The Stages Of Trauma: A Survivor's Guide To Healing & Letting Go Of Past Trauma

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    The Stages Of Trauma: A Survivor's Guide To Healing & Letting Go Of Past Trauma
    Julien Blanc reveals how to let go of past trauma and heal from traumatic experiences.
    #trauma #traumahealing #lettinggo
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Komentáře • 116

  • @JulienHimself
    @JulienHimself  Před 3 lety +11

    I’m looking for a small group of serious individuals who I will PERSONALLY take under my wing and coach for the next 2 months… If you're serious about your success, then follow me on Instagram *instagram.com/julienhimself* and send me a DM saying: “VIP”

  • @OwenCookSelfHelp
    @OwenCookSelfHelp Před 3 lety +83

    Love the point about freezing with the bear, very powerful! -Owen

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  Před 3 lety +10

      Thanks man! 🔥🔥

    • @jkordsu
      @jkordsu Před 3 lety

      Okey dude..

    • @maumiceli
      @maumiceli Před 3 lety +3

      Nooo what happened to "-Tyler" 😂
      Love you guys, thank you so much for all the value

    • @minddevelopment_
      @minddevelopment_ Před 3 lety +2

      You guys☀️💎

    • @givdb5513
      @givdb5513 Před 3 lety

      Yeah I was just about to say that. All the unconscious vibrations that pimp back at your head while something is presently happening at the moment either by a action or a word carrying subliminal emotions behind it

  • @stardustchimp375
    @stardustchimp375 Před 3 lety +5

    The low-vibration creatures attack me when I try and teach them high-vibration knowledge.
    Extraordinary video.

  • @gibralterhemingway
    @gibralterhemingway Před 2 lety +13

    Bro this video had me gasping and saying “oh my god” out loud all throughout. A whole lot of valuable epiphanies in this. Thank you for opening my mind to a better way of looking at the paradigm I’m in. Because of you, I feel confident that I can actually make a change in my life although I’ve felt in apathy for so long. I gotta go through the steps. Today I rose to anger, and because of you, I now understand that it is a good thing because of where it’s coming from. Courage is next and desire is after that. You’ve helped me realize how important it is to stay conscious and aware of which state I’m in and to not attach myself to any of them because none of them are eternally resourceful. Thank you, Julien. I really hope to come to a seminar one day soon and I would really love to be coached by you directly (when I can afford it). For now, you’re giving us absolutely invaluable content and it’s changing the way I view my reality. Thank you so much.

  • @christinehallfeldt4280

    I have only experienced this freeze responce once. It was so surreal how it affected me physically as well as mentally. Your description of this is to the t of what is like right down too feeling like your dead a corpse. Also the event was looping in my head and i wouldnt accept new information. Also i could not speak...the words wouldnt form basically stuttering or not forming atriculate words. I wish it was like the dear but it took weeks to sort be consciously me again but its also like being scared to death which wasnt pretty at all. Never want that to happen to me again but hope i can learn from it😢

  • @braydenwilliams91
    @braydenwilliams91 Před 5 měsíci

    this dude is the best teacher i’ve ever learned from

  • @puremusiconly3645
    @puremusiconly3645 Před 3 lety +4

    for the people that you have really positively impacted through TM Julien, like me, they will remember you for the rest of their life. You will have that lasting impact. Thanks and much love again, best wishes

  • @thecommonsensecapricorn
    @thecommonsensecapricorn Před 7 měsíci

    This is what I believe happens for people who die tragic deaths. Which can be relieving to think. I believe you disassociate so you don’t feel the pain, or the soul leaves the body before you feel the pain, whatever way you want to look at it

  • @kayligo
    @kayligo Před 3 lety +2

    I need this right now. My dad just lost his home in the alameda fire. My brother lost his house. My ex stepdad lost his home and business. My mom almost lost hers. There are fires popping up all around me. I’m living in hell.

