What your speaking style, like, says about you | Vera Regan | TEDxDublin

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  • čas přidán 28. 05. 2024
  • This talk was given at a local TEDx event, produced independently of the TED Conferences. How we use language - our accent, expressions, and the structure of our sentences - changes from region to region. Vera Regan explains why we should listen to these differences, and why language can act as a cultural barometer.
    Sociolinguist Vera Regan is a researcher at University College Dublin, and her work explores the relationship between our cultural landscape and our changing language.
    About TEDx, x = independently organized event In the spirit of ideas worth spreading, TEDx is a program of local, self-organized events that bring people together to share a TED-like experience. At a TEDx event, TEDTalks video and live speakers combine to spark deep discussion and connection in a small group. These local, self-organized events are branded TEDx, where x = independently organized TED event. The TED Conference provides general guidance for the TEDx program, but individual TEDx events are self-organized.* (*Subject to certain rules and regulations)

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  • @StefanTravis
    @StefanTravis Před 8 lety +4756

    CZcams Rule #1: The smarter the video, the dumber the comments.
    This is a smart video.

    • @remi1771
      @remi1771 Před 8 lety +89

      Yours is a dumb comment
      >.

    • @DerpBane
      @DerpBane Před 8 lety +27

      +Stefan Travis This video is boring af
      "smart video"
      It's trash

    • @daedra40
      @daedra40 Před 8 lety +21

      But, like, that's just your opinion!
      XD

    • @lraoux
      @lraoux Před 8 lety +3

      +Stefan Travis I disagree. Think about it. If people are influenced by BOTH socioeconomic factors as well as agency, then they hit a middle ground. Thus how you speak doesn't really say all that much about you.
      She said it herself- Mariusz and Anna were outliers.

    • @laloata
      @laloata Před 8 lety +5

      +Stefan Travis that makes your comment...

  • @monjier
    @monjier Před 7 lety +5727

    when you study linguistics you tend not to judge people on their accents or dialects. education really does remove racism and inequality
    Edit: it's been 3 years and I only just realized how many likes this got. Thank you all.

    • @FlowUrbanFlow
      @FlowUrbanFlow Před 7 lety +201

      Trance Kowhai People just shouldn't judge others based on no information about them.

    • @ginay.7462
      @ginay.7462 Před 7 lety +31

      WELL DEFINED!!

    • @roykong7024
      @roykong7024 Před 7 lety +43

      Trance Kowhai What a magnifficent observation, spot on I say!

    • @zkoibito709
      @zkoibito709 Před 7 lety +32

      Accents and dialects are not the same thing. Accents are formed from knowing how to produce the phonemes for a language correctly, using the correct number of phonemes, and the correct sequence of phonemes for producing words. People that have an incorrect accent simply means that they have not yet been taught how to use phonemes correctly for their target language. So, when an individual studies linguistics they will know about a thing called phonemic awareness. Dialects are languages that stem from a root language. For example... English is a Western Germanic dialect that is extinct. However, "English" speakers actually speak the German dialect..."Saxon". Anyways.. if I am wrong.. sorry.. ha ha ha

    • @monjier
      @monjier Před 7 lety +15

      Z Koibito it could be possible. i like to think of accents and dialects like this; I am from New Zealand and I speak the English language. I have a New Zealand accent, however, I speak using an Australian dialect. We do not use a British or American dialect. A similar situation is Canada and USA use the same dialect but have different accents. Hence, I cannot tell the difference between a US accent and Canadian accent due to the dialect. Similarly, it can be quite difficult, even for me, to tell the difference between an Australian and New Zealand accent when I hear it on TV or CZcams; and yes it is as offensive to say that Canadian and US accents sound the same as it is for New Zealand and Australia.

  • @trilliamc5185
    @trilliamc5185 Před 5 lety +1155

    This video is so much better on 1.25x speed! Please try it.

  • @olliele7119
    @olliele7119 Před 4 lety +169

    If you love the video, don’t read the comments. Lots of micro-prejudice and thoughtlessness ridden like a disease here. Very intriguing talk!

  • @sophiafeatherstone2722
    @sophiafeatherstone2722 Před 7 lety +1719

    Why is it that people are so critical of the way that she talks? Did you even bother to listen to what she was actually saying? This talk was amazing and very interesting! A huge amount of work was obviously put into this talk and it was delivered incredibly well. I challenge all of those who are criticizing her to get up on a TED stage and deliver a talk to hundreds of people. I swear, people have no empathy.

    • @minyongminyong6054
      @minyongminyong6054 Před 5 lety +7

      Sophia Featherstone u r Sooo true

    • @TheOneZenith
      @TheOneZenith Před 5 lety +18

      Seriously though, speed the video up to 1.5x and tell me she doesn’t sound better and more natural.

    • @choco9205
      @choco9205 Před 5 lety +4

      And if people don’t like to hear her then why comment. Jus today watch it, it doesn’t bother me oh well.

    • @SomaKitsune
      @SomaKitsune Před 5 lety +37

      No one's listening to what she's saying. Everyone is more interested in HOW she's saying it. This video is about sociolinguistics, duh.

    • @TheOneZenith
      @TheOneZenith Před 5 lety +1

      White Night Appropriate moniker. I did watch the whole thing. I improved the experience by speeding it up. Try it.

