If I Were Single and Starting Over, THIS Is What I Would Do
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Thank you for doing this 💜
I am SO touched by your words today. It's like you just read my mind out loud and know exactly how I feel in my love life. You really understand our collective pain and offered practical solutions as well as the much needed love and encouragement!! I'm so thankful that God brought you to my attention to help me and give me a reason to believe. This event is both therapeutic(better than therapy. to me)and extremely helpful! It was my lunchtime so I couldn't finish watching it but I watched the rest afterwork and bought the book right away! You are my love life hero and angel this year for sure! Thank you and I can't wait to learn more from you! PS. Already listening to your existing audio book and getting enlightened in my car constantly!! Thank you Matthew you are the BEST and you made my YEAR(not just my day haha)!
1.5 h talk. Just awesome ! Inspiring. Watching it before bed and now waking up. I am trying to order the book now And Greetings from Taiwan 🇹🇼
Hi Matthew, I am about to pre-order your Love Life e-book since physical book isn’t available in S.Korea🇰🇷. I’ve been healed a lot from my 6yr relationship break-up by watching your videos and internally learned from them! Can wait to read and learn from the book:) Thank you!
I do
7:57 1) Create a new story: break away from your limiting beliefs
28:44 2) Get clear on what kind of love is worth having
39:34 3) Control what you can: look after yourself and make yourself feel good/confident
1:05:14 4) Expand your world and design your year for finding your person
1:14:30 5) Get honest with yourself
Thank you.
Thank you x
Thank you so much! I’m still going to watch the whole thing but am glad to have timestamps to go back to .
@@msliltrinity you're welcome! I love having timestamps because it just makes navigating much easier haha
❤❤❤ THANK YOU SO MUCH!
I found my person because of the lessons of Matthew and Im still watching his vids. Never give up on yourself ♥ True love is so worth the wait!
Amazing! 🙏❤️
How did u meet him?
I want to know as well! 🤣🤣
Hey ladies, via the dating app Hinge. I went for the guy I wouldn't usually date. He was consistent and we went on cute dates and we connected on a soul level first. Never settle for less🙏
Hey ladies, via the dating app Hinge. I went for the guy I wouldn't usually date. He was consistent and we went on cute dates and we connected on a soul level first. Never settle for less🙏
I’m 66, met and married someone I met on Match. It took a few years of work on myself, listening to lots of audios and wading through the work of online dating. Yes there are a lot of frogs out there but it was worth all of the work. I was single for 7 years.
I love this. I'm very happy for you ❤❤❤❤
Single six but I have two young children however this gives me hope
I appreciate your sharing this, I'm encouraged!
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I listened to Matthew and several other coaches. The book Attached explained my attachment style of being anxious and attracted to narcissists. I knew I found the right guy when I was able to be myself, wasn’t triggered and he was everything Mathew teaches to look for. We are a great match and get along better than anyone I’ve ever known. The over the top chemistry I was always drawn to, was my misinterpretation of what real love was. Listen to as much as possible, read Attached and Matthew’s new book, which I’m ordering even though I don’t need it anymore. Information is great to share♥️ Love to you all on your journey!
My sister always says "if you don't want me, I don't want you." I kept that in the back of my head while dating.
Matthew, I had to leave to see my 17 year old son receive science honors at his high school, I’ve raised him alone for 17 years, his mother left when he was an infant and I’ve done it all alone…with him….i got the prize and I now see him becoming a beautiful soul. I now have the daunting task of trying to now have a love life. You’re amazing, thank you for what you do. I’m watching this now in full
So glad you are here. Sounds like you’ve done an amazing job with your son. Congratulations to him! Now let’s help you find the love you want ❤
@@thematthewhussey
Matt, if you google “Walter Eisenhardt” you’ll see a few stories about us, the most recent “one of Bellmore’s oldest houses is now fully restored, The Charles A. Frisch house”.
