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  • čas přidán 31. 05. 2024
  • 00:00 1st story:
    AITA For Not Giving Into My Sisters "Simple Request" At The Cost Of My Niece/Nephew? (u/No-Yogurtcloset-3187 and u/Equivalent_Yam_1924)
    09:05 2nd story:
    SIL (38f) insisted on immediate commitment for our (42f, 45m) and kids (15f, 12m, 10m, 8f) “jobs” at her wedding, and wouldn’t wait for 3 days for my dying mother’s cancer test results.(u/Familiar-kinfolk629 in r/Marriage)
    17:21 3rd story:
    AITAH for leaving my wife over a computer? (u/No_Payment4096 in r/AITAH)
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  • @AraAra6367
    @AraAra6367 Před 2 měsíci +189

    threatening to abort your kid bc you can’t fit into your dress is seriously insane logic..

  • @jmarie9997
    @jmarie9997 Před 2 měsíci +207

    Don't let her blackmail you. She will hold it hostage for the rest of your life. Block them all.

  • @Buldogg345
    @Buldogg345 Před 2 měsíci +243

    Story 1: OMG, this was some next-level manipulation. "Give me your dress or I'll abort my baby." Again wondering why would God give children to people like these.

    • @tatkkyo9911
      @tatkkyo9911 Před 2 měsíci +8

      The world is a crazy place.

    • @hgfggjhg
      @hgfggjhg Před 2 měsíci +26

      because there is no god

    • @ReverseRslash
      @ReverseRslash Před 2 měsíci +2

      Or even real stories

    • @BPJD2004
      @BPJD2004 Před 2 měsíci +14

      ​@@hgfggjhg There is a God, you just don't want to acknowledge or admit it.

    • @oz-sixx1622
      @oz-sixx1622 Před 2 měsíci +3

      lol yeah god gave her the baby😂

  • @annnichols3091
    @annnichols3091 Před 2 měsíci +95

    If that's the reason the sister wants to get an abortion, she's not fit to be a mother.

  • @W0lfscythe
    @W0lfscythe Před 2 měsíci +112

    Story 1: Lucy burnt so many bridges over a dress she wasn't entitled to.

  • @lindah3803
    @lindah3803 Před 2 měsíci +91

    I've known a few women that terminated. Each had their reasons. To young,to poor or had medical reasons
    (dangerous for them to carry a child or had hereditary conditions that ran in the family). None of them terminated over a dress. Well at least the fiance got to see just how psychotic his gal and MIL are.

    • @TiffWaffles
      @TiffWaffles Před 2 měsíci +5

      One of my friends always has to take a genetics test every time she finds out she's pregnant because she has something in her genes that can be passed on to her baby that would make that baby die an excruciating painful death minutes or hours after birth. Another couple of my friends wanted their babies only to have something happen where they needed an abortion and they were in emotional pain over it because they wanted their babies.
      This woman had an abortion because of a hissy fit over not getting what she wanted? Insane...

  • @avian1971
    @avian1971 Před 2 měsíci +23

    136 lbs is considered fat? Mad times, mad times.

    • @mycrushisapotato2741
      @mycrushisapotato2741 Před měsícem +1

      I am 84 lbs and my family constantly calls me fat 💀

    • @averypinkpigmii
      @averypinkpigmii Před 14 dny

      ​@@mycrushisapotato2741nah wtf

    • @natashamathews6182
      @natashamathews6182 Před 13 dny

      ​@@mycrushisapotato2741 Jesus Christ are they blind or smth? Unless you're like 3feet, you're definitely not fat 💀
      Infact you're quite underweight

    • @mycrushisapotato2741
      @mycrushisapotato2741 Před 13 dny

      @@natashamathews6182
      I am 5'11 🗣️💯⚡

  • @zerofate9669
    @zerofate9669 Před 2 měsíci +48

    Story 1 omg this woman is evil and heartless beyond. She literally used her unborn baby as a bargaining chip to get a dress, a fking dress, fabric to wear for ONE DAY. She even denied to her fiance just to make op look insane but fell when word got out by fiance himself. Like, wtf were you even thinking woman. You literally just ended so many relationships with not just your fiance, but your entire family and step family and in laws. Was the dress really worth being shunned and outcast? Was it worth it?
    Entitled Women I tell ya. Never cease to amaze me with the level of entitlement and how far they are willing to go for the most simplest or stupidest things that arent even worth it.

