our 7 tips for surviving long distance

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  • čas přidán 1. 08. 2020
  • long distance is hard as heck so if you’re doing it right now, you have our love! we literally only lasted 6 months before Sufi decided to move across the country, but we did pick up some tips & we hope they help you guys out too.
    Find us on Instagram: @anjalichakra & @sufi.sun
    Twitter: @anj3llyfish & @sufisun7
    and TikTok: @anjalichakra & @sufisun
    Video description for the visually impaired:
    Two women sit side by side on a bed covered in white bedding. The woman on the left of the frame, Sufi, has chin-length blue hair, and wears a white collared shirt with silhouettes embroidered onto it. The woman to the right of the frame, Anjali, has wavy black hair pinned up on one side, and wears an emerald green long sleeved button up shirt. Behind them to the left, there is a bookshelf with books, plants, and a reading light on it. Directly behind them, there is a neon sign that reads “love” in Arabic. Behind them to the right is a nightstand with a gold lamp with a white lampshade on top of it, and a frame with license plate cuttings that read “A♥S 07•20•18”. Above that, on the wall, is a wooden framed illustration of a woman with dark skin in a bathrobe reading a newspaper, and next to it, a gold framed embroidery of a woman sitting on the ground looking away into the distance.

Komentáře • 666

  • @thefakejet6261
    @thefakejet6261 Před 4 lety +512

    i’m single but i’m still gonna watch this because y’all cute af 🥺

  • @shivanisisodiaa
    @shivanisisodiaa Před 4 lety +301

    I like the way they look at each other 😍😍

  • @sowmyar2912
    @sowmyar2912 Před 4 lety +61

    Sufi looks soo cute in that hair color🥺

  • @cplummerr
    @cplummerr Před 4 lety +4

    I love when people talk about ldr's in a creative, honest way. no romanticizing literally missing your person 24/7 for me, please. we intentionally fall asleep over facetime, like, every night... there's something really comforting about hearing sleepy sounds or the rustle of sheets. before we were long distance, we were both quite busy with work, and coming back and showering and snuggling in bed was our moment to reconnect, so I think that has something to do with it. :)
    also, because apparently I'm writing an essay in these comments today, one thing that has greatly benefited us in our LDR is that we decided beforehand that we would not break up while apart. obviously, this is a financially feasible thing for us because we see each other a little less than once a month, but it took off a TON of stress in our moments of conflict. I recommend it, as it's allowed us to show our imperfections and be vulnerable without fear that the other will immediately leave, and confronting conflict is made easier (bc at least for me it's harder when apart to do so) when the fear that maybe it will end in a breakup is gone. luckily, we have never had to use that agreement, but even still, we've talked about how it's added a layer of safety to distance, which feels tumultuous at times.
    thank u for coming to my tiny ted talk hahah

    • @cplummerr
      @cplummerr Před 4 lety

      Nisha Kumari 😂 unfortunately

  • @whalienreader1261
    @whalienreader1261 Před 4 lety +111

    Omg my girlfriend and I are in a long distance relationship 😭😭

  • @dramaticallysane
    @dramaticallysane Před 4 lety +41

    i'm so glad for both of you. Your energies are just so beautiful and the way to complement each other is amazing. Keep being yourselves and inspiring other young people

  • @aaku15
    @aaku15 Před 4 lety +102

    She lives with her parents, i live with mine. Sending stuff is like 100 questions and lies. And due to covid, can’t even meet now. :(

  • @kingtracyy7775
    @kingtracyy7775 Před 4 lety +12

    4:30 the way anjali looks at sufi omg i love them

  • @shrutithukrul6607
    @shrutithukrul6607 Před 4 lety +128

    Me and my girlfriend are also in a long distance relationship for the past 6months. She lives in canada while I live in india. I just wanted to say that she's the best girlfriend I can ever get. And I just wanted to say sorry to her for the silly mistakes I do. But babe I love you alot and I promise to love you and support you always ♥️. Also, lots of love to you guys. 😘

