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When do we get to see some other of your alters? Like devon ....
They are not here for your amusement
@@EncinaSevera oh that was a sensitive question to you.....i was just interested to maby see a little bit of Devon.sence you never talk about anybody else then your little one minny.and you don't have to sound like a b.... just because I asked about your other alters Encina.....
@@mikeflodin3120 I get this question a lot from people who just want to see them because they want to be abused and they are stated exactly like yours. There are nicer ways of how to word these types of questions for people who aren’t trying to be offensive and sound like they deserve to see my alters just because I have dissociative identity disorder and I make CZcams videos. I won’t apologize for being protective of my system. so if you think I am coming off bitchy with my response to your entitled worded question, then good.
@@mikeflodin3120 do yourself a favour and delete that, shame on you.
I agree darlin 💯❤️🖤💕
that sounds so rude. When I read that.
I got the same impression.
If a system chooses to stay hidden, they have reasons.
Please respect that ❤️
she merely states you ask questions with sensitivity.
Your blatant disregard for respect and sensitivity, is very disrespectful too.
I'm sure not just the entire system, but other systems out there whom read this.
This is her chanel ❤️ she can do what she likes. If Minnie wants to join that's their systems choice. You don't think they didn't weigh up pros and cons. protection is a must for systems.
Please 🙏🏾 educate a bit more on how to approach someone with mental health.
You may have meant well? Idk.. but your mannerisms suck Bro ❤️🐺🖤
Great to hear from you!
2:32 RELATABLE AF!
I hate how quick people are to rationalize depression & other mental health issues and don’t realize that our brains sometimes just malfunction without needing a certain cause for it.
As someone who’s struggling with their mental health, having people like you who can articulate our issues so well means a lot! Thank you for that Encina🤍
My hubby has DID and has 12 alters at least. I've met the baby only twice. Sarah is about 3. The 2 little boys are 7 or so. Rocky moves up and down from 9 to 11 years old. The teenagers (Michael doesn't need glasses and Stephen-Thomas stutters) like to drive. Himself and Francis are back to back opposites - Francis is a walking Oxford English Dictionary and Himself is the main protector of the system. My husband is the main one out most of the time, and Angelo is the one who is most like a total composite of everyone. The little boys asked me who I loved the most. I did the usual well I love all of you the same amount just in different ways. "Nu Uh, Ms. Nettie! You like Angelo best. You get all mushy when he comes out!" "Well, he is awfully handsome you know" I said. Being the spouse of someone with DID is always interesting.
Oh my God... you are the first... THE FIRST person to say exactly how I felt during the pandemic... and before... and after... the only reason why I felt even more isolated during the pandemic has been NOT being able to feel like the rest of the world... yet again. And yes! Now that so many people have been starting to go to therapy, I have not been able to get appointments myself. I missed your presence and insights, Encina. We will probably never personally meet, but I am very happy to get some glimpse of your magical presence. You are not alone and whenever I hear you speak, I feel like I am not alone. Thank you. Sending you lots of love.
and yes... cats are very wise, comforting, and loving creatures, if they were all treated with care, love, and respect, they would never get aggressive
You are truly a wonderful human and I appreciate your message
Thank you for letting us know you're okay! I'm a cat person myself, so I definitely don't mind seeing more of your furry companions, especially seeing how they put a smile on your face! Cat videos, yay!
Notification for this video brightened my day, and Encina made it even brighter! Nice to see you again!
Your back!!! Awesome!!!!
My 2 cats are absolutely the centre of my world too and my reason for living. I live alone amd rarely see humans, I just love my babies so much. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Beautiful Lava 🌋 girl hair!
Your cats are SO CUTE! And it's obvious how much you love them. It's also hilarious how the one likes to be spanked lololol. Absolutely adorbs.
So happy you have such nice cats! How are you doing??? Would love to hear what projects your working on and what your crearive genius is up to. 😀
I love you Encina, for so many reasons! You make me feel like I am not alone in this world. I wish I had a friend like you.
Its hard to understand depression. I moved to Africa and people DO NOT understand it at all. The pandemic has held me up from getting back to the USA, and I've been working on my depression in that area. Thanks for encouraging me!
