5 STEPS TO DISCIPLINE YOUR CHILDREN
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- čas přidán 9. 07. 2024
- 5 STEPS TO DISCIPLINE YOUR CHILDREN
Need parenting tips on how to discipline your child? I'm giving you 5 steps to discipline your children today.
After reading close to 20 books over the past 5 months and taking inspiration from what has worked for my children and what hasn’t worked, I wanted to give you practical steps on how to discipline your child without hitting and yelling, in other words steps to discipline your child EFFECTIVELY. These discipline techniques and parenting tips are all based on positive discipline methods steeped in the latest research in neuroscience, child development and psychology. Following these steps will allow you to be more effective in the LONG TERM by raising children who thrive and building a strong relationship with your kids.
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• The Gifts of Imperfect Parenting - amzn.to/32eBLUU
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Anna B.
I was looking for a good parenting channel and I like how you clearly structure the step by step explanation and examples. Keep up the good work.
So glad you found my channel and you are finding these videos helpful.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience and knowledge! You explain every step with such detail that we can start implementing them straight away. Also, providing the reasons why each of the steps are important, is a great help for parents. I'm truly grateful.
I'm so glad to hear you found this video so helpful. Thanks for commenting ❤️
This video summarises it all but still book by book summaries are really good from learning perspective 😉
As much as I try to practice these things, it’s always a great reminder and you lay down the points very well to effectively discipline our growing children ❤️
Empathy- acknowledge feelings
Tolerance- form boundaries
Flexibility- autonomy
Problem solving- Find solutions together
We all need a reminder and we can't always get it right all the time, and that's perfectly OK ❤️
Hello Mam why have you stopped making new videos.. any specific reason.. your content and overall concept is really good.. please keep doing the good work 👍
Hi Sakshi, I'm so glad you are finding my videos helpful. I went into a 3 months lockdown last year with 3 young kids so I couldn't read anymore and I've struggled getting back into it. I may be back soon but in the meantime, I've already summarised about 20 books that I hope will help you with your parenting.
So nice and useful videos! Thank you Anna❤️
So glad to hear you are finding them helpful
ANNA! This is SOOO GOOD. Thank you for such great content!
So glad you found my channel! Thanks for commenting 😊
Great information, do you have podcasts?
No I don't have a podcast but plenty of parenting podcast out there. You can try listening to Janet Lansbury's podcast 😊
Excellent!
Glad you found this one helpful!
Love your channel, your videos are so helpful!
So glad you found me and that these videos are helpful!
Awesome as always.
Glad you found this video helpful too! Thanks for commenting 😄
Avec toi on a l'impression que le métier de parent devient facile. Cest cool, non? Plutôt encourageant en tout cas.
Thank you so much for your great video’s. This will change our lives and those of our kids. 1 question: is punishment like a time out okay occasionally if you tried all your steps and they still misbehave? Like if they keep hitting other kids for example?
I can see you also commented on my video 'Parenting has gone too far' which I was going to link here 😊 so my personal opinion is that yes it is OK if that works with your kids. Mine could never stay in their room or time out at all so I had to resort to other consequences. I tried to use natural/logical consequences as much as possible eg not eating, I take the plate away or misbehaving at the park, we leave. Hitting is 100% not acceptable and we def need to be firm with this, if it's at someone's place or outside somewhere I would give a warning then just leave.
@@GrowwithAnnaB thank you so much for your reaction. I am happy to hear you also can be firm and punish when needed. After watching al your book summaries I got the feeling you can never punish children. But sometimes positive and conscious parenting does not work anymore and if for example your kids keep hitting other kids I really think they need a punishment to stop their behavior in the future. I think a time out and stopping to play is the most natural and logic consequence in that case or like you do leaving the park. I am glad to hear you also found good strategies that work for your kids :). So just to verify your opinion on punishment is this: use positive strategies to prevent need for punishment like reward, emotional expression, problem solving, giving two choices etc. Set boundaries with natural and logical consequences. But punish if really needed as a last resort? Did I get that right? And to define it better. With punishment I mean: time out, taking their iPad, taking away their toy, not giving icecream anymore. Etc. And with consequence I mean, cleaning the drink you spilled. However both are negative consequences and could be defined as punishments ofcourse from a psychological perspective haha. But I think you know what I mean.
@@kaymundosan1131 that's exactly what I mean. This entire CZcams channel is my evolution, reading a lot of books where it's all about connection and validating emotions which is valid. However most of them also say to be FIRM and have BOUNDARIES. That's still extremely important and in my experience the 'gentle parenting' doesn't always work, it creates all sorts of issues which is why I ended up doing the video on Patenting Advice going too far. You could say this CZcams channel is also my evolution as a parent. Trying to heal myself so that I'm less reactive and yelling but also clearly seeing that validating emotions doesn't always work and as parents it's our job to be firm and say no sometimes. That's how we ensure our kids become adjusted individuals. All this to say it's a balance and the aim is to walk the middle path (not too permissive not too firm/controlling). So essentially to answer your question more clearly I have zero issues with punishments and consequences because sometimes they are needed. We need to be able to enjoy our kids and if I wasn't firm with mine it would be a zoo in my house! As long as our kids understand why there is a consequence and we spend the time discussing it with them afterwards I see no issues - it's actually real parenting, where you end up teaching them valuable skills and logic. Hope that makes sense. I also recommend my Inner Work series too, that has helped me so much and I've become so confident in my parenting and attuned to each of my kids (who require different approaches) as a result.
@@kaymundosan1131 to add something as well, our world isn't all sunshine and unicorns. I know some people say we need our kids to be the change but again I think they take it too far and I wonder if being too gentle/permissive/validating ALL emotions will set them up to fail in the realities of our world. I actually think boundaries and consequences teaches our kids resilience. I want my kids to know they won't always get everything they want and that the world doesn't revolve around them. I have 3 kids so this happens naturally for us where I simply cannot validate all their emotions and I think it's a blessing. From what you are writing I think you totally get it and it sounds like you are doing a great job.
@@GrowwithAnnaB thank you for this addition. I totally agree with you! Your video about this issue also explained it really wel. And thanks so much for responding so extensively that is so helpful and kind!