My sanity project through the custody battle, 911 cancer and so much more. I waited so long to poke my head out and find love and I had a terrible experience with a woman who lied, cheated, and verbally abused me. I refuse to give up as I’m a fighter, I won’t be defined by what happened. You need to know that you are the one true sane voice out there and it shows that you really want to help, you’ve gotten me through some very rough times, thank you. You are an inspiration
@Millerscrossing - That is impressive, I have goosepimples from your story.
@@bumblebee_ms thank you
God bless you for being that Dad!!!!
When some say ‘’I think I’m better alone’’ it’s not always because they’ve been hurt.. sadly is because they genuinely are better alone without a man giving them hassle, sponging off them and being an emotional vampire draining them. It always costs something to be in a relationship, not everyone wants to pay that, especially if they made it on their own already, sad but true 🎉 Love your videos and love you x
I truly thought I would be in a relationship with a loving, kind man by now. I've been divorced for over 20 years.
Don't give up because of your age .. I'm 62, been married 3x and I'm still getting attention from men in their 20s, 30s and older....we are all beautiful and with age comes the knowledge to know the difference between what is realistic and what is fantasy
Superficial attention as Matthew mentioned?
No shortage of superficial attention
As a 50yo woman, I too still get attention from men in their 20s and early 30s. These men are just looking for what they assume will be easy, “no-strings” sex with and older woman. They are NOT interested in anything more. Some of them may pretend to be interested in more, perhaps because they want financial support also. But they are NOT. Superficial attention is easy to get. Take it as a little confidence boost and use that confidence to help attract the attention of the kind of man who is genuinely interested in a relationship with you in this stage of your life.
Now that's not fair. I haven't been married once and you marrying all of them 😂
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73! ... full of live and I absolutely believe in LOVE!!!!
I love that Jeanne ❤
👏🏾 amazing
Thank you for sharing. Just turned 54 and my husband of 17 yrs dumped me via text. 3 months later, I'm still in total shock 😮and fear I'm too old to be desired. 🌹 never losing hope.
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@@annaholden2406I’m 73! I Normaly swim, sauna free 2/3 times weekly I had knee Surgery May 23 & major Dental implants don’t give up chronic bad back right now
I am at 81 and yes you can find love but first you have to give it
Thank you 🫂
Thank u die sharing that gives me hope at age 61 🙏
@lindamedina8709 U also must love yourself & God helps 100%💜💙
1. Write a new story
2. Decide whts important to u
3. Control what u can
You are so perfectly right when you talk about Instagram or Facebook and that it makes you sad when you see people that post their happy relationships and they’re not really happy
I was told that I have no value because of my age, by someone I was dating. I’m 53 and I’m beautiful inside and out. Thank you for addressing the “age” issue. I want quality, not quantity.
Interesting that he would say that but have a date with you if he really felt that way. Maybe he felt like you were superior to him in some way and wanted to notch you down to ease his intimidation.
@@kristilee7006 I was in a relationship with him. That wasn’t the only insult that he bestowed upon me. Perhaps, it did come from an insecure place with him? All I know, is that if you listen to someone long enough, those words can cause some serious damage. He also said to me that no one would want to marry me and that the only men I can get are 65 year olds (I have nothing against older men, he was saying it to be derogatory) and men who would just want to have sex with me. He told me that he was never going to marry me. So, with that being said, I left his house one day, never to speak to him again.
He was clearly abusive and said things with the intention to destroy your confidence and self-esteem. And he knew where to hit you where it hurts.I dated a guy once and I realize now that he intentionally did the same thing. I am now learning to love, honor and care for myself the way I would like a man to. I believe it starts with us individually, then we can add to that with another person. You did well to remove yourself from that poison.
@@kristilee7006 I agree with you and I am on the same journey you are on. I don’t want to attract those types of men any more, so I am working on myself. Thank you for sharing your experience with me and your kind words. ❤️
You’re welcome.☺️ We may still attract men like that at some point in our life, but we will value and honor ourselves enough to put up a boundary and protect ourselves from that when it shows up. We are worth that kind of love! I do think that as our self-respect grows, those kind of men will sense the change and will naturally look for easier targets.