  • @monsieurbernoulli8101
    @monsieurbernoulli8101 Před 7 lety +2987

    Vera Regan -> Rare Vegan
    stop being blind, people

    • @juliecranmer5916
      @juliecranmer5916 Před 7 lety +3

      Monsieur Bernoulli

    • @Nathouuuutheone
      @Nathouuuutheone Před 7 lety +15

      HAHAHA OMG
      made my day

    • @theavidtraveler4787
      @theavidtraveler4787 Před 7 lety +70

      That's how dyslexics would read Vera Regan's name as. Haha!

    • @monjier
      @monjier Před 7 lety +64

      her name is a spoonerism which is funny because spoonerisms are studied in linguistics. they produce the n400 effect thing

    • @typo691
      @typo691 Před 7 lety +34

      What's the "n400 effect thing"?

  • @V.Hansen.
    @V.Hansen. Před 8 lety +822

    I would like this lady to narrate an audio book. I think her accent and tone is exceptionally pleasant. Who cares if the mic is picking up little sounds. How many of you complaining have ever tried speaking in public? Personally my mouth dries up immediately when I get in front of a group.

    • @elmoteroloco
      @elmoteroloco Před 8 lety

      she take care on this, she pre-idrat

    • @jackiestokes9125
      @jackiestokes9125 Před 8 lety

      +elmoterolo

    • @christarasp5791
      @christarasp5791 Před 7 lety +3

      No way!

    • @murrayfarrellmc454
      @murrayfarrellmc454 Před 7 lety +7

      Drying mouth - nerves, insufficient hydration or she is diabetic and has elevated blood sugar levels.

    • @ivanlovric5805
      @ivanlovric5805 Před 6 lety +1

      V. Hansen you're totally right I would really like to hear her read Tolkien L.O.T.R.

  • @cherrywilliams7477
    @cherrywilliams7477 Před 7 lety +30

    I like the way she speaks...so modest.

  • @glassXmoon
    @glassXmoon Před 8 lety +1112

    Put the video on 1.5% speed and you'll hear it better.

    • @scatroach
      @scatroach Před 8 lety +50

      +Kaspurr Cakes i dont have a day....

    • @OkashaSH5
      @OkashaSH5 Před 8 lety +3

      +Kaspurr Cakes LMAO

    • @HelloYu1991
      @HelloYu1991 Před 8 lety +7

      +Kaspurr Cakes it does。

    • @smawtan
      @smawtan Před 8 lety +1

      +Kaspurr Cakes I was thinking that all the way through but couldn't be bothered to get up off of the sofa :P

    • @edancoll3250
      @edancoll3250 Před 8 lety +23

      +Kaspurr Cakes
      1.5% speed means the video will play 66.67 times slower than normal. That's what samchanpuru was referring to.

  • @miraenofficial
    @miraenofficial Před 7 lety +4842

    Didn't know Hilary Clinton was an Irish sociolinguist

    • @xoravar5155
      @xoravar5155 Před 7 lety +10

      Blasian Buffet hahahah well said

    • @annelin6376
      @annelin6376 Před 7 lety +4

      Blasian Buffet with an English accent no less!

    • @luckas221a
      @luckas221a Před 7 lety +38

      Anne Lin that is not an English accent. at all.

    • @nuancematters
      @nuancematters Před 7 lety +47

      It's very clearly an Irish accent, haha.

    • @TannisKK
      @TannisKK Před 7 lety +21

      She's in Dublin, Ireland, speaking with an Irish accent, silly!

  • @tatiana_a
    @tatiana_a Před 7 lety +755

    As someone who is very much interested in language and linguistics, this was absolutely brilliant! The world is gradually becoming more and more Americanized, so I'm sure a lot of people, including myself, already knew about the medial "valley-girl" *like*, but not the socio-linguistic Irish *like*! My mother tongue is Arabic, and I realized that there is an equivalent to "like" in the Jordanian dialect, and this has made me want to investigate that tbh. Very cool stuff!

    • @JaneFrizzell
      @JaneFrizzell Před 7 lety +9

      i agree, this is a very well done talk she gives. I'm American, but I went to study with a specialist in my field who lived in Southern Sweden. I learned my limited Swedish lexicon mainly from TV -- and the basis of my pronounciation was from a TV ad featuring a grisly Harbor Seagull (a Swedish equivalent to the Geico gecko), so my swedish accent is like a very rough sailor.

    • @tatiana_a
      @tatiana_a Před 7 lety +3

      A rough Swedish sailor... Definitely a stretch for my mind to imagine lol But I do wonder about the linguistic turns your Swedish might've taken since living there. Are you sounding more like a polished sailor? Have you linguistically assimilated to whatever it is that interests you about the culture? Or has only the jargon of your field developed the most? You'd be an interesting case-study :P

    • @JaneFrizzell
      @JaneFrizzell Před 7 lety +1

      ***** :) maybe so..another person i met who was trained in linguistics and who was excellent at pinpointing American English geographically couldn't pinpoint mine (he could only narrow it to mid-Atlantic East Coast, non-seagull). (in my field(horse training)...i can follow along in transactions, veterinary, and training in Swedish, Dutch & German, but i'm sure I butcher all of the languages, so a seagull and farmer hybrid. i have some teaching videos filled with my voice if you are actually curious to hear, let me know :) fun to 'talk' to you :) p.s. the horses always know what i mean, that's the main thing :)

