Delutional Girlfriend Physically Assaulted OP's Friend's Wife, Thinking OP Had Pregnant Her Only ...
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- čas přidán 17. 06. 2024
- 00:00 1st story:
My girlfriend hit my friends wife (u/OilAdministrative172 in r/TwoHotTakes)
18:36 2nd story:
AITA for looking into professional babysitter for my child? (u/hidinabottle in r/AmItheAsshole)
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I don’t get why people think there’s something “wrong” with the friend in Story 1. He just sounds like a very private person.
Exactly you don’t have to or need to tell your friends every aspect of your private life.
I can only assume it's coming from a if I was a Friend POV...
I mean I understand privacy and every friendship is different, but if you were to tell me you had a GF/Wife and been dating for years on end and didn't tell me then I wouldn't consider us friends and would assume we're acquaintance instead...
Those are the same people's who said if you got nothing to hide you don't need a lock or keep it for yourself, yet wen I told one of those about tables top rpg they got mad and told me to keep that nerd shit to my self
mUHHH.... It didnt fit my narrative so they must be bad is the new normal these days..
I agree, the friend sounds like a decent guy.
About half of Reddit is just nuts, lol.
Statistically, about 14% of the global population suffers some form of mental illness.
A disproportionate amount of them only have social interactions online because they've burned bridges with everyone in real life, so they flock to places like Reddit, Facebook, Twitter, etc.
And a lot of people project their own issues and insecurities.
OP's girlfriend was unhinged. Intrusive, paranoid, snooping / eavesdropping, was quick to jump to insane conclusions, and people having "privacy" is an afront to her very being. Given how casually Reddit suggests shit like snooping on a spouses devices or installing hidden cameras, calling out her bad behavior probably made some of them defensive, lol.
Story 1: woah woah woah! Gf assaulted bf's wife IN THEIR OWN HOME and thought she was the victim? Unhinged, should be in jail. Friend sounds like a typical introvert.
Story 2: prison time.
His friend is better than me. If my wife got assaulted by OP’s ex, she would have been missing teeth.
Not prison time. Death sentence.
That I was trying to understand. Like she got away with no punishment. And the fact that she gave no reason to just randomly punch his friends wife, that would be a break-up.
So the racist GF thought her BF had gotten the friend's wife pregnant and thought she was pregnant herself (seems she actually is?), felt betrayed and instead of being an adult she stewed, steamed and boiled over
This is not a potentially good mother or wife
The girlfriend in the first story is an absolute child. Had she simply been an adult and asked the op about the situation, all that could've been avoided. If your partner is not willing to communicate, the relationship will never last.
I know children who are more emotionally mature than this woman is. This woman is crazy. The fact that her response was to assault somebody makes her lacking in a lot more ways than one.
@@TiffWaffles absolutely agree!
@@TiffWaffles and yet... he's still with her and will probably marry her. It's insane how unhinged women like the GF find love and marriage while many good women are lonely
@@ElleD308 I can't fathom why he still chose to propose to her after all the unhinged things she did. OP honestly doesn't deserve our sympathy. I get the feeling he secretly enjoys the drama.
Story 1 - "I don't know what else I can do" DUMP HER. jeez. Is that really so hard to figure out? How is op so dumb he can't figure this out as the immediate solution. His girlfriend attacked a pregnant woman in HER home and in the end all she had to defend herself with was crocodile tears. She's crazy. I would have had her arrested and then begged and begged forgiveness from my best friend. I'm pretty sure the ex girlfriend was a racist but she's pregnant. How convenient. I hope op gets that kid dna tested.
I feel like OP is a drama queen. He secretly enjoys the drama.
In some case it can look like that but you don’t know if she mental ill
For second story:
That poor poor baby, please give her lots and lots of love so she could get pass this trauma.....those poor children 😔, I'm so glad you found out early and took her away from those monsters before things got alot worse.🥺😭😭😭😭😭💔
The second story makes one lose faith in decency of human beings. Ugh, you just cannot trust people
Right! And i don't think that commenter who told them it was their fault for leaving their child. People have to work. They were obviously closer friends. They probably never thought in a million years that their friends were so deprived.
