SHE SAID SHE WAS HOMELESS | Alone at campground with no cell service

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  • Sleeping at a campground between on Dufey lake road and met a lady who live in our car saying SHE WAS HOMELESS | Everyone who is living in a van as different reasons.
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    Hi my name is Emi. I'm born in raise in small town just outside Quebec City, this is where my lovely accent come from. My #vanlife story starts in September 2018. After a long-term relationship that I was trying for more than a year to rebuild, I decided it was time to end this toxic relationship once for all. This is where I decided to move away from this man that I was still in love with. I put all my belongings inside my SUV (GMC Jimmy) and moved six hours from where I was living. I didn’t know where I would sleep, didn’t know where I would work but I knew I needed to make a drastic move. At that time, I told myself I will only sleep in my car for a month while looking for a place to rent. What I didn’t know is that one month became another month and another month. In the end, I end up sleeping in my car for a full year. Even if people will consider this the lowers time of my life, this experience was the best thing I couldn’t have done with my life. I took that year to focus on myself, decide what I wanted, and most importantly what I didn’t want. That year made me also realize that for so long, I was chasing the wrong dreams. I was chasing what society wanted me to be: to have a big house, a steady job, kids, get married… None of those dreams was making me happy. In September 2019, while I was actively looking for a van, I received a phone call that someone had found my cat (Kelly). After, trying for hours with no success to communicate with my ex-boyfriend (who was taking care of her), I decided to drive the six hours to go pick her up. Without going into too much detail, it turns out he wasn’t able to take care of her anymore. So I brought her in a cat kennel for a couple of days until I found a van we both could live in. I put all the savings that I had accumulated while living in my car and bought my van (a 2011 Ford Econoline that I end up adding a hightop) In the beginning, It wasn’t so glamour. My cat and I were sleeping on a mattress on the floor of the van. We both had to adjust. Now, my cat loves this lifestyle as much as I do; she looks at the window while I’m driving and she loves exploring new places. Since then, my cat Kelly and I are have been living full-time in my self convert van.

Komentáře • 205

  • @virginiawestcot3111
    @virginiawestcot3111 Před rokem +50

    So very sorry for that lady that is homeless. 3 dogs in a car especially the big one sad for them too. No you are not homeless it's your choice to live in your van. And you have a good life. I lost my home within months of retirement. Not from money problems from health problems. I collapsed paralyzed from the waist down from stage 4 cancer I never knew I had. I'll be in a nursing home until I pass. I love watching you and VanCity Vanlife traveling your adventures for the time I watch the video I'm not paralyzed I'm enjoying snow-covered forests or the ocean or mountain view. You are a very beautiful person beautiful from the inside (your heart) which reflects on your face. Thank you and Cam So Much for sharing your lives. Never ever think your video's don't mean a lot. To some of us they are our World.
    Stay safe stay Blessed ❤️ ❤

    • @julien2912
      @julien2912 Před rokem

      With all the videos on youtube teaching people in this situation how to survive I don't feel sorry for anyone like this anymore. We are all watching these type of youtube videos to learn for one reason or another.

    • @sondrajoyce8810
      @sondrajoyce8810 Před rokem

      I agree with Virginia. Emi has made a "choice". She loves the outdoors!

  • @livinginthenow
    @livinginthenow Před rokem +19

    Home is where the heart is. And if your heart isn't in living nomadically, then living in your car will feel like being homeless.

  • @roseshafer258
    @roseshafer258 Před rokem +22

    Emi you are not homeless, your van is home and you are a really nice lady.

  • @kerridavis2630
    @kerridavis2630 Před rokem +11

    When I lived in my car I felt invisible.. I hope that ladies ok ❤

  • @gracienoelle
    @gracienoelle Před rokem +65

    One of the things I absolutely love about you is your no judgement, I have been living in my minivan for over 6 years now and I'm always amazed by the people that judge me, houseless not homeless. Have a fantastic week!

    • @verlindaallen3335
      @verlindaallen3335 Před rokem

      Bill-less basically. I'm sure not totally sure but no house note or rent .

  • @nialone1084
    @nialone1084 Před rokem +30

    Some people literally don't have family or friends who can take them in and have no other options, some can go home to their parents. So it all depends on one's circumstances I guess as to what homelessness means. Thought the lady was very considerate and seemed a wee bit sad.

  • @62WILDCAT
    @62WILDCAT Před rokem +35

    Smart human to pay attention to Kelly & honor her instincts ❤ She is protecting you !!

  • @cocochocookiedough
    @cocochocookiedough Před rokem +4

    Now I feel like Popcorn too!

