Love Is Blind: Sal Explains Why He Said NO to Mallory (Exclusive)
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- čas přidán 3. 03. 2022
- ‘Love Is Blind’ star Sal explains why he turned Mallory down at their wedding in this new interview with ‘Extra’s’ Katie Krause. ‘Love is Blind’ season 2 is now streaming on Netflix.
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Truth is, Sal tried way more than Mal. And plus, Mallory wasn't feeling him. You can tell in her face when he sang and did certain things for her. She wasn't feeling him and he sensed it. He's a great guy, her loss.
Very much so. There’s single women all over the world sliding into his DMs now
I don't know. I felt like he wanted to stay in the show, like the ex girlfriend that showed up. His dinners seemed fake, like he was a character
Shes a guys girl at the end of the day. Everyone is different. Sal seems very sensitive about things, Mallory doesnt need reassurance all of the time, and loves an alpha male you can tell thats why Mallory was initially attracted to Jarret
I mean his eye lashes alone are worth marrying lol
I could see that Mallory wasn't feeling him but he was also had that weird story that came out about his ex
The best guy this season so far. Nice, well mannered, romantic, artistic, cute af.
Or is he? Hmmmm
cute???
I get Mark vibes from him. That whole situation with the woman he says he was just having sex with that showed up at his sister’s place and had a meltdown is SUS. I always question a man when he uses the “crazy ex girlfriend” explanation.
Totally agree!
He is but he's also very bland and boring
Mallory didn't love him. She loved how he treated her and how he made her feel but her eyes were empty. She was saying love as a substitute for the word care. She cared about him. She did not love him. She most definitely was not in love with him. Even when she talked about it she always seemed disconnected. No people have made comments about him trying to get a music deal blah blah blah. I don't care. Mallory's family not being supportive also was a strain on her.
Exactly, when they had that argument mid season about Jarret and she flipped it on him from there on you knew she had little to no respect for him. He really saved himself because she would have cheated on him down the line .
@@LeftHookDeadly280 you get it my boy lmao
@@stino22527 🤣😂🤣🤣🤣 yes sir
FACTSS
She also didn't care about him. She was cold and selfish. She's awful
I’m surprised anybody was surprised he said no. She didn’t deserve him. She deserves somebody who is going to call her a bad biatch like she wants lol 😂
Exactly. I'm with you. Saw it coming
😂😂😣😂😂 I hate you for this comment
Yup
Honestly if a girl ever wants to be called a bad b*tch that’s a huge red flag
That’s funny
Mallory wanted an athletic man who would wine and dine her and treat her like a star. She acted like Sal was not in her league because he wasn’t physically buff and tall or financially well off like she is. Her pride was what made Sal say no. As time went on she realized she may never find a guy like Sal but by the time she fell in love the damage of her attitude, lack of interest and the conversation between her and Jarette had already given Sal his answer to say no. I still don’t trust his overly affectionate behaviour on the show but in all he made the right decision in my opinion. Because he deserves someone who will feel the same way about him from the beginning.
couldn't have said it better myself
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bingo
Yup. She don’t really want a genuine good guy. She wants it all and that don’t exists!
Mal didn’t even find him attractive when they first met and then she kept being uncomfortable around him and kept leading him on.. actually a lot of them kept leading most of the couples on so they can stay longer on the show in my opinion.
Ya, I'm surprised Shake is getting so much hate but there were multiple people that didn't find their significant other attractive or were rude and shady
Agreed, she had that hand up when she kissed him on the couch! But she just played a role , I’m surprised she took the 🍆 !?!?
Idk why shes copping alot of flack for her reaction at reveal time. Mal showed an authentic reaction that would happen for alot of us that hasnt been shown on the show yet - the awkward person whos like "omg wtf am i doing" and just doesnt run into the other persons arms because in reality the experiment is fucking bizarre. It honestly made me think are the super over the top reveals by other contestants just put on for the tv??
Yeah he said he didn't like her either...He said twice..that He was concerned when he first saw her...So he was saying the same thing..about her..but he pretended to be all in...and he never was....He just didn't say it to her face..and How he said to to the cameras was not straight forward ..but I got what he meant.
That was the only thing I agree with Shake on. This did play a factor with a few of them, him included obviously...
I was pleasantly surprised he said no because he showed he recognized his worth. he was trying really hard to please her and he kept letting her gaslight him so i thought he would keep that position and still want to win her over. Im glad he said no
He wasnt perfect either with his ex booty call going to his siblings for emotional support.
