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Your Boundaries Explained - Teal Swan
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Mind is coffee I cream two
Let’s wrestle and talk later
That is all o.k.......but I can see new global attack and my be the last.....t.y......grrr
What happins when someone u love oversteps and disconverns your bounderies . Forgive ,cut them off and move on
I love this because it means boundaries are not rigid rules or "fences" trying to control people, they are just personal preferences. I PREFER to be touched with love when I am in a relationship, going against my preference by letting a man touch me without love is me violating my boundary. It's so freeing.
This is huge rn. Thanks ☺️
@@quartani it was at the time huh 😊
@@livealohahi2614 it was a start of a new life for me.
It’s been incredibly transformative for this past month.
What a change of life.
Totally worth the 17 years of rebuilding and finding my way back to newly created way of life.
Flipping finally.
💯💪
@@quartani sounds great to me!
Yes, thanks for breaking it down like that
It is so true that personal preferences are also boundaries. You can see it when you talk with someone who insists on telling you that your passions/interests are not valid, and you just say that it's your preference but it doesn't have to be theirs, they tend to get mad because it was them stepping on your boundary to dominate you and it failed
I am glad I saw this.
My mom didn’t let me be separate from her. Even when I went to a doctors appointment at 20 she insisted on being inside the apppintment with us and would run the show as if I were 5.
This is not good.
I feel a deep connection to you. I feel like we underwent a similar process, different path. but same gained wisdom.
58 seconds of Teal is always better then watching tv for a year. Thanks Teal ❤️ Hi from the Netherlands
Well... I require a lot of attention and typically haven't gotten the attention I seek. I'm often told it's wrong to want attention. What if that's a real need? Is that not just a boundary - coming from a history of feeling rejected, ignored, overlooked, or having my flaws highlighted over strengths, or feeling I was never "good enough"... yes, feeling wanted and heard and seen is a boundary. It's my boundary, and I don't think anyone has any right to tell me if that boundary is "right" or "wrong".
I say it's fine as long as you're okay on your own first. When we put everything on the other part we put enormous pressure on the relationship. Also we can't force people who are inattentive to give attention. Maybe the solution is to be happy alone until we find someone who finds pleasure in staying withing our preferences= compatibility
Work on yourself.
@@Nick-qj7ym I have been. But it's a neverending process. Theres no end. I'm not going to put off the life I want to "work on myself" as if that's a finite goal, because I'm always working on myself. I was "working on myself" while most of the rest of the world hadn't even opened up to the concept of "spiritual awakening" or "manifesting" and now it's another cheap fad for influencers to cash in on. My needs and desires are real and deep, I'm not on the path because it's "cool and trippy", that's for sure.
@Francisco Sotelo𝄞 But that's not a method that really works in the long run because you're unable to actually be your true self in the context of relationships... you're selling people on only a fraction of yourself to keep the peace. I've found that works only so much to create surface-level connections with people who only accept SOME of you, when it'd be much more worth it to be your whole self and attract the people who see/appreciate you for all of you.
@@SageDelinquent Okay on my own, but not my preference. Ultimately not as satisfying as being with others. Even still - there you are invalidating the need I may have because we've normalized this idea again of being an island and "not needing others"> and ever the contrarian I am - I'm going to boldly admit that I DO need others. Because as Teal has said in other videos, they're just me pushed out as well, as we are all parts of the same Universe, the same consciousness, and I can't do everything by myself. I challenge people to intellectually detach from these old adages we take as truth and tune into the truth of what we actually want and need inside of us. Because I think even in the spiritual world, most people seem to just be following what teachers say, whereas this really should be a path of aligning with your own truth regardless of what is spoken to you by any teacher or peer. It's got to be authentic to US, what we want and need, otherwise we're being dishonest with ourselves.
I have lived this long and NOW I finally heard that!!! Absolutely fantastic Teal!!! This was a Golden nugget for me!!! It is all starting to work for me 💛💛💛
I am sending so much love to your way 💕💖💕💖💕💖💕💖💕
Your boundaries are your personal thoughts your personal feelings your personal preferences your personal desires your personal truth is your boundaries! A boundary doesn't have to be against anything! ❤ This is a great way to expound on boundaries! Thank you Teal! 😊
I just love watchin her talk. She's my favorite fictitious character.
This is the best explanation of boundaries I’ve ever heard. Life-changing.
Thank you for your direct explanation Teal. You are one of the few people I can truly understand what's being said in full each time. Thank you 🙂
*and I agree, coffee ice cream rocks lol
And that solidifies that establishing your boundaries is never selfish but self-loving. If someone denies you your boundaries, that is abuse. It's a non-consensual taking of what's not theirs. They don't see you as a person, but as something useful for them. Evading someone's space is never justified.