@@oonachestnut509 yup. People will be surprised how even close family sometimes do shit like this. You can't always know what is in people's heart.
@@oonachestnut509 I just heard that comment as well. I'm sure OP's therapist is making her see that it wasn't her fault and not to feel too guilty about it. That she took care of it before it got even worse.
My heart breaks over op calling herself a horrible mother for not protecting her daughter or not resizing what her former friends were doing. Allison is only 1 so she couldn't really express what was happening to her and OP was friends with them for 15 years so it made sense for her to trust them
Right? I feel terrible for her as well. OP DID do something when she realized her daughter was coming home with rashes and then working around trying to take care of her herself. Personally, I think she would have gone to the doctor even if she had not posted to Reddit. She would have known the rashes were not normal. And I despise anyone who commented like that one comment about how it WAS OP's fault because she didn't realize what was happening. I'm sure her therapist is reassuring her that it was not her fault.
@@dementedqueen4392 oh absolutely
15 years of friendship...Holy fuck. I hope every user of that site ended up in prison.
Those were never friends. They were criminals targeting potential families of their victims.
The fact the 'friends' which aren't even the quiet guys friends play pranks that go to far i an 100% behind quiet guy hiding his very kind sounding wife.
Yeah everyone in that story but the wife who got assaulted and her husband sound awful
OP's girlfriend knowingly attacked a pregnant woman and played the victim... and for what? Also, the fact that OP says that his best friend who seem to have an unbreakable brotherly bond with him despises his girlfriend and never got on with her is very telling. I am willing to bet that the girlfriend was absolutely horrible to him and viewed his friendship with OP as creepy and inappropriate.
Maybe OP should sit down with his friend and ask him what he truly thought of his ex girlfriend because I am willing to bet that he's got a lot to say. Also... can I just say that the fact OP found creepy photographs of his friend on his ex's phone is weird.
Second story is a whole bag of nope. Too distrubing to even finish listening to the story.
I started thinking the other couple was being just neglectful, using allergic products or delaying diaper changing out of laziness, hence the rashes (baby skin is very delicate, you leave poop for too long it starts to erupt). But when it escalated to burns and then a pediatrician pointing out the worse... Yikes!
@@karinefonte516I was thinking a similar thing, since the couple at first struck me as people who were lazy and neglectful.
Yeah but we all need to hear it for awareness otherwise y'all could possibly react as slow as OP if such a thing ever happened.
Story 2: As a child, my dad never let us visit people, unless he or my mom were there, except for grandparents and single female relatives. As a kid, it sucked I couldn’t go to slumber parties, but as an adult, I get it, and I’m thankful to him. What happened to those children is horrible! I pray the children will be ok emotionally, physically and mentally.
My mom and dad were the same. Except we were a joint family, so they left us kids with his siblings and my grandparents. Long story short, one of our uncles molested me at 11-12 years of age and turns out have been doing this to my older sibling and cousins. And I personally was also molested by mom's sister's husband when we visited. I was an adolescent child back when it used to happen.
So no, I don't understand my parents not letting us go to have slumber parties or anyone's house, when we were already raised amongst wolves in sheep's clothing. When they never warned us about good touch bad touch and only reiterated stranger danger.
The problem is that statistically speaking children are far more likely to be abused by relatives and people they know than strangers or acquaintances
So you're fine with her acting like a petulant child up to her committing PHYSICAL ASSAULT?? OP may not have layed hands, but he's no better for allowing that and was DEFENDING her (gf at the time or not, she shouldn't have still been in the house). And what does it matter his friend didn't want people he doesn't know well knowing his business. It's HIS business. Let the man be private so long as it's not costing anyone lives. Her being preggo excuses nothing she attacked KNOWN pregnant woman and not sorry
Wow this sounds utterly horrendous.
You will be surprised
Did OP have a stroke writing that title?
Never, never, NEVER leave your baby with “friends”. I see not care how much you think they’re trustworthy. People will always surprise you. You can’t even trust family. What they did to that infant is disgusting.
SMH. I can’t with both of these OPs.
what did the first op do?
