How to balance it all | Season 1, Episode 8 | Shameka Daniels & Leticia Gardner

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  • čas přidán 27. 11. 2023
  • The mission of Live’n Love’n Life’n is to create a platform that uplifts and supports women in their journey towards personal growth, self-acceptance, and self-empowerment.
    Together, we strive to break societal barriers, challenge stereotypes, and create a world where every woman has the opportunity to live a life of empowerment, fulfillment, prosperity and a strong, spiritual foundation!

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  • @TabletalkSL
    @TabletalkSL  Před 8 měsíci +2

    PERFUME LINK methrashop.co/products/irresistible-leticia-m-gardner

  • @beingmelbee
    @beingmelbee Před 8 měsíci +9

    Shameka and Leticia so happy that I caught the premiere. This was a great conversation. As a wife, mom and business owner I can relate. Congratulations on the merch and perfume!

  • @Pheonixfire2220
    @Pheonixfire2220 Před 8 měsíci +4

    I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THIS PODCAST… these women are right for right now.. I needed y’all. Y’all so beautiful and authentic… y’all better not ever leave me!!!😢😂

  • @TCG543
    @TCG543 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Another 🔥one lol Letecia " I'm not your superwoman". For those who don't know go listen to Karyn White Superwoman 🙂

  • @mariasolomon419
    @mariasolomon419 Před 8 měsíci +4

    BOSS MOVES QUEENS! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ LEADING LADIES YOU BOTH ARE AMAZINGLY AWESOME ❤❤❤

  • @marthawooden9176
    @marthawooden9176 Před 7 měsíci +1

    POWERFUL EPISODE AND TOPIC DISCUSSION on How to balance it ALL!!! Everything was well said. Having and keeping Balance in Our lives is so very important. I was talking to someone not long ago telling them that I need to get a much better routine going that will be able to accommodate everything that is extremely important in which I know how to do because I have done it well enough before having my own family with everyone having their different schedules and different involvements as well as our involvements together. Having no organization and no life balance will have you all over the place and will have things running in a bit of a chaotic way. Prioritizing, Balancing, Organizing, Adding, Eliminating, Creating, and Building. is what I am doing now, well trying to get done, but not exactly in that order. I love busy (to be effectively busy) because it gives me energy strength motivation and encourages me to stay productive and to do more. I feel lost when I am not doing enough or when it is too slow paced, because it makes me feel like I am not doing enough or the things in which I am suppose to be doing. Since being back home with family and close friends from long ago, I have noticed that some peoples focus is a bit stuck back in time. I have been away living in another state for over 17 years and have experienced a lot of great things and people. I have experience elevation and growth through out my entire life in all areas of my life, in which we all should, but in this season of my life since the last 3 years especially my elevation and growth has been on my personal self and my spiritual walk more so than any other area of my life. In preparation for something that is way bigger than me and my own way of thinking doing speaking and life plans. I have temporarily returned home staying with my family (my dad and older sisters) before transitioning to Atlanta in which I am completely aware that I am going to have to make more balance adjustments for my life while being there because I will become a part of are on an even higher level and will continue to elevate even higher. Although I have had elevated life experiences, and have been in service in ministry as well as having the opportunity to effectively work with other organizations in helping to provide services serving others, but this will be in service on a higher level spiritually more so, which is why my spirit is so drawn. I have never returned to my parents home to live since getting married, but I am back here now temporary and everything feel so different for one without my mother being here and with me just being back here in this way. Although I love will forever greatly enjoy being around my family and close longtime friends, I am so very use to being on my own having my own and being in my own uniquely created custom tailor made space. I am completely aware that I have changed tremendously, and have noticed that some others may not have. I have always been a certain way, but I guess I have gotten more spoiled or something. Doing the same exact thing over and over and over again can bore bring a bit of frustration to or drain some of the excitement out of me easily, depending on what it is and especially if it is not producing anything great. Positive change, great impact and productivity is what I love to see and experience and is what we should see and experience if we are putting in the much needed ongoing work. Please send up a prayer for me because right now I am trying to navigate my once very organized life around a bit of chaos and disorganization. Especially with this newly given odd work schedule, although I get to work from home. But the social people person side of me prefers to be in direct person to person contact with people when working and serving instead of contact and communicating online, so I am getting use to working from home, because I will be able to now successfully conduct my own businesses from home as well whenever needed. We are on video camera at all times so I must look presentable and can't play around.. This is giving me the discipline and the kind of focus I may have needed setting me up for something greater bigger and more rewarding. A real job with great benefits working from home, so thankful to who God truly does know exactly what we need every step of the way. He gives us the ability, the knowledge and the understanding of learning and then knowing exactly how to strategize organize and add the value and balance that is needed to our lives. I have realized that I am starting over again from my parents house to another chapter in my life journey. God wrote my life story long ago, I am trying to catch up with it in seeing the manifestation of His story His view and plans for my life. It all will be made manifested in my life, so I know that I have to learn how to Balance it all even while surrounded by stagnation, doubt, and chaos. God is with me so I know that I can still create Balance while in the midst of anything. I have learned that I am indeed spoiled, love to have my way and love to have things my way, although I successfully raised 2 beautiful children, was once married and was not at all a selfish mother and nor was I a selfish wife. God knows what he is doing, so I shall not and have stopped questioning Him. I just now ask Him to please show me what you want me to learn from this that which I may see and may experience from where He has me at the time. And I thought it was my decision to quit my great paying dependable at the time job to be removed from any distraction or hinderances in order to seek and depend solely on God. Now distractions and hinderances come but can't now can not take my focus off of God and greatly established much more stable now more so than ever personal relationship that I have with Him. I am turning the heat up even more while in my time with God. It is pass time for me to have Total Balance without shutting God out completely or even just a little bit. No more giving other things my all and all such as my children always got the best of me, my husband got the best and the worst of me, others always may have gotten the best of me when I was available to give that, but I would give God some of my best but not all of and not enough. But now I will give Him what He wants. God wants ALL OF US, our complete selves. Either Hot or cold, a made up mind heart and spirit is what He wants. I am not perfect but am striving to become like JESUS Christ my Lord and Savior. With Gods help and guidance I will willingly get to that secret place dwelling fully in Him. And this will add Elevated Balance and Value to it ALL, making everyone and everything that is greatly important and is a vital part of our life journey satisfied, including self, not neglecting self. God will be Glorified and Very Well Pleased. Love Your show beautiful ladies, you both talk from experience, with wisdom knowledge and understanding. Life is about learning how to be successful in all areas of our lives. But we have to be opened to it. ( sorry that this is lengthy and I did not proofread so hopefully this makes sense, because if I go back in read this I will have edited several times in which right now I do not have time to make any changes and plus I will do nothing but add more to it. Lots of women are being helped, enlightened inspired changed and encouraged from your discussions. I have to keep myself together because I got some place to go, I want to go to Heaven, I'm going to go, to Heaven (lol, i had to sing Mary Mary's song). THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH LADIES FOR SHARING WHAT GOD GIVES YOU AS WELL AS YOUR LIFE EXPERIENCES. There are some extremely important things that we all can no doubt learn well from one another. God truly does have His Assigned Willing and Obedient Servants who have taken their Special Rightful Places. Yes God and Amen!!! TGBTG GOD BLESS