    • @tatiana_a
      @tatiana_a Před 7 lety +1

      I actually checked out one of your videos, and it sucks that I don't know any Swedish or Dutch. I know a small bit of German, but not well enough to detect any change in your inflection or any influence those languages may have made on your English. Thank you nonetheless! Now I know the difference between a straight horse and a curved horse :P

    • @JaneFrizzell
      @JaneFrizzell Před 7 lety +2

      :)Hi Tatiana, that is great you could see the difference...most people can't! if you're ever speaking with other horsemen, a horse whose body is curved along a curved line is also said to be 'straight'. it is one of the peculiarities and confusing points in the vernacular of horsemanship. (i didn't mention it in the video because i try to keep one subject point to each video) the net/net is: when the spine is over the line of travel from ears through tail, the horseman's term is 'straight'.

  • @Nathouuuutheone
    @Nathouuuutheone Před 7 lety +498

    I'm in love.
    I'm gonna cry.
    I think I found my dream profession.
    Maybe.

    • @exosvocals2526
      @exosvocals2526 Před 7 lety +76

      N The One are you gonna do her saliva sounds too

    • @estherbjerga523
      @estherbjerga523 Před 6 lety +2

      D.O's bødyrølls Infires me omg be my friend everything about this comment and your handle is amazing.

    • @junkheadrooster
      @junkheadrooster Před 5 lety +3

      Go for it, like . :)

    • @fardareismai4495
      @fardareismai4495 Před 5 lety +11

      I'm studying linguistics, it's so worth it!!!! Go for it!

    • @lalala-vk7ex
      @lalala-vk7ex Před 5 lety +2

      @@fardareismai4495 I'm taking linguistics next semester, I took phonetics and fell in love with it

  • @iloveny22
    @iloveny22 Před 7 lety +267

    So thankful for my linguistics professor who taught us that American slang doesn't mean we're stupid, but just as smart as people who speak proper English.

    • @dbsk06
      @dbsk06 Před 5 lety +25

      iloveny22 to be fair people who speak like amazeballs omg are probably not all that bright

    • @yeyo4281
      @yeyo4281 Před rokem +2

      ​@@dbsk06 How do you know 😭? I use slang all the time and I consider myself atleast proficient.

  • @avismoon
    @avismoon Před 8 lety +116

    She has a very calming effect as she speaks. Directs you to listen to her.

  • @adlerdrahms8966
    @adlerdrahms8966 Před 7 lety +387

    This is like, so cool.

  • @manchesterhall5592
    @manchesterhall5592 Před 8 lety +301

    The mic noises don't bother me, I think this is one of the most interesting Ted talks I've ever stumbled upon.

  • @Swedmonkei
    @Swedmonkei Před 8 lety +525

    Why so many dislikes? Such a well spoken, BOMB lady, with an incredibly informative and interesting presentation on aspects of language that most of us are ignorant about. Great stuff!

    • @jburgett45
      @jburgett45 Před 8 lety +35

      the same people who would ridicule speakers with heavy accents, or speech problems, or wearing dentures....you get my drift? Ridicule the speaker so they don't have to think about the message. How immature.

    • @yasmineali9862
      @yasmineali9862 Před 8 lety +10

      Coz she looks like hilary

    • @kevinryan6759
      @kevinryan6759 Před 7 lety +38

      her clickidy clack tongue got us cringing.

    • @Thegirlofisle
      @Thegirlofisle Před 7 lety +8

      I also found her so funny and charismatic!

    • @TheSpinRecords
      @TheSpinRecords Před 6 lety +8

      It has nothing to do with her as a person or what she's saying, it's the sound of saliva that's so awful about this video

  • @danidejaneiro8378
    @danidejaneiro8378 Před 7 lety +19

    In your bus conversation and slides, you're actually discussing two differing forms of 'like', once both used in the same sentence:
    - She was like, "Cheers"
    - He was like it's only like two miles.
    The first like (inseparable from the verb 'to be' = ''was like'') is just the verb for reported speech, and can be interchanged with "to say".
    - She was like "Cheers" = She said "Cheers"
    - He was like "It's only like two miles" = He said, "It's only like two miles"
    The second like is the clausal like, which can be either marginal, medial, or completely absent without changing the meaning.
    - It's only, like, two miles = It's only two miles, like = It's only two miles.
    - She was like "Cheers" ≠ She was "Cheers", like ≠ She was "Cheers".

    • @jjsmith706
      @jjsmith706 Před 7 lety +3

      "It was only about/around/approximately/something similar to two miles."
      Or not...

    • @agod5608
      @agod5608 Před 7 lety

      Gringo Show on a side note,in my second life,my first name Gringo.

  • @marinamom1
    @marinamom1 Před 7 lety +261

    Very pleasant and well paced voice. She is intelligent and engaging. Love her voice and calm presence. Excellent story teller - enunciates well. She is awesome.

  • @Agatella13
    @Agatella13 Před 4 lety +5

    Greetings from a Polish native speaker in Belgium 😊 I’m proud you have choosen us, the Poles as a subject. 🌹

  • @NikaDokaLok
    @NikaDokaLok Před 7 lety +6376

    Was I the only one that heard her saliva?

    • @murrayfarrellmc454
      @murrayfarrellmc454 Před 7 lety +334

      No you weren't. I believe it's the microphone positioning and set up.