    • @jessiesandhu8615
      @jessiesandhu8615 Před 4 lety +34

      Babe!! Don’t say sorry and it’s not silly, it’s cute💕 I am blessed to have you 💕

    • @shrutithukrul6607
      @shrutithukrul6607 Před 4 lety +6

      @@newtrendstroll3973 we met on instagram

    • @rutujaajadhav
      @rutujaajadhav Před 4 lety +7

      Aww.. good luck to you guys! Happy for you❤️✌️💪

    • @shrutithukrul6607
      @shrutithukrul6607 Před 4 lety +2

      @@rutujaajadhav thanks🥰

    • @shrutithukrul6607
      @shrutithukrul6607 Před 4 lety +2

      @@newtrendstroll3973 thank you so much😊

  • @fatmaezzahra5239
    @fatmaezzahra5239 Před 4 lety +26

    I m in a LDR , me and my gf like to spend hours talking on the phone and falling asleep while doing so , we like to play games and watch movies while talking and making comments about it on the phone 😊

  • @rin8500
    @rin8500 Před 4 lety +5

    I literally love that you both exist! I dont want to live in a universe without Sufi & Anjali ;(

  • @bautistaleila
    @bautistaleila Před 4 lety +4

    omg very helpful! My girlfriend and i are in a long distance relationship and we’re doing all that except syncing calendar because her work schedule is constantly changing. So, rn we’re just trying our best to communicate in every way possible. Thank you so much sufi and anj!

  • @cinnamonteeth
    @cinnamonteeth Před 4 lety +1

    these are such helpful tips...like actually really good ways to cope with a long distance relationship and not make things go downhill. also falling asleep during facetime is super common not to mention it's great when you wake up to see the other person sleeping hehe not in a creepy way i just love her.

  • @TheStoutMoms
    @TheStoutMoms Před 4 lety +2

    That had to be super hard! Glad you made it work!

  • @vaishalipatel9677
    @vaishalipatel9677 Před 4 lety +29

    Singing a petition for their videos to be of at least 30 mins 🥺🥺 can't get enough of you people in 8 mins . I am obsessing bad over you two! 💟💟💟

    • @techno4267
      @techno4267 Před 3 lety +1

      Me too.. nd the way they kiss each other with the softness 😁💌♥️much love them... my first obsession was tea but currently they are 🙉♥️💌

    • @vaishalipatel9677
      @vaishalipatel9677 Před 3 lety +1

      @@techno4267 same thing same!

    • @moushamilata7619
      @moushamilata7619 Před 3 lety

      Hi dear

  • @linaghosh1996
    @linaghosh1996 Před 4 lety +9

    Many of us accept our originality because of you gyz...
    So lots and lots love from INDIA , KOLKATA..❤❤🌻🌻

  • @JocelynLuizzi
    @JocelynLuizzi Před 4 lety +1

    y'all are so cute! my gf and i have been in an ldr for a year (with at least one more year to go) and these tips are spot on. especially communication, that's SOOOO important

  • @SJ-gt3cn
    @SJ-gt3cn Před 4 lety +5

    thank you so much for this. you guys make me feel so confident to be me❤️

  • @suhailalalani
    @suhailalalani Před 3 lety +1

    It is soooo heart warming to see you guys together. Best of luck!

  • @dannikaundomiel6244
    @dannikaundomiel6244 Před 3 lety +1

    you both make my heart so happy 💗💗 I was in an LDR for 6 years and these tips resonate so much! especially sending care packages and organizing your schedule!

  • @spverma1006
    @spverma1006 Před 4 lety +3

    Great example of freedom of expression, choice and preference. Orthodox people will get jealous of your love and bonding. Love from India. 👩‍❤️‍👩❤️

  • @kanchan_reads
    @kanchan_reads Před 4 lety +6

    I feel like with this whole lock down situation and not being able to see each other, it sorta feels like long distance

  • @Mana-lb3kp
    @Mana-lb3kp Před 4 lety +3

    Intense and vibrant !! U both 💛💙

  • @mandyb5167
    @mandyb5167 Před 4 lety +7

    Y'all are so dang pretty I just immediately have to 'like' without even watching yet. 💕

  • @sandhyathapa5089
    @sandhyathapa5089 Před 4 lety +24

    Damn, i like the way Anjali stare at sufi
    Literally you two made by day ❣️
    Sending you both love and virtual hug i hope you feel them :)

  • @bsktballchic97
    @bsktballchic97 Před 4 lety +6

    been with my partner for five years now, this last year being long distance (lima and california). 16 seasons of grey's anatomy can go a long way.