Happy birthday Encina & the system. Thank you for having a lovely channel full of great makeup, genuine DID rep, and showing your mental health journey! You are all so unbelievably strong and resilient. Encina I hope you’ve been getting at least a little better mentally and recovering alright ❤️ you got this.
I'm so glad you have your cats. I'm an introvert too and my cats have brought me complete happiness & companionship during the pandmenic. They are enough for me. Everyone should have some type of companionship. You are a bright, smart woman that's helping other people. Thank you.
I am literally building a epic cat condo tree thing right now. Haha
I hope you’re ok 😘
Omg thank you so much for explaining cute aggression!! I always get so confused by myself when I feel this extreme urge to squeeze my baby cat's head in but now I finally know
I hope you're doing okay i found out about you resently and wanted to say that you're really inspiring person
So happy you are back with another video.
Thank you so much for it. I can imagine that it’s hard to finish a video when you’re really not feeling well. So thank you. We acknowledge your efforts! 🙏
Seeing you pet the cats was actually quite calming. Love to see more videos of you with the cats. Cats are Gods 💜🙏
Hi Encina! I'm new here. I found you in your interview with MedCircle, and I found that through researching DID because a good friend recently told me she has it. I was very confused at first but you've helped me understand it a lot.
I also have a mental illness myself (not DID). This video of yours was relaxing and informative. I feel like I'm in the room with you, having a chat. 😆
Looking forward to seeing your other videos!
You’re an icon for prioritizing your own health and healing. Depression is so hard to move through. Sending so much love your way, to each and every part ❤️
Even how much you say you struggle and for how long you've done so, you're still here battling through every day like an absolute warrior, and I'm mega proud of you for that.
It's great to see you, Encina! Sending so much love and positivity your way!
Your so relatable which is refreshing. Your also incredibly strong and inspirational. Thank you for what you are doing for mental health in general. You got this
The shot of your two cats sleeping is SO cute! Cats look so sweet when they are asleep. Sometimes when my cat is sleeping on my lap, I just watch her and smile. I love my cat so much and she's been such a comfort during COVID. I hadn't really thought about how the pandemic has brought mental health to the forefront, but yes!! And it's about time. Sending you good vibes and hoping you are well ... 💖
No new videos for 9 months...? Is everything OK with you, Encina? Would be great to hear how you are doing. We all love you, and we want to know if you are well and still going strong. Wishing you the best!
She’s still liking the comments & responding to them, so at least we know she’s still present🤍 I hope she’s okay and it’s just a lack of inspiration and/or a break from CZcams/socials🙏🏻
@@matejaem Thank you... Yes, let us hope Encina will soon be posting a new video, and that until then everything is just fine. Any maybe Encina will read this one day, and write a line or two in response, so we know that she is OK and alive. My best wishes for you, Encina, take care!
Yay!!! I have been wondering where you were!
You are so great at educating people, I never knew that cats bite non aggressively, I love most animals
U're great and very glad u're here again! Greatings from Serbia!
Aww I got excited
So great to see you! I've been thinking about you and sending you good vibes.
The clip showing your cats cuddling was amazing !!!!!! Sooooooo precious
So happy to see you. I hope you continue to heal.🙏🙏🙏 Love those kitties!! 😍😍😍
Thank you very much. I admire you for talking to the world. I hide everything. You are giving me hope.
I just watched the med circle videos last night. I was completely drawn in to you and Minnie and your story. I think it's so brave of you to shine such a light on these topics and show people what it's really like. People are always afraid of what they don't know and/or understand, so knowledge and compassion/kindness and an open mind is always what brings us together. I also suffer from CPTSD, depression, OCD and anxiety from repeated abuse /trauma, and I really admire your courage in allowing your vulnerability to be seen. I heard someone say that as adults, we are all just children with more scars and hair. It's a funny quote, but I think it's true. At the heart of all of us, (or most of us), is the innocence of wanting to be loved, seen, understood and accepted/embraced for who we are. Thank you for sharing who you are and helping others to not feel so alone. ❤🙏
So glad that you are back. I’ve been so concerned!!!! You look fabulous!!
