OP Beat the Sh*t Out of His Son and Disowned Him After He Abused His Girlfriend, Then Got Him Loc...
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- čas přidán 4. 07. 2024
- 00:00 1st story:
AITA for squaring up with my son and disowning him after his girlfriend comes to me and tells me that he's been hitting her? (thehumblecookie009 in r/AITAH)
23:09 2nd story:
My (25M) best friend (25M) sleeps with married women and he crossed the line last week (u/Normal_Cash1687 in r/relationships)
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![[FULL STORY] I found out my son was hitting his girlfriend. So I disowned him.](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/5EtQg29fczs/mqdefault.jpg)
Seeing your own son become an abuser like your father must be Beyond heartbreaking
I wonder where he got it from
So he beat up his son but not whose father who did it to him and others… interesting
@@krazykrazy8513what are you yapping about? he said he fought his father multiple times to protect his sisters.
@@krazykrazy8513 just admit you lack reading and listening skills 😂
OP had repeatedly stood against his abusive father to protect his sisters.
@@partyshoes2917 currently goofe
Grandma couldn’t wait to call the cops on her grandson but had open arms for the man who beat her.
There was no way the son was there to reconcile. Calling her a b*** right out the gate tells me all i need to know.
When OP's brother said that maybe OP's son really did come to apologize, I shouted "BULLSHIT!" at the screen. Just wanted to talk to her? Yeah, right. It would be his fists doing the "talking" just like last time.
@@pompe221 exactly
🙄@@pompe221
When I heard the son’s “reason,” I had to stop myself from blurting out “My god, what a pathetic man.”
Edit: When I got to the last update with the mother, I had to stop myself from blurting out “My god, what a pathetic _woman.”_
This is how the cycle continues
S1 : Mother is shit, Son is shit, the Siblings are delulu and OP is the GOAT of the Century.
The mother is dead 💀
@@ReverseRslash they meant OP's mother and siblings
Never laughed so hard in my life with your comment GOAT ya right if this bogus story is even real and if it was tell that to the cops when they drag the dad's worthless self to the slammer^^
Siblings aren't delulu. Considering that op was the one who protected them and handled their dad. They probably didn't trust their own judgment of the dad (likely mom had been guilt tripping them or lying about him being better now), and trusted op's opinion.
op1: “fine what’s 17 more years”
OMG😆
NO😂
No, not the Omni-Man reference, no!
I can always make another kid
Damn! 😂
Good for OP for not allowing his son to be an abusive POS and doing right by the girlfriend. It’s a good thing there’s parents out there who won’t cover up or enable disgusting behavior.
Unlike that OP in the last story unfortunately.
Story 2 is the epitome of "It's not a problem until its my problem."
First OP is a very competent man. Honestly, im glad he only ever doubts hinself after the fact, becuase as i see it, he always seems to make good choices.
The dad is OG, but god most of the other males in that family sans brother are problems
My husband grew up in an abusive household with a step dad who beat the hell out of his mom and then would beat the family dog while in a drunken rage. My husband had to run away as a child and hide at all night arcades in the large city that he grew up in or order to not get beat on too. When we had a son and our son grew up enough to have a girlfriend, he told him the rules of being a man-one of which was to never hit a woman. He was like “son, I love you. But just so you know, if you ever beat on a woman-you better hope like hell that the police find you before I do. Because you will be far safer with them than with me.” Needless to say that never became a problem 😂. Ironically my son became of police officer himself just this past year, the irony 😂
Goodness, your husband survived hell. He sounds like me. I told my son basically the same thing. I added that if his woman beats on him. Let me know. I told my son and daughter that if their partners beat on them, we'll get them arrested. Once they're out of prison, it's my turn. Their ex partner wouldn't get a hold of them again. My kids know Mom is serious.
W men in your life
The son becoming a cop is the worst possible end, cops have a high rate of domestic abuse and their abuser can't really report them because..cops
Weaponized emotional incompetence has got to be a key qualifier for all narcissist.