  • @kearafernandes4176
    @kearafernandes4176 Před 4 lety

    This is probably the most realistic way of surviving long distance. Communication is key, so I couldn't agree more. And tip number seven,, DEFINITELY works. You guys are amazing!💙

  • @kallakerai7783
    @kallakerai7783 Před 4 lety +1

    Whoa the way Anjali looks at Sufi the entire vlog that love they have is so pure 😍

  • @oroobabomokh4746
    @oroobabomokh4746 Před 4 lety +1

    omg the light in the background in arabic is soooo beautiful 😻😻😻

  • @explorewithradhika3235
    @explorewithradhika3235 Před 4 lety +1

    We love you sufianjali😘😍 finally new video!!😍
    We always wait for your videos!!
    Thankyou for making our day special😀

  • @ghadao9530
    @ghadao9530 Před 2 lety

    the led neon sign on the wall “حب” is so beautiful 😍

  • @noone-jb7cu
    @noone-jb7cu Před 3 lety

    I love it that it's possible to see your love for each other through your eyes 🥺🥺 so cuuutteee

  • @barashadas2081
    @barashadas2081 Před 4 lety +2

    Blue haired Sufi ...awww Anj di u did great with Sufi di's hair .... love you both cuties ❣️

  • @denisemercado4742
    @denisemercado4742 Před 4 lety +5

    I love you ladies! You guys are relationship goals ❤️

  • @alishagupta4939
    @alishagupta4939 Před 4 lety +2

    Wish you guys all the happiness & love..u guys are made for each other..love to see you both together.

  • @bandanasingh6034
    @bandanasingh6034 Před 4 lety +1

    You guys are awesome and lockdown demanded these tips 🤗 Love you guys 😊

  • @nethulamahewa5515
    @nethulamahewa5515 Před 4 lety +1

    you guys are the cuuteesst . luv yall!!

  • @vaishalipatel9677
    @vaishalipatel9677 Před 4 lety +1

    Such cute stuff out here! You guys talk so effortlessly! Makes my heart melt!

  • @aashmikabarman4531
    @aashmikabarman4531 Před 3 lety +1

    y’all should post more bloopers, last scene was so cute

  • @rin8500
    @rin8500 Před 4 lety

    Okay but I'm rlly gonna send this to someone who needs it bc.. she needs to hear this

  • @pranjalibagul8604
    @pranjalibagul8604 Před 4 lety +5

    Omg I have been in Long distance relationship for 5 yrs now and we're going strong. Touchwood.

    • @ritikjain7949
      @ritikjain7949 Před 3 lety

      👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩

  • @mayurimajumder7087
    @mayurimajumder7087 Před 4 lety +3

    OMG!! This two sweethearts makes my day happy....❤️❤️😘😘

  • @joychakraborty9310
    @joychakraborty9310 Před 4 lety +7

    I was just waiting for this notification from the day I saw your story lots of love from India

  • @cristina-uz3nd
    @cristina-uz3nd Před 4 lety +11

    aww the bloopers at the end were so cute 🥺

  • @vaishnavibadrinath5801
    @vaishnavibadrinath5801 Před 4 lety +48

    We're still waiting for anjali's coming out story! Sufi's was rlly inspiring :)

    • @mazvitaselemani
      @mazvitaselemani Před 3 lety +3

      Anjali said it was no big deal in ome of the q and a's. I think she mentioned that she didn't even "come out" come out. She brought Sufi home and her family liked her instantly

    • @deepshikhasharma9112
      @deepshikhasharma9112 Před 3 lety

      Hey vaishnavi

  • @ridhimapandey2280
    @ridhimapandey2280 Před 3 lety

    Two Beautiful soul In The World.....God Bless U

  • @Sarah2ill
    @Sarah2ill Před 4 lety

    So grateful to be apart of this video! Thanks for using my music!!

  • @sushi072
    @sushi072 Před 4 lety

    Was waiting for this ❤️. Sending lots of love for u both.

  • @pamelasherpa7648
    @pamelasherpa7648 Před 4 lety +1

    Loving Sufi's new hair color

  • @avantinagral
    @avantinagral Před 4 lety

    love these tips lovelies!!! 💜💖

  • @jahnvipala9178
    @jahnvipala9178 Před 4 lety +136

    Love from India

  • @user-ph8uv3qj8b
    @user-ph8uv3qj8b Před 4 lety +2

    I love that ending 😂
    Love you both!

