How to Manage Your Emotions Without Smoking

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  • čas přidán 15. 06. 2024
  • In this video, you will learn 3 ways to manage your emotions without smoking.
    Maybe (if you’re like me and most other smokers), you’re worried that quitting smoking will make you anxious, irritable, or depressed. Perhaps you’ve been smoking for a long time and don’t know any other way to cope.
    So how can you manage your emotions without nicotine?
    In this video, you’ll learn:
    • A new way to think about emotions
    • 3 ways to better manage your emotions
    • How quitting smoking affects your emotions
    • How to avoid lashing out after quitting smoking
    • How long it takes for your brain to feel normal after you quit
    Managing your emotions doesn’t mean always feeling good (that’s not realistic).
    Instead, it means being able to navigate the different emotions you experience without reaching for a cigarette.
    What helps you manage your emotions? I shared my favourite tip in the video. Let me know yours in the comments below👇
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Komentáře • 82

  • @CBQMethod
    @CBQMethod  Před 3 lety +13

    Thanks so much for watching! What helps you manage your emotions? I shared my favorite tip in the video. Let me know yours in the comments below👇

    • @CBQMethod
      @CBQMethod  Před 3 lety +2

      @Laddie Land that's a great idea. You can also see how to manage stress here: czcams.com/video/mJPIhPq4klM/video.html

    • @guroluke
      @guroluke Před 3 lety +1

      I keep bringing myself to the threshold where I'm about ready to take that step towards waking up and trying to get through the first day without smoking and perhaps without coffee. Then I manage to argue with myself and come up with 38,000 reasons why I'm not ready, why it's not a good idea, why it's not safe?
      Even when I know I want to stop, I don't like the habits and patterns I create more stress and unhappiness, pushing myself to be separated continuously.
      I know that not smoking will open up so much more time for exercise and study recreation but I choose not to allow myself to have that time. I could try to point fingers but it doesn't have anything to do with others so much, often enough I smoke to gain a few minutes to myself. I think sometimes if I don't smoke I'd be smothered. If you have suggestions I'd really like to hear.

    • @markjovethmanagad6924
      @markjovethmanagad6924 Před 3 lety

      hi again always watching you now and im gonna ask again about my weight loss is it because of my withdrwal for about 4 weeks from now?

    • @brianacoplen5695
      @brianacoplen5695 Před 3 lety

      000

    • @dianecantin4798
      @dianecantin4798 Před 2 lety

      Yes this is true for me. I need these emotion videos. Any new info please post. Thank you

  • @MuhammadKhan-jh3cr
    @MuhammadKhan-jh3cr Před 3 lety +16

    you teach me and I quit smoking and now I'm looking so attractive

  • @Khatir.l
    @Khatir.l Před 3 lety +10

    After one week of quitting smoking I still fill very sick and angry but I can breathe very good . Thank you for the information

  • @tomekavaught3971
    @tomekavaught3971 Před rokem +2

    I’m managing my emotions through music… it calms me and hypes me when I’m down

  • @terryclayton1425
    @terryclayton1425 Před 3 lety +9

    I've saved this video to watch again. My emotions play a huge role in why I smoke. Thanks so much for this!

  • @angryyoungman66
    @angryyoungman66 Před 2 lety +2

    Manage your emotions witout smoking I think even does like me who don't somke need that video

  • @jesuslord5184
    @jesuslord5184 Před rokem +2

    4 words for the Marvelous work you do - GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS 😇

  • @fahadhanif9519
    @fahadhanif9519 Před 2 lety +2

    Please do make Emotional management, as some may have issue without smoking.

  • @mohamadfaysal1859
    @mohamadfaysal1859 Před 3 lety +8

    You look really beautiful in these clothes today.. I wish you the best♥️

  • @Abdullah-vt7ct
    @Abdullah-vt7ct Před 3 lety +4

    Please sister, create more on this topic

  • @WOGFF
    @WOGFF Před 3 lety +5

    6 days without smoke 🙏

  • @Set-Apart-By-Grace
    @Set-Apart-By-Grace Před 2 lety +7

    Besides all these great tips, this is one of the reasons I fashioned a straw, (just the first very hard days) filled with a paper towel, to emulate the slow breath I would take, and to trick my mind. The practice was seldom, and I had nothing addictive going in me, allowing the nicotine to decrease. It really helped me so much...