  • @tehrage4044
    @tehrage4044 Před 3 lety

    Thank you for spreading this Julian!

  • @PowerHeart999
    @PowerHeart999 Před 3 lety

    Thank you for this amazing video ♥

  • @maxwellmuller
    @maxwellmuller Před 3 lety

    Great Video Julien, I love how you brought up the level of transformation!

  • @Alkhattab98
    @Alkhattab98 Před 3 lety +9

    “I suppose in the end the whole of life becomes an act of letting go” - life of pi😁
    Thanks for the awesome content once again🙏🏻

  • @kapzvara5732
    @kapzvara5732 Před 3 lety

    Great video love the insight on Trauma.

  • @Anna-mv9ew
    @Anna-mv9ew Před rokem

    This has been a tremendous advice. Thank you

  • @brucelee9941
    @brucelee9941 Před 3 lety +2

    Hopefully these guys take advantage of being on the same page at one place in the same city, that a great place to meet friends.

  • @zarvan5978
    @zarvan5978 Před 3 lety +8

    im grateful for this video and the work youre putting on youtube for free, youre really saving lives man, keep it going julien youre a champion

  • @GermanoZaffalon
    @GermanoZaffalon Před 3 lety +3

    This is the true work!!! Gold content for free, thank you.

  • @albertomassari77
    @albertomassari77 Před 3 lety +3

    Gratitude is super usefull for avoiding self sabotage :) Dont go left or right, go up instead of down.

  • @lukeadvice4922
    @lukeadvice4922 Před 3 lety +2

    Always will be the best life and social philosophy coach of the modern day ❤️
    Proud of you work as always!

  • @vastjayk6976
    @vastjayk6976 Před 2 lety

    This video is too good to be true. Like I need to watch this everyday lmao. Everytime I have a thought of self doubt or I make excuses you shoot them down for me to force me to grow. Thank you

  • @roricarr
    @roricarr Před 3 lety

    Thank you. Gold

  • @HopezScared
    @HopezScared Před 3 lety

    Best mentor, ever.

  • @tonyzamberlin
    @tonyzamberlin Před rokem

    Great video!

  • @vonphysikbismetaphysik
    @vonphysikbismetaphysik Před rokem +1

    Well, you are speaking what I have been thinking for all my life. There is that sweet spot where everything just falls into place. No discipline needed. Only inner work and alignment with your deepest and highest truth. Simple. Not easy. But very simple. Thanks for your words. I just started a podcast and this is exactly what I am talking about. So cool that I found you! Cheers from another survivor!

  • @davidtolle9533
    @davidtolle9533 Před 3 lety +1

    I was JUST getting back into the audio releases. I had some blocks but the suggestion to pause to work though certain sensations is a good idea. Thanks jj

  • @ela-hr7ro
    @ela-hr7ro Před 2 lety

    god, thank u so so much this is touching my whole soul

  • @masonholt651
    @masonholt651 Před 3 lety +3

    Julien puts out the best content on this subject. And it's free.

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  Před 3 lety

      Thank you! However this is NOTHING compared to what I teach in my private mentoring group... 😉

  • @BurnThePastCreateTheFuture

    SERIOUS WORK.

  • @the_ethereal_memoirs
    @the_ethereal_memoirs Před 3 lety

    Yassssssss, great timing. Thanks, man 💜💜🤘

  • @gibralterhemingway
    @gibralterhemingway Před 2 lety +4

    18:15 “A lot of the success advice you even hear isn’t success advice, it’s anti self-sabotage advice”
    …. Damn. That shit heavily resonated with me.
    I’ve been pushing myself to deal with the self-resistance instead of releasing the self-resistance.

  • @kyzmitch2
    @kyzmitch2 Před 3 lety

    thanks for new video, good to have a reminder like that

  • @muskduh
    @muskduh Před 3 lety +1

    Thanks

  • @mmacrib9071
    @mmacrib9071 Před 2 lety

    Am fascinated about your work ...your work gives immediate relief and understanding.

