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  • čas přidán 1. 06. 2024
  • 00:00 1st story:
    I cut off my best friend because my wife told me to, I hate myself for it (u/throw_crappyfriend & u/NoArt7321, u/throw_crappyfriend in r/relationship_advice)
    18:37 2nd story:
    Am I wrong for not agreeing to become a SAHW when I retire? (u/Miserable-Mousse-637 in r/amiwrong)
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  • @Thaddius0
    @Thaddius0 Před 2 měsíci +300

    We didnt want our kids to know that there are people in the world who would neglect and abandon others. So we decided to neglect and abandon you as a response.

    • @LMCorvinus
      @LMCorvinus Před 2 měsíci +32

      that's exactly how I'm seeing that. what crappy people

  • @morganleanderblake678
    @morganleanderblake678 Před 2 měsíci +236

    wow... bro collectively and systematically shunned his best friend for having been ab*sed as a child.

    • @karinefonte516
      @karinefonte516 Před 2 měsíci +38

      So sad he started his adult life with a kind, but spineless friend who married a stuck-up woman and was taken into a cluster of shallow people. I understand his refusal to forgive, it's a defense against heartbreak. Those who suffer betrayal and abuse learn real quick to cut their emotional losses and avoid rebuilding bridges to people who might hurt them again.

  • @Gabreya
    @Gabreya Před 2 měsíci +106

    I don’t blame Scott at all for blocking his former best “friend” and other “friends” because they cut ties with him over his traumatic childhood and to appease the EXBFF’s wife. He doesn’t deserve to be treated like that and judged for something he has no control over. I hope he finds much better friends and does well in his life. Forget those fake, backstabbing “friends”.

    • @catsncrows
      @catsncrows Před měsícem +9

      Yes, you don't cut off someone who had an abusive childhood, they have a hard time forming trust in the first place. They'll slam the door shut and nail it close

  • @Only1199
    @Only1199 Před 2 měsíci +163

    St1
    He’s not sorry and he doesn’t love or care for his ex best friend and his wife isn’t sorry either.
    As for the friends, they’re cowards and sheep.

    • @karinefonte516
      @karinefonte516 Před 2 měsíci +16

      They followed those with deeper pockets - it didn't pass me by the info wife was raised into wealth.

    • @vanzy01
      @vanzy01 Před 2 měsíci +3

      💯👍🏿

    • @CG-yb6zj
      @CG-yb6zj Před 2 měsíci +13

      ​@karinefonte516 "She grew up in a happy family and didn't know how to act" But but, YOU grew up in a happy family and clearly knew how to show empathy for your (EX) Friend. What James means is that she grew up in an ELITEST family that had no sympathy for anyone they deemed 'beneath' them, or she'd have never even given James the time of day either if she thought the same of him. He's keen on leaving out the big details

    • @jackchop1576
      @jackchop1576 Před 2 měsíci +4

      He seems more concerned about looking bad rather than hurting his ex BFF.

  • @unquiettulip2925
    @unquiettulip2925 Před 2 měsíci +99

    1st Story: I’m sorry but dude what? You allowed your wife to convince you to cut off your friend because….he had a horrible childhood……what?! On top of that she was pleased with the outcome? She was pleased everyone cut him off. That’s how I knew it wasn’t cause of his past but because she wanted him gone

    • @ElleD308
      @ElleD308 Před 2 měsíci

      Wife sounds unhinged

  • @astrofan1993
    @astrofan1993 Před 2 měsíci +40

    Story 2: The is almost the basic plotline for The Remarried Empress webnovel and comic adaptation on Webtoon, which I discovered a week or so ago. Husband cheats on his wife, divorces her, tries to take her for everything, but she comes prepared, and she goes on to live her best life while the husband falls apart, both physically and mentally. And the affair partner doesn't fare much better, either. Call it poetic justice, call it schadenfreude, but I love it when karma strikes cheaters hard.

