How Narcissists Give You Panic Attacks
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I never had panic attacks in my entire life until i married a narcissist
Same here
Same here but thankfully it was dated nor married
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Never had them at all until discovering who he really is …after 27 yrs of marriage.
27 years here, too. I only found out about narcissism 3 short years ago. What a wild ride! But at least I know what and who I am dealing with now - after him being diagnosed.
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Narcissist need to be alone My sister married one ,14 years later she developed breast cancer and died. He's still alive 16 yrs later and their children are still suffering from the abuse and passing it on to t heir children. The cycle continues. Narcissist are DANGEROUSLY TOXIC
My mother-in-law also died of breast cancer after being married to a narcissist for over 50 years. I truly believe that internal problems manifest externally. As she was laying on her death bed and I was there, he attempted to kiss her while holding back her pain medicine. She took her hands and pushed him away, and she was not even cognizant. That tells me how much she resented him for how he treated her all her life. Now I’m married to a man who is just like him.
@@Selah1141 her son?
@@truthjunkie63 Yes. She had two sons and a daughter. Both males are narcs, just like their father.
@@Selah1141 sad my husband is one just like his dad. His dad's mom was one.
Correct... he doesn't wanna see that he provoke a lot in me. He prefer to make me feel guilty and accuse me for my reaction.
Mine led to autoimmune diseases 😮
Mine too
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Same.
yes, it started showing up on my bloodwork shortly after marrying a narcissist.
Thank you so much for this video Ben
I love how straightforward you are. Plain, honest, real talk - that you are actually walking.
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Yep I started drinking more due to Going threw this back then it was a nightmare
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I was getting drunk a lot, when he was at work in the afternoons, just to run away from the problems.
That's a scary feeling, but even now, when I think about it, I have this nice feeling of being able to escape...😢
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Thank you so much for this video. It is helping me understand that what I’m going through is real and I’m not crazy or over reacting.
I recently had a panic attack in front of my husband. And he just stood there with his arms crossed and watched me completely fall apart. Never comforted me in anyway, not a hand on the shoulder, or never looked concerned or even acknowledged me actually crying. He just had a look of disgust on his face as he watched me fall apart. After I was able to get myself together, he then proceeded to belittle me, blame me for everything that’s going wrong in the relationship. Saying it’s all my fault and he is just reacting to my lack of effort and the way I treat him.
I have completely lost myself within the past few weeks . I feel so alone, lost, feeling so stuck not being able to even get out of bed think clearly my entire body is in pain. I made the decision to go to the doctor and get on medication for depression. Everyday has been a struggle emotionally, physically and psychologically .I feel this has consumed my entire life.
Literally going thru the same thing girl! Hang in there and don't let go
I am respectfully telling you this because I went through the same things and more for years and I want to warn you in the hope that you might avoid what you're in for if you keep enduring that crap while hoping the narc will somehow become nice again..
The systematic dismantling of your dignity is not only going to continue...it will become more cruel (and being PASIVELY CRUEL is a particularly evil, but very real form of DENIABLE abuse) and eventually you will become a person who you no longer recognize ..
What awaits you if you continue to show up for awful, demeaning, cruelty, invalidation, mind-fuckery, passive abuse ala withholding kindness (as you described)real permanent damage to your precious self...your essence will result..
For years after a 17yr marriage I felt like a husk...a shadow of a formerly vibrant, upbeat, enthusiastic,, kind, funny, unique person.
"I was me but now he's gone" as an old metal song said...
I don't want you suffer all the things that ARE waiting for you if you keep showing up thinking it will change ...
Worse yet is believing that somehow the problem really is you... getting abused followed by feeling guilty and hating yourself because you actually assume the blame from their projections is
.psychological abuse...so is the cognitive dissonance, horrible, crushing of your identity, the permanent damage to your relationship with yourself...the damage to your own self-respect, to your self-concept, ability to make sense of your life,
, the shame, the fear, rhe bewilderment, the alienation, the negative inner-voice, the embarrassment, the self betrayal, the self-reproach with this kind of sadistic, passive-aggressive treatment will change you in ways that cannot always be repaired.
I think Thomas Sheridan said:
"If you dance with the Devil, then you haven't got a clue... For you think you'll change the Devil....but the Devil charges you."
I said all that in order to say this:
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Resist the urge to isolate..
It is SO IMPORTANT that you speak with someone outside your situation....
Whoever you trust... preferably someone who has known you for a long time... preferably someone who has known you from before you ever got involved with this cruel cowardly abuser..
The ABSOLUTE WORST MISTAKE I MADE WAS HIDING THE RRALITY OF WHAT WAS GOING ON FROM EVERYONE THAT CARED FOR ME..
I'm sure IfI hadn't been so afraid to carefully choosen a trusted,, level-headed, not-tozic friend or relative who really kbew me...and if I would have had the courage to reveal some of what I was experiencing behind closed doors..a non-emotional person who lovedmw would have possibly validated just how fkd it all was...Just hearing that from someone credible... would have been HUGE and I might have escaped with less damage and more . self-respect..
You don't get back the TIME wasted on these people..
"There are worse things than being alone".
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That feels so familiar and painful. Im so sorry youre going through this. when the panick attacks were happening to me, my soon to be ex husband just ignored it and told me he needs to sleep. or one time he called his mother and sister to come to our home, to show them how "crazy and mentally unstable" I am.
I know why I'm feeling depressed and anxious but I can't communicate that to him because he doesn't care. The annoyed look on his face twists my insides up and I feel helpless. He then will make passive aggressive comments about "how depressing it feels being home." He gets upset if I say I feel this way because of him. So I don't which makes it so much worse. Cognitive dissonance has made it impossible for me to ever grocery shop. I went shopping once and felt great about what I had gotten. When I went home he was so upset. Told me I didn't get anything at all. This relationship has twisted me up inside so much and I can't even move or think for myself. I feel pathetic.
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Keep telling yourself it isn't you, it's him.
They are incredibly insecure people who need to bring you down to make themselves feel better.
If you can try and confide in a trusting person, and possibly get out of the relationship, start planning in secret.
Don't tell him anything.
I know it isn't easy, been there myself with numerous family members and then two bad marriages.
At fifty, I know how to spot them now, but it nearly cost me my life.
You are stronger than you think.
Sending you strength, don't give up. x
I had real fear at the beginning of 2024 for at least a week because I found out that my ex(who has my kids at the moment) was stalking me when he knew where I lived.⚠️🙏🏼 I had just moved knowing that he would stalk me. In October of 2023, he paid my life insurance⚠️⚠️⚠️🙏🏼
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Please try to be safe ❤
@@Selah1141 My location is currently unknown to him
The amount of panic attacks I had
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So true!
I don't understand that they cause it and try to act like they didn't. Then get mad because your body can't handle it. While feeding off the energy from it.🤯🌪🌪🌪🌪
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Is the NPC theory valid in your opinion? Narcissists view others as NPC's or AI in a video game. That AI human being hurt in GTA 5 isn't a real person.
It is difficult to begin to fully grasp; this is a terrible world, filled with terrible people. If it is world leaders invading, or individuals who were hurt by others, so they can hurt everyone else.
It is difficult for me not to think of y'all as monsters. I don't know you...but monsters everywhere. Labels are not good, I understand. Don't view it as us vs. them.
It is difficult to realize that even with your disorder...you get special treatment (can't judge them, but they judge us.)
"how a Narcissist can instigate a panic attack."
So the cycle keeps continuing. Fear of Judgement
Thank you for reading.
My name is Matthew.