SOCIETAL NORMS KINDA SUCK

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  • čas přidán 22. 08. 2024
  • There is no one template to happiness or self fulfillment. What does it mean truly live a meaningful life? Do material items equal happiness? What ideals has this society placed on us? IS IT POSSIBLE TO BREAK FREE FROM LIFE LONG CONDITIONING?
    These are some of the topics discussed in this video.
    There are so many other problems in society and in the world that need more attention and the topics of this video may very well be seen as "first world problems" but I'm discussing the society I grew up in and will cover international issues in later videos!
    These are my own opinions, you do not have to agree with them and I will respect your opinion as long as you respect mine :) Thank you
    instagram @yaknowme_hitomi

Komentáře • 344

  • @lory4263
    @lory4263 Před 7 lety +304

    hitomi you should consider making a podcast! i would definitely listen :)

    • @madicynleckey7227
      @madicynleckey7227 Před 7 lety +6

      I would be so down to listen to it if you did

    • @anaestrela1578
      @anaestrela1578 Před 7 lety +3

      Blue I agree

    • @joonayu1317
      @joonayu1317 Před 7 lety +1

      Agreed train journey's would be more worth it

    • @lory4263
      @lory4263 Před 7 lety +20

      Yeah totally! Anything thats on your mind that you'd like to share really I think we'd all love to hear what you have to say haha

    • @robertcruz4717
      @robertcruz4717 Před 7 lety

      Hitomi Mochizuki I fucks with what u preachin. People make fun of me for liking old music and wearing suits and I'm just like fuck u bro I like what I do it brings me happiness so fuck u. Ya I love this what ur preaching I thought it would be mostly LGBT oriented but it's not I can relate ❤️❤️❤️

  • @isilmonika
    @isilmonika Před 7 lety +118

    omg i stopped the video mid-way through just because you said "i know you subscribed to me because of the way i look" that is so true. it's very brave and honest that you acknowledge that and you say that to us. youtube is always about this but nobody says that.

    • @fatimxh
      @fatimxh Před 7 lety +5

      isilmonika I subbed coz everyone was saying she's so cool and her titles sounded interesting. I admit, she does dress fabulously also. 🐉🌸

  • @ropeandflowers
    @ropeandflowers Před 7 lety +272

    You have such a beautiful mind

    • @madicynleckey7227
      @madicynleckey7227 Před 7 lety +8

      was that necessary

    • @o.dey_
      @o.dey_ Před 7 lety +4

      Deadman such an unnecessary and inappropriate comment really. Should've kept it to yourself

    • @ropeandflowers
      @ropeandflowers Před 7 lety +5

      +Deadman someone's soul and someone's mind gleams brighter than a body ever could. Hitomi has a gorgeous body but its the way that she thinks that makes her special ❤ ️

    • @omegamale7880
      @omegamale7880 Před 7 lety

      A beautiful mind like that math genius?

    • @ropeandflowers
      @ropeandflowers Před 7 lety +1

      +OmegaMale that was such a good movie

  • @jenwilson5766
    @jenwilson5766 Před 7 lety +11

    I lived in the US for 2 years and worked as a nanny for really rich people. They weren't bad people at all, in fact they were pretty good to me. But their life made me just so sad and made me realize what is really important in life.
    They were both working basically 24/7. They hardly ever saw their kids. And whenever they had a little bit of free time they used it to got shopping or got to the gym to look a certain way. And I just thought to myself "man...you people have everything, but you are so poor".
    I'm am just so thankful for that time because it opened my eyes!

    • @timle9842
      @timle9842 Před 6 lety

      They will most likely have the option of retiring at an early age and enjoy the fruits of their labour. Imagine not working after 40, where most people nowadays will be working until 65-70+.
      That being said, there is no single way to live, and that success and happiness is different for everyone :)

  • @FaeK
    @FaeK Před 7 lety +205

    It feels like we are friends and that warms my heart because (I CANT BELIEVE im putting this on the internet) i haven't had any friends in real life since 8th grade (im now in 10th). i got bullied very badly in middle school and in 8th grade all my best friends left me to be friends with my bully. So i left public school to do online school, and ever since then i haven't had the chance to talk to anyone and become their friend. So i just want to thank you so much for not making me feel so alone and lonely. Your videos and interaction is the only thing getting me through this rough patch right now.

    • @FaeK
      @FaeK Před 7 lety +13

      you saying "do what makes you happy" gives me so much confidence for my passions in life

    • @emt4823
      @emt4823 Před 7 lety +3

      It's so amazing to eat breakfast and listen to you talking about things I'm passionate about.
      Also, what zodiac sign are you? Pisces?