Nevermind
I don't know how I feel about the second OP... I just don't know how to feel about her.
Story 1, op is dumb as heII to want to work out a relationship,
With a woman who knowingly attacked a pregnant woman,
Like that's a hard no for me and besides why would op want someone like her to raise a child instead of co-parenting/ try to get main custody until she gets her sht together?!?
This woman has yet to see a therapist or some kind of professional help, after everything she's done, op should focusing on getting her help, instead of just shrugging everything that happened off op needs to start think of his unborn child, because that kid will be involved in this now too.,
Story 2, are you serious man?!? Ma'am if your kid has a weird rash why didn't you take her to doctor?!?
Like even if it wasn't from abuse, if your baby is having rashes out of nowhere take them to a doctor that's not some to shrug off they could be allergic to something that can get worse to point of something bad happening,
But this!!! This takes the cake!!Your so called friend and their partner was acting weird & dodgy yet,
you still let them near your kid and the rash wasn't going away but getting worse and still didn't take the kid to the doctor, and it took reddit strangers to half way scream and curse you out to realize this situation was shady?!?
Like wtf is wrong with these 2 ops in this video, did their common sense yeeted themselves out the window?!?
I mean, yeah. His "best friend" didn't even let him know that he was seeing someone seriously for a year. OP's got issues.
Dude was private about his love life so what
@@markkondilis9237 with a GF like that and how spineless he is... of course bf wouldn't tell him anything important that's happening with him 😂
I hate when I pregnant people.
Me too. Lol. And I'm a lady. Lol
Yeah me too. My husband pregnant me 6 times!🤣
My god, people like this are not take kindly to in prison.
I sincerely hope so. I don't expect them to have a single day of peace in there.
@@karinefonte516oh they wont. Predators that live more than a few days are ostracized inside the walls. No one wants anything to do with them.
They won't do so well in public either.
S1: People need to understand that a lot of conflicts in the world and families are dues to half eavesdropped conversation and conclusion jumping and the GF didn't even kniw much about the wife then either + the BF kept her a secret for over a year(which is not his fault but still to the GF it is) so OFC she was gonna jump to conclusions
so? that doesn't excuse the fact she out here assaulting people.
op was told not to tell her it's none of her business who dating who.
op sucks for wanting to make it work when she assulted her
@@HeoBaby24 yeah that’s what I said both of em suck and should not date each other
yes but that gives her no right i. the world to assault anyone u can have shotty conclusions u can have feeling but out right assault she’s lucky his friends were forgiving i would have personally filed assault charges
Nah. If the ex knew that OP’s best friend would have knocked her out for assault I guarantee you she acts different. It’s always hilarious that people that fly off at the handle emotionally NEVER try to assault anyone that they know can and will beat their ass.
Friends' secrecy supersedes the girlfriend's feelings. That changes if she becomes his wife of course.
Even then--why the hell would a spouse be entitled to the relationship status of their other spouse's friend? It's a weird thing to get upset about or start a fight over.
@@FullMoonOctoberit wierd to be entitled for the information. But it mire that when married both people are oathed to be one. So no secrets, nor privacy between each other. It should be two against the universe. So in that case if married and OP hid the secret for 3 years ut could be seen as an issue.
@@ARcinder You're not meant to share other people's secrets, oaths or no. If you are trusted enough to be told something that doesn't effect anyone else, than it's not yours to tell. That's basic human decency.
wtf so they were making CP with the kids in story 2???
It sounds like it.
The "Good News", the story is likely fake.
There was 4 months between the first post and "They will be sentenced next week"... Not a chance. There was no evidence tying the "friends" to the child's injuries explicitly, so police would not have been granted a warrant that easily unless they were already investigating from one of the other children involved.
