What kind of Foreign women Japanese men would like to date?
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"treat yourself like you're a diamond" preach 🙌
I highly agree with that part about the right time to kiss a guy you've been dating. Where I'm from couples kiss at the end of their first date often, or some kiss after being together for only a few days. I always found that odd. I'd rather spend time getting to know a guy before deciding to be very romantic towards him.
Japanese man are actually sweet
Hahaha, The paying for food thing is really funny. 🤣 That was lit! 👌
Hey Santi 👋🏾 love your videos and I’d like your advice. I got to know a Japanese guy (he’s an international student in college) - we became close friends and I started to like him but I didn’t know if he felt the same way. So after a year and a half of him giving me mixed signals, he came back from japan and we hung out at my place, where he met my parents and he told me about his feelings. He also asked my parents for their blessing (something that is done in my culture - ask the parents for blessings before beginning to date) and we became a couple. We are now long distance. Communication is very important to me in a relationship and so I asked him to please try and communicate with me more but he doesn’t really like FaceTiming or calling on the phone (he didn’t tell me directly but I could tell) now he’s back in Japan and he does text me but takes hours or even sometimes days to reply. He also rarely likes my social media posts. I don’t know what he’s doing and it makes me sad cause sometimes I feel as though I’m not in a relationship. I was thinking of just being direct and telling him how I feel as his girlfriend but I don’t want to seem needy or annoying. Is this something that’s cultural? I’d love to hear your thoughts - Thank you ! 😊
Laylow chan,
Definitely👍 ill share you my thinking. caz I do understand him lol. give me one week. thx
Sweetheart please...don't gt me wrong okey... its hurt... To tell you this but he is not in to you, if he cares about you... Don't you think within 24hour he dnt even have a nano second to text u back or text or call you.... If he is missing you... he ll definitely manage time for u...it's not about work, everyone in this world they also work but they have time for thr love one...
I am not telling you to lv him but... Think b4 its to late... It's painful honey when you Love someone & he don't giv u sht.. 😊😊Darling you r a Star... I wish for you... U sud always b shine😘😘😘
they are busy everyday. making money is important to them if you dont have work here in japan you're poor here. work is life
Hi Santi. I’m an 25 yo Asian girl studying abroad. There’s a Japanese guy (he studied in us high school and university back to Japan) from our school that I really like from first sight. I messaged him on social media over winter break he replied nicely and reciprocally. However I only messaged him 2-3 times as I prefer to meet in person and didn’t want to disturb his break. In the new term, I ran into him a several times but I was quite shy as well. The good thing is that when I was trying to approach him I started to know people around him (mostly foreigners, there’s not much Japanese ppl in our school) and they are all quite nice to me. There was a night I talked with his social circle but only a few sentences to him cuz I was toooo shy. He hugged me when he had to go earlier (I noticed I’m the only person he hugged but probably I’m a new friend) He could socialise around people and is very charming (at least to me, that’s why he’s quite popular). I am mostly extrovert and popular but very shy, like a little girl, in front of him. We accidentally ran into each other again on the way to school, he hugged me. I kept talking to him on the way but he didn’t look into my eyes, at all. The next day I met him and his friends, I hugged him when I leave and he mentioned to have a coffee (as I owe him one). However as I texted him ask if he will be available he next day, he said he had an appointment but could make another day (but didn’t say when, so I just said sure). Then sometimes when we are in the same space, we don’t say hi, sometimes we hugged. It’s getting a bit strange. I don’t know if he likes me or hates me, or neither. I wanted to ask him for coffee again but worried that this will put pressure on him (as he didn’t say which day he will be available, I took it as a refusal. But it was him who brought it up). Now when we meet with people we can socialise nicely around, but I don’t know what he’s thinking about me. I watched through all your videos but don’t know what he is thinking. Sometimes I imagined myself being annoying always around him. I don’t mind that he doesn’t like me. However I only want to express my feelings to him when I know it’s not bothering him, as I don’t want to put any pressure on him. What should I do my dear Santi?
