajackson6285
    @patriciajackson6285 Před rokem +63

    If foreign men and women are thinking of dating Korean men or women, it is best to ask UPFRONT how do their parents or families feel about Koreans dating foreigners. If you do this process of elimination you can easily avoid a lot of unwanted attention, or the ones just looking for easiness from foreigners. Lay it on the line with the potential suitor first as to how their parents or families will feel. This is why majority of Koreans will not take foreigners serious, because their parents/families will disapprove of this type dating/relationships. Be wise and not used.

  • @FelThommy
    @FelThommy Před rokem +18

    Great interview, dating here in Asia is quite different 😅

  • @juluz1729
    @juluz1729 Před rokem +10

    It is not just about Korean men. Tinder? Clubs? Bars? Should lower the expectation no matter which country.

    • @ori5581
      @ori5581 Před měsícem

      Some foreigner expect korea as disney land...and they are disappointed soon

  • @ChantelStays
    @ChantelStays Před rokem

    I love that you do these interviews...

  • @brynnamarshall4944
    @brynnamarshall4944 Před rokem +40

    Love is love. Whether if a person is Korean or any other nationality, if it's real, it will happen

    • @Minimini-hm8zg
      @Minimini-hm8zg Před rokem +5

      I agree. regardless of nationality

    • @user-ly8vw3ej3v
      @user-ly8vw3ej3v Před 10 měsíci

      Любовь-это розовые сопли. Какая чушь. Вам 13 лет?

  • @jihojio2118
    @jihojio2118 Před rokem +2

    첫 인터뷰하신 분 넘 이쁜거 아니에요?

  • @Chanelnumber7394
    @Chanelnumber7394 Před rokem

    Such a great video very informative 😊

  • @user-qh1ww5zd8h
    @user-qh1ww5zd8h Před 7 měsíci +2

    Динара так хорошо владеет языками, что меня очень вдохновило стараться ещё усерднее!😍 А ещё она красотка! Все девушки в этом видео красотки, загляденье! И интервьюер тоже конечно красавчик! 😊❤️

  • @krazykrush
    @krazykrush Před rokem +7

    Wonder how many girls go to korea thinking most guys are like the ones from kdramas

  • @cesars267
    @cesars267 Před rokem +25

    Hi K, your interviews get better and better, always a topic that concerns us all, especially dating in Korea for foreigners. Regards

  • @AlexandraStubbs
    @AlexandraStubbs Před rokem +1

    Great video, all the answers and people’s experiences are interesting.

    • @KExplorer
      @KExplorer  Před rokem +1

      Glad you enjoyed it!

    • @AlexandraStubbs
      @AlexandraStubbs Před rokem +1

      @@KExplorer
      Yes thank you! I hope you have a wonderful 2023!

  • @Shammer1
    @Shammer1 Před rokem +28

    Sis when was tinder ever for real relationships

    • @no.6377
      @no.6377 Před rokem +3

      Never! Like, I'm saying- why are people treating tinder like a dating app now??😂😂

    • @valorie444
      @valorie444 Před rokem

      neverrrr it's why ive never downloaded a dating app lol

    • @sailorxin
      @sailorxin Před rokem

      I actually found my current long-term boyfriend through Tinder😅 It’s not impossible you know… I live in the Netherlands though

    • @_CL
      @_CL Před 7 měsíci

      my friend is currently dating someone she met through Tinder, it's also her first relationship

    • @michaelwatson9089
      @michaelwatson9089 Před 9 dny

      It depends on the person that uses it. If I use tinder with the mindset of finding a potential match for a long term and that match is on the same wave length, then it served what I was looking for. Granted the model is geared towards more of a hookup culture type of app because they make more money if you don't succeed or if you are constantly hooking up.

  • @rebeccaliew2247
    @rebeccaliew2247 Před rokem +15

    I don't know when I'll go to Korea, but in Japan, a lot of similar thinking is adopted by the Japanese when it comes to dating foreigners - I've lived in Japan for 3 years to know that.