Also trials take a long time. 18 months minimum for something like this, even with a confession. Let's assume they confessed and were offered a plea deal and chose to plead guilty immediately... (unlikely considering the probable charges), that could move things through court faster, but still not THAT fast. No prosecutor dealing with someone who is making child content like that is going to offer any deals at all without going through discovery and actually looking at all the evidence. Discovery in most states is 21 days. And it doesn't start until the other side has retained a defense attorney, been arraigned, both sides agree to a schedule (which they'll try to push back for as long as they can), and sentencing is often put off for 30-90 days after the verdict, due to court scheduling, to give the judge time to review all sentencing guidelines, and to let tempers cool a bit before a sentence is handed out. It just looks better for the judge if some time has elapsed so they can't be accused of making an irrational decision based on their personal feelings about the case. That's not always true in these cases, but it is common. A lot depends on the state as that can impact timelines dramatically, but I'm being pretty conservative in my estimates here.
I don't see an initial report, a police investigation, the raising of charges, an arraignment, discovery, a plea or verdict and sentencing happening in such a case in just 4 months. Military tribunals don't move that fast. This is most likely a work of fiction.
Maybe? Or based on the chemical burns, they might have been hurting the children for sick fucks watching the site. It makes me sick.
S1: the moment girlfriend insulted the wife's accent told me enough about her. Drop her and find someone better.
S2: chemical burns on a baby? Yeah I agree with the dad, those two are lucky the police got to them first.
And I'm kinda naive too, OP had to mention "lubricant" for me to understand how sick the whole thing was.
@@karinefonte516 I was the same, I was thinking they were using essential oils or something crackpot homegrown methods to cure diaper rash. Hearing they were making CP was not the jump I was expecting.
@@RylieRiddle Honestly would've went with a them on a trip and just tell everyone that they decided not to come back.
@@mazenrukhsar2914 that's a paper trial, never leave a paper trial.
@@karinefonte516I at first thought that they were just being neglectful caretakers which might’ve explained the rash because they didn’t change their diaper and why it wasn’t healing because they were neglectful. Given what it turned out to be, I really wished this was the case because my god I was just as thrown off.
Regardless I still think OP deserved all the hate she got and more because even me who’s slow would’ve immediately taken the child to a doctor because rashes don’t just appear like that and it’d be confirmation they’re at least sh*tty caretakers. Not to mention the crying and whaling that OP heard from her daughter anytime she had to change her diaper which even OP said would break her heart to hear each time. I’m sorry but at that point I’d know something must’ve been up and immediately because there’d be only 2 things it can be, that they’re in an immense amount of pain physically or mentally, like where the f*ck was OP’s common sense and instinct to protect her child the minute she heard her child whaling and crying in an usual way and having rashes to go along with it?
I hope OP can be a better mother in the future because my god that is something she can never really live down and I’m pretty pissed at the nerve OP had to be with it’s in the past, because this is the kind of thing that can scar a child for life.
I remember reading this on Reddit. It still enrages me that Tom and Skylar had the sheer audacity to call Allison's parents "evil".
Story 2 holy shit holy shit holy shit
Jealousy with a dash of racism is a delightful mix... it sure is😂😂😂
Story 1: Get that woman some therapy! She needs to think rationally!
I learned the stranger-danger lesson from Treehouse back when they played shorts with Tansy, the purple guy, and the other girl (can't remember her name, she was the tomboy of the two). An actual police officer was on the short.
Honestly stranger danger isn't that useful- these people were OP's decade+ long friends.
What the fuck is happening on that gameplay?
Run , she cra cra.
If my girlfriend punched one of my friends and would refuse to explain why she would be an ex Because I get it fights happen even to good people. But if you can't be bothered to give me a good legitimate and truthful explanation its buh bye
Story 1: OP's girlfriend had to be rich, gorgeous, and/or a total mink in the sack because there is nothing else to recommend her.
the fact that the GF starts playing the victim in story, i would have said "oh no you can't play the victim now you punched a pregnant woman out of nowhere no one is ganging up on you."
also the pregnant assumption was a dumb misunderstanding
OP is weak and pathetic in the first story. He's going to lose all of his friends because he's choosing his abusive, racist girlfriend over them. Hope he loves this woman because she's getting what she wants and that is to get OP all on his own so that he doesn't have his friends to back him up.
Also, OP better make sure that this is his biological child he's excited for because the fact that she attacked another woman who happened to be pregnant and accused her of being impregnated by OP is very telling.
