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  • čas přidán 10. 07. 2019
  • Our third animated short-film from 'Shattering the Silence', entitled “Child Marriage”, is told through the eyes of a young girl, and follows the story of Mina, a child who is pulled out of school and married off at a young age. As the film progresses, we see the physical and mental toll that an early marriage can have on a child bride, and consequently the limited opportunities that lend themselves to women with no proper educational qualifications when marriages don't work out.
    Through resilience, determination and awareness, Mina is ultimately able to turn her life around when she approaches Panah - a shelter that not only takes both Mina and her daughter in but gives her vocational training.
    Voiceover: Rabia Kiran Rajpoot
    Illustrator: Hassham Shabbir
    Producer/Scriptwriter: Eleyna Haroun
    Co-Producer: Kulsum Ebrahim
    Translations: Injila Hamesh
    Sound: Sameer Khan
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  • @someone-re7sq
    @someone-re7sq Před 2 lety +22241

    "Child Marriage is tradition"
    No, It's torture for the child.
    edit: please stop fighting when did this blow up

  • @savvyrainwater9598
    @savvyrainwater9598 Před 2 lety +15905

    Man: *marries a child*
    Also man: *gets mad at child for not being able to handle child birth or household duties only adults can manage*

    • @burnttoast1076
      @burnttoast1076 Před 2 lety +1535

      And even adults can’t manage household duties and children on their own.

    • @cupid.dazaii
      @cupid.dazaii Před 2 lety +422

      i'm mad at the man

    • @DaGlamorousDread
      @DaGlamorousDread Před 2 lety +162

      @just an average viewer Yeah, there's a lot of people like that and that's the one of the things that I'm fear of.

    • @omarshinwari7823
      @omarshinwari7823 Před 2 lety +6

      @@burnttoast1076 yeah western adults like yourself cant
      men and women from east csn

    • @chemomile9515
      @chemomile9515 Před 2 lety +157

      @@omarshinwari7823 you talk like you know that person personally. Way to go on making assumptions, maybe try and not discriminate people as if you know who they actually are.

  • @inspector5122
    @inspector5122 Před 2 lety +24327

    Pedophilia is not a cultural thing. It is abhorrent, barbaric, victimizing and outright should be punishable in every country.

    • @LAVENDERP
      @LAVENDERP Před 2 lety +423

      this

    • @Nonyah123
      @Nonyah123 Před 2 lety +2118

      Sadly it's not considered pedophilia. In many cultures once a child starts her period she is considered an adult. This needs to end..

    • @errortryagainlater4240
      @errortryagainlater4240 Před 2 lety +646

      @@Nonyah123 the "logic" behind it is that "men should marry a woman who is as fertile as possible" but they conveniently ignore how that STILL doesn't make sense from a biological perspective. Someone whose body _hasn't even finished growing yet_ can't possibly have a safe, healthy pregnancy, but stupid people ignore that because "she's menstruating"...ugh 😑

    • @fefek1
      @fefek1 Před 2 lety +344

      If I'm gonna be honest, I would commit mass genocide on ped*s if it was possible.

    • @scrub6749
      @scrub6749 Před 2 lety +472

      @@Nonyah123 shit, thats messed up. :/

  • @kinpyo13
    @kinpyo13 Před 2 lety +3973

    I am currently pregnant with a baby girl and all my relatives can talk about is how she’s just gonna get married at a young age and leave us. I cannot believe people still have those kind of mindsets. They need to understand that our generation is not the same. We have opportunities and we can get our girls educated and they can make their own decisions. Girls are not burden. They are blessings. We need to treat our girls right and teach them to be independent.

    • @Mystical_artist
      @Mystical_artist Před 2 lety

      Yes it's really sad girls are seen as baby makers in charge of the whole house and everything we are woman not slaves to half of the terrible men in this world slaves had to fight to be free we had to fight to be free sure we have breast and a butt or are just a child but that is no invitation into our bodies

    • @rainchase985
      @rainchase985 Před rokem +140

      literally my grandparents cannot shut up about how I’m gonna leave them at 25, wtf at least give me a chance to live my fucking life?

    • @salimd7842
      @salimd7842 Před rokem

      What about learning the homosexuality in schools for children at the age of 4 and 5 in Europe, and convince them that they were born in the wrong body?, What about cutting their genitals under the name of "sex reassignment surgery"?... What about pregnant European girls at the age of 11 and 12 from her boy friend?. Why do 100,000 children disappear every year in Europe?

    • @inuhundchien6041
      @inuhundchien6041 Před 11 měsíci +56

      Lmao whether it's a boy or a girl the child will leave the parents in the end. Do they still have the expectations that the first born son will live with them to take care of them? These kind of people better save for retirement rather than expecting their children to take care of them when they are old.

    • @queenmdaqueen
      @queenmdaqueen Před 11 měsíci +50

      I hope your baby becomes a very smart woman

  • @jessisamess4831
    @jessisamess4831 Před 2 lety +20236

    The fact that the bear seems to represent a childhood that was literally taken from the mother at a young age is sad, but when the mother gave her daughter her own bear that was in much better condition it showed how the mom was going to give her daughter a better childhood

    • @Mark-dy9pc
      @Mark-dy9pc Před 2 lety +15

      @Adolf Hitler czcams.com/video/C-l_CcWBlCw/video.html

    • @aysawa5673
      @aysawa5673 Před 2 lety +7

      @Adolf Hitler debunk it

    • @jamiecisfemalesheher5250
      @jamiecisfemalesheher5250 Před 2 lety +328

      Actually she made the bear, so the mother MADE her a better childhood. Not just give her one❤️

    • @king6530
      @king6530 Před 2 lety +31

      I mean. In America I can't even dream of getting married. There's now 45% more usd in circulation since c-19... So like, having a marriage and housing period sounds like a sweet deal.

    • @Whatsgoinawn
      @Whatsgoinawn Před 2 lety +68

      @@king6530 what the fuck? Are you saying that getting an arranged marriage is better? You do know that these kids are young and barely know the meaning of marriage right? And it’s not just marriage and housing, you have to deal with their shit, do all the housework, and most likely get abused. I really don’t know what the “sweet deal” you see here is. Marriage isn’t fucking important when everything you have you hate. And if you’re a man you most definitely should not be talking.

  • @Vick_or_somethin
    @Vick_or_somethin Před 3 lety +26588

    I hate when people say it's a culture thing so we should respect it.
    Culture can change over the years and should change when it involves harming others especially children.

    • @bat_man1234
      @bat_man1234 Před 2 lety +925

      Some of the rules were created by humans and over a period of time we started calling it as culture while it's not..

    • @red-sv2qf
      @red-sv2qf Před 2 lety +189

      Dutch people who still do blackface: No, no I really don't think so!

    • @frenchracqlett5368
      @frenchracqlett5368 Před 2 lety +268

      They can shove this culture up their @$$.. 😠

    • @doyouknowmyname5319
      @doyouknowmyname5319 Před 2 lety +394

      Yet they can’t respect their religion which tells them that kids cannot get married without their consent

    • @Anamfatima8649
      @Anamfatima8649 Před 2 lety +102

      @@doyouknowmyname5319 they just want to complicate life out of nowhere

  • @manishasen1400
    @manishasen1400 Před 2 lety +1735

    I am from India..and to be honest,the rural areas here aren't much different is this respect..child marriage is common in rural areas here as well..they give excuses cause they don't want to feed a belly that won't earn money but those girls can't earn money cause you keep them illiterate to control them in the first place.and there is the dowry system..those families consider girls as burden cause they would have to pay good dowry to get her married.and the list is so long..the gender discrimination is endless..boils my blood.

    • @jasminejelly6882
      @jasminejelly6882 Před 2 lety +51

      That sucks.... sometimes i wish i was a bajillionaire with magic so that i could know when these marriages are taking place and relocate the child and give them a better opportunity in life

    • @manishasen1400
      @manishasen1400 Před 2 lety +11

      @@jasminejelly6882 that would change nothing..I wish I could become invisible and fly here and there in a heartbeat so that I could shove bamboo sticks in their(who treat us women as inferior) pathetic sorry excuse of human asses.

    • @jasminejelly6882
      @jasminejelly6882 Před 2 lety +11

      @@manishasen1400 true... wish this obvious fact of child abuse can get through their thick skulls

    • @manishasen1400
      @manishasen1400 Před 2 lety +45

      @@jasminejelly6882 they don't consider it to be abuse..they have a delusion that everything they do they do it for the child's own good..and obviously to save their reputation because others will talk if they don't follow the 'social norms' 😂😂😂

    • @mi3helle707
      @mi3helle707 Před 2 lety +2

      💯

  • @yomi9004
    @yomi9004 Před 2 lety +564

    People say that child at 11 years old get married off because they get their period so it’s a sign that they are ready for pregnancy. No their not. Yes in the mental sens they’re not ready at all but also in the physical sense. There are girls who lost their womb due to a young pregnancy, people younger than 20 who became very sick, who even died because while the logic was there, it wouldn’t work in reality. My mother for example got a severe chronic injury in her back that’ll never heal by giving birth to me, and she was 22 or 23 so imagine a girl of 14. This is straight up abuse. Not only are they making a child work, they’re also exploiting her organs, they’re destroying her health for selfish purposes. Not to say its clearly pedophelia, especially if the girl marries a man who can be her father.
    Why do they treat woman and man differently? I want to ask the parents, so your son is your child but your daughter is not? They all came in this world the same way, why do you treat your daughter like a thing and your son like human? If you don’t consider every one of your child a treasure, you shouldn’t even be allowed to get children.