Story 2 OP is delusional. "My fiance won't cheat." It's not about her cheating, it's about you putting her in close proximity to someone she doesn't like and makes her uncomfortable. Why would you want the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with to hang around a womanizer. Especially one that prefers TAKEN individuals. Why would you wanna hang around someone like that? He would totally go after the fiance. He's already shown he doesn't respect OP or his boundaries.
in a few years there may be a reddit story "my childhood best friend, is a 'reformed' homewrecker. now he has wrecked my home. what do I do'
1st story.
OP's mother: *sees her grandson abusing his ex*.... I should call him.
Holy shit 💀
Story 1: Finally, a parent who doesn't rugsweep their child's abusive behavior.
Story 2: Did all that work supposedly bring his mentor some closure and STILL helped his scumbag friend skirt trouble by lying to the guy and then talks about how Tom should still divorce his wife. How?! Oop still helped the two cheaters cover it up, so now Tom can only take his wife's word for everything. For a guy who supposedly can't stand cheaters, he sure kept helping out one until the end. 🤦🏿
Ikr? The OP in the second story is a jerk for hiding the whole truth from him about his wife wanting to get wild with jerks like OP's ex friend.
Tom you don't get to victimize my daughter. Gabriel's story isn't covering the scars
St2: OP’s are complicit in let your friend skirt on consequences.
Story 1: OP is a REAL man!! A good man and a good father is hand's on and works diligently to teach his children what's right and what's wrong. It's a shame his son turned out like his paternal grandfather.
ETA: NTA 1,000,000%!!
Not mad at how first OP handled his son. You want to beat on somebody here I am!
The guy in story 2 is surprised the snake he hangs out with turned out to be a snake🫠
The women were willing, he just enabled them, he's not responsible
OP2 is the essence of Silent Complicity. When there are atrocities being committed and you keep quiet to not “rock the boat” you are nearly as guilty as those committing the atrocities.
Thank you. You took the words right out of my mouth.
"My partner would never cheat on me."
Tom would have said the same thing a few days ago.
If I was OPs wife I wouldn't have given him a second thought once I realized he was Tom's friend. I think the kind of people you keep around you says a lot about your character. She sussed out Tom's character quickly, I don't know why she would let that guy into her outer circle by hitching herself to OP.
ST1
“What if he wanted to apologise”
Ah yes because nothing says a genuine apology quite like turning up drunk.
i am so proud of op for protecting her from his son.
No idea how OP thought he was the AH at all, his son was literally drunk. If the son even talked with the wife anything could’ve triggered and something worse could’ve happened.
Reasoning with drunk people will always be a dumb idea
Story 2: Bruh, I would've distance myself from the friend the first time he wrecked a home
First story. How I wish more people had the courage and morals of op. There is still a shame and silence about domestic abuse,it is an horrendous situation to be involved in. Many women (and men) say they stay in a violent relationship because of fear,can you imagine living everyday and every hour waiting for a person you loved to hurt you?. Not one person asks for it and it leaves deep scars in every way. These men and women who show such cruelty are never challenged,never asked to explain themselves and never held accountable for the damage they cause. Apologies by the dozen yet not one bit of true remorse. They ARE monsters that your parents should have warned you of because the one who hurts you isn't the boogy man it's the person you love.
This really is an example of how some people are just predisposed to XYZ, based on the family they come from.
Story 2 OP is an AH for staying friends with that POS for so long...
I agree with you on that one.
First story's Mother seriously has some nerve. She's just as responsible for the abuse as her husband was. She just let it happen. And then she decided for all of them that her children, the victims, need to forgive their abuser. That's not how that works. Forgiveness is decided by the affected party, on their terms should they choose to do so. Not coerced, bullied, guilt tripped. No "balance the boat" or "be the better person". Either she's not sorry at all or she took too many hits to the skull.
I’m wondering if it’s not just nurture but nature (inherited mental illness that skipped a generation) that is the reason OP’s son became a carbon copy of his grandfather.
@@LunaP1 There was a study suggesting that we DO inherit some of our parent's memories, maybe thats why he turned up like that, if that turned up to be true?
