ANTI-MAINSTREAM Confidence Hacks... (Become Unstoppable)
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Julien Blanc (AKA JulienHimself) is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based self-help speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach.
Since 2010, he has been traveling around the world and has personally coached tens of thousands of clients face to face... Empowering them to create massive success in their lives!
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ANTI-MAINSTREAM Confidence Hacks... (Become Unstoppable)
How to be confident in any situation! In this video, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) reveals how to stop caring about what others think about you... This will allow you to feel confident and be confident in any social situation!
Discover how to be confident in any social situation, how to be confident around people and how to be grounded during social interactions!
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It's funny how anxiety makes you feel like you so different from others when you're not all that special
true literally the reality
TFW you are to some extent. People stare at me so much, literally bending necks and what not, and when I was in America I got complimented non-stop by random ppl.
Though here ppl just stare a f-ton. It used to amp up my anxiety so much but at this point I realized 90% ppl just stare like NPCs so it's whatever at this point. Even if I am hideous or hot it doesn't matter if the result is just some weird NPC stare, lmao. The remaining 10% varies between threats to a lot of praise, but seems ppl aren't as negative anymore thankfully, which helps.
As to why ppl stare, idk tbh, I am not special I feel but I guess either seeing an androgynous girl is a shock to many ppl, or when I am cute, I go full on kawaii and have tons of colors and a cool wig etc which is something super rare where I live, like sub 1% rare so I guess there's that.
In bigger city this effect vanishes and I do actually become mostly insignificant, though.
"Celebrate your own insignificance. There's such a freedom in that." - Julian
People go out of their way to be significant and feel attractive since being insignificant feels insignificant. So the social anxiety Julien speaks of is a result of a sheer concern from being rejected and seeming unattractive, nobody wants to be insignificant.
oh I always do...ppl crack jokes some times about getting after it cause we could die tomorrow
but ppl legit do, everyday, and I've gotten way more than I ever should..I'm not a pastor in the ICU from the whim of a drunk driver... keep it moving and stay humble
also redbar is watching!😂
I love it when Julien just pops up and destroys my whole ego 🤣
"You have no fans, you're not a celebrity" i like that
The average person like the majority of people, is exactly experiencing any popularity or getting any attention from the opposite sex and does crave to feel attractive, which means his anxiousness is not a result of feeling special or attractive but rather feeling unattractive while wishing to avoid appearing unattractive to others.
This totally blows my mind - I’ve been living in this golden jail for almost 40yrs with huge pain. Thank you Julien❤
You're welcome! 🙌
İ sexu@||y abused when i was 11 yrs by someone close to me + i had also social anxiety when i was little So now I'm 20ys old and trying to heal my childhood trauma and Social anxiety , the trauma affect my self so bad!! Specially my body. whenever i go outside i think that everyone is judging my body and my behave. i feel like I'm dirty i think that I'm doing wrong, So everyday i try to let go of it 🥺. Btw thanks julien you helped me alot ❤
I hope you have people around you who support and love you, and that you're receiving professional help. It's not easy, but one important thing to remember is that we did nothing wrong. We are not dirty, we were innocent and trusting and needed love. Take care of your little self, you are not alone❤️🩹
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Oh no you were sexually abused? You're so special! Poor you
You what?
What happened to you is not your fault, but dealing with it is your responsibility. You got this.
Julien we need you in africa💥💥 Nigeria, ghana, south Africa.
Many people watch your videos here🎉
I've done events in Cape Town before... May come back at some point! 👌
Really you were in Cape Town. First time I heard of this been following you for sometime and didnt know you were in the mother city. Must of been before covid.
sometimes we all just need that friend who speaks truth to us, who we can listen to how they see us, sometimes we cant see ourselves. A friend who says it like it is I feel like thats what this chat is. gold
My opinion that this is one of the most powerful Julien's videos.
Julien describing how not to seek approval and what non approval seeking behavior looks like in detail is what is needed, not just a statement of don't seek approval. Thanks bro🤙
I really loved the competitive and collaborative ladder you wrote on the board. Helped me understand more of the feelings and experiences I go through and it’s helped me connect more of those pieces. Thank you Julian, you’re bloody amazing. Wish to see you in person one day! ❤
julien is the one who spoke to my soul, connected me to the world of spirituality with the most straightforward words possible. bless your heart man ❤
Facts. Just knowing that eases your soul
Yes! Glad this resonates!
man this was a tough one. thank you for posting these clips for free i’ve been sitting and taking pages of notes 📝 by hand for the first time since college lol
I always look forward to your videos, they're enlightening and intelligent, and also you're an awesome entertainer!
Thank you so much! And thanks for watching!
Levels of transformation
Love
Purpose
Desire
Courage
_________
Anger
Fear
Grief
Apathy
learning from this guy is better than listening to music on youtube
He just cured the whole individualistic approach of the nation - all in one video ! lol
Lolz I agree.
