Love Triangle Murder Suspect Captured in Costa Rica | Kaitlin Marie Armstrong Case Analysis

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Komentáře • 941

  • @maureeningleston1501
    @maureeningleston1501 Před rokem +364

    One woman is dead the other will probably spend a long time in prison, no man is worth that. 😢

    • @haydeecolon7868
      @haydeecolon7868 Před rokem +8

      Yep!

    • @Andreamom001
      @Andreamom001 Před rokem +48

      If a guy is cheating, he’s not worth keeping, let alone killing for.

    • @Andreamom001
      @Andreamom001 Před rokem +14

      I mean, if you both want to work on the relationship, you can get past cheating with time and effort. I know a couple who did it.

    • @FLdancer00
      @FLdancer00 Před rokem +14

      Right?! And he'll just keep living his life. I think there's only one or two states that actually punish those who cheat.

    • @jnagarya519
      @jnagarya519 Před rokem +16

      She didn't turn out to be a very nice person either.

  • @laurapalmer2126
    @laurapalmer2126 Před rokem +338

    It’s always appalling to see women (or men) building so much resentment for the other person rather than for their partner, for whom the vast majority of anger should be directed at. No I’m not saying kill your partner. But I am saying you should deal with them and their infidelity rather than the person they cheated with. THEY betrayed your trust. The other person doesn’t even matter. Dump them and move on!!!

    • @kosmosbjm
      @kosmosbjm Před rokem +38

      Exactly!! Why does he not carry the blame for lying to her while still carrying on some sort of clandestine relationship with Mo? He’s the one to blame, but he got away unscathed, unless you want to count the sponsors who pulled away from him. He’s 100% to blame for causing Kaitlin to feel jealous and manipulated.

    • @MsRuneGirl
      @MsRuneGirl Před rokem +23

      I think that’s a misconception, that the woman or man hates the person their partner cheated with and not the partner themselves. It’s a projection of their hatred of their partner onto the person they cheated with. I think it’s a mutual hate thing, a pride issue, using that person to punish the person you actually hate (the partner) and ‘getting even’. Like, ‘you broke me so I’ll break you too,’ sort of mentality. Plus, I can see why someone would ‘hate’ the other woman or man. You are not only deeply betrayed by your partner but betrayed by a complete stranger in the worst way. And people have hated strangers for less.

    • @Ms.Stephanie.C
      @Ms.Stephanie.C Před rokem +19

      I agree with you 100%!!! Not to mention, Mo Wilson was 9 years younger than Kaitlin! I also can’t understand how or why Kaitlyn would think murdering Mo would make her relationship with a cheater any better. It’s like these murderers don’t have the ability to think ahead. It’s just so sad for Mo & her family. 💔

    • @Ms.Stephanie.C
      @Ms.Stephanie.C Před rokem +22

      @@MsRuneGirl It’s never made any sense to me to hate the stranger, the one who made no promises or vows of commitment &/or monogamy in the first place. That’s just my opinion, respectfully.

    • @MsRuneGirl
      @MsRuneGirl Před rokem +22

      @@Ms.Stephanie.C Oh I agree, I’m not defending her, but I believe even as a stranger you have a personal responsibility to treat other people with at least basic decency and respect, even if you don’t know them well. I had a married man once come onto me (I never reciprocated his advances), but even though I didn’t personally know his wife I could still picture her and how hurt she would be. I ended up finding her contact information and telling her what happened because I didn’t feel like it was right she was being lied to.
      So I guess I’m a strong believer that everyone holds accountability for their actions. I could’ve easily said “I don’t know her, not like I’m the one married to her, might as well have some fun!” But what kind of person would that have made me? Saying I never made a vow to them so I hold no responsibility for acting cruelty to someone, stranger or not? So does that mean we as humans only hold responsibility to act kindly to people we know? Seems twisted.
      And as I said, I think it’s a misconception that people who are cheated on hate the other man or other woman ‘more’, I think betrayal is just a very difficult feeling to process and naturally as humans we try to find something we can blame or punish to alleviate our pain. And focusing on hating the other woman or man may provide someone with that relief, other than having to look at the partner they’ve stared a bed with for years and swallow they’ve been unfaithful. It’s probably a way of avoiding more grief.

  • @roxyndra
    @roxyndra Před rokem +71

    A cautionary tale. Just dump the cheater. It’s much easier.

    • @elle706
      @elle706 Před rokem +7

      More like Do Not murder innocent people.

    • @360.Tapestry
      @360.Tapestry Před rokem +3

      but it won't satisfy some people's need to lash out

    • @shanefsr6609
      @shanefsr6609 Před rokem

      ahhhh, that's what HE did, said something along the lines of that he couldnt make any commitment to a skank and cut her loose

    • @tomruth9487
      @tomruth9487 Před rokem +2

      Rory Triscuit, This certainly makes sense but there is something in us that often makes us want what we can't have. Often there is no logic in relationships and sex. When you get older, you look back on your life and see all the stupid stuff you did.

  • @jessicamarie8299
    @jessicamarie8299 Před rokem +201

    She threw her life away over a man what a shame.

    • @Andreamom001
      @Andreamom001 Před rokem +33

      Threw her life away and took someone else’s.

    • @Chris-tg3qy
      @Chris-tg3qy Před rokem +38

      She threw her life away and took the life of another woman over a man that will move on to other women while she most likely spends decades and possibly the rest of her life in jail.

