‘I Was Rich And Gorgeous, Now I’m Just Broke And Fat’
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- čas přidán 11. 01. 2018
- A woman says she used to have it all -- fancy cars, huge home, lavish vacations -- and now she says she's estranged from her husband and children, and "broke and fat."
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Why I can't find the whole episode??
Will do
Her husband seems so much more happy
Now all he needs is a good woman to share his new life with
Livin his best life 🙌
He was probably stressed out and drained living a soulless corporate existence and wanted a simpler life. It sounds like she’s incredibly materialistic and would’ve preferred he be miserable as long as she had her louboutins. He can clearly still support his children so there’s no shame in changing careers. Notice how she refers to her former self as rich when it wasn’t even her wealth. Her husband did well for himself and she let it go to her head that she deserved all the finer things in life and that he was obligated to foot the bill. I’m sure he’s still making a considerable income she was just upset she had to cut down on her spending. Marijuana growing is extremely lucrative but she lost her nannies and refused to be a mother while he started up his new business. He had every right to cut her off she’s extremely entitled and ungrateful.
no one wants PotHead hross Gross
Maybe it's the cannabis 😉
With the pandemic she isn't the only one broke and fat 😂
Yes
True🤭
I have to say that comment gave me quite the chuckle :)
TRUE 🤣😂😂😂
🙈🙊😂
“he sells cannabis- he’s a legal drug dealer” and then 2 seconds later “i’m an alcoholic” 🤦🏼♂️
lol, exactly
Omg that gave me a laugh 😆
So she thinks he's basically a drug dealer and is disgusted by that yet she also chooses to abuse alcohol...what 😂
Marijuana is a lot safer then alcohol is! I started using hemp oil every night. An eye dropper full. I'm 68 years old. My age spots have all completely vanished. My skin looks 10 years younger I've lost 30 pounds. Without even trying. Get yourself some it's a miracle worker.
She abuses an infinitely WORSE Drug, Alcohol. When was the last time you saw and Intervention (TV show level) for weed vs Alcohol (countless)
"He can't just not give me money! I'm his wife!"
Are your legs broken? Go out and get a job, princess
Thank you 👏🏼 👏🏼 👏🏼
Periodt 🙌
Exactly!!
A wife shld b d person who is wth u no mattr if u r rich/broke or sick.....dats wht is marriage... D bond of life....u shld support him encourage him....b wth him one day God will reward u...
Best advice!
Its clear her husband once loved her but he doesnt anymore because he realizes she never loved him. Was just in love with his pockets. Hes clearly heartbroken about it now that he knows who is wife truly is. The pain in his voice when he says that she lost her desire to be a mother, that poor husband and two kids. Shame on the wife
Exactly,,,what are shameful lady..She can't listen to what she was saying 😂🤦
I don't know why he's saying lost her desire to be a mother. They had nannies lol.
She had an emotional and mental breakdown it was to overwhelming remember the wall street crash people jumped because overnight their comfortable live was over its the worst thing that could ever happen her husband ripped the rug up from her obviously she is just as devastated he caused her to spiral downhill it's kinda like a betrayal to her I never relied on no man for finances but As an Empath I can truly see her pain and change of autonomy her life fell completely apart overnight man but she needs to dig herself up out of this hole she is co dependant and her drink addiction is a pointer to that she feels like he ruined her life even though he's also a healer it's a difficult situation for them and the kids the lot of it is a complete mindfuck for everyone involved Im Probably going to be Nailed to the cross for saying this but Human Trauma is very complex for each individual it is a different scenario because the mind is a powerful force and your emotions are also a very powerful force like water it can be difficult terrain for each individual I hope they all find healing its sad for everyone involved
@@monicamonteparte2049 lost any desire to 'pretend' to be a mother now that they're not rich. Yup she seems to be a gold digger and this is just her getting what she deserves.
Honestly I feel sorry for her poor kids. Their mother cares more about shopping and living the rich lifestyle than she cares about them.
I made an observation:
WHen she was describing her old life , it was all porche , good dresses , vacation places , etc. Basically all materialistic things.
Not once did she say how her quality of life was .
Some people are so poor , all they have is money.
Thankfully they often lose the undeserved money also.
Some people are very rich, they just don't have food to eat & home to live.
@@thenoisyneighbour spiritual wealth is far more admirable. I am trying to gain spiritual, well not *wealth* but value, so to speak.