    • @FaeK
      @FaeK Před 7 lety +7

      Omg I can't believe we went through the same thing!! I love not feeling like I'm the only one going through something. I have so much hope that I'll find amazing friends that don't care about gossip just like you did. And yes!! Alone time is amazing. It's not necessarily like I feel lonely because I don't like being by myself per say, I just feel like I don't have anyone to talk to. Thank you so much for replying

    • @user-rm3iy4ye2l
      @user-rm3iy4ye2l Před 7 lety +5

      I went through almost the same experience! I was bullied all throughout middle school and now in university, I still haven't made any friends. You will find amazing people who value you for who you are :) Never give up! Take this time to work on your passions and focus on school! The years I spent in solitude helped me become a better, independent, responsible and confident person! There are so many like-minded people you will find to be friends with!!

    • @ashleyvalkavich8903
      @ashleyvalkavich8903 Před 7 lety +7

      i wasn't bullied but I've drifted from previous friends, realizing that they are not the people i want to surround myself with. Lately i haven't had anyone to talk to and i was wondering maybe we could talk on instagram? I would be happy to listen to your story

  • @user-sf5bu2cm1l
    @user-sf5bu2cm1l Před 7 lety +41

    What I think is "cool" is when someone does whatever they want to do, be, and whatever. As long as they are themselves.

  • @Acuraly
    @Acuraly Před 7 lety +47

    Came for your looks stayed because your mind and soul is just as beautiful

  • @fatymah1138
    @fatymah1138 Před 7 lety +58

    ive been having a crisis within myself lately relating to physical beauty and just how important it is because ive been treated 100x better when i started working out harder. it makes me feel filthy because im attaching how i look to how i feel, which isn't bad on its own, but its gotten to the point where if i let myself go a little bit, i don't even wanna step out of the house..and thats some bs. :^(. this video's helped me confirm that im working out 4 MYSELF and looking and feeling good for MYSELF so i have more love to emanate to my friends and the world. sorry for the novel. ily!

    • @emmaleebaker9135
      @emmaleebaker9135 Před 7 lety +4

      Fatymah Osamu you got this girl!!! Don't push yourself too hard, everything happens for a reason 🌹 sending love to you!!!❤️

    • @fatymah1138
      @fatymah1138 Před 7 lety +3

      Emmalee Baker "everything happens for a reason" yess i believe this so hard. fluctuations, challenges, etc. believe in the struggle!! 💪⚘

  • @PenelopeLabr
    @PenelopeLabr Před 7 lety +63

    you're always making me feel so down to earth :)

  • @gnar1ee
    @gnar1ee Před 7 lety +3

    Hitomi! You are such a beautiful person! I almost cried a few times because your truth was so real and so relevant to me & probably so many other people. Thank you for being so authentically positive and because positivity isn't always a constant especially for those of us who struggle with mental health, thank you for being here in any state and sharing.

  • @smalls1713
    @smalls1713 Před 7 lety +46

    It's been two minutes who the fuck disliked

  • @friedpickels1
    @friedpickels1 Před 7 lety +25

    I've been struggling with social norms. wanting to have this perfect body and be the perfect girlfriend. I just don't know what to do with myself anymore I guess. I lose myself every once in a while and this is it I just don't know who I am

    • @Alltherestofus
      @Alltherestofus Před 7 lety +9

      Kaitlyn D'Aversa you're trying to find yourself in a life that doesn't belong to you. It doesn't welcome you. I don't know anyone who would voluntarily invite negativity into their home and offer them a hot meal and shelter with the words "make yourself at home" because it's not their home. What you're looking for isn't entitled to you, but you're welcome to have it if you'd like. Understand that if you lose yourself, you're getting closer and closer to a different life that's there waiting for you to claim and call yours. Your problem is you're panicking. You've created a mental picture of a life that keeps the doors locked in case there are people like you wondering.

    • @friedpickels1
      @friedpickels1 Před 7 lety +1

      so in an essence, I'm trying to be someone I know I'm not. But I had found myself a long time ago and I'm just wondering if this door is shutting me out, like maybe I'm really not this person.

    • @Alltherestofus
      @Alltherestofus Před 7 lety

      Kaitlyn D'Aversa maybe you're not. Lol dude I'm sorry I don't know if your comment was directed towards me, and if not then you can ignore my comment completely. I thinks are created and have a way of finding different people. In your case, you're thinking too hard.

  • @lemonsorlimes3678
    @lemonsorlimes3678 Před 7 lety +10

    🙏🏽 blessed with 23 minutes of Hitomi

  • @FatPandas0229
    @FatPandas0229 Před 7 lety +18

    you are so articulate and i lve listening to you n your thoughts!!
    n yeah i feel like societal expectations can be super toxic and overall we really need to focus on what we really love, regardless of others think!!