  • @SaePyon22
    @SaePyon22 Před rokem +1

    The Interviewer looks so handsome and well dressed. Also the questions askes where really interesting.

  • @NikkiWallace-qn4cp
    @NikkiWallace-qn4cp Před 6 měsíci

    The second young lady that wore a cap has a very good point on online dating! She mentioned that people who may be looking for a serious committed relationship that would use it ; It's NOT the Best way to meet someone . It always Best to meet them personally for yourself whether that is on a job ,college (high school ,an outing or family gathering with a friend or relative that would introduce you to them

  • @Sscottyoutube
    @Sscottyoutube Před 2 měsíci

    5:45 . As a Korean who has a lot of East Asian / American / European friends THIS IS SO TRUE Thanks girl we appreciate we have you here 💛

  • @LMLification
    @LMLification Před 10 měsíci +7

    As someone who has lived abroad for 11 years now, with 4 of them in Korea, I attest to a lot of what these women are saying. The worst is when the man is actually married and has a whole family in another province all while stringing you along.

  • @user-rj5tx3zc8w
    @user-rj5tx3zc8w Před rokem +1

    Dinara is a beast, she has such an excellent english and korean.

  • @nnoir
    @nnoir Před rokem +20

    Yo K Explorer would you be open to making a video about yourself? All your videos are awesome but what's even more awesome is the person behind them which makes me curious about your background.

  • @rahla53
    @rahla53 Před rokem

    Great questions!

  • @ejwowiing
    @ejwowiing Před 8 měsíci

    Good looking out, my guy

  • @lembartaisyhaqaismarha8708

    I think if i go to korea. As a hijabi i would just not straight off be friends or date with korean first but i will find some people the same race and religion as mine and be roommates and stuff, and then jumped off to find some korean people to be friends with just so I don’t get moody and breakdown when i’m making this kind of process and it’ll be hard :)

  • @peacelife
    @peacelife Před rokem +8

    Saw this for 2nd time and prob the best video regarding to dating Korean men. Great selection of ladies with diff experiences, and great opinions. You also has a great way of interviewing that gave your interviewee a peace of mind. Made me want to learn Korean now. I agreed with the student. Not all but majority of Korean tend to think Korea is #1 or #2 in Asia. The other region get look down in. The countries that she named are correct bec of mail order bride. My family actually got told to our faces. There are racist and other among the race too unfortunately. 😔

  • @stefheathcote6123
    @stefheathcote6123 Před rokem +7

    I actually enjoyed the video!
    To take a far end rejection - Koreans would not shout or spit on you because you are foreigner, but they will ignore you hard - no eye contact or if there is one is blank. In my experience they are equally dozes curious and uncomfortable.
    For Breaching this gap both parties have to want to and to find a way. And many people just don’t want to..part of human nature I guess!

  • @seferino
    @seferino Před rokem +1

    Great interviewer.👍 very professional and enjoyable. ✌️✌️✌️✌️

  • @CarloscbPereira
    @CarloscbPereira Před rokem +8

    I'm studying English now, and your videos are very helpful thanks for putting subtitles

  • @ohajijoiner4301
    @ohajijoiner4301 Před rokem +9

    cheap is not a word that cross my mind when it comes to any woman , I wouldn’t allow myself to be okay with feeling that way as far as my outlook on them

    • @k15469
      @k15469 Před rokem

      한국여성들도 과거에는 똑같은 경험을 많이 겪었습니다. 가난했던 나라였을때 한국여성들은 외국 남자를 동경했습니다. 특히, 대부분의 아시아에서는 백인남성을 선망했죠
      과거 주한 미군들이 애기만 낳고 본국으로 돌아가버리는 일이 엄청 많이 있었습니다. 그리고 외국인 남성들이 자신들을 동경하는 한국여성들을 꼬셔서 야한영상을 만들거나, 한국여자들은 쉽다, 싸다는 영상들을 만들기도 했고, 뉴스에도 종종 나왔죠.
      국가 경제력. 그리고 여성들이 외국남성에게 가지는 지나친 환상 + 그것을 이용해서 잠자리를 가지려는 남자. = 끔찍한 경험... 이 기본 공식은 세계 어디에나 존재합니다.
      지금은 한국이 조금은 발전했고, 여성들도 경제력이 향상되면서 과거보다 외국남자에 가지던 기대치가 줄어든 거죠.
      kpop과 드라마를 보고 환상을 갖는 어리석은 짓은..... 과거에 헐리웃과 빌보드에 매료되어 서양남을 찬양했던 한국여성들과 같은 현상입니다