  • @Miniperi.1032
    @Miniperi.1032 Před 2 měsíci +27

    Story 1: NTA, Lucy thinks OP being child free makes unable to judge parenting?
    You know who makes an awful parent? Someone who considers abortion to fit into a dress.
    There are legit reasons for abortion, fitting into your clothes aint one of them.

    • @harleyquinn5774
      @harleyquinn5774 Před 2 měsíci

      Actually the sister tried to blackmail OP into giving up her dress or else she would get an abortion.

    • @devid.7511
      @devid.7511 Před 2 měsíci

      ANY reason for abortion is valid. If she don't want the fetus, she don't. She is not forced to go through pregnancy. Periodt

  • @sashahagerty-lebron7034
    @sashahagerty-lebron7034 Před 2 měsíci +34

    Story 2: my response would have been “if you need an immediate answer about what we can do for your wedding the answer is: Nothing!” and then I would have hung up. Definitely do not go to that wedding

  • @jakcspellgoodful
    @jakcspellgoodful Před 2 měsíci +13

    Story three it's depressing no one called it abuse which it was.

  • @susanking9033
    @susanking9033 Před 2 měsíci +23

    Story two. My children and I will not be at your wedding and will do absolutely nothing for you

  • @robertosborn9910
    @robertosborn9910 Před měsícem +2

    Double majored in Aerospace Engineering and Theater?
    I gotta say that made me laugh and i don't know why.

  • @mill2712
    @mill2712 Před 2 měsíci +12

    5:18 in story 1
    Assuming her religious father is Christian (Though this is probably similar in other religions too), infidelity is absolutely a just cause to divorce someone.

    • @arianebolt1575
      @arianebolt1575 Před 2 měsíci +1

      In the church of Reddit, infidelity is a mortal sin.

  • @savannahyde9925
    @savannahyde9925 Před 2 měsíci +10

    holy shit, this woman really used this child who has not even taken in her first light of the world for a damned dress!

  • @pitviper2
    @pitviper2 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Story 1: That's one of the stupidest ultimatums I've ever heard; "GIVE ME WHAT I WANT OR ELSE I'LL ABORT MY BABY AND IT WILL BE ALL YOUR. FAULT", Seriously? No way in hell i would let someone emotionally blackmail me like that..I would say "Listen lady, what you do with your own body is 100% your decision, but I'm damn sure not going to feel any guilt or responsibility for it, and over a mf'ing dress??? You got some screws loose.."

  • @trashotaku
    @trashotaku Před měsícem +2

    I absolutely hate the people that try to public peer-pressure someone into doing something using the "announces other person has decided to do something despite said person never once agreeing to it but by saying no in front of others they'd look like a massive POS" thing

  • @Queen-Blue
    @Queen-Blue Před měsícem +1

    #2. NTA!!!
    Don't attend and sever ties with her!!!

  • @taraaldrich5955
    @taraaldrich5955 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Story 1: The sister is awful. She's using the termination to manipulate and get her way. OP should not give the sister her dress. It's HER dress! Sister doesn't deserve children, and BIL should RUN! Yes, it's the sister's choice, but she doesn't get to use her choice to abuse people.

  • @Rjeda30
    @Rjeda30 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Wait 136 lbs is fat? Jesus I must be a whale! If OP keeps sister and stepmother in her life be prepared for this nonsense to continue and worsen. This immaturity here is dangerous. Lucy is not ready to be anyone’s mother or wife.

  • @annnichols3091
    @annnichols3091 Před 2 měsíci +6

    Tell the sticky-fingered wife that you'll prosecute for theft. Wait, now the in-laws sceme suggests it's divorce time.

  • @queenrhubarb1676
    @queenrhubarb1676 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Some people should just really never be parents.

  • @cherilynlarsen8104
    @cherilynlarsen8104 Před měsícem +1

    Why would anyone think its okay to borrow a wedding dress? That is special to the individual who bought it. If the dress is damaged or stained, are they going to shrug and say, "Too bad so sad"?

  • @mellenneephillipe9611
    @mellenneephillipe9611 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Block them now! NTA sister is sick as hell

  • @francinetitherington4060
    @francinetitherington4060 Před měsícem +1

    1) I hope to heck the OP and Fiance DID elope and took her dress and got married in one of those nicer places in Las Vegas, stayed in a strip Suite atvthe Paris facing the Bellagio fountains and had a fabulous time.

  • @virtualatheist
    @virtualatheist Před 2 měsíci +3

    Erm... She talks about a mother's love after deciding to kill a child because of a... dress?