  • @vinkabencic8414
    @vinkabencic8414 Před 7 lety +22

    Does anyone else really just want to vibe with her? I feel like we could just be silent and our energies would do the talking 👌

  • @MuUwiKo16
    @MuUwiKo16 Před 7 lety +10

    You're always so on point!! I'm so glad I found your channel :) You are the light this society needs to awaken our true potential beyond materialism and followers!!

  • @saskiacarr2923
    @saskiacarr2923 Před 7 lety +7

    You have helped me to become a better person. Your kindness, love and approach to life has allowed me to open my mind further and helped me on my own path to enlightenment. Thank you so much for doing what you do.

  • @caitlingriffiths6831
    @caitlingriffiths6831 Před 7 lety +3

    The most beautiful thing when you 'meet' someone with such similar views to yourself. In my life, there are not too many people who have opened their mind to spirituality or really took the time to consider themselves, the earth and society but for me it is such an integral part of my being and hearing the words of someone with a similar outlook on life to me, is refreshing and beautiful.

  • @melopepo
    @melopepo Před 6 lety +3

    Thank you for this spiritual talk. Feels like I just went to church (in the best way possible). Hope you have a beautiful day.

  • @recamierseven
    @recamierseven Před 7 lety +7

    Wow. I just found your channel and I've been binge watching your videos nonstop. You remind so much of my best friend in the best ways possible. Every single one of the videos I've watched so far has brought me to tears (I'm writing this while crying). The world needs more people like you! I hope to someday become even just a fraction of the confident, kind, woke, amazing person that you are

  • @haileymassie8389
    @haileymassie8389 Před 7 lety +2

    I rarely ever write comments on videos, but I truly do feel that we are going through some of the same things in life. I have suffered through depression and anxiety for such a long time and now I actually am at a point in my life where I know my worth. I am filled with so much more happiness and because I went through such deep lows I can really enjoy and take in all the happiness and good around me. I really hope this new year treats you well because you deserve it.

  • @patriciaj.4850
    @patriciaj.4850 Před 7 lety +9

    My new years resolution was short and sweet: No voy a hacer nada que no quiera hacer. I will not do anything I don't want to do. I want to calibrate my inner compass, in a way. Following my dreams, my desires, my passions (as long as they harm nobody) will take me to a place of unprecedented self-confidence and love that I can spread to others.

  • @kimberlygj3875
    @kimberlygj3875 Před 7 lety +1

    I honestly love you sooo much. You are exactly the type of person I would love to surround myself by because the friends I had were just sooo opposite of my mindset. Thank you for being yourself hitomi! Your mind is wonderful.

  • @anaslehernik1645
    @anaslehernik1645 Před 7 lety +6

    Female body hair removal is sexism and consumerism at it's finest. I wish women thought about that more. Anyway I love your channel keep up the good work ❤

    • @fatimxh
      @fatimxh Před 7 lety +1

      Ana Slehernik OMG LEGIT MAN WHAT IVE BEEN THINKING I'm trying to love my rly hairy legs and arms heh heh so yhhhh self love

  • @SuperRockonYEAH
    @SuperRockonYEAH Před 7 lety +1

    ive been watching your videos since a few years ago , i loved rewatching your vids even when you took a hiatus for a long while. you're such an inspiration to my life. my teen years watching you made me the way i am. you're so honest and down to earth. ive learnt to love my body fully. pursue what makes me happy. i live in SG and here the arts they say dont make money. however, im going to an art college this year. thank you so much hitomi

  • @tonyajackson6749
    @tonyajackson6749 Před 7 lety +3

    You are so beautifull inside and out! You inspire me soo much. I will be 50 this year and have a daughter your age. your spirit is so positive and gentle. peace love and blessings to you and keep on doing you!

  • @sophiej1867
    @sophiej1867 Před 7 lety

    Your comment about people who've been depressed being able to experience such a deep happiness really got me emotional in a good way. I've been through the mood ups and extreme downs that you have, and I've been feeling rather dead for a couple of years, not really happy or sad. But I recently made a lot of changes in my life that I'm starting to live out, in the town I want to be in, doing what I was wishing to do for so long, and the happiness in me is awakening for the first time in so long. I really feel that it's growing into a light I almost forgot about, that is so warm and deep and beautiful. I feel that because I have experienced the depth of sadness that I have, I can experience such beautiful happiness too, and it's hitting me in the face right now because I forgot I could feel happiness at all. I literally forgot what it was. I vibe with your metaphor about it so hard. Thank you for making this.