  • @nightskystars0762
    @nightskystars0762 Před 4 lety +1

    I'm so happy I'm earlyy!!!! Love you guys!!! Thank you so much for posting you made my day!!!You both are the most beautiful!!!❤️💕❤️💕❤️💕

  • @anukritikandpal
    @anukritikandpal Před 4 lety +12

    A soo much needed video right now😍😍

  • @anamikadas1077
    @anamikadas1077 Před 4 lety +11

    Ideal couple🤩... like others me and my girlfriend also want to make our relationship like you😄😘 love you from India 😘

  • @aparnasaha7229
    @aparnasaha7229 Před 4 lety +19

    Sufi is giving me the vibe of Blue is the warmest colour. 💙

  • @bismita_chutia
    @bismita_chutia Před 4 lety

    Your every tiny little efforts during LDR were so sweet!
    Reminds me of this pickup line👉🏼 "I wish you are my artery...coz I don't want my efforts to go in vein"😝

  • @BrittanyIngraham
    @BrittanyIngraham Před 4 lety +4

    I’m in a LDR. 💁🏽‍♀️☺️ I live in Cali & my girlfriend lives in New York. I am hoping to see her very soon. 😍 Her & I stay falling asleep on FaceTime/phone call. Ahah. I love ordering her gifts & I love when she orders me food. 🙈 I honestly believe that communication is key 🔑 in an LDR. Also, I love you guys & share your videos with my girlfriend. Like this one. It was much needed!! 💓💓

  • @valeerie2487
    @valeerie2487 Před 3 lety

    They're just both so stunning! 😍💕💖

  • @bhagyaa637
    @bhagyaa637 Před 4 lety

    i literally wait for my notification icon to pop out the names sufi and anjali !
    love your videos (can't wait for the next one) and loooots of love from India.

  • @astorsmith6583
    @astorsmith6583 Před 4 lety

    It was such a nice surprise 💕💕 to get your video all of a sudden....made my day ♥️♥️🤗

  • @cosmossszz1648
    @cosmossszz1648 Před 4 lety

    You kweeens!!!!! Sending you love and more power, angel babies!!!

  • @blueblack8214
    @blueblack8214 Před 3 lety +1

    The way i fell in love with the light sign "حب" in the back🥺💙

  • @nidalaoun4247
    @nidalaoun4247 Před 4 lety

    about to leave the country and my boy 😭😭
    definitely will take your tips into consideration
    I love you girls

  • @fahyraarsheen8496
    @fahyraarsheen8496 Před 4 lety

    thanks God, they decided to be regular finally
    Much Love ❤❤❤

  • @soumyakumari7056
    @soumyakumari7056 Před 4 lety

    In a long-distance relationship from 5 years
    Love you both♥️
    Thanks for the tips

  • @tejasviniv6902
    @tejasviniv6902 Před 4 lety +24

    Sufi looks like the team rocket person (James)

  • @poojamishra6109
    @poojamishra6109 Před 3 lety

    Indeed a helping video for everyone...and you guys are cute...😊

  • @ismaelruiz1916
    @ismaelruiz1916 Před 4 lety

    Awesome tips👍👏🏼

  • @ceruleansummer3723
    @ceruleansummer3723 Před 4 lety +31

    love from WA!! as a closeted bi in a v Indian household, it's like I'm watching the relationship I'll want to have when I'm out. :)

  • @moyomadealadesuyi6413
    @moyomadealadesuyi6413 Před 4 lety

    I love love. You both are amazing.🥺♥️

  • @lemongirl7775
    @lemongirl7775 Před 4 lety

    I love sufi's blue hair!!!

  • @snehalsinha8427
    @snehalsinha8427 Před 4 lety +1

    It's really nice to see you guys

  • @kallakerai7783
    @kallakerai7783 Před 4 lety +1

    My darling are back missed them mwaaaah

  • @basicallyidid7192
    @basicallyidid7192 Před 3 lety +6

    Ya'll ever noticed,Sufi looks like Prachi Desai 🥺❤️

  • @bhanuarya1568
    @bhanuarya1568 Před 4 lety +2

    proud of u both ..u both are doing great ..love from india ...❤❤

  • @taro_yuan4607
    @taro_yuan4607 Před 3 lety +7

    Im living w my parents... while my gf is living in another country, alone... and we havent seen each other for like almost 9 months... and shes been through serious mental health issues... Gosh I do wanna go to Japan to stay with her and look after her, but I cant even use facetime with parents around, let alone go abroad...😭

    • @ryananas333
      @ryananas333 Před 3 lety

      O my God..that must have been very very hard on you...how's she doing now?