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  Před 2 lety +1

      I'm so glad to hear it! Glad it's helpful! 🙏

  • @TheBackyardBangers
    @TheBackyardBangers Před rokem

    Crazy video throughout the day I just dissociate myself and get into the state where I take naps

  • @barbieg7718
    @barbieg7718 Před 3 lety

    Late but here !!!!! Can’t wait to see this

  • @bdizz19
    @bdizz19 Před 3 lety +3

    Honestly after spectating for so long and finally taking massive action in the late few years... I am learning this is mainly ona level with ppl who are not feeling their own understanding or emotions .. Julien is not here to make your life right, he's only here to show you the many signs in which you should be aware of.. DO NOT TAKE THIS PERSONAL, as he himself is also limited in what he learns. We are all growing and will shift so stop thinking he's not in it for you or his life goals

  • @georginabastien49
    @georginabastien49 Před 2 lety +2

    Happy to hear: @ 8:20 every emotion is good and valid!

  • @wanderlust8843
    @wanderlust8843 Před 4 měsíci

    Am i the only one who thinks julien is underrated

  • @jjahla8398
    @jjahla8398 Před 3 lety

    You help me heal💚

  • @andy.darktiga
    @andy.darktiga Před rokem

    Thanks for this video. Now I know that I definitely have a trauma.

  • @justcausebedothink
    @justcausebedothink Před 3 lety +1

    Very poignant ending but so needed to say - this is urgent. Incredible work bro

  • @TrueMG
    @TrueMG Před 8 měsíci

    Old advices but worth listening to again, especially when forgetting is just natural. I went quite "Wait a minute" when you said change has to happen so naturally and slowly you won't even notice it, because this happens right now, and of course still happens. Thanks man! Your content is super appreciated.

  • @truenorthaffirmations7049

    I like this!!! 🔥🤘🔥🤘 IMPROVING best wishes from another youtuber

  • @saileshprasad9282
    @saileshprasad9282 Před 3 lety

    Great Video !

  • @devrajchangkakati4994
    @devrajchangkakati4994 Před 3 lety +1

    I had a huge trauma 2 yrs ago where I was a complete loser and all I wanted was acceptance and approval from others
    Where I was humiliated

  • @yolcujiujitsummasporsalonu4779

    Amazing content. Than you Julian.

  • @rafasacerdoti5506
    @rafasacerdoti5506 Před 3 lety +1

    Amazing vid, this is the right path.

  • @ztwistof1224
    @ztwistof1224 Před 3 lety +2

    Hey julien i've been stuck in this letting go process for too long and i wanna know the exact path for it 🙏
    Btw you're the best

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  Před 3 lety

      Adam Loulidi Hey, thanks for reaching out! Apply to join my private mentoring group so I can learn more about what you’ve been doing exactly and show you the exact steps: julienhimself.com/mentoring-application 👊

  • @spirituelleOOinfo
    @spirituelleOOinfo Před 3 lety +2

    the best strategy when a bear comes is to tell him a story - because bears love to be told something. They love to listen storys... you can tell him where you are from, what your proffession is, what you are doing in live and so on.

  • @fantasizer8473
    @fantasizer8473 Před 3 lety

    Another beautiful repeatable video.

  • @algarviomarafado4814
    @algarviomarafado4814 Před 3 lety

    Peter Levine is the SHIT! Good man!

  • @bonson9156
    @bonson9156 Před rokem

    1:48 That is exactly how I remember my trauma.

  • @kareemmohammed5270
    @kareemmohammed5270 Před 3 lety

    resonate

  • @ManishKalyan-gx2wi
    @ManishKalyan-gx2wi Před 2 lety

    i recommend you to read the bhagwat geeta,it has some sort of similar teachings in it

  • @DavidMillerVideos
    @DavidMillerVideos Před 3 lety +3

    Julien, this is genuinely some of the best transformation advice I've ever come across. I just found your channel but the similarities between our transformation philosophies are astounding. I would love for you to check out my transformation program when I release the beta version. I'd love to work with you one day. Thank you, your work matters.