    • @infinitebananas8760
      @infinitebananas8760 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Holy shit it is like The Remarried Empress

    • @astrofan1993
      @astrofan1993 Před 2 měsíci

      @@infinitebananas8760 I know, right? As I said, I recently discovered the webcomic version, which you can find on Webtoon. I might also consider biting the bullet and buying the webnovel, although it will cost me about $100 to unlock all the chapters (both the main story and the side stories).
      They even compiled the webcomic version into paperback format (albeit with some slight differences from what you see on Webtoon, mainly in the translation, although I did notice some panels from the Webtoon version are missing in the paperback version, especially when we finally get to the part where Navier accepts her divorce from Sovieshu and asks to remarry Heinrey).
      They've released six volumes of the paperback version so far, which goes up to the end of Season 1 of the Webtoon version, where Navier escapes the Eastern Empire and makes it to the Western Kingdom. And the seventh volume is set to release in June.

    • @leazimridaniels8552
      @leazimridaniels8552 Před měsícem

      Could the remarried empress be based on a real life story? 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @infinitebananas8760
      @infinitebananas8760 Před měsícem +1

      @@leazimridaniels8552 I hope to god not 😭
      If there was a real life Rashta in history, I think I'd have several aneurysms

    • @Galadriealsring
      @Galadriealsring Před 11 dny

      Yes, exactly! I love the Remarried Empress.

  • @pamlew338
    @pamlew338 Před 2 měsíci +43

    Story 1 Scott is right for blocking all of you leave that poor man Scott you a champ for saying good bye to these toxic people live long and prosper

  • @Montyandrew45
    @Montyandrew45 Před 2 měsíci +30

    Man that opening on story 1, relate to that so much. I have always been there for others and then get discarded like I am nothing. Its why I feel like I have nothing

    • @jeanetteporter8114
      @jeanetteporter8114 Před 2 měsíci +2

      You do have people who will love and care about you and be there for you, those kind of people are out there just keep a slight guard up dont give so much of yourself when you meet people take it slow, hey some of us have been or are where you are guess what we will make it and you are something wonderful to this world

  • @peshivirginflower7
    @peshivirginflower7 Před 2 měsíci +60

    Bf n wife story: WOOOOW OP AINT SH*T N HIS WIFE IS LESS. Op dont qant to admit his wife n friends are bias bc they got money. Thats why it was easy for friends to choose op. Exbf is gonna have great life without toxic ppl in his life.

    • @Maninawig
      @Maninawig Před 2 měsíci +5

      I think what one person said sums it up nicely: so if your kids have friends in the system, you'll cut them out too?
      Honestly, I cannot imagine how being sheltered would lead his wife to shun No_Art. Only a hatred for people without parents.

  • @gostavoadolfos2023
    @gostavoadolfos2023 Před 2 měsíci +15

    This is freaking tragic 😢 his foster kid trauma is truly showing in every thought he shared.

  • @pearbear6418
    @pearbear6418 Před měsícem +7

    Story 1: Scott seems like he's the "friend" who everyone only contacts when they need something, but can easily be excluded during fun activities and that's why it was so easy to ice him out. Poor dude.

  • @unclelink
    @unclelink Před 2 měsíci +19

    Story 1: James Allen, As A Man Thinketh, "circumstances don't make you. They reveal you to yourself."
    Ex-friend and his wife showed their true colours. Once is enough.
    F all the way off!

  • @jessik1810
    @jessik1810 Před 22 dny +3

    The amount of serotonin I get from stories about bad people having their shit blowing up in their faces is unreal!! My meds coud never lmao

  • @Gabreya
    @Gabreya Před 2 měsíci +15

    The second OP/James from the first story who is the backstabbing “friend” is a POS. He and his equally POS of a wife aren’t really sorry. They’re sorry because of the bad consequences they are now suffering from due to their betrayal to Scott. I hope that Scott never allows them back into his life. He deserves so much better than TOXIC individuals like them and the others who also cut him off.