    • @catalin3407
      @catalin3407 Před 7 lety +398

      The way you hear also tells a lot about you. haha

    • @NikaDokaLok
      @NikaDokaLok Před 7 lety +97

      Catalin Orange I must be a kinky freak XD

    • @inprogress5210
      @inprogress5210 Před 7 lety +16

      NikaDokaLok no

    • @yashsingh3897
      @yashsingh3897 Před 6 lety +42

      That's what I have been reading through this whole comment stream.

  • @pagusmusic6254
    @pagusmusic6254 Před 3 lety +25

    It’s so interesting, the way we speak not only reflects on who we are and where we came from but also on where we want to go and who we want to be!

  • @lauren6161
    @lauren6161 Před 3 lety +7

    Apparently people are complaining about the way she speaks, but I personally think she was incredible

  • @angelicrose8406
    @angelicrose8406 Před 4 lety +14

    People complaining never spoke publicly, you can tell. I speak publicly for an academic team, it's hard to go up and deliver what you feel matters to you. I like her voice, it's very professional and confident. Study the way her points move her around the stage..positive neutral negative. (Or vice versa)

  • @technomage6736
    @technomage6736 Před 8 lety +78

    This video deserves a "Like"

  • @matthewwalker3131
    @matthewwalker3131 Před 8 lety +76

    omg this was like soo totally informative

  • @MsZuzzz
    @MsZuzzz Před 7 lety +19

    Nietzsche has already said that identity is not what we are but who we want to become. I love when great scientists - like Vera Regan - by their devotion to research can confirm (or at least test) some intuitions that thinkers or artists had expressed based just on their own observations and self-reflection.

  • @Bhanupriya73
    @Bhanupriya73 Před 7 lety +2

    Her speech reveals that she is a very logical, methodical, analytical and clear minded woman. very detailed style of conversation and expression. I am also like this.

  • @kwiat126p3
    @kwiat126p3 Před 9 lety +10

    I'm Pole and when Vera Regan said about my nation I was very proud of it. :D

    • @choongification
      @choongification Před 9 lety

      Bonifacy Brzęczyszczykiewicz dont expect the scales to tip just yet

  • @Mangzorz
    @Mangzorz Před 7 lety +34

    Hillarious to hear her say "amazeballs"

  • @casey3889
    @casey3889 Před 5 lety +8

    This is something every writer knows. Speaking style is important when thinking up a new character. It's a part of personality.

  • @skyxcx9781
    @skyxcx9781 Před 6 lety +2

    This is like totally like the first Ted talk that I've like actually liked.

  • @lidu6363
    @lidu6363 Před 7 lety +555

    Great speech. But I just couldn't get over the mouth noises, they were so disturbing. This is not the first TED talk where I stopped listening through my headphones because of that. I'm wondering if they could have somehow eliminated it during the recording, by changing the mic or adjusting the software...

  • @SteveGouldinSpain
    @SteveGouldinSpain Před 7 lety +478

    Like seems to be a comma substitution people punctuate ideas with when they're thinking of the next thing to say. You can do the same thing with 'right' (watch TYT - Cenk and Ana do it all the time), or 'OK' or 'you know' and doubtless many similar 'throw away' expressions.

    • @BreadCatMarcus
      @BreadCatMarcus Před 7 lety +36

      Steve Gould Very true. I catch myself saying "like" more than I want too. It's better to have pauses between sentences.

    • @trunkulent
      @trunkulent Před 7 lety +6

      Steve Gould I enjoy colloquialisms.

    • @Emily-xo9ts
      @Emily-xo9ts Před 6 lety +5

      like is used in similes (comparison using like or as,,,, throwback to elem :,)) so ig? that shows these newer generations (including me) can compare a lot of our lives/things we experience to things that have happened before because theres "so much" before us to reference to? not in all cases, but in some ??

    • @magneticmale1
      @magneticmale1 Před 6 lety +20

      These are all crutch words or fillers.

    • @rachelles.9657
      @rachelles.9657 Před 6 lety +13

      It's also an approximater. You could say, "She seemed to be about 6 feet tall" or you could say, "She was like 6 feet tall." It's also used instead of "he said" or "she said." You can just say, "he was like...[insert quote]." It has many great uses.

  • @daveyrobinson3779
    @daveyrobinson3779 Před 7 lety +333

    So, like, what the fuck am I suppose to take out of this?

    • @LegalVampire
      @LegalVampire Před 7 lety +56

      Aiden Ashbourn it's a lesson in linguistics . most people usually judge people for not speaking the standard language, saying they're speaking incorrectly, but this is a layman perspective - linguists know that there is nothing inherently 'bad' or 'good' about language and there's nothing negative about language change, it is natural.

    • @danielemessina1979
      @danielemessina1979 Před 7 lety +12

      that's the point of the first 30 seconds, what about the rest?