  • @nelsoncarreiro6099
    @nelsoncarreiro6099 Před rokem +8

    HOME really is where the heart is. ❤

  • @pamgypsyaries8049
    @pamgypsyaries8049 Před rokem +12

    The Pacific Northwest is incredibly beautiful . I could look at that scenery for hours! Hope you and Kelly had a great one! Meowww

  • @GEAUXFRUGAL
    @GEAUXFRUGAL Před rokem +56

    You aren't homeless you are houseless your vehicle is your new home.

    • @soaruk3697
      @soaruk3697 Před rokem +4

      Have you had to live in a car out of need for any length of time?

    • @scrumpymcgrumpy
      @scrumpymcgrumpy Před rokem +7

      Our vans are our homes ….4 years for me and I would not trade this lifestyle at all

    • @IzzyOnTheMove
      @IzzyOnTheMove Před rokem +10

      She's home free ! ❤

    • @pamgypsyaries8049
      @pamgypsyaries8049 Před rokem +2

      @@IzzyOnTheMove I love that!

    • @GEAUXFRUGAL
      @GEAUXFRUGAL Před rokem +4

      @@scrumpymcgrumpy I own land.. Very small but it's mine. I'm living out of the runaway camper grid tied. I need to work on my primary residence but know what? 😎 I'm trying to save energy and keep a buzz. It's working.

  • @ericlunn5323
    @ericlunn5323 Před rokem +9

    I like that road - I've been up and down several times on my bike and in the car.

  • @kateannkippy37
    @kateannkippy37 Před rokem +18

    Heartbreaking 💔💔💔 How many Homeless WOMEN & DOGS are forced to live in their cars in AMERICA🇺🇲. too!

    • @Mirtle_Tirtle
      @Mirtle_Tirtle Před rokem +11

      And Australia 🇦🇺

    • @kerridavis2630
      @kerridavis2630 Před rokem +9

      And New Zealand 😢

    • @margaretkolesar104
      @margaretkolesar104 Před rokem +3

      I was forced into being homeless with 3 dogs & 4 cats. I've learned to change my mindset to being houseless, my home is my van & I prefer it to living in a moldy apartment with noisy neighbors. My remaining dog, the others died of old age, & I are quite content with the illusion of being in control of our environment. I have no plans to return to sticks & bricks. My life is far from heartbreaking, the beautiful sights I wake up to, the peace, no fear of landlords threats. Don't knock it til you try it..😁

  • @bernadettebockis4120
    @bernadettebockis4120 Před rokem +8

    Nice she was concerned over her noise (as opposed to being noisy against people's requests).

  • @conniewaite1371
    @conniewaite1371 Před rokem +7

    She was nice,you should have said ,me too! Think it would have made her more relaxed and safe

  • @Tina-Faith
    @Tina-Faith Před rokem +2

    Thank you kelly for the kisses. Sweet kitty

  • @GDixon-ch3yl
    @GDixon-ch3yl Před rokem +25

    It's a pretty campground and the water is gorgeous. Kelly's enjoying herself.❤

  • @whereswendy8544
    @whereswendy8544 Před rokem +6

    "Home is where you hang your hat."

  • @theresewheeler1498
    @theresewheeler1498 Před rokem +12

    That’s right Emily. You are not homeless. You are houseless You have a place to sleep with everything you need.
    Love the view with mountains and your own river
    Geez who has that view..
    Stay safe and warm with kitty

    • @karenkaytor
      @karenkaytor Před rokem

      and she has Kitty, good friends and a boyfriend that cares about her and she has a miniature (tiny, tiny) house on wheels 😊

  • @darettablack3794
    @darettablack3794 Před rokem +9

    There’s nothing better then a bowl of popcorn and good tv show 😊. Sweet kitty is always so adorable 🥰! Be safe and continue to enjoy your sweet travels with kitty…….🍃🌸😊🌸🍃

  • @dewdropn5619
    @dewdropn5619 Před rokem +3

    Thank Kelli for the kisses! I hope that lady finds peace and safety, in her life. Beautiful spot Emi. 🕊

  • @tammyinman1699
    @tammyinman1699 Před rokem +24

    Yes it is a breath taking view for sure! Oh it’s so very beautiful!!!!
    Kelly is amazing!!!
    I’m always glad you are able to let Chrome know where you are!!❤️
    I wish I could meet y’all 😃
    Prayers for the homeless lady🙏🏻.
    Hugs and prayers and love to you and Kelly ❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

  • @downtoearth1950
    @downtoearth1950 Před rokem +3

    Yup! No cell service.....most of Australia has none either! 😊

  • @kathyrobert9859
    @kathyrobert9859 Před rokem +11

    Starlink to the rescue! Glad you’re not limited to travelling within the confines of cell service… freedom to explore to live your life fully
    Enjoy watching your channel

  • @annieoakley5075
    @annieoakley5075 Před rokem +7

    Emi you are so considerate and accepting. I like that.