    • @JohnnytNatural
      @JohnnytNatural Před rokem +5

      She really thought she could get away with it. Funny, she probably had everything handed to her growing up but always wanted better and better until suddenly she got older and not as desirable as she once was and turned into a monster; women can turn from flowers to vines in an instant

    • @Heywood.Jablome
      @Heywood.Jablome Před rokem +6

      Yeah... yucky men! 😂

    • @mildredpierce4506
      @mildredpierce4506 Před rokem

      Yes over a man who cheated on her and on every woman he’d been with.

  • @decafmocha211
    @decafmocha211 Před rokem +169

    A very good analysis of this case. I think every high school in this country should have some instruction on emotional intelligence in an attempt to avoid such horror stories. Thanks Dr. Grande

  • @juliegarceau5414
    @juliegarceau5414 Před rokem +220

    This is such a common relationship pattern these days! In my opinion, these people are not in love, but rather dependent.. or obssessed with someone. And they confuse that with "love". Love shouldn't hurt... It's a good principle to follow as far as I'm concerned! 😊. Thanks Dr Grande! 🙂

    • @larryrubin5150
      @larryrubin5150 Před rokem +14

      Best comment yet Julia

    • @jnagarya519
      @jnagarya519 Před rokem +5

      I don't think that pattern is any more prevalent in one generation than any other.

    • @Juke582
      @Juke582 Před rokem +15

      Yeah fatal attraction here by a nutjob! BF said he dated that girl only a week and reconciled with his old GF the racer! He is not a good guy to me. Plays the field.

    • @Juke582
      @Juke582 Před rokem +1

      @@jnagarya519 it’s way more in todays sensitive young people all damaged more than my generation! We didn’t obsess over men in my day!

    • @Juke582
      @Juke582 Před rokem +1

      Spot on!!!

  • @hippichicki
    @hippichicki Před rokem +69

    "I don't know if he knows how to ride a bicycle but he sure knows how to backpeddle" 🤣🤣🤣
    And yes I know this is no laughing matter but that was much needed comic relief. I just hope any and all involved are discovered and punished. This was so unnecessary 😢😭

  • @lacymouse501
    @lacymouse501 Před rokem +122

    A representative of the US Marshalls said yesterday that she used a passport of a person who "looks like her". Most people speculate that it is her sister's passport.

    • @ChereeCheree
      @ChereeCheree Před rokem +6

      Her sister

    • @gabrielamartiniuc6322
      @gabrielamartiniuc6322 Před rokem +3

      Exactly

    • @esteemedmortal5917
      @esteemedmortal5917 Před rokem +5

      In other news, Dr. Grande is on some FBI watchlist 🤣

    • @kenn1936
      @kenn1936 Před rokem +8

      I believe it was her sister's passport - that is why she flew to meet up with her sister, then her sister had a new driver's licence issued ( as if she had lost her original one). Adding two and two together, it looks like she assumed the identity of her sister. That would make it easy for the feds to track her - she either flew on her own name or her sisters!!

    • @haleyt3754
      @haleyt3754 Před rokem +3

      It’s been confirmed she used her picture

  • @herbwitch5681
    @herbwitch5681 Před rokem +85

    Why do these women always go after each other over men who just aren't worth it? If you're going to be mad at someone, go for the cheating guy!

    • @jonmason9360
      @jonmason9360 Před rokem

      Herb sultress is better name

    • @gabrielamartiniuc6322
      @gabrielamartiniuc6322 Před rokem +19

      Or not even him! Walk away!!! It’s waste of time !

    • @herbwitch5681
      @herbwitch5681 Před rokem +3

      @@gabrielamartiniuc6322 Absolutely!

    • @jonmason9360
      @jonmason9360 Před rokem +3

      @@gabrielamartiniuc6322
      Amen!
      Goodness such a waste of effort either way.... Wtheh!
      Peace

    • @rv10flyer84
      @rv10flyer84 Před rokem +7

      we need to ask betrayed husbands the same question!

  • @Raminakai
    @Raminakai Před rokem +53

    My take is that Kaitlyn was not just envious of Mo’s relationship with her bf.
    She was a competitive person, who saw Mo, who was at the top of her cycling “game” as threat to her sense of self.
    She wasn’t so much concerned about Colin, as she was “ beating Mo “ at something.
    I had this scenario with an former spouse where one of the ladies he cheated with seemed really caught up in making me envious rather than interested in my husband.
    When she told me that, “ he would have to choose between us”
    I told her, “ no he would not, because he no longer had me as an option. She could have him.
    I found it really strange at the time, she just wanted to take something from me, rather than really caring about him.
    This is the case with some women, especially that have issues with their mother.
    After all, your mother is the first women in your life. If she turns you into a “competitor,” and not a child she is bonding with, I think this scenario happens.
    Not saying this is the case here, I don’t know about their family dynamics, just saying that this type of relationship can lead to women constantly having to feel they are the more “ desirable” and the man actually is inconsequential.
    This may explain why they don’t get angry at the man and focus on the rival. Someone trying to take someone or something from them, is the more upsetting event.

    • @lionsdencoaching6457
      @lionsdencoaching6457 Před rokem +5

      Brilliant take on this case.