#2 Aka... Do not seek to be validated. Self validation is self love, acceptance, self respect and authenticity to its core ❤
Scarcity breeds desperation
Absolutely!!
But when we are older scarcity of good, available men is the reality
Free up our energy by saying no to nonsense - YES! I have wasted years of my life analysing and explaining away unwanted behaviours from romantic interests or partners. I also struggle with looking older. It's time for me to rewrite my story. I have ordered your book. Couldn't join live - too early in Australia. Thank you so much!
Love it! And thank you so much for ordering my new book!
I liked what you said about having a clean apartment for yourself. I purposely keep my bedroom unattractive because I don't want any ONE night stands. I need to set a better understanding and decorate it for me.
This is already making me teary eyed- bc there are a million truths in this .
So many things you’ve said have spoken to me, you’ve changed my life forever.
Just because women want to look good doesn't mean they base their value on how attractive they are to men. Initial attraction is what opens the door to learning the real important things about a person.
I love your enthusiasm and passion! You are doing exactly what you’re supposed to be doing because you’re doing a really good job at it. Thank you from all of us.
My current bf of 6 yrs came to my apt when my sink was overflowing with dirty dishes. I went ahead & owned it bc out of all the daily chores one tries to fit into their busy schedule, I hate doing dishes. I do them when I have time & my back doesn't hurt & I'm wearing something that's ok to get wet/dirty. And that may never change - it's part of the package you get when you get me. He said he likes cleaning. Woohoo! I hit the jackpot!
Matthew, first of all, I want to thank you for everything that you're doing to help people with their love life! I've been following you throughout the years, and you've helped me directly and indirectly so many times.
I just watched this on replay, and the last part has hit me hard. "You can't love yourself only when you get a gold star!" And this is just what I needed to hear today. Hormones during and right before monthly cycle have been taking over to a dark times and I wasn't happy with myself as I knew what I needed to do to get out of it but as it I didn't had desire, power or just anything so to act on it. Thank you for reminding me that we don't need to be doing anything so we can be loved. Thank you❤❤❤
Thank you for all the hard work you put into making these videos. I watched the entire video. I've been following for about 3 years. This was by far my favorite of all the content. I needed to hear this. 🙏
Oh, I wish I would have caught this when it was live! I've been single and excited about dating for a long time. The important thing is that my standards have gone up my boundaries are better but the pool of men that I've had to choose from has been really difficult. They often fake a lot of qualities to hook me But I'm hopeful a good match is out there. I used to tell myself after so many heart breaks that my "soulmate" must have died in a fiery explosive car accident as a teenager because I was never going to find them.
Thank you for all you do. I love your work.❤
I had decided to give up on dating until I saw more of your videos Matt. I was exhausted from everything you said.
You and Audrey are gorgeous together, that's the type of love I want.
I get plenty of men flirt with me, but none ask me out.
Yep, I'm 44 and many men are interested in dating me or beeing casual with me, but there's no one who is interested in love. Men in our age are single for a reason. Every man I could possibly be interested in is in a relationship or is avoidant.
@@diezuckerbackerin5112 Exactly, men being avoidant gets us women nowhere. It truly is annoying and exhausting.
@@diezuckerbackerin5112same here in Italy or maybe worse
That sounds like blame. Blame is its own kind of avoidance. 🙏🏼
@@christopherlamott9351 I tried to avoid your comment but decided instead to address it. I would prefer it if men admit they hate approaching women rather than just dismiss us as "too blamey", the issue is REAL and not something to just be flippant about. This means you are ok if single woman never find love due to never being asked or they should do the only job a man really should do to kick the whole process (I know you didn't say that but it's a bit implied). I still don't get why men do not want women who are actively looking or wanting to date, like what is the point of acting like you don't want to be with a loving man??? I find it hard to fathom men I see in real life that dismiss women altogether. It honestly makes NO sense to me. When a woman has her cab light on it means we're good to go. Time to get to know each other and see if we're a good fit. Who wants to be single forever?