Not for the collective approach.
For people who put others first o they are important and they matter just like everyone else will help them prioritise their well- being as one should.
However, the idea that no-one is special and no-one is a celebrity is very useful for both individualist and collectivist.
Great Video Thanks Julien!☀️🙏
Julien: "Nobody cares about you and no one will pay attention to your failures or successes."
Asianbro: *gets flashbacks of parents lecturing them about dishonoring their entire lineage because the teacher caught them with their shirt untucked in second grade*
Me🤚
Yeah...an untucked shirt is unforgivable tsk tsk tsk. Sorry 😂
"A truly wise man knows that he knows nothing." -Socrates
Much needed. Thank you Julien
Thank you Julien! You truly doing the work of God!
Thank you so much for helping that much.. your videos are really helpful and supportive..
Love from Pakistan
Julien you are just ..genius! The philosophical approach,the psychological approach,the realistic view,the examples..all are a 💣 of help!
I want to be friends with you! 🙏
Thank you very much for this! Social media omg
Thank you Julien
Thanks for not caring Julien!
I am the nothing. i am the no-one. But I am trapped in the freedom. I want something, but having something or doing something restricts the infinity. I know I am nobody. I know I'm not special. I fear becoming someone, being known. Being defined. But I'm defined by NOT being defined. Help, I'm already where you say I need to be, I need to come back, and go deeper.
"Help, I'm already where you say I need to be, I need to come back, and go deeper" "where you say I need to be"
Do not allow spirituality or intellectualism to become your new false facade. You still need to do what you KNOW has to be done. There’s no escaping your karmic path through an intellectual association with the infinite, etc. It’s just a stepping stone, a temporary shelter.
Really a big fan man keep up the good work :))
Thanks! A lot more videos to come! 👊
Omg these words are gems to me!
You got me with the putting people on a pedestal 😅 but on the otherside you are one of the gurus which really helped me to change my life for better 😊
Have benefited from TM an incredible amount, so thanks again...
I realise you dont teach it, but it would be great to hear your views on things like breathwork and bioenergetics at some point in the future.
Still sceptical if they truly get to the cause themselves or whether it's a case of needing to keep doing them in order to benefit long term.
Just an idea.
Let em know for the people in the back! Some of the realest shit on CZcams 👏👏
BRO U WISE
Thank you.
I love your content so much!!!
"How can you be yourself when you don't even know who you really are?!"
That hit hard.
Question: How can I "ACT REAL TILL YOU REMEMBER" if I don't know what's real? I understand letting go and deep inmer work is the key there but that's on the internal side. On the external side, I would still feel like an imposter however I act. 🤔
What is real? This is real: You have always been confident, lovable, worthy, etc. You just have forgotten it.
"Act real till you remember" is more accurate version of "fake it till you make it." But really you shouldn't fake or act anything, you should do the deep inner work and letting go and then you start to realise that you have been all the good things all along and internally and externally you relax and become real.
wow wow wow, great stuff
I love when your videos pop up on my CZcams
I love your shirt! Where did you get it? ;d
I needed to hear this. Thank you
Legend
I like ur techwear pants look rly good
I've been wanting to take your courses but I'm definitely curious about how much they cost
you are special and so is everyone we are all a child of god and he loves as all equally and specially
Yooo Julien outfit strikes again 😂😂💀💀❤️ that’s good shit bro
It was the event in Milan Italy, I was in the room there live, ciao Julien
Era l'evento a Milano ed ero lì in sala. Ciao Julien 😁
Julien, please come to Cyprus
This is my favourite video you have ever done!. Julien you should make a collab video with M* from The 33 secrets, that would be an awesome video. Take care Julien My Dude 😎👍💪👊💊
Wish you could host a seminar here in Southern Africa.
Just wow
A few video’s ago Julian was talking about looking in the mirror naked and saying you love yourself to improve confidence. But isn’t that the same as convincing yourself you’re good enough doesn’t help because you still have to convince yourself? What is the difference?
Your dressing style just steals the attention every single time . Love it
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Bro looks like a sex cult leader
exactly. love the fits every single time
Currently on Day 898 of Semen Retention. Infinity more to go!
Huhhhhh????
Have a good day Julien
Same to you! 👌
God I love this guy
This is legend, thanks Julien 👊
Julien looks like a person living out his Fight club identity
Do those super stars also get happiness by thinking they are not important? Am wondering if this “I’m not important” is some kind of placebo for confident people.
Notification Squad!🔥🔥🔥
Booyah! 🔥
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30 secs in and im like "phew"😂
keep it like Kendrick Lamar and be humble
no wonder I have occasional doubt's but feel like I'm miles ahead
So how do you separate the concept of "I am not important" from "I matter," as you encourage people to believe in other videos? How can both be true?