  • @deadinsidebutstillhorny1340

    I was nodding along at what you were saying most of the video 😂
    you have such an awareness of everything, your thoughts are amazing and you are amazing! You truly inspire us and thank you very much for that 💗
    Love from europe.

  • @victoriagrijalva6295
    @victoriagrijalva6295 Před 7 lety +39

    i just searched through my history to try and find this girl because i remembered the cute flowers on her wall. i went through it like 50 times trying to find her videos oh my god and i click my subscriptions hoping i pressed the subscribe button last time i watched her videos and her video was the first one at the top of the recent videos. IM SO GLAD. i really wanted to know where she got those flowers on her wall 😭😭😭😭😭

    • @patriciaj.4850
      @patriciaj.4850 Před 7 lety +1

      I think they're from a fake bouquet from a thrift store

  • @lucyscott4034
    @lucyscott4034 Před 7 lety +2

    You're so tuned in, I love it! This is the channel I've been waiting for!

  • @MalinaCC
    @MalinaCC Před 7 lety +2

    Very insightful! Minimalism has helped me be more conscious about myself and societal norms because once I got rid of the clutter, I learned what really matters! Minimalism helps/ed me figure out that life is really not as difficult and chaotic as it seems. We clutter our minds and our homes with things and restrictions which are completely unnecessary most of the time. We fill our lives with materials, money, and media, which dont really bring happiness and that's why life seems so complicated. I really learned what it meant to live in the present, and how living in the past can cause depression, and living in the future creates anxiety (2 things I've struggled with). I've been fortunate to have a few amazing teachers and professors who have opened my mind in some way or another and hope to be one of those teachers in the future that pushes students to be conscious of their surroundings/selves. I'm so happy that you're interested in ethical fashion and minimalism! If you (or anyone else) wants to talk about minimalism, ethical fashion, sustainability, consumerism, depression, LIFE, let me know or reach out to me on instagram (@ voerti) !! I'm horrible with small talk, so just tell me whatever been going on in your life and I'll listen. lol honestly this vlog perfectly sums up my life and what I'm always thinking about (really freakishly exactly what I've been trying to articulate).

  • @dominique8210
    @dominique8210 Před 7 lety +1

    Hitomi you feel like my best friend, you are helping me so much to cope and self-love myself through ebb and flow

  • @rosiehancock6109
    @rosiehancock6109 Před 7 lety +1

    i've been subscribed to you for years but i could honestly listen to you talk endlessly, you have such passion and deep inner beauty...i think this community is probably one of the most positive and spiritually connected, all through watching your videos. i love you and thank you so much i'm determined to meet you one day hah

  • @clarissacaballero2479
    @clarissacaballero2479 Před 7 lety

    i love you so much! i think youtubers need to get real like this more often. it's so great how you're able to talk about actual things that we all go through. you're such a pure and genuine person despite all you've gone through and i truly appreciate you and your content!

  • @lucakolba422
    @lucakolba422 Před 7 lety

    Hitomi you're such a huge inspiration for me. everything you said about new york made me smile so big bc I feel the same way, I've always lived in nyc or in the area (and so has all the generations of my family since they immigrated), and I can't imagine living anywhere else. I have such a strong bond with that city and I think it's such a magical place, despite its reputation. Everything you have to say about mental health and happiness has made such a strong impact on me and if I'm feeling down I always know watching your videos will give me that motivation I need to pick myself back up and get my body and mind moving again. So I can't thank you enough for that, and we've had really similar experiences in life, and the same dreams for the future. I know you mentioned this in one of your videos since this one but you should do a meetup in new york! I would definitely come and it would be so amazing to meet you and just be surrounded by other people who share the kind of passion for life that you have inspired.

  • @madicynleckey7227
    @madicynleckey7227 Před 7 lety +1

    I needed this a lot! My moods have been super inconsistent, and I was feeling really horrible today, but your video was the thing that flipped my mood from sad to happy! I am very grateful, and I appreciate you :) x x

  • @morganduxbury8176
    @morganduxbury8176 Před 7 lety

    Hitomi, around 15.00 you start talking about life journeys and it gave me my epiphany moment. I have been struggling with that for so long with my current life situation and current mental and spiritual health situation. I have been telling myself these things but to hear another soul speak them just really overwhelmingly lifted a weight from my chest. I have been following you for a while and it is truly been amazing the energy you have helped me to realise within myself. Love ya girl stay you🌱✌❤

  • @evadeeden2446
    @evadeeden2446 Před 3 lety

    Thank you Hitomi, I hope u feel this love vibration of gratitude- you are the light in my lowest point in my life, now I see my resilience with strength and not fear of who I am