I like to think of it as setting my own standard
Thank you so much as defining boundaries and recognizing what they are is my current situation to work on.
Best definition. Teal I am in awe. 🙏
Wow, so awesome!!! I love the perspective! ✨💖✨
Clear, thank you!
This content strikes a chord. I read a book with a similar tone that was a game-changer for me. "The Art of Saying No: Mastering Boundaries for a Fulfilling Life" by Samuel Dawn
You are so beautiful, thank you for sharing the wisdom.
Thank you kindly ✍️🙂
I like the concept, it doesn't have to be something serious, just a favorite food taste can be my own boundary.
Thankyou
Yes, so it is, thank you Teal 💐
Great explanation on boundaries… You make it so easy to can carry it with you at all times not really have to think about it.
I have to tell you I do love the dimple in your chin. From the man of your future.
Boundaries for my parent's means control or war wtf. Its a preference
Dont need your parents we have Teal😂
@@pleun315 ...
@@loveinfinity8884 you have your own journey, focus on yourself follow your bliss and inner compass the fact that you are here with Teal means your lookin for truth of something Its gonna be alright. Much love and light.🙏❤️
This is very insightful content. I once read a book with related material that shifted my entire perspective. "The Art of Saying No: Mastering Boundaries for a Fulfilling Life" by Samuel Dawn
Impressive material you have here. I came across a book with similar substance that changed my worldview. "The Art of Saying No: Mastering Boundaries for a Fulfilling Life" by Samuel Dawn
Love this ❤
Amen, I found them Teal ❣️ love you sis
I think many will take this out of context to support the need to keep walls between people.
But also the opposite side of that coin. I see too many boundaries disrespected now a days. People think it's ok to be upset with someone for having a differing opinion, or for having an unsavory emotion.
Many want to control others when they feel uncomfortable. So they will break your boundaries just to get that. It's not healthy either way.
Reminds me of another time Teal Swan mentioned helping someone feel comfortable when asking them about their rejection of you.
Makes even more sense now; they would not feel as panicked needing to control the situation and LIE if they know they are safe being honest.
Teal is my stress relief.
Just had this talk with my son. He insists, I don't respect his boundaries, when he never respects mine.
I had to shut the door, in terms, your STILL not respecting mine.🤷
I'm going to wake up grateful, everyday. If he doesn't understand that, sorry.
Boundaries 🙄😁
He sounds like my parent, luckily, I feel like a child and I'm old. Just feeling blessed. Just want everyone to get along. Can't change the past.
You taught your son his boundaries. And you taught him about respect. If he's not showing you respect, what doss that say about you?
@@KateLate____ I'm a b. itch?🙄🤷
I should have made him take out the trash everyday without question.😠then he would have something to hate me for! 😄
It's a long story. 🙄🤷
You’re a parent. Own that responsibility. You sound like a child yourself. Putting blame on your child like that will do no good. Own your life and straighten yourself out FIRST
Fabulous.... 💜💜💜💜🥳🥳
Solid.
Thank you Teal 💚✨
Ty
As a person who came into this world "different" and has knowledge to teach, I would like to know how people like her started out sharing their knowledge. Did she start giving it to people he knew? Like family, friends? Because for me, no one wants to hear it. And it seems like I cant manifest a career in the knowledge if I'm not sharing it. But how do I do that if no one wants it.
Make a youtube channel
Thank you teal
I said coffee :) Glad she addressed that possibility!
Educational
absoutly true IceCream is my favorite flavor
Truth isn’t personal.
The most basic of respect are to honor a person's boundaries my boundaries isolate me. No matter how I do the math it still comes up the same number. Distrust.
What is your favourite ice cream?
Me: "all of them?"
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🤘❤️🦁that was awesome 🤗
Kolmi and the rest is just one thing to get 😴 pavoGOOD BLESS you 🙏 🙌 ❤️ ❤️
Youd have 2 lines close to each other, sharing the same space but never crossing either. Because they are boundaries
I want to start an all girl rock band and get Teal as the singer 🤘
I can totally see that!
My favorite ice cream is COFFEE too!! Lol.. oxoxoxoox
Coffee is a unique ice cream compared to chocolate nice move there,😀 just playing teal.
Boundaries...a man told.me 'you only think about your own needs' because I said I didn't want to talk about sex in our first videocall before meeting.
I fellt hurt and I responded.
Next day he told me he didn't want to proceed because of my (emotional) reaction.
This was only 2e days in contact and when I said I felt pressured, he repliek 'you pressure yourself honey' (he asked to exchange pictures right after we exchanged numbers, he was very on top if it so I felt pushed).
Here I am, confused but part of me knows I simply set boundaries and I'm being psychologically attacked for ot.