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  Před 3 lety

      Awesome! Thank you!

    • @DavidMillerVideos
      @DavidMillerVideos Před 3 lety

      @@JulienHimself I also just applied for the mentor program! Looking forward to speaking with you!

  • @marc2638
    @marc2638 Před 2 lety

    I think the part people need an answer on is how to release all that pent up stuff. What's the right way to do that?? Talking? Working out? What is the release part all about? I have a lot I want to dump and I need to to be able to move on and get healthier but I don't know how to release it thats my question. I can't just say oh I acknowledge this issue and now I'm releasing it lol yeah don't quite work like that

  • @ericwolfe666
    @ericwolfe666 Před 3 lety

    Another classic

  • @pauliusv8596
    @pauliusv8596 Před 3 lety +1

    How do I release? Is it just embracing it and expressing, feeling?

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  Před 3 lety

      Apply to join my private mentoring group and let us teach you the exact practical steps: julienhimself.com/mentoring-application

  • @ChessMasteryOfficial
    @ChessMasteryOfficial Před 3 lety +1

    Can you recommend some new life-changing books (I read almost all the books from your book club list)?

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  Před 3 lety +1

      Even better than a book... Click here to apply to join my private mentoring group: julienhimself.com/mentoring-application 👊

  • @Deikenity
    @Deikenity Před 3 lety +1

    Is it possible to make a video on the process on how to create videos like this/public speaking without a script? How do you avoid repeating yourself and how are you always creating new content?

    • @jonathonharbeck7287
      @jonathonharbeck7287 Před 3 lety

      Just do it!

    • @Deikenity
      @Deikenity Před 3 lety +1

      @@jonathonharbeck7287 But how bro. Everyone tells you to do it. No one tells you the how or the process. That doesn't help much.

  • @clajsmurf6675
    @clajsmurf6675 Před 3 lety

    Can this help with ptsd?

  • @alexmannen1991
    @alexmannen1991 Před 3 lety

    i wonder if approach anxiety and "idk what to say" is a weak freeze state and exiting is flight is failiure in pua just trauma responses and survival instinct

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  Před 3 lety +3

      Approach anxiety is you getting "triggered", which is why the only way to really free yourself from this is to let go of what's getting triggered inside of you... (past trauma)

  • @ygg9888
    @ygg9888 Před 3 lety +1

    Very hard to listen to as a traumatized boy. If I let go my anger I can get unreasonable. Cosmical rage is more like it. The idea of resistance is interesting.

  • @fakefake5804
    @fakefake5804 Před 3 lety

    where's your meditations i'd love to meditate with your guide... or do u mean going inside our thoughts and feel our feelings with help of this paradigm?

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  Před 3 lety

      Hey! The meditation can be found inside my private mentoring group... You can apply to join here: julienhimself.com/mentoring-application

  • @waynelsexton3488
    @waynelsexton3488 Před 3 lety +1

    Holding it in too long will end up with cancer or Alzheimer’s. Then your a dead man walking. Which is what we are anyway when holding onto/ identifying with trauma/pain body.

