Jayson Tatum: Hiding girlfriend’s pregnancy from the NBA, Celtics

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  • čas přidán 25. 10. 2022
  • Three-time NBA All-Star Jayson Tatum looks back on surprising pregnancy news from his high school girlfriend, shortly before he entered into the NBA Draft. Jayson remembers fearfully hiding the news, as he believed it might impact his draft stock. Plus, he shares the stories of first telling his then-Boston Celtics coach Brad Stevens the news, and calling his mom Brandy at 3 a.m. to let her in on the secret. Jayson says the birth of his son Deuce quickly shifted his perspective and he immediately decided “nothing else matters” beyond caring for his child.
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Komentáře • 141

  • @ethanp8381
    @ethanp8381 Před rokem +1262

    Change title to “Jayson Tatum: Embracing fatherhood” much more respectful

  • @andrewboudreau5279
    @andrewboudreau5279 Před rokem +390

    I can relate to Tatum here. Being a younger parent it’s terrifying to tell people but the second they’re born they are all that matters!

    • @RealMikeMiller13
      @RealMikeMiller13 Před rokem

      I hope you have life insurance my friend

    • @k.h.a.l.i.l.
      @k.h.a.l.i.l. Před rokem +1

      im confused by jayson's predicament though bc it's not like we expect athletes to be beacons of morality and family values 🤔

    • @k.h.a.l.i.l.
      @k.h.a.l.i.l. Před rokem +2

      i shouldn't have trusted the title which misrepresents what he said.

  • @shellyb.8387
    @shellyb.8387 Před rokem +212

    A 19 year old is going to be afraid. That's natural. He rose to the challenges of being a young dad. Looks like he could teach a few of the older dads some lessons

  • @RatedKwong1
    @RatedKwong1 Před rokem +164

    if money isnt an issue, a lot of worries and problems do go away. he clearly had the money and good supportive system to raise deuce.

  • @THEAnakanaSchofield
    @THEAnakanaSchofield Před rokem +164

    He was very lucky to have such a great ma himself. I feel for his son's mother. She was also young and probably terrified. Fair play to them all. He's a lovely boy, Deuce. The other video about his own father is pretty gut-wrenching. Parenting is so hit and miss. It's also really hard raising a child when you are poor. I hope he donates to the food bank.

    • @davidl8759
      @davidl8759 Před rokem

      yea it doesnt hurt to have an nba player get you pregnant if youre gonna get pregnant

    • @mengiequirante2460
      @mengiequirante2460 Před rokem +4

      @@davidl8759 you’re weird

  • @pdfbanana
    @pdfbanana Před rokem +322

    awful title. he was vulnerable with y'all, then y'all take it fully out of context in a way that frames him negatively & makes it seem like that's still his viewpoint
    edit: well at least they made it a little better

    • @ThePartarar
      @ThePartarar Před rokem +3

      I get the feeling Jayson don’t give a f 😊

    • @tim.noonan
      @tim.noonan Před rokem

      @@ThePartarar or, maybe he’s watching everything Graham and Co. do following the interview, to learn how his words are being twisted to suit someone else’s narrative. If I had as much money as he does, that’s what I’d be doing in this situation. I bet his next interview is much more locked down.

    • @ThePartarar
      @ThePartarar Před rokem

      @@tim.noonan maybe, but its seems like he just wanted to share his experiences, regardless of how people wanna skew them. Being scared about having a kid, crying in class, and when Kobe died… just a real dude.

    • @vineethgodavarti1252
      @vineethgodavarti1252 Před rokem +9

      What was the title before?

    • @ThePartarar
      @ThePartarar Před rokem +7

      @@vineethgodavarti1252 something about him not caring about Duece

  • @blackprix
    @blackprix Před rokem +57

    I think Jason was very grounded by his up bringing, obviously you can tell by his mom talking about who they were as a son and mom together. I can’t imagine it not being a big help to him that his own mother was 19 when she had him, and he’s showing what a good father is bottom line. I really enjoy watching the games and watching Jason but I also look for a deuce At the game and see the joy in him as a child and the joy he gives his dad, it’s all good

  • @mannydaprofit2869
    @mannydaprofit2869 Před rokem +64

    I understand Tatum for his decision gotta respect it. Much love Celtics fan ☘️🍀

  • @erikmessi10
    @erikmessi10 Před rokem +21

    On December 6th, 2017, Deuce Tatum was born..... that's same day, Jayson Tatum put up a double-double and got a W vs Dallas