  • @linojvni2038
    @linojvni2038 Před rokem

    the fit goes crazy

  • @jiminswriter4209
    @jiminswriter4209 Před rokem +5

    6:16 Korean men do not see Eastern Asian women as cheap. Eastern Asian women are Korean, Japanese, Chinese, etc.

  • @1k1ngst0n
    @1k1ngst0n Před rokem +7

    the comment about family influencing marriage would be the same for a Korean man dating in a foreign country such as Iraq, Iran, Turkey, India, etc. I'm also not sure that Tinder is the best way to find someone to marry in Korea for a foreigner.

  • @exoizlyfe6079
    @exoizlyfe6079 Před rokem

    3:07 APPROACH SOUNDED SO CUTE

  • @brokengirl8619
    @brokengirl8619 Před 8 měsíci +2

    There is a lot of channels on CZcams of foreign women and Asian Korean husbands, and they usually met on dating apps.

  • @jasminesmith5357
    @jasminesmith5357 Před rokem +1

    Was this filmed in hongdae?

  • @ayuj
    @ayuj Před rokem +1

    Woah!! This was new to me.

  • @tujiwara9216
    @tujiwara9216 Před rokem +5

    That french girl story was hers, not for a friend of her. And she was devastated!

  • @Minimini-hm8zg
    @Minimini-hm8zg Před rokem +9

    Don't look for love in the clubs.
    I’m Korean.

  • @TimoRoseNDFilms
    @TimoRoseNDFilms Před rokem +6

    Your videos are an inspiration to my channel keep up the good work.

  • @1970rsc
    @1970rsc Před 11 měsíci +8

    Foreign girls, especially those who don’t speak Korean, are hard to take seriously as long term partners because it seems like they are only in Korea temporarily. What guy wants to spend the time/effort to build a long term relationship if at the end, the girl is just going to get sick of the “Korea boo” trend and ship back home?

  • @luw5244
    @luw5244 Před rokem +15

    Going to Korea with dating the very last thing on my mind, lol.

  • @cest_what
    @cest_what Před 7 měsíci +2

    Are many girls going to Korea just to date and find a husband so they can live there with a visa? Maybe that's not the best reason for moving into a foreign country. Differences in cultures should be considered before going there. Why all the complaining, if they're disappointed with the people and their culture, when it's not what they expected/wanted and isn't the same as their home country's culture?! Every country/culture is different and is under no obligation to change themselves to fit foreigner's expectations and preferences.

    • @ori5581
      @ori5581 Před měsícem +1

      Because they think korea as disney land...

  • @SUTAWORLDWIDE
    @SUTAWORLDWIDE Před rokem

    Where did you do your braids bro ?

  • @jiniqeee
    @jiniqeee Před rokem

    9:05 Her intonation is 👍 perfect.

  • @caritomei7798
    @caritomei7798 Před rokem

    4:39 I have seen this sooo much, not only myself but also friends of mine… They are so secretive about their life because they have a gf already

  • @jung4296
    @jung4296 Před rokem

    Yea is here wow!!

  • @suinjapan
    @suinjapan Před rokem +7

    Great video. The last girl killed it with her Korean ahaha

  • @mbalinhlapo5577
    @mbalinhlapo5577 Před rokem

    I'm learning

  • @sheetalshanbhag9798
    @sheetalshanbhag9798 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I see lot of videos which talk about dating. Is it really necessary to date if u are in the country for some work or study etc...