    • @now591
      @now591 Před 2 lety +4

      yes ha ha ha. A cigarette only lasts a few short minutes anyway. I have noticed that sucking air through fingers (pretend smoke) for a few mins can provide relief.

    • @Set-Apart-By-Grace
      @Set-Apart-By-Grace Před 2 lety +2

      @@now591 ...I still have not picked up another cig. You do what you gotta do...lol

  • @lawrencehunter2269
    @lawrencehunter2269 Před 3 lety +9

    Thank you Nasia for the video .Emotions'' are a very interesting subject and I think society tends to discourage emotion as ''scary and ineffective in life'' and smoking is just one form of escape or distraction people use. It is a shame because emotions are our friend and is a strength when we harness them...

  • @zz-ic6vy
    @zz-ic6vy Před 2 lety +1

    thank you! i am watching lots of your videos while on my second day without cigarettes. For me it is soo much mental addiciton. My dad died on Friday and i am in bad mental state plus other bad staff happened. I cannot smoke anymore because of my income got too small. I wish i could smoke. I honestly don't know how to survive.
    Because i know that i will start my emotional eating soon. But i have no money for that too lol. I think i should start my dream of hobby i like - doing embroidery

  • @dealorasbooth2453
    @dealorasbooth2453 Před 2 lety +3

    I love this video! The host is so adorable and refreshing, she makes you want to do better and quit that ugly smoking habit. I am preparing myself to do this.

  • @dianecantin4798
    @dianecantin4798 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you. I would like more videos on emotions please. Thanks

  • @jmans333
    @jmans333 Před 3 lety +6

    No nicotine since last night, these videos have unlocked my brain thank you ❤

  • @Khatir.l
    @Khatir.l Před 3 lety +3

    You are diamond 💎 thank you so much for the information because I was very concerned why I am very worried all the time . After one week I am still waiting to be normal after 16 years of smoking.

  • @isetfrances6124
    @isetfrances6124 Před 3 lety +3

    Have come to my first week, day seven 🥲⚡️ with a few emotion upsets to make me pay attention now. Ty Ms Nasia 🥰🧘🏻‍♂️🧘🏽

  • @authorrajusingh6916
    @authorrajusingh6916 Před 3 lety +6

    21st day..no smoking..thank you

    • @CBQMethod
      @CBQMethod  Před 3 lety +2

      Congratulations on your success!

    • @authorrajusingh6916
      @authorrajusingh6916 Před 3 lety +1

      CBQ Method to Quit Smoking thank you so much ..whenever I feel cravings I watch your vedios , they are so satisfying and inspiring...best of luck ❤️❤️

    • @amberdreama2711
      @amberdreama2711 Před 3 lety

      @@authorrajusingh6916 me too - thank u nasia!!

  • @cameronpagnani4818
    @cameronpagnani4818 Před 3 lety +1

    I’m the same way as the individual who was worried
    about quitting smoking since he thought that’s cigs
    were the only way to manage his anger issues.
    Sadly I can not abruptly quit therefor
    I’m just reducing to quit so far this strategy
    has been working perfectly for Me.

  • @sithulemajokweni9075
    @sithulemajokweni9075 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you for this video

  • @torpedo2300
    @torpedo2300 Před rokem +2

    Simply amazing 💯🎯

  • @TriciaHaselton
    @TriciaHaselton Před 2 lety +2

    Love your videos, especially on dealing with our emotions. Thank you so much for your work 💕.

  • @jubedachowdhury9122
    @jubedachowdhury9122 Před rokem +1

    Very helpful

  • @lilylivingstone2078
    @lilylivingstone2078 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Very helpful. Thank you

  • @user-ve5vf6cn2h
    @user-ve5vf6cn2h Před rokem +1

    Your information is helpful

  • @abhirupdutta1452
    @abhirupdutta1452 Před 2 lety +1

    Yes more videos please!

  • @JoJo-xb7do
    @JoJo-xb7do Před 3 lety +3

    If you can do more videos on emotional side of smoking please. I have quite intense emotions, sometimes they are very intense so I find it hard to replace my craving to smoke with more healthy alternatives.