  • @ebonyjax2088
    @ebonyjax2088 Před 7 lety +1

    Hey Hitomi, Love this kind of chatty video which is super interesting and motivating! One thing I have learnt is that it is extremely important to surround yourself with the people you want to be like, because i really think you become and think from the influences around you ( and everything influences you even unconsciously) - whether that be the influence of a friend/family member, place etc.In that sense, change inspires growth and discovery. You are such an interesting and uplifting person hitomi and i really love that this is starting a conversation in the comments!
    Could you possibly do a video on how to start living a more positive life and how to reinforce positive thoughts? Xx

    • @ebonyjax2088
      @ebonyjax2088 Před 7 lety

      Yeah dude, it's so interesting to think that everyone is basically a product of their situation and experiences and when you listen to the way people talk and respond even with the most trivial of conversations it all stems from their experiences. Often when I was younger in high school I used to wonder how people could act a certain way and be so nasty to others, after a while you come to understand it comes from a place and is usually because of something that has happened to them in their lives. Thanks for your thoughts chicky XX

  • @dayanaraviera3840
    @dayanaraviera3840 Před 7 lety +1

    I agree with you about everything you said. I study numerology and this year represents a new beginning while last year represented an ending. I grew apart from my best friend last year as I discovered more of myself, I hope to meet people on the same path as me. Plus, New York is not as bad as people think. I lived here all my life, very rarely were people rude to me on the streets.

  • @floramanson1447
    @floramanson1447 Před 7 lety +26

    sooooo when can I move to new york and be your friend pls

  • @roxannegracee
    @roxannegracee Před 3 lety

    I literally watch your videos all throughout my days, you inspire me, i started writing in my journal a lot more because of you! Thank you hitomi love you so much.

  • @toribaur6029
    @toribaur6029 Před 7 lety +1

    I just started watching you a few days ago and I'm learning so much. Your words are honestly opening my eyes to learn to love myself fully and live more than before. You probably won't see this but I want you to know that you are really making a change in me and an inspiration. Thank you so much

  • @jackiea.4851
    @jackiea.4851 Před 7 lety +1

    you are so kindhearted you are an inspiring person that makes me happy never stop making these videos i love them

  • @znfrawlings95
    @znfrawlings95 Před 7 lety +1

    I looooove your attitude. It puts me in such a great mood!

  • @duannataylor1201
    @duannataylor1201 Před 7 lety

    I feel like our minds are connected, you literally just said everything I've been thinking about recently. I'm working towards a lifestyle that makes me happy and doesn't harm other people or living things, so I've started buying only handmade or secondhand clothing, cruelty free make-up, I'm three months vegetarian, and I'm trying to be a minimalist. Also I've been obsessed with the idea of living in a tree house. My family probably think I'm turning into a crazy hippy. Anyway what I'm trying to say is it is really nice to find someone who has the same mindset. (p.s you're my favourite youtuber)

  • @cherie7449
    @cherie7449 Před 7 lety +5

    How do you feel about plastic surgery? like what would you tell someone that's insecure about their thin lips/big nose/small boobs etc? If you're not what society thinks is attractive should one succumb to their insecurity or..?

    • @cherie7449
      @cherie7449 Před 7 lety

      I thought this kinda went with the changing yourself for society topic. Love you 💖

  • @avidreader2316
    @avidreader2316 Před 7 lety

    if every person in the world thought even a little bit like you, the world would be a better place. you are so smart, i usually get bored with chatty videos but the way that you talk is so organized and shows that you really care. thank you for this video and i'm so glad that I discovered your channel

  • @senjalintula5700
    @senjalintula5700 Před 7 lety

    I know this is an old video, but I feel like I always need to come back to this video. It's so important to me and I always need to hear the things you say on this video. I just love it so much. Thank you.

  • @raveneveeee
    @raveneveeee Před 7 lety

    so happy you posted this because of how much truth there is in this, Literally someone had to say what you said, literally subscribed to you because you just say what u think and how confident you are really inspires me to have the confidence that you have xx

  • @yazibam
    @yazibam Před 7 lety

    omg it's so weird because i think the same way as you well not with everything but mostly and it feels good to know someone thinks this way too. i'm always discouraged to talk about what i think because people just give me crap about so i usually don't talk about. what i think but what i'm meant to say by this comment is that i love that i found you on youtube because i love listening to what you have to say! you're doing a great job at spreading message!!!(:

  • @lusawyer3001
    @lusawyer3001 Před 3 lety

    Your words are a blessing. From someone who has struggled with pain, your analogy of the light seeping into the parts of you that are cracked really hit home to me. Your courage to be completely yourself is a honour to watch 🤍