  • @svf2006
    @svf2006 Před 4 lety +6

    Someone please write a script and cast them together in a supercute romance movie .......

  • @shwetasvlog1834
    @shwetasvlog1834 Před 4 lety +2

    Outstanding achievement lots of love from nagpur maharashtra

  • @nocode659
    @nocode659 Před 4 lety

    U guys r the best..be happy always..love from maldives

  • @rianaawaliah8224
    @rianaawaliah8224 Před 4 lety +25

    omg i clicked so fast. im currently on ldr and this tips are super amazing and important, gotta take notes for this. i always watch your videos but just realized i havent subscribe yet. yes im a muslim and im not gay but i do respect and love you both. please keep uploading videos and thankyou for spreading love. salam and peace!💖 love from indonesia 🇮🇩

    • @sufiandanjali4670
      @sufiandanjali4670  Před 4 lety +12

      that's so sweet, sending love and hugs to you and your long distance love! thanks for your kind comment ♥️

    • @anisha3615
      @anisha3615 Před rokem

      👍

  • @lillians.3187
    @lillians.3187 Před 4 lety

    i loveeee how they look at each other

  • @pixluvr3502
    @pixluvr3502 Před 4 lety

    thank you for posting this kind of video, me and my girlfriend is currently going through the same thing. with us getting these advices from you, i'm sure we will able to make it through until we have enough money to live together too❤

    • @huitzilopochtli_tenochtitl496
      @huitzilopochtli_tenochtitl496 Před 3 lety

      Tell me more about your situation, what culture do you come from and is your family supportive?. It's okay if you don't want to answer.

  • @blessyjeronia2318
    @blessyjeronia2318 Před 4 lety +15

    Omg I just got into a long distance relationship !! I'm like super scared and anxious but I'm really happy with her. Hope this helps us.
    Also I love y'all ❤

  • @siyakomarpant1469
    @siyakomarpant1469 Před 2 lety

    The way Anjali looks at Sufi 😌💕😘🤗

  • @nehabharali3711
    @nehabharali3711 Před 4 lety +1

    Just love the way you talk 🤧😍💞

  • @muskankarira3705
    @muskankarira3705 Před 4 lety

    Positive vibess all aroundd💙💙🌈 love from India 🍾

  • @parviraahmed4873
    @parviraahmed4873 Před 4 lety +1

    Love u both.. God bless u .. !💓Stay safe

  • @user-ln7pu7rb6r
    @user-ln7pu7rb6r Před 4 lety

    so pretty!

  • @lassam333
    @lassam333 Před 4 lety

    Luckily not in an ldr, but these tips are really awesome. Lots of love from Austria.

  • @minusdailyvlogs
    @minusdailyvlogs Před 4 lety +1

    When i see both of u then i really happy to myself yar..🙂🙂

  • @nraishanzr3333
    @nraishanzr3333 Před 4 lety

    i love sufis hair!!

  • @intanjeepee
    @intanjeepee Před 4 lety

    Yeay! First comment!!! Love you guys🤍🤍🤍

  • @nabeelasaleem2595
    @nabeelasaleem2595 Před 4 lety

    You both are very lucky bcz of you have short long distance Everyone not lucky like you guys God bless you Always

  • @tonygeorge2656
    @tonygeorge2656 Před 4 lety +5

    Hey... have you guys ever taken the MBTI test? If you haven’t please do. We would very much love to know your personality types.

  • @daisylofranco7783
    @daisylofranco7783 Před 4 lety

    Great info.

  • @revasaxena7509
    @revasaxena7509 Před 4 lety +96

    Power couple!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤

  • @YashiPH1
    @YashiPH1 Před 4 lety

    The kind of notification that makes me happy ❤️

  • @lifewithpooja3817
    @lifewithpooja3817 Před rokem

    You both are very nice and good to each other.

  • @yellownotsus7538
    @yellownotsus7538 Před 4 lety +6

    Me and my gf are LDR relationship. We both broke during pandemic 😂 and can't travel at her. We are in a same country and she is not so far tho. My sister living same region as her. I maybe visit at my sister at December and I will visit her. I can't wait to see her 😢♥️