I don't mind having that kinda money. I'd rather cry in a proche
money really improves the quality of your life.
"I am a completely rich to raggs story" no... your husband was the one with the money... you just like to spent it
Well a lot of wealthy people inherit the money that makes them rich. So they didn’t have to work for it per say.
@@delaneyreyes8995More than 70% of millionaires received no inheritance and are self made. Of the rest of them, very few (like 3%) received an inheritance of more than 100,000 which is nothing in some states especially if you have student loan debt and the fact that there is inheritance tax. Most rich people did not inherit their money, they work for it, on average working a minimum of 60-80 hours a week. Please don't disregard people's hard work and spread misinformation.
@@lcako1616 They benefit from generational wealth- growing up in nice neighborhoods, going to nice schools, and having parents invested in their educations.
@@meepmoop2308 did you not read anything he just said?
@@meepmoop2308 78% of millionaires started middle class or poorer only 22% started in the upper class. I repeat. Please stop spreading misinformation.
This is what happens when you completely depend on someone financially
No. This is what happens when this woman is stupid. 700K ? why not save for future.
I mean being a housewife is a bad strategic move. Literally power corrupts people and you literally have 0 financial agency. Recipe for disaster
Yes! 💯! Tough lesson to learn, but one should always have something set aside for themselves. In life change generally happens without warning. Having a plan is so key to being okay, no matter what.
@@nataliabae3149 being a housewife is a realy good idea, and being a glamerous housewife that eats up the mans money and makes drama when the money is gone, is also a good idea for a divorse, why not just support her husband, he has income and wont let you hunger, you dont need to blame him for not having a porsche
No this is what happens when your a gold digger period
This is why a woman should be financially independent no matter how rich her husband or father is.
🙌
Too much work for a lot of (not all) them. They don’t raise men up, they wait at the finish line and f the winners
Edit: I say again, from an eligible straight modern men, NOT ALL of our counterparts but enough to not want to try anymore
Yes!!!💯!! She should be working right now! Being that she's living at home (probably not paying rent) she could save so much! There's so many jobs available exp now...I will never understand how anyone could not want to be financially independent?! It's a great feeling to be able to pay your own bills & look around & have pride in that your hard work has gotten you where you are..
I agree! She feels So Entitled and Self-Centered! She not high up on her Pedistal anymore! He's happier with his New job. Not near as much work nor time
Facts. People who say that women should just stay at home are selfish narcissists
Steve is living his best life with his cannabis farm. Being a corporate lawyer must have been extremely stressful, but his wife can’t even be happy that he enjoys his new job and seems so much happier.
Cause she doesn’t care about him
I'm sure it was a shock to her when he said he was quitting his job. It would he for anybody. However, when they married, they vowed in sickness & in health, good times & in bad, rich or for poor.
I love how she says “I’m his wife.”
Didn’t you guys separate??
Separated, but not divorced yet probably.
Seperated means not divorced. Meaning she is still his wife, not that hard to comprehend.
Separated = not divorced.
Her husband didnt wanna be a corporate lawyer and he switches to cannabis lawyer and that's why she says shes broke and fat? That's her own frickin fault.
how is him quitting his job her fault?
I work as a waitress in this town , and she probably got big from going to restaurants all day , while her husband was out working. That’s what they do in that town
@@Butterfly22593 how is her predicament his fault? She's an adult and fully equipped to get a job and lose weight...or is equality taking a break from this story?
If she’s not working why can’t she cook and clean and take care of her own kids!!!!
Typical western woman.
@@toddpacker7058 Okay bud 😂
She was too busy shopping.
bc that's what the nanny was for. Without her nanny, she couldn't "spend her days shopping".
We all know stay-at-home moms who actually take care of their kids and household don't have time for that.
Because she's too drunk and doesn't care enough about them.
"I really need Steve to help me out financially"
Dear, a marriage is made up of two people, not one.
My neighbor told his daughters, "NEVER depend on a man for your income." Neither of them do.
“I would spend my days going shopping”
*I wonder how she got broke* ?
I love how she says that she divorced him and then says “he needs to financially support me”
They’re not divorced, they’re separated
@@awilliams7796 what does that even mean?
