WHAT TO EXPECT FROM A 4 YEAR OLD

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  • čas přidán 5. 07. 2024
  • WHAT TO EXPECT FROM A 4 YEAR OLD
    Hi! My name is Anna and every week I summarise a parenting book or self help book - specifically focusing on the best books every parent should buy or read following positive parenting philosophy and ones that have made a positive difference in my life.
    My goal is to help other busy parents get the tools and strategies they need to improve all relationships in their lives. Because let’s face it, reading parenting books is often at the bottom of our priority list when we are juggling so many things in our life!
    This week’s video discusses ‘Your 4 Year Old’ book summary by Louise Bates Ames. This book is part of a whole series as part of the Gesell Institute of Human Development where they studied thousands of children from birth to 16yo over 100 years. So whilst this book was written in the 70s and has some references that are outdated (like all mums being SAHMs), children haven’t changed. This is an excellent resource to understand what is developmentally appropriate at 4, what to expect from a 4 year old boy or girl.
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Komentáře • 50

  • @evaphillips2102
    @evaphillips2102 Před 2 lety +7

    Three and four are fun ages. My sister is the youngest of four siblings who are way older and she turns four next month. I’d say she’s way ahead of the curve when it comes to bathroom words😂

  • @nelyiv
    @nelyiv Před 3 lety +7

    My kid will be 4 later in the year. I was curious to hear about this age. Will definitely rewatch. Thank you

    • @GrowwithAnnaB
      @GrowwithAnnaB  Před 3 lety +1

      4 is such a great age, ready and eager for lots of adventure. So much easier and more enjoyable than 3.5!

  • @salt_and_light03
    @salt_and_light03 Před 2 lety +6

    Thank you so much for this video! I have a four year old son and this has helped so much. I was lacking a basic understanding of where he’s at. Will definitely check out those books as well! Keep up this amazing work, countless families benefit from it. Blessings

    • @GrowwithAnnaB
      @GrowwithAnnaB  Před 2 lety +2

      This comment is exactly why I started summarising those books. I'm so glad this video was helpful to you, it warms my heart

  • @nick3d155
    @nick3d155 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Hello... I am a 34 year old man who is dating a single mom with a 4 year old girl. I am learning how to recognize real boundaries and the difference between jealous behavior and a genuine emotional distress. As I continue to build trust and affection with this new child, I appreciate the ability to learn more about her psychology so I can be a better adult figure in her life. Thank you for the content.

    • @GrowwithAnnaB
      @GrowwithAnnaB  Před 4 měsíci +1

      Wow your message made my day! So amazing that you are willing to learn to be a good role model for this 4yo. Her and her mum are very lucky to have you

    • @SarahGraceL
      @SarahGraceL Před 4 měsíci +1

      This comment made my day. The fact that you are even watching something like this to understand her child is very sweet. Gives me hope.

    • @nick3d155
      @nick3d155 Před 4 měsíci

      @@SarahGraceL thank you for your kind words. I'm actually a very lucky man.

  • @sarahjones79
    @sarahjones79 Před rokem +3

    Thanks Anna! Great info! Great style!! Live listening to you!!

    • @GrowwithAnnaB
      @GrowwithAnnaB  Před rokem

      So glad to hear my videos are helpful to you! Thank you for the lovely comment ❤️

  • @victoriarivera9071
    @victoriarivera9071 Před rokem +1

    Thank you❤… you have NO idea how much I needed to hear this

    • @GrowwithAnnaB
      @GrowwithAnnaB  Před rokem

      You are most welcome! I'm so glad you found this video when you really needed it. You've got this! ❤️

  • @9444444441
    @9444444441 Před rokem

    Thank you for your video, it helps..👍

  • @diligence_bella9574
    @diligence_bella9574 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much now I understand the behavior of my 4 yrs old

  • @dokbrown1258
    @dokbrown1258 Před 10 měsíci

    I’m Brett from Muskegon mi have a 4 yr old daughter thank you that was great information that I will try to follow ❤

  • @priyadarshivaibhav3523

    Thank you Anna

  • @allydea
    @allydea Před rokem

    Very informative! Thank you!

  • @nathaliebeauty2930
    @nathaliebeauty2930 Před rokem +1

    This was eye opening! Thank you

    • @GrowwithAnnaB
      @GrowwithAnnaB  Před rokem

      So glad to hear you got a lot out of this video! ☺️

  • @ellietree2531
    @ellietree2531 Před rokem

    You are fantastic!

  • @Allyson-sp4dt
    @Allyson-sp4dt Před rokem

    wondefrul video. thank you!