It is hard to have to be dating again as a woman in their 50s-60s - true, we're less attractive but it's also hard to look beyond the older man physically. There are, but rare, men that age like wine and continue to be attractive, but they are usually after sweet young things. So it's a very hard task to filter out what the eyes see to find attractiveness in the person within. Whereas, if you grew old with someone, they always remain as the person you knew in their youth, their beauty is retained in your mind's eye and in the knowledge of the person you know.
I totally agree I’m a 60 year old lady -and then there’s the slut shaming you get from those who blame you for all your attempts of love failing -they say oh you’ve had so many men you must be abusing love ..no I’ve been abused in love 😢trying to find someone who will love and respect me and not judge me because I’ve had a few more partners than they have is wrong /I’ve learnt about what I want and don’t want -how people hide who they are until they get you to live them then start pulling you apart -if I had not had these failed relationships I would still be attracted to the wrong men ..sadly my last partner who I adored could not get my previous partners out of his head and ruined everything from his thinking -I’m probably the most loyal loving person he could meet but he’s just hell bent on slut shaming my past .
This is exactly what I am feeling, too. I have learned the hard way multiple times to not lower my standards, including for how a man treats his body and how well he takes care of himself. It's also how I operate.How we look usually has everything to do with our lifestyle choices. Maybe it sounds harsh, but I'd rather be alone than have to effort to be interested in someone when I feel physically "ew-ed" by his lack of self-discipline or self-care. Maybe my standards are high? Looks aren't everything. But for some of us, including me, there is a degree to which I am unable to gaslight myself. I truly believe there are older men out there that are as into physical, mental, and spiritual health and fitness as I am, AND value maturity in a woman.
This right HERE!!! They almost ALL have big ole bellies too.
“Get the F off from Instagram “ Amen!! Thanks
That was personal 😭 … but true
CZcams too? 😅
I got off there because I was getting way too many bogus come ons
Also loved that comment ......
I was scared of not having kids but I prayed and the lightbulb finally clicked, it’s more important for me to become the mother I want my kid to have and the wife and woman I want to be before having the bonus husband and kid.
Unfortunatelly, I could not participate in the live event. and could only watch it today. I am loving the honesty and energy. There is so much truth and depth in what you are saying. Thanks a lot.
Amazing life I just ordered your book and now I feel confident I have a roadmap for my soulmate. I appreciate greatly everything you’ve been talking about and I am looking forward to these other classes because it is to open up again. Thank you I highly appreciate it and I’m grateful to you and all your staff to bringing this to us and I really look forward to reading your book!!!!❤❤❤
You have to love yourself first before anyone can love you ❤️
Thank you sooooo much. I've pre-ordered your book.You can't imagine the wake-up call you gave me today. The part with chronic pain...omg, I fell on you via instagram and the timing is simply unbelievable.
Just pre-ordered your book. Looking forward to all the bonuses! Thank you SO much 💓
Thank you for uploading Matthew 😍😍😍 i love watching your videos, looking forward to the new book! love from Australia ❤
My story- Im too old now, I feel like I’ve reached invisible age at 45 and I have chronic illness, so feel unlovable 😢 Recently separated from my ex husband who I was with for over 20yrs.. I’ve decided my self esteem is too low to be trusted to date just yet. Self love year dating myself here I come! 🎉
I am a 911 cancer survivor, anyone I tell, runs away. I am also a single dad and raised my son alone after his abusive mother was taken out of our lives by the courts thank god. He’s 17 now and a national honor society student.
You are NOT too old and you sound like a truly beautiful and lovable person to me. God bless you and my heaven shine light upon you, chin up, deep breaths and stay in the game of life, I believe love with find us both again
Thank you for your kind response 😭❤️ 🙏 fingers crossed for a good one for both of us! 🤞🙏
@@she_followsthesun yes, I’m with you all the way, where do you live BTW?