    • @thomasetoconnor
      @thomasetoconnor Před rokem +4

      Kaitlin’s mother has been understood to be an Alcoholic.

    • @kevinhornbuckle
      @kevinhornbuckle Před rokem +10

      Great insights. Men can be fooled by these sorts of women. Men should not be cheating in the first place. But they should know that a passion-driven woman can deceive by flattery as her true passion is to humiliate and displace another woman. There are women who pride themselves on being marriage wreckers.

    • @Bzzzzzzzz535
      @Bzzzzzzzz535 Před rokem +5

      I truly believe this may have been the case. Mo was use to winning and would not listen to Kaitlin and ignored her existence. I believe that Chris Watts mistress was driven by taking Chris from his wife more than being in love with him. It’s a psycho game of win and lose. I think you nailed it on the mother-daughter competitive relationship.

    • @ebbypetes
      @ebbypetes Před rokem +4

      So true. Makes perfect sense. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @Koozomec
    @Koozomec Před rokem +174

    Only flies fights over rotten food.
    Such a petty reason to kill someone.
    Thank you Dr for covering such recent events with a good summary of the RELEVANT details.
    And i really appreciate how you always avoid the most shoking and sensational parts of each stories.
    Have a good day.

    • @markbarret6836
      @markbarret6836 Před rokem +7

      I like shocking and sensational.

    • @The_Red_Pill__
      @The_Red_Pill__ Před rokem +8

      @koozomec, you think betrayal is of little importance, and a broken heart is trivial? There’s a reason for the term “crime of passion.” Obviously killing is wrong and the permanent solution to the temporary problem was a poor choice. However, if there are any reasons to kill some, betrayal in a love triangle would probably make the top five. 🤷‍♀️

    • @BeachSanity
      @BeachSanity Před rokem +18

      "Only flies fight over rotten food." And shit!!

    • @tinapatterson9234
      @tinapatterson9234 Před rokem +27

      When I found out that my significant other was seeing someone else, I thanked my lucky stars that I had found out before I did something stupid like getting married. I certainly wouldn't fight for a cheater, let the other gal have him.

    • @Koozomec
      @Koozomec Před rokem +11

      @@The_Red_Pill__ Yes, betrayal is overrated in my opinion.
      And a broken heart is more our own bruissed ego who can't get over a romantic wound.
      There is plenty of people who can help with our sentimental needs... that is stupid to focus on revenge instead on looking for a better relationship.

  • @kellyfinleybrown9313
    @kellyfinleybrown9313 Před rokem +86

    Dr. Grande, you always provide great comic relief to such a horrific situations Here in Austin, the prevailing opinion is she is as guilty as sin.

    • @donnawoodford6641
      @donnawoodford6641 Před rokem

      How is sin guilty?

    • @kellyfinleybrown9313
      @kellyfinleybrown9313 Před rokem +9

      @@donnawoodford6641 you can figure it out Donna.

    • @chloedoritoloco8537
      @chloedoritoloco8537 Před rokem +1

      Is she any relation to Lance? Or just coincidental last name?

    • @richarddrozd1201
      @richarddrozd1201 Před rokem +2

      @@donnawoodford6641 Sin = Guilty before God; Hell = Eternal punishment. Solution: Jesus Christ

    • @donnawoodford6641
      @donnawoodford6641 Před rokem

      @@richarddrozd1201 The PERSON may be guilty, but it is illogical for sin to be guilty.

  • @babyrenee6537
    @babyrenee6537 Před rokem +63

    These tragedies could usually be avoided were it not for the deceit. He did not pull the trigger nor does it lessen Kaitlin's culpability for her misplaced rage and coldblooded execution of Mo. But Colin's lack of integrity, commitment, and non-confrontational, conflict avoidant personality contributed to or set into motion this chain of events.

    • @kevinhornbuckle
      @kevinhornbuckle Před rokem +2

      Should Colin apologize to Mo’s family?

    • @ohdear2275
      @ohdear2275 Před rokem +7

      @@islandlife756 He can't be prosecuted for being a cheater and a liar. Maybe he'll be prosecuted for illegally buying the gun for Kaitlyn.

    • @iloveny22
      @iloveny22 Před rokem +1

      @@islandlife756 Yes agreed. Would not be surprised he's back to f*cking random chicks.

    • @elle706
      @elle706 Před rokem

      Avoidant personality? Where do you get that? 🙈

    • @peppep1569
      @peppep1569 Před rokem

      @@iloveny22 You-re ALL random

  • @Niki_P_
    @Niki_P_ Před rokem +41

    Love Triangles will always end in tragedy!

  • @zenawarrior7442
    @zenawarrior7442 Před rokem +42

    Love the back-peddling comment🚲. So true. Cheating always has a price, unfortunately many times a life lost. Excellent points again. Thanks Dr G😊💛💛

  • @svprior
    @svprior Před rokem +12

    As a Brit, I am so thankful to live in a gun free society.

  • @todddanforth8853
    @todddanforth8853 Před rokem +10

    So sad to end and ruin lives like this. If Colin had been clear with Katelyn and truly cut off their relationship or fully committed to it, then this murder may very well have been avoided. His dishonest attempts to have both girls at the same time, make him somewhat culpable in this terrible murder, IMHO.