  • @emceeloot3370
    @emceeloot3370 Před rokem +18

    Tatum Wanting Easier Love From His Pops.. You Can Tell Duece Is His GREATEST Blessing ..Bigger Than Basketball ‼️🖤🖤

  • @michaelperez9156
    @michaelperez9156 Před rokem +16

    title crazy

  • @daviddiaz2007
    @daviddiaz2007 Před rokem +8

    This is great 👌👍 how he handled the problem. And how it made him Mature. He is a great example ☺️ to be a Father 😊 and handles his business 🙂 as a Basketball Player. He will be MVP this year. I am looking forward as the season progresses to see him lead his team to a 18th title. I am very optimistic about this despite the Golden State 🎯 game 🎯

  • @nickj8521
    @nickj8521 Před rokem +3

    wild thinking of having a child a 19 years old. So young and so much growing up to do fast. Seems like he's doing great as a dad

  • @bubbagames6196
    @bubbagames6196 Před rokem +2

    This interview is awesome. I admire this young brother becaUs he seems so mature for his age. Ans now I know why. To have such a grounded mom and a good dad, he’ll be ok. So many young brothers do not have discipline but Jason definitely does. Great interview.

  • @user-cv4pe5qz1i
    @user-cv4pe5qz1i Před rokem +12

    Deuce is the cutest baby!

  • @yulnikita
    @yulnikita Před rokem +6

    He didn't even plan to miss a game..

  • @SplashyLaflare
    @SplashyLaflare Před rokem +7

    Media makes titles sound Awful.. you see this 💩

  • @JoshNova_
    @JoshNova_ Před rokem +19

    This title is out of context and distasteful

  • @rameshbcom7646
    @rameshbcom7646 Před rokem +6

    0:09 damn 💀💀

  • @italishgirl5601
    @italishgirl5601 Před rokem +3

    Boston adores Deuce!☘️❤️

  • @hottshvtt
    @hottshvtt Před rokem +14

    Expecting a little girl neck week this helped me🙏🏼

    • @d444nnyy
      @d444nnyy Před rokem +5

      i hope things go well for you brother

    • @esils
      @esils Před rokem

      Nah the bank account is still different 🤔

  • @muhammadissop7230
    @muhammadissop7230 Před rokem +7

    super glad celtics pick this man.

  • @timflint25
    @timflint25 Před rokem +5

    Graham has a long history of being a good dude. Let's give him the benefit of the doubt.

  • @jfunes7851
    @jfunes7851 Před 27 dny

    I love that Jason shared his story. A lot of young men should listen to his story can learn a lot from this and learning the importance of being a young parent and wanting to be his best for Duece is beautiful!! We should take bringing another life into this world as a privilege and to give it our best even if we didn’t have it. Nothing should mean more to you but your children but a lot of young parents don’t see it that way cause a lot of them are still in a selfish stage and that’s why I try educating them to slow down and don’t rush cause having a child takes a lot of sacrifice and if your not finically ready it can make it even more difficult. Thank you Jason for sharing your story!

  • @Moonroofmusik
    @Moonroofmusik Před rokem +1

    awesome

  • @toddhood9844
    @toddhood9844 Před rokem +1

    Why did the guy stop Jayson. I want to know Brad's reaction!!

  • @caytonhopson3200
    @caytonhopson3200 Před rokem +4

    Y’all are on about the title but it’s true?

  • @arturmeric7892
    @arturmeric7892 Před rokem +1

    Can anyone tell me whats tatums t shirt brand? Its dope

  • @Piddles1
    @Piddles1 Před 4 měsíci

    It’s weird hearing Tatums mom speak after seeing her and Duece at literally every Celtics home game

  • @timothymiller806
    @timothymiller806 Před rokem +1

    Love JT

  • @durr6923
    @durr6923 Před rokem +3

    Money bag is secured!

  • @ilsagutrune2372
    @ilsagutrune2372 Před rokem +16

    Insulting title

  • @eedjrew
    @eedjrew Před rokem

    Dope

  • @ashle9034
    @ashle9034 Před rokem +3

    W father W player

  • @sebaspsmith
    @sebaspsmith Před rokem +57

    The title is insensitive

    • @jessiecoastaliving
      @jessiecoastaliving Před rokem +2

      How? I’m curious

    • @natesbreaks4
      @natesbreaks4 Před rokem +1

      how? it’s true

    • @chrish2112
      @chrish2112 Před rokem +1

      Shut up, crybaby.