Want to read a nice story? Google “One of Bellmore’s oldest houses is now full restored, the Charles A. Frisch house”
That’s me and my son
OMG I made a New Year Resolution that this is the year of self love and trauma healing for me ❤
@@socol76We got this!!! 🔥Self love year!!🎉🎉🎉I wrote myself a love letter the other week to past me. I bawled like a baby😭 Then I wrote a list of all the things I’d want from a partner.. what words would I want to hear? How would I like them to treat me? What kind of things would I want to do with them? Then I wrote a list of ways I can give some of these things to myself. I’m determined to heal and find happiness by myself so I don’t feel desperate to just have anyone! I’m getting a converted van and going to have adventures and treasure this time. Good luck on your journey ❤
I pre-ordered your book and am excited to read it! Thank you for all you do, @Matthew!
Just ordered my precious hard copy of your amazing book. Big thanks to you for loving us, believing in us, inspiring us to change our lives now, before we ever must.
All my love to you and beautiful Audrey, from blooming and blossoming Vienna, and lovely beginning of spring season to y’all good feelin folks 🧚🏽♀️🧚🏾♂️
I'm a widow of a 53 marriage. My hubby has been in another life for 3.5 years. I miss his companionship!
Im 23 , I’ve just bought the book and I look forward to delving deeper into your philosophies on modern dating culture and how to navigate finding the love of your life in our modern toxic dating environment. As crazy as it may seem to some I’m ready , excited , and looking forward to settling down , starting a family and sharing my life with the person who gets me best and loves me for who I am , not who I may have pretended to be in the past ! watching you has helped me get one step closer to that goal , thank you ! I can’t wait to read the book !
It’s been 7 years since my husband passed and I’m still single. This is exactly how I feel.
October will be 6 years since I lost my husband and same I’ve been single since then too
Your husband would want you to be happy with someone else. ❤️
Sept makes 9 years for me and haven’t even missed a man:(-
My husband passed 11 years ago. I attracted a man awhile ago who was destructive, fine with being mean, scary.
I watched the replay today and it really shifted my mindset on relationships and how I approach them. While I've watched many of your videos before, this one really resonated. And I have pre-ordered your work....I am really excited to dive into it when it comes!
I needed this so much Matt. Perfect timing. Thank you.
I’m a widow. I don’t want to be alone. I want someone to wake up beside❤
Loneliness is so awful, isn't it? I totally know how you feel. I'm a nice person but attract insincere people with agendas.
I need to know how to meet the RIGHT ✅️ people & make some great friendships with like-minded people...
I am too. At the age of 40. With 3 beautiful children
I am too. It is crazy lonely but I accept being lonely but I have high hopes for love.
Yes need a new story. Even I AM bored of my story.
Totally Agree, my friend😔
😂 snap
Matthew, watching the video from london. Thank you for talking from the heart. I need to order your book and also finish tidying up my apartment🤦🏾♀️
Very proud of you for pulling yourself out of the dark place you spoke of on the Greatness podcast. I acknowledge it takes so much courage and energy to address inner patterns and emerge into greater light. No doubt it brought up much pain. Congratulations to you and Audrey, btw. Much success to you, your loved ones & community always. Glad you found your person.
Thanku from N.Z! Have been following you since my struggle to escape a narcissistic relationship early last year. I am now in a relationship which is fairly healthy (we both mirror our past rel. traumas but are aware we are a good match) and self aware. This segment was helpful as I aim to be consistent in further bringing out all the best sides of me as we evolve together and keep the spice and trust ongoing. Will keep an eye out for your book on our shelves as we r a tiny country 😊
Thanks again (also great hearing these things from a male!