  • @claudinejames7731
    @claudinejames7731 Před rokem +30

    That's a load of jealousy and possessiveness. Murder solves no problems though. No man is worth killing for. IMO

    • @nmartin5551
      @nmartin5551 Před rokem +5

      She (the killer) really should have just packed her bags and looked for better. “Don’t want nobody that don’t want me.” As the song goes. Many worse things than being single, including the women’s penitentiary.

    • @jnagarya519
      @jnagarya519 Před rokem

      @@nmartin5551 "How Can I Miss You When You Won't Go Away?".

    • @nmartin5551
      @nmartin5551 Před rokem +2

      @@jnagarya519 - True that people often don't have the sense to get the heck away from each other

  • @annabanna123
    @annabanna123 Před rokem +33

    No one else can ever make you happy. I think that’s really what it is at the root of desperation like this that leads to murder. There’s nothing you can do sometimes, and you just have to let people go or be alone if aspects of the relationship are unbearable-like someone cheating on you. Sometimes things have to get worse before they get better. Maybe you’ll feel worse for a while, but in the end it will pay off

  • @nettiea9384
    @nettiea9384 Před rokem +43

    A sad loss of a Bright light. Prayers for all who knew Mo and her family. Colin is messy and Armstrong is really crazy and dangerous. It played out like a lifetime movie. Shock and sadness for mo gone too soon.

    • @maryr0410
      @maryr0410 Před rokem +4

      I hope she gets life without parole. So pathetic to kill someone because he wants to be with someone else. Emotions are a dangerous thing to play with you never know how far someone will go .

    • @shanefsr6609
      @shanefsr6609 Před rokem

      "bright light"?, meh, more like she was a pro at....wait for it........riding bicycles-get it-riding bicycles/riding boners, you broads act like he committed adultery, if that's the case ol' (dead)Mo aint nothing but a homewrecker spreading her legs NOT in "bright lights" but dark seedy bedrooms behind the backs of innocent women

  • @mariejae
    @mariejae Před rokem +72

    Ladies or people... stay away from men like this. If a partner lies to you and is not faithful, just leave. Do not ruin your own life because of your terrible partner's actions

    • @jimskeuh
      @jimskeuh Před rokem

      so why didnt she kill him then? she kiilled an innocent girl.

    • @jonadam4233
      @jonadam4233 Před rokem +4

      You girls never stay away from men like this, even when you suspect the dude you stay, what the hell are you talking about. I lived in Austin for 10 years, these dudes that play the field universally get the most play, and the girls all remain blissfully ignorant.

    • @isitoveryet9525
      @isitoveryet9525 Před rokem +5

      It’s actually insane how many people are trying to make her the victim & him the perpetrator. Men cheat, women cheat….it is what it is. It’s not a green light for murder! You just made a massive assumption about “negging” in order to push this absurd narrative that he’s a monster, & what she did is somehow appropriate. Anger & jealousy are emotions we all have to deal with….Kaitlin is a grown adult, who decided to kill a woman, bc she was cheated on. The only monster here is her.

    • @Guyomar
      @Guyomar Před rokem +4

      @@jimskeuh The "innocent girl" willingly participated in this relationship with someone she knew was in a relationship. Not that that means she deserved to be killed, but let's not pretend she was any less to blame than the boyfriend.

    • @jonadam4233
      @jonadam4233 Před rokem

      @@isitoveryet9525 sounds like you cheat on people...

  • @chelgarcia8561
    @chelgarcia8561 Před rokem +25

    Dr grande I always appreciate your analysis and your total presentation. This was sad because these two women had everything going for them and both were deceived by a player!

  • @jonnawyatt
    @jonnawyatt Před rokem +5

    "Don't ride with me as you hold me back"
    That's a very common thing in the cycling world.

  • @rejaneoliveira5019
    @rejaneoliveira5019 Před rokem +38

    Thank you for everything that you do Dr. Grande, you are very much appreciated!❤️

  • @zimladyj84
    @zimladyj84 Před rokem +40

    Great analysis and really appreciate the dating advice at the end. So many tragedies could be avoided if people walked away from dishonest partners.

  • @bigdopamine9343
    @bigdopamine9343 Před rokem +20

    She travelled to New York to visit her sister and take her passport. She used her sisters passport to travel to Costa Rica.

  • @elizabethhamm5320
    @elizabethhamm5320 Před rokem +20

    So tragic. One young woman is dead and another will likely spend decades in prison (where I’m sure that Colin will not visit her). Great analysis as usual. These videos are not only entertaining, they are PSAs. Don’t partake in love triangles people. Don’t start them and walk away if your partner does

    • @GoGreen1977
      @GoGreen1977 Před rokem +3

      Another hint: Stay away from guns!

    • @ohdear2275
      @ohdear2275 Před rokem

      @@islandlife756 I wonder what her prior felony was for?

  • @jonadam4233
    @jonadam4233 Před rokem +6

    It's somewhat ironic, that although homeboy's lying/cheating caused all of this, he will never do a day in jail.

    • @BubbleOfJelly
      @BubbleOfJelly Před rokem

      I’m pretty sure he’s doing jail time in his mind.

    • @lisagriffith340
      @lisagriffith340 Před 3 měsíci

      He may or may not be guilty of cheating. He did not have anything to do with the murder. Katelyn is 100% responsible for her own actions.