  • @quiche_lorraine
    @quiche_lorraine Před 7 lety +1

    I really love your personality and way of thinking!! I'm hoping that you do make a video about your depression and how therapy is for you. I don't want to assume or "self diagnose" myself, but I feel as tho ive been suffering from depression and anxiety for a long time but never realized it. I always just thought that i was shy and cried for no reason. The other day I googled anxiety and then it went from there and I see that I have the great majority of symptoms. Ive been thinking about asking my doctor about it but I'm not sure. I havent even told my family about it because they're the type that doesnt care about the younger generations in our family, if that makes sense. So i would like to see a video about you talking about it maybe :) ❤

  • @tabeaflorence
    @tabeaflorence Před 7 lety +1

    You're really on the way I want to get on to. I want to kinda "separate" myself from materialism but at the same time I love fashion. And I'm also vegan and now looking into ethical fashion and all of that stuff. It's so cool to find people so similar to myself all over the world:)
    Lots of love from Switzerland ❤️

  • @katelynvasquez293
    @katelynvasquez293 Před 7 lety

    i got a little teary haha... but that's because you are so right on how once sadness gets overcome by happiness you never want look back and be in that darkness ever again because the light is so deep inside that there's so other thing to do but to shine

  • @DiREcTIOn3rr4
    @DiREcTIOn3rr4 Před 7 lety

    i fucking love u hitomi!! u have such a beautiful mind, honestly, and u make me feel like i can be whatever i want to be in a time where im going through a lot of confusion and sadness. keep doing what u do, lots of love xx

  • @joonayu1317
    @joonayu1317 Před 7 lety +1

    Words can't even describe. Hearing your thoughts and views warms me. Legit spiritual high. You're an amazing awake human :') x

  • @oddlyozel
    @oddlyozel Před 7 lety +2

    I'm so glad that my parents although a little sexist never pressured us with stereotypes and thank goodness for my hellion sister who made it so we could pursue any safe interest. I always played with legos, knex, teddy bears, really anything. Toys were just toys, I decided early on to follow whatever path made me happy. :) I love that you care enough about others happiness enough to make this video ^^

  • @remekster
    @remekster Před 3 lety

    you gotta do what you love man you can deny the gift that you were born with, love this!!

  • @julietamateu2041
    @julietamateu2041 Před 7 lety

    Wow, you're so right. I'm fascinated with your energy and the way you are, I think you're of those persons that can make a change on this world. Thank you for making me change my mind a little bit and basically don't give a fuck about how people think of me. Lots of love and positivity from Argentina ❤

  • @alvagr815
    @alvagr815 Před 7 lety

    i love how you talk and how you think and how natural and beautiful your videos are!!
    you are soo inspiring and you make me happy !!!

  • @nasraabdi1855
    @nasraabdi1855 Před 7 lety +2

    she's so humble and down to earth I love it

  • @samanthamyers9076
    @samanthamyers9076 Před 7 lety

    Until now I thought I was the only one who wanted to live in a cottage in the woods; I have ever since I went camping for the first time when I was 6! Thank you for putting such great energy into the world!

  • @alexortiz69
    @alexortiz69 Před 6 lety

    Your explanation of depressed and suicidal people with "cracks" and how they are able to feel so much pure happiness later because of it reminds me of kintsugi. Kintsugi is the art of fixing broken pottery with gold. people being the pots in this case, we are all perfect already in our own way but some end up getting broken tossed around by carelessness or simply damaged with time, but after this beautiful thing has been broken and some even forgotten about by people thinking that this once stunning thing is beyond salvation others however dare fix them resulting in something far more beautiful.

  • @oliviasweet7123
    @oliviasweet7123 Před 5 lety

    Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I discovered your channel a couple days ago and in that span of time I have felt my mind open up along with my heart. The deeper I dig into your channel the easier it is for me to think with a new perspective and appreciate life for what it is. You are such a breath of fresh air and truly inspiring. Keep doing you girl. Lots of love

  • @caseyholzman2039
    @caseyholzman2039 Před 7 lety

    as a girl going to college very soon and being introduced to a lot of difficult decision making, I needed this. Thank you :)

  • @judithangulovalenzuela5116

    Love your shirt,you have such a beautiful style and is so natural

  • @sperkisawesome
    @sperkisawesome Před 7 lety +1

    girl so agree with the thing about teachers. i'm studying to be a teacher because i really wanna make a positive change and make sure kids know about these things that you're saying! i love my lecturer always warns us that as soon as we feel like we don't want to go to work, we should quit because students deserve better

  • @adnarim8571
    @adnarim8571 Před 7 lety

    i love your life style and how you hink its so beautiful and it really makes me happy and its nice to see such a genuine person and ily!