    • @LegalVampire
      @LegalVampire Před 7 lety +47

      It's examples and proof... It's basically a university lecture. A lecturer can't just make their main point and walk away, there's gotta be some substance to the source - something interesting. I thought the talk was very interesting :)

    • @danielemessina1979
      @danielemessina1979 Před 7 lety +24

      I don't mean to be harsh, but I don't think you get the point she's making. She's not just saying that, i quote you, "language change is natural". Her main point is that variations in language reflect aspects of the speaker's identity. And I accept that, but she's not making any valid point to substantiate that claim. She presents correlation as causality, she doesn't address the fact that some variations are intentional and some are spontaneous or absorbed, she gathers data on a very specific and very limited sample (a few non-native speakers) to draw conclusions that she wants to apply to the general case... these are not cogent arguments.
      I'm glad you enjoyed the talk, I personally expected something different so I found it unsatisfying.

    • @jodybern
      @jodybern Před 7 lety +5

      Um, I reckon you know more than one language ?
      This subject is riveting to me ¨in this moment¨ as I´m learning Spanish
      (6 years now, still no where near acceptable).....plus my teenagers are doing my head in, with their use of the word LIKE !
      It was lovely reading your debate :)

  • @kelseygault5466
    @kelseygault5466 Před 7 lety +1378

    al l th e m o u t h n o i s e s

    • @emilieracine3109
      @emilieracine3109 Před 7 lety +24

      Klunky Pastel omg i can't unhear it now.. the video is ruined

    • @louisasmiles
      @louisasmiles Před 7 lety +18

      Klunky Pastel makes me feel sick. a linguist ought to speak proper

    • @louisasmiles
      @louisasmiles Před 7 lety +7

      J. Onewhomills doesnt change the fact that it makes me feel ill.

    • @Emila1695
      @Emila1695 Před 7 lety +64

      *smack smack smack*

    • @djdb1214
      @djdb1214 Před 7 lety +19

      HER MOUTH IS DRY. It isn't that serious. lol.

  • @euanelliott3613
    @euanelliott3613 Před 4 lety +6

    My father was Scottish, my mother sounded like Merseyside, and yet I sound like I went to Cambridge.
    I love language, though I am more of an artistic than an academic.
    I enjoy learning new words to use in conversation. The English language is beautiful.
    Many people consider it embarrassing to speak correctly as they fear ridicule from their peers, but English is our birthright, we should embrace it.

  • @melcyeh1929
    @melcyeh1929 Před 8 lety +2356

    its pretty obvious she made up what she heard on the bus

  • @stilltoomanyhats
    @stilltoomanyhats Před 5 lety +1

    At about 8:20: "more local in outlook at times". I can only admire the deftness and precision with which she puts that euphrmistc understatement just the right distance away from being an outright insult.

  • @kriztin1000
    @kriztin1000 Před 7 lety +70

    In Swedish, instead of "like" we say "bah". So, "she was like, cheers" would be "Hon bah, skål". Now you know

    • @ProwerAdmirer
      @ProwerAdmirer Před 4 lety +3

      Speaking of 'you know', 'you know's are another word cancer similar to 'like's.

    • @bonniejunk
      @bonniejunk Před 4 lety +4

      @@ProwerAdmirer
      And of course you're the prime example of what we should model our language after, right? Everyone listen to the linguistic teachings of "Mr. Orgasm", who can't even use quotation marks properly.

    • @bethanytalbot2445
      @bethanytalbot2445 Před 4 lety +1

      How would you pronounce 'bah' in Swedish? My first assumption would be "ba-ah" but I'm not sure!

    • @angrydinosaur8853
      @angrydinosaur8853 Před 4 lety

      this is so helpful, thanks!

    • @sdchicago
      @sdchicago Před 3 lety

      I thought of the end "like" as "eller" på svenska...

  • @MarieBai
    @MarieBai Před 8 lety +7

    I wrote about something similar and I am amazed that someone understands this concept. I wrote the piece right after listening to BJ Miller Ted Talk. I notice he used a little bit of imagery but what really touched me was the way he delivered his speech. It made me think about how people tell stories.What’s the order of the words? The vocabulary? The style? Very important characteristics to determine what kind of person you're talking to.

  • @MariaThePotterNut
    @MariaThePotterNut Před 4 lety +7

    My favorite thing is the understood differences and uses for things like said and the other ways to convey that, and how people of at least the younger generations understand it while never actually being taught it. Some people, especially older generations have problems with "was like" instead of said, or "was all" as well. Thing is, they're used to fill in a gap we didn't have before, especially verbally, to convey how exact we're being.
    "John said" is an exact quote or a very close to exact.
    "John was like" means its's not exactly the same words but it conveys the meaning of what was said.
    "John was all" is very paraphrased, likely not close to the real words at all, frequently there was an emotional reaction of some kind to what is being described. It's also frequently mocking.
    It may not be "proper english" the way we learn in school, but a way of being able to more specifically communicate was developed in the last 10/15 years or so. It's not even something people have to think about, we just understand it and use it without any need for it to be explained, and I find that fascinating.

  • @gemmadidit4118
    @gemmadidit4118 Před 3 lety +2

    I love PBS because there are many shows where people speak with perfect grammar and diction. It's a real turn on for me when people speak well!

  • @comments9125
    @comments9125 Před rokem +2

    Am I the only one who loves the way she speaks? I found this talk so relaxing and informative

  • @loconnolly7474
    @loconnolly7474 Před 7 lety +9

    I grew up in England, but my mother is full on, 100% Irish. This means my use of the word "like" is everywhere- "Like, she was like, really tall like." It's a habit that feels impossible to break out of and no-one takes me seriously, haha.