  • @kosmosbjm
    @kosmosbjm Před rokem +18

    He sure did try to back pedal-it is fairly obvious that Colin acted in ways to cause Kaitlin to feel humiliated and scorned. Colin was not honest with Kaitlin about his feelings for Moriah and contributed to this tragic ending. However, Kaitlin did commit murder. If she had just ended her relationship with Colin, all of this could have been avoided. Now Colin unfortunately goes free, Moriah is dead, and Kaitlin will spend her days in prison.

    • @troysparks3772
      @troysparks3772 Před rokem

      @@enjoyslearningandtravel7957 exactly. Colin wouldn't be free if she hadn't fixed the problem. It's so unfortunate to see a Wyman do all the work, just for a cheater to enjoy it. I hate when that happens. 😒

  • @helpyourcattodrive
    @helpyourcattodrive Před rokem +48

    Thanks for an interesting story, Grande. What a nice overview and analysis of such a horrific situation you’ve given us. I appreciate it.

  • @tronrobojim6526
    @tronrobojim6526 Před rokem +4

    I think my favorite part of your videos is not the analysis so much, but more about your well thought out words, insights, and logic. We as a society could certainly use more of all 3. Thank you for putting out helpful, positive, and productive content!

  • @nishottara777
    @nishottara777 Před rokem +34

    Lightening speed with the analysis as usual Sir-hats off to you👍

  • @kellishostall2583
    @kellishostall2583 Před rokem +31

    The gun that was found in Kaitlin's house has been confirmed to be the murder weapon. I live in Austin and will be going to the trial.

    • @godzillamanstreb524
      @godzillamanstreb524 Před rokem +1

      Hope you can get in!

    • @ohdear2275
      @ohdear2275 Před rokem

      Did you know any of the people involved?

    • @kellishostall2583
      @kellishostall2583 Před rokem +1

      @@ohdear2275 no, it happened about a block from my son's school but I don't know any of them. I go to different trials that go on here. The process is kinda fascinating to me...and usually unbearably sad

    • @kellishostall2583
      @kellishostall2583 Před rokem +1

      @@godzillamanstreb524 yeah, it will probably be full...her family and the biking community will probably go...there is a huge biking community here, tho not necessarily the kind she completed in...

  • @hycinth5371
    @hycinth5371 Před rokem +7

    Super sad for this ladies. Sad for their families. I hope this man learns from this experience and would not hurts (causes pain to) other young women in the future. Both of these ladies have so much to live for.

  • @ggpocircuit
    @ggpocircuit Před rokem +8

    Your one-liner closing statements are gems, Dr. Grande!

  • @kristentrep5038
    @kristentrep5038 Před rokem +23

    Sad story, but the dr has impeccable humor as usual. Even tho I know he can be funny at odd times, I’m still taken aback every time

  • @sandrafrazier7967
    @sandrafrazier7967 Před rokem +6

    Obsession can be a very dangerous emotion.

  • @JeaNini
    @JeaNini Před rokem +43

    It would be interesting to hear you offer analyses on R. Kelly and/or Ghislaine Maxwell. Thanks for these videos Doc! Your deadpan humor is an added bonus!

    • @JeaNini
      @JeaNini Před rokem +5

      @@islandlife756 Thanks, found it!

    • @LolaJay_
      @LolaJay_ Před rokem +3

      I think it would be interesting to compare the sentences of these two individuals and what variables might have impacted the significant differences.

  • @jackiecarvill6270
    @jackiecarvill6270 Před rokem +20

    Thank you for your really cool videos. I love your dry humour and calm voice. I never miss a video and I follow you on Patreon 🌵❤️

  • @whatdoyoulivefor735
    @whatdoyoulivefor735 Před rokem +7

    Yes. HONESTY is very important, especially in romantic relationships. Very good advice at the end.

  • @DenaDeniseRush
    @DenaDeniseRush Před rokem +21

    Morbid jealousy is a CANCER. 😈 It destroys the jealous person and all too often, destroys the lives of innocent victims too. Both figuratively and sometimes literally. As in this case. 😤💔

    • @KJ-kc7zf
      @KJ-kc7zf Před rokem +3

      the others were not free of sin either....

  • @thydakhan5622
    @thydakhan5622 Před rokem +3

    “I don’t know if Collin can ride a bicycle but he sure is good at back peddling” i said oop 🤭 out loud

  • @helpyourcattodrive
    @helpyourcattodrive Před rokem +21

    Jealousy is powerful. I live in Los Angeles and had to pretty much leave the city bc of it. Jared Bauer says LA is the land of desperation and narcissism, and I agree. So many insecure people here. But on to Grande’s story. Let’s do this.

    • @FLdancer00
      @FLdancer00 Před rokem +9

      That all depends on your personal circle. I live in LA and I'm not surrounded by jealousy & narcissism.

  • @VickiBowers
    @VickiBowers Před rokem +9

    An old mentor of mine would likely have said, “If those folks had been where they were supposed to be, doing what they were supposed to be doing, they wouldn’t be in this pickle.”

    • @liul
      @liul Před rokem +1

      That philosophy wouldn't allow exploration, discovery, spontaneity and life would be boring in general. I'd prefer just "don't lie, respect everybody and think of the consequences of your actions".