    • @thebigbrain99
      @thebigbrain99 Před 2 lety +48

      This is all true. There are too many broken children in this world. It's just too much. If you won't treat your children right, don't open your legs.

    • @weebs1511
      @weebs1511 Před 2 lety +5

      Fact

    • @chikiexx6587
      @chikiexx6587 Před 2 lety +8

      They women body is just helping them dose not mean they need to get baby's like wtf

    • @yuchuqiixx
      @yuchuqiixx Před 2 lety

      @@chikiexx6587 im sorry this is off topic but why do i see you a lot in the comment sections

    • @DriftWood17
      @DriftWood17 Před 2 lety +9

      Exactly, this was valid to do a thousand years ago, when people couldn't live as long as we do now, but in this generation, even after it's 100% not necessary anymore, people still pull stunts like this and ruin children

  • @sunshine-dz6xj
    @sunshine-dz6xj Před 3 lety +5844

    Child marriage is literally child slavery and it's sad to realize that such thing still exists

    • @sanchitaagte8215
      @sanchitaagte8215 Před 3 lety +6

      Is this IHaveNoConcept?

    • @alpha_jasperflair1097
      @alpha_jasperflair1097 Před 3 lety +25

      Is still exists because its Indian belief sigh*

    • @indiandude8968
      @indiandude8968 Před 3 lety +30

      @@alpha_jasperflair1097 we ended this

    • @alpha_jasperflair1097
      @alpha_jasperflair1097 Před 3 lety +4

      @@indiandude8968 oh thank u may God bless you have a great day❤️

    • @nandhanakrishnanr4990
      @nandhanakrishnanr4990 Před 3 lety +36

      @@indiandude8968 But there are so many places in india especially illiterate people who make their children to marry. I know a girl who came from bengal to kerala to work in a house as her family was poor. She was just 12. Now she is 18 and they are going to get her married. Here I am mentioning about child slavery.

  • @kowshikabhattacharya1529
    @kowshikabhattacharya1529 Před 3 lety +5834

    Child marriage is a kind of child slavery 😔😣😣😣

  • @catalinacaro8183
    @catalinacaro8183 Před 2 lety +432

    Once i heard a teacher say: "if its harmful to others tradition its not an excuse to keep doing it, not only because its tradition should be respected" and never forgot that

    • @ashleysalomon4349
      @ashleysalomon4349 Před 2 lety

      That teacher is and absolute idiot and shouldn’t be teaching if he/she can’t learn the basics of life himself/herself.

    • @Whatsgoinawn
      @Whatsgoinawn Před 2 lety +12

      @@ashleysalomon4349 huhhhhh????? Did you read that right or are you pro child marriage?

    • @ashleysalomon4349
      @ashleysalomon4349 Před 2 lety +1

      @@Whatsgoinawn no

    • @zandi1603
      @zandi1603 Před 2 lety +19

      @@ashleysalomon4349 what? Did u read it? The teacher was saying that if the tradition is harmful, u shouldn't do it and respect it just because it's tradition

    • @ashleysalomon4349
      @ashleysalomon4349 Před 2 lety

      @@zandi1603 yes

  • @tanishakulkarni8310
    @tanishakulkarni8310 Před 2 lety +310

    A great person once said "Culture doesn't make people. People make culture." I felt that it is absolutely true; we should continue to doing some things like respecting others, etc. but stop what is wrong and painful like child marriage.
    Hats off to the brave mother and her child.

  • @poojakakad4305
    @poojakakad4305 Před 3 lety +10099

    I was married at the age of 13 and my husband is 11years elder than me . They allowed me to study but they didn't realize that I was so small to hold the responsibility of the child

  • @yourestupid5302
    @yourestupid5302 Před 3 lety +17097

    “It’s a cultural belief” no..it’s a torture for the women

    • @tashathama2451
      @tashathama2451 Před 3 lety +278

      Exactly

    • @weirqueen6998
      @weirqueen6998 Před 3 lety +1051

      As a Muslim myself I say you say it louder for the people in the back. just because an important person something wrong centuries ago doesn't make it right. just because it's not specifically stated that it's wrong doesn't make it right. and blaming YOUR actions into religion is one of the stupidest things I ever heard.

    • @weirqueen6998
      @weirqueen6998 Před 3 lety +96

      @Greta Wilson Exactly!

    • @OrganicTrash
      @OrganicTrash Před 3 lety +564

      its not a religious thing, it's a poverty and uneducated tradition without morals

    • @Kabirkhan-ev2ws
      @Kabirkhan-ev2ws Před 3 lety +74

      @@OrganicTrash right!

  • @foxyloxyBABE
    @foxyloxyBABE Před 2 lety +71

    Someone i knew was forced to marry a man in his late 40s when she was only 12. Her parents just came into her room one day and told her they took a man’s dowry and that shes getting married in a few months. She didnt understand a lot of things like sex or love. Her parents didnt ask her if she wanted to marry him. She didnt even know how he looked like. She wasnt given the choice to say no. She got pregnant that same year and gave birth to her first child at 13.
    She never fought back against any horrible decision made for her by her parents, and eventually husband. She wasnt allowed education even though she wanted to learn. She wasnt allowed many things: her body, her consent, her mind. She was a puppet the day she was born.

  • @queenprecious5674
    @queenprecious5674 Před 2 lety +160

    The worst part is, they always marry them off to old men. I can’t imagine the trauma of being 14 and marrying a man of 45.🥺 I really can’t.

    • @wavehixeno4915
      @wavehixeno4915 Před 22 dny

      Yes but you can face taruma of underage girl start her onlyfans account

    • @Robo1332
      @Robo1332 Před 20 dny

      Imagine the other way around because it happens. What would the media think? Probably would not give a damn since shes not a guy. (Does not mean I support).

    • @Davidpluh
      @Davidpluh Před 20 dny +8

      My math teacher parents were the same (his mom is only 15 when giving birth) and his father was a 30 year old friend of his mom's father, but my teacher say that his mom was the one who want to marry. So his father were the one who raised him and now he felt alienated when together with his mother and tend to avoid her.

  • @LadybugsOpin
    @LadybugsOpin Před 2 lety +16109

    The "child at 14" bit actually had me in shock for a minute. I'm 25 and still a virgin! What the fuck is wrong with people who think making someone that age pregnant is okay?! I'm extremely impressed by the narrator's mother for putting up with that abusive bullshit for so long and then taking the necessary steps to break the cycle! I wish them all the best!

    • @LadybugsOpin
      @LadybugsOpin Před 2 lety +1591

      @@servantofthelivinggod6192 I'm still a virgin 'cause I'm a sex repulsed asexual... Which is a part of the lgbt+community. I understand that you're trying to be respectful in your own way, but please understand that with people like me being constantly oppressed by people with bibles, I gain immediate fear the moment someone mentions stuff like that. It makes me very uncomfortable because of the amount of hatred I receive due to my orientation. Like, I was baptized as a baby and I genuinely want to get said baptism annulled if at all possible because of the internal conflict that it gives me. That's how uncomfortable anything bible related makes me. I know you were just trying to be respectful in your own way, but I'm not a virgin 'cause I follow a bible. I'm a virgin 'cause I'm the type of gay that hates sex in all forms. I mean no disrespect to you, but I feel like I need to make the distinction clear. Thank you for the effort of trying to give me kind words, though. I know to appreciate that, at least.

    • @servantofthelivinggod6192
      @servantofthelivinggod6192 Před 2 lety +485

      @@LadybugsOpin Well, I did not quote A Bible verse at you, and now that you told me this, I will still not do so. I will not judge you. And my complement remains.

    • @emilybrown9863
      @emilybrown9863 Před 2 lety +546

      @@LadybugsOpin oh hey! I’m asexual too, it’s cool to see others around :D

    • @kenonerboy
      @kenonerboy Před 2 lety +257

      @@LadybugsOpin he legit just said he's a Christian. Thats it.

    • @SaSo-mk6yh
      @SaSo-mk6yh Před 2 lety +140

      @@LadybugsOpin yeah I did not need to know the 2nd line. P.s. asexual does not translate to gay.

  • @Karthika-ni1cp
    @Karthika-ni1cp Před 3 lety +9637

    They wanted that girl to marry their son because they wanted someone to do the works.... Are women servants or something... 😲

    • @manjusingh5088
      @manjusingh5088 Před 3 lety +227

      They must be thinking 🤔 like this way only because we girls are not servants of them as we are there punishment.... Of all this e men's wo think that we are their servants...

    • @nandlabh6349
      @nandlabh6349 Před 3 lety +140

      That is what still happens in India even today in many households in the rural side .

    • @ashokchakraborty1187
      @ashokchakraborty1187 Před 3 lety +4

      @@poulomibanerjee4389 are u bengali??

    • @poulomibanerjee4389
      @poulomibanerjee4389 Před 3 lety +9

      @@ashokchakraborty1187 Who are you?

    • @vibhavinod4470
      @vibhavinod4470 Před 3 lety +8

      Yeah😠😠😠😠

  • @nationalinstituteofcheese3012

    I can only imagine her family congratulating her and her just wondering, “what’s going on?” Like my eyes widened when I read, “At 14, she had her first child” like FUCKING EXCUSE ME??? My heart breaks for her. I can’t imagine the pain that would bring.