Yay! So happy to see you! Loves you!!! 🦋
My worry is that once things go back to normal, that new appreciation for depression people have learned will go away. I think most people experience the **feeling** of depression at some point in their life. Bad breakup, loss of a loved one, etc. Its the whole life events not affecting your happiness thing that makes it medical depression.
In fact, for me, sometimes bad things happening in my life will actually elevate my mood. Partly because I got satisfaction from punishment, but mostly because it gives me something important to concentrate on and fix, rather than just wallowing.
But Ive found meds that really work for me and I've been in therapy for the past two years, which has helped immensely. I was one of the lucky ones, I kept my life (barely) and only had to put up with 5 different failed meds before I found the right ones for me.
Dont get me wrong, any understanding and empathy people can find is great. But if going out for a few beers with friends once a week is all it takes to cure their "depression," I have doubts they learned much of anything
I’m so happy to see you! You’re someone truly fantastic and just wow 🙏💕 Thank you for sharing so much with us, I hope in some way we are able to give you the love we all feel for you! 💝💖
I just want to say you are such a genuine, real person. You have a beautiful energy. As someone with a lot of mental health issues and trauma, I appreciate your videos. I'm right there with you, the pandemic didn't affect me like it did others because I'm also a hermit and very introverted. It's so tough when my family and friends don't understand my depression at all. I don't shower for days, no self-care, I just feel like an empty shell a lot of days. It feels like I'm just surviving.
Love your honest heart. God bless you.
Love you....stay happy and positive ....take care of urself❤❤❤
They're sooooo cuteeee!! I actually got new cat cause i was soo depressed; i had flashbacks and insomnia everyday.. he helps a lot, makes me so happy :)
So nice to see you using ASL. You do not have to worry about creating Closed Captions as CZcams offers auto-generated CC, it helps lots and knowing it is not perfect. Keep up the great work. Your videos are very informative and helpful! :)
Why has your channel existed for 10 years and this is the only comment you've ever made, chatbot?
Encina my loove :(💖💖So gladd to see you again
So happy to see you! I have cute agression too 🤓🙊🖤❤💯
Hi Encina. I'm a new follower and I'm really looking forward to see more videos from you! :-) Best wishes to you!!!
Hey girl! Im so happy to see you again
I have 4 kittie cats. I love them so much. One of them just feels when I'm down or sad. She will sit on my lap so I can cuddle her, something I cannot do regularly.
Hello luv glad to see you here. I remember grr as a kitten back in the day. Stay well
Thank you 💚🌱
Lol so funny you call them beasts, every night I tell my cat that it’s time for “fancy feast for the fancy beast!” 😆
omgosh i miss you! 🤗💓🦋
your hair is amazing btw!
My beautiful encina! Welcome back
Happy to see you back!
Hope to see more from you. Take care 💘💙💜
Wonderful to see you have posted a video, it can’t have been easy but, as a long term depression sufferer also among a bunch of other stuff, I feel you so much about just not being able to “think happy thoughts” etc. You look lovely. Also, I’m super glad you brought up the cuteness aggression thing, I call it cuteness overload. I say weird things about my cats, and also my young daughter, that have made people’s jaw drop. I can’t help it, it’s because I just love them so much and I think they are just the cutest things ever in the world. I’d never do anything like smash a cat or bite my daughter, but I just say it when they are just so damn adorable and I love them so so so much. Your cats are soooo so so adorable, their little ‘mew’s and the fluff, honestly if you ever wanted to post just cat footage, raw and unedited, I’d be so down to watch hours of it. I love your edited videos too of course. Wishing you all the love and good stuff I can muster, from here in sunny England xx
Encina I haven't seen a video for a while. I'm concerned about you honey. Are you ok?
they are so BEAUtiful your cats are so pretty and i love minnie
So glad to hear an update from you🥰We’re happy to see that you’re doing well over all🥰🥰🥰
And yes,thank you!I have always had people tell me that I just need to get out and socialize and then I won’t have depression or anxiety any more,or that it is “all in my head”(my favorite comeback for that is “yeah that’s why it’s called mental illness”)
Edit:
I have heard that they can also deny you if it is an ESA instead of an service animal(like a seeing eye dog for example) but then again my apartment sucks so who knows🤷🏻♀️
Glad to hear from you!!