    • @disappear_here82
      @disappear_here82 Před rokem +1

      I like it👍

  • @helpyourcattodrive
    @helpyourcattodrive Před rokem +11

    Starting the day w Grande. Sounds like a fascinating story. Thanks, Grande. Oh, I read a little bit about this yesterday …

  • @julieyoung3315
    @julieyoung3315 Před rokem +67

    Wow, So she could obtain a fake passport, but with the relationship and familiarity of younger people with technology; you'd think she would know that she could Not get away with a cold blooded murder. ie: cameras, tracker watches, etc. I'm also Surprised that the Police could not coerce a confession from her if they had tried. Well...maybe this whole thing could have been avoided if only they had that "Bicycle built for Three." 👌

    • @kjnvknjdlnjkd3956
      @kjnvknjdlnjkd3956 Před rokem +12

      It was her sisters passport. She lives in NY

    • @rhondasisco-cleveland2665
      @rhondasisco-cleveland2665 Před rokem +4

      It was her sisters passport, according to reports.

    • @ohdear2275
      @ohdear2275 Před rokem +2

      @@islandlife756 Colin has stated he bought the gun for Kaitlyn. This is illegal in my state. I imagine it's illegal in Texas, too. You must not buy a gun for someone else. He's been dropped by his sponsors. He can't be prosecuted for being a cheater and a liar. Maybe he'll be prosecuted for the illegal gun purchase.

    • @dreamcore
      @dreamcore Před rokem +1

      @@ohdear2275 You can buy a gun for another, as a gift.
      Where you can run into trouble is if you take money to buy it for another who may not buy for themselves, or perjure yourself on a transaction record.

    • @Granztolch
      @Granztolch Před rokem

      Nice

  • @jdanisse
    @jdanisse Před rokem +20

    Humans can be wild. Glad they caught her.

  • @Vivalala
    @Vivalala Před rokem +10

    Crime of passion. Sad. Colin''s lies lead one to deadly action. He will have to live with how his selfish, deceptive lies and the affects it had on others. Prayers for all 3 families.

  • @adude9882
    @adude9882 Před rokem +9

    Ah Yes, another tragic case of what Dr Grande has called the deadly combination of romance and geometry. The love triangle.

  • @emilyhollis4231
    @emilyhollis4231 Před rokem +16

    Second great thing to happen today! First was being off for the first of FIVE days after months with no off days...THEN, an early Dr Grande posting! What a great day!!
    ETA Dr Grande, I hope you're a girl-dad. That last bit about women (or men I guess) in this position and all of the REAL options they have rather than chasing someone who doesn't want them...this should be taught to all children.

  • @thelocalmaladroit8873
    @thelocalmaladroit8873 Před rokem +6

    I just saw this in the news yesterday. Can’t wait to watch your video on it!
    Hope you have a wonderful holiday weekend.
    Thanks Doc!

  • @lostsoul1278
    @lostsoul1278 Před rokem +15

    Happy holidays Dr G! Enjoy the long weekend....thanks for the awesome content!

  • @mildredpierce4506
    @mildredpierce4506 Před rokem +9

    Unfortunately from Mariah, she chose to stay in an on again off again relationship with someone who really didn’t care about her. Colin was just a man who didn’t care about who he hurt as long as he got what he wanted.

  • @kmartgoth8313
    @kmartgoth8313 Před rokem +6

    Sometimes I wonder if there’s ever been someone who was subscribed to Dr. Grande but ended up being the future subject of a video

    • @christina3521
      @christina3521 Před rokem +2

      The way he is making a video a day, not checking all available details on a subject anymore, this may well just happen!!

  • @clo4816
    @clo4816 Před rokem +6

    I look forward every day to your videos . Great work 😊👋🏻

  • @angelapowell2366
    @angelapowell2366 Před rokem +3

    As always your analysis is brilliant 👏

  • @lauren9667
    @lauren9667 Před rokem +16

    Why is the person who actually broke their trust not ”other” woman or man the target of the rage? I know there are a plethora of reasons, but it’s just so illogical. 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @martyal
      @martyal Před rokem +3

      You’re right. Go after the one who promised to be faithful.

    • @Chris-tg3qy
      @Chris-tg3qy Před rokem +2

      Sometimes they are the target. They are usually the target when the relationship is over and there is no hope of a reconciliation. Dorothy Stratton is an example of that. In this case, both parties wanted to maintain the relationship and I suspect she thought if she killed her rival there would be no threat to the relationship anymore. Killing him would bring an end to the relationship and she didn’t want to lose him, but she wanted the threat gone. She was too irrational to think through the fact that she would get caught which will ultimately end the relationship anyway.

    • @360.Tapestry
      @360.Tapestry Před rokem +2

      because she obviously still wants him

  • @icturner23
    @icturner23 Před rokem +8

    LOL at the idea of having a *romantic* relationship in a one- or two-week window. I'm guessing that their 'romance' was relatively horozontal.

  • @bethanyjoy9344
    @bethanyjoy9344 Před rokem +2

    Thanks for this video, Dr. Grande 👌

  • @pierre6625
    @pierre6625 Před rokem +5

    Hello Dr. Grande, I think that you are very precise in your thoughts about this case. It is always sad to see love affairs, nearly all turn out with a crime of some sort. You are so good at explaining the cases you bring to us. thank you for your hard work. Best Regards. ❤👍

  • @jnagarya519
    @jnagarya519 Před rokem +34

    The latest is that the passport was legal, but Armstrong's use of it was fraudulent. The passport photo looked much like Kaitlin. And she traveled under the name on the passport, "Christine". It is reasonable to assume that it was her sister's passport, as she lives in the New York area.
    Also the police say the shell casing marks match Kaitlin's gun.
    And when she was confronted by law enforcement in Costa Rica she responded when called "Kaitlin".

