Meet my ENTJ fiancé! 🥳 Playing the Couples Game
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- čas přidán 9. 08. 2023
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⌛ T I M E S T A M P S : ⌛
2:05 Who is the quieter one?
2:11 Who is more prone to rambling/ranting?
2:44 Who is the more sensible one?
2:49 Who likes to leave social gatherings first?
3:01 Whose circle of friends is larger?
3:18 Who is more likely to forget their keys, wallet etc?
3:32 Who is more of a morning person?
3:54 Who is louder?
3:58 Who is more energetic?
4:28 Who is better at getting things done?
5:18 Who is more likely to strike up a conversation with a stranger?
5:24 Who’s the messiest?
6:02 Who is more competitive?
6:14 Who has a better work/life balance?
6:45 Who took the first step in the relationship?
7:23 You enter a crowded room of chaos. There is an unattended microphone. Who grabs it first?
7:55 Who is more organised?
9:55 Who is more likely to use subliminal messages to manipulate people?
11:02 Who is the most talkative?
11:06 Who takes more risks?
11:16 Who is more idealistic?
12:11 Who is more likely to survive longer in the cold?
12:50 Who is more playful?
13:05 Who’s more likely to obsess over getting their hair just right?
13:58 Who is more likely to get road rage?
14:13 Who’s more likely to offer a crying stranger a hug?
14:31 Who would last longer on a deserted island?
15:15 Who’s more likely to cry at our wedding?
16:09 Who’s more likely to sing in a church choir?
16:39 Who is more likely to get arrested?
17:22 Who is more likely to be late?
17:27 Who puts more effort into their appearance?
18:03 Whose life goals are grander?
18:17 Who is more likely to wash the dishes straight away?
18:42 Who has better music taste?
20:42 Who gets scared easier?
20:55 Who is the one to remove the spider from the room?
21:07 Who is most likely to get caught up in their work?
21:15 Who is more Australian?
22:01 Who is more likely to repetitively lend money to a friend?
22:43 Who comes up with more evil or chaotic ideas?
23:29 Who has given more public speeches?
23:52 Who is the clumsiest?
23:56 Who is more into reading?
24:10 Who is more creative?
24:30 Who is funnier?
25:41 Who is more likely to become famous for cooking?
25:54 Who is more anxious?
26:14 Who is bossier?
27:26 Who is more likely to try new things first?
27:37 Who is more likely to apologise first after an argument?
27:56 Who’s more likely to spontaneously work for hours at an impractical time because they just had an idea?
28:18 Who is more likely to command the attention of a room?
28:51 Whose constructive criticism is the harshest?
29:51 Who is more stubborn?
30:41 Who is more communicative in the relationship?
30:53 Who loves the other more?
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Jesus loves you ❤️ please turn to him and repent before it's too late. The end times described in the Bible are already happening in the world.
Hmmm why only Andrew's lol but it's good enough!! Thanksss
Introducing yourself as your fiancée’s ex-boyfriend/ex-girlfriend is a power move.👰♀️❤️💐
I finally understood. He is now her fiance so it means he is her ex boyfriend omg😂
This man is ridiculously charismatic (and just as handsome). Your interaction is bliss to watch ❤
just as charismatic and handsome as Bene :bene:
@@jashepoonTrue Bene and Andrew are both gorgeous and charismatic, it’s like they came out of an anime
I agree!
Your fiance seems so sweet and has a great sense of humor, the way he teased you throughout the game was so wholesome! 😂
"Andrew has a deep reason for liking each artist and I'm like 'It's a vibe!'" ... best comparison of intuition versus sensing ever!
I can convince myself I’m not cold but I can’t convince myself I’m not hot.
All meanings acceptable…
Lol.
The way he looks at you~!!!!
Cute cute couple I love you guys🥰
I know 🥲 He's the best!
Thank you!
Q: "Who's more idealistic?"
This is something a lot of people don't understand about even the most pragmatic of NTs. NTs are idealists at heart. We just idealize understanding (Ti) reality for what it is or how we can shape (Te) the world around us within the confines of what's ACTUALLY possible. We don't pretend that good intentions equate to good outcomes.
14:20 "I would offer a crying stranger not a hug but a *business merger eliminating wasteful redundancies* to make their day better." - Andrew
As an INTJ, I deeply stan this subconscious ENTJ-nuity. You've chosen well, you have, Kristin.