@@suras8984 That wasn't Sal's fault. Sal was apologetic and he always explains himself and shows sorrow. Mallory bit his head off and acted like she was heartbroken. Mallory did NOT love nor did she respect him at all once she saw him physically. Sal was the perfect guy. He never lied or did anything to intentionally hurt Mallory. Mallory knew she made a mistake the second she saw Sal. You could see it in her eyes. Even during her conversation with Jarette, you could see that he was more the kind of dude she wanted.
Sal is laid back and very chill. He's a normal, simple man who wants to dedicate everything to his Queen... Mallory said she wants the opposite. She wants her ass slapped and to be called a bad bitch. She wants to eat hot dogs and go to games. Do you think Sal is the kind of man to do this? No. Sal and Iyanna would've worked tons more, and Jarette and Mallory should've gotten together.
The two of them seem very mellow! What arguments are they talking about - the silent treatment? I keep trying to picture them shouting 'cabeza pinga' back and forth and I just keep picturing a ukulele. 😭
I am CRYINGGG 😭😭😭 at this comment 😂😂😂😂
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I bet Mallory can turn up
.she seemed so different talking to jarrette
@@smilealwaysnatasha3423 lowkey she looks like she can be hella fiery he seems a little more demure.
The fact that so many ppl couldn’t see that Mallory wasn’t a fit for Sal is a true reveal of how off our society is with dating… she was never honest since the reveal. Nicole and Sal should be. Mallory has some hidden things that she needs to be honest about.. she hasn’t confronted herself yet.
Just curious, why do you say this though? How wasn't sure honest. If you don't mind us having a polite dialogue
@@beea.9435 I don’t mind conversing at all. The biggest moment that stood out is when Mallory deflected/ lied to him about her “why” for entertaining Jared’s conversation. For what seemed as a defense mech, she told Sal she did what she did because she was worried the he wasn’t into her. Either there was some major editing done or she simply lied. But here’s the kicker.. i believe she tried to convince herself of this. Hence me saying I think she struggles with self honestly too. Also the whole exchange while in Mexico. Shid, let’s take it back to when they first saw each other at the reveal. Sal was not masculine enough for her. Adversely, I think right after the reveal she was able to assess that Sal was the case of getting what you need but not all that you want. I called this from the jump though and much like this therapist is saying.. instead of living in surface terms like gender, I believe Mal’s issues were more about emotional intelligence and a willingness to be uncomfortable. Mallory definitely wants a guy’s guy who has decided to finally do enough to keep a woman around. In street terms.. Sal’s nose/ heart was just too open lol. He was super into her and she was not that into him… and she kept trying to find an out. However, because Sal was ready.. not perfect but ready to do the work.. it made it hard for her to end it.
@@coreybrownCYoBrown Hmmm... I see your point... I need to go play back the two scenes you mentioned. I also watched the whole episodes once and sometimes watching more than once gives better perspective. So I'll definitely come back to this.
That said, I do agree with you that Sal perhaps wasn't Mallory's kind of guy and I personally got that feeling from her reaction based on his line of profession. Is more like... Oops! Not exactly checking off that box, but he checks off others boxes... 98% is still good for me... That was how I read it 😊
And I also feel people are open to try something different from what they're used too as well. I felt at the end of the day, she did love him but wasn't in love because she seemed to have taking his response very calmly... I think she felt, this is a good decent guy and he loves me thus I'm willing to make it work because I feel we can build a good future and home together.
However... I felt Sal played the cameras, cos he was all so romantic, sweet and all. Even though thinking about it now, it's a good thing he said NO, but honestly I didn't it see it coming 😂😂😂. I think he SHOULD have been honest to himself too from the get go. The saying "Too good to be real"... That's Sal... He proved that saying to be true.
Anyway, thanks for your response 🙏
He also need to be honest, he’s gay.
@@lindalemoni5428 who is nicole?
The whole time I didn’t really trust Mallory. It seem like she wanted Jarrette. Also the last convo she had with Jarrette was kind of shady. If Sal actually heard what was said, he probably would not have wasted that much time with her. She wasn’t even attracted to him to begin with.
I agree she seemed to act so flirty and bubbly with jar and vary distant with sal. He deserves better.
>she wasn't attracted to him
But I thought the show was called Love Is Blind?
Let's not forget about Sal's ex. if they completely broke up why would she feel comfortable enough to rock up at his place? That door wasn't completely closed
Remember though, she came to his sisters house.
It wasnt his place it was his sisters and he did end it with her but she seemed to bot wabt to take no for an answer
THAT WAS SO SUSPICIOUS! I feel like he’s sneaky and he knew mallory was unsure so he loved bombed her and then said no once he made her like him back. I feel like he knew he was going to say no after Mexico
@@lexi38119 doesn’t make sense, I’m sorry.
@@lexi38119 yeah and just overlook ALL of her RED FLAGS. Damn you wild for that lol why not just put all the blame on Sal at this point?