Glad to see you !!
Just found your channel about a week ago and I just want to say I love your videos ☺️ and your cats. They're Soo cute. I'll send fanmail soom, love to your system ♥️♥️♥️
I'm glad your back. I've missed you.
Encina, I am so happy to see you back on CZcams!!! I have been praying for you so much. I myself am an introvert, and I felt the same way when it came to the Pandemic it was like nothing changed for me at all. I hope this won't be taken the wrong way, but I want to say, any person who says to get over being depressed needs to be cut out of your life (I know that this may not be possible in all cases, as sometimes the people saying this are loved family member...but other times these are people who are just being rude) I hope that you all are keeping healthy as a system. (i became very depressed for the last 8 years when I developed a disability) Much of my depression decreased greatly when I was finally able to go back to limited/Per Diem work last year (yep during the CV Pandemic) I'm a registered nurse, when you posted that you were considering the ECT therapy I was torn about it, because it does seem to work in certain cases, but I could not find any research in the use of ECT in treating depression in patients with DID for treating Major Depressive disorder a co-diagnosis. Don't get me wrong, I am not against trying therapies especially when many others have not seemed to have helped, and I can see just from watching your videos that you did way more research then I did, but I too saw that the major disadvantage is memory loss. When I care for patients who as part of their medical history includes Mental Health Disorders, I try to formulate a care plan that includes a referral to MH Professional that has an excellent history of helping their clients get to the causation or the root of the clients issues, and when ever possible I try to include as a Suggestion in my nursing note continued referral to the same MHP in the Discharge planning so the Patient/client can continue care as on outpatient. Again Encina, I am so glad to see you!!! BTW your Cat are so cute!!!!! PS: Calmerry sounds amazing!!!! I'm so glad that you found it!
So good to hear from you Encina. I'm now training for 4-5 years to be a therapist. Your comments on remote therapy services were enlightening indeed.
My 12 yo daughter has ‘cute aggression’ with our cats but it tends to make her manhandle them too tight - so now they run when they see her 😁
Its good to see you.
Great to see you
It’s so nice to see you. You look really good & your hair is gorgeous and fun. 😍
I understand how hard of a decision & particularly your situation with DID, and wanting to understand the root of them and you need to go to those memories to unravel parts of you to release the trauma, untangle parts to propel you forward as best you can in each moment of life that you can.
I agree the pandemic has really (sadly) shown those who could never completely understood those who struggle w deep routed trauma, depression & anxiety (which comes to trauma). None on sees it that way, that you are happy, I see what you are saying - going back to creating awareness & compassion. I think we are globally traumatized this last year & a bit. Many won’t necessarily see right now, yet I hope for them that eventually they are able to reflect back in a few years to see & grow (b/c it only will add to their growth - solely - in life).
I agree re: the way we can find a therapist who can specialize in certain therapies that may not be available to where you live, as long as it is legal state to state. I mean certain apps allow for state to state therapy not to be an issue.
Thanks for showing up and showing your cutie kitties. 😻😻😻
🦋Keep taking care of you. 💖💜💖
Yay it finally drooped 💕
When you're depressed your body feels like it weighs 1000000 pounds and it's just impossible for you to get up and do anything. Depression also makes us feel bad physically I think a lot of people don't realize that so ppl will say ust make yourself get up! Not if your head weighs 10000 pounds. You cannot then lift it off the pillow that's a good analogy I try to use to get people to understand
❤❤❤😊 thoses kittys
Im glad that your doing well and checking in with everyone
Thank you ❤❤ and hugs 🤗
It’s very nice to hear you candidly talk and to also let us know what you are NOT saying.
Thank you Encina!
Its been so long that i havent go to your channel. Im so happy that you posted a new video. And you look good too i mean...you look prettier 🥰🥰 i hope you guys are well and happy. Much love from Malaysia.