  • @beverlyjohns2659
    @beverlyjohns2659 Před 7 měsíci +2

    #over functioning. Never knew that’s what I was/am doing but now I know better. I want to discover the “why” I do it. Thank you ladies. I’m sure there will be a little more gems being dropped but that just hit me right in the gut. Peace, love, and blessings🙏🏾💕

  • @rochellejunta
    @rochellejunta Před 14 dny

    Nice talk ladies, I needed this :)

  • @user-hn8yv6cx3f
    @user-hn8yv6cx3f Před 7 měsíci

    😌Balance is a myth😮‍💨I so needed to come back and re listen to some key knowledge, thank you ladies; Merry Christmas 🎄 💝

  • @jocindasemmel8649
    @jocindasemmel8649 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Powerful. We all need balance in our lives. Love this topic. Being one with self & understanding your needs along with what you need to pour out. Glad we can talk about it. Strengthen the weaknesses for the win!

  • @LifeisSoSincere
    @LifeisSoSincere Před 7 měsíci +1

    Pastor Shameka, thank you for sharing that piece of vulnerability with us. It’s so appreciated.🤎

  • @lateishaclement
    @lateishaclement Před 7 měsíci +2

    This was so dope. I like that you both have brands outside of this podcast. It's inspiring. I'll definitely be checking these out. The conversation as grear too. I am a mom and a giver, and have found ways to pull back to preserve my energy. It's so needed. I needed this today.😊

  • @danyell4230
    @danyell4230 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Love the podcast

  • @SmbSmb-tm8om
    @SmbSmb-tm8om Před 7 měsíci

    Love this !!! ❤

  • @karenthomas2123
    @karenthomas2123 Před 8 měsíci +2

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @jarzae
    @jarzae Před 8 měsíci +1

    Oh my, you are speaking to me!!!

  • @crystalstephenson8511
    @crystalstephenson8511 Před 7 měsíci

    This was the BEST Episode yet, so much depth, thank you ladies.