I'm very much wanting to hear Mallorys side of the story here.
Mallory doesn't really want to talk and it's pretty obvious why. She never loved him. I don't think she's a bad person I just think she should have been honest. She never was. Sal' s personality doesn't mesh with hers. I will never understand why she said yes to him.
@@sheknows4991 agreed, I think she loved the idea of him as in she wanted to love him because they share so many common values, but in reality that just isn’t enough.
She should have said yes to jarette, I could tell there was more chemistry between them. I was honestly surprised she chose Sal because her interactions with him seemed dull.
@@Partycitybaex I don't think she should have picked Jerrette, their conversation were more surface level plus she did say that Jerrette was familiar (the type of guy she dated in the past). I applauded her for choosing someone who was Sal. Even though it didn't work out.
@@lona9461 true, I see what you mean. But.. Iyanna deserves better and so does Sal. Mallory and Jarette deserve each other, they’re both superficial
I'm currently watching the series... He is one of my favorite.... such a calm soul
Sal and Mal just didn't have any chemistry, they got along well but I never saw sparks between them. Sal made the right decision by saying no.
Sal isn't innocent. there is a lot that happened offline that they didn't show us. And i had the sense that there was something off about they way they interacted. Truth is, they weren't a good fit
Yeah he’s kind of manipulative
he was talking to someone on/ off the whole time
I shared my thoughts about them in a video.
Glad they didn’t get married. There were red flags on both sides.
What was his
Well he had a girlfriend. I'd love to hear her side of this story. Not his. 😂 He was way more into himself than mal.
I was shocked he said no because he seemed very into her. If anyone was going to say no, I thought it would be Mal - throughout the show her body language was more like 50-50, unsure, needed convincing, etc. But I was so relieved nonetheless. Mal seems like a good person and friend, but he deserved better.
i don’t think mallory really liked him :,( i don’t think she liked his looks, but rather his attention. he’s literally everything i want in a man but i’m happy for him and pray that he finds someone that accepts him 🥰🥰🥺 he deserves it!!!!!
It annoys me that Mal’s bad behavior is being breezed over🙄 She did several pretty slimey things to flip and tumble narratives onto Sal (e.g., the ring convo…the ex showing up to his sisters’ place). She enjoys being put on a pedestal by a man like Sal, yet she’s attracted to (and feels she “deserves”) that typical tall swaggy, surface-level charming athletic dude (I don’t find jarrett super attractive and I think he’s kinda lame and childish, but y’all know how women like Mal and Shaina see dudes like him🙃).
Exactly she is for the streets!!
Exactly right. She even said as much. All her previous boyfriends or guys she fell for we're like Jaretta and they didn't work so I am going to choose the complete opposite of what I normally do to see if they works ‼️‼️‼️ Dumb Move ‼️💯
Sal deserved better
I mean, Sal & Jarrett are friends. Don’t have to put them against each other. They have different personalities, but one man isn’t better than the other. Also- how did Shaina get in here? Her picks are Shayne & Kyle.
That was on point 💯 everything
@@wtpaige huh? lol Jarrett pit Sal against himself when he was over in the corner flirting and ki-ki-ing with Sal’s fiancé. And I’m bringing up Shaina to liken Mal to her…everyone recognizes Shaina’s bad behavior, obvi, but Mal gets all these passes. Mal and Shaina are actually 2 of a kind, just Mal is better at making people think things are someone else’s fault than Shaina, is what I’m getting at. Keep up, girl😁
I honestly think she dodged a bullet on that one. He seemed more into himself and how romantic he was with all of those gestures. It was more for show for his own ego in my opinion. Mallory was also not being honest enough with herself and didn't show that she was really that into him. I believe part of her was cringing when he would sing.
It may come across as for the ego to those not aware of our Hispanic culture. In our culture the way to propose to a woman is through serenading and singing wether you want to court them or ask for their hand this is the norm. To me this was just a cultural tradition
I disagree, you're reading into it too much, I feel like his singing was super corny, but he seemed like a well rounded person. Mallory wasn't that into him when she saw him in person at first, but then he grew on her.
They are both amazing people in my opinion….
@@AryAyala I am very aware of Hispanic culture as I am part Puerto Rican, however, I still think he was being over the top for the cameras.
He said in another interview that the producers "encouraged" his singing, meaning they asked for it for the effect of it all.
Sal is not innocent . I get why he said no to her cuz let’s be honest her whole family ain’t approve but in these interviews he putting the blame on jarette when they all were literally dating . Also to serenade her knowing your gonna say no is weird to me
I have ALWAYS THOUGHT THIS…. I think he knew after the jarret incident that he was gonna say “no” . But he wanted to string her along till the end. Cause this “friend” that shows up at his sisters house never say right with me either. Sal seemed to always act too good.