    • @dannskopp8957
      @dannskopp8957 Před rokem +2

      Accepting and considerate ❤❤ Great loving Attitude 💗

  • @dross24MA
    @dross24MA Před rokem +2

    I love how you close with kitty-kisses -- it's so freakin' sweet!

  • @DorHBoomer
    @DorHBoomer Před rokem +2

    I'm older and struggling to survive financially; I see living in my car as a very distict possibility. The biggest barrier to living that way is the lack of resources to do a build-out and purchase the equipment and gear necessary to survive that way. Having these challenges doesn't mean I will just give up. Gotta keep going!

  • @suzannemiller5743
    @suzannemiller5743 Před rokem +8

    You made me think you were going to fall walking on the ice! Be careful out there. Kitty is so cute! God bless . Stay safe 🙏

  • @edithsymmans3273
    @edithsymmans3273 Před rokem +7

    Hi Emily and little Kelly,
    Always lovely to catch up with your latest video. Glorious scenery and would be more beautiful in person. Congratulations on your first phone call from Surfshark. Huge hugs 🤗 and ❤ from Perth, Western Australia 🇦🇺. 💖

  • @cindyblank5
    @cindyblank5 Před rokem +6

    That setting is so beautiful! I love the sound of a river flowing. Lucky you!

  • @patriciaince6953
    @patriciaince6953 Před rokem +7

    Love you, love watching you and Kellie, stay safe and happy.

  • @michellenelson7899
    @michellenelson7899 Před rokem +7

    Yup absolutely beautiful Enjoy. Prayers for the lady to find her path❤ blessings and love

  • @sheilabartlett6044
    @sheilabartlett6044 Před rokem +2

    Awesome place to camp. Sweet Kelly protecting you, she is a fabulous cat! Your home is so perfect for you and her.

  • @laurencemarkwart3292
    @laurencemarkwart3292 Před rokem +4

    Cool I know that road well, great scenery.

  • @bernadettebockis4120
    @bernadettebockis4120 Před rokem +11

    Oooooh! Look at that beautiful blanket that subscriber gifted you. It's gorgeous.

  • @sebastien9860
    @sebastien9860 Před rokem +4

    Install your router on the small ledge that was the metal roof and you can run the wire all the way

  • @LaNette1
    @LaNette1 Před rokem +5

    Hey Emi that was a fun video. What a beautiful drive to your camp spot I’m glad you have your star link so you have service and you can make phone calls and get phone calls. You and Kelli are amazing. You guys always make my day you guys be SAFE out there and stay warm.🇺🇸♥️🙏👍🙂🐈‍⬛🏔️🚐🇨🇦

  • @rachelcharris
    @rachelcharris Před rokem +7

    She was maybe lonely looking to make a friend😊

  • @sherryh7485
    @sherryh7485 Před rokem +5

    That's what I always said, houseless not homeless, living in a van for 3 yrs.
    Had $$ for rent and utilities BUT not for the high amount deposits. Plus, monthly van rental and necessities cost quite a bit, too.

  • @lynnef3297
    @lynnef3297 Před rokem +11

    It looked like a beautiful place to camp. What a clear stream!! That Starlink sure does come in handy. Enjoy your journey❣

  • @sheilacaine
    @sheilacaine Před rokem +1

    Beautiful place. ❤

  • @vivianrivers467
    @vivianrivers467 Před rokem +13

    Hello Emi and Kelly!!!💖🐈 You've made a wonderful home for Kelly and you!!!❤ Thank you for sharing 🌟

  • @alohatvj
    @alohatvj Před rokem +1

    She is houseless but has a home to live in. Never homeless if you live in her vehicle.

  • @traceydandrea9550
    @traceydandrea9550 Před rokem

    Smart to follow the animals instinct. They are more in touch with nature and danger. Cats have excellent hearing too.