  • @el.oh.you.
    @el.oh.you. Před 2 lety +366

    Love how people call child marriage cultural and that we should respect it like it isnt straight up pedophilia (this is sarcasm in case anyone is mistaken)
    Thats a literal child. Why are you marrying her off to have her own child when her body isnt even ready???? "Shes menstruating shes an adult now" UM NO????? thats not how it works
    Godammit

    • @user-ho3uu4sn4p
      @user-ho3uu4sn4p Před 2 lety +14

      That’s exactly what I’m saying, it makes me sick

    • @foodofthegods
      @foodofthegods Před 2 lety +18

      Oh I’ve seen something along the lines of “that’s a child. they go to sleep at 9 pm and their favorite show is SpongeBob.” in response to something like this and I found it dark but humorous.

    • @ItsTanuki0_Clock
      @ItsTanuki0_Clock Před 2 lety +1

      Tbh, I really hate this infatuation with deffending Islam, specially by groups which are meant to fight for women's rights.
      Recently in my country there has been a huge illegal immigration issue and my people has suffered both phisical and sexual attacks in less than two years since they came.
      Not only that, but Muslim women's are trying to enforce no image DNIs for women because they say that women must not be seen by men, they are trying to ENFORCE US the Islam beliefs in a supposed developed country.

    • @bunnilueluvsyou6600
      @bunnilueluvsyou6600 Před 2 lety +2

      @@foodofthegods 9 pm, how are they so lucky?

    • @foodofthegods
      @foodofthegods Před 2 lety

      @@bunnilueluvsyou6600 idk

  • @Polnaratti
    @Polnaratti Před 3 lety +3820

    Im pakistani and I fully agree with the message that we have to stop this “Cultural belief.” Its not a cultural belief, these girls are married when theyre kids to old men and theyre forced to have these life styles which objectify them and I am out raged. I am not agreeing with parents who think this is okay.
    Kids cannot get married. Kids should not have to go through this. Nobody should have to go through this.

    • @tealisbored
      @tealisbored Před 2 lety +30

      Ya

    • @PDD555
      @PDD555 Před 2 lety +30

      @ademin s2 i don't necessarily think that he is a Muslim just for being pakistnai

    • @jasminejelly6882
      @jasminejelly6882 Před 2 lety +68

      @ademin s2 stop putting things on religion... its stupid customs that were set in the past that traditional people are too scared to break because of rumors of a terrible life could happen even tho they are the ones making this terrible life happen by allowing these marriages

    • @PDD555
      @PDD555 Před 2 lety +17

      @ademin s2 yeah, I know religions can promote it, but I'm not denying that, I'm saying that just because he's from Pakistan doesn't automatically mean he practices some kind of religion xd

    • @Polnaratti
      @Polnaratti Před 2 lety +25

      @ademin s2 Even if my belief says it, i still really dont think its okay. You cant rlly say that a 7 yr old should get married cuz religion says they can. If religion justifies it, doesnt mean its necessary.

  • @Happy_Potato0
    @Happy_Potato0 Před 3 lety +15514

    My grandmother got married she was 12.. my mom got married at 17.. but my mom is a strong woman she took decision to send me and my brother to live in Karachi at my grandmothers home so that we could get good education and she wanted us to study and become independent before marriage..now I have just completed my MBBS and have become a doctor..Alhumdulillah.. 😊😇

    • @mohonabiswas3457
      @mohonabiswas3457 Před 3 lety +623

      Congratulations Doctor❤️🎉

    • @time_time3038
      @time_time3038 Před 3 lety +255

      Congrats doc. Not that this matter or anything cuz my mom dont want to take me to the doctor can at least u tell me why im having darrahia for 3 weeks rn ?

    • @time_time3038
      @time_time3038 Před 3 lety +70

      @@Happy_Potato0 i dont have any sympthoms only the diarrhea nothing else , idn where it came from .... I have peanuts allergy and i sometimes have similar outcome after eating them but its just a reaction byt the thing that is happening rn . idn i didnt eat peanuts for 2 months so it cant be that .

    • @Happy_Potato0
      @Happy_Potato0 Před 3 lety +154

      @@time_time3038 Oh you have allergy maybe you ate something that has peanuts in it.. coz its not normal to have diarrhoea for that long.. Are you also allergic to dairy items like milk etc?
      It doesn't seems like an infection because you dont have any other symptoms then there must be something related to what you are eating..
      You just avoid any greasy oily food and spicy stuff, also avoid milk and other dairy products as well for atleast 3 days take a soft diet like porridge or oatmeal and whole grain bread, boiled chicken or soups.. Take Banana and dates for Potassium you are loosing.
      Then we will see if the diarrhea improves and goes away..

    • @time_time3038
      @time_time3038 Před 3 lety +50

      @@Happy_Potato0 only allergies that i know about that i have (food alergies)
      Is spinach ,peanuts and i think soy . from spinach i have stomachache from peanuts cough, sneezing and darrahia and from soy the same thing as spinach . (if i made spelling mistakes im sorry im dyslectic )

  • @I_Swear_Im_Straight
    @I_Swear_Im_Straight Před 27 dny +24

    My mother's grandmother was married at age 14. But she didnt let her children marry at a young age fortunately. She didnt want her children to face the same fate. Im happy that chain broke earlier in my family.

  • @MaddieFishblob
    @MaddieFishblob Před 2 lety +69

    It’s crazy how life-altering these things are. My grandma got married at 18 so she wasn’t underage, but she knew my grandfather for only a couple weeks before the marriage and then BOOM, she spends every day of the rest of her life with him. & even at 19 she really struggled with being a mom, I can only imagine what a 14 year old would feel - this is so sad!

  • @eshankid3141
    @eshankid3141 Před 3 lety +7189

    The dislikes are men who love making women's life miserable .

    • @legendaryevan4670
      @legendaryevan4670 Před 3 lety +78

      and your a person without a brain I can Promise that there is an even split on which gender disliked this video the most and the reason why the dislikes are so high is because its a controversial video

    • @irahdykeabueva4615
      @irahdykeabueva4615 Před 3 lety +518

      @@legendaryevan4670 Omg, found another incel!

    • @irahdykeabueva4615
      @irahdykeabueva4615 Před 3 lety +353

      @@legendaryevan4670 "Dislikes are so high" bruh, it's 1k dislikes over 61k likes, what are you smoking?

    • @inazuma2332
      @inazuma2332 Před 3 lety +184

      @@legendaryevan4670 incel over heree

    • @EmperorTyrael
      @EmperorTyrael Před 3 lety +211

      Ignore the dislike, even in cat or dog videos doing cute things there's someone disliking them for whatever reason.

  • @luvie0013
    @luvie0013 Před 3 lety +6483

    I am an indian. And tell u what this also happens india. Ofcourse there aren't many but it still exists in some rural areas. I just hope someday this world would be free from this disgusting shit called child marriage.

    • @mirroruniverse9331
      @mirroruniverse9331 Před 3 lety +174

      In rural areas as well, today it's little rare. But the concept of marrying off earlier still exist. I mean since the govt has a rule that until 18 no one should marry, so they marry off exactly at 18.
      Haww.

    • @snehamomlifestyle
      @snehamomlifestyle Před 3 lety +60

      We should thanks to our indian constitution for that....

    • @itzcreatoroffate8243
      @itzcreatoroffate8243 Před 3 lety +109

      Its not the only thing...child traficking , using them as drug loaders making them vandalize properties is also a problem and it happens due to ppl who let drug dealers take children from orphanages...just checkout the records...70% children go missing from orphanages. Lets pray to get a safer place

    • @snehamomlifestyle
      @snehamomlifestyle Před 3 lety +21

      @@itzcreatoroffate8243 it's heartbreaking...

    • @itzcreatoroffate8243
      @itzcreatoroffate8243 Před 3 lety +7

      @@snehamomlifestyle yea

  • @Gummybearsz
    @Gummybearsz Před rokem +33

    This still happens in Bangladesh, I have an aunt who’s 14 yrs old and her husband who’s my uncle is 30+ yrs old. In her wedding day I could tell she wasn’t very happy :( everyone was just telling her “why aren’t you happy it’s your wedding” but by her face I could understand what was going on inside her mind :(((

  • @teamblack204
    @teamblack204 Před 2 lety +200

    My own grandmother was only 13 when she was wedded to my grandfather. Hours before their wedding, her relatives found her playing in a park with other kids.
    Even sadder part is that she was 14-15 when she bore her firstborn child, my uncle. And then she bore 9 more children and only 5 of them survived.

    • @tildamo6911
      @tildamo6911 Před 2 lety +16

      same with my grandmother she born 15 children and only 9 of them survived

    • @JigglyPuff_JesusChristLovesYou
      @JigglyPuff_JesusChristLovesYou Před 28 dny +17

      Oh my goodness, reading that she was playing the day of her wedding felt like getting shot, she never should have been abused like that

    • @teamblack204
      @teamblack204 Před 28 dny +1

      @@JigglyPuff_JesusChristLovesYou Back that, it was a common tradition ib my country. And her own parents made her wed my grandfather, so it's not like she or others had a choice...

    • @JigglyPuff_JesusChristLovesYou
      @JigglyPuff_JesusChristLovesYou Před 28 dny +5

      @@teamblack204 I’m absolutely not blaming your grandma!! She was innocent in that! I’m blaming those who forced her into this abuse.

    • @teamblack204
      @teamblack204 Před 28 dny +1

      @@JigglyPuff_JesusChristLovesYou I know you don't blame her. I understand what you mean. But the thing is, child marriage was a normalized concept back then in my country. It still is in some places unfortunately...

  • @k-popkideewani9914
    @k-popkideewani9914 Před 3 lety +9017

    Even now many parents think that daughters are burden, but they don't understand that daughters are blessings. 😔😔

    • @diyafathima5409
      @diyafathima5409 Před 2 lety +56

      yes.