@@kawaiicrazy9184 they’re still legally married
She is definitely a gold digger, considering she remembers everything when they were together
A successful lawyer quit his job to be in the marijuana industry? Give that man a medal 🏅
He honestly probably wasnt that happy and the stress for that kind of job must be high. Besides, there is money to be made from weed 😂
I 100% admire this guy for doing what makes him happy. Golddiggers have their prime and when they let themselves go, they get tossed out with the trash.
What he did wasn't admirable. I'm all for doing what makes you happy but your family shouldn't have to suffer. The fact that they lost everything after he quit shows that he didn't think about how his decision would effect his family
At least you WERE RICH. Most people around the world never experience luxury even just for a moment.
Exactly and all those vacations
Yup!
She's probably still not even doing that bad compared to most of us.
Closest I thing I've had to luxury is being in Lake Huron at night in summer, a free 5 minute professional massage, pedicures, and swimming in my parents' pool at night alone. Not all on the same day of course, but doing those things felt good. Didn't cost much, but I still enjoyed those things. I'm poor, and I know I'll always be poor. I'll never be able to own a house or buy a brand new car, instead, I'll always be renting a place and driving a beater that could breakdown for good at any time.
"He's basically dealing drugs."
She'd be 100% fine with his career if it had brought her more money. She's exactly the kind of woman who gives women a bad name.
I feel so bad for the ex-husband because he really deserves better, I think he wanted to quit his job just to pursue a career he wants, and also because he is raising two of his children by himself and doing everything by himself while his lazy ex-wife is an alcoholic, bratty, lazy, and a gold digger who just doesn't like working and doesn't even help him with the children and she is mooching on her parents now, she really needs to get a life and help
Did he just say he owns a legal cannabis business?
Like whaaa.....
She needs to smoke so she can complain less
He spent his fortune on hard drugs
Right lol can I be his wife?!
@@aggroboi96 weed is hard drugs??? Jesus where do you live, under a rock?
@@tabora_ China does not approve of use of hard drugs including Cannabis
Greed is the killer of a marriage humble yourself you can't take it with you when you die your grave the day you pass will always still be the same size.
True character comes out right in the face of a genuine adversity.
the entitlement of this woman. i cannot. "oh I was rich, because I was pretty enough for a rich man to provide for me". free ride's over lady. that's the price you pay for not building your own independence.
She needs someone to play a tiny violin for her. 🎻
This is literally the evolution of the Karen. The end of the morph is actually an overweight middle aged washed up has been wine mom who is finished raising her kids even though they aren’t grown up yet.
Not the evolution of the Karen 😭
Funny observation. But it's the evolution of a flawed woman letting herself go.
Honestly the Karen disgusts me. This evolution makes me smile and feel less self conscious about my butt odor. I can live with this evolution becoming the norm.
@@oftones 😂
If they've separated and he's taking care of their children then why does she feel entitled to any of his money?
Women like this just demonstrate that men are mostly around for security and what they can offer financially. Love is a fairy tale.
Women like that demonstrate that some people are trash but that does mean you can't find a good partner. Love is hard work and self sacrifice.
As judge Judy would say “GET A JOB”
I read this in her voice 😭
She completely let herself go. She looks like a entirely different person. It's extremely hard to financially support someone that you are not attracted to. If l was him I'd move on with my life and let her figure things out for herself.
He did
Her wight gain happened after the divorce
Ummm...you should support your spouse NO MATTER WHAT!! My husband decided to quit his job because it was literally killing him. He is now raising and breeding fish (think koi, goldfish, etc). I support him NO MATTER WHAT! He is so much happier! It is stressful at times, but worth it for our family.
They should have just downsized to a cozy home, get rid of the help (gardeners and nannies) and start a few businesses with the sale of the house.
He did! 👍🏽
Yes together
Who's they
“We separated a while ago.”
“He can’t just cut me off, I’m his wife!”
*Make it make sense*
Ahh, what a strong Independent woman.
"We decided to separate"
10 seconds later: "he cut me off, he can't do that im his wife"
I tell you what to do...get a job...work hard....you will lose weight and earn money.
How does she eat so much when she is broke. That greedy woman probably eats a tub of ice cream per night while millions of a children in India and Indonesia have never even had a scoop of ice cream in their entire lives as child laborers.
I know money isn’t the most important thing but damn I feel bad for her lol if I was living the high life and I went broke I’d be sad af about it too.
This why I love living so frugal with money in my pockets. I love budgeting and all my hobbies are free. She can turn this all around :)
The title alone made me LOL 😂
He can’t cut me off I’m his wife!