After awhile U start to lose hope and think to yourself maybe it's just NOT gonna happen 🤷♀️🤦♀️😌
I was married for 23 yrs to the most loving woman. She passed away 4 yrs ago and I feel like you do . Doesn't look very promising out there
Too bad we haven't met
@@PaulHuff-qg3qwto bad we never met but I’ve reconciled with an Ex who’s paraplegic wife passed away the House was built for Her,Hoist, Moonsoon Shower,Careers,oxygen,Tubes for everything He adored Her, so I ask “(Her”) Permision for everything in that House we’ve been together from 2019 2 Panademic,lockdowns other stuff keep trying never give up 🙏💗💕❣️😍🥰⁉️
"How do I go through my life, making other people brave" ... I just found the motto for the rest of my life.
I was working but just finishing now. I did pre-order the book. Your event was amazing and so helpful. I appreciate how it was about all decades of peoples. Thank you.
Do you know Where can i put the receipt code to get access to the programs?
Hey @@amnasultan144 ! Thank you for joining us for the event. You can redeem your bonuses by confirming your order at LoveLifeRoadmap.com
I love this guy. Thanks for putting this information out, Matt. Please keep doing what you're doing. I also really like that you use the phrase "I see you"
Thank you, your videos are not only helping me to get through a tough phase, but they give me the opportunity to overthink my priorities. Amazing
I feel like what im truly looking for doesn't exist. Ive been told my standards are too high and i expect too much. "Prince charming doesnt exist, what youre looking for only exists in fairytales" ive been told that i ask for too much.
I'm kinda sad I missed the live BUT happily watching this now for my Tuesday evening. Thank you matthew!
I'm watching/listening to this video as I'm working, and feeling so contented. Not because I want to have a romantic relationship with a man, but the realization hits, I can fall in love with the most important person in my life, ME. Matthew spelled it out for me, many many thanks, you are a GOD send! I only have my sister in this world, and she found a man who truly loves her in as much as she loves him. I have two failed relationship, but I still truly believe in love. May not happen for me, but happy for those people who have found it. May you and Audrey be forever in LOVE.
Thank you matthew for uploading this video.what i have in mind now is to try one last shots for ❤️
Superb, candid and honest advice delivered with balanced sincerity. Well done, Matthew!
I’m 64 and my friend keeps going up to guys trying to fix me up. I want someone I could kiss if they are not someone I could kiss , they’re not my type I feel superficial. I want someone who loves me and cares for me and makes me feel accepted and secure, but I want to kiss him too🥰😘
Truth… or I’d rather be alone
Yes... regarding a kiss 💋 Having the ability to kiss is truly an art 🎨 but the attraction to kiss that person presents itself. I truly need that for progression if the communication is, of course, in place in the first instance.
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It’s not superficial to want someone you want to kiss! It just means you want someone you are attracted to
He is simply amazing! I could listen to him for hours. He is by far the best! I simply love opening up my heart and mind to all that he has to say. God bless you Matthew!
I think this is the best talk I heard from you to date Matt ❤
Great video, Matt. Exactly what I needed to hear. There's plenty of beautiful life left to live and I know better, now. ❤
Divorced for 18 years and I’m 62 years old and so frustrating trying to find out if I’m ever going to meet anyone
Don't give up,its out there
It can happen. I married after 7 years. A friend was single 14 years and met his mate who had been single for 20 years. They’re a perfect match and know that it was worth the wait
@@alitez960I swear to god, if I hear this bs line one more time…… “someone being out there” doesn’t do crap for me now.
You likely won't, or you need to date guys 70-80. It's just reality. Enjoy hobbies.
@@barbaramyers8581lol !!! Barbara, you're a funny chick.
This is the most real, raw, transparent and heartfelt message I’ve seen from you and I am LIVING for it. I will 100% be buying a book. I ain’t a psychic but you’re giving “I’m gonna be a dad” energy 💞
This is what I need to hear just a reminder I am worth it, I do most of the things but I don’t go out with confidence!
Confidence is sexy and empowering!! Just do it! 🎉
My husband fell in love with another woman 6 months ago , we where married foe 10 years, 2 wonderful boys 😢.