Hahahahaha
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Gib me more Andrew
The man's a genius
He gives me genius vibes
Hehe I may finally have an acting partner soon! 😃
@@dearkristinhe seems like a natural
And he's got a fantastic teacher 😊
@@dearkristin Ah, poor Andrew. You have now given him more chances to become self-conscious. I await those chances eagerly though; he seems like a good actor. He has a good command over even the slightest changes in his facial expressions and is aware of how he's coming off. Which is probably an Ni thing...
-infj
I am in love with the part where you were like:
«Actually I’m definitely more bossy actually🧐🤔»
«No, You’re not🙂»
And then you look at each other and go «😌🥰»
Both of you vibe so well, it’s like you have known each other forever. Andrew has great chill energy, he reminds of Alex turner, even with how he said “I organize things better”. Also cool Arctic monkeys T-shirt, Kristin! I haven’t seen one in pink anywhere else. Anyway, great video! You guys are sweet 🥰
I'm sure you've made Andrew's week by saying he reminds you of Alex Turner 😆
@@dearkristinAww that’s sweet, he seems great, you guys are adorable 🥰
This video absolutely delivered 😂😂 Great job on camera, Andrew! 🎉 It's always so much fun watching you two interact.
Also I went back to watch our version after watching this one and can't believe it was filmed over TWO YEARS AGO!?
Thanks for the lols this evening haha
I KNOW. What is time.
@@dearkristin
time
noun
1.
the indefinite continued progress of existence and events in the past, present, and future regarded as a whole.
Hope this helps!
@@camcamthemuffinmanIt was clearly meant as a rhetorical question as she didn't even bother to put in a "?". Also if she simply forgot to put that in she could also be referring to time in the context of philosophical(it may be scientific at this point) ideas about relation between space and time and times linear or seemingly linear movement.
Andrew seems really sweet, I'm glad that we finally got to meet him. I hope that he'll be in more videos in the future. Congratulations on your engagement! 💍🎊🔮
Hope you don't mind me saying this, but I've noticed that you are in the comment section of every single channel I watch. Your taste in CZcams/ Music/ Film is fantastic.
@@Graywyck Thank you very much, great minds certainty think alike. 🥰
your answers were so similar to how i (ENTJ, the objectively funnier one) and my girlfriend of 3 years (ESFP) would have answered😂
- andrew’s music taste is better
- please have him back on the channel soon! and on the pod🙏
1) He's hilarious (but then I could be biased because I am an INTJ)
2) Would love to see him back on the channel! Did not appear like it was his first time on camera at all
“I apologize to you if I did not meet your expectations, but it’s okay because I did meet someone’s” omg that is so cute. Between the moments of playful teasing and also genuine sweetness, seeing you two interact is adorable!
Also I vote for Kristin’s music taste, John Mayer is one of my favorites!
Thanks!! 😄😄🥳🥳
a few things:
1) YOU GUYS ARE SO CUUUUUUUUUUUTE brb melting away into a freaking puddle
2) Team Kristin's music taste all the way
3) Andrew's humor is absolutely exquisite
😃😃😃😃😃 Peachy!!
He has such an ENTJ voice.
I actually think he's an INTP, doesn't seem ENTJ at all
@@xarastewartmusic ah yes, you know him better than kristin does, his actual fiance
@@ToibiDoesStuff Definitely INTP
Yesssss 😂😂
What is an ENTJ voice?
On camera, he feels like an ISTP
I adore how ESFPs bring me joy and a state of mindfulness like no other type can, and ENTJs exploit my productivity and my potential habilities like no other type can... you're both incredible 🥰
In Count Dooku's voice, "I've been looking forward to this."
12:32 YES I think its a very xNxJ thing! I do that very often. When interacting with people I tell myself it's not awkward and as soon as I do that, I suddenly stop feeling awkward and my conversation partner takes that vibe too
INTJ: It's funny how similar Andrew is to me. Similar tone of voice, similar manner of speech, similar kind of stillness. Similar dry, witty humour. I'm organised but I'm not especially tidy (and I ended up checking to see if a rail strike was on the day I intended to travel next and... didn't read past the first paragraph... yeah, that was an embarrassing mistake though I quickly made a plan for it). I mean, it's funny but also expected.
14:02 🤣 y’all are freaking adorable.
Smiling from ear to ear the whole time 😭 more content with Andrew!
Oh wow… actually “meeting” Andrew was something I never thought we’d actually see until after the wedding, so this was an amazing surprise!! I couldn’t stop smiling, you guys are such a fantastic couple and I’m so so happy for you both!!