    • @Dwightstjohn-fo8ki
      @Dwightstjohn-fo8ki Před rokem +3

      Shades of the arrest scene in the Great Escape: "Good Luck" (Gestapo).......oH, Thank You....OOPS.

  • @craggles7538
    @craggles7538 Před rokem +4

    Love your videos dr grande great to watch keep it up 👍🏻

  • @joan8178
    @joan8178 Před rokem +5

    Thank you again for an informative summation--and for your spots of humor! Too little of that these days. Thanks to you, often I can forego the news story drama & wait for your summation.

  • @Katienthings
    @Katienthings Před rokem +5

    Have a great weekend Dr. Grande 💚

  • @googlefan8990
    @googlefan8990 Před rokem +4

    Thank you very much for your videos - it helps following recent events.

  • @The-Portland-Daily-Blink

    Another great analysis. I think you're spot on, too. Love triangle murders are so awful, they destroy so many lives. You'd think people could develop some insight into these things from learning from others' mistakes, but so often they just don't.

  • @kayzbluegenes
    @kayzbluegenes Před rokem +2

    The best speculator of any/every situation!

  • @ninamc6116
    @ninamc6116 Před rokem +7

    These triangles never end well. When will these men learn not to toy with peoples’ feelings? I could give you a list of these situations, most recently Mark Girardot, whose wife killed his younger woman cheating partner in 2018 & then shot herself. Sherry Rasmussen was killed over a situation like this. Even Jodi Arias snapped because she was being played

  • @BigZebraCom
    @BigZebraCom Před rokem +21

    Just a reminder I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating what could be happening when a yoga teacher murders someone and then goes on the lam like this.

    • @Moodboard39
      @Moodboard39 Před rokem +2

      It always generate a interesting murder case lol

  • @scrubjay93
    @scrubjay93 Před rokem +9

    Jealousy is a strong and complex emotion ("encompasses feelings ranging from suspicion to rage to fear to humiliation"). I had an experience with jealousy many years back and it's hard to convey how overwhelming and powerful and painful it is. It takes over your brain--talk about intrusive thoughts! Also, a person isn't just dishonest to keep both lovers--they may just be afraid to broach the difficult subject with their lover because they know how much it will hurt them. Maybe it is different between men and women. Breaking up with an abusive man is one of the most common contexts in which women are killed. I can see a man wanting to keep both lovers but a woman becoming too emotionally attached with a new person. Being "in love" causes a person to do irrational things just like an addiction to drugs - an evolutionary adaptation to keep a pair together for the time it takes a child to be born and become mobile, about 2-3 years. Of course, this is no excuse for murder, but if Kaitlin had other issues of self-esteem, envy of the other's abilities, trouble controlling emotions, she probably felt insane. I feel sorry for all involved. The boyfriend will forever carry a feeling of guilt that he caused one lover's death and the other to lose her life to imprisonment or worse. This is just a horrible story. In my first months of college, a woman was shot in the cafeteria by a man she had broken up with. He had mental health problems likely stemming from a head injury he had suffered, among other tendencies. He stalked her for some weeks before just walking into the cafeteria one morning, going to her table and shooting her point blank. He then went outside and sat down nearby and gave himself up to arrest. I had just arrived to class and sat down and a friend/classmate sat down and said "I just saw someone get killed in the cafeteria." He was in shock. We advised him to go back in case he might be needed as a witness. Love ("in love") and jealousy are truly like being temporarily insane by way of brain chemistry.

    • @limitlesky
      @limitlesky Před rokem +2

      That sounds like a justification for a cheater. That they are dishonest because they don't want to hurt the person they are cheating on. If they cared that much, they wouldn't have been cheating in the first place. Have you ever cheated...had two "lovers"?
      There's no love for two people here. The boyfriend doesn't love the woman he was cheating on. He didn't care about her anguish.

  • @julieyoung3315
    @julieyoung3315 Před rokem +2

    Good Day, Dr. Grande. Sure have missed you. Excited to jump right in. 👌

  • @georgehasleftthebuilding6621

    Right on! I just saw her on the news at the bodega. Thanks for this update Dr Grande. ✌

  • @miriamorwin7603
    @miriamorwin7603 Před rokem +10

    Dear Dr G. A superb analysis and finding a new relationship is like riding a bike, depending on how many major bones have been smashed and if real recovery is ever likely from either. Kind regards Marlin.

  • @MySqueakyfoot
    @MySqueakyfoot Před rokem +6

    All the events in this case will lead back to Colin Strickland. The motive was money. The reason was in order for Colin to keep making money off his sponsors he had to be able to keep up with the competition and that was Moriah's demise. Maybe Kaitlin killed her, but Colin planned and ordered the execution. He supplies the gun, arranged the time and place. Everything was calculated and predetermined right up to texting Kaitlin to let her know when he dropped " the flowers" off. Police haven't made the evidence available to the public, so no one knows for sure that Kaitlin was the person or only person in the Jeep that was caught on surveillance, and we haven't heard from the "surprise" witness yet either.

  • @nickchannel5364
    @nickchannel5364 Před rokem +1

    Great insights Dr. Grande.