    • @LJ-hn6oz
      @LJ-hn6oz Před rokem +2

      I laughed when I saw this comment and thought “how soft is this world now”

    • @chrish2112
      @chrish2112 Před rokem +1

      @@LJ-hn6oz We live in a world filled with 5 year olds.

  • @FTTBoog_1016
    @FTTBoog_1016 Před rokem +24

    Title is terrible man.

  • @ordinary_deepfake
    @ordinary_deepfake Před rokem +64

    Can you change the title it's the truth but it's not nice

    • @ordinary_deepfake
      @ordinary_deepfake Před rokem +4

      Jt kept his child a secret from the Celtic's

    • @DocYAYAYA
      @DocYAYAYA Před rokem

      the world aint nice snowflake

    • @crunchmaneslice276
      @crunchmaneslice276 Před rokem +6

      How does that sound its the truth and can help the next young baller you crybabies kill me

    • @rulerzigzag
      @rulerzigzag Před rokem

      How? What's offensive about it?

    • @chrish2112
      @chrish2112 Před rokem +6

      The truth isn't always nice. Grow up.

  • @mengiequirante2460
    @mengiequirante2460 Před rokem +2

    His Mom 💗🥹

  • @tiffanyhwang1738
    @tiffanyhwang1738 Před rokem +1

    Nice title

  • @aviaforrester1481
    @aviaforrester1481 Před rokem +1

    hi

  • @user-ip3ym2sm5r
    @user-ip3ym2sm5r Před rokem +30

    Jayson your father not only liked you ..he loved you. As adults we have to remember that we do not know our parents 'back story '. Parents never really tell their children every thing about their upbringing. Somethings are better left unsaid. Sometimes parents mimick what was shown to them maybe your father only knew though love as a way of saying 'I love you'. That doesn't mean it was right it just means that's what he was taught. I am sure you father showed love towards you as best as he could. Never forget that. Always strive to be the change you want to see in the world. Keep this in mind..no matter how much of your upbringing you share with your children you will never tell them everything because some memories people mentally block out for one reason or another. I will tell you something that a wise person told me. 'Hold on to the good memories, and let the bad ones go". In time you will see that having inner peace is worth more than you could have ever imagined. While you will never be perfect you will always be a work in progress as a child of God. Your friend in Christ Jesus.

    • @MrNonsense101
      @MrNonsense101 Před rokem +4

      makes sense for a christian to rationalize daddy issues. bet the priests have the same advice for bad memories

    • @Its2ru
      @Its2ru Před rokem +6

      @@MrNonsense101 lol you really took the time to comment this nonsense

  • @justsomebody747
    @justsomebody747 Před rokem +10

    Just wondering how the girl he got pregnant was feeling too!

    • @alexchavez3868
      @alexchavez3868 Před rokem +5

      Happy, she secured the bag

    • @katiemcdermott300
      @katiemcdermott300 Před rokem +18

      She lives in Boston, owns her own hair salon, and is around deuce regularly! They’re both amazing parents

    • @esils
      @esils Před rokem

      Phew, poking that hole in that condom really worked 😅 mission complete 🫡

    • @esils
      @esils Před rokem

      @@katiemcdermott300 they better be…. Having money is the cheat code for raising a child 🤔

  • @jessewilliams1929
    @jessewilliams1929 Před rokem +4

    Having a child is just a blessing from GOD man. He deserves his praise 🙌🏾

  • @curtisgregory7767
    @curtisgregory7767 Před rokem +2

    To all young kids out there who dream of playing in the NBA, please read this…So, according to a new NBA test study/experiment, where they timed and measured movements, timing, speed, height, weight, and all offensive and defensive tangible “skill sets” of current D1, D2, g league, and nba players, he was among the average. Instead, it is his situational IQ, awareness, and mentality that separated him from the average and made him elite. Being 6’7” and 220lbs with handles and range doesn’t make you special, and if you do not understand the power of this study then you need to stay in school and/or find a mentor who does.

    • @yesimemoin0935
      @yesimemoin0935 Před rokem +1

      how are they measuring mentality in a research setting?