    • @CBQMethod
      @CBQMethod  Před 3 lety +2

      Hi Jo Jo, thank you for your comment. If you smoke to help you cope with intense emotions, we recommend tuning in to a different, helpful emotion as soon as you notice you’re feeling those intense emotions (sad, angry, stressed, depressed, etc.) An emotion you can tune into is gratitude. We can't feel negative emotions (anger, frustration, stress, depression) and grateful at the same time. 🙂 In this video below, Nasia will show you how to practice gratitude: czcams.com/video/mJPIhPq4klM/video.html

    • @JoJo-xb7do
      @JoJo-xb7do Před 3 lety +3

      @@CBQMethod thank you for your reply and advice. Will that tomorrow

  • @dianecantin4798
    @dianecantin4798 Před 2 lety +1

    Yes

  • @zz-ic6vy
    @zz-ic6vy Před 2 lety +2

    thank you! i am watching lots of your videos while on my second day without cigarettes. For me it is soo much mental addiciton. My dad died on Friday and i am in bad mental state plus other bad staff happened. I cannot smoke anymore because of my income got too small. I wish i could smoke. I honestly don't know how to survive.

    • @whatsupw9017
      @whatsupw9017 Před rokem

      Condolences to you for your dad, I know it been a while now hope things get much much better and you keep trying 🙏🏼💕

  • @srb8486
    @srb8486 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you very much..

  • @shannettemcfarland1379
    @shannettemcfarland1379 Před 3 lety +12

    I would love to hear more on emotions and quitting. This is a big problem area for me in quitting. Also how do you feel about herbal cigarettes as a method for quitting.

    • @CBQMethod
      @CBQMethod  Před 3 lety +8

      Hi Shannette, thank you for commenting! I will do more videos on this topic :) A method to quit smoking has to take you through the emotional, behavioral, and mental changes you need to go through so you can live life without smoking. For that reason, I don’t see herbal cigarettes as a method to quit smoking because herbal cigarettes can’t help you change how you think about & see smoking. Perhaps it’s a tool to keep your hands busy, but if that’s what you’re looking for it’s best to try something that doesn’t require inhaling things (even if they’re herbs) I explain more about it here: czcams.com/video/JrgJXJ-ldUg/video.html hope it helps :)

    • @cameronpagnani4818
      @cameronpagnani4818 Před 3 lety

      I was wondering if an herbal cig would help me quit.

    • @amberdreama2711
      @amberdreama2711 Před 3 lety +1

      Maybe try meditating in the morning - a successful meditation will increase your brain's emotional radar - you'll see the anger coming so you can acknowledge what it is rather than just get consumed by it. It basically makes your brain wise up and chill out so it's not tricked into wasting time being angry.

  • @purelove444
    @purelove444 Před 6 měsíci

    please can you make more videos on emotional management. 💗

  • @dianecantin4798
    @dianecantin4798 Před 2 lety +1

    Yes more emotion video

  • @janedoe8566
    @janedoe8566 Před 3 lety +4

    I love your videos!! ❤️ I quit and relapsed but you make me feel like I can do this. They say it’s 80% mental right

    • @amberdreama2711
      @amberdreama2711 Před 3 lety +7

      i've had no nicotine for 6 weeks and i'd say it's 99% mental!

    • @tommyhatcher3399
      @tommyhatcher3399 Před rokem +1

      @@amberdreama2711 For me it's 100% mental. I like nicotine cravings. Just a burst of energy. Only been a week off them for me. I don't get cravings anymore, just lots of mental symptoms. I actually miss being at work and only getting a smoke every 4 hours or so, because after 2 hours into a shift I'd get a bunch of cravings and it just motivates me and wakes me up. I can go a day without a smoke no problem. Done it tons of times when I use to smoke. But after that 24 hours life becomes bit of a nightmare. Never did go long enough to see the mental withdrawal subside. Hoping I make it this quit and find out how long it takes to feel normal again!

  • @janereich5170
    @janereich5170 Před 3 lety +2

    I feel like the main thing stopping me from quitting is that I keep making excuses to not do it “the house has to be clean” “I have to exercise first” I feel like the only way to quit is have all my life activities done and to just lay there in misery which isn’t the way to quit I realize and it’s why I never even try to too!