Story 2: my jaw fucking dropped when the cause of the baby's rash was. And stayed on the floor as it kept going. PRISON.
I relate to the friend in S1. I've been friends with my best friend for almost 20 yrs now when we met in Freshmen year of high school. if my gf acted like that to him and his wife in their home, I would force her to apologize and then break up with her to show I do not condone crazy behavior. being pregnant does not excuse assaulting others
Is this girlfriend jealous? Weird
Your girlfirend is clearly in love with your friend
1st story it's not the gfs business who someone else is dating
People be too trusting with their kids man
Anyone else immediately go look up the book mentioned at the end in comments. Its in my Amazon cart already.
Story 1: what do they want op to do, force her in to terminating. He’s going to be tied to her for the next 18 years, and he doesn’t have to be in a relationship to raise a kid.
he needs a dna test
Im confused, Isn't his friend's wife Pregnant, and the Ex-GF thinks that the baby is OP's even though it was his friend's?
Oh, so it seems like the Ex-gf got pregnant??? something does not feel right about this story.
@@rogueninja4719 OP's friend's wife is pregnant and asked OP to help her surprise the friend with that info. OP's girlfriend overheard them talking and her mind made it into OP got the wife pregnant. That post ends with OP finding out his girlfriend was pregnant at the time and stressed from finding that out made her think OP was cheating. So in the end, the friend's wife is pregnant as well as OP's ex-girlfriend.
@@rogueninja4719 towards the end of the story op finds out his ex is also pregnant.
She gets upset with OP for not telling her something he just found out about and proceeds to start a brutal fight for no reason. Women......😂
Most of us don't do this s***.
@@rnbsteenstar yeah the pew research center would beg to differ on that. You and your friend circle is irrelevant if not negated in the grand scheme of the overall populous. You're just wrong and using oneself as a determining factor for anecdotal statements, while not untrue is a fallacy in of itself. Fact is there's more women that do horrible $#!t than women who do not. Guys are lucky all she is annoying. She could be ( most likely is; you can't be 'strong' and 'independent' otherwise) a serial cheater or a black widow and as a boyfriend and or husband you'd be f#¢£ed. We are more than just our money. We're not your emotional punching bags. We are people too. We are human beings too. Point is more women do way worse than just this than women who do not. I just read a reddit story where a woman took the initiative to cut off her friends because they kept trying to convince her to go clubbing without her husband and sleep with random people. How many stories outside of a pre woke Disney universe ends like that? Not very many. And sadly way more women would've just went along with her slime friends and cheated on her husband than women who wouldn't. What you said just isn't correct at all, and there's simply too much evidence to prove otherwise.
Story 1, maybe im a naive empath but i wanna know why gf hit friend's wife but i judge if TA or NTA. Just because i feel like not the whole story is there.
OPs, girlfriend is from the US "but is Irish". No, she's American and has Irish ancestors. That's not Irish
..story 1 is just such a weeeeeeeird friend group. Like. Really, three years with zero contact between girlfriend and the friend group? That sounds horrible, to me. Just in general, not in a specific way, just generally insanely off.
Regardless, OP should absolutely have dumped GF already.
Story 1: A look at the headline and WTF did i just read?
You kept it sectret?for what reason? Your gf sounds petty,jealous,and completely racist!!!you should run far and fast
Op 1 said they werent getting back together
Don't marry someone just because they're pregnant!
Being pregnant doesn't change the kind of person they are
If they were mean and paranoid before, they're gonna be like that during the marriage regardless of the kids being there
It's so ridiculous.
Honestly i don't care if someone's life is ruined after they do stuff to destroy it
That's not your problem
😂 this is why feelings are not facts. Important yes for not factual your girlfriend is an idiot. She made an assumption and now karma.
First story sounds like an AI story
*7!*
It sounds like the girlfriend was jealous of his best friends wife.
What does OP mean
The grammar is painful
15:30 Traditional parents don't ask their kids to get abortions.
Oh you'd be shocked by how many "good Christians" have forced their daughters to get abortions.
I went to school with many girls that got pregnant in high school and their parents made them get abortions or leave.
Their dads were all preachers, deacons, etc.