  • @renom2234
    @renom2234 Před rokem +16

    change the title clown!!

  • @ski8480
    @ski8480 Před rokem +27

    change the title bruh that shit insensitive asf

  • @goldbrick2563
    @goldbrick2563 Před rokem +3

    Why would teams care if he had a kid. Doesnt make sense

    • @chiapet101
      @chiapet101 Před rokem +12

      everyone would think that he wouldn't be focused on the game.. it's a scary thought when you're bound to get drafted and then they decide not to

    • @brianjuice
      @brianjuice Před rokem +4

      he was young, young people get freaked out about everything. realistically speaking, celtics couldn't give two shits if he had a kid, as long as he can ball.

    • @goldbrick2563
      @goldbrick2563 Před rokem

      @@chiapet101 nah a lot of these guys have kids in college or younger, it's not out of the ordinary. Nba doesnt care

    • @goldbrick2563
      @goldbrick2563 Před rokem

      @@brianjuice exactly, he def was irrational thinking they wld care abt tht

    • @esils
      @esils Před rokem +1

      @@goldbrick2563 you missed the point… yes it’s common but the issue is focus. Potential Baby mama drama could be a distraction for an elite athlete.

  • @BryanAlmighty
    @BryanAlmighty Před rokem

    Ya graham wtf

  • @esils
    @esils Před rokem +4

    But did the gf secretly get off birth control to cash in before he upgraded is the real question 🤔

  • @jalendashaun3352
    @jalendashaun3352 Před rokem

    yooooooooo

  • @AFRICATOAMERICAPODCAST

    Money 💰 is a bitch

  • @marielisvazquez5714
    @marielisvazquez5714 Před rokem +1

    Wow🥺🤍

  • @robertsweets2123
    @robertsweets2123 Před rokem

    Crazy how ass forget about jt 😕

  • @nach0561
    @nach0561 Před rokem

    Title screams “this N* right here didn’t want the ppl he work with to know he had unprotected sex… oh yeah he plays for the Celtics” oooo spicy

  • @robertsweets2123
    @robertsweets2123 Před rokem

    Dallas mavericks been kick that ass

  • @Simon_Sez
    @Simon_Sez Před rokem

    Goofball

  • @honestboi4481
    @honestboi4481 Před rokem +2

    This is stupid. If you weren't ready to be parents, whether you rich or not, don't risk it!

    • @christineryan6564
      @christineryan6564 Před rokem +21

      "Don't risk it" - he said it was the best thing in his life. Their love is special, this is a wonderful father/son relationship.

    • @treanderson6363
      @treanderson6363 Před rokem

      He said it himself.." he was selfish in the beginning"

    • @honestboi4481
      @honestboi4481 Před rokem

      Simple logic, If you f around, you will find out! Poor kid gonna find out in the future that his dad didn't want him at first that his career was more important than him, even though, yes he later realized how great having a kid is. But if you don't want to use the plastic wrap, you'd better be ready for the consequences!

    • @katiemcdermott300
      @katiemcdermott300 Před rokem

      Wtf? People make mistakes. I can tell you that deuce is not a mistake. He is the best thing that happened to Tatum. What if she was on birth control and it failed? Or the condom broke? She was his long time girl friend. People have sex. Mistakes happen. Protection is never 100%. Relax. You gonna start promoting abstinence in your comments now or have you just never been laid?

    • @honestboi4481
      @honestboi4481 Před rokem

      @@katiemcdermott300 so basically you are agreeing with me then.

  • @nothembajozi2862
    @nothembajozi2862 Před rokem +1

    Boston Celtics isn't winning a championship with Duece in the locker room. Get him a babysitter so you can focus on the games!

  • @albania329
    @albania329 Před rokem

    He doesn’t need to tell anyone weather his wife is pregnant or not! It’s his private life. People don’t need to know everything!

  • @truthistruth4186
    @truthistruth4186 Před rokem +8

    It's kind of funny because of how stupid it is. Dude should've kept that to himself tho. The league don't give a shit about kids. As long as you can score you have a job.

    • @rfmmike6096
      @rfmmike6096 Před rokem

      Facts but maybe he didn't know at a time

    • @katiemcdermott300
      @katiemcdermott300 Před rokem +4

      They’re going to take into consideration your priorities when you have a new born child. They both knew the risks and benefits lol.