    • @guduruudayalakshmi6436
      @guduruudayalakshmi6436 Před 2 lety +116

      Oh why my parents love girls they think iam blessing for them

    • @arshadsharma3573
      @arshadsharma3573 Před 2 lety +311

      in my village still peoples get sad ...when a girl child is born.....

    • @ItsTheCloudy
      @ItsTheCloudy Před 2 lety +373

      I don't understand why daughters Are useless? What is that thing that only sons can do daughters Not? My father is really happy with me and I m a girl...

    • @guduruudayalakshmi6436
      @guduruudayalakshmi6436 Před 2 lety +11

      @@ItsTheCloudy ya

  • @i_guess_im_doing_this_now
    @i_guess_im_doing_this_now Před 2 lety +5799

    Ah yes beautiful culture of letting your daughter get married at a young age to old man and dealing with parenthood in a young age with zero help and experience making their life miserable when it already is.
    So beautiful

    • @pockythememe255
      @pockythememe255 Před 2 lety +58

      Well said

    • @fatherpucci8170
      @fatherpucci8170 Před 2 lety +145

      Well welcome to third world countries.

    • @kenonerboy
      @kenonerboy Před 2 lety +30

      Bro don't boil it down to its worst traits dude.

    • @fredericksaxton9782
      @fredericksaxton9782 Před 2 lety +190

      @@kenonerboy No. Don't f*cking tell me you're going to F*CKING defend CHILD MARRIAGES!! If so, you're a sick f*ck. There is NO REASON not to let a kid grow up and fall in love with someone they ACTUALLY KNOW AND CARE ABOUT, unless the kid is gonna die early and won't be able to expirience said things of course, but any other argument to try and tell me it's okay to either marry two children who don't know that their parents chose their lives for them, or marry a little girl to a middle aged man and impregnate her? Nah fam, I'm not gonna take you seriously. I believe in freedom, not forcing your underage child into a marriage that they very much won't like, AND keeping them from education as well so they literally have NOTHING but their forced marriage to rely on...can I force YOU to marry someone? Since you're so okay with it, you don't care about falling in REAL love OBVIOUSLY or being treated by your family like an object (quite a few child marriages are done because the boys family paid enough to have her, cause ah yes, I'm sure you support today's gold diggers to so I'm sure you don't mind), so you're the best candidate for this!

    • @catpoke9557
      @catpoke9557 Před 2 lety +122

      @@fredericksaxton9782 Even if they won't live long, still better to give them a CHOICE in the matter.

  • @joemama2012
    @joemama2012 Před 2 lety +44

    My great grandparents got engaged at 8years old and got married at 13/15, I can't imagine how confusing it must've been for both of them... :(

  • @jameshubert6103
    @jameshubert6103 Před 11 měsíci +27

    Remember what sonic said kids, if someone touches you in a place that makes you feel uncomfortable, first you say no, then you get out of there! Also tell a trusted adult

    • @charlie8829
      @charlie8829 Před 10 dny +1

      All the trusted adults in question being the ones to MARRY HER OFF

    • @kaworusshadowclone9392
      @kaworusshadowclone9392 Před 10 dny

      These are not the same situations...? These girls don't have trusted adults to tell ya dolt

  • @ShanthiniRvpcw
    @ShanthiniRvpcw Před 2 lety +3888

    When my sister was celebrating her 15th birthday I heard from many of my relatives arguing about 'who my sister have to marry' in advance (after two years). 😑😑😑😑😑 and they decided to make her marriage with a 28 years old bald man 😑😑😑 anyway her parents refused 😊 her parents got very upset that the way they talked about the girl like a livestock 😑😑 so they broke their own relative's relation and settled in a very far city 😑😑😑 These old generation people aren't accepting the world is developing and the up coming generation will not accept to have the same life style has these old people had 😑😑😑😑😑

  • @Sugarstar-zz9nu
    @Sugarstar-zz9nu Před 3 lety +7552

    My mother used to threaten me at the age of 12 and onwards that she would get me married if I didn't do as she asked me to because " she had every right to do so" so I did everything she asked me to no matter how it would affect my physical or mental health, now I'm an independent woman and soul and still unmarried lol I'm not interested in getting married even rn because unmarried or not , I'm a complete woman and no one can stop me from achieving my goals and dreams❤

  • @aniram.6079
    @aniram.6079 Před 2 lety +66

    My great grandmother married at 14 years old, and my family normalizes extreme age gaps, such as my cousin who was dating a 30 year old man when she was underaged and he waited to make it official when she turned 18, and they are now married. There is something very wrong about having to WAIT for your partner to be of age to declare yourself to them, as a fully grown 30 year old ADULT. This is not common in our culture whatsoever btw

    • @SweatierAcorn
      @SweatierAcorn Před 2 lety

      Idk why but I remember a certain orange man saying he'd be dating a girl in a few years, looking at a 14 year old.

    • @robthebob4586
      @robthebob4586 Před 14 dny

      Why is it wrong? He would have married before if it weren't for the law limiting it to only 18.

    • @ishaalimtiaz6715
      @ishaalimtiaz6715 Před 14 dny

      @@robthebob4586because of the massive gap in life experience and the massive difference in power ? People under 18 haven’t even fully developed their brains yet alone their bodies.

  • @xoxoavii
    @xoxoavii Před rokem +18

    It breaks my heart to see girls from the ages of like 9-13 getting married at such a young age. Little girls that range around that age should be going to school, doing their homework, and just getting their education in general. That should only be their priority/job, not getting married off to creepy old men who are in their mid 30's and forced to work for them like a housewife. It saddens me that these young girls don't even get a say in where their life goes, it's just done for them weather they like it or not. Pedophilia is NOT a cultural thing. I pray for the girls going through this..

  • @IshanDuttagglblord
    @IshanDuttagglblord Před 3 lety +2514

    Repeat after me,"Women are not your property!"

    • @seth-leong-scott3474
      @seth-leong-scott3474 Před 3 lety +57

      PREACH 👏🏻

    • @mentalchallanges
      @mentalchallanges Před 3 lety +63

      @ʂҽɾ_σ.ƚɾҽҽʂ people did think like that. They used women to clean and cook and if they didn’t do it the way men liked it, they would get beaten.

    • @giornogiovanna4117
      @giornogiovanna4117 Před 3 lety +11

      @@mentalchallanges 100 of years ago

    • @dunkey759
      @dunkey759 Před 3 lety +2

      @ʂҽɾ_σ.ƚɾҽҽʂ lmao

    • @chelliebean5773
      @chelliebean5773 Před 3 lety +70

      The problem is these are not even adult women yet, they are still little girls.

  • @surabhisingh3454
    @surabhisingh3454 Před 3 lety +4756

    I was surprised when I heard that she became pregnant at 14

    • @aaravrapelli4401
      @aaravrapelli4401 Před 3 lety +34

      Me too

    • @user-oq3gm4uq7k
      @user-oq3gm4uq7k Před 3 lety +281

      Yeah it might be possible.. Because some girls get their menstruation at age of 11 or 12..

    • @anaghapaul3987
      @anaghapaul3987 Před 3 lety +143

      Ya there are many girls who got teen pregnancy at that time and also this time(western countries) but its rare and not forceful as olden times

    • @aaravrapelli4401
      @aaravrapelli4401 Před 3 lety +9

      @@anaghapaul3987 Yes

    • @omyaairi
      @omyaairi Před 3 lety +289

      As a 14-year-old myself, I can't imagine how psychologically, physically, and mentally damaged being pregnant would make me.

  • @Kaizentry
    @Kaizentry Před 2 lety +52

    No matter the age it's still wrong to be forced over your own consent, especially when you're in no ready condition for it.

  • @keaganscott9808
    @keaganscott9808 Před rokem +15

    The mother was forced into a horrible situation at such a young age but did everything she could to make sure things were better for her daughter and that she has a good life. No matter what else she has broken the cycle and that is amazing to see.

  • @alridach.1749
    @alridach.1749 Před 3 lety +6352

    *_Why people say_* ------
    1. *Girl should not say loudly*
    2. *boys should not Cry like girl*
    3. *Don't go outside after evening, you're not boy*
    4. *At your age girl Became Mother and did all work of home,And you!*
    5. *only boy can do tough work*
    6. *Don't do this, don't do that*
    7. *Teach Laundry, cook, it's just your Importance*
    8. *Don't be over smart by going school,you must have to go to Other house after marriage*
    9. *Don't talk while boys or older Person talking*
    😑😑😑 please let us fly... We don't wanna stuck on cave:(

    • @bijumathew2678
      @bijumathew2678 Před 3 lety +367

      This is the same thing I wanna say 😁😁.... We should treat both girls and boys equally...... Girls aren't servants.... They wish to fly like birds..... I am a girl and I hate if people say to me that I am a girl so don't do that or don't do this...... Even if it is said by my family.... Boys and girls are equal... They aren't different... All are equal... So let girls to fly with their freedom 💕💕

    • @rkengineer5696
      @rkengineer5696 Před 3 lety +54

      Yeah man

    • @alridach.1749
      @alridach.1749 Před 3 lety +74

      @@bijumathew2678 yah😀We just wanna fly like birds 😀❣️

    • @chandanimourya5887
      @chandanimourya5887 Před 3 lety +39

      Ur right sis😣

    • @pushpadevi-zw6py
      @pushpadevi-zw6py Před 3 lety +26

      Right💓

  • @poulomibanerjee4389
    @poulomibanerjee4389 Před 3 lety +4302

    Forget Gender. Treat everybody equally!