Idk about other religions but Christians in the USA are hypocrisy incarnate.
I'm confused is his wife pregnant or is the friends wife pregnant? Or are they both pregnant?
Who is pregnant?
OP is an idiot. Co-parenting, fine. But getting back into a relationship with her? Yikes. Also, I hope he has the good sense to get a paternity test.
Agreed, why the actual f would you want to stay with the girl who flat out punched your long-time best friend's PREGNANT wife in the face all because of a "misunderstanding"? I wouldn't even be surprised if this woman ends up becoming physically abusive to OP
story 2: so OP's child literally was RA@#@ ?!?!?!
I NEVER UNDERSTAND HOW PARENTS COULD LEAVE THEIR CHILDREN WITH SOMEONE WITHOUT LIVE FEEDING CAMERAS
What word are you trying to spell
Your comment id insane for a multitude of reasons
@@jacobbakos3140 give me 1
Every single one of your comments in these videos is absolutely derranged.
@@VRDejaVu how so
Omg that poor baby. Parents are not to blame here. They never knew their friends were predators. I've babysat my friends kids for free. Of course I'm not a predator and I was a stay at home mom.
First story is a b*tch to follow, OP is a terrible storyteller
Kuwait ?? isn't it a Muslim country where the relationship before marriage is haram?
It sounds like OP is currently living in the US and he may not be a Muslim
@@trashotaku good point
This is the parents fault. A holes!
Story 1: as an American, yeah that’s how most of them are. That’s why you’re seeing American men actually looking for well valued woman. A woman can make a man’s worth.
omg can redditors not read? pls read the howl story before commenting it is soo annoying!
Like are you stupid to comment "bla bla bla you will destroy the kids life being together with her"
while he littarly said the arent together anymore -.-
Op found out his ex-gf was pregnant and wanted to get back together and even marry her
Wait what 1 year old needs therapy
well for starters they definitely just meant therapy for the parents but also therapy is useful as soon as you begin being able to speak esepcially with the type of trauma she underwent
"Tell me a little about yourself" "aaauuugggogooogaaaga"
@@user-bj8rk4rj7w there’s play therapy for kids who can’t speak that child was more then likely sexually assaulted ….
Did you not hear how the 1 year old was assaulted? And the therapy is more for her fear of the diaper change, because that's where her pain was coming from.
The 1 year old was abused, it's not gonna be talk therapy, at least not yet probably. My assumption is that it will likely just be routinely re-training her to know that being changed isn't going to lead to something bad, and she won't be hurt again. Lots of reassurance and just being put back in the mindset that she is safe.
You need to write these stories better. Half the time, i dont know what's going on.
You should not keep things from your gf and you should have defended her. What is it with weak, spineless men not defending their women?!
His friend is a very private person.
The GF told his business to complete strangers and caused a lot of unneeded drama and stress for him
People have the right to privacy.
They're not married. They weren't married, just dating.
That's a huge difference.
He's not spineless for protecting his friends privacy.
@@michelewalburn4376even if you are married, you still have the right to privacy. Privacy is exclusively sharing with your loved ones, while secrecy is withholding everything from your loved ones.
Story 2- I think the biggest red flag 🚩 would have been NO CHILD CARE PAYMENT. 🫤
The next red flag 🚩 DIAPER RASHES
To be fair i used to take care of my friends kids for free when they looked stressed , i wanted a buddy who wouldn’t complain about randomly going to the zoo or wherever or just wanted to bond with them. And it was for consecutive days sometimes. Just requested their baby bag stocked the carseats and stroller.
My alarm bell was the op saying main caretaker was the working from home guy. Either Friend was leaving child to him being irresponsible or something was off for HIM to be main caretaker. But tornado sirens at overnight visits. Diaper rash went in with friend being irresponsible and he didn’t have the time to immediately go attend to child , because he’s working. I hope those kids are ok.
As long as your girl understands that she was still totally in the wrong and goes to your friend on her hands and knees apologizing. If they can forgive her then you can forgive her because as ridiculous as it was it was a misunderstanding and one which interestingly enough could have been avoided had she asked🤣🤣🤣🤣