  • @Evelyn-si5jj
    @Evelyn-si5jj Před 7 lety

    I just came across your chanel and only have watched two videos and all I got to say is I LOVE YOU already! Great mind n the future holds so much for you! Thank you for sharing so much!

  • @MeluzHann
    @MeluzHann Před 3 lety +1

    love these deep talks, thank you

  • @Annabelle4444
    @Annabelle4444 Před 7 lety +1

    I hate society so much because of how looks are everything, I've been struggling recently because when I look better I notice people approach me and look and talk to me more, and so when I'm having a bad day I find I can't leave the house because I'm too scared of judgement and so on, I'm so confused and conflicted because deep down I know looks don't really matter, I know that true beauty, the kind people fall in love with, is with your personality and soul but it's so hard when society doesn't have the same view point

  • @ClassifiedCloset
    @ClassifiedCloset Před 7 lety

    Yes Hitomi, PREACH!!! We actually talk about this all of the time in my sociology classes. It's just interesting to know that most of these actions that people do are done unconsciously because of the way that they were raised (and the society that they are in). It's hard to get out of the bounds of society just because the backlash from being "different" can be so harsh. But I definitely think that in the long run, people begin to realize this (that they wish they could have done what they loved). We just have to realize it earlier and earlier so that generations after us can change.

  • @asmrdemar6559
    @asmrdemar6559 Před 7 lety

    This is legit! I agree with you so much! We need to invest in our spiritual inner world, not so much into facade!

  • @sanjanapai1961
    @sanjanapai1961 Před 7 lety

    you inspired me to put up autumn leaves on my wall because of your flowers :) i love you and your channel!!!

  • @kaye923
    @kaye923 Před 7 lety +1

    What Myers-Briggs personality type is everyone here? This is yet another tear-inducing video, especially at the end when you talked about us all meeting and hugging! I feel the same way - our life literally inherently has no rules, and humans are precisely the ones who make all of the definitions and boundaries up. So, do anything you set your heart to and never stop growing!!

  • @worrystonee
    @worrystonee Před 7 lety

    I'm so glad I found your channel, you talk about things that are actually important, not just what people want to hear. you have a great soul :)

  • @arickam.-davis3719
    @arickam.-davis3719 Před 7 lety

    This was such an amazing video. You hit so many topics in twenty minutes and I related to all of them. I am grateful for your youtube channel Hitomi!

  • @seantayrodgers4297
    @seantayrodgers4297 Před 7 lety +4

    I wish you knew how much I love you. Jeez man. Thank you for existing.

  • @Vlt-r
    @Vlt-r Před 7 lety

    This is the video I needed at this really tough moment of my life. Thank you.

  • @cassidyroberts1056
    @cassidyroberts1056 Před 7 lety +3

    Such an inspirational little hippie you are, I love it

  • @ailishdaly22
    @ailishdaly22 Před 4 lety

    I truly enjoy listening to your videos on these sorts of topics, just on life, your experiences, and when your spreading your wisdom, especially when I’m cooking (baking some tofu Rn hehe). It makes me so happy and content, hope your day has been as good as you make mine when I watch your videos ❤️

  • @alicegoldberg8657
    @alicegoldberg8657 Před 7 lety

    you are the only person i know who could say that pepole watch you for your looks and it won't sound vain! plz talk about confidence. i find it hard to feel good about myself with all that social media. bless

  • @emmaleebaker9135
    @emmaleebaker9135 Před 7 lety

    I've been waiting to watch this until I could truly pay attention to every word and reward myself with your wisdom 💘 and I'm so glad I waited to witness this knowledge!! Thank you Hitomi, everything you say means so much.🌹❤️

  • @roddreww9593
    @roddreww9593 Před 7 lety

    Listening. It is 7:47pm on a quiet Monday and I am listening to you. Hitomi, thank you for your positive energy. 🙂

  • @elenaosteikaite3849
    @elenaosteikaite3849 Před 7 lety

    hitomi you are such an inspiration i can't put my thoughts in to words

  • @bubblesukii
    @bubblesukii Před 7 lety

    I'm so delighted to have found your channel! You're so wise and a genuinely loving person, i wish i could just give you a big hug! I'm feeling so inspired

  • @thunderstorm2771
    @thunderstorm2771 Před 7 lety

    this video, you and your beautiful mind and soul pulled me out of my depression today. thank you, I'm crying right now and that's more than okay.

  • @6337michelle
    @6337michelle Před 7 lety

    This is such a beautiful video. I somehow feel you were talking directly to me and I felt really connected and inspired. I'm very passionate about feminism so what you were saying, and especially towards the end of the video, really touched me. Thank you so much for sharing this Hitomi, I really really loved it.