  • @nataliereeves3594
    @nataliereeves3594 Před měsícem +1

    If you let her get away with it once, she will use the kid against you for the rest of your life. When the babie is born, contact cps.

  • @trashotaku
    @trashotaku Před měsícem

    This is like an even more psychologically effed up version of "I'm going to SH/end myself because of you" emotional manipulation

  • @trashotaku
    @trashotaku Před měsícem +1

    Imaging growing up knowing that you were nearly unalived in the womb by your own mother over a freaking dress

  • @NessieNice
    @NessieNice Před 22 dny

    "Give me your dress or I'll abort my baby"
    "Oh that's too bad, anyway..."

  • @francessweeney2308
    @francessweeney2308 Před měsícem

    Emma almost got her brother arrested for felony theft. A gaming set worth $1500 takes it felony level. She would be prosecuted as well. It's not worth, the text on the IPAD shows conspiracy to commit the crime; the prosecutor is going to love it! Especially with the of taking his stuff and giving it to family; that's handling stolen goods; another felony. Her family could be done for receiving stolen goods. That's 2 years in prison for each family member and only be if the Prosecution was in a happy mood!
    Emma would have been struck off as a social worker because of a criminal record and never be allowed to work in any profession involving children or vulnerable adults.
    She will have an exciting career cleaning .

  • @francessweeney2308
    @francessweeney2308 Před měsícem

    If the dress wasn't even ready, how can she have it? It was very stupid to assume that you could have it before it's even ready. There are thrift stores that have dresses for those who don't have alot of money.
    There was no need for this .

  • @toriladybird511
    @toriladybird511 Před měsícem

    Stepmother can do one.
    Shes THE PROBLEM and her Lucy is an issue because her SM encouraged it.

  • @arhanchayan9335
    @arhanchayan9335 Před měsícem +1

    to all of these that don't believe in divorce just don't get married

  • @user-ce4ww4kj5i
    @user-ce4ww4kj5i Před 16 hodinami

    finally minecraft in the back

  • @Sum-kj8jo
    @Sum-kj8jo Před 2 měsíci +1

    She blocked them first

  • @wandahaines7143
    @wandahaines7143 Před měsícem

    What is sad, if this is actually true, is that someday the child( if she has it) will find out how little her mother really wanted/love her.

  • @RoonMian
    @RoonMian Před 2 měsíci +2

    I hope so much this is just a creative writing exercise.

  • @malindacombs8609
    @malindacombs8609 Před měsícem

    I hope OP loses sister contact because who does that? Sister will just constantly up the anti if OP gives on on this

  • @OfficialMageHD
    @OfficialMageHD Před 2 měsíci +1

    "he told her that it was over and that if she did go through with the abortion, he would send the text, call log, and a copy of the abortion clinic paperwork to everyone they knew and would be fighting for full custody of the baby once it arrived."
    Ummm... He does know that if she goes through with it there wont be a baby for him to try and get custody of, right?

    • @honeybee3019
      @honeybee3019 Před 2 měsíci +2

      I think he was telling her what he was going to do depending on her choice.
      If she has an abortion, he’s going to tell everyone and give proof. If she decides to carry the baby to term and give birth, he will fight for full custody because it’s clear to see she will only use the child as a bargaining chip to get whatever she wants instead of seeing it as an actual human being with thoughts and emotions separate from her.
      He’s not an idiot, the OP was just missing a comma to divide the actions.

    • @shells500tutubo
      @shells500tutubo Před měsícem

      @@honeybee3019 Where would that comma be? It would take a few words of explanation to make that clear.

  • @nonexistent8999
    @nonexistent8999 Před 2 měsíci +2

    What's CF, guys?

  • @cameron765
    @cameron765 Před 2 měsíci +8

    Isn't it frustrating how some individuals who opt for abortion are fully aware of the risks associated with being careless in their relationships, yet they remain indifferent until they find themselves expecting a child? Instead of taking responsibility, they choose to act selfishly by terminating a life. Despite the emotional trauma that many women experience after undergoing an abortion, they often continue to advocate for it, overlooking the potential consequences for other women

    • @carmenplangger9417
      @carmenplangger9417 Před 2 měsíci +3

      What about the life long emotional trauma of having a child concerned under bad circumstances? And the trauma to a child that is unwanted and resented?
      You have to pick the most extreme cases to argue why abortion is bad. Someone threatening to end a wanted pregnancy over a dress, is absolutely not the norm.

