Ableist Mental Health Tiktok
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- čas přidán 12. 02. 2022
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it's really shitty how names of mental illnesses/neurodivergences are synonymous with unintelligent or someone who has lost their ability to make conscious decisions. Like I honestly had to be really careful wording that to keep from words that actually mean mental illness/neurodivergence like 'crazy' or 'stupid', because those are the words we as a society use to describe people doing things we see as irrational.
Let's not forget lazy either
I've been treated like I'm lazy my entire life
Truth is I've been struggling with something that hasn't been diagnosed yet, so I don't even know what it is
I'm convinced there's very little if any at all lazy people in the world
Just people who are struggling
@@starchild8822 same. I have ADHD and executive dysfunction which makes it really difficult to do a lot of things, but from an outsider's perspective it can just look like apathy, even when I care a lot and really am trying. I recently realized that I had been told so much I wasn't trying, that I just needed to try and I could do so much, that I ended up basically gaslighting myself into thinking I wasn't trying and that I somehow didn't care about things that are really important to me, making it really depressing whenever I became unable to do something because I'd learned that that inability was caused by me not caring enough to try. I'm exaggerating but it was harmful.
@@eris4734 that sounds a bit like my experience definitely...
My trying is sitting there trying to get the will to move
And I've been told that I "just need to try" and I'd be fine
The school system is really messed up towards mental health...
Small edit: I took a self paced course over the summer one year and it was only a month long and I got everything done
So I know the problem isn't with me but the way I'm being asked to do things
Omg I hate it! I’m autistic, so I get that SO MUCH
I’m told I’m lazy, emotionless, stupid (even though they don’t know me) and they infantilize me. They treat me like an goddamn baby. Even though they treated me normal before I told them I was autistic. I hate it
I always make a point to be careful with my wording of things, and I changed my vocabulary. Ik a lot of people who after they don’t hear something will go, “omg I’m deaf” which is quite harmful.
The PE one holy shit PE was my nightmare as a child and I did everything I could to avoid it. Also in 3rd grade had a PE teacher teaching the class about fat, and played a game around it. Chose me and the 2 other largest kids in the class to represent the fat cells. So shameful
When i was in high school we had to have our fat “pinched” by this contraption in front of everyone to see how much body fat percentage we had. That wasn’t super traumatic or ED inducing at all…. 😳😳😳
That is an AH move and I am so sorry you went through that. Hopefully they got fired not soon after, but let's not expect the bare minimum. I hope you're doing well now.
i really resonate with the idea that diagnostic standards aren't always entirely accurate. experience is just as important as behavior if not more (my personal opinion). i don't want to act as if i know more than someone who has studied my conditions, but it's also tough bc you can really only fully understand a condition or brain difference if you have lived w it, and even when you do live w it, it's still hard to understand (at least by my experience).
Eveyone thinks depression is just you being over dramatic
NO IT INST IT IS NOT THAT WE ARE SUFFERING AND WE CANT HANDLE IT OR BOTTLE IT UP LIKE WE DID WHEN WE WHERE A CHILD
10:10
This is a really good allegory
Society expects everyone to just have a mouse
We never got a mouse, so they expect US to pay MORE money so we can do things the same way they do, when they are the ones who have a problem with the way we function just fine
And we're usually also poor
I felt that video, as I'm low income myself. I can't afford Netflix or internet or hell, even afford a good cell phone with good service! Only reason I even have a phone, with good service, and virtually unlimited everything, is cause a friend gave it to me, and I'm on their plan, and for some reason, this particular phone's service isn't costing anything on the plan bill, so there's nothing I have to pay for. If it weren't for that, I'd be using a free government phone.
6:20
I think if you as a spiritual person tell someone that they are doing something that “inhibits their ascension”, you forget that spirituality is your own, and you can not be telling others to what degree their spirituality lies. Personally, I do not feel comfortable opening my third eye, and I do not want people telling me I have to because that is my choice. So not only are they being ableist, they’re also just being disrespectful.
I was born with a heart issue that was corrected with life-saving surgery, but as a result I cannot overheat and I get tired from a lack of stamina (which also changes depending on if my illnesses act up). I was paired with a kid who had asthma for the pacer test and yelled at if I got something under 20 laps, even though it got faster and it wasn't just 20 laps that are all the same at your own pace.
I have almost fainted, overheated, and been emotionally scarred from these experiences alone--not to mention all the others for my mental disabilities.
WHY IS NOT ABUSING KIDS (in general but ESPECIALLY disabled kids) SUCH A RADICAL IDEA???
Not every killer is a sociopath or psychopath😇
And not every sociopath or psychopath is a killer!
@@aidenw.4719 Yes!
Shit I got internalized ableism…
Same! 😭😓
Just saw yesterday's video and now I got a new one too.
Thank you for another wonderful video❤🇿🇦
5:58 ABELEEISM
In the first one he even made fun of cancer he’s super ableist
I... Feel like I'm worth less than other people because I have autism and BPD. Because I'm disabled I feel like a burden. I wish I wasn't disabled because I just know I'm a burden to all people.
That’s not true. 💙💙
@@OneSpicyDisaster I know deep down it's not true but I just have this feeling and I hate it.
damn dude im sorry u feel like that :( i know the feeling. i have autism and just the other day i was having sensory overload and my sister got mad for it, i felt like such a burden for something i genuinely can't control.
obviously logically im not a burden, its not true, etc. but it doesnt help the feeling that i am, yknow what i mean? :((
@@bnha Well the thing is I am a burden. I burden the healthcare system because I need extra help. You do too. We are burdens to those around us. How can I justify my existence?
@@OzCroc well i wouldnt say you're a burden. the healthcare system and the people around you are built to support you and help you. you dont need to justify your existance; you existing is justification enough. you dont need to be worthy to exist, etc.
im bad at wording things sorry haha, but basically what im saying is that you dont need a reason to exist. you deserve help and people shouldn't make you feel guilty for your disabilities. if you need extra help, you should get extra help and you're not a burden for that.
feels like im repeating myself or smt i cant find the words rn, but please know you're not a burden for needing extra help at all.
stop acting like not understanding something makes it not real or invalid. i dont understand french yet (despite my best efforts/hj) it still exists!!!!!!!
The first TikTok pissed me off
Who tells someone having cancer is so "GREAT" because it makes them a Christian? wtf? That's so messed up. Imagine someone tells you dying is so great cuz you believe in their religion/belief out of fear/pressure/etc.
I'm an ex-Christian so I can understand the happiness with converting someone to your religion but to say it's so great cuz they got cancer is beyond messed up! Making someone convert to their religion out of fear is messed up, I was 4/5 when I was first taught about hell and I always had an unbearable fear I would die and end up in hell, so I would pray every night asking for forgiveness cuz I never thought doing it once was good enough. I was always taught about how unbearably painful hell would be, and that I would NEED Jesus to save me or else I would suffer. Which thankfully I do not really have that fear anymore after becoming an Agnostic Atheist(sorry for the little vent/story)
So being happy and successful that someone converted to your religion is fine with me, but saying them having an illness that is literally killing them is the greatest thing they got it so fxcked up
(Sorry if anything I say it confusing, I have a problem with weird wording sometimes)
Take care
So i’m diagnosed with OSDD-1b but i’m thinking i may have DID… i’m just vibing rn tho… so woo! have a good day everyone!
*Anyone with special interests you can talk abt it in replies and i’ll try and ask questions!*
Only 11 hours
The one at 4:09 is soooooo wrong