  • @givdb5513
    @givdb5513 Před 3 lety

    01. *读书须用意,一字值千金。* (dúshū xū yòngyì, yīzì zhí qiānjīn. 'reading books needs use attention, one word worth 1,000 gold') - *Reading requires concentration; a word may be worth a fortune.*
    *This proverb stresses the fact that study requires undivided attention. No single word should be passed over before we fully understand it. Only in this way can study be rewarded.*
    02. *严师出高徒。* (Yánshī chū gāotú. 'strict teacher produces brilliant student') - *Strict teachers produce fine students.*
    03. *路遥知马力,日久见人心。* (Lùyáo zhī mǎlì, rìjiǔ jiàn rénxīn. 'road distant know horse strength, days old see man heart') - *As distance tests a horse's strength, time reveals a person's character.*
    04. *活到老,学到老。* (Huó dào lǎo, xué dào lǎo. 'live till old, study till old.) - Live till you're old, and study till you're old.
    *"Don't stop studying" or "you're never too old to learn."*
    05. *星星之火,可以燎原。* (Xīngxīng zhī huǒ, kěyǐ liáoyuan. 'star's fire, can shine far') - *Starlight shines far.*
    Translated as: *"A single spark can start a prairie fire." Seemingly small actions have far-reaching consequences.*
    06. *风无常顺,兵无常胜。* (Fēng wú chángshùn, bīng wú chángshèng. 'wind not always favorable; soldiers not always win') - *Wind isn't always favorable; soldiers aren't always victorious.*
    *This proverb urges us to be fully prepared for difficulties and setbacks: it is impossible to have smooth sailing all the time.*
    07. *不能一口吃成胖子。* (Bùnéng yīkǒu chī chéng pàngzi. 'can't one mouthful eat become fat-person') - *You can't get fat with one mouthful.*
    *I.e. Some things aren't accomplished in a moment. Don't give up!*
    08. *逆境出人才。* (Nìjìng chū réncái. 'adversity produces talented-person') - *Adversity yields flair.*
    09. *守得云开见月明。* (Shǒu dé yún kāi jiàn yuèmíng. 'keep-watch gain cloud open see moonlight') - *Watch till clouds part to see moonlight.*
    10. *青出于蓝而胜于蓝。* (Qīng chūyú lán ér shèngyú lán. 'green come-from blue moreover surpasses blue') - *Green is from blue, and better than blue.*
    *This is used to describe when a disciple has surpassed his master.*
    *this last one is arguable in game but let's hope students are practicing as well*

  • @Wrollerwistle
    @Wrollerwistle Před 3 lety

    Why u jus make clear plan to have cleaned method to feel peace

  • @pauloferreira6363
    @pauloferreira6363 Před 3 lety

    Cooolp

  • @safkathfaruk102
    @safkathfaruk102 Před 3 lety

    Going thru a breakup right now and the pain isn’t going away wtf

    • @brucelee9941
      @brucelee9941 Před 3 lety +1

      Love yourself learn to be alone and enjoy that time, you don't need a female to be happy. You will get over it

  • @riesenblut7
    @riesenblut7 Před 3 lety +1

    Parasympathetic nervous system 101 . Releasing the hypothalamus everything that controls the unconscious like breathing habits is in there. You can force cool breathing but one can naturally let it flow

  • @davidtolle9533
    @davidtolle9533 Před 3 lety

    Julien i had a dream i was with you but you weren't coaching me. Wtf man.

  • @Nawsteezy
    @Nawsteezy Před 3 lety +1

    I don't even know what to say about this.

  • @MrLottoLife
    @MrLottoLife Před rokem

    Those are called 'inner' demons.

  • @naczelnypsycholog6296
    @naczelnypsycholog6296 Před 3 lety

    6:30 why would he be mad ? lamo
    if he would be mad that's mean he resists humans nature,
    it's better she done that before marriage and he knows,
    isn't that part of maturity ? - that you are able to choose your response to the situation instead being run by emotions

  • @salimrai4913
    @salimrai4913 Před 3 lety

    Sounds like recited from a book

  • @Borshigi
    @Borshigi Před měsícem

    07:58 Inside joke?

  • @stretchmorgan
    @stretchmorgan Před 2 lety

    Should have had a shave & taken off his coat & hat. What is this style about? What is it signifying.

  • @StatikFeedBacK
    @StatikFeedBacK Před rokem

    Thanks

  • @hbmluiks
    @hbmluiks Před 3 lety

    Great video!