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I can relate. We were only married for 3 years
Good riddance to him. Infortunately you will still have to deal with him because of the kidds but this is your moment actually. Always thank the people who “stab” you in the back as you will admire so so much who you will become. You will love again and you will be loved by someone that is not weak…a real man. Be strong…do not shed tears for a weak link (because this is what he is). You are healthy, you are smart, you are beautiful.
Well, there's never a guarantee for a lasting relationship.
My story that limits me from finding love is that I already had a deep love and when my wife died and left me to raise our 5 kids alone, many of my friends told me I might not find a love like that again and that I should be grateful I've at least loved and lost. I love her so much that any future prospective partner has to navigate that and accept my children as well. Feels like a pretty tall order.
In a similar place, my sweet husband passed suddenly leaving me with 2 young kids and a business to run. Your love for your wife is a strength! Any real prospective partner would be open to allowing you to cherish and honour what you had together. Still, you need to be ready to move forward and make room in your heart …and mind. I keep thinking my husband would want me to have someone in my life to love, cherish, partner with. You can’t find a Replacement but maybe a new soul to love! Wishing good things for you! Hopeful for myself. Sometimes feel down about my situation, but hold my head high. Limits are shackles we put on ourselves.
It's sad that the spot in your life for love is already taken by someone who is no longer in your physical world.
There are many men like yourself out there hence the shortage of loving individuals... 😔
You're ahead of the game. You were able to meet and attract someone you loved dearly. There are so many people who can't seem to do that at all, but you - you know you have that skill.
@codyfraser3850 - I am certain your children, family and friends want you to have a woman to love and be loved by, romantically. I am also certain your wife would want you to have a woman in your life romantically, to love and support each other, as she can't be there for you. A new woman won't be like your wife was, nor would she want to be, but she would be there to share love and life with you and your children. She wouldn't want to be a replacement, substitute mum to them. Any new woman would be unique and special, with her own amazing qualities. Your wife sadly died, but you are still very much alive, with the rest of your life to live yet, and to be happy. Do you - or do you want to live a shadow of a life? When you are ready and have forgiven yourself for any feelings of guilt or regret, you will be open and ready for a new woman and a different romantic love. All the best.
I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤🙏
Was working, could not be there live, but Im here now. ❤
Glad you're here now 🙏
Much needed. I just pre-ordered the book. Thank you ❤️
After so many years of following Matt, I am not sure if others feel the same, but I feel like we grew together. The content keeps getting more mature and better as we also get more mature and better. I am here for all the relationship content to keep a happy marriage that will come :D the game doesn’t stop after marriage… it only gets started. Thank you Matthew, we love you!!!
Dear Matthew
Absolutely love your passionate presentation 💕 Thank you from the bottom of my heart. You have opened my eyes to what was right in front of me. Awakening to a positive mindset is sustainable and you demonstrate this beautifully. Sincerely
Thank you ❤
Married for 15 years, horrible man, horrible divorce. Finally found the absolute love of my life and after 2 and half years he's ended it. Absolutely devastated. And the wrong side of 40. Can't believe it
He wasn’t the love of your life then, we are angry that they wasted our youth.
So sorry. That happened to you. Stay strong
He wasn’t the love of your life. Don’t romanticize who you thought he was, rather see him for who he really was. Some people come into our lives for a season, and help us learn something about ourselves. Thank them and move on. Wishing you happiness and health. ❤
Hugs to you! He wasn't the love of your life. The love of your life never would have left! You're meant to get someone better!
@@dianethompson6804 thank you so much
50s, 60s, 70, or 80's....oooop he excluded the 90s ladies watching this and still dating
I’m on my 20s! This is productive and beneficial. Thank you!
I like the fact that you are so honest and real
I am so happy I discovered you on the school of greatness
This a GREAT video, you have inspired me to do better. Thank you. Really, great content.
