DETACH: how to actually protect your energy, become magnetic & achieve your goals

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  • čas přidán 1. 06. 2024
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    This is how you detach in dating, manifesting and daily life! In this video I explain what detachment is and what it isn’t. We go through all the misconceptions and all the ways detachment can transform your life! I share many examples, tips & tricks + exercises to introduce this practice into your life. Detachment is the key to creating the life you want and get more peace of mind. By adopting a detached mindset you can start building your dream life and stop wasting your time and energy on things that are not in your control, or simply not worth it! xx
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    00:00-02:31 detachment
    02:31-04:13 tip 1
    04:13-04:54 tip 2
    04:54-08:21 tip 3
    08:21-10:20 tip 4
    10:20-12:56 tip 5
    12:56-13:21 tip 6
    13:21-18:03 tip 7
    18:03-21:24 tip 8
    21:24-23:18 tip 9
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Komentáře • 47

  • @NikasInnerBeauty
    @NikasInnerBeauty  Před 15 dny +5

    If you’re struggling, consider therapy with my sponsor BetterHelp! Click betterhelp.com/nika for a 10% discount on your first month of therapy with a licensed professional specific to your needs✨

  • @aworldofasunshine
    @aworldofasunshine Před 14 dny +19

    Nika, I’m halfway through the video but got the urge to tell you. It’s such a beautiful gift you’re giving us to pass on all your knowledge about healing. Like this you turned it all around and maybe you see all this “suffering” yourself as a gift now. I got so much out of your videos already and I’m just very grateful for it. THANKS for being you 🧡

    • @malakabugnaim1408
      @malakabugnaim1408 Před 14 dny +1

      I honestly think the same thing every time I watch one of her videos

  • @Elizabeth-sx7gs
    @Elizabeth-sx7gs Před 15 dny +8

    Yes! Plz talk more about detachment in relationships! And getting your finances together as a separate topic lollll

  • @poojashinde291
    @poojashinde291 Před 15 dny +5

    Watching you makes me realise , "if nika can, i can too" .......😊

  • @tanishkawardhan
    @tanishkawardhan Před 15 dny +7

    You are just an inspiration . I found real comfort whenever I listen to you. As someone who is really into self care and mental wellness your videos helped a lot❤

  • @NaomiVlogs08
    @NaomiVlogs08 Před 14 dny +5

    Yess! How to detach in romantic relationship episode ❤

  • @EcomCarl
    @EcomCarl Před 11 dny +1

    The concept of detachment as a strategy for conserving energy and focusing on personal growth is powerful and transformative. Embracing this can indeed create a magnetic presence by allowing us to invest in our self-worth rather than external outcomes. 🌟

  • @ReidCoxChannel
    @ReidCoxChannel Před 15 dny +2

    Love this message! Detaching to the outcome truly is the secret ingredient to manifesting! I was single all of my twenties and it wasn’t until I completely let go and detached from my yearning for love, that I finally met the love of my life!

  • @amayramlew
    @amayramlew Před 15 dny +1

    because of you, I am experiencing an incredible rebirth❤ my life, feelings and relationships completely changed and 1000% improved bc of you Nika, forever greatful to you!!

  • @RoraEmmi
    @RoraEmmi Před 7 dny

    I would definitely love a video about practicing detachment in relationships💗

  • @mrslindaofficial4720
    @mrslindaofficial4720 Před 13 dny

    Thank you so so much for this video 🥺❤️🌹

  • @melymendez6235
    @melymendez6235 Před 4 dny

    Nika! THIS was a video that was very much needed. Love the topic of detachment and everything you said was super useful. Much love

  • @renata.7
    @renata.7 Před 15 dny +1

    Nika, for the last 2-3 days I have been constantly researching videos on this topic, as if you knew - thank you! 🤗🖤 Also, I really like the example with the tornado 🌪😊

  • @ronikalcho
    @ronikalcho Před 14 dny +1

    Yes, please, detachment in relationships !! Can’t wait for that video! I really love this topic and this video is amazing as always, thank you Nika, your videos have helped me tremendously throughout the past year, I can’t express this enough. Thank you ❤

  • @jenniferc4834
    @jenniferc4834 Před 14 dny

    I will watch this so many times to soak up every word. Thank you for being so aware of how to overcome and reframe situations for so many women.

  • @olivia_olona
    @olivia_olona Před 15 dny +1

    Nice topic! Detachment is very key to our own happiness. I´ve been practicing it for more than a year now, and it has improved many things in my life, specially my Self esteem.