When I told him he attacks me already on day one,he laughed at me that I see everything negatively and he has good intentions.
My heart is still hurting because he said I think about my needs only.
Why, because I said what didn't like and that I first like meet outdoors.
I hope this man is not in your life anymore. He isn't interested in you nor does he care about what is best for you. He's only interested in having someone to control according to his wishes and needs. Run!!!!🚩🚩🚩🚩
Correlation between the fact that I struggle to have favorite things and don’t know how to set boundaries 🧐🧐🧐
Aren't there general boundries for all human beings? Respect? Maybe my idea of this is not correct. What would you call those boundries?
Even something general like respect, is also a preference. Some people believe that respect must be earned, whereas others give benefit of doubt first. I guess when you come across people who disagree in boundaries or view point, it can be helpful to see it as a preference rather than a mandate to manage feelings on both side.
Like on the side where the person feels their boundary is disrespected, they can acknowledge it and decide: okay, I can step away, communicate to the other person that the boundary exists and to agree to disagree or not continue the interaction -- where some people go wrong is that if they view their boundary as a mandate that MUST be followed then take it really hard when it's not followed and can cut off people from their life completely, whereas, just because people may first disagree, doesn't mean that their actions can't change or adjust down the line.
@@audy2174 Great comment!!! 👍👍👍 It is YOUR personal preference, it is not others. So walk away from those who are not respecting you at that moment. If they miss you, they will adjust to your boundary. If they do not....well, walk further.
And I think that there is much fluidity which you can add to your far away boundaries. Like if they do not have coffee favour today, you are happy to try something new. And if your friend wants to go to that restaurant instead your favorite place, maybe you can find that it is ok for you too, this time around. Boundaries fluctuate. The outer ones. Because that is how you experience life. You explore life. Life is not frigid and so you can not be either. But some inner boundaries are sacred and should not be crossed. You decide which ones are the true ones for you. What is the truth for you. Who you are essentially!
Thank you for your share! It inspired me 💛💜💛
@@SatumainenOlento Thank you! Very nice explanations!
@@audy2174 Thank you! I like what you said!
@@audy2174 I keep thinking about children and how their preferences or boundaries could harm them? They could like to light matches or jump off cliffs into a lake? OR pedophiles who likes children? This is where we have societal standards that trump your preferences or boundries. Didn't really mean to get this deep but this is more of what I was tryong to say.
Haha mine is coffee to! Frozen Starbucks gelato 😂
Fun game
I do not agree that those are all boundaries. Boundaries are limits.
the dimensions of the space you inhabit.
What if I don't have thoughts?
Oh oh. Teals laughing about boundaries. I prefer to think of them as “guidelines”. ☮️
What if you don't have a favourite ice cream or colour or food or author or music, or band or actor?
I've do have favourite items, like a pair of shoes, but I've always felt that I have less favourites than most people.
You might find you have problems with boundaries. I feel the same.
I don't have a favourite colour - I like lots of colours, and prefer some much less.
However because I'm people-pleasing, I'll just agree to things, or let others choose because it's just easier than having to stick up for what I want
I know this is a trivial thing, but I don't believe in coincidences and I have known so many intelligent women who say coffee ice cream is their favorite flavor, or even their all time favorite food. I have never heard a man say that. I wonder why this is? It seems like such a strange little quirk.
What do 7 do it ppl don't comply to ur boundaries or won't see us
this is why there's a big spark of firework in my mind when i meet someone that shares so many similarities 😔
idk maybe it's just my pisces moon that's kinda "blind" to boundaries 😔, like i want to blend in with them, unconsciously.
Hello, what is a pisces moon exactly ?
@@clownworld3382 oh that's from astrological perspective. in placidus, i have pisces moon but in vedic, i have aquarius moon.
So you are saying the word boundary has the same meaning as preference. I disagree there are dictionaries
It’s only a boundary when it’s not negotiable
I disagree. I think we should have tighter boundaries. I'll basically put up with any ice-cream unless I totally hate the flavour. Even if it's not one I'd ever pick I'll just put up with it.
Coffee is my favorite ice cream flavor! 🥰
🤩🤩🤩🤩
What's my favorite flavor of ice cream? Lactose intolerance.
When you have a preference and they call you picky
This is how I ended up with no boundaries
So you just keep trying until you find someone who actually likes chocolate so we can enjoy it together instead of eating coffee ice cream for because it’s the other persons favorite? Is this the reason I feel like I never get my way and always do things other people way?
I believe it means you enjoy your ice cream and allow the other person to enjoy theirs?
@@ElleS572 and this is the choice. Enjoy your ice cream alone or eat the ice cream they want to eat. It feels that the only way I can ever enjoy ice cream with anyone else is to eat what they want because I can’t get them to eat my ice cream with me.