  • @delainecearnel7210
    @delainecearnel7210 Před rokem +1

    Em, you have the best live with kelly, just be safe

  • @cachina
    @cachina Před rokem +2

    I think Kelly has been watching Chrome and Cruzie too much (how he stopped and waited for you to boost him on up into the van) So cute

  • @debramickley2295
    @debramickley2295 Před rokem +7

    My grandparents lived in Lillooet when I was growing up. We went every summer , I loved it. The trees smell heavenly in the sun. I did not enjoy the drive there , I got car sick every time 🙄

  • @seviregis7441
    @seviregis7441 Před rokem +2

    Emi, I do worry about you when you’re alone out there. It’s not because of you in any way, it’s because there are some real dangers out there which can appear suddenly without warning. Bad people concern me most. I know you love your solitude but a psycho could pass by on the road, see you, then return later. I only say this because I have many times encountered that very situation. Glad that nice lady traveler joined your spot with her dogs. Stay safe, love you and Kitty.

  • @kathylenn9153
    @kathylenn9153 Před rokem +3

    Get a long wide strip of double sided velcro and attach one ened to back or side of cabinet up high then you can velcro the starlink wire into the velcro

  • @sondrajoyce8810
    @sondrajoyce8810 Před rokem +1

    Beautiful spot!! Right by a stream too......😊

  • @jennp7
    @jennp7 Před rokem +7

    Hi Emi and Kelly ❤ Beautiful spot nice to see you both 😊

  • @sondrajoyce8810
    @sondrajoyce8810 Před rokem +5

    You are brave - I would never camp alone ANYWHERE!😮

    • @jessiehead6525
      @jessiehead6525 Před rokem +7

      It’s not about bravery. It’s about knowledge and familiarity and practice. It’s about taking a tiny step and succeeding, and then taking another step the next day and succeeding again. Day after day. Taking steps further afield. Until one day realizing you’ve traveled the world.

    • @sondrajoyce8810
      @sondrajoyce8810 Před rokem

      @@jessiehead6525 : You are right, it's not about bravery - it's about DANGER!!!

  • @verlindaallen3335
    @verlindaallen3335 Před rokem

    So beautiful that river.

  • @onmyway7363
    @onmyway7363 Před rokem

    Here I am. I'm still grinning from your Ferry video. And kitty 🐈 was eating Smelt. Too darn cute. Great video. Now... watching this one

  • @gracecallowayable
    @gracecallowayable Před rokem

    What a beautiful spot to call home for the night…That view is gorgeous!!!👠🚌👠

  • @DisabledandPrepping
    @DisabledandPrepping Před rokem

    Wow such a beautiful place to sleep.

  • @sharonoldham4374
    @sharonoldham4374 Před rokem +1

    Enjoyed ⁰today's video. Take care of yourself and be safe.

  • @lindagillisdavidson958
    @lindagillisdavidson958 Před rokem +1

    I love that blue long sleeve shirt! The colour is wonderful on you. Great video!

  • @FeMiNem-Poet
    @FeMiNem-Poet Před rokem +1

    You have a Van Blessed Nest🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉!!!!!

  • @weiner1414
    @weiner1414 Před rokem +1

    Love miss kittys kisses!

  • @binder098
    @binder098 Před rokem +2

    With your back! You’d better be careful on icy patches like that!

  • @andrewrichey7374
    @andrewrichey7374 Před rokem +1

    Good save on the popcorn

  • @containyourlife
    @containyourlife Před rokem +2

    Hi Emi, perhaps consider verticals space and place or mount your router high up and or hidden. Doesn’t have to take up counter space. Best of luck!

  • @conniegrace3853
    @conniegrace3853 Před rokem

    You have a very sweet and down to earth disposition. I aspire to camp more but circumstances and fear of discomfort hold me back. thank you for making your videos. You are inspiring.

  • @kellybrown6149
    @kellybrown6149 Před rokem +2

    Homelessness is a mindset

  • @isearcheduwin3132
    @isearcheduwin3132 Před rokem +2

    Popcorn bed and movie! Awesome! Very organized and think thru in case of emergency!

  • @barbarasummers280
    @barbarasummers280 Před rokem +2

    She's looking out for you! That Kitty!

  • @frankieb9054
    @frankieb9054 Před rokem

    Aww such a good kitty

  • @kathywallis3130
    @kathywallis3130 Před rokem +3

    Looks like Miss Kelly loves it. Gorgeous campground also. Hope you loved it as we'll.

  • @lizharnisch4804
    @lizharnisch4804 Před rokem

    Just be careful out there. So people aren’t all there. Glad you and Kelly are safe

  • @RLeeVanCamps
    @RLeeVanCamps Před rokem +3

    Nite Kelly and Emi. Be safe. Stay warm

  • @62WILDCAT
    @62WILDCAT Před rokem +2

    Beautiful place ! Thanks for sharing 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @liammcweeney1674
    @liammcweeney1674 Před rokem +2

    Have a great day emi

  • @aprilbaxter2578
    @aprilbaxter2578 Před rokem +2

    Kitty does have your back, and she trusts you to have hers. I always trust my little dog's instincts, even if its something small.