My Egg Donor was the same sadly. She didn’t help get me out of a horrible situation and after I got myself out, she kept trying to persuade me to leave the people who’d adopted me and move countries with her, her waste of space husband (at the time) and their kids…
They’re now divorced and she’s now wondering why I refuse to talk to her 😐
@@WriterGirl90 I'm sorry you had to go through that. :/
Oh hell no, if he was there for good reasons he wouldn't be drunk, kicking doors, throwing bottles, breaking windows.
This sounds like a $hitstorm of biblical proportions.
Oh, it is
Biblical shit storms were never THIS bad. 😮
I guess you've never read anything biblical then😂@@boneymeroney2674
Wow the dad is taking all the anger he has against his father on his own son.
@@suem8591that’s because his son had become like his abusive father. OP unfortunately saw and experienced abuse firsthand and the fact that his son is doing the same thing probably hurts more than anything.
Story 1 I would have been so much worse OP is a saint compared to me.
Story 1 NTA
S1: son becomes an abuser and OP decides to teach him a lesson. good on OP.
S2: friend is a pos. why does OP decide now is the time to stop him from what he was doing? OP, why didn't you try to stop him the very first time he tried this in the past? you enabled his crap and now it's come back to bite you in the ass
OP1 is doing everything as well as they can and has been put in several very difficult situations. I think he's a good person and he's been protecting people his entire life to the degree that he fears becoming what he's always protected others from but he's far from it.
Story 1: Man this story gave me some traumatic flashbacks
Story 2: “if it were me I would divorce her” he never gave the full context, most people would divorce for cheating but some people want a form of closure before leaving and not having this information could make his hesitate when it come to a divorce
The 2nd story, op is being totally shitty to tom...
Yeah, he's just a bad friend. Period.
Story 1: No I don't think OP's son coming over drunk was gonna apologize for what he (son) did to his gf. It's no doubt that he wanted to beat her again, probably worse. Yeah calling her the B word made it clear as day that he never intended to say sorry.
Story 2: OP did the right thing by ending the friendship. Why would anyone be friends with someone who has a thing for taken, married, engaged women? I'm wondering if someone or something influenced OP's friend to act the way he is, that it's ok to sleep with someone who's in a relationship. I agree with some of the comments that OP's friend will keep trying to get with his fiancé. The former friend was never a good friend despite what OP said. He had low morals and didn't care who he hurt.
The mom bringing the father is a low blow i mean it's all fine and everything that the father wants forgiveness but i feel like dont bring the father around
Imma be honest. For story two. The man and his wife have children. But then throws it all away because she isn’t s*xually attracted to her husband anymore just doesn’t sit right with me. “I love you and I want to spend the rest of my life with you… but you’re not attractive enough s*exually”. That part right there doesn’t sit right with me. And yes before yall say it, I’m well aware that s*x isn’t the focus of a relationship but I believe that it shouldn’t be absent from it either. If I love someone and want to spend the rest of my life with someone, it’s because I’m attracted to them in every single way including In a s*xual way. But if they don’t see me like that then they’re not the one for me.
2nd Story: It is not a matter of whether OP want to know the details or not. It is a matter of being truthful. Just like the last comment pointed it out. When given the chance to help someone he just scoff and OP said he personally wouldn't want to know that.
Sure hope his arrogant ass get cheated on by his so called "Faithful" wife by other people.
I'm just wondering how the hell OP's son turned out that way. Did the grandfather have contact with OP's son? (I wouldn't be surprised if the grandmother had introduced them to each other behind ops back)
No you did the right thing preventing him from seeing her.
an old man justly beating up his adult son makes me think of Garp from One Piece 😂
OP2 is also an AH, shouldve told tom the truth
Last story.... op is an a hole...
Tell the dude about his wife dont let him go through bs cousiling...
She will do it again in the future...
He's only a 'better man' because he doesnt know who his wife really is...
He said himself it it was his wife he'd divorce...
Op is the a hole for that, 0 respect
31:20 wtf, why the fuck he doesn’t tell Tom the fucking truth????
*Where's The Video With The Rest Of The Updates!*
Think we are upto date
Story 1
Ops son didnt come to reconcile. He went to abuse her again. Why else would his first reaction to seeing her be to throw a bottle at her?