  • @KendrixTermina
    @KendrixTermina Před 7 lety +19

    Observing the evolution of Grammar as it happen. So cool!
    I also really liked the speaker herself refreshingly nonjudgemental & great at synthesizing the human factor with precise analysis.
    As a writer I evidently know how language/ word choice can be used to convey a message, feeling or the personality of your characters (and the likes of Shakespeare or certain Japanese writers have used such differences to highly stylized extremes) and I'd heard that your personality type can influence certain things (and once I read that I couldn't unsee it), but I didn't know it was this frequent in everyday casual language use beyond obvious things like formality level.
    I mean using internet words IRL very much IS kind of like being part of a culture even though it's mostly simple habit.

    • @trunkulent
      @trunkulent Před 7 lety +1

      I concur!
      No, really, that's it. With all of my eloquence, I couldn't have said it any better.

  • @paweduda7467
    @paweduda7467 Před 3 lety +4

    your pronunciation of the Polish names Mariusz and Anna are spot on. Polish speakers would most likely not pronounce them with such a grace and accuracy! Reminds me of the generations of grandparents who used verbal communication a loy more then through texts obviously, plus they are well read have great memory and are silver-tongued.

  • @ratthew8287
    @ratthew8287 Před 5 lety +6

    i would actually argue that there's another function of "like" in f.ex. "and he was, like, 'what are you doing' ". it signals that you're about to paraphrase someone. you're not quoting them, but expressing general meaning and attitude, emotional load if you will, of what they said.
    also there's something similar in poznan (a city in poland) and it's surroundings to irish "like". it's "tej" (pronounced "tEy") but literally no one uses this except for people in that area

  • @kilo8869
    @kilo8869 Před 8 lety +29

    These top comments suck! She was amazing and spot! I love how she ended it! Yessss! We are the movers and the shakers and we are the future! She ripped it. xD

    • @bellehpham7742
      @bellehpham7742 Před 5 lety

      So, I just sincerely don't understand this last statement. What is she trying to say? Educate me please!

    • @lauratrejos1528
      @lauratrejos1528 Před 2 lety

      @@bellehpham7742 If you mean the "she ripped it" it proly means that she did well

  • @m.w.1111
    @m.w.1111 Před 7 lety +14

    Interesting findings! And that charming, charming Irish accent.

  • @amidasimth1214
    @amidasimth1214 Před 3 lety +1

    I was fascinated with her speech. Than I scrolled down to see the comments and..
    Wow. I see why there is so many people with problems. They simply can't hear or understand the simple facts.
    Or they are just haters because she is telling us how young women can shape the future of language

  • @annabethchase3612
    @annabethchase3612 Před 5 lety +6

    5 years later and this is still an incredible video! So fascinating!

    • @yisi9292
      @yisi9292 Před rokem

      8 years later and this is still in incredible video.

  • @wodnyrak
    @wodnyrak Před 5 lety +11

    This was so interesting! I enjoyed it a lot, both as a speaker of Polish and English and as a student of linguistics.

  • @matyasjuhasz9689
    @matyasjuhasz9689 Před 5 lety +5

    Amazing speech. I'm enchanted by sociolinguistics. Language is life.

  • @anraiduine1483
    @anraiduine1483 Před 8 lety +17

    In France there's an exact equivalent of like, it's "genre", used also as clause medial (man that sounds so technical...)

  • @PoisonTheOgres
    @PoisonTheOgres Před 8 lety +19

    Even where I live, in the Netherlands (not an English speaking country, though everyone learns it in school), lots of young women use the 'like'. It's so interesting!

  • @BenGarman
    @BenGarman Před 8 lety +6

    This is an excellent talk.

  • @chalfish856
    @chalfish856 Před 7 lety +12

    This was wonderfully interesting. Love languages and the way they change.

  • @ineuifity
    @ineuifity Před 7 lety +6

    Culture in action! I was expecting some boarder sense of guidelines that people can use to better understand colloquialism, but this was a well curated talk for the live audience present during the talk.

  • @fromproximab9839
    @fromproximab9839 Před 7 lety +5

    Woow, absolutely amazing and hit the nail on the head without even insulting anybody! Far from being taken as a language passionate, it feels great to share the common concern with the like minded members of the society, such as Vera Regan. I too have a growing contempt, or let's put it that way; 'dislike' for the excessive and unnecessary use of 'like". But the way how the language is abused seems to be unstoppable in the short run. The question is; could this be nipped in the bud?

  • @khaledahmed-uu6tw
    @khaledahmed-uu6tw Před 6 lety +4

    Madam today I learned a lot from you. Thank you my greetings from Aden - Yemen

  • @robertocastillo5583
    @robertocastillo5583 Před 3 lety +6

    Great talk. I appreciate the value of such grand research and eloquence. I also value the meaning behind our human experience through language.

  • @theblanketfortcohort7332
    @theblanketfortcohort7332 Před 6 lety +1

    I need this woman's job. That sounds so fascinating!

  • @lilelrocker
    @lilelrocker Před 4 lety +2

    As a Californian we use the word like, a lot

  •  Před 9 lety +11

    This is such an interesting topic, indeed! And the way she presented it was simply perfect. Clear, sharp and illustrative. I've just become a fan of this woman yaaaaay

  • @psychicgregorytheloveguru7123

    Thank you Vera for this wonderful talk!