As a side comment, Andrew definitely seems like a 5w4 (my second guess would be 4w5 or 9w1) on the Enneagram, and (given I haven’t made this conclusion erroneously) that boggles my mind… I’ve met so many non-typical ENTJs it’s insane, usually they’re 3s or 8s
Cute video! I didn't see the title and guessed him as an INTJ. I am close! He really seems INTJish for an ENTJ! But I'm sure video is different than real-life!
1. He love loves her that’s obvious and makes me so happy for Kristin 💖
2. This proves for me that I am just drawn to entjs.
Andrew wins the music taste competition! We need him back more!
if this guy comes back too often for the skits, i think the channel will be renamed to 'dear andrew'. he was quiet in this vid, but i know my fellow ENTJs. 3-4 skits and he's gonna steal the show.
Hahahahaha
This dynamic really makes a lot of sense to me. The cognitive functions make it so that you are similar enough to have a connection but different enough to help each other grow! My ESFP aunt also married an engineer (although I believe he is INTJ) at age 31 and they have 8 children and a beautiful marriage! They’ve always been my example! I wish you the best ❤️
I regularly experience how xNTJs don't like to overfill their mental boxes.... one idea or explanation per category pls!! Hard when u like to say things a hundred different ways eh Kristen? Cute how xNTJs are so patient with us xxFPs..
It’s hilarious to me that Andrew’s music taste is identical to mine as an ENTP. 😂 Also, through the computer screen imaginary high five, Kristin, he seems like a good one! Congrats!
Also you both have great music taste since you are a fan of Anberlin and Taylor but also Andrew for liking Arctic monkeys first, Led Zeppelin and the black keys. Wait a minute both of you were in the sculpture of anything goes music video?! I’m so jealous! And I’m glad you had fun ❤🤗Did you guys go to the pop shop they had in Australia?
Andrew was at work so he couldn't go but I did!! Such a cool experience!!!!
@@dearkristin Now I’m more envious but I’m glad you had fun and watch the music video there as well! 💜🤗
6:52
the look of a gal who remembers her shameless flirting
(and no 10 seconds later, she confirms my thoughts heh)
👌👌👌
What a lovely couple! You clearly are a perfect match for one another, you have awesome chemistry together. God bless you both! 💖
Also I can't help but notice, has Andrew ever been told he looks like a young Tim Curry? I think it's the eyes. He's a handsome catch!!
He is pretty witty
Love love love! You guys are literally shining! So happy for you both and what your future will bring! Also, I loved him trying to throw you off with the wrong answer 😂 can’t wait to finish the entire video!
You too are so cute! I have to laugh that he's ENTJ cus my other fave MBTI CZcamsr is Frank James. He's INFJ, but his wife is also ENTJ. I get a silly kick out of that. Congrats to you and your 'ex' ;)
Frank James is actually an INFP but apparently, he ignores that.
@@hamidousy5460Yes, I get very INFP vibes from him too.
It’s really easy to see that you two mesh very well together! Enjoy seeing these couple videos!
This video made me UNBELIEVABLY happy!! Congratulations Kristin 🥳
You complement each other so well! Swooning 😍 Such a beautiful couple!
Your fiancée is so sweet and handsome! I'm so glad that you were able to do the Couple's Game together (Your reactions to the paddles are always so much fun)!
YES I LITERALLY JUST TELL MYSELF ITS NOT COLD WHEN IT IS AND MY BODY BELIEVES ME, IT DOES HELP
Ok guys buckle in for some Ne random thoughts as I watch this:
OMG THE VIBES of this video- like ahhhhh this dynamic is so much fun, and you both seem so happy! But also the ENTJ-ESFP dynamic is awesome! But also Andrews just vibes of “yay I win” is so funny to me because I mean the TE! But also his joy when he debates into saying he’s better 10/10.
“I feel like when I’m hanging out with you I have your undivided attention”
“You do”
Awwwwwww, as someone who has quality time as their top love language that part made me SQUEAL!
You two are absolutely adorable! ❤❤
Andrew is a gem 👌🏻
I love how Andrew glances at you smilingly from time to time. I really am very happy for you, Kristin. Experience and explore the world just like this: smilingly (and competetively ;)).