  • @franklins3360
    @franklins3360 Před rokem +2

    You should do some night out videos at clubs and bars etc

  • @nofxkidssss
    @nofxkidssss Před rokem

    A la Française dan le clip! I feel your pain. Suis Franco Anglais et franchement même à l’ouest j’ai eu des problèmes similaires. Courage!

  • @emiliasztybor1494
    @emiliasztybor1494 Před 8 měsíci +1

    If I’m listening something in English it’s kinda nice to stick to the language and not suddenly switch to questions in Korean. Not gonna run towards the screen to just read subtitles

  • @user-bd9uo8dw3j
    @user-bd9uo8dw3j Před rokem +2

    Dating is difficult everywhere! 😂

  • @user-kb2sd2fu5l
    @user-kb2sd2fu5l Před 3 měsíci

    that's so shame , so sorry for you guys get that feeling

  • @CeceliaS69
    @CeceliaS69 Před 11 měsíci +5

    My two cents after working and living there--have high standards but very low expectations. The men in Korea were not socialized to treat women well. There is a lot of misogyny and sexism going on so be careful out there.

  • @speakeasy911
    @speakeasy911 Před rokem +5

    One thing they all said is that they think foreign women are "easy."

  • @nylorij-Lori
    @nylorij-Lori Před rokem

    What was meant by the term “white horse”?

  • @larissabulgarelli9557
    @larissabulgarelli9557 Před rokem +1

    0:10 meu deusss, que incrível, não acredito que ela apareceu! Amo acompanhar a Andressa

  • @parrtysuz87
    @parrtysuz87 Před rokem +2

    It’s everywhere like that )))

  • @jessiicc
    @jessiicc Před rokem

    What was the white horse thing about??

  • @wangxian5473
    @wangxian5473 Před rokem +12

    YOUR INTERVIEWS ARE SO GOOD. ALSO are you half Korean? Kinda wanna know your story why are you in Korea

    • @KExplorer
      @KExplorer  Před rokem +7

      Glad you enjoy the vids, i’ll be making a Q&A special real soon!

    • @GlobalRevolution4All
      @GlobalRevolution4All Před rokem

      Yeah I agree. I enjoy your interviews and am impressed by your Korean. Keep up the interesting content.

  • @Aaaa-km8hv
    @Aaaa-km8hv Před rokem +3

    I am curious about that Asian girl who is fluently in both English and Korean, where exactly does she come from? My guess would be somewhere around Southeast Asia.

    • @totochanel2251
      @totochanel2251 Před rokem

      She mentioned in video she’s from Central Asia. In fact she’s from Uzbekistan.

  • @hristiyankunev2032
    @hristiyankunev2032 Před rokem

    The girl in 2:50 looks like Ana de Armas, beautiful woman, and looks so naturally!!!

  • @armorbearer9702
    @armorbearer9702 Před rokem +5

    (4:55) This is a huge dating risk in any asian country. You never know if the person you are dating's family is ok with foreigners.

  • @GlobalRevolution4All
    @GlobalRevolution4All Před rokem +1

    Where is the Asian girl from? One girl was from America. And one was from Brazil. And one, I think, was French. The other I have no idea

  • @lok267
    @lok267 Před rokem +13

    별개이지만, 한국에서 데이팅 앱을 통한 연애는 건강한 방식으로 간주되지 않습니다(건강한 사람들이 참여한다고 생각되지도 않는 것 같습니다). 다른 나라에서는 데이트 어플이 일반적인 일로 인식되는 곳도 있다는 통계를 봤어요

    • @lauragoreni3020
      @lauragoreni3020 Před rokem +3

      Not in all countries, not even all European countries. It depends. I agree dating apps aren't healthy, but I must say there have been many marriages of people who met through dating apps.

    • @glowgirl4180
      @glowgirl4180 Před 9 měsíci

      네, 이상하고 좋지 않은 어플리케이션입니다. 다운받은 적은 없지만 좋지 않다고 들었습니다.

