OP Cut Contact with His Mom After She Took His Cheating Wife's Side. Now, Years Later, Mom Wants ...
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Calling it now: Mom is a cheater too.
Edit: Nothing specifically came out, but I’m still convinced. Between how spineless OP’s dad is, and how much his mom defended his ex, it feels pretty clear to me.
I was thinking about the same thing
Cheating is In her blood she can't fight destiny. The Cheating is strong with this one
Cheaters always defend cheaters
Could be, but also could be a trauma response. She admitted to mentally and emotionally replacing the loss of her stillborn daughter with her daughter-in-law. That being the case, any chance at losing that replacement will dig up the long buried hurt of losing her stillborn, which is a hurt her psyche might not be equipped to handle. If so, her response to defending the wife would be psychologically similar to a victim defending their ab.user.
Honestly i am so tired of these stories, they are always the same, a parent does something that is unforgivable, and the op (always being doormats) chooses to forgive them, i honestly don’t know why that would happen, like the best option will be to cut contact for some time and see if you are comfortable or not, if for some reason you want them back in your life BEFORE they cnotact you then sure try to mend brideges, but if not then why bother? Too much of a hassle, the best option will be to just shut the door in their face and never open it again, i did that
and it was the best decision of my life.
Any time the Mom takes a cheater’s side, I think the victim should look right at their Dad and say “Hey Dad, wanna get a DNA test?”
My mom was quick to accuse people of cheating. Turned out none of us kids share a father.
@@LegendStormcrow My situation was different, my mom (after the divorce) accused my father of being a cheater non-stop and suddenly all these things about him having affairs came out (there was no evidence but that's what she claimed). Turned out none of them happened and my mom was just broken by the loss of her marriage any of these so-called affairs she accused my dad of happened before her and my dad even met. I know this doesn't have anything to do with the video your comment just reminded me of it.
@@jamesplayzreviews She might have just twisted it in her mind, just looking for a scapegoat.
That's kind of hard when my dad is my stepfather
OP's mom was so focused on defending a cheater who was "a daughter she never had" that she lost her actual son.
Worthless Love, that is what I call it.
A mother's grief is insurmountable
but she doesn't seem like she ever got an therapy for that ordeal, so it left mom crazy
Dad is a doormat. Mom probably cheated, that’s why she is on DIL’s “side”. And now, she’s lost her son. What a dummy.
I think for those situations the word "idiot" works better
The comments blaming op are from cheaters too
OP's mom is basically shouting that she cheated on OP's dad.
I'd say OP's dad was in the closet watching at the time
Maybe I'll come off as cynical, but is anyone else thinking that the wife accepted the divorce when she knew she wouldn't get the house?
That's usually the case with cheaters
All the people putting him down on Reddit sound like scummy cheaters, cheating should always be an end. The line of trust and love is completely broken for the other and that can never be fixed
Anyone who sits here and says OP needed to stay with that woman is a CHEATER THEMSELVES
I heard this one before. I still think op shouldn't have forgiven her. She didn't even hive him a chance.
I think this is a different story
Yeah your right. My bad. I jumped to conclusions.
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He is a doormat.
@@ianmoritzplatapino3684bro you have not have been betrayed so stop
She stole his future too. He'll eventually get his divorce, but he'll be dealing with this in future relationships, he'll have trouble with his parents when he finally finds a partner and possibly has kids.
When girls cheat everyone tells the guy he's an asshole for leaving her and he needs to "Man up". but when the guy cheats he's an asshole. double standards
nope, youd be surprised how pressured women are to stay
@@waves.of.change30 in what way does being pressured to stay relate to what I said?
He should have told his parents, “You wanted a daughter, and you lost your son.”
It always saddens me the way certain family members are willing to throw the whole relationship away with someone who isn’t blood. To then be crying how much they miss the person after burning their bridges with them.
Leave it to Reddit to victim blame the Husban after both the Wife and Parents screwed him over. And all those cheaters trying to defend the Wife is just crazy disgusting and stupidly entitled.