Exactly!! The fact that he hired a marachi band on the day of the wedding knowing he was going to say no is weird and a little creepy to me. Like he wanted to rub it in her face that he rejected her or something. 😒
Someone said in the comments the producers asked him to sing multiple times.
Obviously you haven't being in a long relationship where you try to make things better but at the end it just doesn't work. I was in a similar situation, I said no days before my engagement, the guy had already bought the ring. We tried, it was hard but I had to stop the relationship because deep inside I knew he wasn't for me. That same day I was talking with him about kids and the future, but then he made a comment and I knew.... and that afternoon I broke up with him.
Also, don't forget that this is a show, they give you the wedding of your dreams to make it legit in case both say yes. They can't just say "stop the music, I will say no", it would spoil the episode.
I've been in shows before and you can't believe all he fakeness around the final result.
Sal's answer was sweet in my opinion and very brave.
@@yoyo12314 “obviously I haven’t been in a relationship “ you know me personally? lol I was just stating my opinion like everyone else is . And obviously I know it’s just a show but I’m like I said sal is not innocent I said what I said . Idk you’re situation but if you can relate that fine . I was just staring my opinion
Sal was either insecure or he came on the show for a music career. I was team Sal till his fwb showed up at his sister's house.... Sumn ain't right about him
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He’s “talking” to someone like he was “talking” to a girl before the show. Anyone else sick of these f boys who say they are talking to you so they can “talk” to as many girls as they like, but then you’re the crazy one when you get mad the go on a tv show to marry someone?
good point! I don't trust him.
If the guy you are "talking to" goes to a show to find a wife... are you in the right to get mad? He said he told her since the beginning about the show..
Idk why but I’ve always gotten covert f*ckboy vibes from Sal, and that he was only on this show to try and promote a music career. During the reunion he was SO adamant about not going into details of their fight but was quick to blameshift it on Mallory saying he “didn’t feel heard” it wasn’t until Shake chimed in that we learn he was talking about the fight over his previous “girlfriend”. If you have nothing to hide and are not to blame, you would use this opportunity to clear the air, the fact that he was so determined to have the issue not come up was a major red flag. I think he played both Mallory and the other girl he was dating.
I’m right there with ya! Also, someone who has only learned to cook *one special dish/meal* (and clearly took the time to learn how to do so skillfully) gives me vibes of someone who has a go-to move and uses it often… 🤨
@@holdon2yerbutts842 yeah! I hadn’t thought about that but it’s totally true. He just rubbed me the wrong way….didn’t seem sincere. The fact that his ex showed up at his sister’s house gave it away that he wasn’t clear the relationship was over and we all know about those types of guys that like to keep girls in limbo….
Right? I was thinking "Mallory, do something don't let him blame it on you!!!" This guy has all the psycho vibes. Not to mention the other woman crying at his sister's home. He is a narcisist. She started the show being all empowered, self made, strong woman and finished it ashamed, accepting blame. It was hard to watch.
@@stellademendonca1653 omg yesss!! The way he was almost panicking and not wanting Mallory to say what went wrong, emphasizing that he didn’t want to bring up the subject but was only gonna say something that made him look like the victim….it was so hard to watch. I don’t like Shake but I’m glad he said something lol
I agree 1000%! im shocked people didn’t see through sal and his love bombing
He was *CLEARLY* still dating that other woman. I didn’t understand what Mal saw in him and his atrocious singing. 🥴
Lol "what mal saw in him"? He is clearly a decent man and it was explained in his IG live with his sister that he wasn't in fact still dating her, and had explained to her that he'd be going on the show when they started talking.
I thought that whole girlfriend thing was weird... Like I don't think he ended things with her before this, at least not properly
I think he and mal are both actors so many things with these 2 just don’t add up. I think
he’s shadier than she is 💯 the way he smiled and said he had a nice surprise for her before telling her NO says it all about what kind of man he is..
Exactly and how close that woman was to his sisters…. She is definitely still in the picture and still dating him right now.
I agree
I think Salvador was in a relationship before filming and he wasn’t truly open to another woman so soon.
I think Sal was insecure about that conversation with Jarrette. She would have said yes and was assuming they would at least keep dating but he seemed to shut that down too at that chat when all the guests had left. She was shocked and hurt. I knew then that they wouldn't date after the show. Sad thing was she really was in love in the end but the anger had been a slow internal boil for him and he made sure to be asked the question first so he could say no. He wasn't my favorite.
He definitely held a grudge. I saw the same as you described. I don't see him as a victim like everyone else does. I also wondered about his relationship with that random woman who showed up to his apartment that his sister's knew.