  • @user-eh1es3hr9u
    @user-eh1es3hr9u Před 14 dny

    YESSS! I love that topic

  • @alyasarahmy202
    @alyasarahmy202 Před 12 dny

    youre literally my comfort person

  • @user-ur4gz6ku1n
    @user-ur4gz6ku1n Před 13 dny

    amazing, thank you so much

  • @erikasolis14
    @erikasolis14 Před 7 dny

    Love video. Very inspiring, ty

  • @Bestvid599
    @Bestvid599 Před 15 dny

    Your videos are being very helpful for for me please, make such kind of videos as much as possible.

  • @irishgem72
    @irishgem72 Před 11 dny

    Yes please a detachment video thanks !

  • @la_petite_carotte
    @la_petite_carotte Před 12 dny

    Such an inspiring and instructive video! Thanks, Nika! And yes, please I do want to learn more about this and I would appreciate if you could make a video about detachment in relationships❤😮

  • @sophievo8315
    @sophievo8315 Před 11 dny

    Thank you for this video! If you make a video about detachment in relationships, can you please also explain how to balance letting go and speaking up your needs/wants? Sometimes, I find it hard to distinguish between trying to control the situation in a toxic way and communicating my feelings/the changes I wish to see.

  • @kanunsibrays5569
    @kanunsibrays5569 Před 15 dny +1

    First of all if you really want to change your life you have to change your mind first than after that your life will change by it self for better and with some advice omg!!❤

  • @sherrieb2396
    @sherrieb2396 Před 15 dny

    Y 18:17 your examples are stellar

  • @jacksonebendick9592
    @jacksonebendick9592 Před 15 dny

    My favorite CZcamsr

  • @anishadas7547
    @anishadas7547 Před 15 dny

    Love your videos❤

  • @ritikatanwar9544
    @ritikatanwar9544 Před 12 dny

    I Just love the video :)

  • @icegelofficial
    @icegelofficial Před 3 dny

    Thank you

  • @AradhanaRajbhar
    @AradhanaRajbhar Před 15 dny +1

    Hi Nika I love your voice and your video love you this is for you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ for improving my life

  • @Hxxx31
    @Hxxx31 Před 11 dny

    I like your story to move to another place, I have the same desire and this is give me hope ❤️❤️

  • @giselle_avila
    @giselle_avila Před 14 dny

    For instance I have been studying English for one year and I feel frustrated and overwhelmed sometimes because I think : I won't be able to get my job 😢 and I'm just wasting my time I don't have any idea how to control that and to feel I'm Worthy of that

  • @roxaneroessel4734
    @roxaneroessel4734 Před 3 dny

    I needed to hear this 🥹

  • @theotherway1639
    @theotherway1639 Před 12 dny

    I had to stop rejecting myself. There was a meditation book called 30 Days to Overcome Rejection by Harper Daniels that I really enjoyed.

  • @thefelixfoxx
    @thefelixfoxx Před 15 dny

    thats my bestieeee ❤❤

  • @francescasiragusa4691

    Did you ever make a video about how to detach in relationships?!

    • @francescasiragusa4691
      @francescasiragusa4691 Před 7 dny

      Oh wait!! I just realized you made this video! Girl I’ve been watching ALL of your videos. I wasn’t even paying attention to when you posted them 😅 ❤

  • @artyabd3170
    @artyabd3170 Před 8 dny +1

    Visualize this part of yourself that is calm , trusting and rooted in place like leaf with roots and eye of storm.
    Things are happening for me and everything happens for a reason
    What am i meant to learn from this?
    Give yourself examples from experiences you have
    Do cognitive reframing : change meaning of the story
    Consistantly let things go and happen
    Let them show you who they are
    Trust instead of control
    Find which feelings are attached to it and find things that make you feel the same way
    How will i feel when i achieve it
    What will having this mean about me
    If i let go of something what will happen?

  • @jenifaahmed527
    @jenifaahmed527 Před 15 dny

    😍😍😍

  • @magicalvoice9081
    @magicalvoice9081 Před 15 dny +1

    She is same as Tam kaur I mean her personality is same

  • @ebbyalhakam6105
    @ebbyalhakam6105 Před 13 dny

    Are you south African?

    • @adaritaa
      @adaritaa Před 3 dny

      I believe she is from Slovenia

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    @Malekfahad420 Před 15 dny

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