"Have you heard of this person that took a risk, and failed?"
WOW
For a good while I thought you have f-word on your t shirt in order to trigger people 🤣
I'm finding that your video is quite useful when a sentence comes to my mind I stop and write it down in notes of my thinking to develop it.
Hmm not caring to be important or significant …. And how would you define and compare our Value? Would you consider developing value and self worth also an “ego” thing? I have a feeling having self worth and value is important for this human experience… and in having developed Value, won’t you inherently be important?
I suppose we can still try to practice this “insignificant” mindset while still having a healthy sense of self worth, it just seems like it should be an oxymoron… I suppose in theory, we are all valuable as humans, and if we are all secure in our value, then we can help our ego see we are not special, because everyone is valuable and worthy and has a gift to contribute
9:00 be very careful with ppl like this
ppl have shown me appreciation..then they go "wtf broooo? i acknowledged you..ur like, not be ing cool"
which is a huge mindfuck to someone trying to be less "nice" and just focus on themselves and do what resonates with them..watch for the curveball of "i thought itd make u smile/you always answer on the 2nd ring..whatever bro u wish i was dead, dont worry, youll get what you want😩😏"
❤ ANY SECRET FOR SHY BLADDER? I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO MY PEOPLE 😕❤️ NEED YOUR HELP I HAVE TO SAY SOMETHING BUT KNOW HOW
The bathrobe paired with the sunglasses 😂😂😂, the deliberately messed up hair. JulianHimself, totally affected.
No
Did Julian just watch fight club ?
I don’t require acceptance in any form.
You don't need to tell me that I already know.
11:08 Hey Julien have you heard Bad Guy by Eminem 😅
I was going to watch this but then I realized it's a half hour long and not a "one-size-fits-all" to life. Hey Julien, just wanted to stop by to let you know I'm doing just fine living life the way I want to. Without your advice necessarily. K buh-bye!
👋🏻
lol bro gave birth to thousands of more super fans with this video. Stay safe
yo
haters>lovers
ohio is for lovers
mason figured out the numbers😂
Completely disagree with him. I do not think he’s thinking in a broader perspective about existence itself. Human beings are literally the universe looking back on itself. Awareness and consciousness is insane, god-like, and to deny that it is something quite special - literally the ability to perceive reality and be self aware, unlike any other animal, is very remarkable. This guy may be saying that you’re not more significant than the next guy because we are all the same human species, but to eliminate the idea of significances to deny the reality that you’re this living breathing organism that is self aware and is burned into the memory of many many other human beings.
this thought of us not being special kinda goes against all ur authenticity talk
How so? One should ALWAYS be authentic... What I'm referring to here is the misconception that we're at the center of everyone's attention, which isn't the case.
@@JulienHimself I think I interpreted it wrong then. might´ve been projection
Still dressing like SSX Tricky characters.
This is one of the rare times in which I disagree with Julien. People feel special because they only live and experience life from their own eyes and whatever reputation they may have or not is depended solely on their own doing. Everyone wishes to be attractive and gain respect it is a natural desire to be desired, so on the contrary, nobody see themselves as celebs but wish to become attractive like ones and the anxiety coming in during social occasions is sheer concern to seem unattractive in front of others.
Imagine liking your own comment 😂
@@oesmanjaina3908 I guess verbal content exceeds your mental capacity so the number near the likes button about sums up whatever that tiny muscle you have atop can register. So for the sake of your disability I’ll indulge, No, I didn’t like my own comment. 🙂
but its all a trick..what is hot today could be cold tomorrow..or based on your location
better to just be yourself, push forward positively, learn and grow, and find those who resonate with you
and I know I'm right cause redbar agrees lol
Watching your videos from Pakistan🇵🇰
There’s an upside to the dark side
God created us for some sort of purpose or meaning. It's not purposeless. He has a plan for us
That's the only purpose you need as the baseline. However, people add more context than they need
Religions directly pretend god made humans into his image.
They also have a "I'm holier than thou" attitude.
All ego feeders.
my fav song from the bravery:
i am just a child
to a man
back to the dust
where i began
i was never even here at all😏
Are you happy Julien?
Not always... But for the most part, yes! 👌
@@JulienHimselftony robbins mentions our blueprint, the expectation and belief of where we should be in life.. if that matches to what we are currently doing and aligns then happiness is created.. if it doesnt align, thats when we feel something is missing or that emptyness inside and we become depressed. So julien, as long as you are living in alignment of where youve seen yourself being in the past, youll be good my friend!
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Hey julien... What are your thoughts on woke community? That express yourself that... soft stuff.
I’ve been watching your video’s for over a year now and I have grown SO MUCH 🤩
Your video’s have helped me trough my deepest darknesses. Thank you from the bottom of my heart Julien!! 🫶🏻
You are SO welcome! I'm glad my videos have been helpful for you! 🙏
Thank you Julien