I got a very bad vibe from him as well, and the most dangerous thing about his kind of men is that they always keep this "nice guy" persona who plays music for his girl bla bla bla..
He’s a finesser lol. As soon as she gave Jarrett attention it was over for her.
He held a grudge because his ego was hurt not because he loved Mallory
Completely agreed with this. He on there talking about karma and all that, but he wasted Mallory’s time. I felt like Mallory really liked the thought of him because he reminded her of home, like she said. He was sweet, romantic, etc. She wasn’t that attracted to him though, and it was obvious. He was insecure, and quite frankly he knew she was out of his league. Now he on here talking about he dating somebody and we’ll see who it is. Not a fan either.
Am I the only one who thinks shake is hilarious? I was dying of laughter the whole time, “love is blurry” 😂😂😂😂 he definitely brought much needed humor to the reunion. I don’t know why people take everything he says so personally, he just wants attention 💀
Yea ur the only one
I can’t lie, he was annoying the whole time but when he said “love is blurry” I was cracking up!! 😂😂
Everyone else had zipped lips. At least shake gave us something to watch. He was entertaining. (On the reunion)
he was speaking some truth at the reunion and exposed people and made them feel uncomfortable so they banned together and attacked him. He was right that people were being fake as fuck, working the system to stay on the show etc. He still got issues though
Because it's 2022. It's not the 90's anymore. Sadly, society is moving ever more into fakeness and superficial niceness.
Sal didn’t trust her that’s it 😎
I think that conversation she had with Jarrett was a turn off for him I don’t think he was able to really grow into trusting her and I think he knew she was not attracted to him
She was a vain dishonest person
Mallory definitely did not like Sal physically and probably regretted not accepting Jarret
So glad he decided on the beard. Looks a million times better
Omg I was wondering why he was hitting a little different LOL
He’s talking to Natalie! Yay, they’re a much better match!
Is this true? She did sheepishly smile when he said he was talking to someone. I think that would be a great love story to tell your children!!
I hope they work out 😃🤍. I like them.
Omg they would be Soo cute together, they both deserve more emotionally available people ♥️
They even posted picture of them together in their IG stories. Check it out before they got removed
@@melmt1351 what's their Instagram names?
I think sal is a true villain …. I believed after sal felt embarrassed in Mexico with the jarrette incident but wanted to kinda embarrass her back in a way. When he met mal sister he was saying all the right things like “she doesn’t have to have my name” and “if her sister doesn’t approve we can still get married “ but yet one of his “reasons” was that he didn’t know a lot of her family.
Like why hire a mariachi band and sing to say no? Seems kinda evil to me
Right?? That was so sketchy to me! All of his romantic gestures were sweet but a little extra like he was trying too hard. I honestly feel like Mal was coming around and would have said yes to him in the end. It's sad that Mal is receiving hate on this and Sal is being viewed in the same light as Deepti 🙄
@@MsOverachiever9513 yeah …. Like he was playing a character. I started looking at him different when his “friend” came to his sisters house. Like this woman thought y’all was in a relationship for a reason. He super sketchy to me
Yeah Sal was shady esp when he serenades her again and again... but when he cried during the flirty talk incident of Mal and Jarette, I felt sad for him
First, it is a show. The producers know for sure the answers before to be prepared. They have to give you the whole perfect wedding in order to look legit and avoid spoilers. It wouldn't be the same otherwise...
Second, marriage is a big step and I was sure Mal was going to be the one saying no. I was glad they didn't get married because the relationship was a: trying to fall in love, trying to forget the huge act of disrespect, trying to forget she was doubtful, trying to see the romantic and sweet part of him and stop comparing previous relationships... It was a mess.
If he had had a plan, he wouldn't have cried and said sorry. The one who was really looking for revenge was Nathalie.
Still, it is a show..
@@yoyo12314 well… we are entitled to our opinion…I said in my OG comment “I think “ cause that’s what it is a thought. But the fact he was crying doesn’t prove anything 😂… I know multiple people that can cry on command it just furthers my suspicion of him being a villain…. You just bought into the facade in my opinion
They just didnt seem into one another at all
Now after watching after the altar I‘m more confused than ever. Him telling this weird story about Mallory being in another guys car drunk ? But then no further explanation 😭 and Mallory also didn’t explain her side towards this story. The editing probably ? It’s frustrating!!
idk why everyone is blaming mallory for it not working, did you not notice everytime they would kiss Sal would wipe the kisses off
his mouth!
Oh snap, did not realize that!
😳
guy was weird af
@@ambberhill1090 weird???i am guessing you don't know a good man when you see one. He is smart, romantic, sensitive, artistic, handsome and I could go on. I am guessing you like some huge guy with muscles and not much in the brain department.