OMG! He's amazing!! You are truly blessed to have him 😊
He's so peaceful, and yet humourous
(personally, I think Andrew's taste in music is really good....in my opinion
But yours is awesome too )
Such a lovely couple! Hoping to see Andrew in a skit very soon! Congrats to you both! 🎉
Such an adorable couple, you guys look so in love 🥰 Love the chemistry you bring to the screen together ✨
Finished the interview! Andrew is a cool gentleman. No wonder he can shake off the cold so easily having such a warm-hearted better half to look forward to spending the rest of his life with to help him grow towards sainthood! Nice hearing how generous he is. Looking forward seeing him in future skits! Thank you for such a fun, insightful interview, Kristin, going above and beyond with the directing and visuals! Your humble comedy shows who's boss in the funny department! God bless you both. Hope you have a light-filled, peaceful weekend. Hope you two are having a very Happy Friday.
Congratulations, He's a major sweetheart !
Shalom, and good luck. May this be a long life together.
He is a charmer for sure 😂 but as an entp, his many "sure" would drive me insane. Happy for you guys! Looking lovely💜
Finally got time to watch this!
Andrew has the better musical tastes on the grounds that I've actually heard of the artists he listens to. Half of Kristin's list I was like "who?"
My parents are ENTJ and ESFP too! So cool to see you guys, such a underrated pairing :)
I don't know about your music tastes, but I think you both have really good taste when it comes to choosing a fiancé. ;) This was super cute and wholesome and Andrew is awesome (and yeah, quite ENTJ). Looking forward to seeing him more around here! Cheers!
You're such a sweet coupleeee🥰
And Andrew, i definitely agree that you can be less cold by telling yourself that you're not cold
You are incredibly adorable and a perfect match! I adore Andrew's clever occasional teasing and y'alls keen awareness of all the quirks that make up your relationship. It's simply heartwarming to watch. 🥰 Thank you for sharing this with us, Kristin!!
Awww thanks Joyce!! 🥳🥰🥰
As an ENTJ, my answers guessing with your finance matched 100%. You guys are going to be fantastic. Just don't wear him out too much. :P Funny thing is, I could prob caption his thought processes in the entire video, and it's hilariously competitive. He really loves you.
awwww kristin
Cute!!!!! You are both adorable... Andrew is a charming and gentle man! 🥰😍
Congratulations to both of you
That guy must be too good to be true!
I whish Good luck to you both, so this relationship could grow even after long years.
you guys are adorable! and obviously kristin has the better music taste 💁♀️
WE NEED MORE ANDREW🥰 He was a NATURAL on camera. He seems very chill, and the interactions between you two seem very smooth and healthy. Very satisfying to listen to :) I like how accepting and calm he is, and how he responds with «sure», or «yeah. Alright. Ok. If you insist 😌🙂».
My first thought when I saw the thumbnail and the name for this video was «Oh, cool! I’m an ENFP, and my boyfriend of 3 years is an ESTJ, so it will probably be kind of similar» but NOPE heheheh😅. There’s a lot more «debating for fun» and tons of fun chaos XD
I didn’t expect you two to be so calm and so perfectly «in sync» with each other, i guess. It was interesting to watch. So happy for you two!! :D
PS: I’m so sorryyyy but my vote for the best music taste has to go to Andrew 🥹
Aww thanks 😁😁
I’m with andrew on the music!
Love this
What a lovely jaeger-lecoultre watch that Andrew has on ❤a great TIME had by all 😂 I’ll keep WATCHing for sure 😂😂
You are both adorable! Two things:
- by the things your fiance said, i totally would have known he was an engineer about halfway in if he hadn't mentioned it 😊 i work with mostly engineers and they are all about finding the quickest way to do something
- the cold: above freezing mind over matter can work.... Below freezing 32°F/0°C, death can occur with overexposure without proper gear, so just wear a jacket 😊
And this was so cute!!!! ❤🎉 Very happy for you both 👰🏻♀️🤵🏻♂️💍
Oh, and, dear Kristin, i love you and your channel, but i align more with Andrew's music taste 😊
Oh, I can’t wait to find the one for me 🥺. You two are so cute
It’s weirdly interesting how your *husband is similar to my 1st relationship (INTP). Congratulations on getting married, Kristen 😊🌹. You look gorgeously astonishing.
-an ISTJ
I'm happy for you both.
My vinyl collection features both of your shared favorites, three of Andrew’s unique picks and only one of Kristin’s so by that metric, Andrew has the better taste. Sorry Krisp!
I forgot KEANE!! 😭
@@dearkristin If I’m counting cds, that brings you to three unique artists.