I do deserve. Just ordered. Hello I'm from Australia Matthew you are reaching so many. Can't wait for my book to arrive x
2 days ago…. I think this is the shift I needed after watching you on Lewis Channel. 🙏🏽 listening now
The best thing I’ve heard so far is reset your standards if he can’t text you back he’s worthless
"Confidence is saying NO to NONSENSE!" "LOVE NEEDS SPACE...PAUSE ...STOP ✋️& HOLD!" "GO SLOW TO GO FAST"
This is so true. Even within a relationship. My last boyfriend was giving mixed signals, not being respectful of my time, etc... I knew he had a big crush on my for a few years and was just getting in his own head and sabotaging now that we were actually together so I told him we needed a break and reset and to contact me when he was ready but he decided to ghost instead (and we had been friends for 4 years before we dated so that crushed me). I think he thought I didn't like him anymore because I wanted to take a step back but I just didn't see the point in stubbornly sticking the course we were on. We needed to pause, get some breathing room and perspective so that we could more forward from a better place
This is the best advice I’ve heard in a long, long time
One of your best videos, Matt! Thank you!
Oh thank you. This is so refreshing and just what I needed as my 47th birthday is coming up
Pretty inspiring - thanks so much! We’ve got this!❤🤗
So happy to see this long format :)
Great session - knowing one's worth so important! Thank you for what you do Matt.🥰🙏🥰
I pre ordered audible book …love listening on my walks
Thank you💜. i found you today and you have opened my eyes and heart with hope, Book ordered and eager to make the changes!!
20 yrs. Single! Started as a choice that now I want a relationship/love!
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This is so damn empowering and authentic!! Thank you.
I’m 2 weeks behind but I’ve really enjoyed the session.
I had someone really hurt me just this weekend & it’s helped me to focus on positive thoughts.
I shall grab my copy this week!!
I love everything that you are saying. I just canoot start over any more - a complete burn out. I cannot afford to endure the same pain ever again.
I’ve pre ordered the book in Jan but definitely needed to see this live event you spoke with such passion and honesty and definitely not home what you said right now I needed the wake up call as I’ve been terribly depressed past 3 weeks with a breakup and I’ve not been looking after my human but as of now I’m going to make it my mission and check out your extra bonus can’t wait to learn read and see more to help me find attract and keep love in my life thank you so so much 💖🙏🏼💖
This is brilliant! Your words hold sooo much truth!!!!! Now I know why you have excelled in ehat you do… brilliant content and you are genuinely making a difference to sooo many. I will get your book! Keep doing what u do 🙏🏽✌🏽🙌🏽🌈x
Thank you for the inspiration and advice! I am 55 and been divorced for 13 years. For a long time I told myself I am too independent, too different and thought my value was tied to what I could do for others. Just starting to realize what I deserve and that I am lovable the way I am. I do take good care of myself but also have some fear of getting hurt. I am trying to be more open and create a full life. I know staying home and taking walks by myself isn’t exactly putting myself out there. Part of my story was also that I had kids to take care of and then my father got sick. Kids grown, father passed away. Think it is time to take care of me and allow the space for romantic love in my life. Thank you so much!😊 ❤️
This is phenomenal! Thank you so much for your wisdom and insight! Namaste!🙏
Wow 8hrs after this live, I discovered your channel, Matthew 😮🙏🏻💙
Thank you - so glad I found you! Love your vibe! We all need the positivity- 65 and I believe in love. It’ll happen…someday in a way it never has before. I sure have great stories tho!!!
❤ from Germany. Keep up the good work. Chronically ill myself- that was never a problem in my dating life, bc I accepted it but didn't let that define me as a person. If a decent person get to know you better and begin to like you, the illness will nobody stop to fall in love with you.
I have been around since 2013 in the “Ready For Love” days. Your wisdom and insights have given me great new perspectives over the years, and although I am still looking for love, I feel in an immensely different place in my life, in a good way. Can’t wait to read your new book! Thank you for sharing this program! The part where you said, “If the love of your life came to your house today, would you s**t your pants?” had me laughing for real! 😂 But also…I do really need to organize my space. No one’s coming over for a while. 😅
I've heard on another person's podcast....it's the armor/shield/wall we keep up! That hit home!!!