Turtle treasure
like a venn diagram
That's what I was picturing exactly! 🙂
Lines of "my" things "your things" and "us things". 🌻
Ice cream is a preference. Not a boundry.
Mine's pistachio
Swan is
Young n smart n prety but howww does she do it 🙁👌🏻😜
My finances are akin to her coffee ice-cream and the worlds opportunities are a flavour that I'm allergic to...
That's a preference, not a boundary.
Now if you said that's my coffee ice cream, don't eat it, now that's a boundary
You're really stretching it
Why?
Because stretching the truth is my boundary...lol
Boundaries are preferences. Go deeper.
@@queengoblin boundaries are personal limitations with consequences if violated
No one issues consequences for coffee ice cream and if they do, they're insane or a dictator
I can tell you how people start breaking boundries easily and its all starts little then go higher .. lets say you like some kind of music .. and someone starts to judge it (judging your taste ) .. then you stop listening .. then they go about how you dress .. then they go about what you like or makes you happy .. then by your choice of friends .. and so on and on ... they try to mold you how they think you should be and what you should like .. and that's crossing boundries .. a preference .. what you like .. and what you desire makes you .. you ... you get what i mean ? .. i hope i explained it well.
the way you said "stretching the truth" is funny because "the truth" is...well, relative. The thing is, it might be your personal truth that you don't agree with Teal's take on boundaries, but in my opinion, that doesn't make it any less true for her or for the people who agree with Teal, that boundaries are, in essence, our personal preferences...that obviously goes so much deeper than ice cream flavor preferences, and I believe that is also just a very easy-to-grasp example that she gives, so we can understand the concept better.
@@anamariaoprinesc1318 people are so sensitive and easy to set off these days as the divide and conquer NWO is set up so we shouldn't really encourage more division and pettiness in today's snowflake society
Am I wrong?
I'd prefer slapping stupid people in the face, and I have, and they had it coming; but that's not my boundary
Teal wearing Teal lol
The fact that you chose the word boundary and not space, or hole-which i would've used- or emptiness; it makes me assume you are and/or see people more as individuals then as humans. Also i dont think your likes defines you, because your likes are not your likes.
Is that your real name or is it a "Hollywood"name??
Strawberry banana
❣💘💌👆
Yours is chocolate mine is coffee How is this a boundry 😂😂😂 confused
Yeah , doesn’t ring true.
Broad
I want Teal Swan to have my babies
I think you're using the wrong word to describe what you're describing
That sounds terrible. So there's no potential for any alignment in taste, preferences, or perception of anything or bridging of differences. If your thoughts define you, that's ego-identification. Yeah, ego is most certainly a "boundary". A boundary between any and all possible connection.
I don’t understand what you’re saying
I find Teal very enlightening and helpful but on this one I have to disagree. Boundaries are defined as limits. Check a dictionary. They aren’t like a liquid always moving and changing with the day. They’re core values. They’re your morals, ethics, beliefs and where you will not cross.
So if you like chocolate and i like coffee, that’s fine. But the moment u push chocolate (ur belief) onto me you’ve crossed a boundary.
They aren’t feelings. And they aren’t flavors.
As someone who struggle to even understand what boundaries are (at age 37), I needed this definition she's given. Yes, it's not precise. But it helps me to understand that I can just have a preference, and I don't always have to compromise to what others want. I'll eat chocolate or coffee ice-cream, and I'd draw a boundary before licorice ice-cream as I hate it. But I might agree to eat one that I barely like, just to be agreeable.
@@KateLate____ ok. But where did you get that from? That doesn’t sound like what Teal said to me. I thought she meant something like ur own thoughts r ur boundary. So u like coffee. I like coffee. Or Maybe we disagree on flavors…doesnt matter. We both laid down our boundaries. Healthy relationship. Ur describing someone giving up their boundary for another person’s, which i would agree w u makes sense just to b agreeable but following Teal’s logic if you can’t live ur truth your boundary has been broken. See how I can’t rly follow her thinking? Or am I getting her wrong?
No. This isn’t what it means at all.
This sounds wrong.
This is incredibly false. All of your preferences are the false self.
Moan... So what's the point? Do we now need to like every flavour of ice cream to be free from the boundaries you speak of?
I think individuality can also be a good thing and having a favourite Ice Cream does not mean that you can't feel empathy for someone who likes a different flavour.
I have the impression that Teal Swan is doing business as playing or seeing herself as "The Enlightened One". I see it simply as a over self confident mash up from psychology, spirituality and esotericism.
My impression is: A lot of show, a lot of commerce, little tangible essence. 🤷🏻♂️