    • @Sscottyoutube
      @Sscottyoutube Před 2 měsíci

      안에서 새는 바가지는 밖에서도 샌다고
      그런 사람들은 오프라인에서 우연히 만나도 이상한사람들입니다. 데이팅 앱을 쓰지말라는건 이해되지만 사용자가 늘어나는만큼 데이팅앱자체의 문화를 바꿔나가는게 더 바람직하겠죠

  • @Birkzu12
    @Birkzu12 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I feel like I got so lucky.. He wants to take things slow and just get to know me first and isn't clingy. Jiat normal amount of communication and if I want to do something by myself he's like "take care of yourself and enjoy, I'm here if you want to talk"... I got very lucky 😊

  • @ronyzelaya
    @ronyzelaya Před rokem +7

    I'm wondering where is Dinara, a country where you don't text? Where's that?

    • @migukin7492
      @migukin7492 Před rokem +11

      Probably Central Asia or possibly Asian Russian.

    • @ritassoul3516
      @ritassoul3516 Před rokem +6

      She only one who haven’t said the country so to protect her from hate 80% she is from Russia + some words she pronounced like a Russian speaking person.

    • @uhmmdina5196
      @uhmmdina5196 Před rokem +12

      I’m from Uzbekistan, and we don’t usually text there 😃

    • @hikialbertovich
      @hikialbertovich Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@uhmmdina5196im was pretty sure that you are from Kazakhstan or Kyrgyzstan, but didn’t expect that you are from Uzbekistan. Im so proud of you. Your English and Korean is so fluent and perfect. People like you motivates me so hard to improve.

    • @uhmmdina5196
      @uhmmdina5196 Před 8 měsíci

      @@hikialbertovich omg thank you so much for your kind words. This means the world to me

  • @peterwonaprize
    @peterwonaprize Před rokem +7

    3:22 what does “white horses” mean?

    • @seetosim9043
      @seetosim9043 Před rokem

      "백마" 하얀 말 말 그대로 백인여성을 창녀취급하며 부르는 저속한 말 입니다.
      정확한 어원은 모르지만 아마도 부산창녀촌에서 백인여성들과 흑인여성들이 접대부로 일하게 되면서 "백마(하얀 말)" "흑마(검은 말)"
      로 불리게 되었고 언젠가부터 러시아 백인여성들이 유흥가에 접대부로 전국적으로 많이 취업하던 때가 있었습니다.
      그때부터 아마도 "백마" 라는 단어가 널리 퍼지게 된 것 같네요

    • @NoRockinMansLand
      @NoRockinMansLand Před rokem +1

      Horses that are white

    • @user-gu3yn3ni3d
      @user-gu3yn3ni3d Před rokem

      It’s Korean men that looks for specially white women to hook up with and take pictures/videos. They sometimes or most of the time post in on websites so other men, who do the same, can see it. The same for black women is « black horses ». It’s pretty creepy.

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 Před rokem

    5:11 Good point.

  • @lillykim65351
    @lillykim65351 Před rokem +10

    People watch TOO MUCH KOREAN DRAMA THINKING THEY WILL FIND A "LALA LAND KOREAN MEN JUST LIKE IN KDRAMA" I'm korean and 💯 korean and when I see non korean talk about korea they think it's so "perfect" 🤣🤣 just like when I thought the USA is "perfect" place but no because I came back to reality

  • @saullandiof5768
    @saullandiof5768 Před rokem +1

    Dinara is awesome

  • @Voileen
    @Voileen Před 7 měsíci +2

    I lived in S.Korea for 3 years as a White/Jewish American in my mid 20s. I wasn’t interested in dating or finding a partner but I got involved in the underground kink scene and entered a bdsm relationship with a really sweet guy who was a sub. We did this for 8 months. It was a great time, we parted amicably and we are still friends today!

  • @Mindsetolympics
    @Mindsetolympics Před 7 měsíci

    Lol 1:23 she described me 😂 obsessed lol