  • @essennagerry
    @essennagerry Před 8 lety +29

    9:28 to 9:36 If you've ever moved to a country where people speak a language that's not your native, you know that this sort of thing happens a lot. Definitely not just a "like" phenomenon. Idk, I don't find it so extraordinarily. I think we might even experience that in our native tongue at least once. I'm really surprised at the manner with which she presented that. Was she just inclining to make it more understandable for the (monolingual in the) audience? Nevertheless what she then explained up to 10:46 was very interesting. It should be an obvious thing imo, but it was nice to have someone kinda "wrap it up" all at once. A very interesting talk.

  • @stevet9864
    @stevet9864 Před 7 lety +2

    Reminds me of psychs who categorize someone's entire personality and developmental history by the way they fold a map. I'm glad she mentioned outliers, because there are plenty, and many people speak quite differently in different situations.

  • @360wheelz5
    @360wheelz5 Před 3 lety +3

    I zoned out _like_ 15 times.

  • @craigo8128
    @craigo8128 Před 7 lety +117

    somebody get this woman a glass of water!

    • @kinoinakimova
      @kinoinakimova Před 7 lety +6

      Also it often happens because a speaker ate some sweets/sugar/chocolate before. It's painful to listen to...

    • @texasfossilguy
      @texasfossilguy Před 6 lety

      craigo please!!!!

    • @tonyhenson8859
      @tonyhenson8859 Před 5 lety +5

      I don't believe anyone, on here, could come close to her ability to stand before such an educated and large crowd, w/o a dry mouth and or w/o stammering with words. I thoroughly enjoyed her.

  • @thatlebleh
    @thatlebleh Před 5 lety +1

    Her voice is super soothing

  • @OurWorldTheater
    @OurWorldTheater Před 5 lety +1

    Life creates language. Life is moving and changing. Language just flows with life. Language is shaped by changes in life.

  • @Panacea9
    @Panacea9 Před rokem +5

    It can show your history, experience and influences. And if you have multiple styles you like to write or speak in, shows your love of playing characters/appreciation of differences and variation.

  • @panicatdx
    @panicatdx Před 8 lety +2624

    *woman talking about a very complex and interesting topic* "hahaha there are noises coming from her mouth" are you being serious?

    • @scurvofpcp
      @scurvofpcp Před 8 lety +106

      +panicatdx I find the topic interesting, But I find the sounds that dry mouth speakers make to be vomit inducing. I feel about it the same way most people feel about doing things like eating shit or rancid roadkill.
      It just makes me physically ill to listen to.

    • @Kadulikan
      @Kadulikan Před 8 lety +46

      +scurvofpcp If you were standing in front of her listening to her talk you wouldn't actually hear this. All TED's videos are like this; they've just done a poor job of sound-editing.

    • @scurvofpcp
      @scurvofpcp Před 8 lety +27

      +Kadulikan Not all of them, And I've done sound editing work. It is not that they did a poor job. They did no work on it, that is two very different things. Although in fairness I do know people who make those sounds when they talk.
      And I've listened to quite a few Ted Video's and most of them do not have this problem to this extent.

    • @geneparmesan8748
      @geneparmesan8748 Před 7 lety +12

      I don't know if it's a headphone users thing, but I scrolle ddown to the comments halfway down this video to discover people were obsessing over this, and I previously hadn't noticed it. Once I did notice it, I quickly tuned it out.
      On speakers it's really not that distracting. Worst case scenario turn the speakers down low enough where you can hear her voice without hearing the sound.

    • @DonkeyDongs
      @DonkeyDongs Před 7 lety +1

      panicatdx Yeahhhhh

  • @leni226
    @leni226 Před 5 lety

    I really love the title of this talk for some reason

  • @tanniishkaa
    @tanniishkaa Před 2 lety

    The way she spoke was so elegant. I loved it!

  • @CoolInOlympia
    @CoolInOlympia Před 8 lety +4

    This is really fascinating!!! Thank you!

  • @williamholt2181
    @williamholt2181 Před 8 lety +3

    Such an interesting topic! It's interesting how we show our true identities through our speech.

  • @ceilingeye
    @ceilingeye Před 5 lety

    This is fascinating as I do not talk like most people within my community. I speak fast, i stutter without mumbling, and I use large words casually. Most people I know speak with a drawl, and prefer simplicity rather than exuberance.
    When I was a young child I had a serious stutter because my mother was a fast talker and I was trying to keep up with her. However, as I got older I was able to match her speed and now I find that I talk like someone who lives somewhere else, even though ive lived in my hometown my entire life!!

  • @cathytuttle5537
    @cathytuttle5537 Před 8 lety +1

    I have always been interested in the evolution of language.

  • @JACKDAWFISH
    @JACKDAWFISH Před 7 lety +7

    Everything she said is simply common sense and could figure out after a few moments reflection without suffering through a PhD program.

  • @IgnantNoob
    @IgnantNoob Před 9 lety +7

    I had a friend -- an exchange student from Japan -- that spoke English pretty well, but every time I said something like "every time I said something like" or "and I was like," she would become quite confused.

  • @samji7854
    @samji7854 Před 2 lety +1

    Your English is excellent and your so elegant I want be just like you when I grow up.

  • @scandinaviansnaps5083
    @scandinaviansnaps5083 Před 7 lety

    I love this lady's accent. It's so lovely.