Honey, you were his wife and he absolutely can and he did.
She is a terrible person. Leave your husband when he pursues a career he wants, refuses to work yourself, quits being a parent, and then expects her ex to pay for her.
She should have gotten a doctorate and started a couple of businesses while the money was flowing. I don't feel sorry for her, I'm happy for him.
Oh look another spoiled Westport Connecticut housewife who’s husband got sick of her spending all his hard earned money
Lmao yep. I work in this town as a waitress and Christ these people are snobs . Sounds like the typical story in that town
@@Ashley-jx7sw that sucks. Hopefully you find somewhere better to live 🙏
@@mikewazowski2338 lol I don’t live in that town, but I do make a ton of money off these people. But I confirm from my experience all they do is drink and go to restaurants on their free time while theirs husbands are out owning their own business
@@Ashley-jx7sw oh ok lol. Do u at least get big tips there?
@@mikewazowski2338 yes. Martha Stewart actually frequents the restaurant, but I am not even surprised this lady has this type of mindset. Most of them do around there.
Little piece of reality for her. Her husband was rich, not her. She divorced her husband, lost her nannies that took care of the kids, and misses her time of lavish shopping trips.
If she would have some accountability for her actions she could change her life. See the nanny being gone as a blessing, nurture and care for her kids, take care of herself (diet, exercise, perhaps education) she’s had nothing but free time and did nothing productive with that time. Hence why she moved in with her parents because she has never worked for a living, and she wasn’t even looking after the kids during that time. Just ridiculous entitlement in that marriage.
No wonder it’s a 180 with him out of the picture.
Living above your means and hoarding money for frivolous things is disgusting.
is this a glitch in the system? wth the comments are never on
@@thisiskindofdumbbut5462 that’s creepy🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️
@@thisiskindofdumbbut5462 *i continue running away from you because your weird and I don’t know you* 🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️
@@thisiskindofdumbbut5462 *stops running and punches you in the face* no you creep leave me tf alone🤜🏼😫
@@thisiskindofdumbbut5462 and i decided to walk on outside cuz I was so bored and exhausted just staying in my house whole day but it was almost midnight even tho it was almost midnight I decided to walk outside and I started to walk outside and I walk like for almost 1 hour and right now im like 3 kms far from my house , suddenly I saw a woman keeping running after punching a creepy tall guy but suddenly a Bus hit her..BOOM she dead 🏃🏼♀️🚌...I shocked 😧
When you pretend to be rich and you're living off debt, lol.
She's been so spoiled. Now it's time to look after your self. So get on with it. No one will help, but you.
Could be a Blessing in Disguise to remember love and humbleness
Why can’t she work too? You can’t expect your hubby you’ve separated from to pay for you still?
“We separated”
“I’m his wife”
the title: me after i spend all my check on food
She’s depressed. I hope she will find her way back.
She can by getting a job.
And go on a diet obviously
If your focused on the past and it seems hers was ego..That has to be acknowledged before she can move forward...
This is why I wanna become wealthy myself so I don’t end up dependent on a man and destroying his heart like this woman did.
LMAOO, I keep ordering doordash since I've been in quarantine so, I feel the title😤😂
Poor decision lady you had it made be kind always
I'm laughing at how she said Louboutin
Lmao get a job tf
🤣
It wasn't the designer clothes that made her look good. It was being fit and a healthy weight.
Sounds like she spent his money as fast as he could earn it. Really rich people don't wear their money, they hide it and invest it.
I love this kind of people. “I had everything, nice cars, beautiful body,…” Okay, you had a Porsche. But you still don’t know how to pronounce it 🤦🏻♀️
I have to wonder what ever happened to peoples wedding vows??? For richer for poorer 🤯🤯🤯 sadly I've never had the privilege to say wedding vows but what I see are to many people getting married for the wedding notbthe beautiful vows they promise to each other what a shame. And if I had a beautiful wedding but the vows ment nothing I'd never go through with it. For me its all and has always been about the vows yet here I am at 45 still never married and single for 11 years lol 😆 by choice the single part so please no pity happily single 😊 😄 😀
You know even if you love somebody- give them everything including a beautiful wedding and love and care for them - thru breast cancer twice I might add still means nothing to some people - soon as the money goes so do they .... 🤷♂️ a hard and expensive lesson
That's a clear case of liking him and her life because of the " 700k a year". He wanted something else to be happy.