  • @wickesentertainment2377
    @wickesentertainment2377 Před 2 měsíci +40

    If the AP gets pregnant and announces that she is pregnant than OP should anonymously let the ex-husband’s AP know that the ex can’t have kids

    • @spheres0082
      @spheres0082 Před 2 měsíci +14

      Nah, best to just let them figure that out for themselves lol. OP should instead grab a bucket of popcorn

  • @AllmostLucy
    @AllmostLucy Před měsícem +7

    That first wife is a terrible person. Foster kids can be the best example for other kids how to be a good person even if you don't have parents. Like whaaaat

  • @PastorRapture
    @PastorRapture Před 2 měsíci +14

    Story 2: OP is an idiot who allowed his wife to control him and force him to cut him off because “if he told our prospective kids about his childhood, they might be sad, so he needs to be out of OP’s life”. People like OP are spineless floormats and OP’s wife is a monster and a narcissist. She needs to be divorced. Her reasoning is outright insane.

    • @leazimridaniels8552
      @leazimridaniels8552 Před měsícem +4

      Sweetie that's story one. Story 2 OP is a woman wanting to retire at 40

  • @FlamesAndShadows
    @FlamesAndShadows Před 12 dny +2

    I think, instead, people were implying that friend shot wife's advances down and she either out of spite of panic fabricated this excuse to make sure husband would never find out, or be easier to discredit and destroyed

  • @cherilynlarsen8104
    @cherilynlarsen8104 Před měsícem +3

    Wow, a group of immature shallow people shunning a young man who has done well for himself. Just another form abuse. I am so sorry for the former friend. Learn to swing dance, its fun, you meet a lot of people and good exercise.

  • @LODintheshadows
    @LODintheshadows Před 14 dny +2

    Fun fact, story 1, op's wife is in fact, a bad person, op ebe said she was happy all the friends abandoned a guy becasue he had a bad childhood and still grew up to be a good man. Op is a bad friend, and all his friends are bad friends. If they didn't want to have to choose who to invite to a thing, you cut off the couple making the unreasonable and stupid choice.

  • @joelinnen3132
    @joelinnen3132 Před měsícem +1

    Not the mom coming to the divorce party 32:32 🤣🤣🤣

  • @lesleygreen273
    @lesleygreen273 Před měsícem +1

    Hope you are doing ok, Scott.

  • @_juju_jojo_
    @_juju_jojo_ Před 2 měsíci +1

    Oh noooooo! Not another doormat😭😭😭

  • @Qbaby_3
    @Qbaby_3 Před měsícem

    Wow, they suck. There’s many reason to cut a friend off but being a foster child is not one of them. Their kids will turn out just as cruel and heartless as them.

  • @jeebanjeeban87
    @jeebanjeeban87 Před 11 dny

    the wife's reason has got to be the sh*ttiest I have heard from someone. Total teen level of pathetic.
    "I don't like you cause you have an awful childhood unlike me who grew up a princess with rainbows and sparkles and all perfect. so looonngg~~~!!" talk about not growing up past 13 yrs old.
    BFF did not lose anyone important. All those people - including the whole circle of friends - simply showed him who they really are.

  • @stephlevesque9972
    @stephlevesque9972 Před měsícem

    As someone who had that messed up childhood? Yea no. Thats ridiculous. Silver spoon people abused a good man for how he was tragically raised. His wife and all those friends clearly didnt like him and it shows with how fast the "friends" chose sides when they werent even involved.

  • @LA-ly1nt
    @LA-ly1nt Před měsícem

    A person who try to 'shield' their children from knowing, learning and taking lessons from any part of unsavory realities of life, is not qualified to be a parent. You should be nurturing, teaching and letting them explore under supervision, not controlling all variables.

  • @amyjames7760
    @amyjames7760 Před měsícem

    Wow! Your spouse sounds like a horrible disgusting person. Instead of taking inspiration from somebody who came from a rough childhood, your spouse has vilified somebody that you loved and that should have been a giant red flag for The op but apparently it wasn't. He just threw this long-term friend to the trash because his wife told him which means he has no spine. No loyalty.