  • @traveleats6833
    @traveleats6833 Před rokem +3

    I love that road!! Just make sure your breaks are good and you drive subject to conditions. Definitely visit in the shoulder season, very busy in the middle of summer!

  • @user-kev-k5v
    @user-kev-k5v Před 9 měsíci

    Wow hey everywhere is frozen, sooner you than me you be careful you don’t slip it is rather beautiful with the river

  • @jayneread2178
    @jayneread2178 Před rokem +2

    What an idyllic spot, love it! 🤩

  • @bryan17293
    @bryan17293 Před rokem +2

    Has your boyfriend taken you shopping for new summer wear and sandals for Easter yet? Emi.

  • @zantigar
    @zantigar Před rokem +2

    Wow, you are so real and amazing!

  • @verlindaallen3335
    @verlindaallen3335 Před rokem

    Kitty's guarding you. 😊

  • @margarethutchens5463
    @margarethutchens5463 Před rokem +2

    I hope the lady comes to feel better about herself. There was a time in my life when I had a job but I lived in my car for a while. Met some interesting people. In the beginning I thought you were doing some fancy ice skating. I'm glad you didn't fall. Stay upright!

  • @juliaperry5244
    @juliaperry5244 Před rokem

    Beautiful place. ❤ to ms kitty

  • @Parkitloveit
    @Parkitloveit Před rokem +2

    Wonderful spot ❤

  • @3quartersbull4
    @3quartersbull4 Před rokem +2

    You have such a good sense of humor

  • @janicegilbert4029
    @janicegilbert4029 Před rokem +1

    Be careful on that ice, I broke my shoulder in four places on ice first torn ligaments are torn muscle. Be careful

  • @elainemcintyre4407
    @elainemcintyre4407 Před rokem

    Good video, thank you, lovely scenery,take care Elaine from Queensland Australia.

  • @PARKITWHEREYOULOVEIT
    @PARKITWHEREYOULOVEIT Před rokem +2

    This starlink thing seems to be very helpful 😮😊

  • @andrewrichey7374
    @andrewrichey7374 Před rokem +3

    Wow what a outstanding campground, look at those mountains just breathtaking. Yeah cat lady appreciate you sharing I’m here watching now

  • @karenmays8889
    @karenmays8889 Před rokem +3

    Great video. Safe travels and stay warm.

  • @IzzyOnTheMove
    @IzzyOnTheMove Před rokem +1

    Haha sorry tes patins Émi!!!

  • @nanabettyg
    @nanabettyg Před rokem +3

    I think from just the several videos I’ve seen that Starlink works differently for different people and differently depending where you are on the globe! I liked the way you did a work around, figured out how to make it work.

  • @AmputeeAdventureChannel
    @AmputeeAdventureChannel Před rokem +2

    Gorgeous views!

  • @backcountryboondockers
    @backcountryboondockers Před rokem +2

    Starlink is awesome. Be careful on them roads. I'm from Colorado and people sometimes don't get found until spring.

  • @Banagal
    @Banagal Před rokem

    You're very smart to pay attention you Kelly's body language. I agree with your comment how animals can sense things we don't. I have a nosy neighbor that hides behind things and watches everything I do when I'm outside. My horses and dog point him out and they're always right. He's such a creep. He's slowed down a bit when I laughed and waved at him. I also videoed him and zoomed in. Next I'll fly my drone to get footage. LOL. Bad boy vs good cameras. Enjoy your beautiful campsite.

  • @paulaunsworth4463
    @paulaunsworth4463 Před rokem

    Stay Safe

  • @grayeagleswolves
    @grayeagleswolves Před rokem +2

    Hi Emi I have to say this ok and its how I look at things when we choose to make a choice to live a Nomadic life Its NOT Homeless its Debt less So we don't have to struggle yes it might be a struggle for a while BUT the pay off is a far better deal than the debt that you incur with the stick and brick life # Van Life for ever

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    @dannskopp8957 Před rokem

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  • @SeanLynchXY
    @SeanLynchXY Před rokem

    Kiss and hug for your pretty guard kitty Kelly!

  • @jackieschneider7354
    @jackieschneider7354 Před rokem +1

    Great video as always, makes me want to get out and travel too. Unfortunately my van is still covered in snow😕

  • @Random-Wanderer232
    @Random-Wanderer232 Před rokem

    Sending love ❤
    Thanks for the content 🎉