So how are things going between you two? I wanna know
You’re a sweet guy!! I wish most Japanese men had your way of thinking😍
Ruth san, ありがとうございます😌
This is very informative thank you
hi green,
im glad you like 😁👍
Helpful infos how to date a Japanese man , i'm really curious about Japanese men but the problem is i live in Europe. I'm learning Japanese ( self study) whenever i have free time since few months because i wanna visit Japan someday and maybe meet someone i like to date for real.
Sameee!! I'm also studying Japanese hopefully so I could go there and I've met a Japanese man online, about 27 year old, and we're both interested in each other and he's extremely wiseee!! But I'm seeing many videos that Most of the Japanese met cheat and this is getting me a bit scared
Just be yourself ( from the woman’s perspective ). Don’t pretend to be other than what you are. What the man sees is what he gets. This way you will really know if that person really likes you. As Santi would say, cut the BS. If you aren’t your normal self, it will ultimately come out in the relationship. So, be honest about who and what you are. It can save a lot of heartache in the long run. Effective, honest communication is the name of the game. No beating about the bush.
Wow your tips are so practical. I do understand the bathroom trick you do. Like, a friend (not Japanese) did that to me and my female friend when we were in the toilet so when we came back the food was already paid. At first we were like, how much was it, and offered to pay and he said it’s good, no worries. But we felt a little guilty because we have money, so we offered it again, then he said no again. But we pushed and paid for our share... Actually at this point it doesn’t matter if we really paid or not. It’s the thought that we wanted to pay was more important, because we don’t want to make our friend feel used. Pushing too much can also hurt the guy, I think. So 2-3 times to offer paying is OK. Then don’t make a fuss about it afterwards.
"...go to the cafe first, then lunch, third - dinner". That's a pretty meticulous schedule that is. 😂
taking notes here , thank u sir ♡
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Im a man and im not interested in this video HAHA but I love the effort. Hope this helps a lot of women. Good job man.
Forget it man. I learnt a lot. Reminding her that she can go to the bathroom because we are leaving soon is amazing.
Your idea about seeing if they have the intention to split the bill is great.
I really like your contents❤❤❤ MORE POWER.. ありがとうございます😄🌠✨🌟🌟
Hahaha, I like your video, straight to the point and fun. Very informative ✨
your videos are so awesome! 💞 really useful 😊 ありがとう
Thank you for the advice i learn a lot
This video is so funny… 😹😹😹 I laugh like mad in middle of night .
Let it flow 😂👍 that's legit
thanks for this
Awww that's good advice, Santi.
I usually pay for my own food, bc I don't like to depend on men.. But I wanna date a japanese man someday.. to see how they cope with me.. hope he understands me that I'm not like the person he expects me to be. Bc I dont like men buying me stuffs and treating me food.. hmn.. the kiss part for me. Is kinda normal if he wants to kiss me on the first date it's okay. But if he thinks I'm playing then thats his choice if he wanted to believe I'm easy and his choice if he wanted another date with me.. I'm not a player tho. I'm not a shy person, but if he's shy then maybe I'll consider the things that he doesn't want to do in public, like holding hands..and I'm not the type who chase men too..
What would a 19 years old Japanese boy think of dating a 21 years old? Is it weird to date an older girl in Japanese?
Hi Santi;]
I would like to ask about the 'thank you' after the meet/date. (I do understand that and appreciate it myself;))
I'm honest person that says what she thinks (no hurtful things, just being honest with my feelings;))) - so would me thanking the other person (face to face) for the time spent together at the end of the meeting or date would be seen as rude or crossing some boundaries?? (just curious;))
Why should I offer to pay when the guy is the one who invited me out for a date?
Hi Santi san, what does it mean when the guy wants to go to a cafe or izakaya right after the dinner?
I met this Japanese guy recently.
After having dinner and talking together in a restaurant for 2 hours, he asked me if I wanted to go to another izakaya or cafe with him to talk.
We talked for another 2 hours, so total 4 hours.
After that, he walked me to my bus stop and we said goodbye.
No hug, no kiss, just waved goodbye.
However, he never contacted me after that.
I am bloody confused!! If he did not like me, why did he want to go to another cafe with me? Why did he even walk me to the bus stop?
Confused!!
I wonder why even being tall can affect their aggressiveness 🤣I understand if they feel insecure because of low salary or position at work,for example,but a height is just a height)
Female height intimidates men!