❤️ you are a Beautiful human being ❤️
Your kitties are beautiful😍
Would love to hear some updates from Minnie too! Shes been in my thoughts
Cute kitties 🥰. My first cat was a meezer too. Hope you’re doing better. You remind me of my art mentor, Laura Hollick.
Hi Encina, I'm not deaf but I put subtitles on to help me with the language, because I'm Italian. I wanted to tell you that the automatic ones in this video are perfect! In case it could help 😊 stay safe and I wish you all the best 💖
So glad you decided to go with your guts and see the red flags... But we are sorry this hope didn't work out 😞 we hope things get better in the future. We suffered since we were little so we understand in our own way. We empathise a lot and wish you finally get some white light in your light. We haven't yet found any help for ourselves, trying and trying again. We have lost a lot of hope but we keep going. It seems like nothing but brick walls. But never give up if you can. Bc you're too beautiful to not keep trying. We can't give you anything that will help but love... But we empathise a lot and wish we could also wish to get some hope to our life and our system healing. We feel for you all. I wish nothing but love and support 💓 we really hope life gives you a win BC we know what it's like to constantly suffer xoxo 🖤🐺 TLWF system - Maddie
I'm happy you showed up
The lockdown didn't affect me at all either. It helped me in a lot of ways as I wasn't nagged by family to take them out. you explained it well about depression as you can't just click your fingers and your happy.....If only. My therapy is here with someone who talks my language.
Good to see you! Glad you're ok!! Does Minnie miss Disneyland as much as me? Is it hard for her to understand why Disney is closed? Would love to hear about her perspective about this covid thing. MORE KITTY VIDEOS!!❤❤❤❤🐾
Just found your channel thank you for the inspiration
Glad to see you're ok. Missed you! Xx
I wish i could squish them. They are so cute!
Hi Encina, nice to see you again.
I understand your reasoning for not doing that procedure.
Just wanted to add that your hair....omg it's freaking phenomenal!!! I can only dream of having my hair that colour 😭
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I CANT WAIT
I'm new to your channel and I'm so glad I found you. I also have DID and no one understands me. You have given me some hope and make me smile so thank you! Please...if you could answer me....
I think you are amazing.
Thank you
Hope you are taking care of yourself! You'd love my ragdoll cat he's a big softy. Time should always be used to focus on yourself and your alters not what everyone else wants from you! I can also speak from experience with depression, you are right that simple things and materialistic objects do not create happiness. In order to conquer it you have to put yourself out there to new experiences and new people to broaden your mind. This pandemic has gave people depression and cabin fever but you have incredible courage so you keep doing what you know is best for you!
I appreciate you being real Encina I love you for who you are it’s seriously sad people dont get it what you go through day in day out I believe take it one day at a time don’t push to hard am also introverted as well I can relate I love you for who you are Encina love your cats since I am a cat person am here to support you much love!❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗
Sure do miss seeing you here. Hope life is giving you pleasure and hope your journey has been moving down a path of love and positive vibes. 💕💕💕💕💕
Aw! Sending all of my love.. miss our chats. SO grateful you're ok.. XO - Sharon
it's been a bit since your last video. you doing okay?
Yup, cats are a reason to live. 😺🥰
Yea , that's the goal for me as well. To get to the root of all the original trauma , to remember and to heal those memories that are blocked off . Its very hard. As long as they are sitting there its gonna cause problems
I love you girl.... You make me feel stronger... Greetings from Mexico
Hi Encina, I want to say thank you for your vulnerability and sharing your story. I too have been having difficulty remembering traumas that happened to me as a little child. I too was sexually abused by my family and I remember it started when I was 2, but I’m sure it happened much earlier than that. I do suffer as well with chronic depression and anxiety and bad dreams. I do want to be open with you and let you know that I went to the Amazon jungle in Peru and took on a ceremony they helped me a lot with my trauma and help reprocess some of it. I don’t know if you have heard of ayahuasca but it truly helped me remember a lot. Let me know or reach me if you like to talk more about it. I know a beautiful place and safe place where they do the ceremonies. I’m thinking of going back again, but thought I share that with you. Hope you’re doing well.