Plus its no longer the parents house when they gave it to OP who put thousands into it to make it liveable and they chose the cheating DIL and not thier own SON. I'm with everyone else on this Mom totally cheated and Father is completely spinless,
Bro is a Spurs fan, got cheated by his wife, abandoned by his mom and ignored by his father. This is the lowest low a person can fall.
Spurs nation 😭😭
He can get help with a lot of that... but the Spurs thing... I don't know if there is any coming back from that.
If your mom is taking your cheating wife's side she is a cheater as well. You can't trust a cheater.
The thing is I believe that it was all just drunken messages, maybe it was only that one time. But so what! If you are willing to talk like that with a person who isnt your partner you deserve to be alone.
Drunken messages are no-filter, honest messages.
Mate, what you need to do his cut ties with your Parents and only take them back IF they are ready to accept the Fact that your ex is a two faced cheat. If not, then you're better off without them. As for those who said "You're being too selfish". They are either Cheaters themselves, or THEY are the selfish ones. If they're stupid enough to try and cheat once, then they are stupid enough to try it again. And what the hell does the Mother mean about "Counselling sessions". The Ex is the one who needs therapy.
Wants the trust is gone, nothing she says, matters.
I can't really agree with his "If you're considering of forgiving a cheater, don't." Forgiveness isn't for them, it's for you.
Hey if they didn't cheat they wouldn't need forgiveness right
@@mizal321 You aren’t getting my point. The person that needs the forgiveness is the person that’s doing the forgiving. It’s not to absolve someone of their actions, it’s to let go of the anger.
@@ShursGarden Forgiving someone and letting go of your anger don't have to be the same thing.
@@MacerXGP The first definition of forgive in the Merriam-Webster Dictionary is to cease to feel resentment. By definition, forgiveness is letting go of your anger.
@@ShursGarden I hate the English language sometimes.
NTA but god the op got so dramatic by the end....
You've gyatt to be rizzing me
In these situations. I would insist to the opposite of the one defending the adulterer (in this case, the dad) he has full, moral right to sleep with another woman. If the mum complains, I'd say, no, you said its alright for my partner to do it to me, so it's okay for your partner to do it to you. Simple as
Not defending the cheating ex, but she did have a point about lie detectors. There's a reason they've been largely phased put by law enforcement. Even when they were being used, they weren't even court admissable. They're also why I hate shows like Maury povich. They use lie detectors and act like they're concrete evidence when they're not. Hot trash.
But she didn’t suggest an alternative, or trying to find an alternative that might be more reliable.
She didn’t offer complete unfettered access to all her accounts.
She didn’t offer anything.
She didn’t actually try to prove she’d never done it before.
She’s either hiding things (good at secrets - people seem to keep forgetting that trust-destroying line) or bag or hammers dumb.
@@brianbarber5401 oh no she's still a lying cheating piece of shit. I'm just saying that polygraphs are pseudoscience and are to never be trusted. All that thing could gauge is that you're nervous. Not rather not you're telling the truth.
The fact that she didn't offer any alternatives sort of shows that she really is either stupid or untrustworthy.
People really can't commit to going NC.
New York when the leaves change is probably one of the most amazing sights ever. I appreciate it every year
Gross new York is trash
I mean not defending the cheating wife for what she did,
but lie detectors can be very innacurate she is correct
Sounds like Mom was a cheating wife herself.
People real deal out here thinking that the people that are defending the original poster's cheating wife are also cheaters are so narrow-minded. Have any of y'all stopped to think that maybe the people defending the original posters cheating wife are people who got cheated on and are hating on the guy because it brings up uncomfortable fact that they should have left their own cheating spouse or significant other. There is also the undeniable fact that there are a lot of people who believe in the Hallmark BS about working things out, thick and thin and all that bull. Basically the people I'm talking about in that last bit are blue pill individuals.
There is missing alot in this story, from the original story.
I thinks we didn't miss any updates
Why was OP trying to call Jacket Holder?
I think i prefer the slow strolling video games instead of Minecraft.
This is just a phase don't worry they will be back😁😁
Is this in San Antonio TX?
Cheater's like to project
The stupid mine craft video is too dark my eyes hurt
Shouldn't have gone to the hospital