Definitely think that him and Natalie are talking/dating! If you notice when she asked if it was someone in the pods, and he said lets see, he would've said no if it was someone outside of the Pods! Plus Natalie had an adorable smile when he said that too. Anyways I ship it!
Mallory was not ready to be anyone's wife. When she is ready and willing to give more of herself than the minimum then she should get married
Me dio la impresión de que Salvador fue a este programa para darse a conocer en tv y mostrar como canta
Sal was a sweetest guy and absolutely my favorite. I see the criticism towards her in the comments here, but again, he never said negative things about her
I am very confused as to how Mal Mal didn’t even want to kiss Sal upon meeting, & then gave the energy of wanting to go thru with the relationship as time passed. Even discussing, ‘giving things a try after the wedding denial.’
Baby he gave you a ‘Get Outta Jail Free’ card 😂
Right!!
I'm honestly not seeing where Mallory wasn't "into" Sal. She chose Sal from the very beginning. Sad no to Jarette because she had a very emotional connection with Sal that was deeper than her and Jarettes. Yes she was a bit awkward when she first saw Sal but who wouldn't be??? This is real life not a damn movie!!! Mallory was truly into Sal especially after getting past seeing Jarette for the first time and that whole thing. People have to keep in mind that these people have only known one another for ALMOST two weeks by the time they see everyone else they dated in the pods. That's a huge adjustment, especially when you picked your partner blind and your natural instinct is to go another way. Everyone needs to give these people more credit, Shake included. Mallory followed her heart with Sal and by the end she was truly all in and deeply in love with him and ready to say yes. Sal just honestly let that conversation between Jarrette and Mallory ruin it all. . . Wish they at least would have seriously dated afterwards, they had such great potential.
Agreed!!!
She didn't find him attractive when she first saw him
@@sallykaonga6991 Drop dead attraction is not everything. You realise, especially as you get older a beautiful person can lead to attraction. Attraction is great, but also can't make a relationship work long-term. It is a combination of things.
The body language of Mallory made it evident she wasn’t into him like that
@@sinceresong9907 Yeah but you can tell she wasn't interested in him physically and wasn't into him after. Looks do matter.
i think it was very evident how in the pods Mallory was talking about how important her family is but then proceeded never to introduce Sal to her parents and they didn't even turn up at the wedding, only her frosty sister
Tbh sal also had some red flags and they were clearly not compatible
I love Sal for his truths
He looks really good here!
Mallory deserved a man actually prepared for marriage. Sal was not ready.
She would never have said yes! He made the right decision saying No. They both understood each other in my opinion.
I’m shocked at the comment section right now! Lol, I actually felt that Sal led her on. I absolutely think Mallory wanted to say yes if he said yes. Because although initially we all know sal wasn’t her usual type she saw that he was different and sometimes us women when we try something and someone different that might be what we need instead of what we want, if you give it a try you can end up falling for that too.
Women want only one thing "more" he will get tired singing, making him look weak, that's not good for a man. How can he protect her queen ? 🤣🤣🤣
Babe, you and I are on the same page! Sal isn't innocent. i.e. why did his ex girlfriend feel comfortable enough to show up at his house? I also think that Mallary genuienly liked him - she wouldn't have suggested that try working on them offline.
I totally agree with you. In my opinion, Mallory was very attracted to him emotionnally and chose him as her first choice. She said no to Jarette, so I can't quite understand why people say she settled for Sal as a second choice. I believe her when she said that seeing him was hard and awkward because he is not her "type", but I truly feel that she fell for him over the weeks and really wanted to spend her life with him. She was not a bit hesitant when answering her sister's questions the day of the wedding and seemed truly genuine. She was shocked he said no and quite frankly you would not?! Saying he needed to see her to know his choice?! Really...what difference would it make? I feel he wanted to "punish" her a bit and led her on a bit. Also the fact she was willing to continue their relationship and he kept rejecting her over and over again was hard to watch and does not reflect love in my opinion. Both are great people and both are to blame, but Mal did love him in the end. Also, his reaction towards her at the reunion is too much...he did not let her speak and blamed her for everything. She appeared to be fragile and hurt and he appeared to be cold.
@@catiaoliveira219 THIS IS IT!!! You're spot on. and I totally agree she appeared fragile at the reunion - in fact, we didn't even hear her experience of the situation. Come to think of it, you raise a valid point in saying that he wanted to hurt her. The difference between the way he handled it and the way Iyanna handled it, is that Iyanna is secure in herself she, therefore, choose not to experience Jarred through the lens of what happened. Sal did not let that go! The whole situation with Jarred made him insecure
Don’t get that caught up ya’ll. These people go on the show for exposure. Most of what you see is acting and forced.shake tried to call it out but they shut him down.