  • @jennikaesquivel-mendez1002

    Dr. Grande’s final thoughts posit high utility towards many individuals who feel that their world would come to an end when their relationships fail- something to reflect upon… Amazing closing remarks from Dr. G 👏🏻

  • @rullmourn1142
    @rullmourn1142 Před rokem +10

    Kaitlin Armstrong - who was nabbed Wednesday at a hostel in Santa Teresa Beach - left behind two passports and a $6,350 receipt for cosmetic surgery, which a witness told Inside Edition was under “another name.”
    The witness also said it looked like something happened to her face.
    “[She had] a bandage on her nose and she had blood in her nostrils,” Zachary Paulsen told the outlet.
    US federal officials said that Armstrong had altered her appearance when they found her and that she had a bandage on her nose and bruises under her eyes.
    She had also cut short her hair and dyed it a darker shade of brown.

    • @lizajane2971
      @lizajane2971 Před rokem

      It's like she thought she was in a movie 😆

  • @goodcatfilms4276
    @goodcatfilms4276 Před rokem +4

    Being early to a cup of grande is one the cleanest best pleasures !

  • @lyndahadley2352
    @lyndahadley2352 Před rokem

    Thank you for another good analysis. Your videos are extremely interesting from start to finish.

  • @kylesargert3336
    @kylesargert3336 Před rokem

    Love your videos Dr. Grande.

  • @NonameMarianne
    @NonameMarianne Před 5 měsíci +3

    Dr Grande would you consider doing an updated video on this case? We’ve been watching her attempted escape and her trial. Thank you!

  • @beanfeathers8645
    @beanfeathers8645 Před rokem +3

    Yea! Wa awaiting on Dr. Grande take on this. This was 30 mins from us. So it hits home

  • @sparkleplenty59
    @sparkleplenty59 Před rokem +1

    Once again m’friend, you've created an awesome video. Thx and much love❤️☀️.

  • @MichelePearl
    @MichelePearl Před rokem

    I have been waiting for this.

  • @stevenjambrozy2057
    @stevenjambrozy2057 Před rokem +9

    Seems as if Collin is more of a player than a racer...or did he combine those two terms in his own definition?...

    • @martyal
      @martyal Před rokem +1

      He uses those terms synonymously.

  • @rv10flyer84
    @rv10flyer84 Před rokem +7

    Bingo..."It is a dangerous game"! I hope people learn from other's dishonesty too.

  • @Bingybingg
    @Bingybingg Před rokem +2

    «I dont know if colin is good at riding a bicycle, but he sure knows how to backpedal.» SAVAGE Dr. Grande. Savage 😅

  • @traceyszostek6264
    @traceyszostek6264 Před rokem

    Another great video! Thanks so much! ❤️

  • @rv10flyer84
    @rv10flyer84 Před rokem +24

    Don't cheat! Don't cover for a cheater. Call them out publicly, in church, at work or at the gym. If you want to be a narcissistic, serial cheater, there will be harsh consequences for your dopamine/oxytocin addiction.

    • @GoGreen1977
      @GoGreen1977 Před rokem +3

      I don't care what the "cheater" did. He didn't kill anyone. But he did buy two guns and in Texas, that's as easy as buying two gallons of milk. But of course, those guns were just meant for "protection" by "law-abiding citizens."

  • @juliekswanson
    @juliekswanson Před rokem +10

    She should have just dumped the user and moved on with her life.

  • @julesb1395
    @julesb1395 Před rokem

    Thank you for posting this. I appreciate your frankness. I find it heartbreaking that situations like this occur too frequently when people become obsessed with their partner.

  • @bethfrompa
    @bethfrompa Před rokem +1

    “…but he sure knows how to backpedal” LOL *LIKE BUTTON PRESSED* 🚲

  • @llkellenba
    @llkellenba Před rokem +7

    Well finding a new relationship is not really as easy as riding a bike, but definitely a lot less hazardous ⚠️ than remaining in a toxic relationship…

  • @curliefro
    @curliefro Před rokem +5

    Poor Moriah died in vain as Collin wasn't honest or honerable. As someone else mentioned women always get pitted against each other 😔

  • @cookieprof
    @cookieprof Před rokem

    I love how Dr. Grande weaves his analysis into a neat little package and ties it up nicely with his professional opinion.

  • @yawn1887
    @yawn1887 Před rokem

    Thanks for the video.

  • @cottontails9003
    @cottontails9003 Před rokem +4

    What a waste of life and talent. I'm so pleased they got the person who did this. Such a sad love triangle. Thank you Dr Grande. Brilliant analysis and sad outcome.

  • @lindaweedmark6025
    @lindaweedmark6025 Před rokem +4

    Love that - "After all, finding a new relationship is just like riding a bike"

    • @lisabradford8180
      @lisabradford8180 Před rokem +1

      Well it is for some people but I get what you're saying.

    • @kevinhornbuckle
      @kevinhornbuckle Před rokem

      Finding a new relationship is not at all like riding a bike.

  • @Mainecoon_Izzy
    @Mainecoon_Izzy Před rokem +1

    I loved your advice at the
    end Dr. Grande💯👍♥️
    No one should ever tolerate a liar💯

  • @Nickelbippy
    @Nickelbippy Před rokem +2

    That title is worth the price of admission alone!