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  • @bungouyevsky
    @bungouyevsky Před 2 lety +21

    My grandma, who's passed away 7 years ago, got married at the age of 14. She couldn't go to school and she could barely read, but I could see the will in her eyes which made her to want to read. She didn't limit my mother, she did anything to provide her to go to school. My mother married a 24-year-old man at the age of 23 (she is 54 now). Well I cannot say that their relationship is so good but my mom's happy with her children.

  • @shinobukochou7824
    @shinobukochou7824 Před 2 lety +40

    this just makes me grateful to have the opportunities i've had as a woman... my grandmother came from an affluent vietnamese family, and her father insisted she get a good education, even though she was the youngest and a girl. they lost everything fleeing the communists but my grandmother came to the united states for college. she met my grandfather there, and they married and had my mom and my uncle. my grandparents prioritized education and my mom and uncle both went to college and higher education, where my mom met my dad. his parents weren't educated and were basically bums. he bettered himself all on his own, went to college, and law school where he met my mom. so i was born into a good situation, and am studying at a university right now and applying for law schools. my parents and my mom's parents are my heroes and worked their hardest to give their kids a better life. i hope someday all girls will have these opportunities. some people aren't as lucky. this video brought me to tears. this kind of thing can't be taken for granted. and breaking the cycle is the greatest thing you can do. sorry this was rambly and kind of had no purpose but everyone in the comments is sharing their story so i wanted to share mine

  • @komalporwal1198
    @komalporwal1198 Před 3 lety +1384

    They are literally sick. This type of man deserves to go to jail. Plz girls if someone is doing this to you even your father raise your voice. Nobody has the right to treat you like this.

    • @magicalakari9188
      @magicalakari9188 Před 3 lety +5

      @Elijah what?

    • @gewalfofwoofia8263
      @gewalfofwoofia8263 Před 3 lety +35

      Easier said than done.

    • @maximusasauluk7359
      @maximusasauluk7359 Před 3 lety +53

      They can't do that lmao "raise your voice" for what? to get stonned to death a few minutes later?

    • @phoenixangel5073
      @phoenixangel5073 Před 3 lety +28

      Dude you lost me at "raise your voice", people in modern society always use shouting and politics to get their freedom, that's such a weakling mindset, how about you grow some ba lls and fight for freedom by force? Like brave people in the past did?

    • @verddatyer7727
      @verddatyer7727 Před 3 lety +6

      @@phoenixangel5073 for real, people don't understand the power of the freedom of speech we are givrn

  • @kiddfaith4397
    @kiddfaith4397 Před 2 lety +4388

    I’m an early childhood educator, and the subject of child marriage always makes me want to cry because I know so very, very well how important it is for a child to have the time and space to progress developmentally in a supportive setting. Child marriage steals all that away from them.

    • @mementomori4840
      @mementomori4840 Před 2 lety +98

      I’m an early childhood educator too and child marriage is so disturbing. No child should have to go through it. Children need to play, not get married.

    • @fefek1
      @fefek1 Před 2 lety +25

      * Cries because I've had a crap childhood and never experienced what it means to have a fun childhood where you play with friends or go to the movies *

    • @annastrelets2153
      @annastrelets2153 Před 2 lety +30

      @@fefek1 why don’t you try experiencing childhood joys at the adult age? Like having an ice cream, going to the cinema with friends and just acting silly with them. Although you need to find the right friends first. But hey we live in the internet age, that isn’t be easier now. I’m just trying to cheer you up a bit)

    • @lookingsubmissiveandbreeda1512
      @lookingsubmissiveandbreeda1512 Před 2 lety +9

      @@annastrelets2153 I wish I could just wait until I'm an adult and do whatever I want, but I seriously think I'll end up killing myself before then. I'm only 13 about to be 14 and I just can't take it anymore. My parents being terrible towards me and each other has gotten so bad to the point where I hallucinated my father telling me that they were divorcing yesterday and went into a terrible panic attack. I've tried getting help multiple times, but the place I live in sucks so police and even a therapist turns a blind eye to child abuse. I don't know what to do at this point and I'm super close to just stealing money and running away.

    • @neydacarranzae
      @neydacarranzae Před rokem +5

      @@lookingsubmissiveandbreeda1512 It's been about 7 months since you commented this. I do hope that things have improved, either by a little or a lot, and that you were able to find a support system.

  • @RayMak
    @RayMak Před 2 lety +192

    Sigh... This is really sad. The ending is beautiful

  • @lostvampire69
    @lostvampire69 Před 23 dny +22

    I hate the term "child marriage". It sounds like two children get married because they want to. In reality grown old men abuse little girls.

  • @darksunedits4790
    @darksunedits4790 Před 3 lety +3411

    My friend got married at 16
    She got her first miscarriage at 17
    She got twins at 19 both girls her husbands denied for baby girl
    Then tried for another baby she gave birth to girl again her husband again denied to accept girl baby
    Now she is single mother at 27 we are of same age
    But unfortunately i can see the pain in her eyes when she compares her life with me that i have freedom to do job, freedom to get marry as i want , freedom to go anywhere as i want.
    I am so Lucky to have my parents they are so modernized in this thoughts

    • @sameenanwar4069
      @sameenanwar4069 Před 3 lety +179

      are you sure your friend would want you sharing HER story? I understand why you shared it but if it's not yours you shouldn't be telling it without her permission/knowledge

    • @jyotisharmajyoti4488
      @jyotisharmajyoti4488 Před 3 lety +16

      Very very very said 😔

    • @smithsunleashed
      @smithsunleashed Před 3 lety +55

      @@sameenanwar4069 agreed, and IDK if she/he is sympathizing or expressing how lucky this person is

    • @arrowoftruth5726
      @arrowoftruth5726 Před 3 lety +236

      @@sameenanwar4069 No body knows her name...just take the morale of her story

    • @sameenanwar4069
      @sameenanwar4069 Před 3 lety +20

      @@arrowoftruth5726 yes that's true but it's still not their story to share, I understand why they decided to share but no one should share other peoples stories if they don't know, even if their name isn't in there

  • @amishadrdz3137
    @amishadrdz3137 Před 3 lety +2229

    Now I'm 14 and it surprised me that when she was 14, she was pregnant.

  • @voldy1680
    @voldy1680 Před 11 měsíci +9

    my grandma got married when she was 14 and had a baby at the age of 16, she had a very hard life in afghanistan and went through a lot of terrible things. She had six children, one of whom died in infancy, my uncle have developmental delays, and my aunt was kidnapped by her future husband. When I remember all the hard things that happened to my relatives, I want to cry, but now my uncle and my grandmother have a good life.
    I really want early marriage to be banned absolutely everywhere, because I know from the experience of my relatives how much pain it causes people.

  • @JohnDoe-ou3yz
    @JohnDoe-ou3yz Před 2 lety +31

    Just because it’s a cultural thing doesn’t make it right or good. It’s merely something that’s been done for a long time and no one bothered to question it.
    People change, society changes, so too can the culture.

    • @arghyaprotimhalder5592
      @arghyaprotimhalder5592 Před 10 měsíci

      it was never the part of culture i made by us, no religious text ever supported child marriage the one that support re written ones

    • @NoxciiNX
      @NoxciiNX Před 9 měsíci

      @@arghyaprotimhalder5592 true even in Islam, Christian, Jaws

  • @hambone4984
    @hambone4984 Před 2 lety +2025

    My grandma "met" her first husband when she was 12, then as part of their marriage agreement she attended school 2 more years, then married a month after graduation. My mom had kids early on, so my grandma was raising me, my siblings, and her own kids. She refused to let my mother sell us into marriage, she demanded that all of us finish highschool, was extremely proud when everyone in my generation attended college (not all of us graduated), and before she died she was always telling all of her grandkids how proud and happy she was that we all were living lives that she had never even dreamed of hoping for and that all of us girls were dating/choosing who we marry.
    I never understood it growing up, but as an adult and realizing that a lot of our cultural traditions aren't the average experience for people; especially in America, I've really grown to understand and appreciate everything

    • @JasonJafry
      @JasonJafry Před 2 lety +52

      God bless your Grandmother. May she rest in peace

    • @greendude2616
      @greendude2616 Před 2 lety +14

      In some states child marriage is legal in america

    • @yusurkassem4174
      @yusurkassem4174 Před 2 lety +5

      @mandak kart how is this Islamic culture lol

    • @ayse9985
      @ayse9985 Před 2 lety +20

      @mandak kart this is not islamic its cultural. in islam it is prohibited to force your children into marriage if they do not want to even if they are over 18 years old.