I didn't like how sal decided to sing all the time it felt fake and self-promoting
It feels like he entered the show to promote his singing career
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I think he just couldn’t get over the whole Jarette thing and he definitely held a grudge. He seems kind of prideful and judgmental, he just couldn’t let it go or get over it. Hurt his pride and ego. He’s very sensitive and insecure. He was nice but not all that. I don’t care for him or how he handled things in the end. I think she’ll be just fine without him….
I was surprised that HE said no. I think it was clear to everyone that Mallory wasn’t as invested as Sal, but Sal seemed blind to that fact. Either that or he was so in love with Mallory that he didn’t care about the one-sidedness.
Some people just aren't compatible and there really isn't much that can be done about that. Mallory not being physically attracted to Sal didn't help matters much. Go back and watch when they first saw each other in person and her initial reaction (Lasts for maybe one second). Her face is more like "Oh.." Then "OH!" lol
Why must we act like Sal doesn’t have an anger management issue? His gaze screams violence. He could never fool me with his crying bs. Get out of here. Mallory was too independent and "exposed" to men he could never compete with. He wanted to get her in her feelings, but she is very analytical. He knew it would never work because he would probably commit a crime of passion. No shade. This is how those things happen. At least he is self-aware.
They just thought because They were Hispanic that it would automatically work but nah. He’s soft and she looks like she wants a strong man that holds her and takes the lead.
Glad he said no bc mal deserves someone a million times better. He can stay with air head jessi, her forhead is full of confidence 🤣🤣🤣
I’m still putting money on them both being actors. Sal is probably trying to become a singer
lmaoo girl you're making me laughh
I’m with you, I can see them both as being actors both weird in my opinion.
Yeah coz if u rewatch their wedding they were both crying when she was walking down the aisle and throughout the vows etc. And the fact that they just had a short coffee date after all that? Just seems so unbelievable to me. Seems like a case of okay lets just do the experiment and put on a show, and they ended up just being colleagues in the end.
She wasn't ready for someone as real as Sal
Sal didn't trust Mal and he shouldn't have. When another guy approaches you with an inappropriate conversation walk away. If she was truly there for the right reasons she would have got out of her seat and walked over to her man.
Well said. What threw me off was the fact Mallory thought it was okay. She was gaslighting sal, making him feel bad for how he was reacting to an honest inappropriate conversation.
@@souldiving4197 Absolutely she knew what she was doing. I call women like that "the black widow", "Toxic"
.. Non caring about how it makes the other person feel...
@@janayialove4414 you nailed it. I agree. Toxic
@@souldiving4197 So she meet her match as far as energy he wasn't for the games but Aries men will switch up on you so quick you won't see it coming. She's a Pisces so I understand the situation.
Sal was corny from day one. I don't understand how so many people here are saying she didn't deserve him. She's a strong established woman and she was trying to go out of her comfort zone, and try her chance with someone she normally wouldn't have in the real world.
Because there is more to life than being established when it comes to marrying someone and being a partner. Finances are important but you need so much more. Also I think she (and Jarrett) got a bad rap after her chat/flirting that night and how she handled it afterwards. Her apology in the reunion spoke volumes when she said “I apologise IF I hurt you”… needs to work on herself genuinely (as we all do).
Then she was on the wrong show . Should have been on the bachelorette or something. The show is about connections formed deeper than finances or any of the obvious worldly characteristics we would normally pick.
Mallory and Sal weren't a good fit. He didn't like being second fiddle(ukelele) to her bc he was jealous that she was more successful than him outside of the show.
@@unmemorableusername6582 lol you hit it right on the head
@@acthiebaud omg thanks! 😂☺ s2 was so toxic compared to s1, but at the same time the increasing level of drama and simmering resentments between contestants tho! 😳
Mallory was not authentic in her relationship with Sal. It all seemed fake to me on her part.
He is so handsome 🥺
Mal never liked him.They didn't seem compatible at all
What’s really upsetting for me is the fact that I have been in love with this man from the moment I saw him. I feel cheated!😩
I don’t think anybody should have to explain why someone isn’t the one… I get it but it’s just sad…
He said no because he knew she was not that into him. They did look good together.
Mallory looked like Jlo
Who’s he’s talking too?? I watched the show already & he never mentioned it
Rumor on internet says natalie
He was singing at her
And she didn’t fancy him that much
Good call Sal
I honestly believe he’s gay. He’s dating that roommate
He's really not her type, but that hasn't worked out for her in the past, and she wants to get married, so figured she would try something different.