As far as her personal tastes, I give Kristin some credit for liking Elton John. But she's quite good at selecting background music for her videos.
Y’all are so cute I can’t 😭
"Who is more competitive?"
*flashback to results of first question*
Andrew: I won!
Hahahaha
@@dearkristinLater in the video, though, YOU said that you "won" a round.
Just started watching and I can already tell this relationship is wonderful and wholesome. I'd never considered this mbti pairing before but you share every function so I imagine you balance each other beautifully, each encouraging healthy use of the other's lower functions. He's also very handsome, good job on that lol. Best wishes to you both 💜🦋
p.s. sorry kristin but andrew has impeccable choices for his favorite artists. However from your mbti as songs video I can also say your taste is 10/10. You introduced me to some solid music
Hehe thank you 😊
I'm very happy for both of you.
Also
_Is it just me or does Andrew look like young Tim Curry_
He does
This is a nice example of both having exactly same cognitive functions in their origin stack. Hence they fight for the same thing constantly but in a different way of approach.
I think, He is ready to accept all things , whatever she says because he decided not to argue 11:00 for now but not sure about later. What I see is There is too much comprise from ENTJ side and ESFP dont want to notice since she is in cloud 9 29:30. Obviously I'm no one to judge here.
Yesss, so happy to hear Andrew is gonna be part of the skits in the future!
You two are such a cute couple!
12:30 I've tried this before and I think it does help if you tell yourself you aren't cold.
18:26 Kristin explaining in Si :D
20:25 I prefer Kristin's taste in music.
25:06 I personally wouldn't describe myself as a funny person.
She's Se.
Yeah I know, that's why I pointed it out. I'm an ISFJ and that's sth I would say when doing the dishes :D
19:29 dude, Andrew. Yes. You win!
He’s very ENTJ. Not so much that he’d find himself starting an unnecessary revolution, but a constructive thinker who’s a lil softie for his lady.
first of all congratulations kristin on getting engaged to such an awesome and supportive person. thanks for inviting him to meet us through the video even though he seems to quite busy (obviously career in STEM) , from the moment I have analysed u in ur videos after knowing ur channel I have always look up to u (cuz I am also mbti maniac girl who uses it to improve myself and try to understand people around me ) ur video have guided me a lot and today's video felt like that my older sister was introducing her husband to be , I was enjoying the video with a big grin on my face whole time , I really don't care about mbti ships or compatibility what matter the most is that ur partner care for u and enjoys your new perspective in his life. both of u were amazing in video😻 , very understanding and great playful bonding . LOVE IT! Wishing for ur great happy married life together from bottom my heart 💌 thanks for sharing such a wholesome video
Aw this is so sweet! Thanks so much!
Wow...as an Entj I find his behavior so relatable 😂
Entj engineer here and I have the exact same music taste as Andrew!
Btw Congrats you guys🎉
I want to see Andrew to see more!!!
Dope! ENTJs rule 😎
I smiled the entire time.
He has found a beautiful awesome genuine person beautiful video
Wow! The current rarest personality.
25:06 I ‘obviously’ have a great sense of humor, but I absolutely wouldn't describe myself as a funny person.
And yeah, Andrew's jokes are ‘lame’ (or whatever other adjective you want to insert here) but the way he delivers them makes it funny. It's a sort of deadpan humor.
Another awesome *ntj named Andrew. One of us!
It's always good to see different types in real life! Edit to add: gotta go with Andrew's music.
7:09 There was a couple in high school who both got to be in lead roles in theater. Their rehearsal ended right before a kissing scene, so the girl said to her boyfriend, "Do you wanna practice it now?" He said, "Nah, I'm good." She kept trying to convince him a few times, and he could not for the life of him see that she was just trying to find an excuse to kiss him. I told my 2 best friends, and the boy in the group said, "It wasn't THAT obvious." We girls were mind blown.
12:22 It's true, telling yourself you're not cold, or imagining hot coals on you, can trigger blood to go where it needs to in order to make you feel warm. Buddhist monks use that, too, I've heard.
You said he went on a Christian mission. What church?
You look good together
Im obsessed with mbti and Arctic Monkeys is my fav band ever SO THIS IS LIKE THE MULTIVERSE FOR ME
Maybe it's because I have a lot in common with Kristin as an ISFP, but I would definitely gravitate more toward her musical tastes. Coldplay in particular is the musical equivalent of comfort food for me, and I too had a Maroon 5 phase.