    • @ayse9985
      @ayse9985 Před 2 lety

      @mandak kart are you shitting me rn? like i said forced marriage is not allowed in islam. its culture that does this whether your from india or where ever doesnt matter your religion some places force you. maybe idiots like you need to be educated and understand the difference between religion and culture

  • @astriabranganca
    @astriabranganca Před 3 lety +3802

    I hate when society finds it okay when a guy is 10+ older than girl marries her it seen as acceptable but if a women 10+ older than guy marries him it seen as taboo like what a hypocrite society. Also I hate this child marriage concept which is sad still going on nowadays somewhere in some rural area where they don't even see how childhood gets destroyed but also at same they will hate their children dating someone
    #SocietyIsVeryHypocrite

    • @amnanisar7696
      @amnanisar7696 Před 3 lety +41

      My mom was 15 when she got married

    • @astriabranganca
      @astriabranganca Před 3 lety +91

      @@amnanisar7696 that's sad 😕

    • @binnypalakkal9318
      @binnypalakkal9318 Před 3 lety +56

      @@amnanisar7696 my mom got married when she was 24 and my grandma in 20

    • @amnanisar7696
      @amnanisar7696 Před 3 lety +19

      @@binnypalakkal9318 thank god im happy fro them

    • @binnypalakkal9318
      @binnypalakkal9318 Před 3 lety +25

      @@amnanisar7696 yea I think all in my family get married after 20

  • @amna189
    @amna189 Před 2 lety +40

    My mom got married at age of 12 years old, and she got pregnant at the same year while she’s studying, she kept studying till she finished college! That’s always motivate me to keep going… to make her proud of me! Love you mama💓

    • @squid5882
      @squid5882 Před 6 měsíci +2

      So your father basically CSA'd your own mother when she was a literal 12 year old?!
      God bless your mother for surviving that❤

  • @Asiansquadlove
    @Asiansquadlove Před 2 lety +18

    My mom got married at 18 and I am 18 now. I am glad she and my dad raise us well to learn to be strong yourself first and love a good life

  • @itsdivya5963
    @itsdivya5963 Před 3 lety +4244

    My mom married at the age of 18 and I am 14 and my mom always told me that u need to success in ur life ❣ love u mom

    • @chocolattefeverdreams4228
      @chocolattefeverdreams4228 Před 3 lety +82

      That's what my mom tells me to do- be a successful, confident and independent woman when I grow up 😊❤

    • @IsrarAhmad-fk5nl
      @IsrarAhmad-fk5nl Před 2 lety +8

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    • @beautiesworld5754
      @beautiesworld5754 Před 2 lety +6

      hnnnn

    • @lexibenjamin7023
      @lexibenjamin7023 Před 2 lety +33

      This is fucked up you at least need to complete your studies before you get married that's another case if you're planning on studying for long time
      I don't care if I'm 10 or 12 I'm gonna fight if someone ever trying to force my sister in to marriage

    • @itsdivya5963
      @itsdivya5963 Před 2 lety +16

      @@jituhirwani4413 I dont use any😅

  • @akhileshap9439
    @akhileshap9439 Před 3 lety +454

    Shocking part is ... this goes unreported.
    Say no to child marriage, do everything possible to stop it.

  • @falconeshield
    @falconeshield Před 11 měsíci +7

    I can't stop crying. Your mother's childhood was stolen from her but she didn't let that happen to you. For your mama, you are her teddy bear 😢😢😢

  • @_TSC_46
    @_TSC_46 Před 2 lety +86

    Whats so awful about this is the many people who believe menstraution means it’s time to be married/have children. I started my period at 10 and I can never imagine having kids at that age. I hope the idea of child marriage is soon made illegal world wide because it really is one of the most traumatic experiences one could ever go through.

  • @hereisahuman5977
    @hereisahuman5977 Před 3 lety +3566

    I can't imagine going through pregnancy as a 14 year old. That woman's mother was a very strong woman, and I'm so happy she got her daughter and herself away from that life.

    • @heyhoe168
      @heyhoe168 Před 3 lety +106

      That is just stupid. 14 y.old is not capable of giving the birth to healthy kid. The whole family does not care of its kids or what?

    • @shamsunnaharnazma5342
      @shamsunnaharnazma5342 Před 2 lety +31

      Really .and my my grandma married at 12 and l don't know when my mom borned.maybe 16

    • @struggle_to_success
      @struggle_to_success Před 2 lety +22

      Ye pain mujh se accha or kon samjhega🥺🥺🥺

    • @shrutisingh5884
      @shrutisingh5884 Před 2 lety +15

      But nowadays in Western countries girls at the age of 16 even though there r'nt ny cultural belief

    • @hereisahuman5977
      @hereisahuman5977 Před 2 lety +10

      @@shrutisingh5884 I can't understand you

  • @Geetakhr
    @Geetakhr Před 3 lety +2104

    My mother got married at 17 and my great grandma (who's still alive) got married at 7 (means what the hell!!) But she's really good, she supports our studies I love them both thanks mom and granny for understanding me...❤️

    • @cloudyelizabeth2097
      @cloudyelizabeth2097 Před 3 lety +304

      7!? What the heck whats to young?

    • @Geetakhr
      @Geetakhr Před 3 lety +225

      @@cloudyelizabeth2097 I know right but at that time people were just like that😞 I really wanna punch those people who did these things but rn I can only give them my love

    • @kharshithaashree7447
      @kharshithaashree7447 Před 2 lety +106

      Well my great-grandmother was at 6

    • @Geetakhr
      @Geetakhr Před 2 lety +237

      @@kharshithaashree7447 that's horrible, imagine a 6 year old child forced to do house chores instead of playing on the ground....must be sad

    • @kharshithaashree7447
      @kharshithaashree7447 Před 2 lety +19

      @@Geetakhr yup I was

  • @DiorC-im8wr
    @DiorC-im8wr Před 11 měsíci +26

    my father died when i was 10. last December my mom and aunt tried to marry me off to my own fuckimg cousin-- (he is already married twice my age and has 4 fucking daughters + he's a sociopath) --just for the sake of money and comfort but my brother stopped it. i just turned 16 this year and it's SO hard to deal with the trauma...my aunt also tried to marry me off when i 12 for the first time.
    I'm pretty sure my family would marry me off again when I'm 20-22 and now just the thought of being with a stranger and having any men touch me makes my body cold. i can't do anything other than to pray...
    i really appreciate it if read my story i just want to get this off of my chest..
    Thank you.

    • @LolAlosh
      @LolAlosh Před 11 měsíci +5

      I wish you will be fine and escape

    • @tayschannel2695
      @tayschannel2695 Před 11 měsíci

      I just remembered one story, Ann Boleyn was queen of England in 16th century and changed the history (don’t ask me how she just was bored), she was beheaded because of cheating to her husband with her cousin (!) and 3 more man, funny thing, before becoming king’s wife her parents wanted her to marry her another cousin, but she needed to be burned because of incest, (she was beheaded because Henry show mercy) and whats….weird.

    • @DiorC-im8wr
      @DiorC-im8wr Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@tayschannel2695 should I change the history...? I'm bored with the shit that happened to me.

    • @Emptytopfloor
      @Emptytopfloor Před 10 měsíci +6

      @@DiorC-im8wrrun away. Ask help from your brother. Get a job at a different city.

    • @cosmo5880
      @cosmo5880 Před 9 měsíci

      🙌

  • @Thathestiadevotee
    @Thathestiadevotee Před 2 lety +7

    It’s not culture. It’s child abuse. 14 is way too young to have a baby. So is 16. The narrator’s mother is so strong.

  • @ello3110
    @ello3110 Před 3 lety +2163

    I'm an Immigrant, but I would've most likely had the same fate if my parents never moved. The rest of my family however, still lives in my homeland. My closest cousin there, who's around 15 years old- recently got married to this 40 year old man, whos wife had passed away.
    His excuse was that he needed someone to take care of his son, who's a toddler. He couldn't himself, since It's a cultural belief that men shouldn't nurture their children until puberty. And so he married his close friends teenage daughter, my cousin. She's already a wife, and a mother for her step son.. she was stripped of her fucking childhood, and It's just so disappointing that we live in such a world. Put an end to child marriages!

    • @gutiepiettv2432
      @gutiepiettv2432 Před 3 lety +128

      what kind of culture says the fathers shouldn't nurture children until puberty?! A ton of Black men, not all, but most nowadays are trying their hardest to be in their children's lives while other men (not all) are awful.

    • @nayab6129
      @nayab6129 Před 3 lety +89

      Pls fight for her. Raise voice against that so called culture.

    • @lnoorplaylist
      @lnoorplaylist Před 3 lety +40

      @@gutiepiettv2432 there are many people with such thoughts, many here in pakistan too

    • @ello3110
      @ello3110 Před 3 lety +144

      @@nayab6129 She told me about it the night of her wedding, just after he'd bedded her. I had no idea that she was getting married at all, I just suspected that the lack of communication was because of school work. He'd also taken her phone from her after their engagement party, so there was really no way I could've prevented it from happening.
      Her family completely supports the marriage as well, as they benefit a lot from his financial status. I really tried, but my mother won't intervene in case she'd be seemed as shameless. And my f*ther doesn't even care, he himself has a second wife who's around 17 in my home country as well.
      However I've promised myself and her that I'd fly her over to my home the moment I move out at eighteen. Even if my community will look down at me, my family included. Their shit culture is so outdated and genuinely disgusting, and I'm so tired of the continuous child marriages there

    • @taslimaaktershathi7561
      @taslimaaktershathi7561 Před 2 lety +43

      @@ello3110 UGH!! I HATE THIS FREAKING CHILD MARRIAGE THING SO FREAKING MUCH!🤬 If that happened to my cousin, I would've screamed my lungs out and start punching and kicking ANYONE who would've tried to come near me and take me away from my cousin. I absolutely DESPISE child marriages!

  • @christensummers9641
    @christensummers9641 Před 3 lety +659

    Just want to remind everyone here that women in areas like this who speak up about their abuse and torture often get killed for it. They don’t have the same rights there. So instead of telling them to just speak up or report it, let’s stand in solidarity with them and always offer a place for them to run to if they need it.

    • @anonymouscausewhynot
      @anonymouscausewhynot Před 2 lety +10

      I agree, Christen.