Everyone is blaming Mallory, Sal is shady. He ACTED like he was head over heels for her, but that girl showing up to his sister's apartment was his girlfriend. I hope he stays single forever.
who was his girlfriend?
He makes it seem like she had a temper but didn’t want to air her out. her sister also was nasty to him. Or she was shallow and didn’t feel he made enough money.
He doesn't seem genuine
He did a lot of singing
He can come off that way sometimes
Seeing a lot of interviews from Sal, but I’d like to hear Mallory’s side.
Anyone down to watch season 3 together on zoom screen share with mics on & cameras off?
It’s only me or Mallory look JLo ‘s younger sister… the face, the smile , the girl is gorgeous
J Lo is beautiful. Mallory looks nothing like her. I don’t want to sound mean, but I didn’t think Mallory was pretty at all. But that’s just my opinion. It was rough for me to hear you compare her to J Lo. J Lo is in a league of her own. She’s stunning.
She looks like the Alibaba version of JLO
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The voice too
I don't know what happened behind the scenes and it sucks that Netflix missed showing those parts. yes, it did look like Mallory was not into him as much as he was trying, but at the end of the day, she looked taken aback by his decision and continued to look sad... as though in spite of it all, she did want to get married to him.
Team Sal!!!! Sweet guy!!!
I love Sal, I wish I find a guy like him
I think Sal was playing a safe bet cause he knew damn well he had someone to go back to and for that I don't like him. That ex showing up at his sister's out of the blue days before him and Mallory's wedding was way too fishy stink
Honestly, since the beginning I couldn’t imagine them being an actual couple. So saw this coming since they were in the pods. There was just no chemistry that’s the truth
Don't judge someone's sexuality without knowing and even if that's the case.. So what.. It's his life.... He's definitely marriage material.. Doesn't make him gay!!!
Sal holds back way to much!! He keeps all his skeletons in his closet! That’s his problem! I don’t like Sal!
I agree! that's why a lot of people get snake vibes from him. I do too. Could be wrong, but how do we know unless he is more open and transparent? Especially being on national tv. Until he opens up properly, I don't trust him.
@@aveclasse17 you don’t always need to see the negative in people. Why not try think of it as he doesn’t want to publicly shame or air out Mallory’s toxic behaviour. Just because it didn’t provide you with drama to sink your teeth in doesnt make him a snake. Some people are just private and respectful. Shocking I know.
@@nammy4058 i disagree with that! he could of worded it in a way that wasnt disrespectful. but hiding everything the way he did makes things look worse.
Snake ,absolutely
The damage was done when Mallory and Jarette had that rude conversation.
true
I think Shake got a lot of hate because he worded things wrong. Mallory and Sal weren't attracted to each other in the beginning I don't think. Sal just said he tried to see the experiment through. I think Shake was doing that. Or maybe he wanted fame. Idk
Anyone else get the vibe that he was just in it to further his music career?
she cheated on him, and she was texting other guys all throughout
He seemed like he wasn't there for the right reason smh
This guy is so full of it. Only on the show to chase fame.
Mallory was a vain liar
She told him the truth but sal pushed her to the end.
And she saw that coming and sal is not innocent
What's to explain homegirl broke his pure heart when he overheard her talking to the dude that proposed to her first. She was doubting sals ring and just talking with that alchohol. So she messed his head up. Hes the type of guy who's emotionally attached to whomever hes with at the moment and she wasnt there fully for sal. So that truly hurt him and he couldnt let that go of how she talked about him. So he decided to say no..
Sal is quality
Sal played all of us watching.... Like I don't get it. Nothing in life is not a leap of faith... Even his excuses/reasons isn't making sense. He definitely thought me a big lesson that guys who are so sweet and smooth like Sal should not be trusted.... UNBELIEVABLE!!!
He should have been honest for the get go. What he did was go along with the show.
I truly hope and know Mallory will find someone just right for her at the right time because she's a lovely lady. I wish her the best.
Things didn't really add up with Sal. He overplayed the "I'm just a nice guy" act. And the secret gf drama poured fire on the flames...
He was looking to Kickstart his music career
100%
what as stupid comment!!!!!!!!!!!!
My exact thought..
I liked both sal and mal. I’m glad he did what Deepti and Natalie did
Sal can come say yes to meeeeee!!!
When he cried on the show, I knew he was going to say no
I think that Sal is mature, romantic and caring and loving
Even when they shove the clip of Mallory's shameless flirting in her face, she just makes excuses and so does the other dude saying he was flirting as a joke. They are both weak minded people and totally deserve each other.
Hats off to Sal for having the courage to say to someone who is clearly toxic, unlike Nick who was beaten over the head with red flags from danielle and still asked her to marry him.