    • @helenkd1755
      @helenkd1755 Před 3 lety +2

      It’s so easy to use all these activities as a replacement!

  • @guroluke
    @guroluke Před 3 lety +1

    Yes please

  • @sjhr9036
    @sjhr9036 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you Nasia for the great content you're sharing. Do you provide training to aspiring tobacco treatment specialists?

    • @CBQMethod
      @CBQMethod  Před 3 lety +2

      You're very welcome! This is something we're currently working on (and looking forward to making available!!!) If you're interested, please email my team at support@cbqmethod.com

  • @chavaayalah6475
    @chavaayalah6475 Před 2 lety

    How do you stop smoking in the middle of the grief of the loss of a loved one? My grief is fresh and this has been what feels like an insurmountable obstacle in my quit smoking plan.

  • @marianneharris5155
    @marianneharris5155 Před rokem +1

    Hi there,I have just thought that throughout my smoking life of 30+years,I smoke everytime I have any emotion,from happy to sad,to lonely and bored!why would this be?

  • @foxcat2141
    @foxcat2141 Před 2 lety +1

    anger management videos please Nasia and more about how to cope for 3 mths!!!

    • @CBQMethod
      @CBQMethod  Před 2 lety

      Hello!! This video on how to manage anger and irritation will help you :) czcams.com/video/z4AAMAXISSA/video.html

  • @Nita-kf3gh
    @Nita-kf3gh Před 3 lety +2

    Nasia have you shared your story? Would love to hear how you got to this place

    • @CBQMethod
      @CBQMethod  Před 3 lety +2

      Hi Nita, yes of course! I share my story on the webinars I am hosting on how to quit smoking with the CBQ Method. If you want, you can register for one here: bit.ly/3nLUBMP - after the webinar you'll have a plan to quit with the CBQ that you can apply by yourself or with our team. Hope to see you there :)

  • @stoneagestreamer6987
    @stoneagestreamer6987 Před 3 lety +3

    I am pupil but I find it really difficult to focus and concentrate after quitting. Please guide me how to cope with this.

    • @CBQMethod
      @CBQMethod  Před 3 lety +2

      Hello, the initial lack of concentration after quitting smoking is because the mental cravings "thoughts about smoking" interrupt your train of thought. What you need to do is learn how to overcome and disregard those craving thoughts. Also, with time, you will notice you're better able to focus as a nonsmoker (as your brain takes in more oxygen and you don't have to interrupt yourself once every hour or so to smoke) You can learn more about withdrawal symptoms in our new video: czcams.com/video/XYeoCzUgwJA/video.html

    • @stoneagestreamer6987
      @stoneagestreamer6987 Před 3 lety +1

      @@CBQMethod much appreciated. It was helpful.

  • @janereich5170
    @janereich5170 Před 3 lety +2

    How do I manage severe depression and infertility stress while quitting?

    • @CBQMethod
      @CBQMethod  Před 3 lety +3

      Hi Jane, I'm sorry you're going through this. Keep in mind that both depression and infertility could greatly improve once you quit smoking. I talk more about depression and quitting smoking here cbqmethod.com/depression-after-quitting-smoking/ Let me know if it helps.

    • @janereich5170
      @janereich5170 Před 3 lety

      @@CBQMethod my husband is infertile I’m not infertile at all

    • @CBQMethod
      @CBQMethod  Před 3 lety +3

      @@janereich5170 thanks for clarifying. Please consider that smoking not only can't change this, but it also adds more problems to your life and mental health. You can see how to manage stress here: czcams.com/video/mJPIhPq4klM/video.html

  • @NK-lk1ly
    @NK-lk1ly Před 3 lety +2

    quitting smoking is easy.. to manage the emotion is hard..

  • @cincin4515
    @cincin4515 Před 3 lety +1

    Rage. Hair trigger uncontrollable rage.

  • @ITSME-qw5gz
    @ITSME-qw5gz Před 3 lety +2

    ladies and gentlemen if you really want to quit just ask jesus for help I promise you he will get you sober but you must have a relationship with him just pray to him daily mourning and nite 😀👍