  • @leonelapontes1206
    @leonelapontes1206 Před 8 lety +60

    The content is very interesting, what makes it boring is the way the message is being passed through

    • @jakebustillos9
      @jakebustillos9 Před 8 lety +11

      Its just her speaking style

    • @elmoteroloco
      @elmoteroloco Před 8 lety +3

      she interest me, like, well... I'lickit... if you follow me... like... a little...
      no pun intended...

    • @ismellrudolph
      @ismellrudolph Před 7 lety +17

      shes a good speaker but what she said could of been summarised in 3-5 mins, same reason I hate school, takes an hour for teacher to deliver a 5 minute message

    • @tducketts
      @tducketts Před 7 lety

      Is that the definition of irony? If not, it should be. :p

  • @BettyAlexandriaPride
    @BettyAlexandriaPride Před 8 lety +5

    I loved this video. I found it so intriguing and I just love language. :)

  • @RichardCurryO
    @RichardCurryO Před 5 lety +1

    . . . Proactively setting aside [the perceptual interfering influence of distracting condemnation and judgmental] attitudes on the part of the witness, she included statistical analyses of actual vernacular speech in a few specific cultures, languages, and locations. She emphasized perceiving and understanding social significance

  • @leipurinen2194
    @leipurinen2194 Před 7 lety

    I'm very interested in linguistics after having learned a foreign language to fluency for the first time in my life. And it's interesting to me to look at the aspects of casual speech that I've adopted in said language and the way I use them, versus my own story. I absolutely concur with her conclusion, because although I now live in a different country, I long to go back, and I've even taken a job here speaking the language that I learned. Language is something that I feel very much still connects me to the country I left.

  • @spenceredford4403
    @spenceredford4403 Před 7 lety +3

    Classy Woman. Great Speech!

  • @seanhennessy6667
    @seanhennessy6667 Před 7 lety +51

    Our brains are hardwired but can be rewired.

    • @keiths2902
      @keiths2902 Před 7 lety +12

      Sean Hennessy neuroplasticity

  • @leishayoung4124
    @leishayoung4124 Před 6 lety +1

    I've never understood why people get upset over language changing. In fact, one of the greatest things about the English language is that it is constantly evolving. It is not beholden to the same 'rules' as other languages - that's what makes it SUCH a universal language, as it never stops evolving to be what we NEED it to be. I find it REALLY interesting actually, not something to be denigrated or looked down upon.

  • @tkenglander6226
    @tkenglander6226 Před 5 lety +1

    I LOVE her beautiful accent!! Great information, too. Very interesting stuff about language!!

  • @MadkittenzK
    @MadkittenzK Před 9 lety +6

    this talk was amazeballs

  • @Vampyreq
    @Vampyreq Před 8 lety +80

    Everyone in the comment section is so concerned over the sounds coming out of her mouth that they failed to notice that the air-conditioning has dried up the grease in her right elbow?
    Come on man.

    • @janirissteele2715
      @janirissteele2715 Před 6 lety

      HAHAHAHAHHAGA

    • @LuvThyMind29
      @LuvThyMind29 Před 4 lety +4

      It's called misophonia. It can't be helped. It's like nails on a chalkboard. Hard to focus on anything else.

  • @YourHorridDaydream
    @YourHorridDaydream Před 6 lety

    I recently came across the TEDx Talks videos. Most are quite interesting.
    As much as this might be I couldn't get away from the sound of her gums when she talks.
    Now you all will hear it.
    You're welcome.

  • @Hiitsmyhandle
    @Hiitsmyhandle Před 6 lety +2

    I really enjoyed this! What a great piece of insight

  • @barpoe1
    @barpoe1 Před 8 lety +5

    Interesting. I'm a native Dutch speaker (from Belgium), I lived in Dublin for a while, and took over their use of like. I now live in Brussels and am constantly surrounded by French speakers, and I drop the "ne" in the negation just like I hear other French speakers do. I have a masters in languages, so I am very conscious of how I use it, but I really would have to force myself to not talk like the locals. PS I love(d) the Dublin accent :-)

  • @GraemeMarkNI
    @GraemeMarkNI Před 8 lety +6

    This stuff is totally fascinating. It's amazing how Irish the clause marginal one sounds, and how worldly the clause medial.

    • @topman8565
      @topman8565 Před 5 lety

      Like I'm Irish and I don't understand what a clause marginal is

  • @basiayczko1619
    @basiayczko1619 Před měsícem

    Great video ! Small correction. As a Polish speaker I would like to add that we do have equivalent to English ‚like’ which is ‚tak, taki, taka, takie’. It was like ... = to bylo takie…
    And then she was like … = A wtedy ona na to tak …
    We don’t use it at the end of the sentence though, like Irish do :) ❤ great content !

  • @stonemirror247
    @stonemirror247 Před 5 lety +1

    It seems that the nonstandard "like" is actually a social cue/invitation for a person to actively imagine a situation, visually in many of the instances that I can recall. It has the significance of saying "words aren't quite enough here to communicate my feeling or understanding; imagine what I was thinking when I encountered [xyz situation or idea.]" There are other ways to say that. It's like "come again" compared to "I have not the pleasure of understanding you." In that sense it is quite a meaningful bid for social connection. I would hypothesize that people only use this word in this way around people whom they are comfortable or familiar with.