  • @worlddomination92
    @worlddomination92 Před 14 dny

    It wasn't the easier option it was "which option would they benefit from" rich gurl or in the system boy. Yall have some nerve that you can't even come to terms with the right words of what you are. You choose people on value they can bring you materialistic/status wise instead of just another human and the value in their hearts, yall live in the hell you created for yourselves and leave the real ones alone. Snake behavior

  • @hennigadient4265
    @hennigadient4265 Před měsícem

    listening to the comments in the story. I ask myself - do they even read the howl text? ....

  • @erickaennis2738
    @erickaennis2738 Před 10 dny

    I don't get this stay at home spouse stuff. Especially in this economy. All I see is freeloader and financial burden. Get a cat or dog, it's cheaper with no drama.

  • @mrcheyn4341
    @mrcheyn4341 Před měsícem

    *wife needs an attitude adjustment

  • @user-xb1vz1fr1m
    @user-xb1vz1fr1m Před 2 měsíci +34

    Always Bros Before HOES

    • @Nicholem718-1
      @Nicholem718-1 Před 2 měsíci

      Not “always” but in this case, I have to agree. His wife is a dirtbag.

    • @9eishitasharma501
      @9eishitasharma501 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Normally,I wouldn't agree because your wife and kids should always come before your friends but this is a different scenario.

    • @user-xb1vz1fr1m
      @user-xb1vz1fr1m Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@9eishitasharma501 I didn't Say Wife and Kids Bro I said Hoo

    • @gostavoadolfos2023
      @gostavoadolfos2023 Před 2 měsíci

      @@9eishitasharma501 the ex best friend is the biggest hoe in this story.

  • @bowie3503
    @bowie3503 Před 24 dny

    Why do you keep saying "live" like that?

  • @jamesplayzreviews
    @jamesplayzreviews Před 26 dny

    Story 1: Maybe I'm just too forgiving but after some heartfelt apologies I would've take the ex-friends back in a heartbeat. I wouldn't call them best friends anymore but we could at least be friends until they earned the best friend spot back.

  • @stutikhanna987
    @stutikhanna987 Před měsícem

    One part makes me understand why wife initial thoughts were to cut Scott. This wasn't a correct decision but when you grow up in shelter environment you also want to make sure you're children grow in shelter environment too. Forgot about system i remember that this girl was SA by her own uncle in my school and whole class parents were telling us to not interact with her much. There thinking was that if we keep in contact with hwr closely we will get to know the deep things which are not good for children and some might even act on this. This is not correct but yes after growing up i have discussed this and this was the reasoning. In this case they should have talked to scott about not sharing very deep details about his childhood to traumatized children and rest was good to go😢

  • @MCWon212
    @MCWon212 Před 2 měsíci +1

    If you ever want to see how you should behave with regards to assets, prenups, etc. In a marriage, look at how women who have way more to lose engage. Cold and calculating as fuck. None of that "what's mine is yours" BS. 😂

  • @Fiery_Latina_Goatchan_GF_681
    @Fiery_Latina_Goatchan_GF_681 Před 2 měsíci +11

    Ya im buying this bull sh it story and the OP is the one that tried to steal from her husband 😂😂😂

    • @djosepha3963
      @djosepha3963 Před 2 měsíci

      You wanna be a chad so BAD LMAOO, and yall just misogynist.

    • @djosepha3963
      @djosepha3963 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Also hiding my comments won't work either-

    • @Fiery_Latina_Goatchan_GF_681
      @Fiery_Latina_Goatchan_GF_681 Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@djosepha3963 what do you even mean hiding comments?

    • @_junedays_1614
      @_junedays_1614 Před 2 měsíci

      What? Op’s husband is the one that secretly got a divorce attorney to take overturn a prenup.

    • @weeb_lurker
      @weeb_lurker Před 2 měsíci +3

      in the end, we wouldnt know anyway. whether she was telling the truth or not, the case has been resolved.