  • @gustavaddo6345
    @gustavaddo6345 Před rokem +1

    My name is Gustav from Ghana, Africa. Thanks a lot for the lecture.. it was insightful.

    • @GrowwithAnnaB
      @GrowwithAnnaB  Před rokem +1

      You are so welcome. So glad to hear this video was helpful

  • @drglorychyabugh1384
    @drglorychyabugh1384 Před rokem

    Thanks real good my grand daughter is just four and I find this content very helpful

    • @GrowwithAnnaB
      @GrowwithAnnaB  Před rokem

      So glad to hear this video was helpful to you. Thanks for commenting ☺️

  • @nettedurs401
    @nettedurs401 Před rokem

    Thank you!

  • @MamaAzzam15
    @MamaAzzam15 Před 10 měsíci

    Thank you for information, litle litle understanding for me becouse speak indinesia

  • @HumorDestination
    @HumorDestination Před rokem +1

    Your accent is beautiful!! but a little bit difficult to understand. would you be able to add subtitles throughout the entire video? That would be super helpful! Love your videos. Thank you!!

    • @GrowwithAnnaB
      @GrowwithAnnaB  Před rokem +1

      I completely understand where you are coming from 😄 I just checked and the subtitles are set up for this video. You just need to click on cc and it should work. It's working on my end

  • @jocelyneboughlam8602
    @jocelyneboughlam8602 Před 3 lety +2

    Bravo ! Tu es tout à fait prête pour ton futur "4 ans"!

    • @GrowwithAnnaB
      @GrowwithAnnaB  Před 3 lety

      J’ai bien retrouvé Dasha et Alina à 4 ans aussi :)

  • @priyadarshivaibhav3523
    @priyadarshivaibhav3523 Před 2 lety +1

    My son will turn 4 in 3 weeks..I love your channel as you summarize the books in a very calm way and provide personal anecdotes wherever required..Thanks Again

  • @jacobneumann9388
    @jacobneumann9388 Před rokem

    Thankyou Anna this really helped 🇦🇺

  • @gustavaddo6345
    @gustavaddo6345 Před rokem +1

    Hello Anna, You mostly mention "He" in this video. Do these attributes mostly apply to the males ?

    • @GrowwithAnnaB
      @GrowwithAnnaB  Před rokem +3

      No it doesn't. It's the French in me, we usually revert to masculine when we discuss a subject with no gender preference. I should have said 'they'.

  • @sz1771
    @sz1771 Před rokem +2

    What is regulation and disregulation

    • @GrowwithAnnaB
      @GrowwithAnnaB  Před rokem +3

      Disregulation is when your child is acting out with their behaviour. Regulation is when they are calm

  • @angeliquebronkhorst8233
    @angeliquebronkhorst8233 Před rokem +2

    What sould my 4yare old capebal to do plece explane to me the development

  • @TerriazeCAPCUTeditor
    @TerriazeCAPCUTeditor Před 11 měsíci

    Can you make a video about the 10 yo?

  • @whippedcreamvibes1734
    @whippedcreamvibes1734 Před 9 měsíci

    no, you should excpect, “SKIBIDIDOP DOP DOP OH YESS” “RIZZ” “SIMP” “SIGMA MALE”

  • @missv6969
    @missv6969 Před 11 měsíci

    Please help.
    My daughter will be 5 in September.
    Since she was 4 she started writing numbers, adding and subtract simple numbers, she speaks in 2 languages fluently (Armenian and Chinese) (and is learning english very well), Sings songs, memorizes the words quickly.
    We live in China as foreigners. She's been going to kindergarten since 2.5. She's a sensitive kid, but very smart and she's been doing well until we went back home for a month and since we've been back she's had major anxiety about going to kindergarten. She's been crying since the nigh before about not wanting to go to kindergarten. It's been more than a week, she'll cry untill the nap time,l she'll have nausea, she'll say her tummy hurts, makes the teacher call us and asks us to take her home histerically crying, but as soon as the nap time is over, she's happy and after kindergarten she's fine and happy. I don't know how to help her. Is there any advice you can give me?
    The teacher is advising us to move her to a younger group, where they play more and study less. But her problem is not her studies, She picks up new knowledge very quickly and I think she will be bored there. AndI'm afraid changing her environment will make her more reserved and shy and not cooperative.
    What should I do? Please help me. ❤❤❤

    • @missv6969
      @missv6969 Před 11 měsíci

      Also I want to note, that when she cries in class while the teacher is teaching the class, the other teacher will take her out not to disturb other children, and this tends to make it worse for her. Even if the teacher speaks kindlu, she thinks it's a punishment, but she can't stop herself from crying in class too. So I don't know what to do about that too.