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Uncovering the Narcissist's Darkest Secrets

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  • čas přidán 17. 10. 2023
  • In today's video Jill explains and uncovers some of the Narcissists biggest and darkest secrets.
    Jill Wise, otherwise known as The Enlightened Target, is a life long survivor of narcissistic abuse. She was raised by a malignant narcissist and married to a malignant narcissist, she has endured years of parental alienation, has repeatedly been targeted by narcissists throughout her life. She has an intimate understanding of all aspects of narcissistic abuse and Cptsd. She uses her experience and what she has learned to help educate others and bring awareness to narcissistic abuse. She is also a Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach and works with clients all over the world heal from the trauma of narcissistic abuse, parental alienation and Complex Ptsd.
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Komentáře • 36

  • @amandajohnson-williams7718
    @amandajohnson-williams7718 Před 10 měsíci +26

    Well done Jill for pointing this out!!! The narc just copied our own character and thsts what we fell in love with! A reflection of ourselves in effect because the narc mimicked us as closely as possible!! That wasnt the real them at all.😅😅😅

  • @blessedstar747
    @blessedstar747 Před 10 měsíci +14

    This is so true...you can be an instant target....
    They fear: 1.You will find them out. 2. Abandonment 3. Exposure

    • @reesedaniel5835
      @reesedaniel5835 Před 9 měsíci +2

      Which is why they start smearing you behind your back long before you know it's happening. That way when you realize what they are and try to tell relatives and friends, you are deemed "insane".....

  • @marcustrajan4873
    @marcustrajan4873 Před 10 měsíci +19

    The trauma targeting is particularly pertinent as it was like the narc I was involved with could smell any past trauma and was able to extract and consume it.

    • @jessmason2112
      @jessmason2112 Před 10 měsíci +3

      Jill is extraordinarily accurate in these behaviors.

  • @rltobing8304
    @rltobing8304 Před 10 měsíci +6

    Never thought of myself as a Target but after 10 years I realized how cunning and shrewd my narcissist really was deep down inside, she's zeroed in on the death of my son to manipulate my moral compass to destroy my friends family and alienate my surviving children. Taking into consideration all of my assets in a financial phase as well as my standing in the community. Thank you Jill for exposing the target seeking narcissist.

  • @crankypantsmcduff
    @crankypantsmcduff Před 10 měsíci +6

    The ex lost a good "mug" in me but he's taught what to never ever fall for again. I'm happy on my own now, for the first time since I was a teen. He's just a sad, sad little boy in a man suit.

    • @santoparfano1910
      @santoparfano1910 Před 9 měsíci +1

      You ex should meet my soon to be ex narc wife. She's a child in an adult body. They would hit it off and likely destroy each other.

    • @crankypantsmcduff
      @crankypantsmcduff Před 9 měsíci

      @@santoparfano1910 hopefully 👍

  • @tiffanyandtheshihtsu
    @tiffanyandtheshihtsu Před 10 měsíci +7

    My ex boyfriend hid a porn addiction (gay & bisexual, transexual), he hid his finances & told me he was broke.
    He saw me coming!!! I was just finalizing a divorce... i was a prime target!
    He blew rainbows & glitter up my buns & acted like my soul mate. I fell for it. A year into it, he switched his personality like a light switch!
    I can look back at every romantic partner I've ever had... The pattern is shocking.
    I know better now🎉😊❤

    • @emmarae4322
      @emmarae4322 Před 3 měsíci

      I think my ex hid finances too.

  • @dgvfsa66
    @dgvfsa66 Před 10 měsíci +10

    You said, "They are human beings." They are not.

  • @dazpearce2096
    @dazpearce2096 Před 10 měsíci +3

    good stuff Jill - please can I make a video suggestion?
    Something I've noticed with narcissistic and toxic people is the way in which they will twist 'the language' around this stuff if you don't follow your lines in the movie or sit in the box they've neatly laid out for you.
    So they'll tell you things like:-
    You don't listen
    You're selfish
    You don't respect me
    You're not a team player
    It's not all about you!! (of course, it's all about them).
    And that of course, IS their reality. In their world a person who does not do 'what I want when I want' is selfish, disrespectful, not a teamplayer etc.
    It's a good topic for a future video and I'd be interested in your thoughts on it.

  • @discoangel4909
    @discoangel4909 Před 9 měsíci +1

    They need you, you don't need them.

  • @eliagf2623
    @eliagf2623 Před 10 měsíci +7

    can this also happen with their " closest person / friend "????

    • @angiehinson2615
      @angiehinson2615 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Yes! My father has had affairs all my life. He picks people for gain only. I don't think he has ever truly loved anyone.

  • @aquagirl9228
    @aquagirl9228 Před 10 měsíci +2

    You ALWAYS make me feel better. Sending you much love and prayers ❤️🙏

  • @77sunflowers
    @77sunflowers Před 7 měsíci +1

    The love in your heart, becuse they can't love ...

  • @jasonjones4492
    @jasonjones4492 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Definalty things to ponder great video Jill thank you!

  • @lindaguy1808
    @lindaguy1808 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Another excellent video Jill. Thanks so much. Also..I love that picture behind you of you and your precious son. ❤

  • @LindaStokes-ff2kv
    @LindaStokes-ff2kv Před 10 měsíci +5

    How about a narcissistic dad treating the daughter like crap all these years?

    • @reesedaniel5835
      @reesedaniel5835 Před 9 měsíci

      In my case, it was my abused enabling dad who was groomed by covert narc mommy to do her dirty work so she could wear her Saintly Martyr mask at all times.

  • @m.f.richardson1602
    @m.f.richardson1602 Před 10 měsíci +1

    You're the best.
    Thank you
    Peace

  • @fireupyourheartfortruth
    @fireupyourheartfortruth Před 9 měsíci

    Thank you so much! ❤😢❤🌅

  • @user-qk3fb9wz2t
    @user-qk3fb9wz2t Před 8 měsíci +1

    Jill is the intro music have an extended version ❤

  • @mariannekoroleva6495
    @mariannekoroleva6495 Před 10 měsíci +5

    You are SO pretty!!:))!!💐⚜️🍀 Thank You, Jill!!💗🌞⚜️

  • @GloriaGonzalez-zz4wp
    @GloriaGonzalez-zz4wp Před 10 měsíci +1

    ❤ thank you so much man I mean I really learning of all about or what narcissist is is crazy but at the end of the day I'm in a good place and the excerpt I hope for the best for him or whatever supplies that he has and he could use a mass of anybody else but you know some videos said you should feel sad for the other supplies I really don't because the other supplies knew I was in his life so I don't feel sorry for them I just hope for the best for them and I hope for their safety and and I'm moving on with my life 🧬

  • @marymotherofgod4861
    @marymotherofgod4861 Před 10 měsíci +1

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @julianal.573
    @julianal.573 Před 10 měsíci +1

    💐

  • @pragmaticpoet
    @pragmaticpoet Před 10 měsíci +6

    They have a cure for herpes?! 🤣🤣🤣

    • @finchman1
      @finchman1 Před 10 měsíci

      They most likely have herpes 😉