Also dear old dad needs to fade into the abyss of nothingness where he belongs. His life has become irrelevant and his non apology is seen for what it is. More bullshit from a man made out of crap.
I feel nothing for that worthless excuse of a dad of the first story if it is even real of course XD so im glad the mom wants nothing to do with him after
The father in story is probably not telling the entire truth regarding his son. My guess is he’s probably been physically abusive towards his son for years.
You'd like that, wouldn't you? For the son to have some sort of excuse as to his behavior so that it's not his fault?
Juicy
The wives who all gave it up to op's friend are all 304s
Well there's unexpected mama bear 🐻. Mentally i didn't expect..seriously I hope the son gets helpand the mom is nice to have help this poor girl that's so amazinglystrongof her anddefinitelyhersupportandtherapy forsure.that girlluckyshe'sgot an angelon herside..
. S2 wtf 😳 well 🎉I don't get the logic here. Hope they figure out the right thing to do and definitely therapy
Story 2: snake friend is a slxt and OP was complicit
W father
S1: son might have mental issues. Might have mental issues running in the family.
I already didnt believe the story by the time the son was in jail but when completely by coincidence, the father showed back up... come on.
And gary stu is just so amazing in every way. The epitome of manliness. Respects women, puts his asshole son in his place while also magnanimously hearing him out and apologizing for not having done so in the first place. I bet he's handsome and has a huge dong too. The sheer perfection of this godlike man is jusy cringey.
Why do you hate life? 😅
Story 1: wait wasn’t this story also told from the son’s viewpoint and it turned out the gf was cheating and her partner was the one who beat her up and blamed the son or is that an unrelated story
No idea what you're talking about.
@@lindah3803 there was a story similar to this but it was the sons viewpoint the gf was beaten by the guy she was cheating with and blamed it on the son maybe it was a different story
@@leroysgamesandmore2226sounds like a different story since the update literally has the son admitting and justifying doing it himself
Umm guys why is everyone saying OP 1 is a good father?? He clearly isnt, the son didnt turn out like he did out of the blue, I wonder how OPs pareting was considering his trauma and how his first reaction was to almost kill his son. Violent kids are usually created by violent homes, just saying
Nature vs Nurture. Sometimes things don’t turn out the way they should, even with all the hard work a parent does to keep their kids on the right path. I’ve heard of parents that raised their kid right or treated their kids equally and somehow that one kid (only-child or has a sibling or more) turns out bad or mentally ill. Son sounds like he’s either bipolar or has a personality disorder, not a simple anger management issue or narcissistic personality disorder. Even after OP gave him the business, he learned absolutely nothing and still chose violence.
You'd be surprised. Some people come from families that have histories of people being lifelong criminals, addicts, and troublemakers, and then out of nowhere, somebody in the _next_ generation just breaks the cycle all on their own, full stop.
Story 1's OP is a terrible father, even if he's a good person. When your first response is to try and beat the shit out of your child until their *victim* has to scream at you to stop, it's not hard to imagine where he might have gotten it from.
S1: seems sus to me, nevermind its totally BS
He beats his son solely based on the gf word with zero evidence and all of his supposed evidence is circumstantial at best
Well anyway its a nice lil bit of creative writing
Story 2 is literally just a rage bait joke
The son admitted to it
Story1) I’m probably gonna be told I’m wrong but I think Op is the asshole he assaulted his son he’s no better then his father and I’m not defending the son he’s still wrong for abusing his girlfriend, you want your son to change you don’t beat him up not once but twice you get him help but I’m the end and this just is my opinion I think Op is in the wrong here
I agree with you. And despite OP thinking that his son would be arrested and get beat up in prison, he decided to not bring the gf to press charges and beat the son up himself. Um, great job?
You're wrong.
@@anubishound8179 it’s my opinion but ok buddy
Meh the son got help. He got a taste of what the otherside felt. Learning through Experience 🤷🏾♂️🤣
Your mistake is comparing OPs father to OP.
Why did they beat and abuse?
While I agree that OP should have waited until the son swung at him first, so he can claim self defense, you are trying to compare WILDLY different motives.
Shouldn't have let him throw that 2nd bottle