    • @sasori7054
      @sasori7054 Před 2 lety +2

      Not killed off but frowned upon a lot they are removed from inheritance and stuff but murder? Just stop spreading shit

    • @solbutton1611
      @solbutton1611 Před 2 lety +50

      @@sasori7054 There are such things as honor killings where the woman is killed if they leave their spouse. I’m not sure how rare it is, but I believe that’s what the person was talking about

    • @dumbasssupreme4022
      @dumbasssupreme4022 Před 2 lety +21

      @@sasori7054 nope its true, i remember this 14 year old girl whose father killed her for having a boyfriend

    • @dDoodle788
      @dDoodle788 Před 11 měsíci +11

      ​@@sasori7054nah ,they slaughter women indiscriminately, stop lying.

  • @ZomBabeZoe
    @ZomBabeZoe Před 9 měsíci +7

    I'm truly sorry for any young girl who is forced to marry,its horrific. My daughter turns 14 in a couple of months and I would never let this happen,its my duty and privilege to protect and guide her into choosing the best possible future she can have

  • @RetroS01
    @RetroS01 Před 22 dny +17

    My family’s from Afghanistan, child marriage wasn’t a common thing, up until the Taliban rule. It’s sad to see these degenerate changes that are occurring during their rule.

    • @samesaiwan9880
      @samesaiwan9880 Před 17 dny +1

      They are ruining Islam with this.

    • @RetroS01
      @RetroS01 Před 17 dny

      @@samesaiwan9880 All terror groups are giving Islam a bad name, and the West loves to push that towards their agenda, Muslims keep suffering as it gives the west more money and proxy wars.

  • @irisnixie9713
    @irisnixie9713 Před 2 lety +985

    My mom got married at 19 while my dad was in his late 30s and had me a few months later. Growing up, I noticed their marriage wasn't the best. Now I'm 17 and she's a single mother doing her best to raise me and my other siblings :)

    • @tanziameherin2696
      @tanziameherin2696 Před 2 lety +40

      Your mum's an amazing and brave woman. My mum taught me to be strong as well. Mum's are amazing overall 😍

    • @muhammadzain3717
      @muhammadzain3717 Před 2 lety +22

      May Allah ease the life of you both
      And grant you mom His blessing

    • @irisnixie9713
      @irisnixie9713 Před 2 lety +7

      @@tanziameherin2696 they truly are
      And thank you!

    • @irisnixie9713
      @irisnixie9713 Před 2 lety +7

      @@tanziameherin2696 amen. Thank you

    • @tanziameherin2696
      @tanziameherin2696 Před 2 lety +9

      @@muhammadzain3717 May Allah bless you as well

  • @AS-fp9pb
    @AS-fp9pb Před 2 lety +1268

    No child at the age of 13 or 14 should have to go through child birth that age or sex for that matter. Most don’t even know HOW to have sex until that age. For a grown man to take advantage of such a young girl…who was taken care by her parents up until she was married….is so tragic.
    My heart goes out to all the girls and women who were affected by child marriages. I hope the future changes and that anyone directly affected have the space to heal

    • @ghikiang8370
      @ghikiang8370 Před 2 lety +30

      I know someone that got married before puberty
      She got abused by her husband,divorced, miscarriage,and is a single mom with kids 😣

    • @wordgirl_phasept.2437
      @wordgirl_phasept.2437 Před rokem +17

      I completely agree! My aunt was married and pregnant at the age of 15, and when she gave birth at just barely 16, there were many complications as her body was not the body of an adult and she nearly died because of it! Luckily she is okay today, though the effects on her body will be there for the rest of her life.

    • @aesthetix3398
      @aesthetix3398 Před 11 měsíci +4

      It doesn’t matter what gender you are, it sucks either way.

    • @Black-Swan-007
      @Black-Swan-007 Před 10 měsíci +33

      @@aesthetix3398 Young boys don't get sold off to marry older women, forced to become pregnant, and then beaten when they miscarry. This is strictly a problem that young girls face.

    • @NanoNano-tk7ev
      @NanoNano-tk7ev Před 9 měsíci

      The main issue is: if the child *chooses* to do it and know the consequences, then it’s another story to tell

  • @qauls5851
    @qauls5851 Před 2 lety +16

    My mother is from korea but my father is from india and ive heard that my cousin from my dads side is already getting married even though shes just turned 11.. it makes me feel bad since i cannot do anything because they live in india and i live in korea. Thankfully my dad doesnt support young age marriage and my mom would never allow me to even date at 15 so im fine, but i am really scared whats gonna happen to my cousin :(

  • @PACIFIC_OFC
    @PACIFIC_OFC Před 27 dny +8

    As a pakistani myself and a female, this makes me so sad, I'm dissapointed that this really happens in this world.

  • @Writermakescoffeeforawriter
    @Writermakescoffeeforawriter Před 3 lety +869

    It is disappointing to see that people even disliked this video. It is a beautiful video that tells the reality of the world, and must reach a greater audience!!!

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    • @jefrreyjeffery2192
      @jefrreyjeffery2192 Před 3 lety +25

      They are probably bots who usually dislike videos!

    • @ditisaha6229
      @ditisaha6229 Před 3 lety +27

      They're the supporters of child marriage

    • @thecrabthatnamjoonloves4738
      @thecrabthatnamjoonloves4738 Před 3 lety +19

      You shouldn't be disappointed. Just think that you found some idiots in the world. And be proud that you're not one of them.

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  • @purpleheart758
    @purpleheart758 Před 3 lety +2226

    Mother is mother.....nothing replace her

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    • @bigbrother7952
      @bigbrother7952 Před 3 lety +86

      but there are also good mothers and bad mothers.!
      there are many bad mothers who would even sell their kids to bad people only for sake of money.!
      everyone deserves good parents, but if parents are not good and treat kids badly, then other good people can take their place
      ~speaking from personal experience

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    • @stanyoonjinforeheads1618
      @stanyoonjinforeheads1618 Před 3 lety +11

      @@bigbrother7952 true, I can second that

    • @mylo9662
      @mylo9662 Před 3 lety +3

      Yeah hats off

  • @shuichisaihara6133
    @shuichisaihara6133 Před 2 lety +20

    “At age 14,she got her first child”
    She’s just 14 wth…

  • @sasakiumiquema9608
    @sasakiumiquema9608 Před 2 lety +20

    Pedophilia should be punished by death

    • @dripfoe9569
      @dripfoe9569 Před 2 lety +5

      death would be a quick ending for them they need to be circumcised so they can get a life long punishment

    • @dripfoe9569
      @dripfoe9569 Před 2 lety

      @@anjafrohlich1170 your right your idea is better

  • @neerajkumarprajapati3334
    @neerajkumarprajapati3334 Před 3 lety +287

    A mother face any difficulty for her children. This story is inspired we all......... 😢😢😢😢

  • @lullavies6431
    @lullavies6431 Před 3 lety +1392

    Being a Pakistani, This honestly breaks my heart and scares me

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    • @nittynatsha4346
      @nittynatsha4346 Před 3 lety +88

      I am not Pakistani but Indian... This is also a problem here which is decreasing Thankfully... But I hope this problem gets over there too! Sending love and prayers! :)

    • @w.a.a.m2643
      @w.a.a.m2643 Před 3 lety +13

      I know, it is scary. I do not want to be mean about religion, but I just feel that she shouldn’t really be forced to grow up and enjoy her life while she’s a kid. But that’s just my opinion

    • @nittynatsha4346
      @nittynatsha4346 Před 3 lety +1

      @Fathima Fidha rural places in india

    • @amnashah7375
      @amnashah7375 Před 3 lety +3

      @@nittynatsha4346 lots of love and respect from Pakistan 💜

  • @kassandraharrison1181
    @kassandraharrison1181 Před 2 lety +10

    this is such a sad story, but im so so so so proud of the mother for making a better life for her child. We need more shelters like panah shelters, it was literally life changing, and could help so many women

  • @snuffyfunk
    @snuffyfunk Před 2 lety +4

    the child at 14 part struck my heart, i could never imagine the pain she felt, physically and mentally

  • @vallikumarivyakaranam1351
    @vallikumarivyakaranam1351 Před 3 lety +783

    "Its not important whether its MUSLIM or HINDU , its important that REGARDLESS of gender they are equally getting treated"
    Don't spread anything except positivity and love

    • @amissurani6869
      @amissurani6869 Před 3 lety +4

      It is turely an Indian story.

    • @anupamasingh2873
      @anupamasingh2873 Před 3 lety +17

      @@amissurani6869 nope

    • @fluffycloudz3085
      @fluffycloudz3085 Před 3 lety +36

      Yes! Child marriage is a crime!!

    • @roseyep3968
      @roseyep3968 Před 3 lety +14

      @@fluffycloudz3085 sin also

    • @shoshiyel1505
      @shoshiyel1505 Před 3 lety +35

      Its a cultural men thing it happens everywhere regardless the religion in islam its haram and it will not count as a marriage if the girl doesn’t want marriage or even felt she dosent want to it must be stopped immediately she can go to the law to get her right if they forced her this thing is serious

  • @scarletpinapeele5316
    @scarletpinapeele5316 Před 3 lety +1216

    my mom got married when she was 15 and had me when she was 17 and then got my brother at 19 ....i can relate with ur story this is the true image of bangladeshi womens life ...
    (EDITED)
    thank you guys for so much likes (i never got this likes ) and its ok guys ..it was in my moms luck dont be sorry for that ...

    • @sarahhaque9039
      @sarahhaque9039 Před 3 lety +40

      Sad and true reality of Bangladesh.