Hey Santi, something recently came across my mind. If I get a work visa in Japan, can I bring my wife/kids with me? Or that only does apply if I have the passport?
Stefan Spasenic I’m not sure but most likely you can, since I saw opposite cases.
This is my first time dating a japanese guy (though i met 3 japanese guys already the 2 guys didn’t contacted me anymore after the 1st date and the other guy become my close friend) that continued, and we already have like 5 dates i think. We always update each other like everyday (but usually the morning or the evening only) and he’s so busy that we can’t meet up anymore.
And we’ve been talking for like 4 months already. I’m just confused if he’s really into me. I don’t know if we’re like in a relationship already? Do i have to ask? And I’m confused for the word 出合い, is it like we’re exclusively dating but not in relationship. I don’t know. Should i ask or should i wait for him to confess?
I replied in youtube live today :)
Thanks Santi
What's the precipitation of middle eastern \Arab women in Japan?
hmdy, I dont think they have idea about midle eastern women since there are not many here🤔
How about dating with the single Dad Japanese and I am also a single mom.
Love ur vids
😁👍
You’re So sweet! I really enjoyed your video, your smiles, advice..all!! And I promise I will pretend to pay if you invite me for dinner😅😅😁
I have a request: Make a video on what Covid-19 has been like in Japan. In the USA its a fricking MESS because we have people in charge of the country who couldn't LEAD their way over a blob of wet toilet paper. I would imagine that Japan has had much less of a problem with it then we have..
kabukiwookie san
Definitely👍 especially this morning Nobita has uploaded the topic. I should follow asap😁
Thanks for this information, anyway no plans of dating a Japanese man, I just want Japanese to be my friend
Let's say a language partner 😊
Have you tried looking on the app Hellotalk?
@@lifeisameme3885 not yet but okay I will try that, thanks
I hope i can meet a japanese men😊 Plz LORD
Amen
Amen.
Do japanese boys prefer half japanese girls?
Some do! 😁👍
I've a question, does japanese men like indian women ? I haven't seen much cases where japanese men date indian woman 🤔
Hi Parijat san, sure I will answer this tonight👍😌 cheers
@@japaneseman thank you 😮✨
A question I am wondering myself,,, did he answer it?
Hmmm interesting. American women do it alittle different... Haha!
You can say that again!
hahahaa...Relate much...I'm at my 20's he's at 30's haha...
You have a African accent in English
do Japanese boy hate girl who talks too much ???
How do you know if a Japanese guy is popular or not haha?
I always split the payment when the guy asks me out. But if the guy insists and already gestured his hands that he will pay then I will let him pay as I don't want to offend. No kiss of course. Old schoo/traditional personl here. 😅
i read from somewhere that japanese men prefer to pay for the ladies and it can be seen as rude if the lady insists on splitting the bill. --> quoted from the article "Male pride and wanting to look like a good provider means that they’re willing to put themselves through more financial hardship in a relationship, even if they don’t intend on marrying their partner."
You're not old school/traditional if you just admitted "I always split the payment when a guy asks me out." Nope. You're either traditional or you're modern, and clearly you're very modern.
@@lilygeranium7281 I've read this too and it's very much appreciated by me. The middle eastern men are this way too. I LOVE this about those types of men because it gains my respect for them immediately.
@@irinaivanovic9792 nope、I dont do sex when a guy ask me out or date me. I set expectation before going into date. I dont want a guy to see me as gold digger. I have my own money. But of course、I respect a guy if he insist to pay because other culture will be seen it as rudeness if you wont allow them to pay. Not a big deal. If he wants to pay. But having sex or kissing while on a date is not my thing. The guy must know that. I guess women have different preferences. So respect is needed.
@@lilygeranium7281 yes、exactly、I have a Japanese friend so I am aware of it. 😊 He told me that.
What if you're too aggressive for guys?
Can I date you?
Oh that too much to do, i thought Love it's just happen...its a magical feelings,bonding... its not about money.. Its about feelings man.. Where is damm feelings???..i think you people frgot the essence of Love 😍...
l ll nevr ever date japanes guy... I was thinking of dating you😂😂 but now am off 😂😂Lol
Oh NO! lol