    • @carmenplangger9417
      @carmenplangger9417 Před 2 měsíci

      Conceived, not concerned

    • @cameron765
      @cameron765 Před 2 měsíci

      @@carmenplangger9417
      1. I don't understand. I have never used the story as an example to support my argument on abortion.
      2. It's true that some women may find giving birth traumatic, but it's not the experience for most women. I won't justify abortion by citing the minority who face such challenges.
      3. Another argument often brought up is quite absurd. The majority of people who have children, even in difficult circumstances, do not end up resenting or disliking their kids. It's the minority who feel this way. Why do some people use extreme cases to justify their arguments?

    • @sharkyman4195
      @sharkyman4195 Před 2 měsíci

      terminating a POTENTAL life. you care more about fetuses then living people bud. and the whole "Despite the emotional trauma that many women experience after undergoing an abortion" they only get that from the harassment to comes from "Pro-lifers".

    • @toriladybird511
      @toriladybird511 Před měsícem +1

      I HAD 4 LIVE BIRTHS
      I HAD FIVE MISCARRIAGES
      I NEARLY HAD TO HAVE AN ABORTION OR more correctly it would be a Medical termination of a non viable pregnancy.
      Most abortion are done via a couple of pills.
      Not a operation.
      Your opinion on the trauma of birth and loss means nothing to me because I KNOW what childbirth is like I know what carring a child is like I know what loosing a child is like
      I at 52 NEED A MOBILITY scooter because OF HAVING CHILDREN MY BODY GOT DESTROYED.

  • @user-hz8iv9fh5r
    @user-hz8iv9fh5r Před měsícem +1

    Abortion is murder no matter what.

    • @shells500tutubo
      @shells500tutubo Před měsícem

      You know that the medical term for a miscarriage is a spontaneous ABORTION, right? You know that if the baby died during the pregnancy and the dead fetus needs to be removed it's called and ABORTION, right? You know that when there is an ectopic pregnancy, meaning the embryo is stuck in the fallopian tube and has to be removed, technically it is an ABORTION, even though that embryo cannot survive, right?
      There are many instances where the removal of a fetus is not murder because it is already dead. It is still called abortion, so do not state as fact that which you do not understand.

  • @trentberry6968
    @trentberry6968 Před měsícem

    Anyone find it interesting how women will say its okay but need years of therapy after one?

    • @toriladybird511
      @toriladybird511 Před měsícem +1

      You act like it's always a choice cause its an unwanted child.
      There can be dozens of reasons.
      I nearly needed one as I miscarriage but didn't pass.
      That's AN ABORTION it's traumatic and horrific.
      It can be the result of SA, age, health of mother, non viability of the fetus.
      It can be pressure to abort even if the mother WANTS to have the baby.
      So PERHAPS try empathy not judgement.
      I survived my miscarriage It killed my marriage instead.

    • @trentberry6968
      @trentberry6968 Před měsícem

      @@toriladybird511 sounds like you are still going thru it.

  • @hashakahwantstorepent.4176
    @hashakahwantstorepent.4176 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Abortion is a kin to murder and no one can deny that .

    • @harleyquinn5774
      @harleyquinn5774 Před 2 měsíci +10

      Fetuses are not babies. 🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @QueenSunstar
      @QueenSunstar Před 2 měsíci +13

      Ask yourself if you are okay telling a young female family member suffering from deadly pregnancy complications that you rather she die instead.
      Now look at your youngest teen female family member. Can you tell her you care more about the ticking time bomb in her uterus instead of her life?
      Would you force your ten year old family member to give birth, even though it will be fatal to her?
      If you say yes to any of these, you are a waste of oxygen and space.
      If you say no to these, then congrats! You understand why abortion is sometimes needed!
      Also, what programs do you pay into to help the new mother and baby?
      None? You are forced birth, not pro life.

    • @hashakahwantstorepent.4176
      @hashakahwantstorepent.4176 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@QueenSunstar if you cant handle birth dont get pregnant . that easy .we have modern medicine for that now . amd who the fuck gets pregnant at 10 ? if she was raped then she shouldve acted asap instead of hiding it . and to answer your last question , my taxes as well as everyones taxes goes into funding public school / hospitals and transport . its not my fault your goverment is beyond corrupt that your taxes gets sucked into some rich billionares

    • @GereldJohnson
      @GereldJohnson Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@harleyquinn5774if that's the case, why are some states trying to get child support for women that have just gotten pregnant?

    • @highlyopinionated5611
      @highlyopinionated5611 Před 2 měsíci +1

      ​@@harleyquinn5774 Dehumanizing a developing human being to justify your argument won't help you win your case.