    • @wareesha2625
      @wareesha2625 Před 3 lety +21

      thats sooo sad thats why i hate these third world countries like india pakistan bangladesh

    • @irinaahsan7001
      @irinaahsan7001 Před 3 lety +90

      Wareesha do not hate the country you should hate the people of these countries

    • @oshin6316
      @oshin6316 Před 3 lety +23

      @@irinaahsan7001 well spoken❤👏

    • @mariyaphilip9189
      @mariyaphilip9189 Před 3 lety +47

      @@wareesha2625 don't hate any countries. Because it's not the fault of any country. But it's the people's

  • @sarcasticgirlkidlol5
    @sarcasticgirlkidlol5 Před 2 lety +23

    I'm from Morocco. My great-grandmother was married to a 27 year old man, when she was only 10. She was a very good woman and i know that she was very unhappy. Yes, this 'tradition' is a disaster.

  • @ar1eea.
    @ar1eea. Před 2 lety +8

    My grandmother was married at 9, and at that time my grandfather was 11, things were very hard for my grandmother, she gave birth to my dad when she was 16, she gave birth to 5 kids at A VERY YOUNG AGE. Let’s vote together to stop Pedophilia.

    • @Rajnish-nk5ws
      @Rajnish-nk5ws Před měsícem

      Your grandfather wasn't pedophilia ..he was far away from being a pedophilia

  • @birbahadurb7342
    @birbahadurb7342 Před 4 lety +2902

    This story touched my heart❤

  • @tuttifrutigachaclub
    @tuttifrutigachaclub Před rokem +8

    The teddy bear represent the childhood and the future, when she got married, her childhood and future were taken away and when she made a teddy bear for her daughter, the meaning was that she made her a better future.

  • @saucekim__
    @saucekim__ Před 11 měsíci +15

    That man took advantage of her! She deserves way better than anyone....

  • @MeghnaGiri2007
    @MeghnaGiri2007 Před 3 lety +1219

    I just hate child marrige. They does'nt want a wife for their son, instead they wanted a maid who would do all their work. Marrige is just an excuse for slavelry. This happens in india also. Every teenager should study, play and grow up. Not for this child marrige shit 😡😡.

    • @bluepoop7365
      @bluepoop7365 Před 3 lety +78

      I hate any type of child marriages

    • @fabplays6559
      @fabplays6559 Před 3 lety +71

      All child marriages are wrong. Not just this type.

    • @captainngoose
      @captainngoose Před 3 lety +16

      Lol uhm??? All child marriage is wrong. What do you mean 'this type'?

    • @MeghnaGiri2007
      @MeghnaGiri2007 Před 3 lety +16

      @@captainngoose I don't mean that I hate only this child marrige. I hate all child marriage because all these are wrong.

    • @MeghnaGiri2007
      @MeghnaGiri2007 Před 3 lety +5

      @@captainngoose that was my typing mistake. Sorry for that.

  • @tashmiyahhussain8190
    @tashmiyahhussain8190 Před 2 lety +462

    This is true that daughter can understand mother's pain 😭

  • @Joshi_Nepal
    @Joshi_Nepal Před 6 měsíci +10

    My mom got married at 30 and dad at 33
    My grandmother at 26 and grandfather at 32
    Thank god my family didnt had to go through all the torture
    Child marriage should stop ✋️😤😑

    • @MannyLovesRanch
      @MannyLovesRanch Před měsícem +1

      Dang my mother got married when she was I'm guess 20 or something

    • @robthebob4586
      @robthebob4586 Před 14 dny

      You'd rather listen to a propaganda video then see the truth of the matter. You do not know anything

  • @user-ro2ug1bv9r
    @user-ro2ug1bv9r Před 2 lety +6

    this made me cry. it must've been a lot to process for such a little girl.

  • @jesminmim3342
    @jesminmim3342 Před 3 lety +233

    my mother was 16 and my father was 24 when they got married forcefully by their families and i was born when my mother was 18..... so it's really sad that i wasn't able to do anything for them, but they are trying their best to give me everything i deserve and they are also trying hard so that whatever happened to them, doesn't happened to me.

  • @cintaindonesia6382
    @cintaindonesia6382 Před 3 lety +545

    This happens also in Indonesia, especially in poor families ("sell" their -still too young-daughters to have more money in return).

    • @Frog744
      @Frog744 Před 3 lety +10

      I'm pretty sure it's true as one myself. I've heard stories of people selling kids for marriage. 🔥🔥🔥

    • @Ken-nb7uz
      @Ken-nb7uz Před 3 lety +7

      Yes also in rural areas some parents would've wedded their children before they even turn 18? Which is illegal because our consent and legal age of marriage is when they're 19. Mostly because family's struggling economically and have so many children so it's the easiest way to get rid of them especially the daughters. Not only that some people that's not from rural areas or because their economic reason are also glorifying underage marriage, think that it's completely normal.

    • @cat3784
      @cat3784 Před 3 lety

      remind me of my friends (poor woman) who married at 15 years old to 30 years old rich man (second wife)

    • @shelzakaushik3867
      @shelzakaushik3867 Před 2 lety +2

      Why only daughter? Why not sons?? Daughter earns more than sons... I am lucky to have an open minded family.. They are very nice and has expectations from me and I will fulfil it... But the question arise why not men are sold?? This discrimination is in india too.... We should have nice thinking about girls........

    • @lindanorris2455
      @lindanorris2455 Před 2 lety +1

      AND ALSO IN THE USA!

  • @googleyoflolz9930
    @googleyoflolz9930 Před 21 dnem +5

    Normally I respect any culture no matter how different or strange it is. But let's face it, this is one tradition that no one should respect or encourage. We're all still human regardless of culture. And children are still children.

  • @LilStarling
    @LilStarling Před 2 lety +11

    The fact that this still happens today in some cultures still sickens me. Hell it doesn't even matter on the culture it still happens!

  • @sody9798
    @sody9798 Před 3 lety +566

    I feel bad for anyone who has to go through that. Pregnant at 14? The body isn’t even fully developed.. it was most likely forced too..

    • @danii2105
      @danii2105 Před 3 lety +8

      Yea i feel so bad, my mother got married at 14 but she had my oldest brother at 16

    • @ellin4004
      @ellin4004 Před 2 lety +2

      15+ is necessary to get pregnant

    • @stormtrooper7411
      @stormtrooper7411 Před 2 lety +22

      @@ellin4004 no.20+ is neccesary.becaz when u r a teen ur body strats to developed for a baby. They dont develop to get a baby at that age.when u r 20+ ur body is completely devrloped for a baby.abd its more safe

    • @cat3784
      @cat3784 Před 2 lety +18

      @@ellin4004 pregnancy under 20 years old is full of risk
      also you can die because giving birth.

    • @cat3784
      @cat3784 Před 2 lety +6

      even the optimal body to giving birth is 25+ yo

  • @mussarratkhan3390
    @mussarratkhan3390 Před 3 lety +216

    When my grandma was 12 she got married
    Such a crazy thing in our society
    Stop child marriage

    • @pheonix9821
      @pheonix9821 Před 3 lety +8

      My gamma got married when she was 11 and my great grandmother was 13 years old when she got married

    • @pheonix9821
      @pheonix9821 Před 3 lety +2

      @??? ??? hmmm actually you know for us it's cruel but for them it was everything even my mom ..... Even though she wasn't a child when she got married but still the mindset was there ..... I think it depends on generations

    • @sameenanwar4069
      @sameenanwar4069 Před 3 lety +1

      @@pheonix9821 it doesn't depend on generations, more so their mindsets and how they think, because it's not the generations that did this, it was their mindsets

    • @jocelynecupcake
      @jocelynecupcake Před 3 lety +1

      How old is your grandma now exactly? is she still alive? Nowadays in America you have to be over 18 to get married. 100 years ago, it was okay to get married at 11 but it was also okay to make fun of people in cartoons and stuff. we're a different society now.

    • @sameenanwar4069
      @sameenanwar4069 Před 3 lety +2

      @@jocelynecupcake what does my grandma have to do with this? Also what I meant was its the fact that back in the day their mindsets were made to think that child marriages were okay, it was a different society because people thought differently about things, people weren't born thinking that child marriage was okay, it was learned, and it was always okay to make fun of cartoons, I don't understand what you meant to say with that

  • @gracelostboy1825
    @gracelostboy1825 Před 2 lety

    My grandmother was married young and had only studied till the 8th standard, I think. But my grandfather is a very nice man and they had a good marriage, he was devastated when grandma passed away. They had 3 kids, two sons and a daughter (my mother) and even at that time my grandfather taught my other to be strong and not to be dependent on others. He brought mum everything she desired and never treated her different from her brothers. Thy never taught her that boys were the priority and they never thought this as well .They are the reason my mother is such a strong, straight forward lady. I'm so glad.

  • @shiinigami.
    @shiinigami. Před 2 lety +8

    Child marriage is not okay, and never has been. The people condoning it are just wanting a child laborer to take care of the house, as mentioned near the beginning where they mentioned that they want a nice young girl to take care of the house.

  • @theninjakid1430
    @theninjakid1430 Před 3 lety +317

    My family's from Nepal. Luckily, a good number of my past generations managed to avoid that fate, but a lot of their friends didn't. It's just the same there. My mom started a non profit organization named AIM International to build shelters like the one mentioned in the video so that young girls like Mina can get a second chance.

    • @cymbala6208
      @cymbala6208 Před 3 lety +11

      Wow, respect for your mother 💙 Wish you and your family the best! I'm sure you're making this world a better place.

    • @chocolattefeverdreams4228
      @chocolattefeverdreams4228 Před 3 lety +8

      Your mom is an angel

    • @alishayadav5495
      @alishayadav5495 Před 2 lety +7

      I am from Nepal and I am proud of your mom.