  • @razoraikens5567
    @razoraikens5567 Před 7 měsíci

    LOVE YOU TWO LADIES!!!!! YOU GUYS ARE THE TRUTH.... THERAPEUTIC PER USUAL

  • @shannelnewton9236
    @shannelnewton9236 Před 8 měsíci

    Love love… so good…

  • @PowerCoupleReignsbytheMiles
    @PowerCoupleReignsbytheMiles Před 7 měsíci +1

    I just love you two!!!Very inspiring ❤️

  • @bsolwazi2712
    @bsolwazi2712 Před 7 měsíci

    This was so rich and relatable! ❤

  • @beautybyT_Rich
    @beautybyT_Rich Před 7 měsíci

    Another GREAT one ladies 🙌🏾🫶🏾

  • @armenthaeathridge90
    @armenthaeathridge90 Před 7 měsíci

    This conversation really blessed me and confirmed some things for me ❤Thank you ladies ❤❤

  • @drcyntreljaneau
    @drcyntreljaneau Před 7 měsíci

    Thanks ladies for another great episode. You all are amazing at all you do. ❤

  • @Pheonixfire2220
    @Pheonixfire2220 Před 8 měsíci

    Amen Amen Amen… it is exhausting.
    I can accept not being able to do it all.
    But what about the ppl who don’t get it.. THE “NO” OF IT ALL…
    I’m not gonna be able to save the day anymore at least not always. Momma tied!

  • @hebronahshabangu7666
    @hebronahshabangu7666 Před 8 měsíci

    Thank you ladies,necessary re-enforcement for us as ladies. We truly cannot do it all at once & same level

  • @user-mq7me3jl5l
    @user-mq7me3jl5l Před 8 měsíci

    I totally agree ladies. At one point I had to do the same as Shameka mentioned. I work full time., I am a certified Personal Trainer as a side gig, married, home, involved in a few ministries at church, bible study and I am also in a Bible Institute., workout a few days a week… and investment… and more., Its definitely discipline. Initially a schedule worked for me., I now add it to my calendar with reminders.

    • @TabletalkSL
      @TabletalkSL  Před 8 měsíci

      You definitely do it all too! ❤

  • @goddessdiamondaloha888
    @goddessdiamondaloha888 Před 8 měsíci +3

    💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

  • @user-db7ni8ow5s
    @user-db7ni8ow5s Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you ladies, once again another phenomenal show, we , I , us need to hear all of this, Reba’s quote was inspiring, thank you can’t wait for the next show, blessings to infinity
    MardisaAnn

  • @Soashleyy
    @Soashleyy Před 8 měsíci

    Love this thanks for spreading the knowledge ❤

    • @TabletalkSL
      @TabletalkSL  Před 8 měsíci

      You are so welcome!❤️ thank you for tuning in.

  • @shannelnewton9236
    @shannelnewton9236 Před 8 měsíci

    Excited to put the iconic wear and perfume on my wishlist..

  • @SmbSmb-tm8om
    @SmbSmb-tm8om Před 7 měsíci

    How do you deal with challenges of dealing with difficult people /jealous people within the family and or close friends .. ?

  • @queenladyb8
    @queenladyb8 Před 8 měsíci

    This is amazing that you have this podcast with such great topics and conversations that people can relate to. What advice do you have for newlyweds who are coming into a blended family? And what advice would you give for keeping the blended family sustainable?I’m a newlywed and we have 2 kids each (all teenagers). It started off great with our kids, now there’s some tension in the house and it’s stressing me out. This whole blended family is all new to me.

    • @TabletalkSL
      @TabletalkSL  Před 8 měsíci +1

      This is a whole episode in itself lol I definitely feel you as I have a blended family myself and it’s definitely a journey and constantly changing with the seasons but I definitely think it would be a great topic to really speak on. Because it would be almost impossible Just put it on a text lol. -Leticia

    • @queenladyb8
      @queenladyb8 Před 7 měsíci

      Omg I would absolutely love to hear your thoughts, perspective and journey about this because it’s definitely been a journey for me and we are still trying to figure it out. I think it would be really helpful to see how other blended families have been able to navigate through blending.

  • @sheilamata3498
    @sheilamata3498 Před 6 měsíci

    You both are beautiful Canton ohio

  • @niecysongz89
    @niecysongz89 Před 7 měsíci

    ok cause Betty taught me about a clean up woman and i wasnt she. * the current season im in...Im no longer here to save nor cleanup behind ppl*

  • @alicialarmond22
    @alicialarmond22 Před 7 měsíci

    Please can you provide the link for the perfume and icon brand?x

    • @TabletalkSL
      @TabletalkSL  Před 7 měsíci

      methrashop.co/products/irresistible-leticia-m-gardner

  • @DrParisnicolePayton
    @DrParisnicolePayton Před 7 měsíci

    The divine order is 1) God 2) Self 3) Spouse 4) Children 5) All else follows ...in that direct order.