He legally sells weed, just others legally sell alcohol. She just tries to portray him as a bad person because he didn't provide 700K a year anymore.
Good for him! Be happy with what you do, while doing things legal. Be with someone who cares more about you than the status, money, shallow nonsense.
A guess, his business provided him over 100k but that was not good enough for her. She doesn't care about the legal drug trade, only about the money.
God will not be mocked this is what happens there is always pride before a fall hello
This is what you do: go on a diet, get a full time job, go to the gym and get on with living your life.
Woe is me. I can’t drive a Porsche anymore. I need to drink myself under the table to deal with the pain. 😭😭😭
She left him because he wasn’t making enough money to support her lifestyle with HIS money while she does nothing and blames it all on him? He deserves better, money isn’t important in a marriage. She needs to get off the victim train
Face it, you're a deadbeat. Do something! Try losing some weight! As you get older, your body changes and with women, processing food can be a real problem. If you're depressed and drinking or satisfying the food cravings you just make it worse. I started eating one large meal a day with a light meal or snack in the late afternoon. It was only hard for a couple of days but I did not deny myself any foods I liked. The result? I lost about 100 pounds and went from a size 16 to a size 8. Get some hobbies. If you feel you aren't good at anything try some paint by number kits or cross stitch kits. The idea is to keep busy. Do you recall when using the left side of the brain was a big thing? Well, it works. When you're painting or working on something arts and crafty, time flies by without you even noticing it and you don't think of food or how life has played a dirty trick on you! It's up to you to change your life. Forget you're former life and don't wait for someone else to help you. Do something!
She looks younger with the weight
I guess... Bloatmaxxing fills in the wrinkles.
no she doesn't
being fat makes you look younger
Wow I wasn’t expecting her to look *THAT* different.
It's so telling that when she talks about her life before the divorce she really only mentions all of her expensive items and vacations while she barely mentions her own kids
You need to get serious psychological help and find something you like to do that makes money, or take care of your children. Maybe that's why you went on Dr. Phil. That's a good start. Hope you are moving in a more positive direction again. Best wishes to you.
That's a whole different person.
“He cut me off, he can’t do that” BRO
" I was rich..."
Sweety he worked for that money while you were out shopping and basically doing nothing. Maybe if you had made the effort to start working yourself you wouldn't be in this position now.
She clearly never really loved him, she loved the money.
"LABUUTOUNS" 🤣😂🤣
Ladies, be independent and make your own money so you don’t fall into messes like this
She deflects her responsibility on to everyone else.
She was broke on the inside before being broke on the outside!
0:38 “labootans”?
"we decided to separate"
when Steve doesn't give her money "he can't stop giving me money I'm his wife" ???
Stop feeling sorry for yourself and put your life back together. It will be hard but you can do it. One day at a time.
He was under stress I'm sure it was his job that did that to him now he seems much happier crazy how money don't buy true happiness
I love happy endings 💅🏼
I don't know why but this makes me extremely happy.
"In my past I've had some issues w drinking"
Ma'am you're slurring your words right now.
0:38 the way she pronounced “Louis Vuitton”
Pretty sure she was talking about shoes therefore she mispronounced Louboutin.
@@kerimapresident6866 i see you cultured queen
Sounded like "Lava Tans" to me
She meant Louboutins like Christian Louboutin heels. AKA red bottoms
If I had a husband like that, I'd save and invest. Nevertheless, whatever circumstance you are in or who you are with, saving money or being cautious about your expenses would help you in the long run.
Totally unrecognizable.
this just tells you when you have money,. saved it, put some aside, invest and don't make a big purchase!
The title strikes me right in the depression. Literally my life after graduating from college.
When you think getting married is about rich
Now you know divorce is about lost the money and your lifestyle then being fat also
So sad ending
Practicing law can be soul draining...
This title and thumbnail has got to be the funniest thing I've ever seen.
Private school are just a waste of money
(Own opinion)
Who just quits a $700,000 job to own a cannabis business????!!!!!!
Being a corporate lawyer is extremely stressful and hard
Not a high flying professional I guess?
Right! I would of been working that job until i died 😂
The title described me af 😭😭
I’ve been broke n was in great shape it’s a mindset gotta get that mind right doll
He cAnT nOt GiVe mE hIs mOnEy iM hIs wiFe