  • @__moonwolf__
    @__moonwolf__ Před 6 lety

    this is exactly how I felt growing up, I always had a huge imagination as a kid and my mum was talking about taking me to the doctors because there 'was something wrong with me', or I was the black sheep in the family. Almost everyone in my life so far has been a negative energy. I met a boy and ran away from home when I was 16, and we did love each other, but now I know I was just trying to escape. He wasn't a terrible person, he just made my mind feel so shut down. I seemed to lose myself.
    I finally had the courage to break up with him after ten years, and while I'm saddened that I 'lost' such a huge amount of time, I'm glad of the experiences. I've recently gone through the shittiest 7 months of my entire existence, I never knew I could stoop so low and become the person I became.
    It was like I was outside of my body and I saw myself as a sad, lonely girl. I smoke every day to 'calm my anxiety', but I'm thinking of stopping soon. I'm to the point where I'm desperate to be high.
    I'm only now just realising who I am again, and it feels so scary but I'm so fucking ready. I've started painting more and doing the things that I love.
    every single point you made in the video I agree with wholeheartedly, I think we all need to stop for one second and look around ourselves. are we happy? no? take the steps (however small, and don't be hard on yourself if you falter) to create the person you want to be. no matter what anyone says, you've somehow been put on this earth as a human being and you have such a short time, create, love and heal!

  • @MVRIE_
    @MVRIE_ Před 7 lety

    I really needed to hear this. Thank you for the push I needed

  • @sparkrunner1237
    @sparkrunner1237 Před 7 lety +2

    For fuck's sake, I wish I'd found your channel a few months ago. I love you so much. Today I've been feeling very very low, my anxiety and my ability to cope has been minimal today. But watching this video has calmed me to the point a can see the light at the end of the tunnel again. Thank you. I wish I could hug you and take some of your beautiful soul with me wherever I go. ❤️

  • @valentineangela
    @valentineangela Před 7 lety

    Im In few minutes in the video, had to stop to comment on the "cool thing" ,I think you're aura is cool not just the way you look or the clothes you wear , I love watching your thrift hauls coz you look gorgeous everytime you try it on but more than that i just love listening to you talking 😍😍😍😍

  • @ZoePortia
    @ZoePortia Před 7 lety

    eeeeee!! 40,000!!

    • @ZoePortia
      @ZoePortia Před 7 lety

      now you're on 54,000!! girl you are killing it!

  • @jayb2667
    @jayb2667 Před 6 lety

    I love that you made this video! Sometimes I feel as if I am the only one who feels this way and you reminded me that I am not alone and to spread love and be who I am without restraint. Keep making your videos and spreading love and positivity. You have a beautiful soul. Sending positive energy your way 💜🌸

  • @hancake420
    @hancake420 Před 7 lety

    Nowadays I only buy ethical brands of clothing and I've never felt better about my style! I hope to also become vegetarian someday, but it's impossible in my household at the moment. Sadly, I can't become vegan because of many allergies etc, but I really care about animals and how much they are suffering everyday just because of our selfishness. My sister is also a vegan and she is my role-model and she always has been. You are also my role-model Hitomi! And just so you know, not all of your subscribers are adults. I'm 15 and you are a really good role-model for many people, no matter the age. I hope to become a better person mentally and spiritually. I love your videos ❤️

  • @TristenElizabeth
    @TristenElizabeth Před 7 lety +2

    These videos are the best ones, just a good heart to heart honest conversation, keep speaking your mind girl

  • @efemeroptero
    @efemeroptero Před 7 lety

    I love everything you said♡srry my English though I'm Argentinian. the only thing that stood out for me was the teachers subject, I think that there is a few like that but it's not a matter of the hate teaching, but more about how they ain't prepared for the students they are facing today. everything is based in talking pretty much♡ and that's why I love this type of vids ♡keep it up (Srry if it's hard to read, English is hard 😢)

  • @o.dey_
    @o.dey_ Před 7 lety

    This is so inspiring, I love this ❤ I get so excited everytime you post a video because I know that I'm about to learn something new about life or just your personality and i love that because you're just such an amazing and bright person and I truly feel connected to you :) you inspire me to be a kind person and to be good to others, to love myself, to do yoga, to meditate, to eat healthy and to just be happy and content and I love you for that! It's so weird actually because we don't no each other in real life and I've only discovered your channel like 3 weeks ago and you already mean a lot to me tbh because there aren't many people like you in this world.
    Keep it up girl 🌻 much love ×

  • @rocketc11
    @rocketc11 Před 7 lety

    Your youtube channel is exactly what I've been looking for haha. You're so conscious and so down to earth and you're great ma'am. (,: